10 20 639 https://www.history-okeq-org-red5.dev.unicomm.me/files/original/85bdaebc520c9c940793e06586981e92.jpg d722db5a0835af08236ecb30787b514a https://www.history-okeq-org-red5.dev.unicomm.me/files/original/be7fc6a28ce11e62e60a4047111f8fb6.pdf 96c2f07c640a770cb1befbc1bb5dd2c7 Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document PR Y S RV N H ■ TA OMMUN TY ···· 1~ ~r; <t Page 2 .i I I i ! j Miss Peggy Lee A Career Chronicle Robert Strom Foreword by Keely Smith Available Spring/Summer 2005 Peggy Lee holds a speciai place in the history of American and jazz music. From her bit n May 26, 1920, to her final recording on August 26, 1995, to the New Yorker's obituary from February of 2002, these chronological entries cover every moment of her professiOnal life. Detailed entries 'describe recordings (both albums and songs), radio and television appearances, her work in films, and her songwriting efforts, draw from interviews ·with Lee and others, nightclub and concert reviews, and a wealth of other sources. Appendices list songs that Lee performed and recorded and a selective list of her CDs. The work concludes with a bibliography and is illustrated with many rare photographs. About the Author Author Robert Strom lives in San Leandro, Caiifornia. www.mcfarlandpub.com HOW DARE YOU ... ? Are there not times you would just like to ask exactly that? How dare you? How dare you drag me into that argument? How dare you refer to me in that manner? How dare you wear that? How dare you color your hair chartreuse? · More importantly how da::e you show any one in our community disrespect because you can't accept who you are? Am I upset, YES! Overwhelmingly so! You see when I arrived back in j oplin in 1996. there existed a J opjn Pride organization and ;:he first letter I read in tnei r newsletter was from a young man ,vho ·.,:a~ tired cf ~he "prideiessne,s" of Jopl:n's Queer Community Anci this vcung man was moving away to where he hoped he could find a community with some pride. This last t\vo \vceks has sh(nvn those of us at the C)zark Star just ho-..v kY\V people can reaHy be and the inability of our con11nunit\~ to take pride in itself. .r\ friend \vho i5 a mas~age therapist, a legai, gcrvernn1cnt regulated, therapeutic professional \V3S a~J~ to offer 1nore than a massage. Sexual favors were requested with a flippant "your family, aren't you?" Another friend whose job is to work closely with people living with HIV, providing support in financial, medical and social services was ask the same thing ... "after all your gay!" Then I received a phone call from someone asking if we could get together? "Your writing for a gay paper and don't you preach at a gay church" so after all you must be a homosexual and I have this fantasv." Well fantasize this! I am a gay male not turned off by being called gay, homosexual or faggot and am strong being confident in myself and who I am. I am in a loving relationship and don't need fantasies from myself or yours. I am a professional having spent over thirty years in health care, having written for two other gay oriented magazines, having belonged to gay support organizations, marched in numerous protest, have won a battle to get my job back after being fired for no other reason but that I was gay. And yes as a professional I am also the pastor of the longest surviving gay organization in Joplin, Missouri. I love my congregation, my community and wouid do anything for them. Do I respect myself and am I happy with whom I am. Absolutely! Well fantasize this! My friend the massage therapist is a professional caring for her clients, maintaining the highest standards of practice and caring about her community. She respects herselE, knows who she is and is willing :o help anyone, anywhere she is. Does she respect herself and is she happy witl: whom she is, Absolutely! Well fantasize this! My friend who provides for the HIV communiry is a professional :hat ioving cares for and provides for her dien~s, their families and makes every attempt co keep the community safe. Does she respect herself and :s she happy with whom she is? l\bsoluteiv! \X:eil fantasize this! A community . ..continued-pg 15 Page 6 Dear Editor: We received the Ozark's Star today and CONGRATULATIONS on your 1st year anniversary! That is quite an accomplishment and we are very proud of you. Besides writing the travel column for you we have also got ro know you and how truly a nice and generous person you are. We know that only the very best in life will prevail for you. Again, congratulations on your 1st anniversary. We are only glad that in some small way we could have been a part of it. "Love, live, laugh ............. " Donald Pile Ray Williams The Gay Travelers Dear Editor: Congratulations on the 1st anniversary of the Ozarks Star. We here in Northwest Arkansas truly appreciate your publication. You have made a tremendous difference here in our area. Keep up the good work. Kelly Crissman Studio 716 Dear Editor: The owners and staff at REE'S Joplin send our congratulations and appreciations on your first year of publication. The Ozarks Star is truly a community asset. Thank You! Richard, Dave, Terry, Kara, Gabe, Austin, Robby and S.A. REE's Nightciub, Joplin 'Denying these soldiers the right to serve is wrong,' said HRC Political Director Winnie Stachelberg. WASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign lauded 12 soldiers and the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network who filed suit today for the soldiers' right to be reinstat~d in the U.S. Armed Forces. All were forced to leave t-he service under the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, which bans service by openly gay, lesbian and bisexual soldiers. "Denying these soldiers the right to serve is wrong," said HRC Political Director Winnie Stachelberg. "All have served during the war on terror. All have had their careers cut short because of a discriminawry policy." Stachelberg continued, "Our nation needs qualified and experienced soldiers. But under 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell,' nearly 10,000 soldiers including docwrs, pilots, linguists and other highly skilled soldiers - have been discharged. We laud these 12 soldiers and the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network for bringing this important case forward." The suit, Cook v. Rumsfeld, was filed Dec. 6 in the U.S. District Court for the District of Massachusetts and challenges the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" ban's constitutionality on privacy, due process, equal protection and free speech grounds. According to SLDN's press release, the plaintiffs together have served more than 65 years in the armed forces, including operations in the Middle East, and have earned more than five dozen awards, medals and commendations. "American soldiers are risking their lives for the freedoms of others while being denied their own," added Stacheiberg. "It's time for every soldier to be treated equally." The Human Rights Campaign is proud to work w°lth SLDN and other groups on behalf of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans in the military. Visit: www.hrc.org. Page 7 OUT ON VACATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com "BROADWAY: The Golden Age" There are dozens and dozens of reasons for ,__ _____________ _, traveling. Seeing new sights and sounds of a new area that vou have never been to before is fun but for us one of the finest rewards about traveli~g is meeting new and exciting people. On our recent trip to West Hollywood we stayed at the Secret Garden Bed and Breakfast, www.secrecgardenbnb.com where we always stay. The owner, Raymond Bilbool is a fabulous host and that is why guests return all the time. And because Raymond is so fabulous he gets a very eclectic group of guests that stay with them. \)'./bile there we met Rick McKay, the New York City film maker. His new movie, BROADWAY: The Golden Age recently came out and it is a truly outstanding work of art. It is the most important, ambitious and comprehensive film ever made about America's most celebrated indigenous art form. It is award-winning filmmaker Rick McKay's journey over 4 continents and 5 years to find out whether there had been a golden age of theatre and why it had never been documented. He soon learned that great films can be restored, fine literature can be kept in print but historic Broadway performances of the past are the most endangered. In their own words and not a moment too soon "Broadway: The Golden Age tells the stories of our theatrical legends, how they came to New York, and how they created this legendary century in American theatre. This may be the last chance that these stories may be documented, for unlike film and television, live theatre exists only in the memories of those who were there watching, or more importantly, creating this magic. The movie tells the stories of these legendary stars while illustrating their tales with amazing, rare, archival performance footage and their own home· movies and photos. It is truly unbelievable how Rick McKay got interviews with all of these outstanding talents. A few of rhe many, many theatre entertainers that he interviewed are: Carol Channing, Angela Lansbury, Harold Prince, Stephen Sondheim, Carol Burnett, Julie Harris, Carol Lawrence, Gwen Verdon, Nanette Fabray, Elaine Srritch (who is our favorite), Marian Seldes (another big favorite of·ours), Uta Hagen, Ben Gazzara, Robert Morse, Chita Rivera, Jerry Orbach plus dozens of others. Rick has a very '.!!lcanny ability to bring om the best of these people while he interviewed them and they all teli about their past experiences on the Broadway stage. The movie is completely mesmerizing. The movie has won ciozens of aw:uds induding: Audience Award at the Palm Beach International Film Festival and Best Documentary at the San Diego Film Festival. Some o~ the critical reviews on the moYie are: "An essential record of Broadway history that every theatre-goer MUST see .... " Qeffrey Lyons, NBC), "Do not miss this absolute stunner of a film. TI1ere is magic in it:'' (Pete: Travers - RolJing Stone Magazice), "A rip-roari:1g good time! iike 111 minutes of paradise\" (Robert Osborne-The Hollywood Reporter), "Magic. .. McKay pusned his stars to remember things in astonishing detail. Sandwiched becween archival stills and rare stage footage, these stars reveal themselves, ............ continued page-26 Page 8 Tulsa OkJabomaC THE GAY KINGDOM OF THE CORAL SEA ISLANDS Scattered over some 1 million square kilometres of ocean, the Gay & Lesbian Kingdom of the Coral Sea Islands were declared independent from Australia in 2004. The Patliitnieot of the Gay Kingdom presumes that the Coral Sea Islands are not holdings of the Australian Government or the Commonwealth, as the Islands have never bef().(e been peopled until the gay migration in 2004. The ceding of the holdings of the Coral Sea Islands from the British Crown to the Australian Government and the Commonwealths Coral Sea Islands Act of 1969 is dubious as:'no British or Australian flag bas ever been raised in the territory, nor has there ever: .~en any recording of anyone formally proclaiming the Coral Sea Islands as part ,;,J .the British/ Australian Crown. In fact historically the only flag to ever fly in the tt;m,tory is the gay rainbow flag which was formally raised on Cato Island (the highest;'poilit in the 1 million square km territory) a plaque commemorating this historic ·event reads On the 14th day of June 2004. at this the highest point in the Co . Parker Anderson raised the gay rainbow flag and claimed the .;@laiitls,sof the Co~ Sea in his name as homeland for the gay and lesbian peoples of tlie \v6tld. God Save our King!" C~: The Island of Heaven, formally known as Cato Island, Queensland, Australia. The Gay and Lesbian Kingdom of the Coral Sea Islands offers a policy of automatic citizenship to gays and lesbians, similar to Israel's right of return. For more information go to the official website: www.gaykingdom.org. Page 9 LL PAGE COLOR ADVERTISING NO A BLE IN THE CONTACT US: 417·437·2275 OZARKSSTAR@SBCGLOBAL,NET > SE SEEN WITH ,.-JwtE ST~-AR; AD~RTISE W ' ~,... .. .. '' Page 10 Joplin Couple Host Fifth Annual Christmas Open House by Star writer Greg Steele Dec 5th, 2004 ]oplin,MO. Tom Walton and Tim Baker held their 5th open house Christmas . .. .. . .. :;. . . . : Charity for "Aids Project of the Ozark'~!' (M~P>) on Sunday December 5th. A crowd of more that 75 friends, neighbors and family~m~inbers filled Tom and Tim's recently purchased home. Each guest donated riori perishable household items such as laundry soap, bleach, toiletries, dish soap,. paper t0wels and many other daily living essentials. All donations will be distributed to A.PO members who depend .on APO and other organizations to survive. Many memb.ers only source of income ,is Social Security monthly payments and a meager amonnt of food stamps. The state food stamp program allows recipients to purchase only food items, all other items that are necessary to function day to day are out of poclcet expense. . We who think nothing of buying a pack of bar soap don't realize people who p;y rent and utilities. on $600 per month or less go without many of these goods. Tim and Tom work very hard each year on their project, providing food and beverage for the guest .to enjoy this once a year worthy event. Over 100 items were collected this year. A great showing of Christmas Spirit by the Joplin GLBTA .community. It's a party everyone looks forward too each holiday season, a time to see old friends, make new acquaintances and to have a great time. More important to exercise our giving spirit. Congratulations to Tim and Tom on another successfui open house. You are truly appreciated by your community. You may contact "Aids Project of the Ozarks" at 417-624-5788 or Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin at 417-206-6179 to contribute. · Rodney Burgamy 405.840.2106 Joe Brennan www .c21-goldc::astle~mm Page 11 a I t e The Ozarks Star V e 716 w. sycamore Fayetteville, AR 479-571-1300 www.studio716.net OPEN wed-sun 9pm - 2am c I u b WEDNESDAYS: Cruisn' for rhe Hook-up on HUMP-DAYl Happy Hour $5 Beer Bust THURSDAYS: Karaoke rill' 12 then it's the Piastic Thursday Dance Party with DJ "COLT" FRIDAYS: Friday Night get WILD wid: DJ "JUX" & the Best Mix of HipHop, Tech & YOUR requests all night long! SATURDAYS: It's the 716 EXTREME DANCE PARTY with DJ "BRANDON]" SUNDAYS: The Queens of NWA@ 11:30 Every Sunday & DJ "IRISH" Spinning all night long!! Page 12 4815 South Harvard Ave., Suite 424 Tulsa, OK 74135-3068 Phone: (918) 747-5466 Email: KellyKirbyCPA@sbcgiobal.net or. King Size Bads. akrast. Serving the tax and accounting needs of the GLBT Community since 1982 Page 13 1s1as. Gien$t6ne · (417)881-8444 Office Licensed in Missouri, Arkansas, Illinois & Colorado www.shelterinsurance.com This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Life-Worker's Comp.-Home-Auto-Farm-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Post Office Box 339 Eureka, Missouri 63025 Tel: (636) 938-5500 Fax: (636) 938-3539 gtainter@shelterinsurance.com t Page 15 The Ozarli:s Star taking pride in itself, knowing that it can and ·will rise above all things to make this a community that includes everyone, vou see it's not the "straight folk" that ~et us apart. It is our own inability to take pride in ourselves, to respect ourselves and to love ourselves. It is the inability to have enough pride, love and respect to support our own community. It is the inability for G/L/B/T owned or managed businesses to offer support to the community they expect to support them by using their products or services. On a recent trip, I found that the local MCC never has to buy flowers for their Sunday events. The local florist ( of course we know that none of the florist in town are family ) take flowers that they know will not remain fresh enough to sell and make arrangements for the sanctuary for Sunday and then has someone from the church pick them up on Saturday. One of the local motels always discounts the cost of rooms for the church to have guest speakers and performers coming to town. The amazing thing here is that thev are not members of the church but see. the importance of supporting the community. No one has the right to ask you for sexual favors or knock on your door and offer money for sex because they think that is what all of us do. We do not live in a "Queer As Folks" world but in a real world that won't respect us till we respect ourselves. And while we are on it! Taking pride, respect ·and loving ourselves includes supporting our community. I have lived from the tip of Florida to the northern parts of California and have for this magazine to continue it must rely on support from businesses advertising in it. Advertising in the Star does not mean you are gay or lesbian or in distinct variation of the sexual family. Real Estate Agents, Hotels, Accountants, Insurance Agents and others have advertised here and the distribution list has grown to 3,300 with a goal of 5 000 next month but will we still be h~re? If you do have a business and are a member of this community you should be advertising in the Star. There is no reason not to. There is every reason to. Take pride, respect and love in yourself and do the right thing. Till Next Month. G?99unte Steve Urie is the pastor of Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin ,md is ii professional in the health care industry. Dedicatd to helping others and building community pride. Steve can be contacted by email at: steve@ozarksstar.com Quotable Quotes . "Barbra Streisand is not the only 'Babs' to have commanded the attention of gay men. Barbara Bush the Younger, 22-year-old daughter of George W. Bush ... is fast developing a reputation as a 'fag hag' extraordinaire." - The lead on a Nov. 4 article in the New Haven (Conn.) Advocate. never seen a community magazine the quality of the Ozark Star. Our editor is doing a CDoy CO~eOM8 8- t ffiUtgs <:Bouttque wonderful job of putting this magazine out there for you and it is distributed FREE. But 4f7..659-991S ...... , .... ,.-ca...-,s..s 719 NII• --•• & W...'1 L..,_ .ilpli1, MO 64t0t Nu Sins 0,.. J--,, ,,..., 1~#1pm ~t IO#'it>l'II P~ 16 2004's ~xiest Star Scene I Page 18 ceTea.ms Win EUREKA SPRINGS, ARK. - Diversity Pride Events awarded $1000 each to the top three 'GOLDEN OLDIES' dance teams during the annual Fall Diversity Weekend on Saturday, November 6, 2004. Judges chose the best teams in three categories: (MaleFemale) Don McClung and Sandy Miller, (Male-Male) Mark Short & Christopher Jones and (Female-Female) Evelyn Chronister and Trini Kaukver. . The Contest w-as the highlight of the GOLDEN OLDIES Dance that featured music from the 1940's to the present, as spun by DJ Jason Watts. The event was produced to provide a venue. for the GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender) /PFLAG (Parents, Friends; & Families of Lesbians and Gays) communities, to promote parity for all-gcn~er dancing and to inspire dancers to think 'out of the box' when they dance. "It's a great opportunity to explore fresh new dynamics in couple dancing, says Producer Deborah Rose, "regardless of gender combinations or sexual orientation." For a second and more CONTEMPORARY dance, Diversity Pride Events brought in big city circuit DJ, Lydia Prim, who delighted men and women dancers with her own special blend of tribal, trance and house music. Prim spins at top name events from 'Provincetown's 4th of July, NewYork Pride to Jeffrey Sanker's internationally renowned White Parties in Miami and Palm Springs, and is resident DJ in many famous' clubs all. over the world. Prim expressed her appreciation of the friendliness and generosity of the people of Eureka Springs and the high level of professionalism of the producers and crew. Prim made it clear she wants to perform in Eureka again. Diversity Pride Events will next feature a special Valentine's Dinner and Dance for the GLBT/PFLAG community on Saturday, February 19, 2005. To please dancers of all ages, DJ Jason Watts will play favorite dance hits from the 1940's to 2005, with a little bit of country mixed in! For more details, log on to http:/ /www.diversitypride.com or call 479-253-2555 Based in the heart of the Ozarks, Diversitv Pride Events invites vou to visit our little town of Eureka Springs, Arkansas, for Fall & Spring Diversity Weekends, romantic Valentines Geciways, special Concerts & other Pride Events. Diversity Pride .Events is committed to producing quality events for Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, and Transgender (GLBTs) and Parents, Friends and Families of Lesbians and Gavs (PFLAGs). . Page 19 Gay Anti-Violence Programs Decry ABC News Segment on Shepard Murder Sa' 20/20 Segments Intent is To M Victim and Cause Pain for mily and Community New York • November 26, 2004 · Responding to the airing of an ABC News 20/20 segment on the murder of Matthew Shepard, representatives of the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCA VP) called the segment irresponsible, biased, shameful, and destructive. The gist of the segment, which purports to uncover evidence and details not raised or discussed in the 1999 trial of Aaron McKinney, one of the two men accused of murdering Shepard, is diat the mu:der was not hate-moti,ared, but instead motivated by drug use. "The fact is rhat ciiere 1s nothing significant in che 20/20 progr201 tnat wasn't raised during the trial," s:iid Clarence Plltton, NCA VPs Acting Excn:tive Director. "One has ;:o question th:c motivation of the show's producer~ in no! only attempting :o engage in revisionist h:story, but in doing so at this pcint in time, as our nation's lesbian anci gay community is fighring for its iife to :m extent not seen in years.'~ According to data gathered by NC'\ VP, anti-iesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender violence increased 26% nationaliy at the end of 2003, and has continued to rise throughout 2004. I ",vas in Laramie after i\ifattbe\v~s murder, and at the trial his murderers acknowledged that they killed him because of his sexual orientation, and they in fact offered a homosexual panic defense," said Jeff Montgomery, NCA VPs Board CoChair. The 20/20 segment focus is on the role the methamphetamine "Crystal Meth" played in the behllvior of McKinney and Russell Henderson, Shepard's killers. "That drugs may have played a role in a violent crime and in this murder is not news," said Patton. He continued, "Everyone knows that drugs and alcohol often play a part in hate crimes llnd bias-related incidents, as they do with most forms of violent crime from domestic violence to rape and sexual assault to murder. Drug llnd alcohol use by perpetrators can fuel the intensity of the violence in an any one incident, increase the willingness of perpetrators to act out hateful impulses, or be used as a intentionil motivator to carry out a planned attack." "However, such brutal and severe violence and leaving someone to die tied to a fence is not a marker of drug-fueled violence; it is a marker of hate violence," added Montgomery. "Had 20/20 actually wanted w do a fair and balanced story on this or any other antigay hate murder, they would have reached out to experts on anti-gay hate violence • they didnt; had they wanted to examine the impact or prevalence of drug use in violent crime or hate crimes, they would have reached out to criminlll justice officials or hate vioience victim advocates _.,jth expertise :n those areas they didn't; rod those are oniy two among many factors in determining that the rea: goal of this story wasn't to urrcar:h new informlltion or even report adciitional context, but to malign the vicrim, mortify his family and inflict pain on the larger LGBT community that came to icientify with Matthew, his life, and the fear that we all :ive with as a comm..:nity under attack," conciuded Patton. http:/ /www.ncavp.org. Page 20 Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! January 2005 Hello Kittens-another New Year is here. Out with the old and in with the new, as it were. As a community, Uncle encourages all you young and old queens and twinks alike to make this, year of the queer. Strive for better things while displaying our pride all year long. Uncle has made his new years resolutions while pondering years gone by. i.;._·..:::1.:...c. . _____ __:;=:....i Dear Uncle: I am in a relationship that I do not know how to get out 0£ I have been with her now for six years, and she does not know 1 have fallen out of love with her. She is a fragile person, with a very bad self-image. When I think of telling her I begin to feel guilty and chicken out of telling her, that there is someone else in which my heart truly belongs too. I do not want to lose the friendship, and would never want to hurt her, but I do not know what to do. Any suggestions? Lost interest Dear Lost: Kitten-First you must be true to ypurself, if you ever truly ·wish to love another. In reality the worst drama have been developed by the best of intentions. You arc prolonging the hurt, and increasing the amount she will feel. You are hurting her by staying with her when you know inside that you do not love her. Allow her to find love and yourself. As for the friendship, you better watch your back to begin with and hope once she has calmed down, that she will be able to forgi:ve you. While preparing for the fact, that she may never be able to do so. No matter what the outcome you must be true "'-ith feelings of the heart, or risk dealing with the bitter fruit of false affections. As a lesbian goes, Cncle wouldn't cross one, if they paid me too. Telling someone that you love them no matter who you are, is a bad thing. To tell a lesbian that you love her when you do not, well, that is asking for it. The only one you are truly hurting is yourself, as you will reap what you sew. Right now Lesbians everywhere reading this are thinking to themselves, "It better not be you missy!" Dear Uncle: I am passive person by nature, and therefore in most of my relationships, find myself in the passive role. This is perfectly all right with me, as it makes me happy. My friends though have been riding me telling me I am a big queen. I am so over this in my life, and frustrated with everyone sticking a label on me. I am who I am. flow can I make everybody understand this is reaily who I am and am not trying to be some stereotype? My one friend has a habit of saying look its just Jack, which annoys me to no end. I most times <lo not say anything to him, but I am just on:r everybody acting like there is something wrong with me. · Quite Queenly Dearest Queenly, Oh, gurrl- work it as if you own it. There is nothing wrong with being Flambeyant. Uncle has had to deal with this very issue throughout his life. Some days I am queenly and fabulous and others J am a bit butch. Mind you, Butch for Uncle is getting the nail polish bottle opened. However, be who you are young queen, and allow the light of your soul to shine bright. Allow these others to continue being a negative Nancy. It is so discouraging to hear of Gay men judging another like this. This is what the straight worid does to us, and that is tiresome in itself. However, do nor try to live by labels, and stereotypes . ............. continued nex page Page 21 7 1 6 S MAIN STREET, JOPLIN, MISSOURI (41 7) 627-9035 • J □ PLINIS ALTERNATIVE NIGHTCLUB Remember fairies are what makes the worid bright. Hollywood smooches to you darlingTwo snaps and a wink Uncle encourages even the most of Butch men out there w get in touch with their queenly side. It is that balance which aliows us to be the fabulous people we arc. You never know until you try. \'{'ell, Kitrens, it is almost that time again. Therefore, Uncle wishes you aU a ,cry Happy New year this 2005! Remember Kittens: Holiday cheer rnay con1e once a year, but the happy <jueer comes all year. L'nti! we meet again-Holiday smocchcs from Uncle I\Iikcy and Tiddles !<Vi. Unclemlkey4you@aol.com i)ndc ;\{ikcy i~ ~l ,::ht.r<Kt:,:,; from l1rcd:i;ic;;; "',Yrirt:r ~fo . .:hac! Hinziniln- ;,.fich~d h:..5 been wzitinp; for ten ycazs. Ucifo:int; bis 3-tud;e$, and life expnie11<:i:: to hdp od,~n; in his cnmmuni;;:y~ through humor an<l ~oun<l 21,h-"ice. .:.\lich~,d ~pplied hi~ study of p~ychology and crt~tivt" -..n:iring, ;.~ wcH h1$- c:,:t<'nsivc background in m{;ni1?l he?,ich Din:ct care 10 hr:in~t .:. m.:1.v :•tyk and :--ppro-adl w hdpm.g athcrs, :\lkh.-d'$ other \Vorks cnn be ":icwe.<l M ~liu~(!nlUlL..1:.lli.L. Page 22 Message from Dr. Troy D. Perry Founder and Moderator of Metropolitan Community Churches New LGBT Marriage and Partner Victories Around The World! December 9, 2004 Around the world, the cause of LGBT partner and marriage rights is moving forward! LGBT people, along with our friends and families, are celebrating four significant victories this week for same-sex marriage. Look at what has been achieved this week alone: CANADA We actually experienced two ·victories in Canada this week! Canada's Supreme Court has ruled that the federal government can broaden the definition of marriage to include same-sex couples and that it can be applied across the nation. In a related decision, the Court ruf ed that churches and religious officials cannot be forced to perform same-gender marriages against their belief. MCC wholly supports this riiling, believing that all religious groups should have the freedom to practice the tenets of their faith. . At this point, six provinces and one territory have made same-sex marnage legal - and this ruling paves the way for same-sex marriage to be instituted across all of Canada. A final vote in Parliament is set for early next year. Once again, I salute the pioneering work of the Reverend Dr. Brent Hawkes and the congregation of Metropolitan Community Church of Toronto. This church, under Rev. Hawkes' leadership, won the first-ever legal case for same-sex marriage in Ontario's Supreme Court, paving the way for nationwide LGBT marriage rights in all of Canada. 1bis week's legal decision opens new possibilities for MCCers as we prepare to gather in Calgary, Alberta, Canada in July 2005 for MCC's General Conference & World Jubilee. Originally, MCC was prepared to exercise our prophetic voice hr carrying our struggle for marriage equality to the holdout province of Alberta; it now appe.ars that same-sex marriage may be fully legal in Alberta by the time our MCC conference begins next year in Calgary! Praise God! NEW ZEALAND 1bis week, New Zealand passed a national law giving LGBT couples the same legal rights as married heterosexual couples. The new Civil Union Bill allows same-sex couples to register their relationships with the government, and grants legal equality. In many places, Civil Union Bills are an important st~p on the way to foil marriage equality. Earlier this year, in my role as Moderator of Metropolitan Community Churches, I wrote personal letters to every member of the New Zealand Parliament. I asked that they act to protect the legal rights of their same-sex citizens by adopting the proposed Civil Union Bill. I am gratified that those requests have been honored. I want to salute the important and tireless work done by MCC leaders Neil Hellewell and Tony Maskill of All Saints MCC in Christchurch, New Zealand. We owe them a debt of gratitude for the incredible amount of work they put into this effort, along with Rev. Doug McGee and the congregation of MCC Auckland, and Rev. Leigh Neighbor and the members of Ecclesia MCC Manukau. Their hard work will make a real and profound difference in the lives of thousands upon thousands of LGBT New Zealanders, and sets a noble example for countries around the world . ........... continued page 25 Page 23 Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac Ja.nuary 2005 Blunt-Force Trauma I'm not employed in a factory, office building, or school; to start work every morning, all I do is mosey upstairs to my home office and turn on the computer - an enviable set-up, considering many people's. way-less-than-ideal working conditions. Still, I face a grave occupational hazard, and it's bigger than carpal tunnel syndrome: I ,am a lesbian journalist at a time when the news- from the gay front has been brutally devastating. Indeed, for those of us who work in lesbian and gay media or activism and must read the headlines every day, the onslaught of "toxic news" is one of the perils of our jobs. · · Psychotherapists say that the accumulation of negative everi,ts has a particularly harmful impact on mental health. For example, if you --------------- have one love affair tum sour, it will hurt; but Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." if several relationships tank in a row, that can be injurious to your long-term emotional health. In a similar way, I've been feeling the snowballing effect of a number of terrible gay-related news reports. No, not simply terrible, like the passage of 11 antigay amendments in one day; the reports I'm referring to are more _Twilight Zone_-esque. In fact, three recent stories made me feel like I had entered an alternate reality - or maybe was living in a quasi-fascist state. Not coincidentally, all three of the stories have to do with religion. Story No. 1: "Methodist Jury Convicts Lesbian Minister." Of child abuse? Embezzling church funds? No, Beth Stroud, a United Methodist Church minister, was found "guilty" of living openly in a committed relationship with another woman. Shocking! This decision was handed down by a church whose marketing slogan is, hypocritically, "Open Hearts, Open Minds, and Open Doors." Story No. 2: "Gay Civil Unions 'Grave Sign of Dehumanization,' Says Vatican Cardinal." By that statement, Cardinal Lopez Trujillo, one of the Roman Catholic Church's highest-ranking representatives, didn't mean that civil unions "dehumanize" gay couples because they reduce them to second-class status something a civil-rights lawyer might, in fact, argue. He meant that any form of legal recognition of same-sex relationships - even if it isn't called marriage "dehumanizes" heterosexuals by "inventing new, unacceptable notions of marriage," God's plan for the world. (I'm guessing that Trujillo chose the word "dehumanizing" because he sees our next step as trying to marry our pets.) Story No. 3 (and this is the clearest "we live in a fascist state" example): "Two Networks Reject Church Ad as Too 'Controversial."' Because it dishonored Judaism or Islam or some other non-Christian religion? Because it avowed that "God Hates Fags"? No and no again. The advertising message the United Church of Christ (UCC) wanted to offer American television viewers, including lesbian and gay couples, was "You're welcome here." CBS had an eerily _Pravda_-like explanation for its decision not to accept the UCC spot: "The Executive Branch has recently proposed a Constitutional Amendment to define marriage as a union between a man and a woman, [so] this spot is unacceptable for broadcast." These stories nir me with unusual force, .......... co:itinued pagc-26 Page24 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo Sao Vicente January 2005 Mischa Barton Meets Bf..l~caccio It's probably just the tbing that Mischa Barton wanted for Chrismukkah: a chance to stretch her acting wings with a movie role that has nothing to do with her media-frenzied life as a star of _The O.C._ And if negotiations continue to go her way, audiences will get a chance to see the teenage actor starring in a new film adaptation of _The Dccamcron_ (the first since legendary gay director Pier Paolo Pasolini's 1971 version). One of the classics of world literatute, Giovanni Boccaccio's story of a group of 10 young Florentines escaping the Black Plague in the 1300s and telling each other 100 stories to pass the time remains as entertaining and bawdy - and often pretty queer - today as it did then. And with nine more young, pretty actors needed to fill in the cast, it could all tum out to be more like a 14th-century _O.C._ than anyone could have imagined. Sarsgaard's Active Duty Good thing military-themed movies aren't playing the "don't ask, don't tell" game, or _Jarhead_, the upcoming Desert Storm drama from director Sam Mendes (_American Beauty_j, would be short a couple of key cast members. The newest recruit to enlist in the cast is Peter Sarsgaard, a young actor whose career so far has been steeped in queer-themed indie films like _Boys Don't Cry_, _Kinsey_ - in which his bisexual character beds both Liam Neeson and Laura Linney - and the upcoming Craig Lucas film, _The Dying Gaul_, in which he plays gay. And Jake Gylleohaal, who just learned what it's like to make out with Heath Ledger onscreen io the upcoming _Brokeback Mountain_, costars. Who says military life and queerness don't mix? Ruffalo Yells for Stella Audiences can't seem to get enough of that troubled gay playwright Tennessee Williams. His plays are constantly in production somewhere, and every actor, male and female, wants a chance to play the roles the man wrote. So it's oo surprise that yet another revival of _A Streetcar Named Desire_ is in the works. This time out, Mark Ruffalo will play the brutish Stanley Kowalski and Natasha Richardson will take on Blanche Dubois. Previews begin in New York in March, running through June 19. And it's all going to 1:llke place at Studio 54, former home of the _Cabaret_ revival, which seems appropriate in some discreetly old-school gay way. From Small Sentence to Big Screen When former _Sex and the City_ writers Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo wrote the sentence, "He's just not that into you," little did they know how it would all tum out. That one line, which became an episode plot and then a bestselling tongue-in-cheek dating guide titled, yes, _He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys_, is now on its way to the big screen. New Line can take the credit for seeing the box-office potentiai in this comic premise, and the · authors were forward-thinking enough to develop a plot line for a film before selling the book rights, one in which a female talk-show host becomes "sort of' involved with a man who guests on her show. No cast is set yet, but any number of fresh-faced Hollywood ladies would shine in something like this. Romeo thinks the easily typecastable Kate Hudson could use a hit right about now. Just a thought. ------ Page 25 Rev. Troy Perry from page-22 SOUTH AFRICA A South African court has ruled this week that same sex marriages must be recognized in the same way as heterosexual marriages, under the nation's constitution. South Africa, as you may know, was the first nation in the world to provide legal p):otections for gays and lesbians in its country's constitutio.n. ~'J:,ile the Supreme Court has ruled in favor of LGBT equality, the Parliament of South African must now act to reform the nation's Marriage Act to include same-sex couples. I thank God for the many South African MCCers who continue to do important work on behalf of social justice as an expression of their Christian faith. In many ways, South Africa is a beacon for all of us. ISRAEL And our LGBT brothers and sisters in Israel have achieved another victory for etjuality and justice as a district court has ruled that same-sex couples must have the same rights as common law couples when it comes to matters of property, taxation and inheritance. Israel's attorney general, Menachem Mazuz, will not appeal the ruling. Th.is is another significant ruling that moves our community closer to equality under the law. According to this decision, same-sex partners will be recognized in matters of taxation and real estate, and will also be able to transfer gifts between themselves without paying taxes. The prayers of the ancient prophet who prayed that "justice might roll down as waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream"' are being answered in this birthplace of our faith. IN CONCLUSION While much of the media have focused on the recent election losses in the United States, we must look at the bigger picture. Around the globe, many nations are advancing the cause of equality for gays, lesbians, bisexuals, and transgender persons. With all the talk today about moral values in the aftermath of the U.S. elections, the reality is that the most noble moral values of tolerance, acceptance, etJUality and justice are being advanced in many places around the globe. My own country of the United States must learn from the example of other countries where equality is being achieved for LGBT people. I have. said many times that the struggle of social justice work is that of many steps forward, and some steps backward. This is the journey towards equality. I take heart this week that our brothers and sisters .around the globe are making giaht strides for us to follow. During. this season of hope, we are heartened by these international advances, and reaffirm our faithful work and prayers on. behalf of peace and justice in all places. FREE HIV TESTING,NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which docs not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidcntiaiity. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "&roing A Healthier Community" Page 26 Gay Travelers from page 7 their art and their lives, all with so much love and appreciation that, for a while you wish you could have been a part of something as bonding, fulfilling and special· as Broadway's theater community ..... Broadway: The Golden Age finally evolves into an indispensable history of the hopes, fears, trials, defeats and victories of those brave enough to step into the limelight of a Broadway stage and make it their home." (Dano Gire, Chicago Daily Herald). Rex Reed wrote "riveting, Heart-skipping, exhilarating.. the most enchanting movie I have seen this year" and Leonard Maltin wrote "you must see the wonderful film ... The result is almost indescribably powerful and moving". And to add to what these critics have already said, we urge all of our readers to purchase this movie on DVD. It will be something that you will cherish for years to come. • We have seen the movie 4 times and can't wait to see it again and again. Anyone and everyone who is into Broadway simply MUST see this movie. And it is now out on DVD. The movie is great however the DVD is even better since there are several hours more in the Director's Commentary, deleted scenes and a sneak preview of his next movie, BROADWAY: The Next Generation. The movie is playing all over the United States so be sure and check your local theatre listings to find it. And by going to: www.broadwaythemovie.com you can read more about the movie and Rick McKay. You can also purchase a copy of the DVD by going to that website. · Besides Rick McKay being a brilliant filmmaker he is also a wonderful person who is witty, charming, intelligent and extremely fun and fuonv to be around. So, when you are traveling talk to everybody as you never know just who you might meet. For any questions about traveling in the gay friendly world, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: www .hometown.aol.com/ gaytravelers Lesbian Notions from pg-23 because as a queer editor and writer I have tried not to trample on people's religious beliefs, especially those chat diverge sharply from my own. Indeed, I have written that I think our community has failed to respect the strong religious ideas many people of faith hold about the "sanctity" of marriage, and that has subsequently hindered our struggle for equality. Now here come three reports that clearly illustrate the difficulty of addressing people's religious beliefs headon, given entrenched, institutionalized homophobia. Io the first two stories, prominent religious institutions chose to debase gay people by equating our relationships with crimes - either against selectively applied church law, or (as in Trujillo's case) against nature itself. If that's not "spiritual violence" - as the Rev. Mel White's Soulforce calls "the misuse of religion to sanction the condemnation and rejection of any of God's children" I don't know what is. The third story, though, is the real eye-opener. In that instance, when a religious sect sought to interpret Christ's teachings with the simple, all-embracing message of "You're welcome here," corporate America put a lid on the attempt, deciding that the message was just too contentious. (Read: Our . president, who was helped into power by right-wing, aotigay fundamentalists, wouldn't like it.) This is a good example of what screenwriting guru Robert McKee calls "the negation of the negation" - when someone sees injustice and tries to right it, only to· discover to his or her horror that the powers-that-be are themselves corrupt. I'm not sure how to deflect the devastating blows that this kind of news delivers, although getting angry is probably a pretty good start. Remember that popular saying, "Don't mourn, organize"? I, for one, will keep climbing to my third-story office and writing, and my readers, hopefully, will find themselves with no choice but to act. _Paula Martinac is a Lambcia Literary Awardwinning author of eight books and editor in chief of Q Syndicate. She can be reached care of this publication or at LesbianNotions@qsyndicate.com_. Page27 Seo by Jack Fertig January 2005 es "Bring rubber gloves, Virgo!" Mars in Sagittarius square to Uranus in Pisces makes for an explosive New Year's Eve! Anything can happen, from kissing Ms. or 1'.fr. Right, to traffic disasters. Keep a dear head and your eyes forward! ARIES (March 21 to April 20): Gathering all your "friends with benefits" to "wring in the nude" may be illegal in certain U.S. states and Tasmania, but Murphy's Law is more relevant. However you celebrate, make sure to play with clear heads and clean latex! TAURUS (April 21 to Mii.y 20): Career goals are kind of fi.\zzy these days, and "helpful" suggestions from your partner or colleagues aren't helping - in fact, too iμany suggestions can be dizzying. Better they · should lend an ear while you talk through it. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Be careful whom you kiss at midnight! Whatever's going around has your name on it. Pressure at work can also undermine your health. Stress and snafus feed inro each other. Stop, meditate, and then return to work calm and effident. CANCER 0une 22 to July 22): Sexual adventure is way too tempting. Adventure is good, but for heaven's sake, be careful! Anything could go wrong now, from sprained backs to torn latex to ... well, anything! Be as creative and thoughtful about safety as you are about sex. LEO 0uly 23 to August 22): Host a party only if you can dean up in a hazmat suit - and if you know where to hide the bodies! A wild ceiebrarion for two at home is great. If you want to socialize more than that, go out. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): No, darling, you can only make New Year's resolutions for yourself! I know you want to be hdpful, but most people find such suggestions insulting. If a Leo invites you to a party, bring rubber gioves. LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): This is an expensive season, and some holiday surprises are likely to hit your wallet pretty rudely. Resolving to economize is good, of course, but some of your ideas on how to do that may be unrealistic. Think it through! SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Be very selective about your guests now. Domestic disturbances - or plumbing disasters - are brewing. Extra company will only make things tougher. Also, pay attention to your own role in fixing things. Your efforts can too easily backfire. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Everybody has doubts, disappointments, and worries this time of year; some are just better at covering them up. Yours come tumbling out all too easily. Focus on spiritual gifts as they occur. The rest doesn't really matter. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): Working the social scene is carrying some extra expenses. Brace yourself for "sticker shock." Make innovative use of your resources, but don't go too far out on a limb! You can save a bundle and impress others with your brilliance of economy. AQUARIUS 0anuary 20 to February 18): Whatever goes wrong, you're sure to be blamed for it. You're used to that, but now it offers a bit of freedom. Trust your instincts for inspiration to stir things up, and trust in your own audacity to avoid the worst of it. PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Your emotional roller coaster gets a few extra dips and twists now. A vacation is a tempting escape, but travel at this time is fraught with rude surprises. Religious or spirituai exploration offers more surprises, but of a gentler and more reveiatory nature. Jack Fertig has been working as a professional astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Networking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864- 8302, through his website ai hup:l lwww.stJlrjack.com Page 28 Four States Community Directory -Bars- Nightclubs- -Lodging- Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Studio 716- -716 W. S::camore- - 479-571-130 Ron's Place- 523 W. 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BOT BEFOaE I GO, l'D JOST LIKE TO MEN"TION THAT, FOR THE LIFE or: ME, l CANNOi UNDERSTAND WHY CONGRESS HASN'T TRIED TO CRIMINALIZE UNMARRIED «J>ARENTS11AS .. ORRf®IRE IN EX-GAY WAR ON CANADA.,, . ...,,, __ Page 30 Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . Advertising Representative's Part Time: For Kansas City, Springfield, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Arkansas, Wichita Kansas and Joplin. Commission based compensation. Work in the LGBTA business community. Mail qualifications to: Oz~rks Star 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804. Carl Junction, Missouri Nearly new 3 bedroom, 2 bath home in golf community. Open floor plan, whirlpool tub, deck, and maintenance free exterior are just a few of the virtues that will make this the perfect house to begin the new year in. Medium Priced. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document "' I t e 716 W. Sycamore St., Fayetteville, AR. (479) 571-1300 I• t C www.studio716.net Door~s C)pen at 8pn1 Pageant Begins at 9p1n Daily Specials & Events - Drag Shows Every Sunday-Members Free- Guest $5 Volume 1 Issue IO Page2 October I, 2004 ~Q ,f, /;--:_ \ ' ·.'• .. , j '.. I 18th ~GRA ~~~;:Rodeo October 14-1 7, 2004 Omaha, Nebiaska ( 402) 203-4680 www. hgra. net www. ig~c. com Ha and Gay lodeo Association The Ozarks Star Page 3 October 1, 2004 Davy u a •• This is where they all get started 1109 E. Conunereial Street Springfield, Mo. 65803 417-873-2225 HearTheRumors.eom n field's Diversit Club Res ect Diversi Eve bod Welcome We catering to the GLBT and Gay Friendly Community Open Mon-Sat 5 pm tol:30 am Happy Hour 5-Spm CHEAP DRINKS! T'ues-Pool Tournaments Thurs.- Karaoke Fri. and Sat.-All Night Dance Party! No_v~rflBet2,0°~po4 the most 1mpqrtant~el~c::tion day m our history. It is essential that we and our allies all vote for fairness and eguality. With the ele~tion. orily days away, most of the LGBT community seem to be unexcited. Their main goal it appears, is to defe~t Bush. r Republican candidates. Iagre ·/Edwards ticket is . .. give the LGBT thope for success in The follqwing:i/a .qiioJ~,from David Shribrilan's Op /Ed a'.'tticle Sept. 12th His topic was on how overzealous Bush opponents cqajd ~wing the vote toward the Republican side. , ·.· : "By far the griafer 'litn e#kon the De:rzocrats' side. ugh. the campaigns are WO t soccer moms and Nascar dads afi{i't/,:e/Giith.olic vote and theptay'erfal vote;itHe -~tw 'gro~:of Bush haters -:-' a ~r:etiqie <:oalitio,:,i ojz't}:Jj! 'f!)illful · · - could emerge as liti importit_ntfai:tor in the November balloting." · ; "1bese voters could swing the election by what they ~o an~ by what they don't do. If they remain an important presence in the streets - appearing as protesters at the president's rallies; conducting marches down city streets with flag-draped Continued-see editor page 10 Page 5 October 1, 2004 A call for better behavior ... improved responsibility ... a level of understanding and commitment to what is right. We are in a struggle like none we have seen before and the drastic behaviors we are seeing only accent the overwhelming lack of trust and understanding within us. My neighbor and I jokingly joust with one another over the upcoming election for a new president, both of us seeing the possibilities of a new future in different ideologies. But we are able to tease, joust and kid each other about our differences. We both have our candidates yard signs in place ... mine quite simply is one sign for Kerry. Hers started with two signs for Bush and an American flag. How sad and what a commentary on the state of things when I suddenly noticed she now has eight Bush signs hi her yard. Not unusual for a hard core activ-.ist attitude but what caused this sudden rage that resulted in no more kidding, no more teasing, no more friendly jousting 'with each other. She and her family woke the other morning to find that the original signs had been burned as well the American flag flying with them. When she told me what had happened, I was stunned. This behavior is not acceptable and should not have happened but who set the stage. We had one convention where ideals were presented and everyone cheered. . On the other side of the coin we had one convention where ideals were presented and on almost every occasion everyone booed. Yes they set the example but it is our responsibility to choose the example we will follow. Politics and religion are topics that most families and friends do not discuss because of the total blaze they can ignite. There has been an on-going campaign challenging both sides of the political machine of this country ... remember we are not a democracy but a republic. We choose who we want to represent us and trust them to act in our best interest. We have an opportunity to voice our opinions, wave our banners and vote. That is the way to behave, not burning signs and flags which others have an equal right to use as their freedom of speech. Equally we have an ongoing debate in our local paper which will always take an opportunity to create hostility if given half a chance. Opposing points of view can clearly be voiced without challenging the integrity of the other party. Are Christians really attacking other Christians? Christian means being "Christ like" and my only question for all of you in our community as well as the straight community doing this is: What part of being "Christ like" did you miss out on? I will not attack anyone's belief structure or challenge whether they are or are not Christians. I only ask that you think about the debate and what does it resolve. W'hat happens to our witness when non-Christians read our rhetoric and perceive it has hatred. We need to look deeply at where we are, look at what separates the issues and challenge the civcil issues where they need to be and that's is not in our churches. Too many wars have been fought with both sides claiming God on their side mixing the humanistic fallacies with our relationship with our Lord. continued page-26 \ Volume l .lssue.10 EvangelistJinuny Swaggart Threatens To Kill Gays National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Responds Statement by Matt Foreman,NGLTF Executive Director: "The leaders of major organizations heading the campaign to deny same sex couples equal marriage rights frequently say that they do not hate gay people and that they respect us as human beings. Just last night in a national simulcast to oppose same sex marriage, for example, Focus on the Family President Dr. James Dobson said, "I'm not here to cast aspersions on homosexuals P/.. 2_ they need our acceptance and respect ... We are not hateful people." The Task Force calls upon the leaders of last night's simulcast - Dr. James Dobson (Focus on the Family), Tony Perkins (Family Research Council), Ted Haggard (National Association of Evangelicals), Richard Land (Director of the Religious Liberties and Ethics Division of the Southern Baptist Convention) -: to immediately denounce anti7gay ~olence and specifically repudiate evangelist Jimmy Swaggert's statement, "I've never seen a man in my life I wanted to marry. And I'm gonna be blunt and plain: if one ever looks at me like that, I'm gonna kill him and tell God he died." All lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people and all people of good will be listening." Read more on Sw;tggart's statement here: www.365gay.com/ newscon04 /09 / 092004swaggarthtm Page7 Photo by: Ray Williams October 1, 2004 OUT ON VAl.ATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Oklahoma City, Oklahoma In our travels to both the East coast and the West coast everyone always asks the same question to us. Where to party in the Midwest? We always tell them one of the best places to party in the Midwest is Oklahoma City. Oklahoma City???? Yep, Oklahoma City is the major gay capital of the Midwest. Hard to believe? Well perhaps, however unless you have been there you certainly will not believe that in the Bible belt of Oklahoma is this fabulous gay mecca. We have been going to Oklahoma City to party for over 20 years. The HABANA INN resort there has been a gay resort for over 20 years. It is the Midwest's largest all gay resort. It is a two story complex with over 175 rooms, most of which face one of the two swimming pools. The rooms are spacious and extremely inexpensive. Their rates begin at just $37 .95 per room. It is a totally gay resort. Lush tropical plants and trees surround the pool areas. Gays from all over the midwest have been going there for years. And it is busy 7 days a week, not just on weekends. Lounge around the pool area and you are sure to meet that "someone special". Within the resort complex they have a wonderful restaurant "Gushers" which has a great ambiance and serves delicious food. Prices are inexpensive. We were just there last month and had fresh fried shrimp for only $10.95 and a Rib Eye for only $14.95. And all entrees comes with potato, salad and bread. The restaurant overlooks one of the pool areas so you can enjoy the boys frolicking in the pool as you are dining. They also offer sandwiches, soups, salads, pastas and appetizers. And a breakfast menu is available on weekends. · · There are three bars in the Habana Inn complex which are completely different. COPA's is a dance, disco and drag bar. Weekly they have strip shows, drag shows and comedy shows. FINISH LINE is a country/western bar with plenty of country dancing. This is the place to see the real cowboys in action. THE LEDO is a quiet piano bar. All of the bartenders are super friendly and they all know how to make out oftowners feel right at home. The owner of the bars and resturant is to be commended for his outstanding job of always having "theme" nights and specials. The nights we were there, Long neck bottle beer was two for one. When so many bar owners just sit back and. wait for customers to come in, this owner attracts customers by having specials, etc. Why can't all bar owners do things like this. Also in the resort is JUNGLE RED, an adult gift shop with magazines, videos, cards, gifts, leather, pride items plus a lot of decorative items for the home ... continued page - 26 Volume l Issue 10 Oetober 1, 2004 ~ The Oz,rrks Sta; Page 9 Oetobec I, 2004 ---A-d-ve-rt1-·sm-e-nt--------------------.~---,======================~- I ! Pine, Tulsa, 836-8700 Isa.com Wrangler's Corn in ..... Octobe Bi Volume I Issue I 0 Page 10 October 1, 2004 Arkansas Marriage Amendment Will be on the November 2, 2004 ballot This citizen-initiated measure to amend the constitution needed 80,570 signatures by July 2, 2004 to be placed on the 2004 ballot. Approximately 200,693 signatures were turned in on July 1, 2004. The Secretary of State certified the signatures on July 23, 2004. The measure would amend the state constitution to r~ad, "Marriage consists only of the union of one man and one woman. Legal status for unmarried persons which is identical or substantially similar to marital status shall not be valid or recognized in Arkansas, except that the legislature may recognize a common law marriage from another state between a man and a woman. The legislature has the power to determine Advertisement editor from page-4 coffins meant to symbolize needless war casualties - they could play directly into Republican hands. They would allow the president to portray his opponents as unpatriotic elitists unwilling to support American men and women in uniform in war zones." LGBT Political Power is strong and can be a major force in the struggle for equality. First we must work hard to elect those candidates who are our allies. The Log Cabin Republicans' decision to withhold its endorsement from President Bush, the chief advocate of the discriminatory Federal Marriage Amendment, is a bold and welcome decision. This is an unprecedented statement against discrimination, an example of LGBT Political Power in action. VOTE November 2, 2004 for our Allies! the capacity of persons to marry, subject to this amendment, and the legal rights, obligations, privileges, and immunities of marriage." cactus Canyon Campground And Resort This measure will be on the November 2, 2004 ballot. The issue of same sex marriage will be on the ballot in ten and possibly eleven states on November 2. In addition to Kentucky and Oregon, the states include Arkansas, Georgia, Mississippi, Montana, North Dakota, Oklahoma, Utah and the key battleground states of Michigan and Ohio. Many believe the issue is being used to energize the far right and evangelical vote to help conservative and Republican candidates, including President Bush. For Men In The Ozarks ihe L.argu,t Men', C.ampground in the U'i'>i>- Full RV Hookup's, Tent Sites, Cabins, Lodge Rooms, Hot Tub/ sauna, Pool, Cafe, Theme Weekends, Convenience Store, Clothing Optional. Call 417-683-9199 or visit our website www.cactuscanyoncampground.com The Ozarks Star Page 11 Q\(\ahoma' s C.o"'bo1 C.roone.r Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald by st.a.If writer Greg Steele: On April 16, 1979 in Shawnee, Oklahoma, Matthew was born to Reverends Jerrell and Sherry Heath. Matthew ;,vas raised in various small towns across Oklahoma, moving often due to his parents role in the United Methodist Church. He dreamed of a vocalist career all the way, learning to sing along side his parents at church functions and small events wherever they were living. Matthew considers himself a performer not a karaoke singer. A popular attraction in the Oklahoma City and Tulsa clubs, Matthew travels the co~ntry performing. He recently performed with Brian Black (brother of country legend Clint Black) in his opening act for the Cow Town Rodeo in Ft. Worth, Texas. He is a regular at Club Rox and Boom Boom Room in Oklahoma City. In Tulsa you can catch Matthew's show at Club Maverick, PlayMore Club and Renegades. It was in 1999 a turning point occurred for Matthew. He met what would become not only his manager and best friend, but the man he knew he'd spend the rest of his life October 1, 2004 with,Jason. After a few brief dates, and a long distance relationship, Matthew proposed to Jason in February of 2000. It was later in the vear 2000, he was asked to record backgro~nd vocals for a Oklahoma area cabaret artist, Tabitha Taylor, which consisted of mainly lounge music. The work he did on the album brought him more recognition and he was asked to perform in dubs around Oklahoma. In March of 2002 Matthew independently recorded his debut album in Branson, Missouri. In April the album "l\1Y LOVE" was released. Available at any Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald performance, various small shops in Oklahoma City & Tulsa, and on the internet, "My Love" has proved to sell very well and has boosted his listening audience. In May 2002 Houston, Texas radio station KPFT FM played the title cut of the album on air, and reported to have very good response. Matthew's second album, a live recording in Tulsa, Oklahoma Oune 2003) was released in October of 2003. Matthew's Live album was greeted with much responce and opened the door for many more bookings at clubs and rodeos around the country. Matthew quickly became a favorite at clubs in Oklahoma like The PlayMor in Tulsa and The Copa in Oklahoma City and on the evening of March 5th 2004, Matthew's "Neon Rainbow" was released at his. performance with Brian Black. "Neon Rainbow" has quickly become Matthew's best selling album to date. Matthew is just another example of the undiscovered talent in the 4 states region. The Ozarks Star is proud to feature this talented young man from Oklahoma, working hard to make his community proud. He resides with his partner Jason in Krebs, Oklahoma. For booking information and more on Matthew's show schedule, visit his website at www.heathfitzgerald.com Volume l Issue 10 Page 12 October 1, 2004 Kerry-Edwards Ticket - The ost ay S portive in American History VOTE FOR YOUR LIFE NOVEMBER 2, 2004 The Ozarks Star Page 13 October 1, 2004 Volume 1 Issue l 0 Page 14 October 1, 2004 This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Life-Worker's Comp.-Home-Auto-Fann-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Post Office Box 339 Eureka, Missouri 63025 Tel: (636) 938-5500 Fax: (636) 938-3539 Riderless Horse HonorsMGRA Director. Kansas City Sept 5, 2004 by Star writer Greg Steele The crowded Wyandotte County Fairgrounds Stadium went silent as the lone horse entered the arena. A wreath of red roses draped the ,._ __________________ __, shining saddle. The inverted boots in the stirrups showed that the rider had passed from this horse. The horse was in it's Sunday Best, feet polished and adorned with a red ribbon. The red ribbon representing honor for all who are no longer with us. As the audience stood, you could see tears streaming down faces. i\11 were aware of who the ceremony was hon,oring. Bobbie St.Jeor, the Show Me State Rodeo director of 11 years had tragically been taken in a traffic accident on July 2, 2004. Bobbie had served as Director for 11 of 12 rodeos MGRA had produced. At 67, Bobbie's tireless energy had lead the MGRA to what was one of their best rodeo's ever. When it came to MGRA, Bobbie expected the membership to abide by the bylaws and do their job. In her honor MGR.A selected Bobbie's longtime partner, Judy Holt as the 2004 Grand Marshal. Bobbie St.Jeor, Director The Ozarks Star Page- 15 October 1, 2004 Volume 1 Issue 10 Page- 16 October 1, 2004 MG - Show-Me-State Rodeo e. Dust ~e.tt\e.s.ee'' Photography by Chaz September 5, 2004 by Star writer Greg Steele } Kansas City ... Since October of 1976, the first Gay Rodeo in Reno, Nevada, 24 Gay Rodeo Associations have sprung up across the United States and Canada and comprise the International Gay Rodeo Association, IGRA. Gay Rodeo's are held through out the year with a National Final's to buckle and crown the season. Men and Women from across the US and Canada compete for points to have the honor of an invitation to the National Finals. Out of hundreds who compete, only the top 20 point winner's from each competition category will be invited. It's a rough ridden, steer bustin, serious event each year for these dedicated gay men and women who compete in rodeo competition. ,.__ ____________ ___, But "After '.fhe Dust Settles •... Legends Are Born & Champions Are Crowned" The Gay Rodeo has become an important part of our community. Those who organize and stage the events year after year work night and day to bring you the best show possible and the Missouri Gay Rodeo Association MGRA, showed there stuff in Kansas City this year with a grand rodeo, a hell of a good time and great entertainment. Steve Hammond Wild Oats Records recording artist. The Ozarks Star Page- 17 The 2004 season ends in Omaha with the Heartland Gay Rodeo Association, HGRA and the IGRA National Final's October 14-17, 2004 in Omaha Nebraska. This will be the grand finally to a big year for IGRA. Fan's from across the US, Canada and far away places will converge on Omaha. It's the big event of the year for contestants and rodeo October 1, 2004 follower's. The Rodeo Groupies come incampers, motor homes, limo's, buses and some just ride their broncos. They come to party hard , enjoy the entertainment and the thrill of the action. If you have never been to a IGRA rodeo, you've missed a good dose of our western heritage. So, saddle up guys and gals, get on out to see some real cowboys & cowgiris. Volume 1 Issue I 0 Ken Pool, Mr. Colorado Gay Rodeo Association, CGRA 2004 October 1, 2004 Top Left to Right Jack Truman-candidate Mr. '1GRA 2005,Judy Holt Grand Marshal 2004 Miss Mae- Miss MGRA 2004 & candidate for Tvliss IGRA 2005, Mandy Barbarell - Miss IGRA 2004 & Miss MGRA- 2003. Volume 1 Issue 10 Page 20 October 1, 2004 Town dbi by Randy Vineyard Introducing "T-T own Tidbits" by Star writer Randy Vineyard. Randy lives in Tulsa and will be covering the Star Scene in and around the T-Town area. Randy has lived in Tulsa since the age of two and wouldn't consider living anywhere else and loves Tulsa's GLBT community. Community Support & Loyalty! On Halloween I v.,-ill celebrate 29 years of entertaining. Along with me are, Anita Richards - 25 yrs, Courtney Farrell - 20 yrs, and Mr Robbie Walker 19 yrs. On my own wonderful journey I have made a life time of friends and have lost many to AIDS as have all of us. I have been very honored to hold 11 titles, two of which were the Oklahoma America and Oklahoma USo£A titles. I was also fortunate to represent you at 5 national competitions. During my career it has been a blessing to have performed over 3600 shows, 1000 of which were benefits. The last 8 years have not been easy, but there must be a reason from ONE greater than my myself. My heart revolves around tl1is community and it's fabulous people. You have in all reality, kept me alive. Entertaining you has given me life and a reason to keep going, you have smiled, laughed, and cried with me, and along the way enjoyed life. I thank you with all my heart and soul for sharing all these wonderful years of life with me. With the entertainment and benefit fall season upon us and the time we all get into that giving spirit. I want to address a problem I see here in our community. There are nearly 70,000 GLBT people in our area. If we all stood together and gave $10.00 a month we could raise $700,000.00 a year for our friends in need. We have hundreds of people within the Tulsa area who have problems paying for food, and medications due mainly to HIV/ AIDS related illnesses. HOPE, Tulsa Cares, St Jerome, RAIN, Our House Too, all have facilities and outreach programs to help. They are in constant need of volunteers and financial support. Many people rely on these places for survival.· · At the moment every GAY owned dub in Tulsa is doing something to help our community and keep it strong. We as a GLBT voice and strength need to stick together and support OUR businesses and those non-gay owned business who support us. We have 7 clubs in Tulsa that have been GAY for between 5 to 41 years. The names and o:-;vners have changed many times, but they are still GAY, and proud of it! .... continued n,-25 t l The Ozarks Star Page 21 HRC Endorses Nancy Farmer Missouri Democrat Running for US Senate in Missouri, from Human Rights Commission. A dedicated ally: Farmer became the first woman Missouri state treasurer in 2000, after having served eight years as a state representative. Prior to holding elective office, Farmer was executive director of a neighborhood housing and neighborhood nonprofit organization. Farmer supports the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, the Hate Crimes Prevention Act, and ilie Earlv Treatment for HIV Act. She firmly opp~ses efforts to write discrimination into the U.S. Constitution, such as the Federal Marriage Amendment. A word on her opponent: Christopher "Kit" Bond (R) has held this seat since 1987. He scored a 17% rating on the last HRC Congressional Scorecard. He opposes both the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and the Hate Crimes Prevention Act and has voted against both bills in ilie past. He supports the Federal Marriage Amendment, an attempt to write discrimination into the U.S. Constitution. The race: As a longtime incumbent, Bond has the upper hand in the race, but polls show that Farmer is closing the gap between them. Farmer has mounted a serious challenge and needs as much support as she can get in order to pull out a vict~rv. Visit: www.hrc.org/candidates October 1, 2004 Democratic hopefol!Jim Newberry on GAY MARRIAGE: "Business partnerships between partners who happen to be gay have always been legally recognized. Legal recognition of civil unions would be essentially the same thing. Marriage, on the other hand, is a religious, or moral concept for many of us. Its meaning therefore should be determined locally, rather than nationally." www.newberryforcongress.com MARY KA~ the kla st s? Thao kx:k to t,/ay Kay. You'I lin~ the- l0il!!Bt .on-trend color! co::tdltdad for you with eos,.-to~ tip&. Ask M& how 'fOU oon 113t the hott9$t loob of lfKi ·~·• . . .... J I ~ --- Cll1CJ (:I~ ~ in ~,-e. Joan Szymanski lnde~enl Bi!iotlty u.'!~I 417-673-1181 .-.n,.muylr:ay.com/llZ}'!D8Dlld1 Volume 1 Issue 10 Phone<: (4'17} 623-.. -007 Fax; (--4 .. 7) 623-"1'1159 en.a•~ c,nuiO!S!S40oopymax.QOm Advertisment Prints and Copies Binding Lamina.Ong Faxing Busin-a C&rd& The Ozarks Star Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the cochair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own \Vrite." Page 23 October 1, 2004 Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac October, 2004 Elect To Get Involved In response to the presidential-election debacle of 2000, in which both parties reported voting irregularities in a number of key states, a group of concerned Americans created a national, nonpartisan voting-rights project called Election Protection 2004. The general election is fast approaching, but there's still time for gay people to join in this volunteer effort to safeguard the foundation of our democracy - the right to vote for our representatives in government. I don't need to preach to lesbian and gay readers about the importance of voting - we go to the polls in much higher percentages than the American people as a whole. We understand all too well that whoever sits in the Oval Office contributes heavily to setting the climate for gay people in this country. And we know that by giving an enthusiastic stamp of approval to the Federal Marriage Amendment, our current president has officially sanctioned intolerance of lesbians and gay men. But we may need to be reminded that, for many Americans, voting is an endangered right. And we need to challenge the idea that discussing voting problems openly and trying to do something about them is just "sour grapes" over the 2000 election or an unwillingness to "get over" its results (which two of my colleagues in the gay media once accused me of). If you have any doubts about how vital it is to question the accuracy and fairness of our voting system, just rent the documentary _Unprecedented: The 2000 Presidential Election_, which outlines in a succinct 50 minutes the mistakes and abuses that led to widespread voter disenfranchisement in Florida four years ago. The likelihood that the 2004 election will be a close one increases the risk of civil-rights violations, especially in the swing states; indeed, there have already been warning signs of polling-place abuse. During the primary in Florida last month, for example, poll watchers reported that many AfricanAmerican voters were being turned away for not having identification, and without being informed that they could, by state law, simply sign an affidavit attesting to their identity and then proceed to vote. And that was just the primary - imagine how high the stakes will be for the actual presidential election. ~ Also, Florida has once again undertaken a purge of convicted ex-felons from its voter rolls, as it did in 2000, when it disenfranchised thousands of voters who had no criminal records at all. It's no accident that this multimillion-dollar effort, in a state headed by the president's brother, has targeted mostly African Americans, who tend to vote Democratic. Understandably, anxiety is running high among voring-rights activists, who worry in particular about voting equipment. In Ohio, one of the top battlegrouad states, ......... continued page -25 Volume 1 Issue I 0 Page 24 October l, 2004 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente October 2004 Keaton Surrenders to Annie Hall is off to see the wizards not of Oz, but of CBS. Oscar winner Diane Keaton has signed on to star in and executive produce a TV mm1e for the network based on Meg Wolitzer's 2000 novel, _Surrender, Dorothv . The story has nothing to do with tornados:witches, or glittering fantasy worlds, but with a vibrant 30-year-old Manhattanite named Sara and her gay male best who rent a summer place with friends. When Sara dies suddenly in an auto accident, the aftermath engulfs her circle of peers as well as her eccentric grieving mother, played by Keaton. Coming off the box-office success of _Something's Gotta Give_, the busy Keaton has three other projects currently in development: Jim Sheridan's _Da Vinci's Mother_, a crime caper called _Mad Monev_, and one untitled feature. Surrender is dt,{e to air in CBS's 2004-2005~eason. - A Dickens of a Series The new BBC _Doctor Who series undertaken by _Queer as Folk_ creator Russell T. Davies now has at least one other openly gay creative person involved: British actor Simon Callow. Callow, last seen in HBO's _Angds in America_ and perhaps most fondly remembered as the jolly heartattack victim in _Four Weddings and a Funeral_, will play Charles Dickens in the hugely popular, newly revamped time-travel series. This won't be the first time Callow has played the creator of _A Christmas Carol_ on screen - he took on the role in a 2001 TV adaptation of _Hans Christian Andersen: My Life as a Fairy Tale_. He'll be joining cast members Christopher Eccleston (_28 Days Later_) and pop singer Billie Piper for the series, which ,viii no doubt end up reaching these shores via BBC America. Stay tuned. _Transit_ Tackles AIDS During the last decade, while most media outlets retreated from their coverage of the global AIDS crisis, MTV remained boldly committed to sometimes controversial programming that addresses issues related to HIV and young people. Now, as part of their "Staying Alive" campaign, the music channel has teamed up with the Swedish International Development Corporation to produce a TV movie titled _Transit_. The fictional film ,·viii highlight the little-discussed nonfiction topic of Europe's illegal sex trade, a business that reaches well into the United States. It will include safer-sex and HIV prevention information and will be aimed at the network's youthful demographic. Still in its early stages and not yet cast, the film already has an air date of December 1, 2005 World AIDS Day. Soprano and X-Man Sign on the_Dot _Dot_, the latest feature from lesbian director Jamie Babbit (_But I'm a Cheerleader_), finally has a full cast and a now lead. Up-and-comer Camilla Belle (_The Patriot_, _Practical Magic_) has replaced Thora Birch, and some well-known names have joined in to tell the story of a popular middle-class girl whose family life is upended when a supposedly deaf orphan teenager moves in. Edie Falco of _Sopranos_ fame, Elisha Cuthbert (_The Girl Next Door_), Shawn Ashmore of _X-Men_, and _Saved!_ alum Martin Donovan will be one big dysfunctional family when the indie feature begins shooting next month in Austin, Texas. Expect a flurry of film-festival screenings before it hits art-house screens, probably late next year. _Romeo Sao Vicente never upended any middleclas$ girl's lives - he just W"Cnt shopping with them. The Ozarks Star Page 25 Lesbian Notions from page-23 punch-card ballots - made notorious in 2000 for their high margin of error will be used in 69 of 88 counties. One law professor told the _Cincinnati Enquirer_ that a close election in his state could spell an "election night meltdown." Around the country, touchscreen voting, which is being implemented in many areas for the first time and which leaves no paper trail, is also cause for trepidation. Touted by many congressional Republicans as the answer to all our voting problems, electronic ballots completely and conveniently - eliminate all possibility of recounts and put our most cherished right at the mercy of the corporations that manufacture the equipment and software. All of this suggests that Nov. 2, 2004, might be a pretty dark day for democracy. But the good news is that there are concrete things we can do now to try to aid the democratic process. Pirst, to ensure that your own vote counts, familiarize yourself in advance with your state's voting procedures and your own rights, which can be found on the website of your Secretary of State or your county's Bureau of Elections. Then expand your effort a little by committing to "Take a Friend to Vote," a project of the League of Women Voters, in which citizens pledge to bring a neighbor, friend, or relative to the polls. (For instructions, visit www.lwv.org.) But to make an even greater contribution, consider volunteering for Election Protection (www.electionprotection2004.org), which aims to train and deploy 25,000 citizens as poll watchers in battleground states. TracFone is providing phones and air time for poll workers to report abuses or to consult with civil-rights attorneys if problems arise. While lawyers and law students are particularly needed for this project, all concerned citizens are welcome to volunteer for tasks like handing out votingrights flyers in the days preceding the election. If you live in Michigan, New Mexico, Pennsylvania, or another swing state, or are able to travel to one of them for Election Day, the time you donate could have a big impact on the accuracy of the election - and on the future well-being of our democracy. October 1, 2004 T-Town tidbits from pg-20 The PlayMor - Syrs, Yellowbrick -9 yrs, The Star 12yrs, TNT's 19yrs, Renegades - 20yrs, ToolBox 22 years, and the Bamboo - 41 yrs. \Then you go out to play and party please keep all in mind, the GAY bars are very involved in giving back to the community, to make all our lives a little easier. I have also noticed a growing number of people who frown and look down on 'SHOWS' . If it were not for the entertainers: Live vocalists, Male Impersonators, Drag Queens and even the male dancers, then who would you call upon to raise money for all the different organizations that need help? There are only a handful of entertainers who will give their time, money, sweat and tears to raise funds. So when you walk into a 'SHOW' especially if it's a fund-raiser, find out what it is for before you bitch!- It may just be for someone you know! Currently we have several clubs that do things on a regular basis to help keep our local charities alive, tl1ey are: Bamboo - weekly Sunday lunches 2-6pm, with donations benefiting a different charity each month. Mavericks - since opening early this year, they have been hosts to a variety of events, including Paul Wiekel's - Children with AIDS / scholarship fund, and being the home of T.U.L.S.A. and the Driller Bears, both organizations giving to local and state organizations. The Playmor - Helga's Heart to Heart benefiting Our House Too, and May All be Fed benefiting the St. Jerome, food pantry. Renegades - Red Ribbon Revue hosted by Tabitha Taylor, giving to local charities each month. The STAR - with fund-raisers for different places throughout the year, and for 12 years being a community leader in giving to all the local GLBT charities. The GAY clubs really are working for YOU and don't forget the annual Kris Kohl Christmas Stocking Stuffer event, is coming up to help people, families, and children living with AIDS along with many other benefits shows and talented entertainers who are working hard to make someone's life a little better .. The Tulsa State Fair is in town, go h:ive a great time and finish the day at your favorite GAY club!! Till next time: PLAY HARD BUT PLAY SAFE!l! Volume 1 Issue 10 Page 26 October 1, 2004 Gay Travelers from page 7 Within a block of the Habana Inn resort you will find about 6 more gay bars catering to different tastes. A major grocery store is just one block away as are several other restaurants. A cab ride from the airport costs less than $10.00. The HABANA INN resort is located one block west of the intersection of Penn and Interstate I-44 and is extremely easy to find. Plus, there are a lot of sights to see in Oklahoma City. The Cowboy Hall of Fame has artifacts from the early cowboy days thru the television shows with lots of oil paintings, watercolors and bronzes. The Oklahoma City Memorial where the bombing took place a few years ago is a MUST to see. Art galleries and museums are plentiful. About 80 miles to the west is the Route 66 Higway Museum which is extremely interesting. You will never forget your wonderful experiences in Oklahoma City. Everyone is so friendly. Oklahoma City is indeed OK For more information contact Donald and Ray at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: www.hometown.aol.com/ gaytravelers. Steve Urie from page-5 They claim we have a "Gay Agenda" and use the term to excite hatred ... we need to look at that and have a tremendous laugh not at them but ourselves that ,ve would take that seriously. A "Gay Agenda" like we could get together and decide on what color to paint the walls, what drapes to buy or even where are we going to eat out tonight. Our civil rights are important and dear to me as to you but let's separate the issues. Don't get pulled into challenging their status with the Lord. Democrat. .. Republican ... Christian ... Non-Christian person of faith ... or just a person. Let's show our community we know the difference in basic right anQ wrong. For me, I now have a Bush and a Kerry sign in the yard and once again my neighbor laughs with me. Someone else may question my relationship with God but my Lord knows my name and that's what counts. Until next month ........ G?7wve FREE HIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711, Joplin, Mo 64803 Jn conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentiality. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. The Ozarks Star Page 27 Joplin's MCC Church Celebrates 7th Anniversary. Will Host Concerts by Greg Steele joplin,MO MCC Joplin located at 2902 E. 20th Street will celebrate their seventh anniversary on October 15th with a dinner, music and dancing at the Butcher Block. Steve T. Urie, Pastor has lead the church from a meager beginning to a thriving active force in the LGBT community of Joplin. The Ozarks Star congratulates Pastor Steve Urie and applauds his contributions, his tireless efforts in giving to the gay and lesbian people of this area and in his example of good citizenry. With his partner of 5 years Heath Ross, they have together given the Joplin area a sanctuary where all are welcome. With Steve's efforts, Joplin has become a major stop for Christian performers on tour. Spiritual recording artists abound and many have discovered Joplin's LGBT community. Concert tour's travel the U.S. bringing their eclectic styles of music to the gay /lesbian and straight audiences. Spirit of Christ MCC of Joplin has hosted many entertaining artists over their seven years of serving Joplin's LGBT community and will be hosting the dynamic Marsha Steven on October 2, at 6pm. This will be Marsha's sixth appearance in Joplin. On November 6th Paula Jo David brings her exciting performance to the stage at 6pm. In the past year MCC and River of Life Church in Pittsburg, KS have booked other notables such as October 1, 2004 Shawn Thomas, Terry Lee Ousley and Sam Sampson. Charlie Smith a frequent performer in Joplin and Branson can be heard on most Sunday's at MCC.The concerts are free to the public and appreciation offering are accepted. If you would like to congratulate Steve or give an offering to the church the mailing address is: PO Box 4711 Joplin, MO 64804. Phone 417-206-6179 Web: www.mccjoplin.com Martha's Vine~ard 219 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest 11issouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www .marthascomplex.com Volume 1 Issue 10 Page 28 October 1, 2004 Scopes by Jack Fertig October 2004 ""Talk filth, Cancer!" Jupiter, the planet of opportunities, is guincunx gueer, erratic Uranus, offering brilliant chances if you're willing to make adjustments through weird surprises. The bigger the risk you take, the better it should ,vork out for you. ARIES (1farch 21 to April 20): Opportunities at work can bring you into new political conflicts and force you to re-evaluate long-term goals. Keep an open mind on both fronts. The change of plans will do you good. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): Creative collaboration opens up tremendous professional opportunities but you have to make some adjustments, perhaps some sacrifices, if this dream is to come true. Be determined in your dream, not obstinate in your rut. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Make connections with the old country. Your etlinic heritage yields amazing insights. Reviewing childhood religious guestions and discussing old spiritual conflicts 'With your parents will also prove liberating - in the long run, if not immediately. CANCER 0une 22 to July 22): There's a time and a place for everything, so make the time and space to talk pure filth and say the most shocking and horrible things however morbid or politically incorrect - that are on your mind. The purge will prove empowering. LEO 0uly 23 to August 22): OK, control gueen! Let go of the purse strings just a little, and trust your partner in financial dealings. You're not going to be happy with the process, but the outcome should be satisfying. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): Confusion and surprises at work are sure to work in your favor, as long as you're not afraid to stand up for yourself. Be dear about what you want and willing to give ground on small things to get ahead. LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): You're on an artistic jag that knows no limits. Whatever you do now ,;vil! need revision later, but don't hold back! Your craziest dreams and intuitions will inspire great things. Go out on a limb, and, if it breaks, spread your wings and fly! SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Old ghosts and demons from your childhood can be tamed and put to productive use in attaining your long-term goals. The more you're willing to shake up your past, the more you can use it to help build your future. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Your motor-mouth turns to surprising adv.intage, as knowledge you weren't aware you had helps propel your career. Exercise your "right brain;' delving into the artistic or mystical to help the process along. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): Opportunities to travel or continue your education will have hidden expenses, but the surprising benefits could be well worth it. Consider all offers carefully. Any such adventure can change your entire world! AQUARIUS Oanuary 20 to February 18): You're suddenly too sexy for anyone's good! Offers and innovations you'd normally never consider... well, "normally" is just out the window. Your enthusiasm for novelty could go overboard. Remember, there's a time and a place for everything! PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Take a honeymoon with the one you love or a getaway with a very trusted friend. You need time and space away from reality to get real, and you can't do it alone. Building intimacy (sexual or otherwise) is essential now. Jack Fertig has been working as a professional astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Nettvorking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864-8302, through his wehsir,4, b,,p;L m~ om Volume 1 Issue 10 Page 29 "Merci Docteur Rey" Staring Dianne Wiest and introducing Stanislas Merhar. Directed by Andrew Litvack. VlWVl.mercidocteurrey.com/ This irrepressibly French comedy stars mournful-faced Stanislas Merhar as a young man struggling with his homosexuality as well as with an overbearing opera diva mother (played to the histrionic hilt and beyond by Dianne Weist). \Vhen Thomas witnesses a murder, he goes on a search for the killer, falling into an unlikely friendship with the supremely neurotic Penelope Qane Birk.in), an actress who has dubbed so many Vanessa Redgrave films, she's come to think of herself as a literal extension of Redgrave. (Redgrave, in fact, makes an appearance in one of the movie's juiciest scenes, and inadvertently insults the poor woman by exclaiming "How could they give me such a tacky French voice?") "Magnifique! One of the most delicious surprises of the fall movie season. A prescription for hilarious, off the wall, witty mayhem." -Bill Diehl / ABC Radio Network October 1, 2004 Quotable Quotes "You have to look at what Bush does, not what he says. Talk is cheap. He expresses empathy for military families and then cuts their benefits. He names a proposal the 'Clear Skies Initiative' that pollutes the planet. He says he'll be a uniter and then drives us apart. He steals the slogan 'No Child Left Behind' and then breaks his promise to fund his reforms. Truly, I stand here flabbergasted at what is going on in today's world. Never in my life have I witnessed a president and an administration that is so out of step with the needs of the country, so threatening to our future and so abusive in its use of power." - Barbra Streisand receiving the Human Rights Campaign's Humanitarian Award, March 6. Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . 10 blocks North of Downtown Joplin, MO 4bd, 4bth, formal dinning, large kitchen. library/ office, full base~ent, zoned heat/ air., 3200 Sq. Ft., beautifully restored, quiet residential Roanoke adjacent. Priced under $150,000. $$Price Reduced$$ Call Vicki at Charles Burt Realtors 417-434c.0077 or 800-782-7822. The Ozarks Star On,-Line. Check out our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarksstar.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Advertising Representative's Part Time: For Kansas City, Springfield, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Arkansas, Kansas and Joplin. Commission based compensation. Work in the LGBTS business community. Mail qualifications to: _Ozarks Star 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804. Bed & Breakfast: Ever dreamed of owning your own B&B? Beautiful 4 bed 4 bath 3200sqft fully furnished in Joplin, MO For Sale. Call Vicki Bronson at Charles Burt Realtors 417-434-0077 Joplin MO64804 800-782-7822 417-434-0077 'Tbe Ozarks Star Page 31 October I, 2004 Four States Community Directory -Bars- Nightclubs- -Organizations- Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Ron's Place- - - 523 \V. Poplar- - - - - 479-442-3052 Studio 716- -716 W. Sycamore- - 479-571-1300 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Burnzee's- -2301 Towson Ave #C- --479-494-7300 Kinkeads- -10041/2 Garrison Ave- - - - -479-783-9988 Chm 1022 - -1022 Dodson Ave. - - - - - -479-782-1845 Missouri, Joplin (417) Ree's-• - - 716 S. Main - - - --417-627-9035 Missouri, Kansas City (816) Bell Star's - - -1321 Grand Ave- - - -816-421-1288 i\fissie B's- - - -805 \Y/. 39th St- - -816-561-0625 Sidestreet Bar - - - -413 E. 3rd- - - - 816-531-1775 Sidekicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- - 816- 931-1430 Buddies - - - - - - - 3715 Main St - - -816-561-2600 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- - - - - --417-831-4700 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive - - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar- 504 E. Commercial- - - - • -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - - -417-864-0036 Rumors - - -1109 E. Commercial- - -417-873-2225 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) Hi-Lo Club 1221 NW 50th- - -405-843-1722 Finish Line -2200 N\V 39th E;qJwy- - 405-525-0730 Chm Rox- - -3535 NW 39th Expwy -405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- 3535 NW 39th- -405-947-2351 BoomBoom Room- 2807 NW 36th St- - -405-601-7200 Oklahoma, Tuba (918) Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. Pine - - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick-• 822 S. Sheridan - 918-835-3301 Heads & Tails- 7944 E. 21st - - - 918-660-7878 Club Majestic- 124 N. Boston -918-584-9494 New Age Renegades- -1649 S. Main - -918-585-3405 Play-Mor-Club- - 1737 S. Memorial - -918-838-9792 Silver Star Saloon- -1565 S. Sheridan-918-834-4234 TNT's- - 2114 S. Memorial- - - -- - -918-660-0856 Tool Box- - -1338 E. 3rd- - - - - - - 918-584-1308 Yellow Brick Road- - 2630 E. 15th - - -918-293-0304 -LodgingMiuouri, Joplin (417) Faces Guesthowe B&B - - - - - - -417-621-9915 Fairfield Inn by Marriott- - - - - 417-624-7800 Missouri, Ava Catus Canyon Campground - - - 417-683-9199 Missouri, Lampe KOKOMO Campground· - - - - 417-779-5084 Arkansas, Eureka Springs MCC Living Spring- - - - - - - - - -870-253-9337 Arkansas, Avoca Natural State Naturists- - - - - -- - - - -479-451-8066 Kansas, Pittsburg ( 620) River of Life - 1709 N Walnut - - - - - - 11AM PSU-QSA .... 1701 S. Broadway ... 620-231-0938 Missouri, Joplin (417) MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th, - · - - -6PM UCCFF--204 N. Jackson Ave, - - - - - - 10:30Alvf Aids Project Ozarks- 513 Kentucky- - 417-624-5788 Missouri, Springfield (417) Rainbow Christian Ch-837 \Y/. Madison-417-866-6206 Unitarian Universalist Church - - - - - - 417-833-2723 APO- - - - - 1901 E. Bennett, suite D- 417-881-1900 ShowMe MO Pride - - - - - - - - 417-864-4459 GLO Community Ctr- 518 E. Commerical-869-3978 PFLAG-Springfield- - - - - - - - - - - -417-889-1059 Oklahoma, McAlester McPride- -POBox 1565, McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) MCC United- -1623 N. Maplewood- -918-838-1715 -Business Services- Missouri, Joplin (417) Body Swim Massage Therapy- - - - - - 417-825-5800 Charles Burt Realtors-Vicki Bronson-417-434 0077 RE/MAX - - - - - -Cathe Letts- 417-483-5313 Office Max- -440 Rangeline Rd- - - - -417-623-1007 The Lions Den - - - -Austin Letts - - - 417-623-87.67 Joan Szymanski- Beauty Consultant- - 417-673-1181 Night Things Boutique-719 MainSt- 417-659-9913 Missouri, Springfield (417) Prii!cilla's - - • -1918 S. Glenstone - • 417-881-84-44 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Century21 · ·4301 NW 63rd #100 - - 405- 840-2106 Hollywood Hotel- 3535 NW 39th Ex-405-947-2351 ,..,_ Habana Inn - 2200 NW 39th Exp- 405-528-2221 Priscilla's- 615 E. Memorial- - - - - - - 405-755-8600 Oklahoma, Talsa Kelly Kirby,CPA-4815 S Harvard- - -918-747-5466 Underguy.com - - -825 E. 3rd - - - -877-7-BOXERS Priscilla's - - • - - 7925 E. 41st - - . - 918-627-4884 Priscilla's - · - · 5634 W. Skelly· - - • • 918-«6-6336 Priscilla's· - - -11344 E. 11th· - • • - -918-438--4224 Priscilla's• - • • 2333 E. 71st- - - • - - -918-499-1661 Volume 1 Issue 10 32 October 1, 2004 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] The Ozark Star Magazine, October 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 10 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Ozarks Star’s first issue began in August of 2004. Before this Issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) then follows The Star (2005) and The Metro Star (2008) This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource October 1, 2004 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource C.D. Ward Greg Steele Randy Vineyard Steve T. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document MONTHLY MAGAZINE INSIDE THIS MONTH Athletic Model Guild Release FREE ... -&- The Eyes ofTammy Faye Review page- 8 "Heterophobia ?" Heterophobia popped into my mind the other day after a conversation with someone who had been offended by actions of a heterosexual couple in a predominantly gay estabUshment. I could not recall hearing the word before and decided to consult the old Random House Webster's dictionary. Guess what, it's not in the 1991 edition! I suppose I should buy a newer release with all the new strange words floating around these days. The word Homophobia is listed, Homo, Hetero, Phobia, and Phobic are all listed. The defmition given for Phobia is: "A persistent, irrational fear of a specific object, activity or situation that leads to a compelling desire to (JVoid it. " Now, we all know what Homophobic means. Most of us have experienced some form of Homophobic attitude in our lifetime. I think I would be safe in saying that Jerry Falwell is homophobic, not that I'm judging Jerry's personal convictions, but he has been quoted many times speaking out against the Gay/Lesbian community. So, would this gay person I had a conversation with, be considered "Heterophobic"? He seemed to indicate that he had a compelling desire to avoid the activity. continued next page The Ozarks Star Page3 editor-continuedfi-om page 2 I recall a situation on Interstate 44 east of · Oklahoma City. I was driving home from Lake Eufaula with the crnise control set on 70, in front of me was car swerving across the yellow line, slowing down, speeding up, just driving very danger- . ously. I hesitated to pass, in fear of gettmg hit, but finally took the chance. I was dismayed at what was going on in that automobile. A man was driving with the seat back way back and a woman was sitting on his lap, facing him, gyrating up and down! Baby, I almost ran off the road and I got the hell out of there. Sex on the highway, whow! I should have called the Hyway Patrol, but didn't. I had a compelling desire to avoid the activity and the situation. Did I have a Heterophobic moment? Many heterosexuals find gay bars intri ouing and homosexuals frequent strai;ht bars as well. The question is, if gay people are expected not to be too obvious in a straight club, should we expect the same from straight people in gay clubs? More important is how we as humans conduct ourselves in all public places. It is possible to enjoy nightclubing, ha:e . fun, meet new people without engagmg m lewd acts. Beware, you may develope a Privacyphobia! Can vou imagine a world with no phobia's? A future world with no gay bars and no straight bars? Just places for everyone to enjoy and be yourself without offending others. Perhaps we should all begin now to prepare ourselves for the future. September 1, 2004 Georgia eb firm optimizes gay shopping Website Southern Web Gro11p improves visibility of Alabama-based HighQueen.com ATLANTA (PRWEB) July 25, 2004 - Atlanta-based Southern Web Group is pleased to announce the relau:1ch of . www.highqueen.com, a Website featunng gifts for gay men and lesbians. After its initial launch in April 2004, Terry Woodard and his partner Rick decided to revamp the marketing strategy t~ward natural search engine growth. With ten years of retail experience, the couple launched Hioh Queen because of the unique and un~et demand for gay gifts and gay accessories. "Southern Web Group is pleased to relaunch the High Queen Website. The_Website_will surely become a leading provider of gifts for gay weddings, gay designers and t~ose seeking gifts for their gay and le~bian friends." said Drew Bartot,i, president of the Atlanta-based Web desiglffirm. Founded in 1999, Southern Web Group is a leader in Atlanta's Web design industry and can be found on the Web at www.southemwebgroup.com. With a growing clientele across the country, the Atlanta Web design firm is pleased to welcome the High Queen to its list of clients that already includes the Sout~e~ste_m . Flower Show, the American Civil L1bertles Union the Atlanta Lesbian Cancer Initiative and th~ Atlanta Executive Network. Volume l Issue 9 September 1, 2004 Dakota Daniels Hunter Benefit Shiff en decker Park Press Release Aug. 23, 2004 Joplin, MO A benefit for Dakota will be held at Shiffendecker Park in Joplin on October 9, 2004 from 12:00 Noon to 6PM. All proceeds to benefit her son Cota. Come and enjoy the Live Entertainment. Everyone is welcome. For more information contact Jake Lee Bravado Hunter or Pam at (417) 438-9746 The Ozarkd Star Page 5 September 1, 2004 August 12, 2004 1000's of Marriages Invalid? This morning I waited to hear on CNN about the California Supreme Court's decision concerning same-sex marriages performed in San Francisco. You could see the cameras and media people edging their way into the small crowd, Molly McKay, Associate Executive Director of Equality California, made her wav through pages of legalese as we ;11 held our breath. Then ,,·e heard the words said aloud for the first time: "These marriages are invalidated." You can have a parking ticket validated and that is simply a piece of paper. They have decided that as human beings, loving people, and people of faith that we do not have the same worth as a parking ticket. Put your relationship, your life, your friendships on the line and let someone proclaim that you are invalidated. Can you imagine the tears, disbelief, the overwhelming disappointment and yes even anger that must have been felt as each person comprehended what was just read to them. As those words were read aloud and echoed through the air I felt very much as if I had just been violated and I wasn't even there. But here's what I know and hope that you know. Legislation is only words and . until the people truly embrace it. .. even if it had passed the legislature and had been successfully brought before their State Supreme Court it would have truly been just that, "only words." The issue here is one of rights and the State Governments around the country, the amendments being passed, and the scare influence of the pious religious groups in this country are setting a dangerous precedent. They are legalizing discrimination. But here's what I know and hope that you know ... as stated by Metropolitan Community Church pastor from San Francisco, "They can take away our rights, they can try and make us second class citizens-but no one can trulv invalidate us. \X!e know that our loves, our, lives, our stories, our bodies are not just valid, but also good, beautiful, and sacred. My heart goes out to every couple who was married-. Knmv this: Your love vour .) commitment and your relationship are validated by• the God of manv names and bv the community that surrounds y~u. · · No one can take away the joy we felt in those fair days of February. So let us remember Alice Walker's vmrds: "Resistance is the secret of joy." We keep lovingly resisting all that is unjust and unequal. In this country there ha,;-e been manv cries heard round the world, "Remember the Al~mo," "Remember Pearl Harbor," "Remember 9/11" and remember "they can only do to us ,,;-hat we allow them to." If you think anything of yourself as a person, if you think anything of your relationship, if you think anything of the rights being stripped away from you then stay in the struggle and remember why! Because you count! Because you are validated'. Remember that in the near future we can stand to change this country ... there is more to it than what we are den;ed but it is a great part of it to ali of us. U ntt·1. .,,.-._i. ext t',1 o m· h...... . . . 0:c0d',]/W_ l.J{} Volume 1 Issue 9 MEN'S UNDEBWEAH STOl~E .NOW OPEN! 825 E 3111) ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL: 877-7-BOXERS FOH INFO! MON-T UNDERWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE l;IO"IT-E~f B,~DS, OD SOFTWEAR + JOCKO + LUC LA ROCHE + MUNDO UNICO + J1(4,F. BBIZ Ozarks Star Page 7 Photo by: Ray Williams September I, 2004 OUT ON VAl.ATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Now IS THE TIME TO GO TO COLORADO If you have never been to Colorado NOW is the time to go. The travel business is really off this year in Colorado and bargains are everywhere. In the past Colorado was rated the most homophobic State in the Union and they have lost millions of dollars due to the stupidity of their resident's voting record on gay rights in the past Convention business has dropped considerably as well as other business activities. Between the general economic woes of the country and the fires that Colorado had a couple of years ago, they are really handing out the bargains for travelers. We first drove to Colorado Springs and the weather was beautiful. There are so many sights to see in the Colorado Springs area and most all of them are free. The Garden of the Gods, Manitou Springs, The Cliff Dwellings, Pike's Peak are but just a few of the interesting sights to see there. One day we drove to Cripple Creek, the old mining town which is now "Casino City" with an over abundance of casinos in the town. Luckily for us the slot machines were paying off pretty well. On the way back down to Colorado Springs we got to see a herd of mountain goats that had come down and was mixing with the autos on the highway. A hail storm about 20 minutes before we got to that point had left the area full of large hail everywhere. Colorado Springs is the most homophobic part of Colorado Springs however you would never know it by the gay and lesbian community there. On Sunday, July 18th they had their PRIDEFEST 2004 and it was extremely well attended. It was held right downtown in the city park square. The Rev. Elder Troy Perry, founder of the Metropolitan Community Church was the featured guest speaker. That was followed by a parade and then a rally, live entertainment, local groups, bands and singers. They had a "kid's fun zone" for gay and lesbian parents. Vendors included area banks, lending institutions, political tents (wonder why the Republican's didn't have a tent there?) as well as Internet companies, phone companies. etc. The businesses in Colorado KNOW to cater to the gay and lesbian communities! It was one of the finest Pridefests that we have ever attended. From Colorado Springs we drove up to the Mountains and ended our day at Vail, the ski capitol of Colorado. Normally rates for accommodations in Vail are extremely high ranging from around$ l 50.00 and up. However due to "no business" most all of the accommodations bad dropped their rates drasticaliy. We stayed at a Lodge for under $50.00 per night and that included breakfast every morning. A huge swimming pool, Jacuzzi and picnic tables made for a perfect stay. There were two supermarkets within a continued page - 22 Page 8 September 1, 2004 The Ozarks Star --:------:---:---:---:---:-!iii -_;:q-_,--iffii-ef;---------=-e-=n--=c-=-o--u=-n:;::-:te--r--w:-:-::-:;it:;:h-J:;-:i-:::m::--;:;B:-::a7k7k--=e-=r--=a:-:n:-:d;---::-,_...::...:_===- Volume 1 Issue 9 THE EYES OF TAMMY FAYE - A Film by Fenton Bailey and Randy Barbato Roger Ebert and Richard Roeper stated that "You might be suprised how much you like Tammy Faye Baker!" I could not agree more. She is the kindest person with a heart of gold. Tammy embraced the Gay Community when others turned their backs. Buy this film and you will love her! Laugh and cry with her. "Witness the incredible real-life story of the spectacular rise, fall and resurrection of the "Queen of the Eyelashes." Many times halarious and oftentimes tragic, it is an amazing tale of one of the most adored and reviled women of our time.Narrated by RuPaul Charles, this award-winning film chronicles Tammy Fayes's personal journey from the geniune love-at-first-sight ma king of the most successful television ministry to being crucified in the court of public opinion. Extensive, revealing interviews by those on the inside will both shock and endear. Delve deep into the notso- Christian scandals and milliion dollar lies that devastated the empire and destroyed family. And be enlightened with Tammy Faye's unique personal philosophies that helped her carry on ... Because in spite of it all, Tammy Faye never lost hope in two things - extra thick mascary and Jesus Christ." Quotable Quotes "[Contrary to George W Bush's statement,] it is simply a fact that marriage is 'an evolving paradigm.' For the first millennium after Christ, Christianity didn't even recognize marriage as a sacrament. It was regarded as a purely secular matter of property ownership. Marriage also once meant the ownership of women by men. It was once permanent, and no divorce was possible. It was once restricted to couples of the same race. The notion that it has never changed is simply untrue. The only relevant question is whether the current change [opening marriage to same-sex couples] is a good one. The president doesn't answer that question. He simply asserts it, based on nothing but bad history and ignorance." Gav writer Andrew Sullivan, a former Bush supporter, wricing at CBSNews.com,July 13. September I, 2004 Volume 1 Issue 9 Page 10 September 1, 2004 Kerry /Edwards Event in Joplin Press Release Aug. 23, 2004 Joplin, MO Jesse DeGonia will be hosting an event on Friday September 10th at 6pm to build support for the democratic candidates running for office in Missouri. "We must win the state of Missouri which is THE MOST IMPORTANT SWING STATE!!!! in the November election. I have rented the UCCFF building at 204 N. Jackson, on the corner of N. Jackson and "C" Street." Mr. DeGonia conveyed to The Ozarks Star. Jim Newberry, a US Congressional Candidate who is challenging Roy Blunt, will be speaking along with other candidate's to be announced. "The official Democratic Campaign Video will be shown, refreshments v,,-:ill be served and free campaign material vvill be available. The public is invited." said DeGonia. Advertisement Springfield's OZ bar to Host APO Benefit. Springfield, MO by Star writer Greg Steele .. "Somewhere Over The Rainbow" a benefit fund-raiser for Aids Project of the Ozarks will be hosted by the OZ bar in Springfield on Friday, September 24th from 5pm to 8pm. The OZ is located at 504 East Commercial. All you can eat Spaghetti and Meatball dinner will be served for $5.00. There will be contests, games, silent auction, raffle, live entertainment, male dancers and free Oral HIV testing from 9PM to 1 :30PM. Greg Hill, Co-Owner of the club, expects a huge turnout and invites the entire GLBT community to come out and support this worthy event. Proceeds to benefit APO. Quotable Quotes cactus Canyon Campground And Resort "Their struggle is a human rights issue to me. I have suffered myself from racism and se~ism all my life. I know what it feels like to be an outsider. I understand what position gays have been put in. Many of my friends were and are gay. Many people I tune into turn out to be gay, so on a spiritual level, I'm in love with all my gay friends." - Yoko Ono to the L.A. gay newspaper Fab!,July 16. For Men In The Ozarks The Lar9e1,t Men's C..amp9round in the U'51' Full RV Hookup's, Tent Sites, Cabins, Lodge Rooms, Hot Tub/ sauna, Pool, Cafe, Theme Weekends, Convenience Store, Clothing Optional. Call 417-683-9199 or visit our website www.cactuscanyoncampground.com The Ozarks Star Chris Greninge An Inspiration To Our Community. by Star Writer Greg Steele Joplin, .Missouri Another example of talent and community spirit gone unrecognized in the Four States Region. Chris Greninge, a Joplin business man and native of Southwest Missouri, grew up in Saginaw, Missouri and graduated from Diamond High School, class of 1983. He attended Crowder College, Pittsburg State and graduated MSSU in 1990. Chris and his partner of 14 years,Jeff Daws reside in Joplin and have restored a beautiful old Victorian. Chris loves antiques and has an awesome collection. Old musical instruments and tea pots are his favorites. Jeff is a professional photographer and has worked with Olan Mills Photography for the past 7 years. A talented musician, Chris began playing the piano at age 3. Played 2nd violin with the September 1, 2004 Southeast Kansas Symphony and was the organist for First Christian Church of Joplin. Other than his full-time job as a managing partner of Spain Grinding Service, Chris volunteers his talent as pianist, organist, Yocalist and directs a small orchestra at St Pauls UMC. Then on Sunday evening he volunteers as pianist and organist at Spirit of Christ I\ICC Joplin and it doesn't stop here people! Chris has long aspired to form a Gay Men's Choral group and or a LGBT community orchestra. He feels, as we at "The Ozarks Star" do, there are many untapped talents out there in our small section of this country. "If we could draw them out of the closet, get people excited, just in South\vest Missouri alone, we could have a major entertainment group. Getting folks together with a common cause is very foreign to us because of the negative impression some have of our LGBT community. People seem to think they are safer in the closet, and go out of to\vn for social activities or just move away. An all Gay /Lesbian talented entertainment entity would certainly blow their skirts up in Joplin, that's for sure!" Chris said with his eye's spatk!ing. "The Ozarks Star" recognizes and applauds Chris Greninge for his talent, his giving nature and most important, his sense of community and volunteer spirit. Anyone interested in working with Chris on this project, may contact him at: 417-782-7985. Volume 1 Issue 9 Page 12 September 1, 2004 Falwell Sue's.Fallwell Internet Site. Source: PlanetOut News A11g11st 10, 2004 ;\ federal judge ruled Tuesday that a gay activist must change the name of a \'v'eb site criticizing the Rev. Jerry Palwell, an anti-gay minister who at one time blamed 9/11 on GLBT Americans. .B. District Judge Claude Hilton ruled that the Web site, fallwell.com, was too similar to Falwell's own name, which the minister has trademarked. Fallwell.com reads in part, "The Reverend Jerry Palwell is completely wrong when he says that gay and lesbian people are sinning and can change." Lamparello also charges falwell of breaking one of the Ten Commandments by bearing false witness against gays and lesbians. L:1st year, Falwell threatened to sue an ll!inois man who set up Web sites called ierryfalweli.com and jerryfallwell.com. That activist, Gary Cohn, created his sites after Falwell stated that gays and lesbians were part of 1be re;1sun the Sept. 11, 2001 terrorist :1ttacks occurred. Homophobic fundamentalists should take note of the words of the scripture, which they claim to so carefully follow ... "Who are you to judge another?" (James 4:12b) Cathe Letts is alway• available to help you with your real e,itate t rausactions! V;,'hetht?r you are bu · 1g or .setrn1g property l can }'Out! Serving Joplin, \Vebb Ciry, Carl .lunt:cion & (.'..!irth.age in MiS'ilmri. Call Today For HELP! 41 'r-4iU-5:US or 649-7076 Ca the .Lett•• ARR, GR I RE/MAX N-• Directio.n www.catbeletts.co111 The Ozarks Star Page 13 September I, 2004 Volume l Issue 9 2,000 Athletic Model Guild "Session Videos" from the 1980s Available Athletic l'lodel Guild Release: C-04-002 El Cerrito, California - Certainly the second and third most common fantasies among viewers of physique photography are how they would direct the movements of the models and the answer to the question: What really happens at a physique photo shoot? Athletic Model Guild has announced the availability of nearly two thousand video tapes, called "Session Videos" by AMG owner Dennis Bell, which will answer that question. "These are tapes made during photo sessions by Bob Mizer at AMG between 1980 and 1992," Bell said, "and they show exactly what happened in the studio from the rime the model got there and began taking off his clothes, until the session v.ras over and he started getting dressed again. Bob would set the video camera on a rripod, and follow the model with it while he shot his photos. This "behind-the-scenes" footage includes Mizer himself directing the models, models bickering with each other or talking back to Bob, and the audio which captures the comments, noises, porn video, dogs barking and phones ringing offset. But of course" Bell adds, " they also feature up to 3 hours of non-stop nude wrestling, spanking, jacking off, and Anal Erotica (A&E); an exclusive type of photography th:it m:ide AMG's fortune in the 1980s. The first successful Video Cassette Recorder (VCR) for the home was the 1/2 inch Betamax, introduced by Sony in 1975. "Bob was really at the forefront of technology," said Bell. "He was recording his models less than five years after the first versions of home videotape recorders hit the market. Today, in 2004, we're taking those original Betamax tapes, just as they came from his camera, but m:i.king high quality copies on VHS (the format which be:i.t out Betamax as the preferred home use videotape format)." AMG "Session Videos " will be available in one-, two- and three-hour tapes, depending on what Mizer recorded originally. "We're dubbing these original Betamax tapes using professional quality fourhead Betamax editing and duplication equipment to standard VHS tapes in the Standard Play (SP- highest quality) mode." Bell said he hoped to be able to release the Session Videos series on DVD within two or three years. However, plans are presently underway to release "Session Videos Compilations" on DVD. More information on that is expected within the next sixty days. "For now," Bell said, "we are involved in making a complete inventory of the tapes rmd checking their quality. That's nearly 3,500 hours of tape." Even · working forty hours a week, every week, it would take nearly 18 months to complete the task. "But as I looked at these tapes, I thought the material was so remarkable, so classic and erotic, it would be great to make them av:iilable right now to classic physique lovers :ind long time fans of i\ AMC. That's why I decided to make copies T available on a customized basis." t Bell rhapsodized about the assets of many of the models he's "discovered" on the tapes. There are the "men's men," said Bell. "Hairy, muscular, very macho. Tico Patterson, Joseph Hardee and Steve Cougar epitomize :i cross between the 80s clone and a convict." However, Mizer also photographed wh:it might be called "t:winks" today. "There are some remarkable session videos of Joseph Phile, Willie Amstel and Mike Reuter, who also went on to do a lot of work for the Old Reliable studio." l'f\ Some models are in one or two tapes, others appear in many more. Dean .'\dams, for example, appears in ninety-four videos. "He was nicknamed 'Kermit'," Bel! said, "because he was always around the pool at the AMG studio. And whenever Bob needed a second person to be in a wrestling or spanking shot - there would be Kermit, ready to jump into the action. Bob actually received m:iil from customers asking him to 'give Kermit a rest.' But that was rare. Most of the guys \Vim appear in multiple videos were outstanding in appearance: facial, muscular development or endowment or all three. Armando Gonzales, for instance, who will be the cover for an upcoming AMC release on DVD of 'Best Size #35' was in forty four different sessions. T. J. Swan was a favorite black model, noted for his great endowment. Eddie Perez was a popular model who appeared in scores of videos and wrestled a lot." Photographs of these models and many more can be seen :it the AMG web site. (ht.tp;.LL .llll<l'..l!I.LU1W.1;.UJ..1.l'..Ll.!J.J.J.J~w.1JL..1..1.1.U.L44LL) Ordering information is there as well. Information is also available from Bell or his staff at 1-800-AMGDIRECT (1-800-264-3473), from 9am-5pm (Pacific Time). Email ales@Athletici Iodel ,ujld.com Bell pointed out the current prices are less than half of what Mizer charged for the tapes in the 1980s. For interviews, features, etc contact: ~ or : Arh!e:ic Model Guild, LLC 3020 E: Cerrito Plaza, S..:.:te 114 El Cerriro, CA 94530 Volume I Issue 9 Page 16 September 1, 2004 dbi by Randy Vineyard Introducing "T-Town Tidbits" by Star \vriter Randy Vineyard, An Ozarks Star exclusive. Randy lives in Tulsa and · will be covering the Star Scene in and around the T-Tuwn area. Randy has lived in Tulsa since the age of two and wouldn't consider living anywhere else and loves the Tulsa GLBT scene. So stay tuned for some exciting Tidbits from T-Town. Randy is also The Ozarks Star advertising contact for Tulsa. @. has wonderful gay dubs and nightlife. Por this months column I'll give you a brief look at each club. We'll begin in alphabetical order so as to not ruffle any feathers. The BamBoo - A great place to meet friends and enjoy everyone, gay/ straight, and the don't knows, it's a mixed crowd, for young to older. It has a fabulous enclosed outside patio divided into 3 separate party areas, one covered spacious concrete expansion with an open sun deck, the other a huge sand filled area, don't forget ,tanning is must on South Beach. The inside atmosphere is comfortable and friendly, music is by personal selection. Pool, darts, and video games are a,·ailable, as well as a dance floor. The club serves a wonderful lunch every Sunday to anyone who walks through the door, and has dancers from time to time. It is Oklahoma's oldest gay bar dating from the late SO's. Club Majestic - Tulsa's newest high energy dance club. Located in the Entertainment district of Tulsa's Downtown Area. A split level building, with bars on both levels. A large dance floor and seating area along with a lounge spot fill the lower floor. pstairs, the Dj is available for reguests and a seating and game area are available. This club offers a great light show and wonderful high energy dance music and video. The crowd fa younger and mixed but everyone plays well together. Club Maverick Tulsa's only Country, Leather, Levi, Bear Bar. It is the home of Tulsa's Leather Community. The club offers a large dance floor, the DJ is available for reguests, along with Karaoke and great music from the past and present, with video. Pool, darts and video games and a friendly atmosphere, this spacious club with plenty of seating, is sure to suit the country in all of us. For the slightly more mature GLBT it is a great place to party. • End Up Club -Tuh,a's Obl'tnale dance revue venue. The club is open daily with dancers and fun all the time. A nice relaxing atmosphere. A great center stage for the guys to dance, · with ample seating for your personal enjoyment. The dancers arc mostly young men with good attitudes and high energy. Heads or Tails A C?mfo:rtable club, catering to the ladies who love to play dll.rts and pool. continued page-21 The Ozarks Star Page 17 HRC Endorses Nancy Farmer Missouri Democrat Running for US Senate in Missouri, from Human Rights Commission. A dedicated ally: Farmer became the first woman Missouri state treasurer in 2000, after having served eight years as a state representative. Prior to holding elective office, Farmer was executive director of a neighborhood housing and neighborhood nonprofit organization. Farmer supports the Employment oo-Discrimination Act, the Hate Crimes Prevention Act, and the Early Treatment for HIV Act. She firmly opposes efforts to write discrimination into the .S. Constitution, such as the Federal Marriage Amendment. A word on her opponent: Christopher "Kit" Bond (R) has held this seat since 1987. He scored a 1 7°,riaring on the last HRC Congressional Scorecard. He opposes both the Employment Ni-Discrimination Act and the Hate Crimes Prevention Act and has voted against both bi!ls in the past. He supports the Federal Marriage Amendment, an attempt to write discrimination into the .B. Constitution. The race: As a longtime incumbent, Bond has the upper hand in the race, but polls show that Farmer is closing the gap between them. Farmer has mounted a serious challenge and needs as much support as she can get in order to pull out a victory. Visir: www .hrc.org/ candidates September 1, 2004 "A Night to Create Change" on September 12th to help raise awareness and funds for marriage equality. Margaret Cho and Matt Foreman will join all the parties by phone to give an update on the "State of the hlons." Por more information about hosting or attending a party in your area go to ww-w. thetaskforce.org/ sept12. We will be having an informational conference call about this event on Tuesday, August 17th at 7:30pm ET (4:30pm PT) and again at 7:30pm PT (10:30pm ET). If you have any questions or would like to hear more about the event please join us. Contact Alexes Anderson to get dial-in instructions at aanderson@thetaskforce.org or 202-393-5177 ext 6310. st • Then led< to~ Kay. Yc11ll fincl the- lolMt-on-ttl!lnd color! COOlldtnaed for you Y..itn eo&)>to~ hi)$. 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But in the current climate of antigay baiting, McGreevey's "personal" revelation politically impacts a community he has never been - and may never be - part of. McGreevey was annoyingly vague about why he was resigning, although the reasons will undoubtedly be revealed soon; speculation runs high that he is stepping down because an imbroglio much bigger than a sex scandal will be unfolding. In a way, it's a bizarre kind of progress when being gay is viewed as the good news preceding some unspecified bad news to c01ne. Unfortunately for gay people, though, McGreevey chose to lump his departure from office together with a tortured assertion of being "a gay American." And worse, he used the word "shamefully" to describe his affair with a man, although my guess is that it's the extramarital nature of it that he is ashamed of. Given McGreevey's choice of timing and words, straight and gay people alike were justifiably confused about why be was resigning. After all, New Jersey is not Mississippi. Indeed,Jersey commuters interviewed on their way home from work in Manhattan made remarks to _New York Newsday_ like, "He resigned because he is gay, but why?" and "There's a lot of people in politics who are homosexuals, so what the heck." The National Stonewall Democrats' onesentence statement also seemed to assume McGreevey had resigned out of deep shame:· t,he group's executive director wrote that he looked forward to a time when being gay "is simply an honest component of daily life and no longer a consideration in public service." As a consequence of McGreevey's obfuscation, the mainstream press has been rife with misleading headlines like "N.J. Governor Resigns Over Homosexual Affair" and "Gay Affair Ends Career." It's no wonder that most gay leaders have chosen to steer a broad course around the controversy, being careful not to embrace the governor and only issuing brief, cautious statements of concern. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force said, for example, that "our hearts go out" to him, while the Human Rights Campaign hoped that he and his family "will come to a place of understanding." Other gay groups have been forced to try to clean up the mess McGreevey's "personal" statement makes for our movement. The National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association hurriedly issued an advisory to the mainstream media requesting "caution in fram:ng the reasons for McGreevey's resignation," as it is "an oversimplification to say McGreevey resigned solely because he is gay." -continued page 25 Volume 1 Issue 9 Page 20 September 1, 2004 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente September 2004 Johnny Depp Is So 400 Years Ago The way Johnny Depp has bucked conventional career ,visdom should be an inspiration (or rebuke) to every actor who ever took a role in a big, dumb Holly,vood movie just to get a paycheck. This man has beaten his own ,veird path every step of the way and succeeded, and that Pith is currently taking him back to the 1600s in _ The Libertine_. The debut film by director Laurence Dunmore and playwright Stephen Jeffreys features Depp as 17th-century bisexual poet John Wilmot, Earl of Rochester, a pleasure-seeker whose death from syphilis at age 33 led to posthumous fame for his work. At the moment, the movie is only rumored to contain some same-sex liplocks, but is guaranteed to feature costars like Samantha Morton, John Malkovich, and snaggle-toothed, Irish punk-rock legend Shane MacGowan. And as cool as that casting is, Romeo is happy to report that Depp will most likely be kissing newcomer Rupert T'riend rather than MacG. HBO Cruises Rosie Rosie's getting cozy with HBO avin. Her latest project with the Emmy-laden cable channel is a documentary about a gay family cruise. Executiveproduced by HBO's Sheila Nevins v,"ith Rosie and wife Kelli O'Donnell, the as-yet-untitled doc will showcase a weeklong cruise to Key West and the Bahamas on O'Donnell's R Family Vacations, which took place in July. Rosie's previous HBO stand-up special, as well as the _Rosie O'Donneli's Kids Arc Punny_ family special, led to this renewed partnership, one that will give a needed public face to gay parents and their kids. That's a side of VY life that most media outlets don't find "sexy" enough to point their cameras at, so HBO is to be applauded. The special will hit the water sometime in 2005. Kushner and Spielberg Try Terrorism The 1972 Munich Olympics became a permanent scar in the memories of millions of people when Palestinian terrorists took Israeli athletes hostage, resulting in a hotched rescue effort and death. A documentary feature ahout the incident, _One Day In September_, was released in 2000, and now Steven Spielberg is ,vorking on a feature film about the traumatic event's mournful aftermath. Spielberg has enlisted the help of Tony 1\ward- and Pulitzer Prizewinning gay playwright Tony Kushner, who is currently working on a new draft of the screenplay. With the visionary _Angels in America_ scribe on board. the finished product will in all likelihood not only search the past but explore the fear of terrorism that afflicts the world today. Still without a title, the mrwic is slated to star Eric Bana, with a shooting date of June 2005. When the Feminist Met the Porn Star In a fantasy dictionary, next to the word "heterosexual," there's a picture of Italian porn star Rocco Siffrcdi. The star of countless straight adult films, he's internationally famous to a very specific audience. And in the same dictionary, the phrase "provocative feminist filmmaker" is accompanied by the image of French director Catherine Brcillat. Sound like oil and watcr?-Then you didn't sec Breillat's shocking art-house hit, _Romance_, an explicit study of female sexuality that featured Siffredi. Now the dynamic duo arc at it again, in Breillat's soon-to-be-released dissection of sexual mores, _Anatomy of Hell_, based on her own novel, _Pornocratie_. This time Siffredi plays a VY man, the unwilling object of a straight woman's affections, who somehow develops a relationship with her anyv;-ay. If Brcillat's track record is any indication, expect unconventional insights, very few laughs, and plenty of full frontal. _Romeo San Vicente thinks that Rocco Siffrcdi's •tar mrn in "New \Vave Hookers 3" made it the best in the trilogy. He can be reached care of thi~ p,;blica:ion or at l The Ozarks Star Page21 September l, 2004 T-Town from page -16 The staff is great, they offer pool and dart tournaments from time to time as well as weekend Male and Female impersonator shows on Saturdays with Miss Gay Oklahoma USA Ivana B, Real. Music during the weekend by personal choice and DJ on the weekends. It hosts Tulsa's only all Male Impersonator Show the first Sat of each month. New Age Renegades Also located downtown, Renegades offers a two section club, one side is mostly games and seating while the other is the entertainment area for drag shows and karaoke. Pool, video games and darts along with a wonderful covered and enclosed patio are available. The club offers shows each Tuesday with Caria Lee Love, every Priday & Saturday with Tabitha Taylor, along with Karaoke on l\fondays and Thursdays. The club also has special Production shows, and hosts 'The Red Ribbon Revue' - a local charity fundraiser, the first Saturday of the month. The music is high energy but not overpowering with video's. The PlayMor - A large spacious club with great seating for the shows and special events. A long comfortable padded bar, game room, large dance floor and friendly staff. The club offers pool, darts, a and video games. Music is mixed from country to dance to oldies it's by personal selection or a request to the DJ on the weekends. The PlayMor offers Karaoke on Mondays and \'Vednesdays. Entertainment, stemming from Male, Female Impersonators, Live Vocalists, are available on Sundays, Tuesdays, Thursdays, Pridays. Each Friday has a different show host, Peaches Lennox, Helga, Johhnie Cronin, Domonique Daniels, all share spots. Helga's Heart 2 Heart a local charity fundraiser, is always the first Saturday of the month. The PlayMor also has Production shows by Helga's Horrible's throughout the year for charities. The Star Known to many as the Silver Star, Tulsa's largest GAY club. It offers some of the best music, and lights and sound found in a GAY bar in the city. Pool, huge dance floor, and a very comfortable lounge area are all great. A friendly staff and fun atmosphere, the Star is home to the Miss Gay Oklahoma USA and Miss Gay Oklahoma USA at Large Pageants. The Star is also home to Courtney Farrell with Drag shows are on Sundays and Wednesdays. High energy music and wonderful light show make it a must see. TNT's For the Ladies this is a great place to party dance and beat your buddy in pool. It has a very nice bar and dance area and with a DJ. Personal music selection is also available. A very cozy spot to enjoy your evenings, and have fantastic time with your friends. The ToolBox - Located near downtown, it has a patio area and dance floor. Offering Drag shows with Bobbie Page and Dominque LaRue Sundays and Pridays. Pool, darts and video games with personal music selection are available. Yellow Brick Road This cozy club is a great sports and party place. If you love darts, pool, and are competitive this is your place to be. No shows, just fun, the staff is great, and caters to everyone. The crowd is mixed and plays very well together. The mt1sic is by personal selection. A big screen TV insure's you won't miss a game ever at the 'Brick'. I hope this little bit of information helps when you go out in Tulsa to pl:1y. As you can see Tulsa has a lot to offer. Almost all the Clubs have web sites and keep their scheduled events and pictures available for you to see. I'll be covering special events around town and keeping you informed from month to month. It you have a special interest in a subject please email the magazine and I'il do my best to find ;oformation for you. Have a great month of September in T-Town. Volu~ I Issue 9 Page 22 September 1, 2004 Gay Travelers from page 7 mile and their deli shops were full of carry out food. Everything there was certainly a bargain. On the second day of our stay there we drove to Leadville, the old mining town. We toured the old Tabor Opera House which was built years ago and in their hay day had some of the finest entertainers. Most of the restaurants and cafes in Leadville offered special lunches for under $5.00! We enjoyed visiting the small towns on our drive back to Vail. From Vail we drove into Denver. Several motel prices were under $40.00 in many parts of the city. As we mentioned previously, Colorado is really hurting for travel business! Most of the gay bars in Denver have lowered their prices drastically all day and night. We had screwdrivers and our cost on them ranged from SI. 00 to $1.50! What a deal! Almost all of the bars had extra special events g6ing on each and every night to draw a crowd. Our favorite bar in Denver is J. R. 's on 17th Street. They also have an outside patio on the street side that is great for people watching. A lot of restaurants had specials on their front signs and lots of cheap food can be found there. By looking in the local newspapers you can find several two for one specials at both restaurants and at area attractions. Denver has it's fair share of art, history and cultural museums and galleries. We have always found shopping in Denver to be terrific. In the Cherry Creek Shopping Center they have a great Neiman Marcus store. They have tons of flea markets, antique shops, thrift shops and other places on the lower end of the scale to find special buys. We always bring back a carload of goodies from our travels. This trip we even brought back a Ponderosa Pine tree for our backyard. - next column When driving to Colorado BE SURE and stop at the Welcoming Center close to the State line and pick up a lot of their free brochures and coupon booklets. They will save you hundreds of dollars. Just always remember to have fun when traveling , meet new people, enjoy different foods and talk to everyone. You may just make some new friends and possibly meet that new someone special in your life. For more information on traveling, contact Donald and Ray at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at http://www.hometown.aol.com/ gaytravelers. HIV lh~ilNG, NON ! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 211 E. 201 St.. PO Bo,: :fl, Joplin, J\lo II In conjunction with AIDS Project of the (harks. MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between FM and ii'J\I. For your convenience you can also call 2m9 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not reguire the use of needles and '"•" offer complete confidentiality. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. The Ozarks Star Page 23 A Star community service. "Make -ADifference Day" "Make-A-Difference Day" is a national day of helping orhers;a celebration of people reaching out to their community. This is an annual event that takes place the fourth Saturday of every October. This year's event is October 23, 2004. AIDS Project of the Ozarks (\.PO)took part in the annual event last year with students, church groups and caring, concerned individuals just like you coming together in a community effort to help families living with HIV/ AIDS. In 2003, over $,000 worth of items were donated to benefit APO. For the second year, Spirit of Christ MCC is partnering with APO to collect items to fill the APO client pantry. Our focus will be collecting bleach and laundry detergent (!quid gallon size) Last year Spirit of Christ MCC, Unity of Joplin and South Joplin Christian Church donated over 150 gallons of bleach and an additional 100 gallons of liquid laundry detergent. Spirit of Christ MCC is collecting liquid laundry detergent and bleach now through October 23. To donate or for more information, please contact the church at 417-20€&79. Charitable Tax Donation Receipts avaiiable on request. our generosity will make a difference. September 1, 2004 Martha's Vine1ard 19 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest ntertainment Complex. Nv Celebrating 10 oors of (~.lity ntertainment www.marthascomplex.com Voit.me 1 Issue 9 Page 24 Scopes y Jack Fertig September 2004 'Soak up compliments, Cancer!" ---•··· Martha Stewart would love this, if she weren't otherwise occupied: Venus in Cancer is sextile to Jupiter in Virgo, a domestic-goddess kind of lineup. Mercury in Leo is semi-sextile to both, bringing emphatic expression to those homey skills and issues. ARIES (tvfarch 21 to April 20): Housekeeping's not your usual forte, but ,vhat's usual about you anyway? The stars are now helping you roll up your sleeves, and even make housework fun! Take a creative approach, and put that jailbird Martha to shame. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): You've always taken pride in your home; now you get some great new ideas to make it e,0en more comfy and showy. Take a new look at your family and ethnic traditions. Draw inspiration from your sister. .. or any ''sister." GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): This is a good time to reorganize domestic finances. Examine the problems, but don't take real action until Sept. 2. Then take foll advantage of Labor Day sales. CANCER 0une 22 to July 22): You are looking especially gorgeous these days. Keep the sweet, modest smile, but soak up the compliments that are coming your way. We know those dark moods, too, so now's the time to take stock of yourself and affirm your strengths. LEO 0uly 23 to August 22): Your outspokenness has been causing some consternation, but you can clean that up after Sept. 2. In the meantime, show everyone how modest and understanding you can be. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): Your recent run of good luck gets yet another boost in community politics. At !east you get an opportunity to share your ideals. You may prefer to work behind the scenes, but be involved and trust your instincts. September 1, 2004 LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): Blessings come in disguise these days, but now's the time to see through the ugly ,vrappers. Being emotionally supportive at work or adding a homey touch to your ,;rnrk space ,viii open up networking opportunities. SCORPIO (October 23 to No,·ember 21): Come out of your shell and sing out, Louise! You have some great ideas and brilliant foresight. Let people see ,,;hat you h:;rve to offer and you're sure to get ahead! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): The stars are making you saucier and sexier - as if you need the help! Imagine yourself as a foreign sports star and play that up. \'vhether you ha,·e a swimmer's build or a sumo ,vrestler's, you're sure to find a match. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): The zodiac's best-kept secret is out of the bag: You're the sexiest sign of all! Be homey and domestic to get the one you ,vant, or brilliantly erudite to get _everyone_ you want. And one doesn't rule out the other, oh ambitious one! AQUARIUS Qanuary 20 to February 18): Relationship issues? They're largely about housekeeping and sex. Pnt on the French maid's apron and kill two birds ,,-ith one proverbial stone. Communication usually helps, too. No relationship? Well, put on the French maid's apron and go find one. _Zut alors!_ PISCES (Febrm1.ry 19 to March 19): find a crearive partner to at least bounce some ideas off 0£ Crirical feedback is especially helpful now. Fun and games - preferably at home - with your partner will help you articulate problems and find very satisfying answers .. Jack Fertig has been working i1S a professional astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Ne.tworking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864-8302, through his welJsite at http:/ IW1.l(!O.Sta ·ack.com Volume l Issue 9 Page 25 Lesbian Notions from page-19 The Gay and Lesbian Victory Fund, whose. mission is to help elect openly gay people to public office, also undertook damage control. The Victory Fund bemoaned the governor's lack of honesty with his family and issued a reminder that "over 275 openly gay and lesbian officials serve in public office across the United States, from city councils, to county commissions, to state senates, to the U.S. House of Representatives. The vast majority ... ran for office and serve openly with little criticism or extra attention from the public." Right now I feel more sympathy for the Victory Fund and all the wonderful lesbian and gay candidates it supports than for New Jersey's misguided governor. In the minds of many Americans with limited knowledge of gay people, McGreevey will now be conflated with "Gay Politician," the kind of guy who hides his "shameful" secret, gets the underqualified object of his desire a lucrative, taxpayer-funded job, and then is forced out of office by threat of exposure, causing his family great emotional pain. (Never mind how many politicians are guilty of a heterosexual version of the same thing.) At the same time, hundreds of lesbians and gay men are McGreevey's polar opposites: they've chosen to be honest and out as they pursue public office, forthrightly making their way up the political ladder one rung at a time. Consider, for example, a very different "Gay Politician." Rep. Tammy Baldwin (DWis.) didn't catapult into the U.S. Congress. She started her political career on the Madison City Council, then went on to the County Board of Supervisors and the Wisconsin State Assembly before making a run for Congress as an out lesbian. There are many similar stories of gay politicos who chose a slower path to higher office, taking small, incremental steps that many heterosexual politicians don't have to because they aren't contending with society's homophobia. George W. Bush, for example, went from unsuccessful September 1,2004 businessman to governor of Texas to president in the blink of an eye. I am confident that eventually one of the Tammy Baldwins of our community will make it all the way to the governor's mansion of some state. And that election - unlike the strange coming out of Jim McGreevey will be a triumph for the gay community. Reality at the Gas Pump Think a gallon of gas is expensive? This makes one think, and also puts things in perspective. Diet Snapple 16 oz S1.29 ... S10.32 per gallon Lipton Ice Tea 16 oz $1.19 .$9 .52 per gal. Gatorade 20 oz $1.59 . $10.17 per gallon Ocean Spray 16 oz Sl.25 ..... $10.00 per gallon Brake Fluid 12 oz $3.15 ...... $33.60 per gallon Vick's Nyquil 6 oz SS.35 .... $178.13 per gallon Pepto Bismol 4 oz $3.85 ..... $123.20 per gal, Whiteout 7 oz $1.39 .......... $25.42 per gallon Scope 1.5 oz $0.99 ...... $84.48 per gallon And this is the REAL KICKER ... Evian water 9 oz $1.49 ........ $21.19 per gallon?! $21.19 for WATER and the buyers don't even know the source. (Evian spelled backwards is Naive.) So, the next time you're at the pump, be glad your car doesn't run on water, Scope, or Whiteout, or God forbid Pepto Bismal or Nyquil. Just a little humor to help ease the pain of your next trip to the pump ... From]. R., Oklahoma Cit1~ OK l Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . GoodLookingg,.y gi:reyou μeasure, like ywcksen:e Call Hector@ 816-305-3988 In & Out Calls The Ozarks Star On-Line. Check out our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarksstar.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Joplin, 10 blocks North of Downtown: 4bd, 4bth, formal dinning, hugh kitchen. Zoned heat/ air. Beautifully restored, guiet residencial. Call Vicki at Charles Burt Realtors 417-434-0077 or 800-782-7822. Advertising Representative's Part Time: For Kansas City, Springfield, Tulsa, Oklahoma City, Arkansas, Kansas and Joplin. Commission based compensation. Work in the LGBTS business community. Mail qualifications to: Ozarks Star 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804. Business Opportunity: Ever dreamed of owning your own B&B? Beautiful 4 bed 4 bath 3200sqft fully furnished in Joplin, MO For Sale. Call Vicki Bronson at Charles Burt Realtors 417 -4 34-0077 1010 E. 20th Joplin MO64804 800-782-7822 The Ozarks Star Page27 September I, 2004 Four St.ates Comm.unity Directory -Bars- Nightclubs- · -Organizations- Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Ron's Place- - - 523 W. Poplar- - - - - 479-442-3052 Studio 716- -716 W. Sycamore- -479-571-1300 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Burnzee's- -2301 Towson Ave #C- --479-494-7300 Kinkeads- -10041/2 Garrison Ave- - - - -479-783-9988 Club 1022 - -1022 Dodson Ave. - - - - - -479-782-1845 Missouri, Joplin (417) Ree's- - • • 716 S. Main - - - - --417-627-9035 Missouri, Kansas City (816) Bell Star's - - - 1321 Grand Ave- - - -816-421-1288 Missie B's- - - -805 \V. 39th St- - - -816-561-0625 Sidestreet Bar- - - -413 E. 3rd- - - - - 816-531-1775 Sidekicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- - 816- 931-1430 Missoari, Spriagfield (417) The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- --417-831-4700 M:utha's Viocyard-219 W Olive -417-864-4572 Oz Bar- 504 E. Commercial- - - - - -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - - - - -417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) Hi-Lo Club - - 1221 NW 50th- - - - -405-843-1722 Finish Line - -2200 NW 39th fa-pwy- - 405-525-0730 Club Rox- - - -3535 N\V 39th Expwy- -405-947-2351 TopangaGrill &: Bar-3535 NW 39th- -405-947-2351 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. Pine - - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick- - 822 S. Sheridan· 918-835-3301 Heads & Tails- - 7944 E. 21st - - - - - - 918-660-7878 Club Majestic- - 124 N. Boston - - - - -918-584-9494 New Age Renegades- -1649 S. Main -918-585-3405 Play-Mor-Club- 1737 S. Memorial - -918-838-9792 Silver Star Saloon- -1565 S. Sheridan -918-834-4234 TNT's- - 2114 S. Memorial- - - -- - - - -918-660-0856 Tool Box- - - 1338 E. 3rd- - - - - - 918-584-1308 Yellow Brick Road- - 2630 E. 15th - - -918-293-0304 -LodgingMiuouri, Joplia (417) Faces Guest.house B&B - -417-621-9915 Fairfield Inn by Marriott- - -417-624-7800 Mi!l!Jouri, Ava Catus Canyon Campground - - 417-683-9199 Mill!IO■ ri, Lampe KOKOMO Campground- -417-779-5084 Arkaasas, Eureka Springs MCC Living Spring- - - - - - - - - - - - -870-253-9337 Arkansas, Avoca Natural State Naturists- - - - - -- - - - -479-451-8066 Kansas, Pittsburg {620) River of Life - 1709 N Walnut - - - - 11AM PSU-QSA .... 1701 S. Broadway ... 620-231-0938 Missouri, Joplin {417) MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th. - - - - -7PM UCCFF--204 N. Jackson Ave, - - - - 10:30Alvl Aids Project Ozarks- 513 Kentucl,"}'- - 417-624-5788 Missouri, Springfield (417) Rainbow Christian Ch-837 \V. Maclison-417-866-6206 Unitarian Universalist Church - - - - 417-833-2723 APO- -1901 E. Bennett, suite D- 417-881-1900 ShowMe MO Pride - - - - - - - - 417-864-4459 GLO Community Ctr- 518 E. Commerical-869-3978 PFLAG-Springfield- - - - - - - - - - - - -417-889-1059 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) MCC United- -1623 N. Maplewood- -918-838-1715 -Business Services- Missouri, Joplin (417) Penny Smart.Hair Salon -509 Main- 417-623-3500 Massage By Rachael- - 417-438-3664 Body Swim Massage Therapy- 417-825-5800 Charles Burt Realtors-Vicki Bronson-417-434-0077 RE/MAX- - - - - -Cathe Letts- - - - - - 417-483-5313 Office Max- -44-0 Rangeline Rd- - - - -417-623-1007 The Llom Den - -Austin Letts - 417-623-876_7 Joan Szymanski- Beauty Consultant- - 417-673-1181 Night Things Boutique-719 MainSt- 417-659-9913 Missouri, Springfield (417) Priscilla's - • - • 1918 S. Glenstone • • 417-881-8444 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Century21 - -4301 NW 63rd #100 405- 840-2106 Hollywood Hotel- 3535 NW 39th Ex-405-947-2351 Priscilla's- 615 E. Memorial- - - - - - - 405-755-8600 Oklahoma, Tulsa Kelly Kirby,CPA-4815 S Harv11.rd- - -918-747-5466 Underguy.com - - -825 E. 3rd- - - -877-7-BOXERS Priscilla's - - - - - 7925 E. 41st - - - - 918-627-4884 Priscilla's - - - - 5634 W. S!.:elly - - - - - 918-446-6336 Priscilla's - - - -11344 E. 11th - - - - - -918-438-4224 Priscilla's - - - - 2333 E. 71st - - - - - - -918-499-1661 Volume 1 Issue 9 Page 28 September 1, 2004 alternative nightclub 716 W. Sycamore St., Fayetteville, AR. (479) 571-1300 www.studio7l6.net Arkansas LeatherSIR/boy 2005 Sunday September 12, 2004 Doors open 8pm Guests $5.00 Members $3.00 The Norma Kristie Inc. Miss Gay Arkansas 2005 "Best Preliminary"' Award goes to.; .. MISS GAY WASHINGTON COUNTY!! 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document PROUD • V N OM UN "From the day of ourfofi:n,4ifl:g, we have proclaimed that every man and woman on this Earth :h45 rights,, and dignity and 11ttitcbless value because they bear ~rnagc of the maker of ven.and ta;rth .. » • Ge~rge W. Bu~h, . • Toaugb./al. ~J>eech; January 20, 2005 State~entl?y:M:att Forc=m.a11'✓ • · μecut~e Djrector, Natio11af~a;r . andI:.esbian'Fask Force • " ., C ,:•\ ,'" •• " ,, Page 5 Tulsa Oklahoma City Little Rock · F ayettevitle·~·"'i Fort . Spri Club nv opens in Kansas Ci by Greg Steele January 18, 2005 ■ KANSAS CITY, MO- The long awaited opening of KC's newest club opened their doors to the public on January 6th. Studio@NV Video Bar officially opened at 4:30pm. A year under construction the dub also has a dance side that will be open on Jan 21st. The grand opening private party is planned for the 20th. "You'll be blown away at the light show and we have some of the cutest bartenders in town." said General Manager, Chad Mantooth. Located in the site of a former Buick deaiership, the club will have three bars, a state of the art dance bar, a video bar and two patio's. The rooftop bar and patio is the place for a grand view of downtown Kansas City. NV plans to be KC's first GLBT totally nonsmoking bar. Smoking will be allowed on the patio. In addition to the club area's, the building \vill feature 23 lofts to be named "The Buick Lofts" and will range in size from a studio to 2500 square feet. Studio@nv video bar is open at 4:30 to !:30 Monday through Saturday with 1/ 2 price martini's from 4:30-8:30 Monday through Friday. The Dance Club starting January 21st will be open Thursday, Friday and Saturday 1 0pm to 1 :30am. Located at 220 Admiral Blvd. on the corner of 7th and McGee in downtown KCMO. If you need further directions or have any questions, you may call 816.421.NVKC or check out the website at http:/ /www.nv-kc.com. Page 6 Arkansas Anti-Gay Foster care Ban Overturned LITTLE ROCK - Finding that children are not harmed by living with gay or lesbian parents, an Arkansas court today struck down a stllte regulation that banned gay people and anyone living in a household with a gay adult from being foster parents in the st:2.te. The American Civil Liberties Union brought the lawsuit ag:ainst the state in 1999 on behalf of three prospective foster parents. ''Throughout this case, the state has relied on ugly stereotypes to deny children in the Arkansas foster care system the chance of having the widest possible pool of foster wnilies available to them,'' said Rim Sklar, Executive Director of the ACLU of Arkansas. "We're very pleased that the court sa~ through these arguments and has recognized that gay and lesbian people can provide homes just as loving and smble as anyone else's." In his findings, Circuit Court Judge Timothy Fox flatly rejected many of the claims the state had made about gay and lesbian people's suitability as parents. In his decision, Fox wrote: "(Psychology pioneer) Jerome Bruner has suggested that one of the reasons people believe in om system of justice may be as simple as 'ow: faith that confrontation is a good way to get to the bottom of things.' The 'confrontation' in this case has presented us all with an excellent opportunity to replace ignorance with knowledge and to make an informed decisionbased on information as opposed to assumption." Among Judge Fox's findings of fact • Being raised by gay parents doesn't increase the risk of psychological, behavioral, or academic problems for children. • Children of lesbian and gay parents are just as well adjusted as children of straight parents. • There is no factual basis for saying that heterosexual parents might be better able to guide children through adolescence than gay parents. • There are no reasons that health, safety, or welfare of a foster child might be negatively impacted by living in a foster home where there is a gay person present. • The blanket exclusion can hurt children by excluding a pool of effective foster parents. "Throughout the trial we presented a variety of experts who proved that the state's justifications for this ban were nothing but baseless myths about gay people," said Leslie Cooper, a staff attorney with the ACLU's Lesbian and Gay Rights Project. "This is a victory not only for gay families, but for the many children in the Arkansas foster care system who now have a better shot at finding a good home." After Arkansas's Child Welfare Agency Review Board established a policy in 1999 that "no person may serve as a foster parent if any adult member of that person's household is a . homosexual," the ACLU filed a lawswt in state court challenging the policy on behalf of three Arlwisans who are challenging the ban: William Wagner of Waldron, who works in an optical laboratory. Wagner has been married for 31 yClltS and has two adult children. Although he is a married heterosexual, be is disqualified from serving as a foster parent because his gay son sometimes lives at home. Wagner .and pis wife hope to serve as foster parents because they alrea~y provide em~rgency shelter to teens who have been physically abused and kicked out of their homes for being lesbian or gay and would like to be available to take care of teens in the foster care system. Matthew Lee Howard, a teacher, who lives with his partner Craig Stoopes, a librarian, in Little Rock. The couple has been in a committed relationship for 19 years, is currently raising two children, and hopes to serve as foster parents. Anne Shelley of Fayetteville is a community organizer for various nonprofit organizations and woul9. like to serve as a foster parent. She is prevented from doing so under Arkansas law because she is a lesbian. Leslie Cooper and James Esseks of the ACLU's Lesbian & Gay Rights Project, Grif Stockley of the ACLU of Arkansas, and cooperating attorneys David Ivers and Emily Sneddon represent the prospective foster parents. 1 ! February 2005 by Andrew Collins "Cooking-School Vacations" Photorigbt: You can take cooking classes taught by some of the leading chefs in the Southwest at the acclaimed Santa Fe School of Cooking. Given that many travelers put as much thought into picking the right restaurants as they do choosing appealing hotels and sightseeing attractions, it's little wonder that cooking-school vacations have become extremely popular in recent years. After all, if you're already a fan of eating outstanding food, it makes perfect sense to explore your culinary passions a bit further and learn how to prepare the great meals you enjoy. Whether you're a die-hard chef with professional ambitions or simply a fan of good cooking who's keen on picking up a few culinary tips, you're likely to find a cooking-school adventure that suits yow: interests (and budget). Opportunities to learn bow to cook while traveling range from taking a class or two at a local cooking school or country in~ to booking a complete educational getaway that includes several days of intensive cooking instruction as well as accommodations, meals, and day trips to farmers' markets and restaurants. The cost can range from $50 for a single demonstration class at a cooking school to several thousand dollars per person for a wecklong, all-inclusive package. In most cases, you're responsible for getting to and from the destination. Although there arc no cooking-school vacations geared exclusively to the lesbian and gay market, plenty of gay-popular destinations - from San Francisco to Vermont to Barcelona - offer these food-based educational excursions. Taking one of these trips can be great fun whether you're traveling with yow: honey or with a group of pals, but it's also an excellent way to make new friends; indeed, cooking schools draw plenty of single travelers. If you're looking for an informal, unstructured experience, where you plan your own trip but take some cooking courses on your own, consider booking a class or two at the esteemed Santa Fe School of Cooking, whose instructors include some of the top chefs in this gay-friendly arts mecca in New Mexico's Sangre de Cristo Mountains. Topics cover a wide range of food styles, from the cuisine of Mexico to Southwest tapas. Classes arc offered several times per week and typically cost from $50 to $65 apiece; each one concludes with a full meal featuring the delicious food prepared. A number of inns around the country offer occasional cooking-class weekends, which typically run from two to four days and are especially popular with couples seeking a romantic retreat. In Kennebunkport, Maine - which is dose to such gay-friendly destinations as Portland and Ogunquit - the lavish White Barn Inn offers weekend cooking-school packages throughout the year. These three-day, two-night events begin with a Friday afternoon tea reception, followed by a tour of the inn's impressive wine cellar, where you're also treated to a tasting of several fine vintages. On Saturday you participate in a cooking class in the state-of-the-an demonstration kitchen, followed by a mixoiogy course in the bar. You then get to sample some of the dishes you saw demonstrated in class earlier in the day during the six-course dinner on Saturday evening, in the \Vnire Barn's highly acclaimed restaurant. Guests also receive _The White Barn Inn Cookbook_. Prices start at about $400 per person, double-occupancy. Vermont, which has become a favorite gay destination in recent years, ... continued page-32 Page 8 ' The Queen City of the Southwest ? From the Editor January 20, 2005 TULSA, OKLAHOMA Located in the center of a potentially gay business boom. Sound like a fantasy? Well, look what is within 175 miles, just a three hour drive. Oklahoma City, Stillwater, Muskogee, McAlester, Miami, Witchita, Joplin, Springfield, Fayetteville, Fort Smith, a huge GLBT population estimated at near 150,000. Yes, Tulsa, OK has an opportunity to become a major gay /lesbian city. Shake the Bible Belt syndrome. Gay is not unique in this year of 2005. Gay does not have to be in the closet. Gay is not a lifestyle, it is a life! Gay /Lesbian is not a nasty word with a connotation of deviate. Homosexuality has been accepted around the globe and has become common place. Teen's think of sex as just sex, it doesn't matter if it is with the opposite sex or same sex. If you prefer same sex or opposite sex, no big deal. It's just sex. What does the Tulsa business community have to offer the GLBT tourist or those wanting to relocate? Is there a hotel that seeks gay business? NO. Is there a restaurant that caters to gay people? NO. Is there a predominateiy gay area for housing? NO. Are there shops that as;;. for your business? A FEW. Are ,here gay /lesbian bars? \'ES. Bars, clubs, disco's country western, cruise, neighborhood, and just bars. ls that it? NO. Tulsa has a percentile of GLBT professional people equal to any major city. Attorney's, Accountants, Doctors, Realtors, Nurses, Artists, Writers, Insurance Agents, Engineers, Business Managers, Teachers, Pastors and of course Cosmetologist. A fabulous group of entertainers, Shopping Centers, Theater, beautiful scenery, parks, museums, recreational area's. Tulsa has everything a city needs to attract gay/ lesbian business. To attract gay business development and tourism. Except, two major factors, gay pride and organization! Tulsa has the foundation for growth with the GLBT Center, a GLBT Business organization, we have a Human Rights Organization, we have GLBT religious leaders and community out reach organizations. Yes and how much support do they receive £rpm the over all gay population. Most of these nonprofit organizations say they are struggling to keep afloat. I asked one business owner if he belonged to the Gay Business Association, and he replied, "I didn't know we had one." Another said he belonged to the "Tulsa Rainbow Business Organization" ar one time, but the group decided to cease because there were only ten active members. In the last two months there have been three gay owned business closing in Tulsa ti1a~ I know of, maybe more. Could be the bar market was overly saturated. Niche clubs seem :o be doing well. That is a good sign Tulsa has a diverse group of people who have found a club they enjoy. Persona]y .............. continued next page Page 9 Photo: Night Club in the Brady District. I prefer a nice plush piano bar with entertainment, hunky bartenders and good selection of exotic martini's. Fine wine and food would make my day! I might rent a booth by the month. If anyone out there would consider opening such a place, let me know and I promise to be your best customer. As an Oklahoma native, I've watched the State grow in positive attitude toward her GLBT citizens. Tolerance for some, but for the most part the attitude has changed from gay bashing and hatred to live and let live. Just because we can't legally ma.tty in Oklahoma is no excuse to sit back and grow stagnant, or move to Massachusetts. Star Media, Ltd., the publisher of this magazine is so confident in the future of Tulsa's GLBT community, we are now publishing the STAR here in Tulsa and will continue to cover and distribute to the Four State Region of Arkansas, Missouri, Kansas and Oklahoma. People we've talked with, all agree that a home based news publication is an essential part of every growing community. We are excited and look foiward to becoming a part of Tulsa's future. Our growth has been gradual, but strong. This issue is our largest ever, with 40 pages. Our distribution has grown from 1000 to 5000 in just over a year. We distribute free of charge and depend on advertising from the GLBT and allied business community for our existence. Without it we could Clothing & Gift Shop in the Cherry Street Image, convenience, quality products and not survive. The response has been service are key to any successful business. tremendous with the February issue Offer the GLBT community something having a record number of advertisers. they want and don't have, let them know We may not be the largest paper in the you have it and treat them with respect state, but we are gaining ground thanks to and they will support you. a very supportive Oklahoma community and the 4 states region. TIJLSA, "The Queen City of the Southwest". Possibilities abound, the potential is here. The Brady District, Cherry Street, East Village, Mid Town area's are prime locations to consider for offices, shops, clubs or restaurants. We just have to make it happen by becoming more united in the efforts to serve the community and develope a strong, well organized entity dedicated to the success of all. "United We Stand, Divided We Fall" Editor in Chief r n • · t t v • , n I g; h t '.o 716 w. syc~re Fay~tttville, AR 479-571-1300 . www.atud•oZ16,ncl OPEN wed-sun 9pm - 2am WEDNJ!SDAYS: Cruisn' for the Hook-up on HUMP-DAY! Happy Hour $5, Beer Bu.t . ~PAYS:. Kataoke till' 12 then it's the Plastic Thureday Dan1re · . get WU,D with DJ jUX" & 1he Best Mu of Hipl,Jop. Tech & YOUR .requests all night long! SA'(UJU)A;YS: it's th~ 716 EXT.REME DANCE PAR'I'Y with OJ . "BRANDON J"' SUNDAYS: The Queens of NW.A @ 11:30 Evety Sunday & DJ "IRJSH" Spinning all night Jong!! Club •,Rex to· Host· Turna . . 1i1·,, ·,,a, Fund raiser: Press Release January 21, 2005 OKLAHOMA CITY. A fundraiaer to benefit the. Winds Houa~ will he held ' Saturday, February 26, 2005, at 10:30 p.m., •t Club Rox inside the Hollywood Hotel & Suites in Oklahoma City. This will be our second annual fuodra,iscr for the Winds· House. The featured event will be a Turnabout Show. in which our club aiid test:aurant employees will be perfotmi,ng and contributing their tip11 to the Winds H~1,1se. A great tum.out is expected again this yeat'md we hope to surpass the amount collecttd at last years event. MARDI GRAS DAY, . ' . . AKA FAT TUESDAY / Every year, N~ .Q.dlan; shuts down and throws the· p~ of parties. Everywhere else · • it's just another Tuesday Orleana it's Mardi Gras! Mardi Gas is more than a single day of ceie\,rition. It's a stiu:c of mind. Mardi Gas teflects and defines . the cultural traditions of Nevi Odcan11. Most "outsiders" assume ~ Gras takes place on a single day; this .is true. Matdi Gms is French fui Fat Tuesday. Some time ago, the tradition a fatted ctlf on beginning of . . . . fast. Thu,, the c~g of the pb.raae,,::11at Tuesday.'' ·,· Page 11 2902 E. 20th Street, Joplin Missouri· Sydney New .Mardi Gras * and Gay Games® Chicago ~ Announce International Partnership 21 January 2005 U~ I Sydney, .A.u,tralia -- The Games and the New Sydney Gay and Lesbian Matdi ~ras t~ay announced a multi-yeat mtemauonal partnership designed to s~ngthen two of the world's largen and most beloved in~miriooal gay and lesbian events. In a joint announcoment &om Chicago, h<>St of Gav Gables VIJ,. and Sydney •. site of the world's largett LGBT Mardi Gras festival, the new pattnecship bro~dcn, the worldwide visibility of both ~eots. 1Utching two of the world's tnost vibrant and gay and lesbian-friendly cities, the new .rdationship will also ' enhance tourism and batin,~?Y between the LGBT communities in the USA and Australia. , , , , . continued pagc-29 P,age12 ,, ', , ,:, '48l5 S<>uth. Harvard Ave., Suite 424 ,'I)tlsa, OK 74135-:3068 Phone: 8) 747,.5466 Email: .; byCP A@sbcglobai.net j 1 Office Licensed in Missouri, Arkansas, Illinois & Colorado www.shelterinsurance.com This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Life-Worker's Comp.-Home-Auto-Farm-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Post Office Box 339 Eureka, Missouri 63025 Tel: (636) 938-5500 Fax:(636)938-3539 gtainter@shelterinsurance.com 11JISA ROUGB.RIDERS' Valeatme's Club~ · ••*Mllle.lJtlllCD'Slll . ._. EndUp .. Club, Sat.., F~ -~ 4th&. Memorlal,..~ ~Opm-?!~ Drawings For Pri7.es!! BeerBust t! *J,-tller Po.t Office Game* • ...........,.tulsa~ugluiden.com•• Leadaer@TaJaRougllRi4en.com Page 15 "Alternatives to the bar scene" Some of us really are not all that into the gay bar scene. Just because your gay does not necessarily mean you HA VE to go to gay bars. First of all I really have never particularly liked the idea of going to a dark bar to find someone. It is rather a creepy feeling. First you have to put up with all the smoke. And then after you get home you have to wash or have everything dry-cleaned. It just isn't worth it. Oh yea, smokers have their rights? Well, what about us nonsmokers? We should be able to go somewhere and not HA VE to have that ciguette smell and smoke everywhere. But aside from smoking the bar scene still does very little for me. I prefer to do my drinking with friends in my own apartment or at parties. friendlyand has lots of straight customers. The MCC Church in town is another place where I have found a lot of friends. Seems like a lot of gay men attend the MCC Church with the hopes of finding someone to share their life "W-ith. I even attended a meeting of PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) even thou I am not a parent of a gay person and I met some wonderful guys there. I looked in the last issue of the Ozarks Star and saw a listing for different otgllnizations in the area and have already checked some of them out. You just have to be forward and talk to people I guess. I have met guys at the supermarket, at the malls while shopping and even when I walk my dog in the park. I am really not against bars but I am just saying that the bar scene does not rule my life. I have plenty of interests being gay without the bar scene. I love the Ozarks Star in that it tells us what is going on in the community besides the bar scene. Thanks Ozarks Sou: for being here. Quotable Quotes "I know that many of you wanted to see my husband and some of you had questions out there. Is he hot? Yeah. Is he hung? Yeah. Is he [she waved her hand to suggest bisexual]? Not unless you can give a better (she mimicked eating a banana) than me." Lucky for me I live in a large city and they have lots of activities going on all the time. The gay/lesbian community center is always having entertaining events going on. I have met a lot of other gays at dinner parties. My mature friends - Kimberly Guilfoyle Newsom, filling have their Prime Timers organization in for her husband, San Francisco and they are always having events. Mayor Gavin Newsom, addressing a In Oklahoma City I usually stay at fundraiser for New York's gay Empire State Pride Agenda, Oct. 21. the Habana Inn and you r----------------------can always meet a lot of people out at the pool area. I have driven to Kansas City and they have two gay owned Bed and Breakfast Inns there. I have driven down to Eureka Springs, Arkansas where they say almost everyone in town is gay. But the gay owned bar is only gay <Boutique Page 16 Cable TV Gives Birth to Slew of New Gay Programming Written By Ross von Metzke On the forthcoming Logo channel. conceived by figureheads at MTV ~nd VH-1, programs will range from a series on coming out experiences produced by Cher and Chastity Bono to realitv series on gay cops and gav dream , weddings. , On cable TV's here!, a gav parenting series, a holiday drama about, a teenager's two gay dads and numerous gay themed films acquisitioned from film studios across the world round out the roster of programming. ~~ on the Palm Springs based Q Televmon, a daily gay talk show and the gay soap opera Paradise Falls play mostly to audiences in Southern California and Manhattan. For years, mainstream cable networks like HBO and Showtime have enticed gay viewers with shows like Six Feet Under, Oz, The L Word and Queer as Folk - p~ograms featuring gay characters without succumbing to the standards and occasional censorship of network TV. No~, chan~els geared toward gay and _lesbian audiences specifically are making a play for financial success. Gav TV has officiallv arrived , Cablevision, Systems ·Corp. a1:1~ounced yesterday that it is offering dtgi.tal customers monthly subscriptions Dish _Network offers three-hour payper- view blocks of the channel for S3.99. Regent Entertainment co-founders Paul Colichman :md Stephen Jarchow founded here! in August of 2003 and the service is now available in one form or another in more than 30 million cable and satellite TV homes nationwide. It got a nearly two year head start on Logo which Viacom Inc. plans to launch ' s~metime this year as a digital channel with wider distribution. _"They all want to serve the gay and lesbian community and they want to do it in a way that makes money " :olichman col~ !'lewsday on Tu~sday. And because it ts a premium service. anyone who doesn't want gay and - lesbian programming doesn't have to get it." Colichman said here! claimed $15 million in revenue for the first vear and has pl_a~s to spend $50 million this year on o_r1gtnal f'.rogramming and acquiring syndicatton nghts to series and films. Cablevision's nationwide satellite se:vice called _v oom carries its own gayoriented movie channel - DivineHD. A company spokeswoman declined to say whether Cablevision will carry Logo which Viacom had planned to launch next month but has not said whether that is still the plan. Links: www.heretv.com www.logo-tv.com www.qtelevision.com to 30 hours of on-demand programming from here! for $6.95. r:;:::::-------------------- Time Warner Cable in New York City, Los Angeles, Boston, Milwaukee and San Antonio began carrying here! late last year as nonsubscription video-on~ emand for $3.95 per three-hour viewing. DirecTV recently began offering here! as a monthiy add-on for $9.99. And EchoStar's Rodney Burgamy 405.840.2106 Joe Brennan www.c21-goldcastle.com Page 17 Ozarks Star New Shakespeare Adaption 'The Merchant of Venice' Rings with Gay Undertones By Ross von Metzke Provided by Gay Link Content . Just weeks after American audiences historians and church groups gave OHv'er Stone's Alexander adaptation a big thumbs down over the bi-sexual references, another of history's beloved treasures is getting the gay treatment. Shakespeare's The Merchant of Venice is getting a lot of heat for a scene in which two male characters, Bassanio (Joseph Fiennes) and Antonio Geremy Irons), head up to Antonio's bedroom to discuss an issue involving a deb~. Just as Bassanio is leaving, he piancs one on Antonio - and from the look of things, it's more than just a friendly peck. Director Mlchael Radford's version of the classic story pushes a lot of buttons and asks a number of questions, which is whv scar Fiennes said, he thrives while ~~rking with the Bard's words. ''The great thing about Sμakespeare and why he's so difficult to pin down is his ambiguity," actor Joseph Fiennes told Reuters. "He's not saying they're gay or thev're straight, he's leaving it up to his actors ... I feel there has to be a great love between the two characters ... there's great .attraction. I don't think they have slept together, but that's for the audience to decide." Co-star Jeremy Irons said tl1e kiss doesn't say so much about the character's sexualitv as it does about the time period. , "In Shakespeare's time male platonic iove was the highest form of love," he said. "Male platonic affection was regarded as a higher form of love to male-female, even husband and wife." While promoting the film in New York recently, Radford said he fe~t it was important to emphasize Antonio's love for Bassanio because of the play's final act. in which Bassanio's feelings for Portia and Antonio are tested. Page 18 Illinois Bans Anti-Gay and Anti Transgender Discrimination National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Praises Equality lllinois for Its Tireless Work WASHINGTON, DC, Jan. 12. Capping an eleven year effort led by Equality Illinois, the, ;Illinois House of Representatives today passed a bill banning discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender persons. The bill was first .introduced over thirty years ago in 1974. When signed into law by Governor Rod R. Blagojevich, a supporter of the measure, Illinois will become the 15th state to protect gay people from discrimination, and the 5th state to protect transgender persons. The bill cleared the State Senate yesterday by a vote of 30-27 and the State House today by a vote 65-51. "We salute Equality Illinois and its tireless leader, Rick Garcia, for today's extraordinary achievement," said Matt Foreman, Executive Director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "This win again shows that dogged work by state and local leaders and activists can surmount enormous odds- and is real salve to a community still hurting from the results of November 2." A non-discrimination bill first passed the House in 1993, also because of the work of Equality Illinois. The law will add "sexual orientation" to the state's existing nondiscriminati·on statute which already bans discrimination in employment, housing, public accommodations or credit on the basis of race, religion, ethnicity, gender, age, disability, marital status and milit~ry status. The definition of "sexual orientation" includes provisions to specifically cover transgender persons. A non-discrimination biil first passed the state House in 1993, "The passage of this bill is a major advancement for transgender people, both in Illinois and countrywide," continued Foreman. "Once again, a state has proven that when we dare to dream to protect our entire LGBT community with one bill- to cover everyone, legislators respond. The activists in Illinois have done a tremendous job." · Illinois becorp.es the fifth state to pass explicit transgender-inclusive language in its discrimination law, joining California, Minnesota, New Mexico, and Rhode Island. In addition, 72 cities and counties have transgendet-inclusive nondiscrimination laws on the books. With the addition of Illinois, 27% of the U.S. population now lives in a jurisdiction with transgender discrimination prnte~tion. Eight states have enacted transgender-inclusive hate crime laws. In addition ten states ban anti-gay discrimination - Wisconsin, Massachusetts, Connecticut, and Hawaii, New Jersey, Vermont, New Hampshire, Nevada, Maryland and New York. FREE HIV TESTING,NO NEEDLFS! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin; Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the · Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We 1,1se the Ora-sure method which does nor require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentiality. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "Serving A Healthier Comm,mity"' Page 19 NSD Statement on Claude Allen White House Appointment January 06, 2005 Washington, DC - Today, the National Stonewall Democrats (NSD) issued a statement on President Bush's appointment of Claude Allen as White House Domestic Policy Advisor. "The architect of domestic policy for the White House should be an advocate for every American family," said Dave Noble, NSD Executive Director. "Claude Allen has advanced ideological extremes in family policy that have endangered the health of gay youth. His record indicates that he would prompt the White House to promote anti-gay policy and attitude within the administration. As an organization, we are troubled by this appointment." Allen was previously nominated by President Bush for a seat on the 4th Circuit U.S. Appeals court, but had failed to receive Senate confirmation. Allen is a staunch conservative and abstinence activist. He has served the Bush Administration as Deputy Secretary of Health and Human Services, where he has been described as the administration's key advocate for abstinence-only programs. Claude A. Allen worked as an aide to former Senator Jesse Helms (R-NC). In 1984, while serving as press secretary chapters across the nation. NSD is committed to working through the Democratic Party co advance the rights of all people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. www.stonewalldemocrats.org for the Helms' senate campaign, Allen accused Helms' Democratic opponent as having ties "with the Diversity 19 VA LENTINE' S ,.Jf41','?,,. queers." National Stonewall Democrats is the only national organization of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender nts We Do It Different! Aprl_l 1 ® 2 SPRING! Diversity Weekend BOTH DA#Cn ON FRI & SATI for GLBTis/PPLAGs 1COUNTRY WESTERN' in Eureka Sprlafs. Arltaua, :caoo'!oTEGMP, oo RAc , Rt rt, FAU. & SPRING Di'lerslty Weekends, ,. .,. ay I on " VALENTINE'S, Conawts and other Events DlveNJlty BEARS I CONTEST & BBQ LUNCH www.DiversityPride.com Democrats, with more than 90 local The Point Foundation A Scholarship Lifeline For GLBT Students Scholarship opportunities for. exceptional students, ..-gardless of their ~exual orientation or gender identity; · The Point Foundation is the first and only nationwide LGBT scholarship·. organization that focuses exclusively on granting assistance to. undergraduate, graduate and post7graduate students of distinction. Point Scholars are chosen for their demonstrated leadership, scholastic achievement, extracurricular activities, involvement in the LGBT community and financial or emotional need. The most recent scholarship awarde.d was announced on January 12, 20Q5. An academic honorarium was .awarded to James· Barnett, the. 18-year:-old: n9n9t'. . student who was expelled in December from Trinity Christian Academy 'in Addison, Texas, in the greatcf·Dallas mcttopo tan are . . . '. discovered Barnett W!1S · gay and hosting My-Boi.com, a supportive Web site tor GLBT youths, school .oftidals reportedly outed him to .his parents, who agteed to withdraw him fro'!Jf:thc academy at the school's request, Barnett said. His parents then threatened to witliliold financial support for colle~ in the fall, Barnett added, if he did not agree to go to a college in Texas. Barnett hopes to attend school out of state. · The amount of the Point Foundation award will be determined after a financial review in the spring, the foundation said fa a press release. 'We ~e·plea.sed to.present this honor.aiium to James, an outstanding student turned away s~ply because of· his sexual orientation," Vance Lancaster, executive director of the Poihl: Foundation, said in the written statement. "This is a sadly common and vei:y real example of why Point Foundation scholarships are necessary." . The honorarium is ·separate from the Point Foundation's._an'nu,aI grams to GI.BT scholars, which will be determined in April or May for the 2005.:2006 school year. Applications are due March 1. · · "The Point Foundation is honored to. be in the position to bring this support to James," Lancaster said. "As the Point Foundation grows, we hope to create a world where students are not marginalized or turned away because of their sexual · orientation or gender identity--ever." The application process is open to ill LGBT students nationwide regardless of levci of education. Application Period S01.rtS January 1, 2005 All applications must be received by March 1, 2005. All additional materials must be received by March 15, 2005. A decision will be made by May 1, 2005. You can apply on-line at ( www.thcpointfoundation.org/apply.html) Page 23 I Dee A New Year and a New Beginning Well, first of all I want to say that I am a PROUD gay man. It is just that simple! I love my life and I am in it for the long haul. I love living in the Midwest and enjoy the changing of the seasons. But, I am getting to the point where things are going to have to change in my gay world. I am tired of being the scapegoat for all the stupid religious right wing nuts, the Republican politicians and the do-gooders of America. I own a home, pay property taxes on it and have a good job. Most of the people that I work with know that I am gay and understand that I was born that way. My neighbors are very nice and seem to like me as a neighbor. I keep my house in good order and of course my lawn and patio is the best kept on the block. But this is 2005 and things has just GOT TO CHANGE in my gay world. I am not going .to tolerate being a second class citizen anymore. I just won't do it! NO, no and NOi So, what am I going to do about it? First off I am NEVER again going to hide in the closet. I am NEVER again going to tell someone that I have a girlfriend. I am NEVER again going to be ashamed when I walk into a store with my partner as we are buying furniture or anything else. I am NEVER again going to be intimidated by any sales clerk or anyone when I am shopping. When we check into a motel or hotel I will ask for one bed for both of us and think nothing about it. I am a PROUD gay man and the rest of America will just have to get used to it. I have met a few gay men who live in Europe and they all are amazed when coming to the United States how intolerant so many Americans are to gays and lesbians here. They think of America as a land of guns and of right wing religious nuts. They think that small towns means small minds and I am beginning to think that they are right. I would love to live in a small town here in the Midwest however I have just learned that it is much easier foi: gay people to live in larger cities. What kind of America do we live in when the State legislatures pay more attention to gay civil unions than they do to educating the children of America. What right in America does some right wing religious nut have to try to force their religion down the throats of other people. One's religious beliefs should be kept to them. Another thing I am going to do this is year is NOT put up with bad or inferior service ANYWHERE. You go into a store to purchase something and the clerk is on their cell phone talking to a friend and trying to ring you up at the same time or your waitperson is having a bad day and wants you to feel sorry for them or you walk into a bar and the bartender is busy talking to his regular customers and doesn't have time to get you a drink. Nope, I am not going to cake it any more. I am sick and tired of having to deal with this, not only in the straight community but in the gay community as well. I love to hear of a gay business that has gone out of business and say that the gay community .doesn't support them. Ha! If they gave good service and appreciated their customers they would have lots of business. Just because a business is gay owned that is not a sufficient reason to give them your business unless they do give good service. So things are changing for me this year. I am going to be much happier and I have to bitch a little more to get good service and what I deserve then I will. It is just that simple! Page24 Paula Martirlac has b_ec;ri. writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, ·Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac FEBRUARY 2005 On The Move The week before George W. Bush's second inauguration, 22 national gay-rights organizations issued a unity statement, putting forth in clear and almost stirring prose their continuing commitment to working for a wide range of issues to achieve full equality for LGBT people. One of the things that struck me about the joint statement was its dual definition of "movement'' - first, as ''ao organized effort to promote or attain an end," but also as simply "the act of' moving." (YOU can read the full text at www.lambdalegal.org and the websites of other national groups.) That second definition is profound, but it's one we often forget. Indeed, it can be hard for groundbreaking reading series individual gay people - esp_ecially those living in called "In Our Own Write." ' hostile states - to see that we're in "the act of ______________ __,, moving" toward the attainment of'civil rights. Many o( us are? in fact, &cirig brutal attacks from some. of the same people who helped Bush. Wlll four more years in office. The joint st:u:ement from· otir national l~ders, then, caμ help us stop and remember that even though the progress of civil rights is maddeningly erratic, it is still progress. . WJ;iat'~ con~sing, I thln,k, is that the word "movement" implies going. forward in a linear fashion, like when you get in your car to go from point A to point B. But. when rou think about it, driving is often not that direct. You may start off,malcing great nme, but the~ th_ere might be traffic, an: accid~nt, or bad weat:her; yoμ: might get a flat; or maybe you hit a detour for roadwork, which sends you off in another direction or even in a circle. Ultimately, you get to poiot'B", but it took a lot longer' than you hoped. · · · Recent even~ in g:iy politics look a lot like that driving metaphor. In the space of 11 short months tn 2003 and 2004, we saw two amazing triumphs: the U.S. Supreme Court struck. do~n the remaining state sodomy laws, and same-sex couples began le~y n:iarrymg 10_ Massachus<:tts. B_ut not long after, 4,000 lesbian and gay couples in Califorrua had their legal marrtages annulled by the state. And in a political slam dunk, 11 state anti-p,y-marriage amendments passed in a single day. As 2005 dawned, however, we saw victory again: Illinois joined the list of states .with antidiscrimination laws. This is "movement''? Bumpy times like these could really throw our community off-balance if we didn't keep the bigger picture in view - that vie are in the business of fighting for nothing les~ than equality, like so many other groups (blacks, women) before us have been dotng for decades, even centuries. And unfair as it may seem, the road to _equality is:°'~ sI?~oth; neither blacks nor women: are anywhere nearing the completion of their mdividual struggles for full rights. Consider a little gay history. The fight against sodomy laws, for example, was a long struggle. We all know about Michael Hardwick's challenge to Georgia's law in ~e eatly 1?80s, and the resulting antigay Supreme Court decision in 1986. But by the um5 th~ high court heard _Bowers v. Hardwick_, legal analysts had alreadr, been tuiilg attn at state sodomy laws for decades, witnessing the first victory over this heinous legi~lation in Illino~s in 1961. And it had taken another agonizing eight years for a seconct state, Connecticut, to follow suit. ..... continued nex page. Page 25 lo addition, most of us are familiar with the marriage-equality movement that burst into public consciousness in Hawaii in the early '90s and brought us civil unions in Vermont and ultimately the marriage victory in Massachusetts. But the first same-sex couple to apply for a state marriage license did so in Minnesota back in 1970, when a lot of people in our community weren't even born and no anti-gay-marriage laws existed. That couple is still in the news, too: earlier this month, Jack Baker and Michael McConnell sued to have their marriage, which was performed by a Methodist minister in the Twin Cities recognized by the Internal Revenue ' Service. (Ibeir case, by the way, was thrown out.) History also teaches us that "movement'' doesn't mean that evervone walks together in lockstep. Both the· black and feminist movements witnessed considerable infighting over issues and tactics. And the gay movement is no different - within a day of the release of the "unity" statement; some LGBT activists rushed to criticize the major gay organizations for putting marriage equality so far down on its lists of goals, which they said could be viewed as retreating from the issue under pressure from the far right. One Illinois activist dismissed the national gay groups as basically inconsequential and "out of touch." But while we're squabbling among ourselves, let's remember that "movement" may involve taking a step forward, a couple back, and another off to the side before we are able to go forward again. Quotable Quotes "We need to educate the younger generation of gay men because many think that living with HIV is a real doddle. They don't realize that there's no cure; it's treatment for life and the meds can have horrible side effects." - Gay actor Rupert Everett to the British AIDS magazine Positive Nation, November issue. HRC RENEWS CALL FOR REPEAL OF 'DON'T ASK, DON'T TELL,' AS PENTAGON PONDERS TROOP SHORTAGE 'Any policy that keeps patriotic Americans from serving during wartime is bad for the nation,' said HRC Political Director \"\'innie Stachelberg. Press Release: Friday,Jan. 7, 2005 WASHINGTON-The Human Rights Campaign today :renewed its call to repeal the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, in light of a report in today's Washington Post stating that Army officials are considering changing Pentagon policy to allow for longer and more frequent call-ups of some reservists to meet the demands of conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan. "Any policy that keeps patriotic Americans from serving during wartime is bad for the nation," said HRC Political Director Winnie Stachelberg. "'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' is deeply hurtful to gay and lesbian service members and their families and is costing the nation valuable service ' members." According to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, more than 9,000 service members have been discharged since 1993 under the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy at a cost of more than a quarter billion dollars to U.S. taxpayers. According to the Washington Post story, a temporary increase of 30,000 troops in activeduty ranks that was authorized last vear will probably need to be made permane~t. "In addition ro the men and women who have already been discharged, this policy is a deterrent to countless other gay and lesbian Americans who cannot join the military for fear of discrimination," said Stachelberg. "Allowing aii Americans to serve openly and honestly is good for the country. It's common sense." The Human Rights Campaign is the i.t.rgest national ksbian, gay, bisex11at and rransgtnder politicai organization with members throughout the country. It effectively lobbies Congress, pr<roi<k5 campaign support ,md educates tbe public to ensure that LGBT Amtricans can bt open, honest and safl! at home, at u;ork and in the community. Page26 Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! February 2005 Hello Kittens, Uncle here bringing another week of advice on life and love, and all matters between. Uncle smells love in the air this Februarv Kittens. Valentine's Day will soon be here. It 'is the first time in youth, which we feel the excitement of being admired by another. Getting those little cards and candy ~e~s, be~ns our young journey for love. W ouldn t 1t be ~ce kittens to be able to have a heart box as we did when we were kids? Watch it fill up with those cute little cards. Uncle gets so sentimental during the holiday celebrating his favorite past time, the L---------------' pursuit of love. So, grab your valentine and sn e while we see what the mailbag has brought us this week. Mikey, . , I have this problem. I am attracted to guys in their 20's up to their l~te 30 s. I a short, slim guy who is 60 and dresses casually young. The only guys that hit on me are older than 50 or are married. I'm looking far a LTR. I'm not a bottom and guys tend to think I am due to my small stature. Can you offer any advice ?n how_ to attra~t the younger guys to me? I want them to want me for who I am. I m not Into paymg a guy to pretend to love me. Help Dearest Help, . , Kitten, if it is a LTR you seek, first and foremost, you must realize that you cant tag fate or the goddess of love with such conditions. You ~ust ?pen yo~ heart t<;> ~; so that you do not miss the love, fate might offer. Guys 10 the~ twenttes and thirties, well, who is not attracted. It is wild and untamed youth, which may be overshadowing your sight here. The male form ca°: do that. As_ for your stature, well great things come in small packages. There is nothing wrong with ?1at, show ?1em when it is time just what you are made of. Thirdly paying a guy will never brmg you love so don't even allow vourself to entertain such notions. If they do not see the hidden treasure that you ~re, than allow them to move on. Confidence in_ yourself sounds like a much need tool here. Do not allow age to bring fear and sel!. doubt. Age is nothing more than a state of mind. Here is wishing you many successes 10 loves endeavors during this the season of the hunt. Reme~ber Kittens, with age comes benefits, and I don't m~ax_i blue_ cross. I mean experience, and method. Youth as I said is wild and untamed, 1t 1s durmg these years that we find ourselves, and become the treasure we are now._ Give me a. man rl:at has perfected his craft any day to someone who will surely ~e all over me like a wild tornado, well ok, maybe a twister now and than, but still remember the worth of experience. Dear Uncle, . .al I met a woman a week ago and can think of nothing else. ~ o1:1y met he~ t~ a so~ situation and do not know if she is seeing anyone or even tf sne woul~ oe 10tcr~s,cd. I have a hard rime telling people how I feel, and making. the first move ts something that I rarely do. So, how can I let her know that I am mtercstcd before someone else comes along, if she is free in the first place? Wanting in the West Page27 MAIN STREET, JOPLIN, MISSOURI (41 7) 627-9035 Dear wanting, Kitten, you arc just a stalker in the making darling. Shy is so out, in this world of fast love. You must grab what you want, before someone else does. Work it, attitude women. What kind of lesbian arc you? I have never seen a shy lesbian before. I think that is an oxymoron to say the least. You will never get what you want like that, you will be left to sit in the back of the bus alone. There are many predators of love out there, it is time for you to present. Tell this female you are smitten with, that vou would like to take her to the truck rally or whatever it is you lesbians do. Allow things to flow from there. If there is interest, you will get your moment to make vour move. The smell of gas and oil in the air, the roar of the trucks, love can't be far behind. You will live life full of, what if, unless you get strong and show some self-confidence. Remember Kittens, it will be the one with the confidence, which will be the winner of the spoils. You must not allow society to dictate rules of love and self worth. Everybody has his or her merit; it is just a matter of showing that to the world at large. Set new rules, and play the game the best you can. You will be glad you did. Well, that is about all the rime I have this week Kittens. Herc is wishing you all well in your game of love, this valentine season. Uncle has a special Valentine this year. His name is D, and he has no idea of the love fest awaiting him. Until we meet, again remember, It is the queer with the positive mind, which will get their valentine Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too. Unck Miuv is II ch,i,racru from FrttLmce writer Michiud Hi;zrrum. Mich,id btlS beci writing/or tm ye,m. Utilizing his stNd.m, ,i,nd life experience to help others in his community, thro11gh h11mor ,i,nd sound II.Wice. Michul ,i,pp/ied bis su«Jy of psychology ,i,nd cruti'C>e fllriting, dS f!Jeil his extensiw background in menu/ be,iltb Direct c.ire to bring ,i, neTD style ,i,nd ,q,pro.teb to helping others. Mich,i,d's othn- 'll!orks can be fliev>ed ,i,t -.g,rylinkcontent.com. Page 28 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente FEBRUARY 2005 Jonathan llliys Meyers Goes fromVelvet __ to ~Elvis_ He was a bisexual David Bowi.e-csque creature in Todd Haynes' _Velvet Goldmine_, and now Jonathan Rhys Meyers will get his chance to be an Elvis impersonator. The Irish actor, who's also costarred in crowd-pleasers such as _Bend It Like Beckham_ and flops like _Alexander_, has started shooting the 1V miniseries _Elvis_ in New Orleans with a cast that includes Camryn Manheim as Presley's beloved mother Gladys, Randy Quaid as Col. Tom Parker, and Rose McGowan as AnnMargret. Gay production duo Robert Greenblatt and David Janollari (_Six Feet Under_) are on board to run the project, one that saw nearly 500 would-be Kings audition before the pouty-lipped U.K. import was chosen. And given Rhys Meyers' lithe frame, Romeo assumes the series will cover more of Presley's hip-swiveling years and less of his pantsuit-and-giant-gold-belt era. But then again, they can do a lot with prosthetic makeup these days. Hannigan's Back _In the Game Devoted lesbian _Buffy_-heads - among whom Romeo counts himself an honorary member - have been waiting for Alyson Hannigan's return to 1V for some time now. And for a while reports were surfacing that the former Willow would have her own sitcom, a la Mary Tyler Moore. Now she does. Sort of. The actor has joined the cast of ABC's midseason sitcom _In the Game_, which stars Jennifer Love Hewitt as the CEO of an ESPN-like cable sports network. Hannigan will play Hewitt's childhood best friend, who quits law school to become her pal's assistant. _Married with Children_ star Ed O'Neill takes on the role of Hewitt's father, a _Monday Night Football_ .producer who goes to work with his daughter. Meanwhile, Hannigan won't merely be playing Rhoda to Hewitt's Mary - producers are stressing the fact that she'll have storylines of her own. _Now_ Romeo's game. Cunningham Sells His _Specimen_ Ghosts? Terrorists? Aliens? Has _The Hours_ novelist· Michael Cunningham been tiling lessons from Stephen King? Readers will find out in May when the Pulitzer Prize winner's new book, _Specimen Days_, bits bookstore shelves. A trilogy of stories, _Specimen_ will feature an Industrial Revolution-era ghost story, a modern thriller about a suicide bomber, and a futuristic tale of extraterrestrial refugees flooding into Manhattlln. And the copnccting ,presiince . .in these three titl~s? wilt Whitinari, o( course - call him. this novel's Virginia Woolf. Mean.while, i:Lonreaders will have a slightly longer wait for the film version, the rights to which have just been purchased, prepublication, by gay producer Scott Rudin. This collaboration is Rudin and ' Cunningham's second, following _The Hours_; and if the movie ends up half as strange and intriguing as the book, Romeo will be first in line. Tyra Banking on Talk Show She created and hosts the gayest show on television what else but UPN's _America's Next Top Model_? But that was only the beginning for Victoria's Secret model-turned-media-mogul Tyra Banks. Now she wants to be inside your home every weekday. Warner Bros. Domestic 1V is excited about this prospect, too, and has just started selling Banks' new five-a-week syndicated talk show, the eponymous _Tyra Banks Show_, to regional outlets. So far Denver, San Diego, Spokane, and Portland, Ore., are committed, and deals are being negotiated with Disney, Viacom, and Tribune Broadcasting. If all goes as planned, Banks will soon go bead-to-head with Oprah and Ellen. Hope she bas better luck wiili ratings than Tony Danza. Or Jane Pauiey. Or Tempest Bledsoe. Or Dr. Laura. Or [fill in the blank]. Page 2.9 Gay Games from pg-11 "Syaney and Chicago are forever destined to be entwined in the minds of the LGBT community worldwide," said Kevin Boyer, Gay Games VII Co ViceChair. "Sydney hosted a glorious Gay Games VI in 2002 and Chicago will host Gay Games VII in 2006. We've watched as Australians and Sydneysiders preregistered for Gay Games VII in extraordinary numbers - the highest registration numbers per capita of any nation on earth. The legacy of the Gay Games is strong in Sydney and we welcome the opportunity to partner with New Mardi Gras to strengthen the LGBT community there while we prepare to welcome Aussies to Chicago in 2006." · "Mardi Gras is bigger than Sydney," said Mark Ort, New Mardi Gras Co-Chair. "People from Beijing to Barcelona look to it as a beacon for the fight for equal rights, acceptance of the GLTBQ community and a celebration of its rich culture. The Gay Games and our friends in C:hicago share these same values and goals and is an ideal match for our organization. Our new relationship with the Gay Games in Chicago will further enhance our reputation as an allinclusive, international event ·while we both work. toward equality for all." Fellow Co~Chair Steph Sands added, "Sydney and the <rty Games• movement already enjoy close ties. We hope the new alliance will help to bring more . people to Sydney for a wte qf a queer Aussie summer." "Cliicago continues to be. a true partoer to the international Federation of Gay Games and. our pari:iciRani:s worldw;idc" said Kathleen Webster, Federation· of <rty Games co-president. "The spirit and success of the 2002 <rty Games are a testament to the Sydney community's commitment to sport and to the international LGBT community. Chicago has shown itself to be a worthy successor. Just as the lesbian and gay sports and culture community will forever remember the Sydney skyline and harbour and their legacy to the Gay Games movement, athletes and artists now tum their attention to Chicago with its outstanding sport traditions, unique architecture and miles of lakefront parks. We're thrilled with this new parmership between Sydney and Chicago." About New Mardi Gras The Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras is an iconic event of international renown and is Australia's largest a;;nual outdoor event enjoyed by over one million national and international visitors. In February 2005, New Mardi Gras launches a four. week festival with over 100. events, Launch, Fair Day, the world famous Parade, and culminating wit.¾ a world famous Party. Partners of New Mardi Gras include the City of Sydney, the Sydney Star Observer, plus a dozen other media and business partners. For more information, visit http:/ /www.mardigras.org.au. About Gay Games VII Gay Games VII Sports and Cultural Festival will tiike place in Chicago 15-22 July 2006. Over 12,000 athletes from more than 100 countries will compete in 30 sports ranging from softball to dancesport, swimming to tennis. The weeklong event will iriclude band, cbeerleading and color guarq performances, chorus, an ancillary arts festival, arid a series of community-organized socW events and parties. The opening ceremony is scbednled for 15 July at Soldier Field, the lakefront home stadium the Chicago Bears. Closing ceremony will be 22 Juiy at Wrigley Fi'eld, the home of the Chicago Cubs, lo~ated in the heart of Chicago's largest LGBT neighborhood. Games vfl is now , or:g. In ~ddition.to New Sydney Gay and Le~biao Marcti ·Gras, other, earty global . . . Games VII iriciude . Media Group (Chicago, USA) ~ plus more than 30 business sponsors. About The Gay Games The Gay Games was conceived by Dr. Tom Waddell, an Olympic decathlete, and was first held in San Francisco in · continued on page-33 Page 32 .0ut of Torm from pa~ 7 offers a pair ,of rcptitible culinary , vacation optle>ns. In .the 9hapnpg ;village of'. Ptj1;ncy, you· can ~e one; of De.?orah Krasner!! V:emiont Cμlina,rv. Vacations, whcr,c y6u' cnjo,y ,stx dayf! pf_ g cduca . inside a bcaμtifiil .1 cptury ham.· .. ,barn. contains fiye> cieg-antly appointeil;gucst room;s plu{ a library stocked with scads of cookbooks. 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Subsequent Gay Games have been held in San Francisco (1986; 3,500 participants), Vancouver (1990; 7,300 participants), New York (1994; 12,500 participants), Amsterdam (1998; 13,000 participants), and Sydney (2002; 11,000 participants). The Federation of Gay Games is the international governing body that perpetuates the quadrennial Gay Games and promotes the event's founding principles of Participation, Inclusion, and Personal BestTM. For more information, visit GayGamcs.org. Chicago Games, Inc, is the host of Gay Games VII and is led by experienced civic leaders from Chicago's business, sports and non-profit sectors. For information about how to sponsor or participate in Gay Games VII in Chicago, visit www.GayGamcsChicago.org, e-mail info@GayGamesChicago.org, or phone (173) 907-2006, Spring Events in Eureka Springs, Ark:i.nsas Based in the hcan of the Ozarks, Diversity Pride Events invites you to visit our little town of Eureka Springs, Arkansas, for Fall & Spring Diversirv Weekends, romantic V alenfues Getaways, special Concerts & other Pride Events. Diversity Pride Events is committed to producing quality events for Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, and Transgendcr (GLBTs) and Parents, Friends and Families of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAGs), of ALL ages! Our events are for GLBTs an.d their Straight friends & family to enjoy together! COMMUN.ITV MEAL $4.00 DONATION MCC JOPLIN 2902 E. 20TH ST. JOPLIN, MISSOURI EVERY WED. 6PM Seo by Jack Fertig February 2005 "Entertllin, Llbra!" es Mercury and Venus enter .Aquarius, then aspect Uranus, introducing wild new ideas and aesthetics. Meanwhile Sun conjoins Neptune, also in .Aquarius, making it a wacky, mystical, very queer week! Be ready for anything. ARIES (March 21 to April 20): You have some wild ideas for getting ahead in your work, but check with colleagues and superiors, whom you're likely to upset if you go off half-cocked. Listen to friends for new spiritual insights. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): New ideas that seem totally crazy at first are worth discussing with experts. Your assessment of your own abilities is way off - but are they better or worse than you think?, That's what you need to check with the experts! GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Everybody's full of wild ideas right now, and you have a grand head start in that department! What you have to say should be saved for appropriate and/ or receptive audiences. listening can also be a fascinating experience. CANCER 0une 22 to July 22): Your eagerness for sexual experimentation is cranked up a few notches, and your partner is more than ready to cooperate. It could be a wonderfully transcendent experience. Drugs are tempting, but they are really more distraction than help. LEO Ouly 23 to August 22): Relationships are work, and new issues are erupting-to work on. It's all quite manageable, although likely to be confusing at first. Some of the most importll.llt messages aren't rational or verbal, so get confirmation! VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): You're getting playful in ways that may look like perverse workaholism - or simply perverse. If you have a sense of humor, it doesn't matter what others think. Guard your health, especially against infections and working (or working out) too hard. LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): The stars say to entertain at home, whether a big bash, a cozy little tea, or an intimate rendezvous with one special person. Most importantly, however you do it, give it an eccentric, festive twist. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): This is an, um, _interesting_ time to open communications with family members and find out about old secrets and scandals. It may not be pretty, but you don't scare easily. Go ahead and rouse those sleeping dogs! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Disagreements lead to very interesting discussions now. Keep an open mind, be ready for a challenge, and remember that your logic is off this week. Argue from the heart if you like, but your brain just isn't there for it. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): Go on a shopping spree and dress up in some new styles. Give yourself wiggle room to go over budget. Spending some extra on yourself is importmt for your self-esteem. Trying a new look is even more important! AQUARIUS Oaouary 20 to February 18): You're usually so certain of yQurself, but not this week. That's good for you, although uncomfortable. Letting go of old ideas will free you up for ne:w ones. Spend time meditli.ting; make note of your dreams. Take time for a small retreat. PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Friends will help you discover things about yourself you never knew - but what will they learn in the process? Keep your ears and mind open and your mouth shut. You need to confide in someone, but be very careful who it is! Jt«fe Fertig has been u,or/eing as a professw,u/. astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the .Associ4tion for Astrological Networking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864-8302, through his webnU!at http:/ /u,ww.starjack.com Page 35 North Korean leader claims his eountey has no AIDS because there are no gays in North Korea. .MUST FIGHT UR.GE TO OIVE SOMEONE AMAICBOVER! UST FIGHT URGE TO GIVE SOMEONE A MAKEOVER! 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Ctr- -518 E. Commerical- -869-3978 PFLAG-Springfield- - - - - - - - - -417-889-1059 PROMO SW MO- promoswmo@hotmail.com Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) Cathedral of Hope- 600 NW 13th St- - 232-HOPE The Center- - 2135 NW 39th St. - - - - 405-524-6000 Oklahoma, McAlester McPride- - - -POBox 1515, McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) MCC United- -1623 N. Mapiewood• -918-838-1715 TOHR- - - - - PO Box 2687, Tulsa, OK 74101 Tulsa Rough Riders- -www.tuharoughriders.com GLBT Comm. Ctr- -5545 E. 41st-. - - 918-743-4297 Page 37 -Business ServicesArkan5as, Eureka Springs Diversity Pride Events - - www.diversitypride.com Missouri, Eureka Shelter ln5urance- -Greg Tainter- - 636-938-5500 Missouri, Joplin (417) Body Swim Masiage Therapy- - - -417-825-5800 Charles Burt Realton-Vicki Bronson-- -434-0077 RE/MAX - -Cathe Letts- - . 417-483-5313 Office Max- -440 Rangcline Rd- - - 417-623-1007 Joan Szymanski- Beauty Consult,- 417-673-1181 Missouri, Springfield (417) Priscilla's···· 1918 S. Glenstonc - -417-881-8444 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Quotable Quotes Century21 • ·4301 NW 63rd #100 405- 840-2106 "Ohio is the new Florida in the 2004 Gushers Restaurant-2200 NW 39Exp405-525-0730 Ingrids Kitchen- -3701 N. Youngs- - -405-946-8444 Jungle Reds - 2200 NW Expwy- - - 405-524-5733 Piece To Remember-2131 NW 39th- -405-528-2223 Priscilla's- 615 E. Memorial - - - 405-755-8600 Oklahoma, Tulsa Kelly Kirby,CPA-4815 S Harvard - 918-74f5466 Underguy.com - - -825 E. 3rd - - 918-829-0824 Priscilla's - - 7925 E. 41st - - - -918-627-4884 Priscilla's · · · · 5634 W. Skelly - - - •-918-446-6336 Priscilla's••• -11344 E. 11th•••• - 918-438-4224 Priscilla's• - - - 2333 E. 71st • • - - - .,. 918-499-1661 election and we are looking at a recount headed by Secretary of State Kenneth Blackwell. The same man that permitted the use of electronic machines that provided no paper record. The same man who presided over a voting system that resulted in quick, short lines in the dominantly Republican suburbs, while the inner cities experienced four and sixhour- long waiting lines." - Gay icon Barbra Streisand writing on her Web site, Dec. 6. WR1TER SUSAN SONTAG HAS DIED AT THE A.OE OF 11. SHE IS SURVIVED 8Y SOME WOMAN. WHO 100K HER PICTURE FOR A VODKA AJ>. Page38 NEW CARTOONS A COUPLE OF" GUYS A Couple ofguyse ~~~ Cura~ao courts gay travelers Seven years after the Cayman Islands refqsed to let a gay-themed cruise dock, another Caribbean island has put out the welcome mat. The Dutch island of Cutas:ao is encouraging gay and lesbian trav;clers to visit with the help of a new Web site, www.gaycuracao.com. To receive a free DVD about the island, call (800) 328-7222 or visit www.curacao-tourism.com. If yoive ever been to Holland, you knqw .that the Dutch don't raise a blonde eyebrow over the gay lifestyle. Same is tru6 in their tropical paradise, Curas:ao. The motto here: "Live & Let Live." .An:d oh how you can live. Curas:ao is surrounded by over thirty uncrowded beaches, some intimate and tucked away without another sole in sight. And these beaches are oh-soinviting all year round, with an average air temperature of 85° in the summer and 81 ° in the winter. And an average water temperature of between 78° and gzo. A short drive in from the beaches, you'll find Willemstad, one of six UNESCO world heritage city sites in the Caribbean. Willemstad is historically significant, because it is still filled with Dutch-colonial architecture dating back to the 17th and 18th centuries. The city is also home to important. art, maritime and Jewish· museums, as well as one of the best anthropological museums in the world. A short swim out from the beaches, you'll find some of the best shore diving in the world. And further out, top underwater attractions such as the famous Mushroom Forest. In either case, the visibility around Curas:ao is remarkable, averaging about 100 feet. Or, to put it another way, it's easy to see why Curai;:ao should be at the top of your vacation shortlist. Night Life and Casino's. In Curai;:ao, the nights are most definitely full of life. Pull up a chair on the beach and relax to a nice breeze and a soothing jazz 'band. Or tear up the dance floor at midnight to a hot Latin beat in one of our many nightclubs. Either way, you'll find enough here to keep you entertained till the wee-hours of the morning. And if you're feeling lucky, then tty your hand in one of ten hotel casinos that are on the island. They're open daily and feature a variety of games including blackjack, roulette, craps and poker mach.ines. The Beaches: About 40 public and private beaches are tucked in and around the island ranging from private, secluded, intimate coves to larger beaches that are bustling with activities such as live bands, beach sports, parasailing and jet skiing. Since the northern coast of the island is made up of rocky shores and rough seas, it's the southwestern coast with irs calm and crystal clear warers which harbors the most inviting beaches. Go to: http:/ /www.gaycuracao.com for more information and travel arrangemems. ip Off Thursday•s SlJ! <.ASII·& Pllm Beer Bust q-CLOSf. •oss.e >e> oe>sNLO·s .<><> IIALXFi!!'T'XNrs; •t2.so weu.. "DRXNIC9o $1.75 00ME?STIC LONGNSC~ ,.' ~ 'DajJ. ~ Doy~. Dally lunch and Dinner Specials Open J J om Dolly Happy Hour 3-6 & 9-dose Hlghlly 29. '9 3rd Nlg.ht Free Holkloys and Special Events . Excluded Monthly Mov• In Spedals P RO U D LY S E R VI N G T H I! O·L B T & ALLIED CO M M U N I TY FREE Page 2 HIST BITD. IIED'IINTIW 1--fflt-m-11111 109111 I. ' i 1 ' ! j Page 3 Springfield's · Catering to e GL Communi Hear eRumors.com 5pm-1:30am Now in the Back Room, Check out our New Open Friday and Saturday 8 pm to 1 :30 am . of pee ..• called for a co t;,forBici mar ouples: A t~tal: sraali d· s. pe·e cl:i •. 9· ft r·.. .. •~e Allard (R-CO) duc~l.the Mat;4~e Protection A. (MPA) on the US Senate floor ::_ m_aking if .... •. :;tije i~St * business in• full week B'ush's seconil!'t6ri:n .. j Page 5 Dear Editor I just picked up my first copy of the STAR; how nice to have a feature article on the potential for Tulsa to become a Gay Mecca (February issue). Your observations were close to target with a few pellets of shot flying slightly off course. Tulsa's location is one of it's greatest assets. From Dallas to Kansas City and from Nashville to Denver, there is no city more liberal and accepting. Often compared to Boston for it's art, architecture and civic life, Tulsa has: nine welcoming and affirming churches, a thriving Jewish Community, several predominantly gay neighborhoods (Brady Heights Historic District has easily the highest percentage of gays and lesbians than any other), a smattering of bars, the most extensive Gay Pride event in a 3 state area, the oldest active gay rights organization in the state (fulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights • TOHR), and a police department that meets with gay leaders as part of their diversity training. In spite of Oral Roberts University being located here (or maybe because of it) Tulsa also has one of the largest PFLAG organization in the countrv. Additionally, there are many varied social ~lubs (the leather community is one of the most vast) and a capital campaign with alreadv over $300K in funds working towards building a new and visible Gay Pride Center (www.pyramidproject.org). The gay business organization TuRBO is going strong with almost 100 members under the stewardship of TOHR; and several gay restaurants have opened and closed in the past years • hopefully there will be more soon. It is my hope and that of my colleagues that the new Gay Pride Center will become an anchor for what will be a Gay District for Tulsa. Whether that is in The Brady Arts District (close to the already predominantly gay neighborhoods and shops) or in a part of the city that has the right stuff, you are more likely .:o see a gathering of forces within a Gay District just like in other major cities. Not a Gay District to ghettoize our community, but to give us the strength of combined spirit. Best Regards, T'mo•hv A. Wiiliams. Tu'.sa. OK ~ - ,/ , , ·Let's Rodeo 2005 by Greg Steele TULSA, OK. With the Fort Worth rodeo kicking off the 2005 gay rodeo season in March, Tulsa's T-Town Rodeo will begin the four states region's buckin for buckles show of events on April 8th- 10th at the Tulsa Expo Square Arena. For more information and tickets go to www.soonerstaterodeo.com. Sponsorships are still available. Diamond State Rodeo, in Little Rock Arkansas presents it's 10th season with the "Rodeo In The Rock 2005" April 22nd-24th at the Arkansas Equestrian Center Barton Coliseum. For more info go to: www.dsra.org. Rodeo Wichita presented bv the Kansas Gay Rodeo Assoc. will be held in Wichita, Kansas May13-1 Sth. Location tO be announced. www.kgra.us OGRA, Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Assoc. holds their 20th annual "Great Plains Rodeo" May 27th-29th at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds arena. OGRA is the 3rd largest gay rodeo event under the IGRA umbrella. For schedule of events visit www.okgayrodeo.com MGRA's "Show-Me-State Rodeo" will take off later this fall September 2nd- 4th. The Missouri Gay Rodeo Assoc. is in there 13th year and has chapters in Kansas City, Springfield and Joplin. For updates go to: www.mgra.us The International Gay Rodeo f\ssociation (IGRA) is an umbrelia organization comprised of 20 regional Gay Rodeo Associatiom from across the United States and Canada. IGRA serves to foster the sport of Rocke :ind Country & Western actiYities. IGRf\, !D fellowship with its member associai:io,i,< donates ;housands of doi!ars to char:n- each year. The Gay and Lesbian Co:nmumt1es ui the United States and Canada have be::-n en:dched by the eciucational efforcs of lGR:\ through its sanc:ioning and sprrnsorship ,,f tne various events and activities which are a part of what we cali Gay Rodeo. Your locai Rodeo Associaticn n:::ed, your support, have fun for a good crns<::. They Do! Page 6 MARCH 2005 by Andrew Collins "Palm Beach, Florida" With the emergence of South F1orida as one of the hottest queer destinations in North America, the pink presence has gradually migrated to metro Palm Beach, a region not traditionally known for its lesbian and gay scene. The area's largest city, West Palm Beach, and its high-rent, ocean-front neighbor, Palm Beach, are but an hour north of the gay-popular Ft. Lauderdale, . . . . and they offer plenty of cultural, dining, and rughtlife diversions as well as some of the nation's ritziest hotels. West Palm Beach originated largely as a place to accommodate the countless cooks, maids, chauffeurs, butlers, and gardeners employed in the great mansions and resorts of Palm Beach. Although it'1 much larger than Palm Beach ind contains the region's major airport and train station, for many years it was considered little more than a pass-through for travelers headed to Palm Beach, and as recentlv as die mid' 90s ':'as ~addled ~th ~gh crime and urban blight. Over the past dec~de, however, a combmatton of C1V1C prtde, progressive planning, and private investment have helped turn downtown into a vibrant residential, commercial, and arts district. The crown jewel of downtown's renaissance, the $600 million CityPlace entertainment and shopping center has been built to resemble a Mediterranean village - it contains more than 75 mostly upscale chain shops, a dozen fine restaurants a 20~screeh cinema, and a massive concert hall. ' Another major draw is the Raymond F. Kravis Center for the Performing Arts - a ven1;1-e for ~rst-rate ballet, classical music, and Broadway-style musicals. The city's most 1mpress1ve cultural attraction, the Norton Museum of Art contains a fine collection of 1_9th- and 20th-century American and European paintings; following the 2003 operuog of a 45,000-square-foot wing, it became the Tuigcst art museum in the state. . Fr~m downtown West Palm Beach, Route A1A leads over the"Flagler Memorial Bndge mto P:tlm Beach, long one of the wealthiest - and unabashedly snobbiest - enclaves on the Eastern Seaboard. The gay and lesbian scene is virtuallv invisible her~, b~t it can be fun ch~g along the town's gilded avenues, trying to guess which tortress wall or towenng hedge conceals the estll.te of which celebritv. The s~azzf shopping begins along Royal Poinciana Way, which you'll bit just after crossir~g th: Flagler Memorial Bridge. The best places for window browsing and gallery noppmg are the toy-poodle-infested sidewalks of Worth Avenue, several bl~cks ~outh, where you'll find stores with such ptedous, if gag-inducing, natnes as Ansto~ds and Au Cas~ere. For a chance to marvel at the island's I~ of· con~pt~uous c_o~sumpuon, spend an hour or two touring Flagler Museum, :which is set tnstde Whitenall, a 73-room, turn-of-the-century castle. · · As for nos~ing, West Palm Beach's most homo-popular restaut20t, JU,,~ ~a~e, ?ffers an inventive, changing menu of contemporary American · · 10c1ud10g black bean and tomato cakes and goat cheese-and crepes. It occupies a retro-cool former drugstore (circa 19 , of the city's antiques row. Cabana, a hip sidewalk cafe with a sexv dinmg·, West Paim's funky Clematis Street, serves wonderful ... ndt~ :'-}:' · .·,;:':}-,-: <✓;: ,,_, 't½ .. '"~- t ~ ,,,. ·,t;; ·(&. ;. ~'Cc i I 1 i l I i i Page 7 Nuevo Latino fare, including a tender marinated skirt steak and heavenly Cuban sandwiches. Wash everything down with a mojito cocktail. Across the bridge in Palm Beach, Chuck and Harold's is where visiting celebs congregate for a casual meal and where everybody else comes to peoplewatch - tty to grab a table outside overlooking the sidewalk. Bice Ristorante, tucked in a cloistered courtyard off of Worth Avenue, serves excellent Northern Italian food and is one of the best see-and-be-seen eateries in Palm Beach consider seared tare tuna with sauteed butternut squash, crispy spinach, and a sweet-tangy apricot sauce. Hamburger Heaven is a jazzed-up version of the classic all-American burger joint; this small luncheonette with a Ushape counter is something of a local institution in downtown Palm Beach, drawing equally among the hoi polloi and the local elite. It's also a favorite spot for hearty breakfasts. You'll find a handful of gay nightspots in West Palm Beach, including Kashmir, a festive and elaborate warehouse disco. The area's definitive cruising-andmingling video bar, H.G. Roosters has been going strong for years. The crowd is eclectic, and the staff cute and friendly. A branch of the famed nightclub in the Hamptons ( on eastern Long Island, in New York), the Resort Lounge occupies a glam space inside CityPlace and pulls in its share of A-listers, along with plenty of poseurs and wanna-bes simply hoping to see some A-listers. Paris and Nicky are said to be regulars at this riotously colorful, sexually ambiguous hangout. The gay-friendly Respectable Street Cafe, at the west end of Clematis Street, tanks among the best music clubs in the city, presenting an eclectic range of bands. 5101 is a low-keyed gay neighborhood bar, and Cupids Cabaret is a favorite place to ogle male strippers, with lap dances being a house specialty. It's the onlv bar in South Florida where the dan'cers take _everything_ off. If you want to be close to gay nightlife, stay in West Palm, which is home to the super-sleek Hotel Biba, a big hit with trendy types, thanks to its Aveda bath products, glass-tile mosaic floors in the bathrooms, angular mahogany furniture, and lavenderscented closets. The intimate property has just 43 rooms and brings a splash of Miami Beach's outrageousness to the city's downtown. The Hibiscus House - a 1922 mansion in one of West Palm Beach's most historic neighborhoods - is now a B&B run by gracious hosts Raleigh Hill and Colin Rayner. Each room has a name that bears out a particular look. The Green Room has French doors opening onto a balcony with verdant garden views; the Burgundy Suite is bathed in sumptuous reds. In the morning you're treated to a delicious two-course breakfast. The lavish, gay-owned Grandview Gardens B&B lies within walking distance of downtown West Palm Beach's many fine shops and restaurants. This dashing 1920s Spanish Mediterranean-style home contains five posh yet reasonably priced rooms, all with French doors opening onto secluded terraces that oYerlook the pool. Palm Beach is the domain of posh resort compounds, and no place captures the regal essence of this wealthy, blueblooded enclave more persuasively than the majestic, twin-turreted Breakers resort, which opened in 1896 and anchors 140 beautifully manicured acres of lawns, gardens, and palm trees. The Italian Renaissance building contains 560 ultraposh rooms, several excellent . restaurants (Sunday brunch in The Circle dining room is de rigueut), two outstanding 18-hole golf courses, a huge full-service spa and fitness center overlooking the ocean, and scads of other impressive amenities. Another popular choice, if money's not an issue, is the Four Seasons Ocean Grand, a contemporary 6-acre oceanfront compound a few miles south of the hubbub of Worth Avenue. Although supremely sumptuous, the sleek design and decor contribute to a fairly relaxed mood you'll feel right at hor~e walking through the lobby in casual threads. A refined and historic boutique hotel with a discreet gay :.md lesbian following, the 43- room Chesterfield Palm Beach feels a bit like a private European dub, with its museumquality furnishings, courtly restaurant, garden courtyard, and afternoon high-tea service. Rooms are cozy but comfy, with marble baths, downy bathrobes, and 1~\7, y,rith VCRs. It's steps frnn~ Worth An::nue shopping. '"'•····continued page-JJ Page 8 WAL-MART CHANGES FAMILY POLICY 'We hope that with equal responsibility come equal benefits,' said HRC's Daryl Herrschaft. WASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign appiauded Wal-Mart Stores, the nation's largest private employer, for a new definition of family that includes same-sex partners recognized under state law. "We hope that with equal responsibilir-y come equal benefits," said HRC's Darvl Herrschaft, deputy director for HRC'~ workplace project. "We are encouraged by this sign showing America's heartland employer understands same-sex couples share the responsibilities that come with being a family. It's only appropriate for these families to also receive the same benefits as others." Wal-Mart's definition of "immediate family" was included in a conflict-ofinterest poiicv the companv filed yesterday with the Sec~riti~s and Exchange Commission. A portion of the policy follows: "You are responsible for advancing WalMart's business interests when the opportunity to do so arises. You ,,;ay not take any opportunities or use any con.fidet:tial information for your benefit, or for the benefit of your immediate family members, that you discoi:er or obtain through your employment with Wal-Mart. Immediate family members include !whether by birth, adoption, marriage or domestic partnership or civii union, if recognized lry your state or other local law) your spouse, children, parents, si · , mothers and fathers-in-law, sons daughters-in-law and brothers and sistersin- 1.aw. '' "\X' e will continue our work to encourage Wal-Mart and other companies to expand fair-minded poiicies to areas where same-sex couples are not recognized by law," added Herrschaft. "Without legal recognition of same-sex couples, employers' domestic partner programs are a critical way to ensure that every employee's family h~s equal access to healthcare, medical leave and other workplace-offered benefits. Companies that offer these benefits understand that the strength and stability of every employee's family life correlates with the quality of their work and the success of the business." Currently 228 - or 45 percent - of Fortune 500 companies offer health care benefits to employees' same-sex domestic partners or spouses. The number has increased tenfold since 1995, when onlv 21 Fortune 500 companies offered the , benefits. Wal-Mart competitors Costco Wholesale, Best Buy and Horne Depot all offer domestic partner health benefits. In July 2003, Wal-Mart expanded its nondiscrimination policy to include sexual orientation. Currently, nine of che 10 top companies in the Forrune 500 include sexual orientation in their nondiscrimination policies, and three of these companies also include pro_tection against discrimination based on gender identity in their policies. "Every gay, lesbian, bisexual and rransgender employee deserves to be judged by the job they do, not who they are," said Herrschaft. "We urge Wal-Mart and other companies to add protections for ttansgender employees so that no employees are at risk for losing their livelihood for reasons that have nothing to do with their work." The Human Rights Campaign is the largest nationai lesbian, gay, bisexual and irarngender political organization with members throughout the country. It effectively lobbies Congress, provides campaign support and educates the public to ensure that LGBT Americans can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community. Page 9 Photo's by Chaz Up Close with Male Entertainer Joseph. Male entertainment, it's hot or it's not! This 24 year old is hot! Joseph loves the spot light and said " I enjoy the enthusiasm of the crowd and I have a great time doing it. The money is very good also". His athletic build and handsome face quickly gets your attention when he jolts onto the stage. The fans in Springfield are all to eager to voice there approval as he flexes every muscle in his 5' 11" frame and gives a very masculine performance. Joseph grew up on a farm, a foster home south of Atlanta, GA until he was 18 when he left and went to work in a logging camp. He moved to Springfield, MO four years ago where he works for a construction company pouring concrete. With a goal of attending college to study creative · · writing and music, he plays the acoustical tar and has performed as lead singer in a Springfield straight clubs. Joseph's main is to be successful in music. In his spare time ri exercise are his favorite hob voted him our 2005 Mister OZ",· Greg Hill. Currently performing on week ends at the OZ bar in Springfield, Joseph has become a popular main attraction and draws a huge crowd at the newly reorganized club. "Joe has .become such a hit we have Talented live entertainment here in i:he four states region has become the signature of many night dubs and bars. Exceptional performers are highly courted in an extremely competitive business. Singers, Comedians, Female Impersonators, Musicians, Musical Groups and Male Dancers WANTED! Club pat.tons love to dance to the music of a great DJ, but are also looking for an alternative in good live gay entertainment. Page 12 • • • y 4815 South Harvard Ave., Suite 424 Tulsa, OK 74135-3068 Phone: (918) 747-5466 Email: KellyKirbyCPA@sbcglobal.net accoun GLBTC 1982 Office Licensed in Missouri, Arkansas, Illinois & Colorado www.shelterinsurance.co~, This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Life-Worker's Comp. -Home-Auto-Farm-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Post Office Box 339 Eureka; Missouri 63025 Tel: (636),~38-5500 Fax:' (636) 938-3539 Page 15 "Chat Rooms, Bar Scenes, Ect." Well, here I am a single gay man and where oh where do I look for someone? The chat rooms are really getting more weird all the time. There are getting to be way to many "crazies" out there. One has to be VERY cautious when meeting anyone for the first time from a chat room conversation. It is always best to meet in a bar or in a public place like a shopping center or somewhere that is really safe. And of course it seems like three-fourths of the guys you meet in the chat rooms turns out to be married heteros who are just looking for a little extra action on the side. And that is NOT something that I am looking for in my life right now. Then there are the different descriptions of one's own assessment of themselves. Nothing wrong with being 40 or 50 or even 60 or 70 but be honest when giving your age. A 60 year old cannot possibly pass for a 25 year old. And we won't even go into the "aol size" difference between 6 inches and 9 inches. It seems that there is always somebody for everyone so why lie about who vou are? Just go with the flow and enjoy life. Just be very specific in the chat rooms on who you are and what vou are looking for. , The good old gay bars are st ill a s tap .l e for hoping to hook up with someone. · someone from out of town comes through and of course everyone hits on them quickly. I do like to get out on weekends and travel to cities usually within 100 miles of here and that can sometimes be fun. A new face in town always draws interest. I have even been known to hit a few straight bars in a Holiday Inn, Ramada Inn or some of the other major hotel chains. Amazingly I have found several other gay guys going there also. My older friends tells me that a few years ago that almost evervone went out for happy hour from 5 to 7 and that the bars were ii.ways packed at that time with people getting off of work. That sounds great! Just wish that it was like that today. . Now it seems that nobody goes out till at Je1ist 10 PM and sometimes even later. Since I have to be at work at 8 every morning that just doesn't work for me. I.have ii.ways had an aversion to Parks. They just really never did anything for me. It was just to public for me. I ha~e lots of friends who cruise the parks all the time but it just doesn't ;.ork for me. But with the proper "eye contact" I have found people at the car wash, supermarket, shopping mall and even at Walmart! It just takes a little more time to search sometimes. But I won't give up trying to find that "special" person in my life. I know that someday, somehow, somewhere he will come into my life and it will be perfect. But until then I will just continue to keep on the lookout for Mr. Right whether at a bar, on line, just looking in the BIG world or at gay meetings, groups or seminars or gatherings. I won't give up. But the only problem ----------------------7 the bars that I go to all the time have the same people in them night after night after night. I have either been with all of them or have by my own choice not wanted to be with them. Once in a great while fWlyff•I .. w.,,r s,-, Y.•lll§ s~--.r ... ,, .. .., COag COaooMS S. t..Aftght ffilllgs CBouHque 417 -6.59-991$ M••• I. W...'• - el....,_ & lheet 719 N• M.t'• & .._.,, U.,.rie Jeplilt, MO t,.tMI Nn Sins O,.. T---,- ffWi1J 1a-,pm 'S,:at 10-Spm Page 16 124 N. Boston - TulsaT OK - 918.584.9494 Thursday Nights - Rachael Erikks - MGA 2004 Sunday Nights - Catia Lee Love - MGA 2000 Thursday and Sunday - 18 to enter; 21 to drink Friday and Saturday Dance Party -21 to enter 9 p till 2 a - Thu-sday - Sunday nights "Night of Press Release Feb 19, 2005 R 2005" JOPLIN, MO A "Night of Stars 2005" for AIDS Project of the Ozarks. The e·.enr ·.viii be held on Sunday, April 3rd, 2nos. The annual fund-raiser will begin at 2 PI\f at Ree's Lounge iocated at 716 S. Mam. Parking and entrance is at the rear of the building off of Joplin Street. All monies raised during The Nignt of Stars 2005 wiil be donated to APO to assist HIV clients living in the southwest 1\fissouri 1\rea. The event activities will include an auction of donated items and services and a talent show featuring local performers. AIDS Project of rhe Ozarks provides care and services to 500+ clients in the Ozarks and the southwest Missouri area. Those living with the HIV virus. APO also provides prevention awareness and educational information to the community free of charge. i\11 contributions and donations are tax deductible. If vou should need a letter documenting our non-profit, taxexempt status please contact Lynn Meyerkord at 417-881-1900 and the information will be sent to you. We are asking for community support for this event. If you would like to make a donation or need more information, please contact Tim Baker at 417-206-4691 or email Tim_Baker39@yahoo.com. You may also contact Richard or Terry at Ree's Lounge at 4!7-627-9035. Page 17 Do you ever wonder what happened to that cute kid that lived in your neighborhood? ti~ gme up. &&f did he gro" He and his friends are appearing nightly at "Tulsa's best kept secref' nd p ub 424 South Memorial, Tulsa OK 918-836-2480 inimum - but NEVER a cover charge! . . w~~·~e~ppnt ai_i[!oeflatikpnces · ~oiJt1i~~4009 • 672~ N. Mi~marBlvd, Okla Ci.ty, OK 73111 Rodney Burgamy www.c21goldcastle.oom 5.840.2106 Joe . ~y relationshie with, pastors locally and in Eurdca :sp~ h!ij::b~en;_~eJfipk of meetibgs archiiia illlfderiominatfon I belong to. What Latn saying here is that I never dreamed i:bai: iii<rnv lifetii:ne opp6rtunitics w~tili ~if~£~ my . life that would make a difference for anyon~. Or that those OJ?P:Oftuaj~es w<;nil.1li1~t,;:. manifest themselves info the supp9rt, · encouragement, and care I have .,,: .. · experienced in the last 'fow;/ ni9,.pJhs _now. Here I am the pastor of a sm,alF Cfuistian church tb,at mini~ters pred · · antly to the gay, lcs_bian,, bisexual . . , Transgendered community arid yet YOU TOO'G:AN:. .· i .; > · almost every denotnination in town had · · · · · · · · · · · · ·· · •. · · , • · " me on their pray~r list. Everyone at , DIFEERENC~ .. · work would say; ."E .iJ>. going to 1n my'.lifcfu¥!;)I;hs,vc-1oyacl, supported; · be' 61(,,.:by thc"way,, }>i.i on:pur cnc6ufaged ati,d ;even ii.:ritated my sliare ~hurch~s prayer, list:'; ... , .. c:ibout the of peoples but: always. mowing. that the overwhelming conccB_t' id~o!ved in that. day w.o.uld,;'c:oine ~henJ :wo'l]ld "londc~ Openly out bt1;f calmiy BJtli;in,bqw I ' what if? In ;..the past fourteen months I stand on: issues' and ~1Ldiis support. .· In ' have hl!d four \gj~es;:,. My ' ' : :odwnciili,,ofriff.etno.d,;ns:Y an_··f·. 9dn1i)Y:' "Jii~.•afr.dosunhd1·th. c ncutostttgcoμjB.is:tpli!l:isJ;w,i~cthit I w'il.S/ ' .. . . . . ' ' his, 5;Wltb:¥l df:Jl¥~, 1: ' · f;~r-s'tate atca we Fr6miny have I cfili, make a difference. . dli;i;li~,~til tri.y rctu;n io\vqik;I was I hav~ found thit l can atid if fcan; so ritver' left alone wit:h some pcdplc even can YOU! · You sec this past year I was cciniing to .our honic · because. μi,cy. knew diagnosed with cancer of the lymph my pa;mcr was sleeping dwjpg the· day nodes in my neck. For two months after (he works graveyard shift). Eipills, cards i:he biopsy I had a dressing on my neck. and phone c.alls were ·so ov . .. . .. ng at It's a little difficult to hide a dressing that times that I lit~rally sat and . s is just' under your jaw bone. Even with a running down my fac<:. 'Th;en came the short fat neck a turtle neck shirt . good news that there wouid not have to wouldn't cover it. There were the usual, be any chemotherapy _or radiation "did you cut yourself shaving" or "is the treatments. Simply cvei:y six-~onth hickey that big" comments .but then chcck:-ups for the patfcv y~ars to make there were t:hf words of c~couragcmcnt, s11te the 'ca~cer·hasri'f'r~nirifc.4- the "I'll remember you in prayer" ar1d Yes, I havci truly b~en bl~;;cd and. even the, "I have you on our churches God has seen: nic · flirough blessing me prayer list.'' I suddenly realized that I with family, friends and people in my life have made a difference in my life with that care. I have to, publicly say Thank family, friends; at work and church,, you! I do that b,· c~ii:g you to act and There have b·een difficult decisions made tb do it now. ·. · if I can make a that have 'not always.been populQ,.r, a- . differeni:_e SQ. public stand in out 'Iocal ncwseapcr It is'.,fo that we do not let outing not just myself but our church, a the last ~iettipn/oteak our spitjt or very public .stand supporting p'ublic dampen our'ieso&e. We ml).§t act always debate on any issue but to do so without to do what is right even when it may not hate and personal attacks. and articles in be popular: Io doing so· you will find this "community magazine'; have been that you ·can make a difference and used in England, Scotland and Germany. people will respect that. ; .. cont. next page l 1 Page 19 Steve Urie from pg 18 Our country is on a slippery downhill slide to put us back in the closet and I for one shall not be going back in there. We must keep track of what our federal, state and local government is doing. We must let them know how we feel about it. I attended a county commission meeting in Escambia County, Florida where one county commissioner stated, "I am voting for this because the only phone call I received was for it." Just think one phone call! I attended a Missouri Senate session where a senator recited a letter from just one constituent and introduced a bill on the Senate floor. Just think one letter! You could be that one phone call, that one letter or that one e-mail that makes a difference for all of us. If I can do it ... so can YOU! W c need to oppose an amendment to the constitution simple because it is being used to generate hate and fear. The sample letter below may be copied and used in snail mail or email. I encourage you to make the difference. Be that one call, that one letter, that one e-mail because it is the right thing to do. "This amendment is unnecessary, discriminatory and would amend the Constitution for the first time to restrict the rights of a group of Americans. Despite being soundly defeated last year, I understand that this amendment may be introduced in the House again soon. I wanted to make sure you ~_ew that and freedoms, not to take them away . Further, this amendment would do real harm to same-sex couples and their children, who already do not enjoy the vast majority of benefits and protections that married couples enjoy. Please do not co-sponsor the amendment. Please urge your colleagues in the House of Representatives to focus on other issues that are priorities. I look forward to receiving your response." Until next month, stay out of the closet! FREE HIVTESTING, NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin ,offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between SPM,and 6PM .. For your convenience y~u can also call 206-6179 fi an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentiality: You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "SerfJing A Healthier Community" iversi Events F•b 18;. 19 V AL~NTINE' S this amendfuent do~s nothiiig to "protect" marriage. Instead, it singles out a group of people for discrimination in the United States Constitution. The Constitution has alwavs been used to guar;ntee rights Aprll 1~ 2 SPRINGI r ,,. _.,, Diversity Weekend We Do It Different! som aANca 01t FRI uAn for GLBT!st PFLAGs 'COUNTRY WESTERN' S rt I In Eureka P n~s. A""""' auas "AC aOo.aNoT EGuMy ,P OGaRl cAonRt,Yat'l FALL & SPRING Diversiiy Weekends, VALENTINE'S Cooa.ts and olher Evenls Dlv•n,lty BEARS I • CONTEST & BBQ LUNCH www.DiversityPride.com Page 22 Quotable Quotes "Being open about our lives is the most important and powerful form of activism at our disposal. Lecturing our friends and family about gay marriage isn't nearly so important as letting them see that our relationships are as important and integral to us as theirs are to them. If we do not treat our relationships as equal, how can we ever expect others ro do the same? 'Coming out' isn't a one-step conversation; it's a lifelong commitment. And it isn't just about activism and civil rights. It's about living your life with integrity and honesty and, to use an overused word, it's about pride." - Washington Blade Executive Editor Chris Crain in a Jan. 7 editorial. - The Pink The Pink Triangle was used by the Nazis to signify homosexuals. Although, homosexuals were only one of the groups targeted for extermination, it is unfortunately, the group that history often excludes. The Pink Triangle defies anyone to deny history. In 1935 Hitler revised the German Law, Paragraph 175, prohibiting homosexuality, by including kissing, embracing, and gay fantasies as well as sexual acts. Convicted .offenders- an estimated 25,000 from 1937 to 1939, were sent to priso!l and later transferred to concentration camps. They were to be sterilized, most often by castration. Hitler changed his policy on homosexuality to include death in 1942. A yellow Star of David under a superimposed Pink Triangle represented Gay Jewish prisoners- by the social hierarchy, the lowest of all prisoners. Page 23 I Dee "Ph eIp s" .......I.ll . Just last month I wrote about a New Year and a New Beginning. Little did I realize what a new year and new beginning' I was getting myself into. My favorite aunt and uncle recently moved to Topeka, Kansas and I thought that I would visit them for the weekend. They have known that I was born gay and totally accept who I am as does the rest of my family. We had a great visit and then decided to go out for lunch at one of the local restaurants which was located in the· Gage Shopping Center on the comer of Gage Street and Huntoon Street. To our amazement and shock we found a group of children not over 14 years of age right on the sidewalk with huge signs saying" GOD HATES FAGS" and other derogatory comments. We couldn't believe it! What kind of a world is this? Upon entering the restaurant my aunt asked the manager what was going on. He very nice explained that it was the "Phelps" group who protests regularly on that corner as their church is just a couple of blocks away. I had heard about Fred Phelps for several years and how he pickets funerals of gay men who die from AIDS and that he pickers the University of Kansas whenever they have a gay-themed concert or theatrical production. I even read where he goes to different cities to prorest against gays. There was a web site on one of the signs that I quickly wrote down. www.godhatesfags.com. If you have never logged onto that website I suggest that you do. It is an intelligent person who knows who their enecnies are and trust me, FRED PHELPS is our enemy. He has a church in Topeka with a very small congregation mainiy consisting of his own family. Several of his own children won't have anything to do with him. He used to be an at:orney but was disbarred in the Smte of Kansas. On his website it tells where he is going to be picketing in the weeks to come. He even hates the country of Sweden and has signs saying "God Hates Sweden" just because the peopk of Sweden are intelligent enough to extend all of the marital status to homosexuals as well as neterosexuals. Can you just imagine if he had these little children carrying signs and posters that read, "God Hates Blacks" or "God Hates Jews" or God Hates whatever"? But hating gays seems to be alright. The people of Topeka and Kansas has had to endure this man long enough everyday and everyday. But when he and his group embarrasses me and my family then enough is enough. He is performing hate crimes in tbe name of his church and it is just not right. Even thou I don't live in Kansas I am writing letters to the Mayor of Topeka, the Gm-ernor of Kansas and to several State Senators in Kansas. What right does this madman have to spew hate towards us? Again, if he hated blacks or Jews there would be a massive public uproar about the whole · thing. And where are the religious people in Topeka who tolerate this kind of behavior? Do they not care what is going on in their city? Topeka, Kansas has become the laughing stock all over the United States. Why aren't there more gay publications writing about this man and informing everyone about him? Apparently he has taken his crusade to different parts of the C nited States however he feels more comfortable · within the confines of Kansas. Everyone has a right not to like someone else but this is a plain and simple HATE CRIME! There should be laws against this type of activity. No American should have to put up with this kind of discrimination. NO ONE! What right does this man have to promote Hatred in America and to bring small children into his church? All of this of course is done in the name of religion so it is alright in their eyes. Hopefully the rest of my year wii! be a little calmer and tamer than this last month. So, things are still changing for ine this year. I am going to be much happier and if I have to bitch a little more to get good service and what I cieserve then I will. It is just that simple. Page24 heeii.wnttog. .. e gaJC~nd lesbi~ pr'esffor ni,ore than 20 years. Sh_e seryed for _tliree, y;ears as 1;11~ co-chai(of ftie)<;>#;d of_ . . -~{Ji11Is·.~:I-J;xb~;:f, fits '·> .,.,,._.J,. '"" ... ·, .. Transge1:1<ier CcimmunitJT Center, where shC f ouri.ded a gro~dbr~3;'$ng_ .read1~g .~cries ci'l l,.e. ~a-· "In' ,,.,_O-,!,;u< r. .'" O,~ w" n'' W' ' ri't e.". Lesbian Notions . by Paula Martinac MARCH 2005 Crying Shame In a recent development in the J;:{IV / AIDS , epidemic, two independent research teams recommended that all Americans - not just those .who've been deemed "high risk,'.' -~e gay 'm·en and iv drug users - be tested.for the virus. Clearly, this is good news. The · : · ·,recommendations are meant to finally make RN t~sfi#g ~s .routirie and devoid ofstigma as a Pap tesc, mammogram, or bldod-pressure screening. · .· . . . . But could a change implemented, in the third decade of th~. pandemic really be effe<;t±'{e, given the sname still attached to HIV/ AIDS and to homosexuality? Unless a public-health . policy shift goes hand in.hand with realitybased sex education, I think it would stand ! little chance of making a ·difference oveitime. Part of the problem stems from the. fact .that HIV is still being tied to identity rather·: than behavior," ~though tl:fe connection is more subtle than in the past. For .example, all the new.ii repp.i;ts. abolit .th.e 11,~ ~eqical studies. cite=~ people in "mpn . · he · · · · • · pf' _as · .the lowest-risk groups for HIV, who t opt outof; the. . . .. er o ... . just have it once. . . · ' . At about. the same tip:ie, . anotl:ier. reporc also hit the· news - that a. new ~-:_ resistannhain 'bf HN has appeareo in New· York City in a gay man wh~ ttsed· crystal meth i!.tid,;acc<>r,d!rjg 't9 -ti;r~' _:New Y'cfrk Times...:, hs,.d f'unpro:eF:ecI sex of partners:" Tfils lrearkeos •lSaclHo the early· 1980s, re-establishing the . between.,HJV· and;homosexuality,atid conjuring. up. memories .of that original %ad" gay map; P!ltient Zeiq,. who was.blamed_ for_bringingi11IV_to the United §tates. .· IT'he,dang~r in contimμngro,talk,i1bqutns~ categon;,s.1~•.thatmanypeq~le:who don't use drugs or have sex. with "hunq.i;eds or partners will erroneously :vtew HIV as of no concern to them .. Consider thai:' heterosexual women 'of color actually , acco~ted for 85 percent of new AIDS infections in 2003. Sex with HIV-pos!tive men is the primary means by which straight women bec~nie ~fected, and many.of· these women firinly oelieve. they're in monogamous rej.attonships. . . As one AIDS researcher told JIN Plus_ magazine, "There is a_whole set.of women who .dori't have a clue that their male· partners .have outside rell!:ti9n.sl;rips." And there are other wome_n who may indeed be in monogamous hetemsepial relationships - but with men who. previously had unsafe. sex with other ~co:" The contiouiqg stigma -;\ttacheg. .• to homosexuality and bisexuality isJ~ely to blame for thi.s explqsion of HIV ampng those who mistakenly thoughqlj.9' -were safe fro~ the disease. Many men "on the down iow" put their unknowing female partners at risk b~cause admitting they like to have sex with men would be viewed.as disgraceful, unmanly~ Br even sinful. . . Comvounding tlie problem is our public education system, which, like much public-health policy; evades the complexities of human sexuality and_ psychology. . While it reduces money for AIDS programs, the federal government increases funding for "abstinence-only" sex education, despite a lac_k of .evidence that these programs work. Indeed, a. report from U.S. Rep. Henry Waxman (D-Calif.) showed s?me abstinence-only programs providing false infonnatioo that put kids at risk tor pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases.. . . . . . continued next page · Page 25 Lesbian Notions . ... And a recent study in the president's home state found that abstinence-only education had not prevented students there from becoming progressively more sexually active. The result is a classic catch-22. The best way to erode the stigma of HIV would be to start in the schools with accurate sex education aimed at helping all kids acquire knowledge about behavior that would keep them safe. But schools have their hands tied by a federal government committed to the idea that promoting one kind of identity - being heterosexual and married - is the panacea for all of society's problems. Sadly, that approach is based on the reality of only a small number of people. In fact, kids are human, and most humans - even the deeply religious - want to have sex, especially when their hormones are raging. And as Shelby Knox, a young Christian sex-education activist whose story will be told on an episode on PBS's POV series this June, puts it, ''.ff [ki<l:s] are going to have sex, they need t6 lrnow the consequences. And they need to know how to protect themselves.'' One step we can all take is to lobby our representatives in Washington to pass the Responsible Education About Life Act (REAL), which would create a grant program for states to offer broader sex education programs that include information about contraceptives and safer sex. Such a bill faces an uphill struggle in the current climate of fear and repression. But without an attempt to address this serious education shortfall, HIV, one of our greatest public-health challenges, will continue to spread as "someone else's disease.'' Gay Buying rP at $610 Billion in 2005 Latest Apalysis by WiteckCombs Communications and Packaged Facts Washington, D.C. February 1, 2005 - The total buying power of the U.S. gay, lesbian and bisexual (GIB) adult population in 2005 is projected to be $610 billion, according to the latest analysis by Witeck-Combs Communications and Packaged Facts (a division of MarketResearch.com). The estimate was originally derived in a joint study by both organizations entitled, "The U.S. Gay and Lesbian Market." In 2004, the gay buying power projection was estimated at $580 billion. In releasing the latest projection, Bob Witeck, CEO of Witeck-Combs Communications said, "Validating buying power is a reliable business tool for companies and policy decision-makers. It provides the most compelling snapshot of the economic activity of America's diverse gay, lesbian and bisexual population.'' Since 1993, Witeck-Combs Communications, Inc. has provided expert counsel to Fortune 500 companies in designing marketing communications strategies for the gay consumer market. Quotable Quotes "Actress Portia De Rossi is having the tattoo of her ex-girlfriend's initials · removed from her ring finger now that she's seeing comedienne Ellen DeGeneres." - United Press International, Dec. 28. Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! MARCH 2005 Uncle Mikey bringing you the latest in all things queer. Oh kittens, allow uncle a moment to share about an experience that Uncle had this week. I ,was sitting by the fire minding my very own biz, .when I felt my scope go to full alert. I did a quick ninety degree when our eyes met, uncle felt a serge. It seemed the delivery guy was there bringing Uncle a package. He even brought me some stuff I had bought. It was like a full service happy train. After I accepted delivery, Uncle attempted to be gracious. Kittens-word of advice, do not feed the trick-please. They will never leave ,_ ___________ _, if you do. Well, as they say, it was an easy kill. Dear Uncle, My roommate and I have been Jiving together now for a year and a half. Things have really been nice, as we have built a friendship, and become really close. I now find myself looking for more than just a roommate, as he drives me crazy, in a good way. I am afraid though if we play arouna it could ruin the current situation, which is worktng out so nicely. I watch him walking around the apartment naked, and I have to take cold showers to control my urges. He is beautiful, funny, rod kind. Should I tell him about tny feelings for him? I am seriously nervous, as I do not wrot to lose such a wonderful roommate. It is not easy finding a good one. What should I do? Confused in the other room Dear Confused: Kitten first; uncle would have you define feelings here. As it were, I heard .attraction and not really feelings. If sex is what we are talking about, I would think twice before jumping those bones on the way for the midnight snack. Sex could make things weird. Imagine living with a trick you hne had. Waking up and seeing that face which, you no longer find remotely attractive. This is potentially harmful . for your relationship with a roommate. On the other hand, if you have truly built this mutually rewarding friendship, and there are mutual feelings of admiration, you could be on the threshold of a love affair. It is the best place to start a relationship and that is as friends. However, know the risk you take. As if it does not work out, there is going to be carnage here. So, weigh out your feelings and or attraction carefully while making the best decision for you both. Smooches uncle These is nothing sweeter than forbidden fruit kittens, however there is always the price in the end. Know this price, and think with your head not your member. We all know that will save a lot of troublesome aftershock. Dear Uncle: There is a man that has been following me around. That is what it.feeis like as I am constantly seeing him around. He has not spoken to me, or anything, but every time I turn around there he is. I am thinking he is shy, and wondering if I should make the first move? Mv best friend told me he is a stalker, and that I should not let him near me. I work in' a public place in retail, and he always seems to be near watching me. Stalker guy Well, kitten there is a iine that comes to mind here. It puts the lotion on its skin, or it gets the hose again. Have you read the papers recently? One must be careful in this day and :age. While, Page27 your stalker might have some bragging quality for afterwards, there might not be an afterwards. I would heed your friends advice and keep your distance. To avoid ending up on the milk carton kitten. If this mro is worthy of your interest he will find a way to make an introduction. If not he is most likely not someone you want to have a random hook up with. Kittens-Uncle cannot express this point enough. With all of the weirdoes out there, you must be careful. Forgive uncle here, for a trailer moment; however, there is ho booty call worth risking your life. There are too many outlets for safe encounters and hooking up. Smooches uncle Kittens, sometimes in life, we encounter problems, which stem from soc.ial surroundings in our life. Children raised to believe sexuality is a bad thing, will eventually face these troublesome affairs, when faced with their own adult sexuality. There is no shame in seeking help for yourself. Anyone that tells you otherwise, most likely has some social disorder them selves, like a ass-a-si-diss. It is important to utilize the help available to us ill through good mental health providers. Search out one before going. There are numerous providers, which are gay friendly, advertised in most gay publications. Going to the wrong mental health provider could only add to the issues you already face. Here is wishing you and your willy good health. Kittens, I guess that about wraps it up for this month. Uncle enjoys his time with his kittens. Remember this as you go at another week of that wonderful roller coaster we call queer life. Behind every good man, is another good man! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too. Unck J6leey is a ch.rllCIC' from Frttl4na writer Micfud Hinnrun. MuJ,,,d h,,.s 1-i vmtingfor ten ye,irs. Utilizing his st#dies, and life expmt:nce to hdp others in his comm,mity, tbroMgh h,mior and s<n1nd adflia. Mkh,,d 4J1P&iJ his stwdy of pryd,o/,,gy and autiflt! writing, AS wdl his extensive b.tc/egroMnd in menu[ he4/th Dim:: c,ir,: to bring" m!fll style and approach to hdping others. Michad's other works om be~ at -.KJtJlinlwmtent.com. "REMEMBER TO LOVE" fundraiser hosted by . Bamboo Lounge. ry WI.SA, OK"' Guest host Kris Kohl (top photo) ~th scrumptious Ebony Hall and delicious Mike Busby gave a roaring performance at the Bamboo Lounge on Sat. February 19th to a standing room only crowd. All proceeds from the show went to Tulsa CARES, a ated to fit raised $240 for Tulsa Cares medical assistance program. Congratulations to the show cast and Bamboo owners Terry and Stan for a worthy job well done. Page 28 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente MARCH 2.0.05 1 . . the Prairie Romeo thinks th:~ oest tiioment to make the film version of sorr1'gili(ng is when the adapted intellectual pioperty in question is long past its initial'burst of popularity. It's just less foi:ce& and marketing-team-driven that way. Robert Altman must agree, '.qecause finally, years after its 1980s moment in the pop-culture sun, Garrison Keillor's still-running public radio program, _A Prairie Home Companion_, is making its way to the big screen. And rather than visit the townspeople of Keillor's Lake Wo~~gon, the film is a fictionalized behind~tlie.:: scenes look at the production of Fiil show. Lily Tomlin and Meryl Streep. (word is, they play a · of singing sisters) will star alon singer/actors Tom Waits and Lyle Lovett, and _SNL_'s Maya Rudolph, not to mention crooning host Keillor Himself. The . show's gentle humor sh6uld hit screens sometime in 2006, which is no wait at all for patient Midwesterners. Wham! It's a George Michael Movie The pop star that no one bothered to notice was gay even after that "Wake Mc Up Before You Go-Go" video - is now the subject of a no-holds-barred documentary. The film is called _George Michael: A Different Story_, and it stars the iconic '80s heartthrob as tour guide to bis own career. Already seen on British television, the movie recently hit the big screen at the Berlin Film Festival and should be making the festival rounds in the States soon enough. In the film, !'l,fichael visits childhood haunts, talks for the first time about his &mily, and touch.es on painful recent memories as well (his partner was gravely ill with AIDS while Jl..fichael performed at the Freddie Mercury Tribute Concert). The testimonial line-up includes Sir Elton John, Boy George, Mariah Carey, and Simon Cowell. And Wbam!-obsessives will be thrilled .to know that Michael is reunited oncamera with former singing p~tner Andrew Ridgely fur the first time in nearly 20 years. Izzard Tries on New Outfits It's getting so you barely see the man in drag anymore. Not that cross-dressing comedian Eddie Izzard's complaining. It's just that bis mainstream acting career, t.J.ie one that more often than not puts bim in guy clothes, is taldng off like never before. The hilarious Brit has just been tapped to star in an as-yetuntitled pilot for cable channel FX, in which he'll play an Irish con man who relocates to the American South. If it goes to series, he'll have to find a way to fit in his other planned roles, like in _Macbeth_ on Broadway. Meanwhile, £ms can see him soon.in John Turturro's upcoming musical, ...,Romance & Cigarettes_, which co-stars James Gandolfini, Susan Sarandon, Kate Winslct, Mandy Moore, Mary-Louise Parker, Elaine Stritch, Bobby Cannavale, and Amy Sedaris. Looks like those Manolos will just have to cool their heels for a while. Latifah's Career Is _Stranger Than Fiction_Is Queen Latifah on the same path to Oscar as Halle Berry? The former rapper and lesbian &vc has Marc Forster, the director of critically acclaimed films like _Finding Nevcrland_ and _Monster's Ball_, in her comer these days, so anything's possible. Latifah has signed on to co-star in Forster's latest film, _Stranger Than Fiction_, alongside Will Ferrell, Dustin Hoffman, Maggie Gyllenhaal, and Emma Thompson. It's the story of an IRS auditor who begins hearing the narration of his life - a running commentary audible only to him, and one that begins to affect everythjng he does. No word on Latifah's role in the film, but if _Finding Ncverbnd_ takes home its share of Academy Awards, then expect the buzz around her and the film to grow iouder as the year goes on. Page 29 · Heart to Heart Born for Love By Josh Aterovis once wrote, "All men and ·women are born ' live suffer and die; what distinguishes us on~· from another is our dreams, whether they be dreams about. worldly or unworldly thlngs, and what we do to make them come about .. We do not choose to be born. We do not choose our parents. We do not choose ~ur historical epoch, the country of our birth, or the immediate circumstanc.es of our upbringing. We do not, most of us, choose to die; nor do we choose the time and conditions of our death. But within this realm of choice!essncss, we do choose how we live." He's right, of course. Life is all about choices. Every day we make myriad choices, from the mundane (What will I cat for breakfast?), to the ~omentous (Should I come out?). In 1970, Epstein caused a firestorm of controversy when he wrote a cover story for Harper's magazine titled: "Homo/Hetero: The Struggle For Sexual Identity." In the article, Epstein wrote: "If I had the oower to do so, I wouid wish homoscruality ~ff the &cc of this earth.'' He went on to sav, "I do think homosexuality an anathema, a~d hence homosexuals cursed, and thus the importance, for me if for no one else, of my defining a homosexual as someone who has physical relations, for it leaves room for my admiration for the man who is pulled toward homosexuality and resists, at what psychic price I cannot hope even to begin to imagine.'.' In other words, if you "give in" to the pull of homosexuality, you are cursed, but if you resist that choice then vou're okay. Despite the fact that Epstein is a proud , Jewish man, this is a common belief held by many in the Religious Right. They believe that honiosi;xuality is a choice. This bdief is at the core of the debate over gay rights. Should gays be allowed to marry? Should gays be protected from discrimination? Is being gay a sin? It all boils do · · · · ··· que~tion: is being gay a choice? . . .. . . rive answer to this, but a growing body of scientific evidence may be pointing to a genetic or, at the very least, biological basis for sexual orientation. According j:o)he American Psychological Associarion3s wc:bsit~,' "There arc numerous theories about the· origins of a person's sexual orientation; most s9,entists today agree that sexual orientation kll).ost-likely the result of a complex interaction of environmental cognitive and biologfral ~ctors. In mos: people, !exual orico.tatioq;j~ ~haped at an early age. There is also · · · able recent evide?ce t~ suggest tha . . including g.en:ttc or mborn horm :, ... factors, play a sigruficant role in a person's sexuality. In summary, it is important'.'to recognize that there are probably many reasons for a person's sexual orientation;and the reasons may be different for different people." As reported in New_~cicntist, a srudy from Oregon Health and Sdence Univcrsitv in 2002 found that the. br~s of gay sheep · (and apparently as mmy. as dne in ten sheep express exclusively gay sicfμal preferences) showed small but distinct _differences in a part of the brain called the J:ij,p'qthalamus when compared with rams that[tiieferred to mate with ewes. The diffcrenc"~(~ii.s in a particular region of the hypothalamus . the preoptic nucleus. The region is generally almost twice as laigc in Illms as in ewes, but in gay rams its size was almost identical to that in ' "straight" females. · · These fin4!nga matched those of the neuroscientist Simori li.eV:ay .in his studies of the brains of gay men: His work has alwavs been considered controversial, partly bec;use the brains he studied were mostly from men who had died of AIDS. So it was, not clear whether the differences were reh.ted to the disease or to sexual orientation. The results of the sheep srudy would indicate that the differences in fact were reiated to orientation. In a separate study released in 2004, a group of Itltlian geneticists led bv Ancirea Camperio-Ciani of tne Universig· of Padua ........................... continued pg-32 Page 30 Dally l.uncJ,t:and Olhner ~ Open J Jam dally Happy hour 3-6 & 9-close $ 1. 75-160% $2.25-230% Bud U/Mlch·l.llla Dtaws HolklO)'I and Special &vent, Excluded. Monthly Move In~.. ,.,.-:': .. ,,' Page 31 71 6 S MAIN STREE:T, JCPL.IN, MISSOURI (41 7) 627•903S JCPLtN's A~T.ERNATIVE NIGHTCLUB ------' Be Seen with the s Advertise with us! (918) 835-7887 (417) 437-2275 ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net www.OzarksStar.com Page 32 Editors Rant cont. from pg 4 .. A Missouri Discrimination Bill House Bill 328, introduced by Rep. Baker proposes to eliminate state funds to any entity-public or private-that has a nondiscrimination policy that exceeds federal protections against discrimination. While this bill was introduced in direct response to the University of Missouri, which last year added "sexual orientation" to the list of groups protected under their nondiscrimination policy, it will have drastic effects on businesses, organizations, and charities all over the state. There are hundreds of public and private entities in Missouri which rely on state funds for financial suppon. Last month, Pulaski County, Arkansas Circuit Judge Tim Fox struck down a 1999 regulation by the state's Child Welfare Agency Review Board that said homosexuals could not be foster parents. Fox said the board had exceeded its mandate to protect the health, safety or welfare of foster children, and he issued an order barring· enforcement of the rule. Meanwhile, state legislators are considering a bill. that would prohibit homosexuals from. ~ecomirig adoptive or foster parents. Rep~ Bob Adams, D-Sheridan, and Sen. Jim Holt, RSpringdale, filed House Bill 1119. The bill would order the Human Services Department or any agency involved in adoption and foster <1Ce not to place a child with homosexual parents or in a home that has a homosexual adult. The bill also says that Arkansas public polity should preserve public morality with respect to childreh in the foster care system: · "'Lesbianism is so ra t in some of the schools in southeast ma that they'll only let one girl go the bathroom ..... How is it that- that's happened to us?" Sen. Tom Coburn, (R-OK} Assoc. Press, October 11, 2004 This is only a sampling of what we are up against here in America. Yes, it's time write to your Senators, get out the protest signs and go back to work. Holiday party time is over a we must dig out the combat boots (or Joan Crawford pumps if your prefer), prepare to fight a difficult battle to defeat discriminatory laws that do and will govern us. C.D. Ward/Editor in Chief Heart to Heart from pg-29 may have provided the answer to one of the greatest paradoxes of homosexuality: the Darwinian dead-end. How can homosexuality be genetic when gay men don't have children? The researchers' findings suggest that the same genetic fuctors-as yet unidentified-linked to homosexuality in men may also be linked to increased fertility in women. "This is a novel finding," Dr. Le Vay said. "We think of it as genes for 'male homosexuality', but it might really be genes for sexual attraction to men. These could predispose men towards homosexuality and women towards 'hyper-heterosexuality', causing women to have more sex with men and thus have more offspring." Twin studies have also revealed some strong evidence for a biological basis.]. Michael Bailey and Richard Pillard studied the gayness between monozygotic (or identical) twins, dizygotic ( or fraternal) twins, and non-related adopted brothers. They found that 52% of identical twins were both self-identified homosexuals, 22% of fraternal twins were gay, and only 5% of nonrelated adopted brothers were so. Bailey and Pillard repeated the study with the samf results· and later cxp~ririients found· similar evidence in Jcm,ales .. These studies seem to conclusively demonstrate that there is at least some genetic component that leads to the development of homosexuality. However, it is important to note that none of these studies suggests that there is a single "gay gene." In fact, they all seem to indicate a more. likely scenario of numerous genetic and environmental influences. It's also important to realize that none of these studies can be considered conclusive. Much more research needs to be done, but science seems to be pointing towards biological factors in detcrmuiing our sexuality. Is being gay a choice? Only in the sense that, while we inay not make the choice to be atttllctcd to the same sex, we do make choices about whether we act on those attractions or not. We choose whc.ther we wili live our lives honestly or in the closet. We choose whether to iove as our.hearts desire or to deny an integral part of who we are. Arc we born gay? Maybe a better question would be arc WC born to love? Benjamin Disraeli once said, "We arc all born for love. It is the principle of existence, and its only end." If we don't have a choice in who we love, is it really a choice at all? Page 33 If you're looking for a real treat, however, consider staying 20 miles south in the up-and-coming oceanfront village of Delray Beach, at the spectacular and very gay-friendly Sundy House Inn. This historic compound is worth a visit just for dinner at the stellar De la Tierra Restaurant, where you might sample such globally inspired treats as baked stuffed baby conch with plantain salad, and ancho-cinnamon pork tenderloin with sweet corn, Manchego cheese, onion chutney, and baby com. This 1902 inn, surrounded by magnificent botanical gardens, offers plenty of leg room, including several one- and two-bedroom apartments with laundry facilities and fully stocked kitchens. For the ultimate in pampering, opt for the fabulous Honeymoon Cottage, which is outfitted with a Jacuzzi tub, fireplace, flat-screen plasma TV, DVD player, and VCR. Far removed from Palm Beach's stuffy confines, the Sundy House Inn nevertheless ranks among the area's most sumptuous hideaways. _Andrew Collins is the author of Fodor's Gay Guide to the USA and nine additional travel guides. The Little Black Book Bice Ristorante (313 1/2 Worth Ave., Palm Beach, 561-835-1600). The Breakers (1 South County Rd., Palm Beach, 561-655-6611 or 888-273-2537, www.thebrcakers.com). Chesterfield Palm Beach (363 Cocoanut Row, Palm Beach, 561-659-5800 or 800-243-7871, www.chestcrficldpb.com). Chuck and Harold's (207 Royal Poinciana Way, Palm Beach, 561-659-1440). CityPlace (700 S. Rosemary Ave., 561-366-1000, www.cityplacc.com). Cabana (118 Clematis St., West Palm Beach, 561-833-4773). Cupids Cabaret (4430 Forest Hill Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-642-5299). 5101 (5101 S. Dixie Hwy., West Palm Beach, 561-585-2379). Flagler Museum Gust ofi Cocoanut Row, Palm Beach, 561-655-2833). Four Seasons Ocean Grand (2800 S. Ocean Blvd., 561-582- 2800 or 800-819-5053, w-ww.fourseasons.com). Grandview Gardens B&B (1608 W. Lake Ave., West Palm Beach, 561-833-9023, www.gcandview-gardens.net). Hamburger Heaven (314 S. County Rd., Pa!m Beach, 561-655-5277). H.G. Roosters (823 Belvedere Rd., \YI est Palm Beach, 561-832-9119). Hibiscus House (501 30th St., West Palm Beach, 561-863-5633 or 800-203-4927, www.hibiscushouse.com). Hotel Biba (320 Belvedere Rd., West Palm Beach, 561-832-0094, www.hotelbiba.com). Kashmir (1651 S. Congress Ave., West Palm Beach, 561- 649-5557). Norton Museum of Art (1451 S. Olive Way, Palm Beach, 561-832- 5196). Palm Beach County Convention and Visitors Bureau (561-233-3000, www.palmbeachfl.com). Raymond F. Kravis Center for the Performing Arts (701 Okeechobee Blvd., West Palm Beach, 561-832-7469). Respectable Street Cafe (518 Clematis St., West Palm Beach, 561-832-9999). Reson Lounge (CityPlace, 700 S. Rosemary Ave., West Palm Beach, 561-805-9600). Rhythm (3800 S. Dixie Hwy., West Palm Beach, 561-833-3406). Sundy House Inn (106 S. Swinton Ave., Delray Beach, FL, 561-272-5678, www.sundyhouse.com). Spring Events in Eureka Springs, Arkansas Based in the heart of the Ozarks, Diversity Pride Events invites you to visit our little town of Eureka Springs, Arkansas, for Fall & Spring Diversity Weekends, romantic Getaways, special Concerts & other Pride Events. Diversitv Pride Events is committed to producing - quality events for Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, and Transgender (GLBTs) and Parents, Friends and Families of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAGs), of ALL ages! Our events are for GLBTs and their Straight friends & family to enjoy together! COMMUNITY MEAL $4.CC DONATION MCC JCPLIN 29 □ 2 E. 20TH ST. JOPLIN, MISSOURI EVERY WED. 6 PM Page 34 Seo es by Jack Fertig :MARCH 2005 "Enjoy magic, Sagittarius!" Sun conjunct Uranus brings wild surprises and inspirations to light. This line-up in Pisces will make those surprises especially mystical, artistic, and otherworldly. ARIES (March 21 to April 20): Let one of your more spiritual friends take you to church, synagogue, mosque, Wiccan circle, seance, or whatever. It won't lead you to any conversion, but vou will gain new perspectives so that you can reconsider your ideals. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): What does "success" really mean to you? Think about it long and hard, and the answer may surprise you. A shock from your boss is likely to be a blessing in disguise. Be ready for new opportunities in unexpected directions. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Your mouth is likely to get you into trouble, but you're used to that. Try keeping your ears and mind open, instead of your mouth, and what you stand to learn can start you thinking in radically new ways. CANCER Qune 22 to July 22): This is a great time to explore new erotic adventures, and all kinds of barriers can falL Doubie-check your safety precautions - from standard prophylaxis to safe words. Don't be shy; just be careful! LEO (july 23 to August 22): Recent weirdness in your relationship - or about nor having one - is coming to a head. It's time to get clear about what's going on. Even if things get briefly ugly, they'wili improve in the long run. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): See a doctor, acupuncturist, or other health practitioner right now. There's probably nothing seriousiy wrong, but any lingering - or normally invisible problems are now easiest to identify and soive. LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): Take in the strangest show you can find. Open your mind to consider the most preposterous artistic notions you can expose yourself to, and find your own creative abilities stimulated in directions that will amaze you. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): If your home life was ever normal, it won't be now. Plumbing, foundations, and parents can offer very rude surprises, but they're easier to deal with now than later. Community involvement offers unusual rewards. SAGITIARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Your mouth is further ahead of your brain than usual, and your brain seems to be meandering along some very odd paths. Enjoy whimsy, magic, music, and art; leave any mathematical or logical efforts for later. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): You like your accounts in perfect order, but they rarely work out so well. Any glitches and surprises become clearer now, probably with happy outcome. Rethinking your priorities can also turn up some interesting twists. AQUARIUS Qanuary 20 to Feb~a.ty 18): Your favorite hobby, re-inventing yourself, suddenly presents a crisis with startling possibilities, as it collides against your highest ideal, selfawareness. Letting go of control and admitting what you don't know - your two least favorite things to do - open you up to greater knowledge. PISCES (Febrwuy 19 to March 19): Deep, deep in the murkiest depths of your soul - like some subaquatic creature - there is a profound revelation offering both illumination and shock. Take time out for quiet medit:2.tio~ to get more enlightenment - and to get burned less. Jiuk Fertig !Ms been 'fllorleing as a -professional astrologer sina 1977 and is a fo,mding mnnber of the Association for Astrological Networking. Page 35 BUSH BUDGET CUTS HURT THOSE LIVING WITH HIV/ AIDS, PUTS OTHERS AT RISK Gaywire Release: February 7, 2005 "This budget does not reflect the concern President Bush showed during his State of the Union for H!V and Alps care and prevention," said HRC Vice President of Policy David Smith WASHINGTON - As President Bush introduced his 2006 budget today, the Human Rights Campaign expressed grave con~em about the requested funding of crucial HIV/ AIDS programs. With the exception of modest increases for the AIDS Drug Assistance Program and the National Institutes for Health, most other programs that affect people living with HIV/ AIDS were flat-funded or saw budget cuts. "This budget does not reflect the c~>0cern President Bush showed during his State of the Union for HIV and AIDS care and prevention," said HRC Vice President of Policy David M. Smith. "Unfortunately, the President's actions do not match his words." The Ryan White CARE Act, which addresses the unmet health needs of persons living with HIV/ AIDS, was highlighted in the President's State of the Union Address last week. Yet the budget request for the program included only a ~odest $10 million increase, all of which 1s earmarked for the AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP). All other programs covered by the Ryan White CARE Act were flat funded. In addition, the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) saw a $4 million cut to its budget for HIV/ AIDS prevention and survei~ance. At the same time, unproven · non-science-based abstineoce-oniy programs, which do not include education about how HIV/ AIDS is transmitted, received $38 ~llion in additional funding. A recent studv at Texas A&M University showed that teenagers taking abstinence-onlv sex education programs endorsed. by the President became increasingly ;exuallv active, which is the exact opposite eff~ct that the program is designed to have. "Programs which focus on abstinence as the sole means of preventing HIV/ AIDS put oq.r young people at tremendous risk," said Smith. "The President has repeatedly stated his commitment to combating the spread of HIV. We have to question that com1:°itment when his ideology consistently outweighs sound scientific facts." "The young people of this country ?eed leadership that recognizes the · 1mpor~ance of comprehensive prevention educanon, and we hope to work with leaders on both sides of the aisle in Congress to make sure thev get it "added Smith. , ' Despite the President's recognition that HIV/ AIDS is a growing problem in communities of color, the Minoritv AIDS initiative was flat-funded. Al~o, $14 million was cut from the Housing for_ Persons Living With AIDS program, which helps people living with HIV/ AIDS afford housing.· Having stable living conditions increases the chances of ~trict adherence to drug regimens, which 1s necessary for fighting HIV/ AIDS and also prevents the development of medication-resistant strains of the virus. Unfortunately, President Bush's budget also includes Medicaid cuts of at lea.st $45 billion over the next 1 0 years. 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SJPdic~t~d • columnist Dan. Savage, Dec. 29; · Pag~ 38 NEW cART□□ Ns "A Couple _of Guy~"· A Couple of guys• ~~~ Page39 Achella, Bear Nak Corsets, Kenneth C Rope, lby's Toys. -May 1 $100 througli · Marc'1 15, 2005 $115 J\tarclf 1~;;;; ~pril 15 $150 after April 15 Rev Pat· Sebastian Sheryl Dee Spo Stephanie r Teny Brown VictorTella X ska, Kansas. kansas e run package . . ar!nformation, usltr04@aol.com ntest, Cigar ring, Fetish nee ai;id ies Included Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2005] The Star Magazine, February 1, 2005; Volume 2, Issue 2 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). 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By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ SB 1965, introduced by State Senator Steven Russell ( Republican-District 45) deals mainly with the Fede~aI Hate Crimes expansion signed into law by President Obama in October 22,2009, which added Federal Hates crimes protection to include gender, sexual oriei~tation, gender identity and disability in addition to the already covered categories of agencies from sharing evidence or providing assistance ro Federal authorities if they are im~esrigating a hate crime in Oklahoma. It has passed the State Senate 39-6. Oklahoma Hate Crimes laws (Section 850 Title 21) cover race, color, tel igion, gender, disability, familial status and national origin. As sexual orientation and gender identity are not covered, hate crimes against GLBTs in the state of Oklahoma could not be prosecuted as such under state law, yet such a crime could be punished as a hate crime under Federal [axe; which passage of SB 1965 would attempt m change. However Constitutionally Federal Law supercedes state law. As Tamya Cox of Oldaboma’s ACLU puts it, "For example, if a bloody baseball bat was used in an Oklahoma hate crime against a gay person and it was held by state authorities who are most likely to be first on the scene, if this bill becomes law it could not be given to Federal authorities as evidence for prosecution." Since Oklahoma State Hate Crimes laws don’t covering GLBTs, SB 1965 would make it virtually impossible for hate crimes against GLBTs in Oklahoma to be successftdiv prosecuted as hate crimes. Scott J. Hamilton. Executive Director of the Cimarron Alliance stated, "\g)~e are appalled that the Oklahoma Senate would pass legislation that, in effect, green lights violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered citizens in this state. Not only is it unconstitutional, it is unconscionable. In the meantime our state vdll spend without limit to defend this in court. Oklahoma is in the midst of a budget crisis of historic proportions. I find it hard to believe that bigotry is so pervasive in our state that our policymakers would rather pass hate filled legislation than addressing failing schools and reductions in services for seniors." ........Continued See BILL 1965 Page-5 T lsa M tary Veteran Kelly rbv honored by O ahomans for By Michael xYZ Sasser TULSA, OK Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) is set to h--~nor Tulsa accountant Kelly ~rby with a Lifetime Achievement Award on April 24 at their 30th Anniversary Equality Gala. "I have to say that at 56 years old the word ’lifetime’ is a little daunting," says the aftable longtime activist. Kirby is being honored for 20 years of major activism for the Oklahoma GLBT community. "I appreciate the fact that they are recognizin,g my accomplishments," Kirby says. I think what I have done is important and I would have done it without aW recognition of it." Kelly WKirby 1974 at age 20, United States Air Force, honorguard dress uniform. ® MetroStarNews.com APRIL 1,2010 Pau Robert ompsor A lifetime ofservice-forever a By Victor Gorin Contributing writer (1939-2010) OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Among Oklahomans who take an interest in equality and justice there are very fe~v who didn’t know about Paul Thompson, and many knew him xvell as he -worked hard to make Oklahoma better until his life ended. At least 2 generations ofactivists worked beside him, enduring the heartbreak ofsetbacks and the joys ofvictories as history marched on. His energy was tireless, chairing meetings, working with bureaucracies, organizing events, making speeches, doing mailings, and on and gacy on. Although he had his own business, PRT Designs (interior decorating), his true passion was working with people for justice. He was well known for his outspoken pride clearly shown by his trademark outfits, which included xvearing a different rainbow color with matching socks every day. He co-chaired the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus from 1992 until 2010, and was active for many years with the Oklahoma Democratic Party. He also played a significant role in organizing Oklahoma City’s first Pride Parade in 1988, a true ~ilestone not only for Oklahoma City but rather the entire GLBT community of Oklahoma. That event was a major turning point in Oklahoma, with the KKK waiting in the Safexvay (now Homeland) parking tot on N.-W. 39th Street to stop the "queer parade." But that event had a happy ending as fellow activist Jim Ninamo put xt, "When they saw how many participants were marching, they tucked their tails and left." The rest was history, with that proud tradition continuing today. Paul served as the Male Co- Chair for the OKC Pride Parade and Festival for many years until 2009, when he was given a Chairmanship Emeritus Award for his service. ........Continued See THOMPSON Page-4 For more than two decades, Kirby has been a visible activist for GLBT issues with an emphasis on marriage equality and for gay and lesbian service members. It hasn’t always been an easy role to play. On \Vorld A~DS Day in 1991, Kirby participated in a smal! demonstration in Tulsa on a wet, rainy night. Unbeknownst to him, his photo was taken and the next day appeared in a newspaper. "1 lost a relationship that had been long term when he was discharged from the Air Force for being gay," Kirby says. "I got a phone call from my biggest client the next da)~" Kirby remembers. "q-he mvner of the company asked me ifI had the opportunity to make a statement for my cause, if I would do it. I hadn’t really thought about it until then, but I said that yes, I probably would. An hour later, I was fired and lost two-thirds ofmy business. I basically had to start over from scratch building my business. I guess that was my activist wake-up call." _*Kirby said that "he hasn’t shut up"" since then, giving well over 100 interviews and malting sure his clients know he might end up in the media. "A lot of people in Tulsa feel that they can’t speak up because of family or community or work," Kirby says. "I had to get past that." Still Kirby said he believes different people should be featured by media as representative of the state GLBT community. ........Continued See KIRBY Page-7 Cimarron Alliance Moves Forward with new- O ces and a Dynamic Director By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Margaret Cox proudly cutting the ribbon held by the new Executive Director Scott J. Hamilton, with Lisa Ptsiri of the Oldahoma City Chamber of Commerce looking on. Gorin photo OKLM-IOMA CITY, OK__ Cimarron Alliance Group was formed in 1995 as a political action committee (PAC) focused on equality for the GLBT community in Oldaho,na. Although other groups existed at that time, anaong them the Oldahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, the Mliance was a venture of successful business people and professionals who would be able to give serious financial backing to deserving candidates seeking public office as well as put on events for the GLBT community. First chaired by the late Bill Rogers, the organization became a major force for the GLBT community and the Oldalxoma political landscape. In 1997 the Cimarron Alliance Foundation was formed as a 501(c)(3) organization, a nonprofit status which enables an organization to, among other things, accept contributions which are tax deductible to the giver. While this type of organization is prohibited fi’om most political activity, including contributing to or promoting candidates or political parties, the CAF was focused on educational issues facing the GLBT community, informing not only them but also straights as well. In this endeavor they have held events such as their annual Leadership Summit, which is a convention of leadership from all GLBT groups. They made history in 2001 when their Gay Pride banners for Oklalmma City light poles were oMered taken down by then Mayor Kirk Humphreys. They took the city 1:o Federal court and on September 13,2002 Judge Robin Cauthron ruled that the banners were protected by Federal free speech rights mandated by the U.S. Constitution. Redesigned in 1997, the Pride banners still fly on special occasions. Now as we face a new decade with pride facing prejudice, especially with opposition to GLBT equality clearly shown to be alive and kicking in Oldahoma, Cimarron is facing challenge as they undergo change. For the first time they have an office, !ocated at 729 N.gi. 17th Street in OHahoma City. Likewise they now have their first fulltirne Executive Director Scott J. Hamilton, a native Otdahoman. A~er many years in New York City with many ventures he has returned home to fight for equality. Born inI960 in south Oklalmma City, he graduated as a valedictorian of Capitol Hill High School in 1978. He later graduated from OU with a Bachelor’s Degree in Journalism, and his first job was being a promoter for the Oldahoma Opry, an Oldahoma City venue for country and western musicians. He later took a far better paying position with an oil company but lost that job during the oil bust of 1983, actually driving to the unemployment office in a Mercedes. What followed was a variety of ventures to pay the bills, ranging from teaching junior high school chorus to painting garage doors to makJng doughnuts, among other endeavors. Finally he flew to New York City (the Mercedes long gone) with 3 suitcases and $200 to meet a friend awaiting he could stay vdth. Doing writing and consulting for an import/export business, he moved on to success with the advertising agency Charron, Schwartz and Partners. Walking through the subway one fateful day beneath Grand Central Station he saw Wayne Johnson, a gentleman that would prove to be a soulmate. As the relationship came together, Scott came out at work (no problem) and they legally married in Connecticut. Following this, he got involved working with nonprofit organizations. Finding himself laid off, he began checking around for other ....... Continued See ClMARRON Page 5 2 April 1, 2010 is T.E.N? By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer 7he Equalily Network, or TEN. is comprised of three organizational entities: TENPAC, TEN, and TENInstitute. Pictured above is Laura Belmonte. an activist who is also i4ce President and Co-Founder ofTEN. Townsendphoto TULSA. OK TEN, or "The Equality Network" is a non-partisan statewide organization working to achieve equality and secure legal protection for tesbian. ga)~ bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Oklahomans through advocacy, coalition building and individual empowerment in the political process. Founded in 2009. TEN is comprised of three organizational entities: TEN PAC, TEN, and TEN Institute. "Over the last decade or so that I’ve worked for LGBT equalityin Oklahoma I’ve become increasingly impressed with the amazing progress statewide LGBT advocacy groups are having elsewhere," said Laura Belmonte, Vice President and Co-Founder of TEN. "Last year a number of positive forces converged and we concluded that the timing xvas right to implement a three-pronged strategy of ’educate, advocate, elect.’" Belrnonte also has a PhD amd is currently Director ofAmerican Studies and associate professor ofArnerican History at Oklahoma State University. "The launching ofTEN is the fulfilhnent of a personal dream and I feel very fortunate ro have the opportunity to work ~vith such a committed and talented group of people," adds Belmonte. "Each day, we are hearing from people all over the state - most in places where there is no organized effort for LGBT equality - and we are quite encouraged by the alliances that are developing. With time, effort, and a lot of help we think that TEN can help make some positive changes for LGBT Oklahomans." TEN is affiliated with the Equality Federation (vrww.equalityfederation.org), the national alliance of state-based LGBT advocacy organizations. Collectively these state groups have compiled a remarkable string of pro-equality victories on a range of issues including workplace fairness, antibullying and relationship recognition. Even a small group ofw!!l-prepared constituents can make a powerful impression on a legislator. Legislators need to hear from people who support LGBT equality all the time, not only at times when the LGBT community is being targeted. "The board combines people with professional and non-professional experience in lobbying and advocacy at the state and local levels on causes as varied as LGBT rights, animal protection, HIV/A.IDS, economic injustice, and gender equality," adds Belmonte. "This wilt be a continua!, longterm effort. It is going to take time and effort to move Oklalaoma toward more inclusive ~nd just public policies for LGBT people." For more information you may contact Belmonte at lbelmonte@theequalitynetwork. org or 918.906.2134. Our web site is ~wcw. theequalitynetwork.org. You can also find TEN on Facebook and Twitter (follow TENEquality). Openly Gay Norman City Councilman wins re-election but now is running for State House NORMAN, OK (PR) __ When Tom Kovach was first elected to the Norman City Council in 2008, he wasn’t the first openly gay person to do so. That milestone was achieved by David Ray in 2002, but Tom did have the distinction of being the second, and of being re-elected unopposed this year. He represents Ward 2. However, as State Representative Bil! Nations of District 44 is leaving office due to term limits, Tom Kovach has announced he is running for that office as a Democrat, His stated reasoning, " Sometimes government produces ideas that in the light of day lack common sense. I have always been willing to speak out on those occasions as the voice of the people, and I remains so." "Throughout my years in Norman I have worked with people from all walks of life, helping them find solutions to the problems they faced. I have done so as a union leader, a smal! business owner and now as a local business executive. I accomplished these things through honesty, respectful communication and a willingness to hear all sides of an issue, the same qualities that will mark my service as your next state representative." He has lived in the district more than 40 years, graduating from OU with a degree in Letters. He currently works as a Customer Service Manager for Astromomics, a leading U.S. dealer and producer of quality optics. He and his partner Will Weir are active in many social service agencies in the Norman area, and look forward to doing more for their fellow Oklahomans. A Toast to Life It’s time to Paint the Town Robert! By Robin D-Townsend Contributing W-riter Other Options andFriends Food Pantry board president, Robert Painter tu,ws 40 in Apriland isplanninga huge_f!~ndraising eventfor t,§e organization to celebrate the occasion. Townsend photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s a birthday bash like none other. Turning 40 is Robert Painter, famous for his ’best little tact stand down by the tracks,’ (a.k.a., ~lhe Iguana Mexican Grill). Painter is also the board president of Other Options, Inc (OOI) and has chosen to celebrate ’the big 4-0’ in a very unique way. "Our Toast to Life event is the signature fundraiser for Other Options and it is held annually in April?said Painter. ~Ttpril also happens to be the same month as my birthday. I really w~tnted to take advantage of the name Ihave made for myself to help an or,ga,~)ization who has done so much for people.’ Painter became acquainted with OOI when his dear friend, Tim Wade ~vas diagnosed with HIV. The only place he could find immediate help at no cost in Oklahoma City was at Other Options. This is where Painter met Mary Arbuclde, Executive Director ofOOI and Friends Food Pantry. Wade found assistance with medication, food and other support services at OOI. Sadly, Wade passed away in 2009 but Painter has kep,t, his memory alive by giving back. The bigge,,st thing we [O~I] need is our own building, adds Painter. That is why our goal is $40,000 for this event and I think we can do it." Forty seems to be the magic number. Since 1989 Other Options in Oklahoma City has provided professional, consistent services to people who are HIV positive and disabled individuals, focusing on the impact HIV/AIDS has had in the lives of those they serve. The mission of Other Options is to create a better understanding of HIV/AIDS, provide training, guidance and provide educational directories that link the affected community to services. The venue will include live music, various artists and entertainers, dancing, and deadCenter will be showing films on the big screen, there will be a fashion show and a silent auction will be held. Another unique part of this event will be the art gallery featuring Oklahoma City artists Debbie Curtis, Joe Slack, Ben Potter, Brent Weber and Bryan Boone. Other surprises are also in store. ~Toast to Life; Paint the Town Robert,’ vdtl be held on April 10th at 7:40pm at 25 NW 9th (just \grest ofNae Iguana). Tickets for the event are $40 and will include food, drink, entertainment and parldng. For tickets or to make a donation please call (405) 605- 8020. Reserve tickets are requested; the event is free to clients of Other Options. 1st Annual Tulsa Violence Symposium In Memory of Joseph Walker-Hoover Jaheem Herrera TULSA, OK (PR) April 16, 2010 hosted by Youth Services ofTulsa. Nae event will take place at Langston University Tulsa starting at 9AM. Registration to attend this event is not necessary. The event will address national and local concerns about the growing problems of student-on-student abuse in our communities - Bullying, Dating Violence/Date Rape, and Domestic Violence. Ifyou would like to schedule a booth for your organization, please contact Michael Merryman at 918.382-4429, or email to mmerryman@yst.org. ’uPtcv - Civil Rights *Criminal ment Family Law - Litigation 625 N.W. t S.th Street a City, OK www.metrostarnews.com [vIETROSTAR 3 Dear Editor, from hatred and discrimination? X~y is Sen. I wanted to share the letter Congresswoman Mary Fallin sent to me in response to my letter regarding EDNA and The Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Bill and the reaction of the Oldahoma Legislature. Russell afraid of gay/lesbian equality under the law? Senator Russell just can’t stop fighting wars and looking for enemies. He should reenlist and put his life back on the line, for his country of course. Kendell Powers Oklahoma Civ/ James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK March 8, 2010 Dear Editor, Mr. Kendel Powers 600 Northwest 23rd Street, Suite 101 Oklahoma City, OK 73103-1464 Dear Mr. Powers: that still mean something to the people of Oklahoma, the law is so vaguely defined and so unenforceable that it seems to be more of a handout to trial lavo,ers than anything else. As your Representative, I stand for religious liberty and people of all faiths and oppose a convoluted, vaguely defined and unenforceable set of new regulations governing personal behavior and hiring practices. Thank you again for taking the time to share your ideas and concerns. As the 11 lth Congress addresses the man), challenges facing our nation, I hope you will continue to share your thoughts and vie,vs with me. However, due to increased security measures, mail delivery may be delayed for up to two weeks. Accordingly, I encourage you to visit my website at ,aw~v.fallin.house.gov to contact me via email in the future. While visiting my site you may also sign up for my e-newsletter as well as find usefu! information about the 11 lth Congress. Sincerely Mary Fallin Member of Congress Dear Editor, OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Hunting season is on for gays and lesbians as long as the Oklahoma Legislature is in session. If the rednecks don’t get us the suit-and-tie boys will. Not content with passing SQ 71 ! in 2004 making marriage only bet~veen one man and one woman as many times as they like, the Senate has just passed 39-6 a bill (SB1965) to opt out of the recentl~ passed federal Shepard/Byrd Hate Crime~ I[aw. ~e bill nmv goes to the House side of the Capitol. Senate Bill 1965 seems optimistically numbered in that I’m sure Sen. Russell, the sponsor, and 38 of his colleagues on both sides of the aisle would like to return to the year 1965 ifno~ earlier, when gays and lesbians knew that our place was not alongside other Americans but rather in the closet of narrow, scared shadows with the door hinges well rusted. ~e voting record is located here: http://tinyurl.com/ycgog86 It’s odd that many of these legislators weren’t even born then or were very young. Where did they learn such animosity towards strangers that never did them any harm? Surely not in their church pews or at their dinner tables, do you think? After all, African-Americans had just achieved a legal victory in 1965 with the ’passage of the Civil Rights and Voting Acts for which white bigots thought the sky would fall in. The sky did not fal! in and it won’t fall in when gays and lesbians achieve our social and legal victory over the bigots of Oldahoma. 2q~e only thing lost will be the legal right bigots so jealously retain to impose their ignorance over the rest of us. According to Sen. Russell’s legislative webpage he has a serious military record and several medals. If medals are a mark of bravery why is Sen. Russell so afraid of gays and lesbians that he sponsors bills that remove them from the protection of the law and maintain their second-class status as taxpayers--second-class in that gay/lesbian money is ACcepted for payment of taxes yet we are EXcepted when it comes to protection Thank you for taking the time to contact me about the Employment Non- Discrimination Act. Understanding your ideas and concerns is important to me, as it helps me to better represent you and the Fifth District of Oklahoma. The Employment Non-Discrimination Act, or ENDA, would extend existing provisions of Federal law to prohibit employment discrimination on the basis of "actual or perceived" sexual orientation. The bill expands civil rights protections on the vague basis of perception, requiring courts to determine an employer’s thoughts when an employment action is taken. Currently Title \HI prohibits workplace harassment that is based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin. This legislation is anotber example of political correctness gone wrong. This bill is constitutionally questionable, weakens both state and federal marriage laws, and creates a legal trap for businesses, schools, and people of faith. I have long opposed the government’s creeping assault on the faithbased values our country was founded on, the flaws in this bill are numerous and obvious. ENDA is inconsistent with the rights guaranteed by the Religious Freedom Restoration Act (PdaRA), which prohibits the Federal Government from substantially burdening the free exercise of religion. It nullifies the rights of some religious schools which, although not "controlled, managed or owned by a specific religion," may still consider religious faith and traditional moral values to be an essential part of their curriculum. This opens some of Oldahomds most successful faith-based institutions to unconstitutional government involvement and supervision. Without a blanket exemption for all religious educational institutions, nondenominational religious schools will be forced to operate under government review of curriculum and constant fear of litigation. The.proposed legislation makes a protected class based on sexual behavim; which will jeopardize our constitutional rights to freedom of speech and religious expression. ENDA is a direct attack on individual religious freedoms and creares a lega! tightrope for employers over which law to follow and violate. Employers with rnoral or religious beliefs opposed to homosexualiV will be forced to lay down their rights and convictions at the door, creating a hostile work environment. In addition to ENDA’s blatant disregard for traditional values, values Hawaii’s Garden Isle: Kauai, In terms of scenery, the one Hawaiian island that comes closest to living up to the expectations of many first-time visitors is Kauai, a comparatively small but magnificently lush isle of rain forests, towering seaside cliffs and seduded beaches. Sumptuous full-service resorts to quaint B&B’s. A list of where to stay and things to do now online in our Travel Section @ www.MetroStarNews.com TULSA, OK__ Senate Bil! 1965 has to be defeated. This bill would restrict Oklahoma law enforcement from complying with the federal justice department during a hate biased crime investigation. The bill’s author, State Senator Steven Russell, has suggested the Federal Hate Crimes Prevention Act would restrict free speech (aka ministers preaching against homosexuality). So the Oklahoma Senate has refused to hear bills that would assist victims ofliate biased crimes but have tentatively approved another bill that would remove any hope of justice for LGBT victims ofviolence. This is unacceptable and I strongly urge everyone to contact their State Senator and challenge them to not approve Senate Bill 1965 on it’s final hearing. Visit this website and find out how to reach your senator. http:llwww.facebook.comll195662;www. oksenate.gov/Senators/maps.htm TobyJenkins President, Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa; OK .......... ......... : ...... ........ Metro Star Travel Column Now Online Kauai’sfamedNa Pali Coast, with its 4, 000- foot cli~ rMng big,§ above the sea. Photo by Andrew Collins He was born in Oklahoma City on November 19, 1939. AaCter growing up there and graduating from Central High School he worked maW jobs before creating PRT Designs, His road to activism began when he was arrested after leaving a gay bar over 40 years ago on bogus charges of lewd conduct. Unlike almost any of his peers, he fought the charge and won. He continued to fight injustice wherever he saw it. In addition to activism in the gay community he also helped African Americans, serving on the board of the Oklahoma City NAACP for over 15 ),ears as well. A memorialput up on the Nix/2. 39th Street Strip Median at N.14z. 39th andPennsylvania by NathanidBatchelder qfthe Peace House Paul passed away March 8 at Baptist Integris Medical Center due to a stroke and subsequent heart failure. A memorial service was held for him at the 1st Unitarian Church March 14. Speakers included Laura Rhoads, who knew him as "Unde Paul" when he was her childhood friend, as well as former Oklahoma Commissioner Jim Roth. Followed by a potluck supper a multitude of his friends and fellow activists shared memories, lamented how far he’d brought us, and how to make his legacy live on. No ma#er who yot are on life’s journ~ 3131 ,R. Pennsylvania,Oklaho 405.525.9555 4 tsv{~£T~qOSTAR April 1,2010 jobs in a nationwide search. By chance he found an executivedirector’s position open with Cimarron Alliance and his first thought was,, A gay organization in Oklahoma CitT, how is that possible?" He applied for the position and got it. With the encouragement of his partner ’,Wayne (still in New York but who will join him later) he has plans for a new direction fi~r himself and for Cimarron. One of his major concerns, as it is for all nonprofits, is how to achieve objectives or even survive in this type of economy. His answer, "You keep going because the needs do not abate just because money is tight. If you believe in social jnstice, that doesn’t stop until there is justice. " He has been pleasantly surprised at the financial contributions people have made recently to the organization, and those volunteering their time and talents as well. He also realizes that for a long time there was a perception that Cimarron is an organization primarily focused as being an elite group of white,~ wealthy, handsome gay men. When it was formed in 1995 a membership cost $250. Today there are no dues to join the organization, and the Cimarron Alliance PAC no longer exists. Currently the Foundation hosts an annual Stop Hate in the Hallways summit, which has been a major factor for school systems in Oldahoma considering or implementing anti-bullying policies that protect students who are GLBT or perceived to be from harassment, q-he main objective now is more outreach. As Scott stated, " One of my goals for " this year, besides raising enough money to pay the bills, is to demonstrate with sincerity and conviction that this is an organization that is approachable and dedicated to serving everyone in the community." Beginning in April Cimarron Alliance Foundation will begin a "411 Series" ofg0 minute presentations on various aspects of problems facing the GLBT community. Topics covered could include living with a partner who is an addict, tax problems, domestic violence, health issues, inheritance laws, situations usually faced by people in general with unique aspects for GLBTs. How does it feel to be directing an organization like Cimarron in the reddest state in the country? Scott feels encouraged stating, " ~ have found pockets of folks who are progressive in their thinking, deeply committed to social justice in a personal way. W~ile this is m~ incredibly red state I think there’s hope because I see work being done, quietly moving forward. That lets me kmow justice is not an insurmountable problem." ~fhere will be monthly meetings at the office, encouraging networking with officers from other GLBT organizations. ~Ihey will happen at 5:30 p.m. the first Tuesday of every month. Now located at 729 N.W. 17th Street in Oklahoma City, they can be reached e-mail at info@CimarronAlliance.org or by phone (405) 495 9300. Their website warw.cimarronalliance.org tn addition to the obvious intention to deny protection to GLBT Oklahomans, Senator l~dce pointed out that the bill, ,-is it was written, likewise prohibits Oklahoma law enforcement from providing evidence to Federal authorities investigating any category of hate crime committed in Oklahoma, including those committed due to the victings race or religion as well as all categories covered by Federal law. As of press time, the bill was headed to the Oldahoma State House of Representatives, but may undergo changes before it is voted on there. Senator Rice stated that he hopes the bill is stopped in the House or vetoed by the Governor. Pat Sund, a spokeman for Governor Henry, said the governor is watching the bill but has not yet made a decision as to whether he will sign it. Memori , David Osthoff OKI~AHOMA CITY, OK __ David Henry Osthoff lost his battle with an extended illness ~aursda~; February 25, 2010, in Oldahoma City. He was born September 26, 1953, in Hopewell, Virginia to Charline Ehrlich. David had several jobs through the years, but will mainly be remembered as a server at Gusher’s Restaurant for many years before returning to Cookson, OK to care for his mother. He enjoyed reading, gardening and playing pool in the Family Pool League. David was a very caring and compassionate person. He never judged people, never met a stranger and never forgot anyone’s birthday or anniversary. He was preceded in death by his loving mother and father Charline and Billie Ballew. He is survived by two brothers and a sister; six nieces and nephews, and many close friends. Special thanks to the staff at North Winds Living Center in .O,KC. A celebration of David s life is planned for Sunday; April 18th in The Finishline located inside The Habana Inn at 4:30 p.m. Londerm D, Raine captures the title ofMiss Gay Lawton By Victor Gorin Contributing Writer ~nner Londenn Raine with ~l[ie Laine, Miss Gay Lawton 1982 andMiss Gay Oklahoma 1983. Gorin photo OKd_AHOi~cb~ CITY, OK__ It was a glamorous nigl~t at Angles March 5 when the Londenne Raine was crowned the new Miss Gay Lawton 2010, with 1st alternate A_lanna Paige. As a preliminary to the Miss Gay Oklahoma Pageant, they wil! go on to compete in that event. Also performing at the occasion was our current Miss Gay Oklahoma Shantell Mandelay. Miss G~ Lawton is one of the longest running preliminary competitions to Miss Gay Oklahoma, which began in 1978. Now 29 years young, the first Miss Gay Lawton was Lady Paris in 1981.5 winners of this pageant have gone on to win the title mCMiss Gay Oklahoma, and one (.Jacqulyn DeVaroe) has won the title of Miss Gay America. The current promoter is Aubrey Stone, who is Miss Gay Lawton of 2004. Eureka Springs Diversity 2010: THE GAYLIEN EKEND EUREKA SPRINGS, AR (PR) __ Eureka, the little city in the hills of the Arkansas . Ozarks that has become the pride of diversity, is gearing up for 2010. Spring Diversity will be held on April 9 -11. The same weekend as the annual U~EO. Conference. You’re invited to come join the Gaylien invasion of NOT just a few city blocks, NOT just a small handful of business, but one entire city. What’s to do? Say "I DO" and register your love with a Domestic Partner Certificate. The Courthouse is closed Saturday and Sunday so come early Friday or hangover till Monday. Tnere are over 150 unique shops and galleries to browse or max out your credit card. To start your weekend drop by the Pizza Bar. The Pizza Sluts will host their third Diversity X~¢elcome Mixer there at 13 N. Main, on Friday, 6-8 PM. You can pickup a complete schedule of Diversity Weekend For more information visit wvc~v. eurekapride.com or diversitTpride.com Art Opening and Exhibit ofOriginal Works by ’ Dennis R. Scott.. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Apri! exhibit at the Dennis tL Neill Equality Center Gallery will feature works by Dennis 1L Scott. If there were a simple way to describe his art, it would be called "accidental art" since art is the accident of discovery - the unexpected result of the meandering mind. Dennis Scott, a retired English teacher, resides in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is ~ writer, lyricist, poet, craftsman, and artist. He has previously exhibited and sold his art at Utica Arts in The Square Show, Blue Dome Festival, Dennis R. Neill° Equality Center Gallery, River Walk Arts Festival, Cherry Street Arts Festival, Brook Arts Festival and the Parsons, Kansas Art Walk. His art has been sold to clients as far away as Florence, Italy. Dennis Scott has been creating in the medium of digital "art" for the last six years. His work is unlike typical digital or computer art because his art depicts his own way of seeing life and interpreting what he sees. One could easily peg Dennis Scott’s art abstract, impressionistic, or surreal but categories are of little concern to him. The art exhibit at the Dennis R. O’Neil Equality Center Gallery in April titled "Les Belles Dames Nues" (Lovely Nal(ed Ladies) ,vill feature over 65 nude prints of Dennis Scott’s art with over 40 of the works never having been printed before. Dennis Scott’s nude art is tasteful, yet evocative. Please join us to visit with Dennis Scott at the Opening Night Reception on Tnursday, April 1, from 6 to 9pro. Refreshments will be served. Dennis’s art will be on display throughout April. Free help www.rnetrostarnews.com ~1ET}~OSTAR 5 Supplements By Ronald Blake Contributing writer Haotv: Ronald Blake, Cerdfied Fitness Instructor throz<gh ISSA International Sports . SciencesAssociadon My best fi’iend said I should do it. My brother said t should definitely do it. My co-worker said I don’t need to do it. My neighbor has never done it. Everyone has an opinion on taking supplements for health and well being. Should you do it? I have an easy but nebulous answer: I don’t knovd Let me gather some information from you. If you have a food allergy then you might want to consider taking supplements. Someone lactose intolerant will not drink milk or eat dairy products. This aversion to Betsy the Cow could cause a deficiency in calcium. Someone with a gluten allergy might miss out on the benefits of thiamine and riboflavin. This too could require supplementation. Ifyou are very athletic and push your body to the outer limits of sanity then you’re a likely candidate for extra nutrition. This would certainly include triathaletes, marathoners, or bodybuilders. A 40 hour work week, intense training, and housecleaning when you get home might lead to insipid intercourse intertwined with irascibility in the evening. That isn’t fun! These uber athletes should strongly consider supplementation to get those needed nutrients that lead to late-day copacetic copulation. If the ornitho!ogy creatures gathered at your birdfeeder are eating more than you then it might be time to purchase meal or drink supplements. It isn’t safe to take in less than 1000 calories per day and it can zap your energy xvhile depleting valuable mineral reserves like iron from your body. Consult the family doctor or a nutritionist for suggestions on getting what your body needs to function properly. If you drink like Karen Walker, Captain Jack Sparrmv, or Mayberry’s Otis Campbell then you are an excellent candidate for supplemental drinks or shakes. Alcohol can adversely affect the body’s absorption and metabolism of nutrients. Excessive alcohol ravages the liver and pancreas too. This al! means that the body doesn’t get the nutrients it really needs. tfyou take a blow torch to all your foods and frequendy use adjectives such as charred, burnt, crispy, or well done to describe your meal it is a good bet that supplements on a store shelf have your name on them. Overcooking foods usually destroys B-group, C, and E vitamins. Boiling vegetables can also denude beneficial vitamins and minerals and le,ave you needing rnore nutritional assistance. Light steaming of vegetables can keep the good stuffin and taste just as good. Dieting can cause a need for supplements too. Many dieters are now eliminating entire food groups fi’om their plates. That means these folks aren’t getting important vitamins and minerals that would normally come from these food groups. Eliminating all carbs, all fat, or all protein just isn’t wise. Talk with your medical experts about nutritional replacements for these lost foods. You could also just go back to being a regular human being and sensibly eating carbs, fat, and protein togethe~: MI of this information should really guide you toward a professional opinion now. Consult your doctor, a certified fitness trainer or a nutritionist to assist you with deciding if supplements are necessary for you. Your brother, your co-worker, and your neighbor probably aren’t doctors, a certified fitness trainer, or a nutritionist. With that advice and lmowledge move your thimble five spaces to GO and collect your nutrients and vitamins for improved health and wellness! ¯ N~is health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy ycho enjoys visits to Hooters despite his non-breeder status. That lover ofwings guy is Ron Blake and he can be reached at www.myblakefimess.com. Tony Kushner Pulitz& Prize-Winning Playwright, To Appear On Sunday, April 18 . TULSA, OK (PR) __ Renowned screemvriter and creator ofAngels in America, playwright Tony Kushner will make his first live appearance in Tulsa on Sunday, April 18, 20!0 at the Synagogue: Congregation B’nai Emunah. He willbe interviewed on this occasion by noted actor and filmmaker Tim Blake Nelson. The Synagguoe is located at the corner of Peoria and Seventeenth Street. Details are available on the Synagogue xvebsite: www. tu!sagogue.com. 3rd Mr. Gay US ofA Contest held at Angles Amadeus York ofTexas gets the tit]e By Victor Gorin Mr Gay US ofA MI in white Amadeus York with theprevious winner Richard Cranium. Gorin photo OKI.~AHOMA CITY, OK__ For aficianados of male impersonation it was a night in heaven March 14 when the new winner was crowned Mr.Gay US ofA M! ( male illusion). Beginning March 12 the contest opened with 50 contestants, narrowed down to 12 finalists on the Sunday night conclusion. Promoted by Brenda Quayle, the contest is part of the US ofA pageantry system which is now in its 26th year of operation. Accompanying the contest was a silent auction benefitting Camp Kindle, an organization providing free camping programs for children and young adults infected or affected by HIV. Giving up his tide was Richard Cranium ofTexas. The new winners were 2nd runnerup Windz ofNew York, 1st runnerup Chad Meridian ofArkansas, and the new Mr. Gay US ofA M! Amadeus York ofTexas. 6 NETROSTAR April 1, 2010 "It would be good if readers and viewers see a different face each time there is an issue in the community," Kirby says. "The broader community should see different people." Kirby has always been willing to speak out on issues. He and his partner of 11 years are legally married in California and Kirby has been a tireless advocate of marriage equalityan issue that has gained momentum around the country in recent years but not budged in conservative leaning Oldahoma. Ending the ban on out GLBT servicemernbers in the US military has also been a cause near, dear - and personal to Kirby. He served in the Air Force at the end of the Vietnam War and several of his friends were discharged because they were gay. One of those friends was particularly special. "I lost a relationship that had been long term when he was discharged from the Air Force for being gay," Kirby says. "I don’t lmow if it would have worked out for life, but I felt a very personal pain." Kirby became active in the military issue after former President Bill Clintoffs efforts to lift the ban on GLBT servicemembers evolved into the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) policy that stands today. Since then he has joined in on lobbying efforts of the state delegation and lobbied organizations to which be belongs - the American Legion and the Non-Commissioned officers Association -- to support repealing the ban. With the current debate on repealing DADT, Kirby feels there is some progress being made (~ward equal rights to serve. ’ Each time the issue comes up, there are more and more people willing to support repealing the ban," he says. "Whether or not there are enough people now I don’t lmow. I think right now there is as good a chance as there has ever been. I wish the military would look at the other countries who have removed that ban - none of them have had any problems." Kirby says he is committed to continue pushing for his causes and for the advancement of the community. , For more information on OkEqs 30th Anniversary Equality Gala, visit www.okeq. org. Your life an open book on Drag Race The autobiography challenge sends the latest queen packing on Ru-Paul’s Drag Race By Bebe Zahara Benet As I travel all around the country to promote my new single, so many people have told me that this season’s Jessica Wild reminds them of me. I told my mija this during our interview this week, many things I loved about watching her on RuPaul s Drag Race. ticAll reca~ ~foweek 7andprevious shows ate online now. All 12 weeks will be posted on our website at: www. mewosta~ews.com ’~,,~,~v. metrostarnews.corn ~(~t~°oSTAR 7 April 1, 2010 ~v.metrostarnews.com 10 April 1, 2010 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. O~t &About in OKC & Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ The Cop& Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa Club Maverick Hosts 19th Annual Straley. Gorinphoto , will be goin~ to the this coming April. The Leather Lifestvle has been around awhile in OHahoma, and @Club 209, Tulsa com. puf " in Chri @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Ledo, Oklahoma City 12 ~®t~oSTAR April 1, 2010 by Jack Fertig April 2010 "Go back to basics, GeminW’ Saturn backing into Virgo reminds us to clean up old business before starting new relationships. Aspecting Uranus and Neptune, she’ll dig up complications that must be dealt with to make progress. Go slowly and carefully. You have until late July to get it right. ARIES (March 2(}-Apri~ 19): Recalculate the equation of any partnership that’s troubling you. Can or should it be saved? Strong instincts and inspiration could lead you astray, but probably contain a kernel of truth. Friends can help you reconcile those with reality. TAURUS (April 2(} - May 2(}): Feeling stuck at work can push you back to reexamine your goals. Where do you feel most creative, and what doyou really have to offer? If professional goals feel nebulous, frame the question in terms of your social ideals. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 20): While your goals and ideals seem to be in flux, go back to basics, The most relevant questions about reaching out to the world around you ar6 taught early in life. Be nice, share and try to learn. Community service can also help clear your head: CANCER (June 21- July 22): Discuss longstanding family issues with siblings, or community problems with neighbors. Things probably aren’t as dark and complicated as they feel. New perspectives will help if you’re willing to be _very_ open-minded. LEO (July 23 - August 22): New ideas and skills can help get you out of financial trouble, but first understand how and why you got into that trouble. You won’t get that on your own. Your partner or an advisor can help you figure it out. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Taking the weight of the world on your shoulders is bad for your health. Discussing problems with your partner, or a trusted friend or counselor, is necessary even if it’s aggravating. A mild exercise program (swimming?) and meditation help, UBRA (September 23 - October 22): It seems you can’t catch a break, so make one for yourself. Take time off to meditate and play. Settle your nerves and charge up your batteries. You need this. in the long run it’s the responsible thing to do! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21}: Take a hard look at your future and get ready to clear out the clutter in your life. Mending fences could mean quitting some friendships and groups, but offers you a chance to make it clean and amicable. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 2(}): Clean up any loose ends and nasty rumors affecting your reputation. Helpful inspiration comes from your home and family. Advice from siblings and neighbors can seem confusing, but don’t take it too literally and it could prove valuable. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Coming toward a peak of your professional reputation, now is the time to get the word out about your achievements and services. Typos and snafus lie in wait. Be very attentive to those details! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You’re coming into a phase of your life where your ideas and your mind will be much challenged. Review what you believe and why. Confusion about who you are and what’s important can be a healthy stage of growth. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Feeling unsure about sex and relationships can be a good step toward greater awareness. OK, it’s uncomfortable now. Meditation and other quiet secluded retreats - some with your love, some without - will ease the exploration. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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See page- 4 & 12 Twitter.com/MetroStarNews ~ MetroStarNews.com FREE ~ DECEMBER 1,2010 Passes Away Stop Hate in the Hallways 3rd Annua1 Conference- and more Relevant than By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team A legacy and legend left Behind He was fondly remembered as he owned a series of dubs in Oklahoma City, beginning back in the days when a GLBT night on the town could be a scary adventure. During the early 1960s America and Oklahoma were quite different, where being gay was officially still a mental illness, sodomy laws were still in the books, and gay rights (let done marriage) weren’t even discussed. Police raids on gay bars were common, albeit on dubious pretexts and very selective law enforcement, much facilitated ever "This is not a religious issue. It even goes beyond a basic human rights issue. It is al! ab,,out the cl~ildren, es~pecially tkiose GLBT children who will I3e children forever Scott Hamilton, ~xecutive Director of Cimarron Alliance By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Arnold Lee Smith 1.927-2010 "Truly we lost a pioneer. He paved the road for the gay life we have in Oldahoma City today, which is going strong now because of him." Ginger Lamar OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ When Arnold Lee Smith’s Memorial Service was held at Bill Meritt’s Memorial Chapel November 2 there were of course family members, he was survived by 4 children in addition to grandchildren and greatgrandchildren. Born June 24, 1927 he served in the military, and afterwards got married and had a family. He was preceded in death by his partner of over 37 years, Larry "Fuzzy" Braker. His daughter, Debbie Hill, gave a touching eulogy xvith lighthearted memories of her dad, a man who taught her to love the outdoors, people and life. Even in his final days she remembered his sense of campy humor. During his stay ar the Norman Veteran’s Home she remembered a time when a nurse sported a new big hairdo. When that nurse asked Arnold ifhe liked it he replied, "Oh honey, give me a comb and I can fix that!" or ashamed to fight back. Bu{evenin ii~ik dark scenario Arnbld~’ first club, Lee~ Lounge which opened in the mid 1960s in the Paseo District, was a brigh.t spot for the GLBT community that refused to back down. Although the club endured relentless police harassment, the club proudly kept going. On many occasions -#hen he was arrested along with his customers, he would bail himself and his customers out and re-open the bar the same night. His drag persona, Arna Lee, became famous during this time, accompanied by his outrageously fun costumes and tap dancing with a campy wit to match. During this time he became a "Drag Mother" to many budding female impersonators, a passion that spanned over 40 years. He was probably best known as the owner of Oklahoma’s first major show bar, The Roadhouse, located way out in a secluded location near Frontier City. There many major entertainers got their start, and the community had a place to go even if it was for most a lengthy drive. Even tong after the bar closed in 1978, their customers and performers held many Roadhouse Reunions to celebrate the good times they had there, and the movement it hdped create for GLBT Oldahomans. Following this venture Mr. Smith purchased the Outrigger in 1979, located in the Viva Motor Inn ( now the site of the YWCA Women’s Crisis Center). Done up in a.lovely south seas scenario with bathescaphe speakers, ir was a lively party ........Continued See LEE Page-4 Left Scott Hamilton, Executive Director ofCimarron Alliance, and Oklahoma City Superintendant ofPublic Schools I~rl Springe~ Gorin photo OICLAHOMA CITY, OK __ The first time Cimarron Alliance sponsored a Stop Hate in the Hallways Conference it was a first in more ways than one. Although school bullying had raised the concerns of some school systems, and there had been conferences about safer classrooms, Stop Hate in the Hallways was the first time bullying facing GLBT students, or those perceived to be, was ever addressed. For too many of those in the GLBT commumty ~vho remember their school days, the previous conferences may have seemed like ignoring the gorilla in the room, and their perception has merit. By 2007 the National School Climate Survey indicated that over 86.2% ofGLBT students had been harassed, and 22.1% had been physically assaulted. GLBT youth are 7 times more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers, and 1/3 of sexual minority suicides occur before the age of 17. Inaction by school authorities contributes to the problem, wins action talien in only 44% of the reported incidents, while 59% of the incidents are never reported. As with the previous conferences, this event drew educators and school administrators as well as others involved together from throughout Oldahoma, - this time held at the Moore -Norman Technology Center. Headlining a workshop about administrative policy issues was Oklahoma City School Superintendant Karl Springer and Millard House, the Assistant Superintendant of the Tulsa Public Schools. Both school systems have adopted anti bullying policies which specify the category of real or perceived sexual orientation, and Oklahoma’s City’s policy goes further to include sexual identity. The two keynote speakers were Warren Blumenfeld and Steve Wessler. Mr Bluemfeld, today a professor of Multicultural and International Curriculum Studies at Iowa State University, told of growing tip Jewish "and perceived as GLBT when he was relentlessly bullied and faced severe harassment from junior high to the college level. After a series of workshops, the conference ended with a presentation by Steve Wessler, the Executive Director of the Center for Preventing Hate, based in Maine which he created in ! 999. He had worked in the Maine Attorney General’s office and as a lawyer in private practice, but now has a crusade he has taken towards making schools safer for all students. ........Continued See HATE Page-6 2200 W I~ Se~ice Road OKC 1.800.988.2221 w~.habanainn.com 2 December Openly Gay Native ONahoman inducted into the Music Hall of Fame By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team 2010 World AIDS Day celebrations promote awareness, education By Robin D-Townsend Metro Star Team :r 2 Election aftermathleas some ofour Friends Survived By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Oklahoman Sam Harris inducted into the Oklahoma dvIusic Hail ofFame. "[ kind of feel like, are you sure? Really? Do you have the right gw?" Those were the senriments expressed by Oklahoma native Sam Harris who at age 49 was inducted into the Oklahoma Music Halt oirFame along with country singer Jean Shepa/d la Pauls Valley native best lmown tbr her 1953 duet with Ferlin Husky entitled "Dear John), rock guitarist Jamie Oldaker ( who played in the bands of Bob Seger, Eric Clapton, and was a founding member of the Tractors, a country rock group) and Les Gilliam, who was named as the Official Oklahoma Balladeer by the Oklahoma State Legislature in 1998. Born in Cushing and growing up in Sand Springs, Mr. Harris won recognition for his winning performance of "Over the Rainbow" on the televised talent show Starsearch, which has become his signature song. His first hit with Motown records, "Sugar Don’t Bite" was a national hit peaking at #36 on Billboard’s singles chart in 1984 that also become a dance classic. Since then he has performed at sold our concerts at venues including New York City’s Carnegie Hall and London’s Vc’est End. He has starred on Broadway and numerous television appearances. He is openly gay, and has been with his partner Danny Jacobsen, who is a film producer, since 1994. They adopted a son, Cooper Atticus Harris- Jacobsen, in 2008, and Sam and Danny got married on November 1 that same year. The Oklalmma Music Hall of Fame, located in Muskogee began with a vision in 1996 fol!owed with an act by the Oldahoma State Legislature. Their headquarters and museum is a renovated Frisco Freight Depot located at 401 S. 3rd Street. Past honorees have included Merle Haggard, Woody Guthrie. Patti Page, Carrie Underwood and the _All American Reiects. N~eir website is ,a~w.omhof.org. Mayflower Congregation in NWOKCholds WorldAIDS Day celebration events eac,b year in Oklahoma City. In~ont ofthe church, white crosses with red ribbons areplaced to remember those whose lives have been directly affected with H1V/AIDS. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ World AIDS Day is December 1st each year, drawing people from around the world together raising awareness about HIV/AIDS. The events help demonstrate international solidarity in the face of this disease. The day allows public and private partners to come together to raise awareness and encourage progress inHIV/AIDS prevention, treatment and care in highprevalence countries and around the world. "HIV/AIDS is not just in our country but worldwide," said Mary Arbuckle, Executive Director of Other Options and Friends Food Pantry in Oklahoma City. "World AIDS Day brings attention to this catastrophic disease creating unity in the ~vorld by all of us coming together." Other Options supports the OKC HIV/AIDS community with the Friends Food Pantry, an unduplicated program in Oklahoma for people living with HIV/ AIDS. They provide a home ddivery program of food for homebound clients, case management of the HOPWA program (Housing opportunity for people living with HIV/AIDS) and their Humanitarian Medication Program is now providing eight, third world countries with recycled medications from across the US. Other Options and other ASP organizations will help with the November 30th event at Mayflower Congregation. With the help ofMAC AIDS "Viva Glam" employees will be volunteering all day at Other Options ro get involved in the celebration. \Vgorld health officials report the number of people infected with the virus that causes AIDS seems to be mostly stable. According to an epidemic update by the World Health Organization (WHO) and Joint U.N. Program on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS), the figure (about 33 million) has remained virtually unchanged for the past few years. ....... Continued See AIDS Page 7 Fo,wter Oklahoma Corporation Commissionerfim Roth with State Representative AIMcAdff~ey, andAtto,wey & Oklahoma Regent Richard Ogden at afi¢ndraiserforAl shortly before the election. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ In a turn of events that left progressives and Democrats reeling, the nation and especially Oklahoma experienced a drastic change of power. With the election of Mary Fallin and our new governor, we not only have our first female governor but also the first time all of our statewide offices are held by Republicans, with conservatives now in even greater control of both houses of our state legislature. Among the allies of the Oklahoma GLBT community who survived the tide were Andrew Rice-Incumbent State Senator District 46, Anastasia Pittman-Incumbent State Representative District 99, State Representative Al McAffrey-Incumbent State Representative District 88 and our first and only openly gay state legislator, and Willa Johnson-Incumbent Oklahoma County Commissioner District 1. Although Brittany Novotny did make history as the first transgendered person to run for elective office in Oklahoma, she did not succeed in ousting Sally Kern, the incumbent in District 84 well lmown for her anti-gay sentiments. In order to change the political scene for the future the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus is worldng on expanding their membership and mailing list, forming a PAC ( Political Action Committee) and improving their voter guide system. As for the future Jeanne Flanigan, the female co-chair of the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, still has some optimism and calls for action. As she puts it, "The new leadership shotfld know that right after they are sworn in we will be keeping track of how they are protecting our rights. If they ~vant to roll back any civil rights we will be writing letters to them and editors, and demonstrating at the Capitol. We have had a wake up call, and realize how serious our task is of educating voters and getting them to vote." ’uptc¥ ® Civil RightS ®Criminal ,ment ® Family Law ® Litigation 625 N.W. 13th Street CitV, OK 73103 December 1, 2010 3 LIGHT ’EM UP BIKES FOR ? Dennis R. Nefll Equality Center to feature works from Tulsa artist Liz Ingersoll of"Mia Bdla Art" Sex), ladies have long had a love affair with motorcycles. Seems unlikel); but examine the evidence; nobody’s forcing those busty blonds and brunettes to bend over the handlebars in every bike rag sitting on newsstands. One could argue that the female species likes the feeling of all that prover. Whatever the case may be, California Scooter Co. has carved a niche in the market for.women who have a need for speed with three styles - Classic, Greaser and Babydoll - and a custom-built option. The company claims on its website that you’re in for the ride of your life, and if one of these is waiting for your honey in the garage on Christmas morning, you probably will be. ($4,995 and up; www.californiascooterco.com) SNAP TO IT His bulbs will shine bright in these festive trunlcs from Pact, an eco-friendly and cause-conscious underwear shop. A portion of the proceeds will help charitable organizations EarthSpark and Citizen E~ct send handheld solar lanterns to Haitians in need. ($22; wv#~v.wearpact. con1) GO THE EXTRA SMILE Unless your dentist loo}cs like John Stamos, you\q rather stay away, which presents a problem ifyou covet bright white chompers. Sure, there are overthe- counter bleaching methods - and they’re relatively inexpensive - but they’re also messy and often painful. Ramona Singer infamously called Kodak antiquated, much to the chagrin ofJi!l Zarin, who was hosting an event on the company’s behalf during a season three episode of ~Ihe Real Housewives of New York. Points go to Team Jill for that round, because Rarnona was way off base. In fact, the iconic brand is as cuttingedge as they come where affordable consumer technolog7 is involved. Case in point: the EasyShare M580, the world’s thinnest I4-raegapixei, five-timeszoom digital camera. Thg pocket-sized point-andshoot also features a Share Button, which allows users to tag and upload pics to Facebook, YouTube, the Kodal< Gallery and Flickr within seconds of plugging it into a computer. Mmhmm. xXOaatcha got now, Ramona? ($199.95; www.kodak.com) Simple, safe and effective, Supersmile takes a bite out of the competition with MOR~ GIFT IDEB2S - Page 12 a clinically proven gift set that includes a Professional Series II LS45 Advanced Sonic Pulse Toothbrush (with patented 45-degree angled bristles) and a three-month supply of its professional whitening system. The system safely whitens natural teeth and restores bonding, veneers, caps and dentures to their original splendor. It also strengthens enamel and eliminates harmful bacteria, plaque and gingivitis. The one thing it won’t do, however, is cure morning breath; dude is still gonna taste icky in the a.m. ($159; www.supersmile. com) 4 December 1, 2010 TULSA, OK __The December Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit oflocat artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature works from Tulsa artist Liz Ingersoll of"Mia Bella Art". Liz Ingersoll began her career as a part time portrait/event photographer in 2004 and established a name in the local community as Mia Belta Images. Since October 2009 Liz has participated in numerous art shmvs under the new name of Mia Bella Art. To keep her artwork fresh and exciting she releases a new collection each month from July thru January and prints only limited editions. In October 2010 Mia Bella Art was proud to receive the Best in Show Award from Utica Square’s Art in the Square and was honored to provide 9 large pieces for the fihning of The Lamp. For a complete list of upcoming shows, venues and local shops that sell Mia Bella Art, find her on facebook or visit www. miabellaart.com. To contact Liz for commission xvork or invite her to participate in your venue, email contact@miabeltaart. corn or call 918-693-2677. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, December 2nd from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month, w~wv.okeq. org ~ Arnold Lee Smit/a AKA Arna Lee parties. As his health failed him he went into the Norman Veteran’s Center, a nursing home for veterans, where he remained until his death on Oct0ber 31~ He left behind many friends who will always remember what he did to make Oklahoma a better place. place until it closed in 1981. After a sojourn in Florida for a few years, he r~turned and began his last club venture, a bar complex on Lincoln Boulevard nostalgically named the Roadhouse, which had multiple bars as well as various shops. However after the loss of his partner in 1995, who passed away the day after the Oldahoma City bombing, that venture failed after only about a year of operation, and Arnold went into retirement. His house faced N.W. 39th Street, and his outdoor birthday parties during the annual OKC Pride Parade were a joyous tradition. Even close to his final days Arna Lee still performed at Tramps, the Hilo, and other clubs, frequently at fundraisers for the Oldahoma Gay Rodeo Association and AIDS "Walk OKC, as well as performing in private Supremes refi se to block DADT The Supremes are keeping Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell in force. The U.S. Supreme Court on Nov. 12 refused to vacate an order from the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals that suspended an injunction from the federal District Court in Riverside, Califi, that prohibited the U.S. government from enforcing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell military gay ban. Which means: DADT can be enforced during appeal of the Riverside decision that found it unconstitutional -- unless President Barack Obama, Congress and the Pentagon end the ban in the interim. Plaintiff Log Cabin Republicans had asked the Supreme Court to vacate the 9th Circuit order, thereby allowing Riverside Judge Virginia Phillips’ injunction to go back into force. Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy, who hears such requests from the 9th Circuit, referred the matter to the full Supreme Court, where Justice Elena Kagan opted not to take part in the decision. Phillips issued her injunction Oct. 12 after finding that DADT violates the U.S. Constitution’s guarantees of free speech, due process and right to petition for redress of grievances. The injunction remained in place until Oct. 20, when the 9th Circuit issued a brief stay ~vhile it decided whether to issue a longer stajg which it did Nov. 1. During the eight days the injunction was in force, the military stopped kicking gays and lesbians our of the services and began letting them re-enlist. The Obama administration’s insistence on appealing Phillips’ DADT strikedown has been highly irritating to gay activists, given that the president says he strongly opposes DADT. Obama, however, says the policy needs to be ended by Congress, which created it, not the courts. Xhe administration also has argued that the Justice Department has an obligation to defend federal laws that are challenged, and that DADT should not be ended abruptly because that will disrupt and harm military operations. The Pentagon recently conducted a massive survey of members of the military to help it decide how to end DADT. Leaked versions of the findings, which will be released officially in December, reportedly reveal that most members of the armed forces are fine with GLB people serving openly. The U.S. House of Representatives passed a measure this ),ear authorizing the military to end DADT but the Senate did not follow suit after Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., staged a filibuster over the matter. "It is unfortunate that an unconstitutional law that is causing substantial harm to military readiness and to tens of thousands of troops is allowed to remain in effect for even one more day," said Alexander Nicholson, executive director of Servicemembers United. "~is just underscores the need to continue to put pressure on Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid to allow the defense authorization bill (which includes DADT repeal language) to come back up and take its first procedural step before the Senate’s Thanksgiving recess," Nicholson said. "Servicemembers United, Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, Stonewall Democrats, and the Log Cabin Republicans have all strongly and consistently called on Sen. Reid to do just that. It is now time for other organizations, as wel! as the White House, to publicly do the same." The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force urged supporters to call the Capitol switchboard at 202-224-3121 and tell both of their U.S. senators to authorize repeal of DADT by voting for the defenseauthorization bill this month. "We can only be assured of having the 60 votes we need ifwe can change minds before the new members of the Senate take their seats," the group said. But LCR attorney Dan Woods thinks that ship has all but sunk. "With the likelihood of Congress repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell fading with each passing day, judicial relief continues to be perhaps the most viable avenue for ending this unconstitutional policy," Woods said. "We and Log Cabin Republicans will continue to fight on to protect the constitutional rights of all Americans who want to serve in our military without regard to their sexual orientation. Our next step will be to ask the 9th Circuit to expedite the government’s appeal from Judge Phillips’ judgment and ~nJuncnon¯ LCR Executive Director R. Clarke Cooper commented: "We are committed to pursuing every avenue in the fight against this failed and unconstitutional polic~ Log Cabin will continue working to secure the votes needed for legislative repeal, and if necessary, we look forward to seeing President Obama’s attorneys in court next year to prove, once again, that Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell doesn’t work." Gays sue reds over marriage again Edie lZ~ndsog right, and ~ea S~ye,: ACLUphoto ~ie New England legal group Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders filed a multiplaintiff lawsuit challenging the constitutionality of the federal Defense of Marriage Act on Nov. 9. In Pedersen v. Office of Personnel Management, GLAD represents five married same-sex couples and a widower, who live in Connecticut, Vermont and New Hampshire. The 11 plaintiffs all have been denied federal rights and protections solely because they are married to a person of the same sex. The suit, filed in federal District Court in Connecticut, addresses DOMA’s nonrecognition of marriages in connection with federal employee and retiree benefits progranas, Social Security benefits, survivor benefits under federal pension laws, work leave to care for a spouse under the Family and Medical Leave Act, and state retiree health insurance benefits that are controlled by federal tax law. Additional plaintiffs ~vho pay excess ~ederal income tax because they cannot file their federal returns as married couples will join the suit once the IRS officially rejects their requests for refunds. "Every day that DOMA stands, it arbitrarily divides married couples into two categories," said GLAD Legal Director Gary Buseck. Also on Nov. 9, the American Civil Liberties Union sued the feds in New York over DOMA. The group represents 81-year-old Edie Windsor, who had to pay $350,000 in additional estate taxes because the federal government treated her as single, even though she was married to Thea Spyer and their marriage was recognized by the state ofNew York. "(T)he federal government ... taxed Thea’s estate as though we were strangers rather than spouses," Windsor said. "(It’s) a tax on being gaY- "These cases provide further evidence that the so-called Defense of Marriage Act is not simply an abstract insult to the dignity of same-sex couples and their families -- although it is indeed a deeply offensive law," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "DOMA causes real harm to people like Joanne Pedersen, Ann Meitzen and Edie Windsor, denying them economic security, health coverage and other critical federal rights and benefits that other married couples take for granted." The section ofDOMA that prevents the federal government from recognizing stares’ same-sex marriages already was struck down as unconstitutional earlier this year in two cases from Massachusetts, but the Obama administration has appealed the rulings. The section, which the federal District Court in Boston found unconstitutional in three ways, states: "In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word ’marriage’ means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and the word ’spouse’ refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife." The language overrides any state’s determination that a couple is married and says that they are not married for purposes trait federal laws and programs, even though the federal government otherwise has always deferred to state determinations of marital status. The Boston court said DOMA violates the Due Process Clause of the Fifth Amendment .....Continued see MARRIAGE - page 6 December ~, 2010 DADT protesters arrested at White House By Rex Woclmer Photo by Sean Cark’on, Talk About Equali~ Courtesy ofGetEQUAL WASHINGTON, DC __ Thirteen supporters of the direct-action group GetEQUAL were arrested at the xYc~lite House fence Nov. 15 after handcuffing themselves to it and supergluing their handcuff locks. They demanded that the Senate join the House in authorizing ,repeal of the Dofft Ask, Don’t Tell military ban on noncloseted GLBs before the Senate adjourns this year. Arrested were Dan Choi, Autumn Sandeen, Evelyn Thomas, Mara Boyd, Geoff Farrow, Robin McGehee, Miriam Ben-Shalom, Justin Elzie, Ian Finkenbinder, Robert Smith, Dan Fotou, Scott glooledge and Michael Bedwell. "Included in the thirteen arrested are veterans and advocates spanning three generations of brave and courageous Americans, who sacrificed their careers and lives to see the day this discriminatory ban on openly gay and lesbian service in the military finally goes into the history books," said GetEQUAL Director Robin McGehee. "Today we have sent a loud and clear message to the U.S. Senate and President Obama that we expect them to make good on their promises to end this inhumane law this year, during the lame-duck session of Congress." DADT was struck down as unconstitutional by a federal District Court earlier this year and for eight days an injunction prohibited the military from kicking out open gays or barring them from enlisting. But the Obama administration appealed the injunction all the way to the Supreme Court, which upheld a stay of it issued by the 9th U.S. Circuit Court ofAppeals. Tnat reinstated the policy for the duration of the appeals of the District Court ruling. Obama has said he wants Congress, not courts, to end the ban, and Justice Department laxvyers argued in court filings that the ban must not be lifted abruptly by a judge because that would harm military operations. The House of Representatives voted earlier this year to authorize the armed forces to end DADT, but the Senate failed to follow suit. Meanwhile, the Pentagon has been conducting a massive survey of troops and their families, due to be released in December, to help it decide how to end DADT. Leaked reports of the findings suggest that a majority of members of the military are not troubled by openly gay servicemembers. 6 December ~, 2010 ~~R But Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., ranking member of the Senate Armed Services Committee has, for all intents and purposes, vowed to continue to block Senate authorization ofDADT repeal, complaining that the massive Pentagon survey didn’t ask the right questions. "All four service chiefs are saying we need a thorough and complete study of the effects -- not how to implement a repeal, but the effects on morale and battle effectiveness," McCain told MSNBC on Nov. 14. "That’s what I ,want, and once we get this (current) study, ~ve need to have hearings and we need to exarnine it and we need to look at whether it’s the kind of study that we wanted. It isn’t, in my view, because I wanted a study to determine the effects of the repeal on battle effectiveness and morale. What this study is designed to do is to find out how the repeal could be implemented." Photo by Sean Carlson, Courtesy of GetEQUAL The DADT repeal measure is part ofthe bill that will fund the entire U.S. military in 2011. As a result, McCain’s obstructionism has left the overall funding bill unpassed by the Senate as well. Surveys have found that neatly 80 percent of Americans are fine with letting gays in the military come out of the closet by ending the DADT policy. 3rd Annual Falalalala Ball Saturday, December 18th: 7pro Dennis R Neill Equality Center TULSA, OK (PR) __ Don your gay apparel and join us for the 3rd annual Fatalalala Ball. ~e evening will include pictures with Santa and Mrs Claus and the naughty and nice elves, Cash Bar and heavy hor d’oeuvres. Pull out ),our holdiay dress and business casual and enjoy. Admission Price is one of the following: pet food for A Friend for A Friend, personal toiletries for Our House Too, non perishable food items for St Jerome Church Food Pantry. For more information visit: vrw~v.OkEq. org N Popular LGBT tourist destination first in Arkansas to offer health insurance coverage to domestic partners o city workers EUREICA SPRINGS, AR (PR) __ The only city in Arkansas with a Domestic Partnership Registry has become the first city in the state to provide health care coverage for the domestic partners of municipal workers. The cig;s insurance provider, the Arkansas Municipal League, notified the city on November 15, 2010 that beginning January !, 2011 both same- and opposite-sex partners of city wm-kers will have the same access to health insurance as legal spouses. The announcement culminated a yearlong campaign by residents of this northwest Arkansas tourist town which in June 2007 became the first city in the state to enact a Domestic Partnership Registry ordinance to ot~cially recognize unmarried couples in committed relationships. "Once again Eureka Springs is leading by exan~ple, this time in the realm of workplace equality," said Michael Walsh, who helped lead the effort to expand health care coverage. "Marital status shouldn’t be the deciding factor in access to ’family plan’ insurance. Legally wed or not, all city workers should get the same employment benefits, including access to health insurance for their partners." Expanding the definition of"fan~ily dependent" was "the right thing to do," Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Joy wrote to the Municipal League in August, just xveeks before the city council passed a resolution endorsing domestic partnership insurance coverage. "I am aware as well as you that some will construe this as a ’gay issue’," said Joy. "But the reality is that there are many heterosexual couples who chose to live together in a committed relationship - as a family - without entering into the civil contract of marriage,. These folks face the same ’family’ challenges every day, not the least of which is providing health care for themselves and for those who are dependent on them.... the definition of family is at the center of our concerns." Joy and cityTransit Director Lamont Richie met with the Arkansas Municipal League Nov. 4 to lobby for a more inclusive health insurance policy. Monday’s announcement that their efforts were successful "is a huge step forward," said Richie. "And though only employees of the City of Eureka Springs will be able to take advantage of it for now," he said, "other communities in the state may be encouraged to adopt their own Domestic Partnership Registries as a means of providing health insurance benefits to domestic partners of their employees." to the U.S. Constitution by treating married gay couples differently from married straight couples without any rational basis for doing so. It also found that DOMA violates the 10th Amendment to the U.S. Constitution by intruding in areas of exclusive state authority, and violates the Spending Clause in Article 1 of the Constitution by forcing Massachusetts to discriminate against its married gay citizens in order to receive certain types of federal funding. President Barack Obama does not support same-sex marriage, although he did in 1996 when he was campaigning for an Illinois Senate seat. But in a recent xYvq~ite House meeting with five progressive bloggers, the president suggested he might be getting ready to change his mind again. "I do not intend to make big news sitting here with tl~e five of you, as wonderful as you guys are," Obama said at the Oct. 27 meeting. "But H1 say this .... I have been to this point unwilling to sign on to same-sex marriage primarily because of my understandings of the traditional definitions of marriage, but I also think you’re right that attitudes evolve, including mine. I think that it is an issue that I wrestle with and think about because I have a whole host of friends who are in gay partnerships. I have staff members who are in committed, monog~ous relationship.s, who are raising children, who are wonderful parents, and I care about them deeply, and so while I’m not prepared to reverse myself here, sitting in the Roosevelt Room at 3:30 in the afternoon, I think it’s fair to say that it’s something that I think a lot about. That’s probably the best you’ll get out ofme toda): ... The one thing I wil! say today is I think it’s pretty dear where the trendlines are going ... the arc of history." Most inspiring was OSU-OKC students who participated in the Upward Bound summer session, a preparation program for first generation college students., xvho have held rallies at Western Heights High School and the Oklahoma State Capitol raising awareness about school bu!lying. The conference, although inclusive of the GLBT community, also included other categories of bullying including race, religion, and physica! disabilities. Cimarron Alliance hopes the conference will grow, with more teacher and school administrators. By Steven Petrow &even Pelrow is the author of’The Essential Book ofGay Manners &Etiquette. " Send him your questions at queeries@live.com. "We waist to help other kids fight bullying" "Events like these help us remember, in a good way, those we have lost and to remember that there has been so much progress for this disease," said Chuck Longacre of Oklahoma City. "There is just a marked change for a lot of folks living better and living longer now." Longacre worl~ with Red Rock and Expressions Outreach Center (just offthe OKC strip) providing free HIV/ AIDS testing and counseling. The first World AIDS Day was celebrated on December 1, 1988 and officials say the global epidemic of HIV/AIDS probably peaked in 1996. WHO takes the lead in the global health sector’s response to HIV/AIDS and provides evidence-based information at www.who.int/hivlen/. HRC scorecard: Congress is polarized The new edition of the Human Rights Campaign’s "Congressional Scorecard" has found an increase in both "highly supportive" and "highly anri-LGBT" legislators. HRC said the findings reveal a "stark polarization." ’~k strong and devoted group of anti- LGBT legislators continues to stymie the progress LGBT people deserve," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. "The fact that the first ever vote to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell in the House of Representatives was countered by a filibuster in the Senate illustrares the landscape." In the House, 145 members received a pro-gay score ofg0 percent or better, compared to 128 members in the previous Congress. Senators scoring 90 percent or better this year rose from 32 to 36. However, the number of senators receiving a zero score from HRC climbed as well, from 16 to 32. The number of House zeros remained unc,,h.anged. As more and more American’s support equality for LGBT people, some members of Congress are showing real leadership while others are digging in their heels to cater to an anti-LGBT fringe constituency," said HRC Legislative Director Allison Herwitt. The scorecard is based on votes and cosponsorships regarding hate crimes, gays in the military, employment nondiscrimination, tax equity, same-sex marriage, same-sex partner immigration, HIV treatment, needle exchange, and the Elena Kagan and Sonia Sotomayor Supreme Court confirmations. For full results, see hrc.org/scorecard. No matter who yo* are on life’s journt -Re~ere~d ~r. 3131 N. 0 December 1, 2010 7 IVfETROPOLITAN COI~MUNITY CHURCHES ~ev Sieve To U[~e Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO ~804 Wo~h[p Sunday 6:00 PM CommunRy Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM December t, 2010 9 10 December1,2010 Creep ofthe Month By D’Anne Witkowski D’Anne WYtkowski has been gayfor pay since 2003. She’s af!’eelance writer and Oct (beiieve it~.O. When shes nOt taking on the creeps ofthe world she reviews rock roll sh~ows in Detroit with her twin sister "Clint McCance" You know the old saying, "Ifyou don’t have anything nice to say, say it on Facebook?" Well, Arkansas Midland School District vice president Clint McCance took it to heart recently when he posted some vile anti-gay hate speech to rival Fred Phelps and his band of "God Hates Fags" loonies. \Vhat set McCance off was a cal! for supporters of LGBT youth to wear purple in memory of the young people who recently committed suicide after being bullied. "Seriously they want me to wear purple because five queers committed suicide," he posted. "The only way im wearin it for them is if they all commit suicide. I cant believe the people of this world have gotten this stupid. We are honoring the fact that they sinned and killed therselves because of their sin. REALLY PEOPLE." Yes, really. Did I mention he was a school board member? Oh, to be a gay kid in Midland. Those lucl~, devils. , One ofMcCances friends commented, Because hatred is always right:. 2 To which he responds, "No because being a fag doesnt give you the right to ruin the rest of our lives. Ifyou get easily offended by being called a fag then dent tell anyone you are a fag. Keep that shit to yourself. I dent care how people decide to live their lives. They dent bother me if they keep it to thereselves. It pisses me off though that we make a special purple fag day for them. I like that fags cant procreate. I also enjoy the fact that they often give each other aids and die." D~d you catch that lastpart. He enj.ovs when gays get AIDS and die. Ha ha. You know, typical LOL stuff. Another friend commented, "You kmow this is somebodys kids here how would you feel if they were talkin about your kids like this. It would make you feel like SHIT." No worries, McCance knows exactly how ," i’m not sure that there’s an honorable way to wish all gay people dead even it= he had used different I words to do it. he’d feel. "I would disown my kids if they were gay," he posts. "They will not be ~velcome at my home or in my viciniry. I will absolutely run them off. Of course my kids will imow better. My kids will have solid christian beliefs." Where these "solid Christian beliefs" will come from I don’t know. Certainly not from their father. Needless to say, McCance’s comments caused quite a stir with many people calling for his firing. A visibly uncomfortable and maybe even contrite McCance appeared oh CNN with Anderson Cooper and apologized for his comments saying they were "too emotional" and "went too far." As for the terms "fag" and "queer" he told Cooper, "I know those are hurtful words and like I said, I picked the wrong words to use. And used them poorly. I didn’t bring honor to what I was about." I’m not sure that there s an honorable way to ~vish all gay people dead even if he had used different words to do it. He also stated that he doesn’t "wish death on anyone" and that "it does look like I’m a hatemonger or a horrible person’and that’s not me at al!." Urn, yes. It does look like that. Very much like that, in fact. It’s kind of hard to accept that a person who thinks, "Hey I have a minute to post on Facebook before I head off to this school board meeting and here’s something totally appropriate to say" isn’t a hatemonger. No matter how much they apologize or resign from the school board on Anderson Cooper 360. So, yeal~. He resigned. And he’s sorry. 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I decided to make an herbal infusion, so the next morning, I bought a fifth ofAbsolut. After doing some cursory Internet research, I decided I kaaew better. (I’m obnoxious.) So I washed the ragged bouquets, dried them in a salad spinner, and laid them out on the counter. I hadn’t planned this desperate harvest at all; the herbs I’d blindly grabbed at twilight consisted of sage, thyme, tarragon, lovage, parsley and rosemarT~ The infusion ingredients instantly chose themselves: parsley, sage, rosemary and thyme. Don’t you just love that song? I put the iPod on its little donut and set it to my Pau! Simon playlist, then gently bruised the herbs to release their oils and juices, stuffed them in a large, dean, Mason-type glass jar, poured the Absolut in and sealed it. I waited one day too long. On the third day, the infusion was a gorgeous shade of bright green; the next day it starting browning, and I yanked the herbs out before the thing started to look like peat moss runoff. ¯ne taste? Well, the Garfunlde herb mix tasted very good, though in the future I might just use rosemary (it’s got the best flavor) and some parsley for color. Turning an herbal infusion into a cocktail is easy: you can have it straight up at room temperature, put it on the rocks, stick the bottle in the freezer or add some seltzer and a lime segment. Simple! And ifa guest says your handcrafted infused vodka is not ro her liking? Just tell her to go reap it in a sickle of leather. That should shut her up. (But what the hell does it mean?) "~he Scarborough Fair" Get some herbs. I’d try rosemary first, with some parsley for color. Measurements are useless here, since the whole point is to make it handcrafted by you. Wash and dry the herbs thoroughly, put them in a glass jar with a lid that seals tightly, pour in enough Absolut to cover the herbs, and seal the jar. Taste often. 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Staying true to yourself means accepting growth and change. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - P~ay 20): Finding sexual adventure is easy enough, but it could complicate friendships. The erotic energy that’s making you so popular could be harnessed into a more political charisma. What to do? The answer is deep inside you. GEMIN~ (Paay 21- June 20): It’s harder than usual to stay out of arguments. "Your friends could help you if you can keep the signals clear. Thinking ahead is good; intuiting ahead is better. Accept criticism from the boss, even if overly harsh, as a challenge to improve. CANCER (June 21o July 22): Talking with your boss about your goals is sure to highlight existing confusion, but can lead toward resolution. Not talking about the problem will just make it worse. Just complaining about lack of direction will undermine efforts and confidence. LEO (July 23 - August 22): The call to adventure may be irresistible, but it does involve bigger risks than you can anticipate. Look ahead and be careful to cut down on dangers, but you will be surprised - maybe for the better. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Domestic squabbles might make for some crazy passion or lead to great makeup sex. That won’t eliminate the conflict, but it could reframe it dramatically. That could lead to a helpful breakthrough, but you still have lots of work ahead of you! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Worrying about accidents invites them as much as carelessness does. Be sensible, observe standard precautions, but dithering and first-guessing yourself is no good either. "Helpful" efforts, whichever end you’re on, are also likely to make things worse. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Hide the plastic. Any unnecessary shopping can only end badly. Set aside a carefully budgeted amount for entertainment and have some fun. You need to release some energy, but there’s no need for it to be expensive. 14 December 1, 2010 SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Get out and have a little fun, but even there, think ahead and be careful. Home is a danger zone, and not just for the preponderance of accidents that happen there. Not a good time to call the folks either! CAPRICORN (December 2t - January 19): Digging up family secrets could prove explosive. How much are you ready to learn? Revealing those (or other) secrets could cause a lot of trouble. You need to talk, but select your confidante wisely. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Going out on a limb for political principle can gain you points for audacity and integrity, but leave you in the lurch. Holding true to core values is most important, but how they work in reality should evolve with the times. PISCES (February 19 - I~arch 19): Daring risks and changes might get you ahead, but the only guarantee is that without taking a chance you’ll trip yourself up badly. Meditate on what’s important. In the end instinct and intuition will serve better than apparent logic. Creating Community for People iving with H V/A DS 50~. c (3) Non P~ofit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HI’Z+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people !ive through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. VVe invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail ourhousetoo9865@sbcglobal.net 31 L! 5336 E. Admiral Pi. Tulsa, Ok 74115 (918) 836-0915 Poo~ Tournament: Wednesdays Prizes nightly!!!!! 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Famous heterosexual attorneys Ted Olson and David Boles are trying to convince Walker that Prop 8, which amended California’s constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage, violates the U.S. Constitution’s guarantees of due process and equal protection under the law. Leading gay-rights groups have been sidelined in the case, limited to filing "friend of the court" briefs, because they didn’t play nice with Olson and Boles early on. They publicly dissed the case as unwise and poorly timed. ~e lawsuit, which likely will end up before the U.S. Supreme Court, could lead to the legalization of same-sex marriage in all 50 states. Convemely, it also could possibly stall the movement for same-sex marriage for a generation, should the U.S. Supreme Court uphold Prop 8. Judge Walker had wanted to beam video of the trial to other federal courthouses and post it on YouTube, but the U.S. Supreme Court, in a 5-4 ruling, put the kibosh on that idea Jan. 13, saying officials in the federal courts’ 9th Circuit hadn’t followed proper procedure in lifting the ban on cameras in federal courts. Olson and Boles strongly supported broadcasting the trial. The pro-Prop-8 side vociferously opposed the plan, ultimately filing an emergency appeal to the Supreme Court to stop it. Gay activists and commentators suggested that Prop 8 defenders were horrified at the idea of the trial being broadcast because they lmow that their anti-gay rhetoric, which is being analyzed in detail at the trial, is hateful, false and, when exposed in f~l, so ........Continued See PROP 8 Page-5 ® MetroStarNews.com FEBRUARY 1,2010 OkEq Celebrates "Wi d Hearts Week nd" with p ans for ree Events for Valentines - TULSA, OK (PR) __ Oklahomans for Equality, Oklahoma’s preeminent Gay Rights Organization will host three separate events beginning Friday February 12th, Saturday February 13th and Sunday February !4th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center at 621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa. FRIDAY, February t2th, from 7-9pro, the first of the "Wild Hearts Weekend" events: Relationship Recognition Reception - an effort to mitigate the discrimination against the GLBT Community due to a lack of Equal Marriage Rights will be held in the Great Hall of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center beginning with a lecture series by Tulsa’s top legal and financial professionals Saturday, February 13th, 2010, 7-11pm, the second of the "Wild Hearts Weekend" events: Wild Hearts Ball 10th Anniversary Celebration and Dance - the annual fundraiser and social event to benefit Otdahomans for Equality will be held at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with dance music by DJ Zeke with video graphics set to the best mobile light show in town. Also available are Party Pictures with Cupid by Steven Michael Hall Photography, party appetizers and desserts along with raffles and door prizes plus a silent auction. Cash Bar available for guests 21 mad older. Sunday, February 14th, 2010, 1 lam-2pm - The third of the "Wild Hearts W-eekend" public. with Debby@okeq.org or call 918-743-4297. State Representative AI McAffrey to introduce Legislation for Domestic Partner Benefits for Ol ahoma State Employees By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK In the upcoming legislative session, State Representative A1 McAffrey plans to introduce legislation to allow domestic partners of Oklahoma state employees to obtain health care benefits. Mr. McAffrey, Oklahoma’s only first and only openly gay state legislator, a Democrat who represents District 88, stated that it would enable the partners of state employees to obtain the benefits currently available to spouses and dependents. A domestic partner is defined as someone Darters whom on is involved in and would include heterosexual couples as well as those in same sex relationships. This is the first time this has been proposed in the Oklahoma legislature. He related that this would not only help provide those eligible better access to healthcare coverage, it would help attract and retain talent among Oklahomas workers as well as raise consciousness in Oklahoma about that issue. It will be introduced when the session begins February 1, where it may or may not get out of committee, and if it does it may or may not pass. But he promised that if it doesn’t succeed, "I’ll introduce it again next year" ~entine’s Day started in the time of the Roman Empire: In ancient Rome, February !4th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome. The good Saint Valentine (photo above) was a priest at Rome in the days of Claudius II, He and Saint Marius aided the Christian martyrs and secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint Valentine was apprehended and dragged as the Goddess ofwomen and marriage. The following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalla. The lives ofyoung boys and girls were strictly sep~ate. However, one of the customs of the young people was name drawing. On the eve of the festival of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and ~vould then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with dubs and to have his head cut off. He suffered martyrdom on the 14th day of February, around the year 270. At that time it was the custom in Rome, a very ancient custom indeed, to celebrate in the month of February the Lupercalia, feasts in honour of a heathen god. On these occasions, amidst a ceremonies, names ofyoung women were placed in a box, from which they were drawn by the men as chance directed.The pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavoured to do away with the pagan element in these feasts by substituting the the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody and Unpopular campaignS: Claudius the Cruel was having a difficult time getting soldiers ) join his military leagues. He believed that reason was that Roman men did not want to leave their loves or families. As a result, Claudius, RDI R.AS celebrations include lots offeasting, partying and parading on the big day, also kno~vn as Shrove Tuesday - just before Ash Vdednesday - when the Church rules offasting and sacrifice take effect. It’s been that way in Christian countries around the world sinCe the Middle Ages. Today most of the world’s celebrations occur during the week ofFat Tuesday, which falls on February 16th this year. Fat Tuesday in New Orleans It’s been five long years since the devastation of names of saints for those of maidens. As the Lupercalia began about the middle of February, the pastors appear to have chosen Saint Valentine’s Day for the celebration of this new feast. So it seems that the custom ofyoung men choosing maidens for valentines, or saints as for ; year, arose in this Hurricane Katrina, and the biggest party town in America ~vill pick itselfup for the 2010 Fat Tuesday celebration with even bigger crowds - and more parades - expected this year. The New Orleans Mardi Gras parade schedule began on January 6, that is when the first King Cakes are socially avafl~biel k ~onti~ues thr0tlgh to Fat Tuesday, February 16, 2010. Fat Tuesday, Mardi Gras and Carnival Celebrations around the world The biggest and loudest ofthem, as always, are in Rio and New Orleans, although the Karneval, or Fasching, festivities in Cologne and Berlin get pretty wild, Carnaval in Nice shows offthe ~vackier side ofthe trendy Riviera scene, and the Italians in Venice are the worldwide experts on the art ofstreet theater. Ban Empl uptcv * Civil Rights Criminal ment * FamilV Law Litigation Street )ma cit% OK 73103 2 ~ETROSTAR February 2010 PFLAG OKC joins with Edmond By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer OY,ZAHOMA CITY, OK __ A merger with PFLAG Oldatloma City and PFLAG Edmond has been in the works over the past fe~v months. Officially, the two ioined forces on October 12th, joining to make both a single, stronger group. People often come. to PFLAG to find acceptance and support for GLBT issues and understanding. Some people just become involved to offer Bobbie and Georgie co-facilitate the Transgender support group in support. Oklahoma City. Townsendphoto "We are now PFI~G, OKC/Edmond under one name," said Louise Baker, President of the group. "One of the reasons we became OKC/ Edmond PFLAG is that OKC has many gay-straigi~t alliances and Edmond has none. Those gays will have parents who want to look for support. We feel it is a win-win and a good move for both groups." The combined groups ofPFLAG OKC/ promoting family involvement. The benefits of membership; you get an email vote for officers, you are a part ofPFLAG poll by national quarterly. There are educational programs and you help create a safe environment for people. The group is also actively working to promote equality in schools. "We are very dose in one of the three high schools in Edmond will be hostinga ~ndraising event Edmond to ~:et a GSA (gav-strai~t alliance)," to sppp0rt the cause. The event wilJ b~ ~e!d said B~er. One student said~they wanted at ~he Boom (on the O~C strip); Saturday it. They wrote the bylaws and sent it to the FebruaW 27th at 7 pm. Emcee will be student cotmcil~ There is dso a r~ need for Heather Scott, PFLAG Secretary, ~raoke by Shown Elmore, PFLAG Vice-President, Stand-Up Comedy Louise Bakel; PFLAG President. The group promises fun for everyone! "It’s not i.ust about going to a comedy act. We really want people to come out and support PFLAG," adds Baker. "We need to be here fore support and advocacy." The group is also looking for members. Family membership is $40 and single is $35, thus GSA’s in the middle school also but ~ve are taking this one step at a time." .PFI_&G OKC/Edmond would also like to add that they applaud the OKCPS board for passing the passing the anti-bullying policy to include GLBT’S. PFLAG OKC/Edmond meets the first Tuesday of each month. For questions, or if you would like’ to attend a meeting, please call (405) 525-3800 or write to pflagokc@yahoo. com. ahoma Gay Caucus, over ? By Victor Gorin Contrib[lting writer Lesbian OKL~MOMA CITY, OK When current O.G.L.EC. male co-chair Patti ~hompson was first elected to that post in 1992, he inherited what was then an orgaafization on the move vibrantly working for change against tough odds. The Oklahoma Gay mid Lesbian Political Caucus, ( kamwn better as O.G.L.EC.) had been formed and incorporated in 1985, with chapters in both Oklalmma City and Tulsa. ~ae organization became a major institution of the Okdahoma GLBT community, usually present whenever there was an opportunity for action to affect change. Their purpose was to educate the GLBT community about voting and taking part in the politic~ process, and also to educate dected officials about issues of the GLBT community. O.G.L.P.C. held annual dinners to celebrate accomplishments and future hopes, issuing annual awards of merit to deserving individuals as well as "Phobie Awards" towards those who deserved that distinction. O.G.L.EC. continued to grow, their tables often seen registering voters, signing up members and passing out literature at community gathering places and events. Amassing a mailing list of over 3,000 gay or gay friendly Oldalloma households, they issued voter guides during major elections letting these voters know who their friends were. When O.G.L.EC.’S Membership/Mailing Chair John Calhoun moved to Canada in 2007 it was a major loss for the organization, which was already strained from a lack of active membership for the past several years. This came to a head in 2009, when Treasurer Diana Faulkner’s term expired and there to nobody to take that office, which is currently administered in the interim by Paul Thompson. Consensus of the group at the point was that the group must change course or dissolve. A letter was sent out to the general membership advising them of a Final Meeting taking place Monday, February 8 at 7 p.m. located at Okdalloma City’s Neighborhood Alliance Center, 1236 N.W 36th Street ( N.W. 36th Street and Classen Boulevard). As Paul Thompson relates, "It’s gotten to the point where so few of us are actively engaged that it (O.G.L.P.C.) simply cannot be sustained as it is. Without enough people we cannot accomplish any meaningful work. There’s no point in going on if we’re not going to do a good job." Regardless of the outcome, Paul stated that he will no longer serve as male co-chair following the February meeting, Also currently serving as officers are Female co-chair Jeanne Flanigan and Secretary Victor Gorin. Pending the outcome of the February meeting, based on the attendance, commitment and interest shown, a decision will be made as to the future of the organization, which has a long history and legacy. For those interested in seeing O.G.L.P.C. continue, it wil! be imperative that they are at this final meeting. AuthOr Rouse in Tulsa for his neW book s gnmg. TULSA, OK (PR) On Tuesday, February 2nd at 7:00pm, Oklahomans for Equality and Booksmart Tulsa ~vill host a literary event and book signing at the Dennis R. Nell! Equality Center, 621 East 4th Street, Tulsa Oldahoma with xYgade Rouse for At Least in the City Someone Would HearMe Scream. Finally fed up with the frenzy of city life and a job he hates, Wade Rouse decided to make either the bravest decision of his life or the worst mistake since his botched Ogilvie home perm. He uproots his life and tries as Thoreau did some 160 years earlier, to "live a plain, simple life in radically reduced conditions." Wade and his partner, Gary, leave culture, cable and consumerism behind and strike out for rural Michigan-a place with fewer people than in their former spinning dass. AtLeast in the City Someone Would Hear Me Scream is a sidesplitting and heartwarming look at taking a risk, fulfilling a dream, and finding a home-with very thick and very dark curtains. "Firs sday" Art Opening and Exhibit of Origina Works by Robb ConoYero TULSA, OK (PR) The February Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists ar the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa), will feature an array ofworks by artist Robb Conover. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, February 4th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month of February. Robb Conover’s art is influenced by some of the world’s greatest POP Artists, Watercolorists, Realist and Sculptors plus Film as an art media. His work is driven by a method to his madness. He works out a calculated plan to arrange expression and soul into all forms that end up on his canvas. After studying in New York, Los Angeles and Phoenix, Robb states "there are no accidental meetings, not even in art. There’s a reason for every inch of paint that you see on my canvas. Ifwe are to tmderstand art as an experience we cannot fear what the artist brings back with him from his journey~ to other planes and planets". Robb’s art will be on display through February 2010. wwv¢,metrostamews.corn ;OETROSTAR 3 Compatible Odd Couple by James Nimmo OFd~AHONLA CITY, OK__ I’m compatible with Sally Kern! Yup, you read it right. ~hough Kern and I are polar opposites religiously, politically, orientationally, and educationally, I’m compatible with Oklahoma GOPer Rep.~ Sally Kern and her newly introduced HB 2279 which, if passed, would not allow incompatibility to be used a~ grounds for a divorce between opposite gender (of course) adults. Kern who has hyperventilated while sniffng in gay and lesbian closets has nmv turned her big nose m sniffing between the sheets of the hetero marriage bed. ( http:// tinyutl.com/yc45mhh ) Pre-existing conditions such as minor children in the household, a marriage of ten years or longer, or written objection by the other spouse would prevent using incompatibility as grounds for an Oklahoma divorce. I’m so compatible with Kern over her non-divorce bill I could be the son she almost had. Not only that, I’!1 see her bet and raise her one. Tlais being Oklahoma, the third hole in America’s Bible Belt, I ~vouldn’t bet the rent on this bill dying in committee, the fate of most of the worst of Okie legislative submissions. N~erefore, I’m proposing a bill that would take Kern’s aspirations a step higher. Since a judge, in effect, examines the two people engaged in a divorce proceeding to see if at least one of the parties has suNcient grounds for divorce, why not have a judge examine the proposed bride and groom at the beginning of the procedure when they apply for an Oldahoma marriage license? Why not head off any incompatible marriages before they become incompatible divorces? In Iny bill, the hopeful newlyweds would have to prove to the examiner not only their undying love for each other but also have to prove that their financial prospects are propitious, their religious beliefs are rooted in the Christian Bible, their educational backgrounds are conducive to a lifetime of constructive pillow talk, and above all, both parties are willing and able to produce children as fast as physically possible. A failing grade in any of these aspects would disallow the issuance of the marriage license. If Kern wants to meddle in straight people’s private affairs just as she has in gay people’s affairs shouldn’t she be willing to fully insert the police power of the state right from the beginning of a proposed marriage? In fact, Kern should revise her divorce bill as a state question needing approval from the voters. If marriage is so important that it must be denied to same-gender ta~xpayers, as it is in Oklahomii, why not let straight voters police themselves? As a staunch and starchy "kernserwative", as she bills herself, shouldn’t she be strong enough to impose the state government into all aspects of married life? She claims her bill will alleviate many of Oklahoma’s societal ills. ’She proclaims "If ~ve eould reduce divorce in Oklahoma we would also reduce our prison population and welfare rolls while benefiting families and children. That’s a goal xvorth pursuing." This link includes the text of the Kern bill, http:/Itinyurl.com/ydq9fgd She continues, "Ifwe can lower our divorce rate, our quality of life will improve and we will also reduce the need for many state services in this time of budget shortfall, freeing tip money to go to core services such as schools and roads." Who knew that keeping children in a warring household with two unhappy parents was the solution that would help reduce Oklahoma’s budget deficit? Again, Kern is using children as a shield for her schizophrenic view of privacy. Remember in 2009 she proposed and passed a legislative resolution objecting to a United Nations project to protect children from violence. If she wants to protect children from the harms of divorce, why is she against protecting children from violence? ( http://tinyufl. com/y8ujchv ) Remember the joke that was going around concerning the mock acceptance of same-gender marriage? It went something like, "Why should gays and lesbians be spared the pitfalls and expense of married life?" My new version of that joke is, "Why should straights be spared the intrusiveness of Sally Kern poking her nose into their marriages or divorces?" Or here’s another joke, this time from one of Kern’s heroes, Ronald Reagan. In one of his speeches, he said poking maliciously at government programs, "I’m from the government and I’m here to help you." Isn’t Sally Kern from the government? Is she here to help you? Among many religious fundamentalists and political conservatives (Butt repeat myself) there is the thinking that America is an exceptional country. Now I know what they mean by that. They’re saying "America must play by the rules Iset down, but when it’s convenient, I get an exception)’ In Kerffs case she claims an exception for her divorce bill and its intrusive meddling in the private matrimonial affairs of adults. Transgender support group meets in OKC By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer Each Monday of the month, the TWOFOLD (Transgender With Out Fear Of Lifestyle Disapproval) meets in NW Oklahoma City. This peer support group is designed to allow attendees the opportunity to share their feelings, frustrations and coping mechanisms for those experiencing common identity changes that accompany gender identity issues. "We are pretty lucky here because I think people are really accepting," said Bobby, one of the co-facilitators of the group. "We have had two particularly interesting people recently come to our meetings. One was 19 and one was 9 years old. She [9 year old] had the support of the morn, but not really the dad or the school." "The 19 year old and fought with her morn about wearing dresses and not wanting to grow her hair long," added Georgie, another group co-facilitator. "Then she realized and understood now that we have this anti bullying law." Transgendered people often live with the fear of being lonely, unlovable and, more practically, unemployed. According to the traqsgendered news source, ’Topix,’ sixty percent of transgender people in one 2006 study were unemployed, for example. Many relationships end during and after transition. Dating can be painful; several people interviewed said it xvas nearly impossible to find understanding partners. "We want to be there to help the counselors as Well as family members and the transgendered person looking for help and acceptance," added Georgie. "We ~vant to be a resource for the public schools, PFLAG and other of thgse types of organizations." If you would like to attend the meetings, you must call (405) 443-4131 or email info@ twofoldgroup.org. Visitors are screened for authenticity to protect those truly seeking help. Lifestyle Fitness column by Ronald Blake returns to Metro Star in next months issue. Photo: RonaM Blake, Cet~fied Fitness Instructor through ISSA International Sports Sciences Association The best New Year’s resolution to have is the one that works for you. Don’t have a resolution just for the sake of having one or just to keep up with the Joneses. Find something that needs improvement and take it to task. I have parted the Red Sea and several health and fitness resolution suggestions are malting their way to the Promised Land. Use social networking sites to find ten other peoplethat are resoMng to do the same thing as you. Use these people as your support group to keep your resolution on track. It is much better to have a group of individuals striving for the same goal. Stay in communication ~vith these team members as frequently as possible for the best results. Purchase a diary and start using it. Forget about all the normal nonsense that authors usually pen. inside these autobiographies. Just keep tabs on all the exercise you get throughout the year. Make a daily notation even if you didn’t have any physical exertion on a particular day. This Catholic guilt method should keep you feeling the need for some form of exercise each day. After a years absence, fitness guru Ronald Blake returns in the March issue. Pucker Up and Take It from TwoLips Burlesk A Valentine’s burlesque performance on matters of the heart. TULSA, OK (PR) __ TwoLips Burlesk will be performing their debut show, Pucker Up and Take It, on Friday, February 5th, 2010, 9:00pm, with an encore performance Saturda); February 6th, 9:00pro at the Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, Oklahoma. Brand new in 2010, two years-before the apocalypse, Tulsa has a new kind of performance troupe in town: ~¢¢oLips Burlesk! This Valentine’s show, encompassing the true spirit of burlesque, vaudeville, cabaret, tease--and even a little drag to sweeten things up~T~voLips Burlesk treat you and your loved ones to the tastiest treats to hit the streets since chocolates in a box. Founded by Tulsans Amanda Storms, Tarynn Archer, and Chris Dailey, TxvoLips brings you a performance spectacle that will dazzle, excite, and prove to be the finest of its kind--raising the bar for local burlesque. Featuring the talents of Poppy Pie, Honey Du Jour, Sinna’ Bunnz, and Tangy Tart along with other local favorites, the show is ¯ packed full of sugary goodness, and will have you laughing hysterically and drooling vdth excitement. Still hungry? There’s more: drag-lesque, audience participation, topless antics---even a kissing booth! And to top it all off, the evening will be hosted by non5 other than Tulsa’s own National Midwest Entertainer of the Year, Drag Emcee Extraordinaire Nildd Le’Chapelle. Come and support Tulsa’s sweetest troupe! Pucker Up and Take It from TwoLips Burlesk runs February 5th and 6th at 9:00pm. Tickets are $10 at the door. Intended for mature, like-minded audiences only. For more information:contact Amanda Storms at TwoLip~Burlesk@gmail. corn, call (918) 232-1448, or visit the TwoLips Butlesk page on Facebook. Free help 8 89 February 2010 U.S. HIV border ban lifted Bozeman protects gays and transgenders New policies that removed the United States’ 22-year-old ban on HIV-positive immigrants and foreign visitors took effect Jan. 4. Three days later, HIV-positive Dutchman Clemens Ruland and his partner Hugo Bausch arrived at New York’s Kennedy Airport and were met by a representative ofHuman Rights Watch and the Dutch Embassy’s cultural attache. "Travel restrictions on HIV-positive people fundamentally affect their human dignity," said Boris Dittrich from HRW’s LGBT Rights Program. "Lifting the HIV travel ban was a victory for human rights." Bausch won the trip for himself and Ruland in a Dutch AIDS Foundation contest to celebrate the ban’s demise. In announcing the change last October, President Barack Obama said: "We talk about reducing the stigma of this disease, yet we’ve treated a visitor living with it as a threat. We lead the world when it comes to helping stem the AIDS pandemic, yet we are one of only a dozen countries that still bar people with HIV from entering our own country. Ifwe want to be the global leader in combating HIV/AIDS, we need to act like it." In a joint statement at the time, the Global Network of People Living With HIV, the European AIDS Treatment Group and Germany’s Deutsche AIDSHilfe "congratulate[d] the United States government on fulfilling its promise and completing the legal procedure that was started by former President Bush on World AIDS Day 2007." "This is a great victory for the fight against the worldwide discrimination of people living with HIV," said AIDS-Hilfe’s Peter Wiessner. "I remember times where we never thought that this ,vould happen. This is an emotional moment and it feels a bit like the fall of the Berlin Wall." EATG’s David Haerry called the ban’s demise "groundbreaking" and said it sends "a strong message to other countries maintaining stigmatizing restrictions today, such as Russia, China, Australia and Canada." The groups’ statement said that more than 60 nations, including some in Europe, have sugmanzmg entry or residency restr,cnons and that "27 countries deport people on the grounds of having an HIV infection." Xhe three organizations said they hope the U.S. government will take one final step in relegating the ban to the dustbin of hist0ry: "Erase all information with regards to the HIV status of people ftom its immigration databases." Trans priso to. open Italy About 30 inmates wilt be moved to a prison near Florence, Italy, that will house only transgender prisoners, local media reported Jan. 12. The facility in the town of Pozzale is nearly vacant at present, holding two female inmates. ~e City Commission in Bozeman, Mont., on Jan. 11 added ~sexual orientation" and "gender identity" to a policy that protects city" employees from discrimination. The vote was 3-0. The policy also will officially extend spousal benefits to employees’ same-sex partners. Gay couple ’marries’ in China State media reported Jan. 13 that a gay couple got "married" in a gay bar in Chengdu, China. Zeng Anquan, 45, and Pan Wenjie, 27, tied tile knot before 200 gay friends. "We are no !onger hiding anymore," Zeng told China Daily. "The wedding is our happiest and most precious moment. We don’t care how others consider us, as long as we are together. (W)e are deeply in love and will never desert each other." Zeng’s brother responded to the wedding by freezing Zeng’s capital in the company the two own, he said, and Zeng’s sister told him she won’t acknowledge him as her brother again until he breaks up with Pan. Mayor Sanders and gay daughter talk to reporters after mayor’s Prop 8 trial appearance AFER Board President Chad Gdfli.n, Mayor Sanders and a~ughter Lisa. Wocknerphoto Republican San Diego Mayor Jerry Sanders and his gay daughter Lisa talked to reporters in San Francisco on Jan. 19 after the mayor testified in the federal trial seeking to overturn Proposition 8 as a violation of fl~e U.S. Constitution. Here’s some ofwhat they had to say. Before I becan~e mayor I spent 26 years on the San Diego Police Department, and I’m very proud of the career that I had, and I witnessed, in the early years, discrimination in both the department and thee city and, as I’ve said, I’ve seen discrimination and hate crimes occur in the city of San Diego. I think denying marriage equality is just as ~vrong as telling blacks that they couldn’t use white-only drinking fountains. It’s government action that’s founded in prejudice. The first step towards equalityin society is equality under the law. So, I’m .....Continued see MAYOR - page 6 Wockner News Gay weddings to start in D.C. March 5 Gay marriages will start in the District of Columbia, the latest locality to legalize "samesex marriage, on March 5. That’s when the bill passed by the Council and signed by the mayor xvill have completed its mandated congressional review period and any couples who obtained a license on the first day possible, March 2, will have made it through the mandatory three-day waiting period between getting a license and getting married. Same-sex marriage is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden; in Argentina’s Tierra del Fuego province; and in the U.S. states’of Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont. It will become legal in Portugal in April. unpalatable and embarrassing that it could turn the public against them. Information introduced during the trial on Jan. 13, for example, revealed that one defendant in the case, Hak-Shing William Tam, wrote a letter to voters during the Prop 8 campaign saying that once gays have the right to marr)~ they will pursue legalization of pedophilia. "On their agenda list is: legalize having sex with children," the letter said. Ir a!so claimed that legal same-sex marriage in California would cause "other states (to) fall into Satan’s hands." Prop 8’s lawyers claimed they didn’t ~vanr cameras in court for, among other reasons, fear that their witnesses could face nasty retaliation from militant, if not violent, homosexual thugs who saw the video feed. ~xe anti-same-sex-marriage side also objected to the playing in court of their successfully alarmist TV ads from the Prop 8 campaign, which suggested that gay marriage could lead to schoolchildren being,aught inappropriate, bad or wrong things. Many analysts and commentators believe the gay-marriage-will-harm-your-kids TV ads may have tipped the balance against samesex marriage in the minds of voters both in California and, more recently, Maine, where some of the California ads were recycled. ~e Prop 8 trial is being Iive-blogged, tweeted and analyzed to within an inch of its life by an army of bloggers, activists and news reporters. Prop8trialtracker.com is a good place to start. The San Jose Mercury News also has a good live-blog of the case at mercurynews. com. On Jan. 15, the Courage Campaign, which operates prop8trialtracker, refused to alter the site’s logo after the group was hit with a cease-and-desist demand from protectmarriage.com. The two sites’ logos are identical except for one minor, huraorous variation. See tinyurl.com/logosgate. Courage Campaign said its logo qualifies as permissible parody. www.metrostarnews.corn ~{ET~OSTAR 5 The Bitch is Back By Michael W. Sasser But Bego said Hton is not going to be out of the public spodight. "He does not plan on retiring," Bego said. "We can look forward to music from him for die rest of his life. He is just one of those kinds of artists." Hton John: The Bitch is Back by Mark Bego is available at booksellers nationwide. In Memory ofDavid Marshal1 Beavers March 17, 1968.....December 19, 2009 Elton John biographer Mark Bego at 7~e Abbey in West Hollywood,. Photo by: John Klinger ne of the first albums that author Mark Bego bought was an Elton John LP on viny!. Later, one of the first album reviews that Bego wrote for his college newspaper was on an Elton John release. "In a wa)~ I’ve been writing about Elton John for almost 40 years," Bego said. "I’ve always been interested. I fed like I’ve been £ollowinghim for my entire career.’, It therefore comes as no surprise that Bego refers to his latest book, Elton John: The Bitch is Back as "a labor of love." The book was long. in the planning. "About six years ago I talked to my agent about doing a book on Elton, he asked around and at the time there wasn’t a lot of interest," Bego said. Instead, Bego was engaged to write a book on Billy Joel. "Billy Joel and Elton John have a lot of people in common," Bego said. That rene,ved his interest and finally the unauthorized biography of Sir Elton wa~s underway. In Elton John: ~e Bitch is Back, renowned celebrity author Bego has rounded up a fascinating group of interview subjects for this unique biography of one of the music world’s biggest superstars. "~ specifically wanted to talk to people who personally know Etton," Bego said. "Tnese people’s insights into Elton m~e this quite e~citing." Interviews include Mice Cooper, Bill Wyman ofThe Rolling Stones, Mary Wilson ofTne Supremes, Angela Bowie, Sarah Dash of LaBelle, Randy Jones of the Village People, Duncan Faure ofXhe Bay City Rollers, Gary Brooker of Procol Harum and the colorfi~ and outrageous RuPaul. "One interview really led to the next one," Bego said. "I interviewed a lot of people who aren’t normally sought out to talk about Elton. So a lot of die stories in the book are ones that fans of Elton won’t read anywhere else." ~Ihe book focuses on Elton’s public and private life and the absolute intersection of the two. "Usually creative people use inspiration from their personal lives in their work," Bego said. "Elton has certainly lived a colorfi~ life and you can’t ignore that. He has been through so many stages. Gay and not gay, married, drugs. All of these changes had to be induded." John is widely embraced by the gay community, even at stages of his public life where he denied his homosexuality. Bego said that he believes that John’s flirtation with heterosexuality and his brief marriage to a woman were a response to die early days of the AIDS epidemic. ’7~ lot of people, induding Elton, freaked out and I think he decided tie had to daange, had to stop having sex with men or else he was going to die," Bego said. "I think that was the inspiration for his marriage." Heterosexuality did not take, Bego said. "He was having three-way gay sex the same week he got married," the author added. Bego was surprised to learn other things about the estimable Sir Elt0n as well. "He has always been so charitable so it was surprising to discover that he and his real father never got along wel! - even when his father was dying," Bego said. ~lat contrasted with Elton’s close relationship with his stepfather and many other people and causes of which he was supportive. Bego was also surprised to learn j~at the famed collaboration between Elton and Bernie Taupin was a distant one geographically. "q-hey were never in the same place at the same time," Bego said. "One of them would write the music, then send to the other for lyrics. They collaborated but were never together. W~nen they met, that’s how it happened and it just became their formula for Success." Today, Hton is in a new phase of his career - bum/composing music for movies and for Broadway. He has also, Bego said, settled down personally, free of drugs and partnered with his true love. OKZAHObcD~ CITY, OK__ David Beavers passed away shortly before Christmas at Deaconess Hospital after a batde with pneumonia. Born in Mooresville, North Carolina, he is survived by his naother Emily and 2 brothers, Frankie and Mark. He spent d~e last years of the life in Oklahoma City, a well knmvn personality in the gay nightlife scene. He had been affectionately niclmamed Uncle Fester due to an uncanny resemblance and ability to imitate that electrifi!ing charac{er of the Addams Family YV show of the 1960s. He loved cooldng, computers and Patti LaBelle. As he was born on St..Patrick’s day, he loved the parties the bars held on his birthday. During his life he had worked for the State of Oklahoma, Levi’s and the Habana, made many friends and touched a lot of lives. A Memorial Service was held at die Finishline January 24. In Memoriam: Pdcky Lee Miller OK_LAMOMA CITYY, OK~Ricky Lee Miller passed away January 11, 20 I0 in Holdenville, Oklahoma at Boyce Manner Nursing Home after suffering from a long illness. He was born in Oklahoma City February 13, 1957 to Karl and Darla Miller. Predeceased by lfis mother Darla, he is survived by his father and stepmother, Lou Mae Miller. Ricky was well known as an expert in Ichthyology ( study of fish/marine life). Memorial services were held on January 14 at Rose Hill Burial Park of Oklahoma City. He will be missed by many longtime friends. proud to say that my daughter Lisa got married to her wife Meaghan in Vermont last month. I’m very proud of both of them and I only wish that she could be recognized as equal under California law. Hopefully the court will do the right thing so that loving couples like Lisa and Meaghan don’t have to travel 3,000 miles to get their marriagglicense -- away from family, away from friends and away from coworkers." "We need to boil this down to people instead ofman and woman and everything else. We have two people who have a loving, caring relationship, who can have a family, who can do all the same things that a married couple have, and yet we have said, ’Since you’re not heterosexual, we’re not going to recognize you as being as important as heterosexual relationships.’ I think that’s fundamentally discriminatory and I think that’s wrong." February 2010 ~outhwest v~v.metrostarnews.com I~4;;4:~oSTAR 7 No matter who ~ .... are on life’s 405:525.9555 o Cho o ~ Un ~ A Metropo~ita~ Community Church Out &About New Years Eve 2009 ~dsa Eagle Staff:ready to serve the o’owd at thier New Years Eve Black & White Ball, and did they ever[ These three were zoay out ofcontrol at the Bamboo Lounge, 7;alsa. Clint ofthe Copa Resolution- Lose weight and be better with my money For 2OlOWishfor more gay marriages[ Jenna atAngles, OKC with group. Resolution- to getfit and work out every day. To be happy and notgive af--k what anyone thinks[ ChefSuzie Lopez @ the Boom, OKC. New Year’s Resolution- ~y to loose some zoe~ght, exercise and be morefit. 2010 wish-fbr the economy to come back Cheyenne andAmanda Daye at Tramps New Year’s Res’oltution- ~ love my husband more than I have. Wishfbr 2010- For rny husband to love me more than he hast KerL~ Susan & Casey@ Partners, OKC Photo Jay Murray with his part~ter Bill Greedier at Phoenix Rising. New Year’s Resolutions- To strivefor another 30years togethe~ Wishfor 2010- Peace in the world Resolution- to Live life, Robert at the Park, OKC with dancer Sam. Wishfor 2010- A/lore civil rights, and special rightsforpeople like me[ page 12 ~.metrostarnews.corn #~ETROSTAR 9 February 2010 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy Out &About New Years Eve 2009 Derrick with his 3 gir~ends De~ tv’t"cks’ Resoluti"on: To be a betterperson and not get too screwed up allyear long &201O-Worldpeace. @Alibi’s, OKC Regina Ledotgv at the Park, owner of.PINKS New Koar"s Resolution- To get my bigger store open a~ make it successfiaL ’ Wishj~r 2010- For evetTone to be more gayfiqendly! @ Club 209, Tulsa Garre#t at Finishline-blonde in center. Resolution- to be happier than I am now Wishfor 2010- For everyone w get along and worldpeace. Richard at the Park OKC. Resolution- have more tim and make more mono,. Wishfor 2010- To be @Club Majestic, Tulsa "Tot Eq 2010" bigger and better than 2009! February 2010 by Jack Fertig February 2010 "DoWt take anything for granted, An aspect between Venus in Aquarius and Mercury in Capricorn is supposed to promote charm and flirtation, but carries the risk of trying too hard and coming off as inauthentic. To make it worse, Eris is aspecting both, offering bitchy, competitive undertones. Be careful where you pull out that Margo Channing attitude! Just be your own sweet self, darling. ARIES (March 20-Apri~ !9): "Your keen vision of future possibilities and your competitive spirit can help you talk out tough issues with your boss - or as the boss. You may need to rein it in a little to keep your inspiring speeches realistic. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Knowing better than those around you is no challenge, but does that really matter? The real trick is to excel in serenity. To do that, you have to take time alone to cultivate your cool with meditation and inner exploration. GEMIN~ {May 2% June 20): Speaking in a foreign language or exploring new ideas and possibilities could make you even sexier. Your friends will play along, up to a poin,.t. They have their own agenda. Don t take ~nything for granted! CANCER (June 21- July 22): Being adept in dealing with authority is not the same as being a control queen! If you need help distinguishing the two, your partner’s insights - or any advice you receive in bed - can prove very helpful. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): A little humility would help you develop those teamwork skills. Just remember~ all your brilliance is really based on effectivenes!! Making others look good will reflect better on you than selfish efforts. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): A playful attitude at work can help boost morale and productivity, but keep that playfulness squeaky clean!Responses to naughty provocation will backfire! OK, a little double-entendre in the right places is good, but be very careful with that! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): "Family fun" is supposed to be just that - fiJn. Getting too competitive can spoil it for everyone. Bringing your clan together as a team can strengthen bonds, but remember: friendship first, . competition second! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Eager to learn new things, " especially at work, you could unintentionally come off as snippy or provocative. Imagine you’re hosting a party with your great-aunts present (or your colleagues’), and behave accordingly. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Money’s tight, but getting out to play is necessary for mental health. You can socialize on the cheap! What you really have to offer is your strong sense of values and playfulness. Remember that, and you’ll be rich in the things that count. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Before you say what seems to matter, think about what really matters. Kindness and truth are high on that list. Work harder on kindness. Being kinder to family members could prove much to your advantage. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Your efforts at imitating Dorothy Parker or Bette Davis could end up hurting friends’ feelings. Those old clever bitch imitations have been done to death. You have it in you to be a charming original. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Charity is not a competitive sport. Give what you can, but remember the airplane drill about putting on your own air mask before helping others. Focus on your own needs and take care of yourself. Then you’ll be in a better position to help others. MCCo METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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After Obama signs the measure, he and the Secretary of Defense and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff must certify that the military is ready for the change and that it will not harm military readiness or effectiveness, unit cohesion, recruiting or member retention. Then after that DADT repeal will take effect 60 days later. Xhe process is expected to proceed relatively smoothly. "No longer will patriots be forced to lie in order to serve the country they love and are willing to die f?r," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "~his vote gy:the United Sta{es Senate will have Presi&nt Barack Obama. ~Wockn~rphoto extremely pOsitive rippl~ effects well b~yo~d " Dont Ask; Dont Tell. Our government has ,WA~SHINGTON, DC Don’t Ask, sent a powerful message that discrimination,,, Dont %11, the military’s ba~on open gays, " on any level, should not be tolerated lS " headed for the dustbin of history. Servicemembers Legal Defense Network The Senate voted 65-31 on Dec. 18 to authorize the policy’s repeal and sent the measure to President Barack Obama for his signature. Eight Republicans joined all but one Democrat in voting to repeal the ban. They were Susan Collins and Olympia Snowe of Maine, Scott Brown of Massachusetts, Richard Burr of North Carolina, John Ensign of Nevada, Mark Kirk of Illinois, Lisa Murkowski ofAlaska and George Voinovich of Ohio. Democrat Joe Manchin of West Virginia did not vote. Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis called on the Pentagon to cease DADT discharges during the months between now and when repeal is finalized. "I respectfully ask Defense Secretary Robert Gates to use his a[tthority to suspend all Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell investigations during this interim period," Sarvis said. "Until the president signs the bill, until there is certification and until the 60-day congressional period is over, no one should ........Continued See DADT Page-5 Enid P-Flag Presents the 2011 Winter Bal ENID, OK On Saturday Night, January 22, 2011 Enid’s Symphony Hall will coine alive with the festivities of P-Flag’s (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) gala major event, the Winter Ball. N~e event runs from 8 p.m. until midnight and will include a live DJ, light food, a catered ba,; and a professional photographer to take photos of the partiers upon request. Tickets for the Ball are $10 and can be ordered by contacting Enid P-Flag. Xhis event is sponsored by Cross~valk United Church, Enid’s only official open and affirming church. Since opening in March of this year a~ 1319 S. Van Buren Enid’s GLBT community center, which is named simply, "N~e Center", has been busy and activities are growing. Through the Center Enid’s P-Flag chapter provides free counseling find mediation, and recently added free rapid HIV testing. Enid’s P-Flag is also partnering with other organizations through their Bridge Building Program for which GLBTWA youth and young adults sign up to assist people in need of help with tasks such as raking leaves, putting up or taking down holiday decorations, delivering hot meals or other useful activities. Not only does this program help provide needed volunteers, it also connects GLBTQA youth and young adults to the mainstream community and allows them to share their stories of diversity as the beneficiaries get to know them. During this holiday season food has been donated ftom the Center to the Horn of Plenty, which is Enid’s largest food bank. ........Continued See ENID Page-15 Metro to Retire F .er & By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Chaz Ward Founder and Publisher ofthe 7hlsa based Mewo Star Newspaper retires at 71. TULSA, OK __ "It’s the right time to retire. The business is changing and needs younger blood with nexv ideas. It’s been hard work but very rewarding to inform, unite and entertain the GLBT community of Oklahoma and the surrounding region." Chaz Ward When Mr. Ward decided ro start a GLBT focused newspaper he did so with mixed hopes, appropriate apprehensions, and small beginnings. The purpose for starting this enterprise as the Ozarks Star in 2003 was to provide the unrepresented gay community of southxvest Missouri, northeast Oklahoma and northwest Arkansas with a viable voice. It was just a digest size black and white news and information magazine with just 12 pages, four advertisers and a circulation under 700 distributed in Joplin and Springfield, Missouri, Fayetteville, At’kansas, Pittsburg, Kansas and Tulsa. Even then he lmew he ~vas getting into a challenging fidd where countless entrepreneurs had come and gone in that region alone. Then as now in this area of the United States gay newspapers deal with limited advertising revenue because so many business owners are reluctant to be seen in a gay focused publication. "The limited revenue forced us ro rely on part time staff~vorking primarily as a labor of tove, which makes ir tough going," said Mr. \Yard. He would also be dealing with fear and animosity towards the GLBT community, but he had seen toughe~~" times. Growing up in Oklahoma City as a teenager in the mid 1950s he faced what was then a different world. Oklahoma City had only one gay bat’, the Mayflower, and even that oasis of GLBT life was subjected to constant police harassment for which there was no recourse. Homosexuality was considered a mental illness, sodomy laws were tstilt on the books, and gay rights (let alone marriage) weren’t even considered worthy of discussion by mainstream society. Understandably, along with many other GLBT people, he moved to California where the environment was at least a little better, working in management with a nationa! building services firm until his retirement in 1994. He then began buying and remodeling old homes ro resell, one of which he turned into a bed & breald’ast in Joplin that he operated and where the Ozarks Star was born in 2003. Although he knew from firsthand observation what he was getting into, he began his publication xvith lots of encouragement from the areas GLBT community. After selling the bed and breakfast in 2004, he moved to Tulsa and renamed the paper simply, "The Star." At that time the largest publication was the Gayly Oklahoman, which focused primarily on local news, while the Star dealt more with entertainment and syndicated columns. When the Gayly ceased publication in 2006 after 22 years as the primary news source for the GLBT community and a restart failed that same year, The Star became Oklahoma’s largest GLBT newspaper with a new role to fulfill. Victor Gorin, formerly with the Gayly Oklahoman, began working at the Metro Star serving as Copy Editor, writer, working in ad sales, photography and distribution primarily for the Oklahoma City area, joined by writers Robin Dorner and Jeanne Flanigan. Also coming on board in Tulsa were writer Michael Sasser, distributor Bill Francisco and photographer Judy Gabbard. Later becoming the Metro Star in 2007, the paper had grown to a circulation of 4000 to 5000, changed from a magazine to a tabloid, had gained credibility as a viable source of news and information for the GLBT community of Oklahoma which included national news along with local events and entertainment features. ........Continued See METRO STAR Page- 15 22 o5 est Gay Rese S~rvice Road banain .C 2221 Follow us on Fac~book Major Credit Cards Accepted 2 January 1, 2011 [] [] Paul ~ompson passes Away Leaving a lifetime ofService ( 93 o20 0) Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ~des Again For 25th ye~ars the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has held this annual Memorial Day weekend event which celebrates gay cowboys & cowgirls with their friends. Held as always at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, the rodeo is like any other with regular roping and riding events, and unlike most others with campy "Drag Races" and goat dressing competitions. This rodeo now ranks among the top 4 rodeos of the International Gay Rodeo Association, which comprises over 20 rodeos in the United States and Canada. Kelly Kirby receives the Equality Oklahoma’s Lifetime Achievement Award Paul ~hompson was a well known activist for the GLBT community, starting from the early 1970s when he w~s arrested for public lewdness for publicly kissing a man on the neck. He fought his case and won, and he continued the rest of his life working to make things better not only" ~br the GLBT community but also other marginalized minorities. He had co-chaired OGLPC fiom 1992 until tis death on March 4 o~: this year. He also had co-chaired the OKC Pride Parade and Festival for many years, and was instrmnental in arranging the first one in 1987. In addition he was a tireless activist with the Oldahoma Democratic Party:, was an active board member ~vith the Oklahoma City chapter of the NAACP and also served on the Martin Luther King Parade Committee. His life made a major impact on the lives and future of GLBT Oldahomans and others seeking justice and equality. Cimarron Alliance Foundation acquires new once and gets a new Director Cimarron Alliance dates back to its original formation in 1995, beginning then as a Political Action Committee striving to promote gay or gay friendly candidates and legislation in Oklahoma. In 1997 the Cimarron Alliance Foundation was formed in order to enable the organization to accept tax deductible contributions and work towards educational efforts for the GLBT community and Oklahomans in general about their issues. They acquired their first office this year at 729 N.W. 17th Street, and also hired their first fulltime Executive Director, Scott Hamilton. He strives to keep the Foundation going strong during these tough times stating, "You keep going because the needs do not abate just because money is tight. If you bdieve in social justice that doesn’t stop until there is justice." At their 30th annual Equality Gala Banquet, Equality Otdahoma bestowed their Lifetime Achievement Award on Kelly Kirby. A veteran and successful businessman xvith his own accounting firm, he was honored for over 20 years of activism on behalf of the GLBT community in Tulsa. Not going overboard he stated modestly afterwards, " I would have to say that at 56 years old the word lifetime is a bit daunting." Oklahoma City holds their 23rd Annual Pride Parade and Festival From humble beginnings in 1987, the Oklahoma Pride Parade and Festival once again brought people together to parry, reminisce, and stand together. N~is year it was accompanied by the banners of Cimarron Alliance displayed on the lampposts along the parade route on Classen Boulevard. N~is time it also began with an outrageously fun block party on Friday night June 25th on the 39th Street Strip, follmved by the Festival in Memorial Park Saturday and Sunday which is the beginning point of the Parade. The Parade ~cked off on grand style at 5 p.m., much glamorized by this year’s Grand Marshall, Ginger Lamar. Miss Lamar ( a,k,a, Queen Supreme, Beauty with a Bite, Queen of the F---king Universe) has been a mainstay in the OKC entertainrnent scene for over 30 years. A wild emcee never caught short for a wisecrack or snappy comeback, she has delighted audiences in a style all her own. Today she still reigns as the emcee Saturday nights at the Boom, a proud Oklahoma tradition that truly did it her way. Pride Parade and Festival Celebrated in Tulsa On June 5 Tulsa held their 14th Pride Parade, followed by their biggest festival yet in Centennial Park. N~is year their Parade Marshall was the Reverend Martin Lavanhar, Senior Pastor of Allsouls Unitarian Church ofTulsa. He was honored for his courage shown when he spoke at a conference in Uganda rallying against efforts by that nation to make homosexuali.ty a crime punishable by the death penalty. Aiding a sister Unitarian church in Uganda for this cause was a very risky undertaking but he felt he had to make a stand saying, "I’m 4! years old and I%e never been called upon to go overseas to risk my life for freedom. In some ways this was that kind of call." When he returned safely Toby Jenkins, the Director of Equality Oldahoma stated, "We had to hono~ this wonderful man, to let people know that this straight minister fi’om Oldahoma was only one of m,o ministers who was at this conference in Uganda." Enid gets their first GLBT Commtmky Center, and holds their first Pride Celebration One might not think a town like Enid, well known for its conservatism, grain elevators and their powerful football team( the Enid Plainsman) as a place for a gay scene, but yet this has emerged. Enid High School has a Gay/Straight Alliance, a local P-Flag Chapter ( Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), and now a GLBT community center called simply the Center at 1319 S. V3n Buren. Everything fi’om HIV testing to dances are held there, ~long with many groups now forming tip. ~ihis year Enid celebrated their 2nd Pride Festival as Meadowlake Park came to life with vendors and entertainers followed by an evening firewor~ sho,a: This time over 400 people came to savor the solidarity and enjoy the fun. SSRA Rodeo -Back a~er 5 years in Grand Style Back after 5 years, the Sooner State Rodeo Association was again in full swing. Hosted this time by the Ramada Inn East, the event was held on October’s first weekend at the Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort in Sperry. Founded in 2002, SSRA is a member of the International Gay Rodeo Association. 0 Y A CONGREGATION OF THE ~N~T~D CHURCH OF CHRIST Join us Sundays at 6pro 3901 NW 63rd St www.cohokc.com God is still speaMng, Ban Empi~ ’uptcv ® Civil Rights ~Criminal ’ment ® Family Law ® Litigation January 1, 2011 i 3 School Board As a well known activist who has proudly marched in OKC’s Pride Parade carrying a sign that says "Gay Teacher", Joe Quigley has for years been a tireless advocate for equality and safe schools for all students, including those GLBT or perceived to be. For this he has gained the respect and admiration of not only the GLBT community but also that of countless of fair-minded Oklahomans. A teacher with the Oklahoma City School District since 1994 with 10 years of satisfactory appraisals, he was at Northwest Classen High School when in May of 2009 the Oklahoma City School Board voted to fire him. Although they claimed it was for poor performance, Mr. Quigley and his supporters saw it as a ruse to get rid of him due to his advocacy for GLBT students. With the help of the American Federation ofTeachers he took them to court where District Judge Barbara Swinton not only ruled in his favor, but apologized to him on behalf of how he was treated by the district. The District appealed, and. Judge Swinton’s ruling was upheld. The Oklahoma City School Board has now appealed to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. At this time Mr.Quigley is now in a permanent position teaching English at Douglass High School; N O ahoma attempts Exemption from Federal Hate Crimes Law In October of 2009 Presiden{ obama signed into taw expanded Federal Hate Crimes protections to include real or perce@ed sexual orientation or gender identity as well as disabilit)’ and gender. Although this was hailed by the GLBT community and other activists as a long overdue step forward, it was also condemned by some religious groups and other conservatives nationwide who claimed that this measure promoted homosexuality and stifled fi’ee speech. Oklahoma was no exception, and in early 2010 State Senator Steve Russell introduced legislation to exempt Oldahoma from this provision, prohibiting Oklahoma law enforcement authorities from cooperating with the Federal government investigating these ty-pes of hate crimes. After overwhehning passage in the Senate, it went to the State House of Representatives where State Representative Mike Shelton, in a brilliant procedure of legislative maneuvering, got this legislation stopped. He had this to say as to why-- "There are pastors who wear the veil of Chrisrianity who support this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." Mr. Shelton later received Cimarron Alliance’s Legislator of the Year Award, an honor shared with State Senator Judy Eason McIntyre ofTulsa. Oldahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Moves from Surv "va Mode back to Recovery During late 2009 and into this year, the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus ( known as OGLPC) was in survival mode. Formed in the early 1980s, the group had a long history of advocacy and education for the GLBT community, and was most famous for their voter guides mailed out to GLBT voters and their allies. However, during 2009 and into this year attendance had fallen to the point that the group could not function. Paul Thompson, who had been the male co-chair of the group since 1992, was trying to revive the group when he passed away during March of this year. Determined to carry on the legacy of OGLPC, co-chairs Jeanne Flanigan and Steven Dubois have been working to rebuild the group, and to reform it as a PAC ( Political Action Committee) that ~vill enable OGLPC to do fulfill their goals more effectively. They look forward greater milestones ahead. N Brittany Novomy made history when she ran against State Representative Sally Kern Sally Kern had already made a name for herself long before she sha@d a spotlight with Brittany. First elected in 2004 as a self described "Kernse~-~ative", she gained international notoriety’ after a speech she gave to a Republican gathering was secretly taped and posted on youtube. This speech stated that "gays are a bigger threat than terrorism or Islam"and that "no societ~r" that has embraced homosexuality has lasted for more than a few decades."She led the charge to get the book "King and King" ( ~ story" for children about a gay prince) removed from the Children’s Section of Oklahoma County- Libraries, labeling it "obscene." She also graced the front page of the Metro Star when she presented her Proclamation for Morality at the Oklahoma State Capitol, which claimed that America’s economic woes were due to "abortion~ pornography, same sex marriage, sex trafficking, divorce, illegitimate births, child abuse and other forms of debauchery." In 2010 Brittany Novotny threw her hat in the ring to give District 84 voters a choice. An Oklahoma Cite~ attorney and activist with the Young Democrats, she was the first transgendered person ever to run for public once in Oklahoma. However she made it a point not to focus on that issue, but rather on things that she felt mattered more for average raional Oldahomans like jobs, education and transportation that Sally had neglected due to her focus of social issues. AJthough she lost to Ms.Kern in the Red Sweep of the November general elections, BrittaW still made history and will no doubt make more in the future. Tramps continues the Proud Tradition ofHave a Heart An annual event of love happens . appropriately each year around Valentine’s Day at Tramps with their Have a Heart Benefit Show and Auction. It began as the creation of the late Larry Crosby, then a coowner ofTramps and Sister Gall Addis who was then with Catholic Charities’ Loaves and Fishes Program, which provided meals ~’~r those living with HIV.Although Larry has passed away his sister, Canaille Rohn who is still a part owner ofTramps, along with the stat~" and many volunteers again made this event a fabulous success. This year over $8,000 was raised. Richard Ogden sworn in an Oldahoma Regent [ Openly gay attorney and longtime activist Richard Ogden was appointed by Governor Brad Henry to the Board of Regents of the Regional University" System of Oklahoma on June 10. He was sworn in by District Judge Barbara Sxvinton. As a regent Mr. Ogden will be part of that governing board which is responsible for the hiring of university presidents. Tulsa adopts Non- Discrimination Policy for City Employees On June 17 the Tulsa Cit-y Council voted 6-3 to adopt a nondiscrimination policy for municipal employees on the basis of sexual orientation, ,~though in 1975 then Mayor Robert LaFortune commissioned a report recommending adoption of this policy; the report was rejected Iia 1994 the Tulsa GLBT community participated in formal hearings in favor of this policy, only to be denied again. The Tulsa Human Rights Commission had been recommending this change for over 15 years. I~a-is Wilmes, Oklahomans for Equality’s Advocacy Director stated, "This makes such a strong statement to the region on how Tulsa is a welcoming and sensible island in a state that is often ridiculed for being intolerant and unjust towards marginalized populations." Tulsa now joins other Oklahoma cities who have this policy for their employees, Del City, Mtus, McAlester,Miami, Noble and Vi.nita. Tulsa School Board Votes for GLBT clusive Nondiscrimination Policy During September the Tulsa School Board voted unanimously to include GLBT persons in their nondiscrimination/anti-bullying policy for teachers, students and parents. Tami Marler, a spokesperson for the Tulsa Public Schools, stated that this change was made in accordance with recommendations by the Civil Rights Office of the U.S. Department of Education. With this measure they now join the school districts of Norman and Oklahoma City ~vho also have this policy, . although Oklahoma City’s policy goes further in also protecting gender identity. "At Century 2t Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPL~ 3627 NW Expressway Oklahoma City, OK 73112 By Rex Wockner Dan Choi hospitalized Activist Dan Choi. Wocknerphoto Leading Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell activist Dan Choi said Dec. 14 that he was committed to a veterans hospital psychiatric ward on Dec. 10, the day after the U.S. Senate again refused to authorize repeal of the DADT ban on open gays in the military. On Dec. 18, the Senate reversed course and voted 65-31 to authorize the repeal. (See separate story.) In an on-the-record e-mail sent from his iPhone, Choi said he had experienced "a breakdown and anxiety, attack." "(T)he failures of government and national lobbying carry consequences far beyond the careers and reputations of corporate leaders, elected o~cials, high powered lobbyists or political elites." Choi wrote. "They ruin lives. My breakdown was a result of a cumulative array of stressors but there is no doubt that the composite betrayals felt on Thursday, by elected leaders and gay organizations as wel! as many who have exploited my name for their marketing purposes, have added to the result." Choi was released from the hospital several days later and sounded like himself in a telephone interview with CNN on Dec. 18. Activists hope to force teaching ofgay history A bill introduced in the California Legislature by Sen. Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, would require that LGBT people be fairly and accurately included in school teaching material. ~ihe measure is sponsored by Equality California and the Gay-Straight Alliance Network. ~ae bill also prohibits the State Board of Education from using instructional material that discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. EQCA said that if enacted, the law "would add LGBT to the existing list of underrepresented cultural and ethnic groups (that) are covered by current la~v related to inclusion in textbooks and other instructional materials in schools." "LGBT people should not be pushed into the closefwhen it comes to what students learn about history," said EQCA Executive Director Geoff Kors. "Educating youth about the contributions ofLGBT Californians and our state’s rich diversity will help foster true acceptance of LGBT students and will ultimately create a safe school environment for all students." GSA Network Executive Director Carolyn Laub added, "LGBT youth are denied a fair education xvhen they are exposed to harmful stereotypes in classroom materials and are excluded from learning about their history." Leno said that "most textbooks don’t include any historical information about the LGBT movement." "Our collective silence on this issue perpetuates negative stereotypes ofLGBT people and leads to increased bullying of young people," he said. "We can’t simultaneously tell youth that it’s OK to be yourself and live an honest, open life when we aren’t even teaching students about historical LGBT figures or the LGBT equal rights movement." UN secretary-general, US ambassador attend LGBT event United Nations Secretary-General Ban Yd,moon and the United States’ U.N. ambassador. Susan Rice. joined a high-level U.N. panel Dec. 10 that condemned anti-gay violence and the criminalization of same-sex relations. The Human Rights Day event was hosted by several nations and organized by the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission, Human Rights Watch and other organizations. "Violence will end only when we confront prejudice," Ban said. "Stigma and discrimination will end only when we agree to speak out. That requires all of us ro do our part -- to speak out at home, at work, in our schools and communities." "Where there is tension between cultural attitudes and universal human rights, universal human rights must carry the day," he said. "Personal disapproval, even society’s disapproval, is no excuse to arrest, detain, imprison, harass or torture anyone -- ever. ... Human Rights Day commemorates the Universal Declaration ofHuman Rights. It is not called the Partial Declaration of Human Rights. It is not the Sometimes Declaration o~Human Rights. It is the Universal Declaration, guaranteeing all human beings their basic human rights, without exception." Rice told the gathering: "The story ofmy country is, in part, a story of the expanding boundaries of rights and dignity -- of the way that discrimination and prejudice have been countered by acceptance and equality. I feel dais deeply and I feel it very personally. Even at a time of profound challenges at home and abroad, we dare not give up on the great causes of equality and fundamental rights. And that includes the pursuit of full and equal rights for the millions of people in this country and around the world ,vho are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender." "Change," Rice said, "comes from people ... who refuse to move to the back of the bus. It comes from the leaders, the activists, and the ordinary men and women who believe that all human beings have equal worth, equa! dignity, equal consequence -- and equal rights. This conviction underpins the significant steps that the United States has taken over the past two decades to advance the human rights of all of those who are gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender." The event was sponsored by U.N. missions from Argentina, Belgium, Brazil, Croatia, France, Gabon, the Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, and the United States and by the Delegation of the European Commission. Illinois passes civil-union law The Illinois Legislature passed a civilunion bill Dec. 1 and Gov. Pat Quinn said he will sign it into law. Gay or straight couples wilt be able to enter into a civil union starting in July. The unions will carry the san~e state-level rights as marriage. ~ae vote in the Senate was 32-24. ~e vote in the House of Representatives was 61-52. "(These days), legislator after legislator talks about ’my gay daughter;’ ’my gay brother,’" Equality Illinois Director of Public Policy Rick Garcia told Windy City Times. "The most politically powerful thing gay people can do is to come out to family and friends.... Illinoisans are middle-of-the-road, very steadfast folks, so [ think {’this bill~ passage) bodes well for our community across the country." Freedom to Marry Executive Director Evan Wolfson ~velcomed the new iaw as a "step," but said "civil union is no substitute" for marriage. "States that have created civil union as a means of both giving and withholding -- providing legal protections wMle withholding the freedom to marry and all its meaning -- have found that civil union falls far short of marriage vcith al! its tangible and intangible significance in our lives," Wolfson said. Chicago Mayor Richard M. Daley sounded a similar note Dec. 2, saying: "Eventually marriage will take place. It has to be.... We have to move faster." Same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont and Washington, D.C. In addition, New York and Maryland recognize same-sex marriages that take place elsewhere in the nation or world. Civil-union or domestic-partnership laws that grant all state-level rights of marriage are in place in California, Nevada, New Jersey, Oregon and Washington. Laws that grant same-sex couples some of the rights of marriage are in place in Colorado, Hawaii and Maine. California is a further case unto itself. Same-sex marriage was legal from June to November 2008, when voters amended the state constitution via Proposition 8 to put a stop to it. The couples who married then are still legally married, as are other same-sex couples who live in California and got married anywchere in the world before Prop 8 passed. Gay couples who married somewhere else after Prop 8 passed, or ~vho marry elsewhere in the future, receive every state-level right and obligation of marriage in California except for the legal right to call their marriage a "marriage" when they are in California. They are not recognized under the state’s domestic partnership law, but rather are married.cou,p,les who are denied use of the word "marriage. N January 1, 2011 5 O ahomans Eqt ality hires new Execrative ~e Board of Directors of Equal:t). Oklahoma hired Toby Jenkdns as their new Execut@e Directoi; beginning his duties October 1 .He had served on their Board of Directors since 2008 and has a 13 year history of volunteering for the organization. He has been employed at the Tulsa County Courthouse :[))r 18 years and has for the past 11 years served as the Civil Appeals Court Clerk to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. He holds a BS degree in Criminal Justice and a BA degree in Biblical Linguistics and Pastoral Studies. He also holds a masters degree in theolo~~ and has done graduate work in the Sociology of Aging. He has 2 married children and a granddaughter. He is glad to be there stating, "It~ a great honor to work for an organization that saves lives every day. I believe we must do more tO address to needs of our community and challenge them to step up to volunteer service." Norm Teenager commits Suicide af,er Ci W Co nci Meeting Abo t GLBT History On September 27 the Norman City Council voted 7-1 to approve a proclamation ~br GLBT History Month. The Norman Human Rights Commission wrote the proclamation after much deliberation, and there was a great deal of positive publicity concerning the Council’s action. Howevm; this approval met with strong opposition from some Norman residents who showed up at that meeting to air their protests, many using stereotypical and negat@e references to homosexuality. This was wimessed by Zach Harrington, a 19 year old gay Norman resident who had heard similar sentiments when he had been bullied as a student at Norman North High School. Although his parents, Van and Nancy Harrington and his sister Nikki were aware of and supportive of his lifestTle, the sentiments he heard expressed yet again apparently were too much and he took his life at his parents’ home October 10. A candlelight vigil was held for him October 13. Margaret Cox, Don & Mick Schirron honored at the Cimarron Alliance Awards Gala Margaret Cox was honored with the Cimarron .Alliance Lifetime Achievement Award for many years spent to help women achieve equality through her work with the Oklahoma Chapter of the National Organization for \7~/omen, and for ~vork helping the GLBT community through Herland Sister Resources and Cimarron Alliance. Also honored as Legislators of the Year were State Representative Mike Shelton and State Senator Judy Eason Mclntyre. Don Hawkins and Mick Schirron received the Media Avcard as former owners of the Gayly Oldahoman, which began operation in 1983 and was Oklahoma’s longest lasting and largest GLBT newspaper. Beginning as a monthly paper with a circulation of 4000, it later grew to a biweekly publication with a circulation of 10,000. Due to a changing business climate and personal commitments, Mr. Hawkins and Mr. Schirron sold the Gayly in 2006 to Andrew Hiclcs and the late Heather Harp ofTulsa. Although reincorporated, the paper resumed operation in March 15 2006 and ceased publication in December 15 of that same year. Currently the Oklahoma Historical Society is copying an entire set of the Gayly OHahomans on microfilm. @ AIDS Walk O ahoma "Each Step Brings Hope" was the theme for the AIDSXX/-alk 2010 which took place September I9 for the 12th year of this event. Previously held in October, the date ,vas moved up and the location changed to the Sonic Plaza in Bricktown, this time also accompanied by a 5K run that morning. Money raised from this event goes to help those in the OHahoma City area infected and/affected by HIM Arnold ’%rna Lee" Smith passes away at 83 As a longtime club owner, activist and entertainer Arnold Lee Smith, best known as Arna Lee, left a legacy of pride, hope and fond memories for GLBT OHahomans. He was a pioneer, spearheading efforts that won Oklahoma City’s GLBT community many freedoms they now take for granted. When he was a club owner, with a club called Lee’s Lounge in the early 1960s, he endured relentless police harassment and never backed down. Longtime partiers remember police raids where he was arrested along with his customers, and he would bail them out along with himself and re-open his bar that same night. Later he opened Oklahoma’s first premier showbar, the Roadhouse, where many big name Oklahoma entertainers got their start. Later he also owned a steamy dance club called the Outrigger from 1979 until 1981. After a sojourn in Florida, he opened another bar complex also called nostalgically the Roadhouse in 1995, which closed after a year of operation, and then went partly into retirement, still doing shows in various clubs for many good causes. \ghen his heath failed and he entered the Norman Veterans Center Nursing Home, he passed away October 3 I. He was missed by his many friends, and honored because he madea difference for the GLBT community of Oldahoma. be investigated or discharged under this discriminatory law. :.. Certification and the 60-day congressional requirement must be wrapped tip no later than the first quarter of 2011." Sarvis called the repeal of the ban "the defining civil rights initiative of this decade." Lambda Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart called the I7-year fight to overturn the ban "a heroic political battle by LGBT advocates who refused to give up." In a statement Defense Secretary Robert Gates said: "Once this legislation is signed into law by the president the Department of Defense will immediately proceed with the planning necessary to carry out this Change carefully and methodically, but purposefully: This effort will be led by Dr. Clifford Stanley, Undersecretary of defense for personnel and readiness. The legislation provides that repeal will take effect once the President, the Secretary of Defense and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff certify that implementation of the new policies and regulations written by the department is consistent with the standards of military readiness, military effectiveness, unit cohesion, and recruiting and retention of the armed forces .... I will approach this process deliberately and xvill make such certification only after careful consultation with the military service chiefs and our combatant commanders and when I am satisfied that those conditions have been met for all the Services, commands and units. It is therefore important that our men and women in uniform understand that while today’s historic vote means that this policy will change, the implementation and certification process will take an additional period of time. In the meantime, the current law and policy will remain in effect." Obama issued-a statement that said: "Today, the Senate has taken an hist~oric step toward ending a policy that undermines our national security while violating the very ideals that our brave men and women in uniform risk their lives to defend. By ending Don’t Ask, Dofft Tell, no longer will our nation be denied the service of thousands of patriotic Americans forced to leave the militao; despite years of exemplary performance, because they happen to be ga}~ and no longer will many thousands more be asked to live a lie in order to serve the country they love. As commander-in-chief, I am also absolutely convinced that making this change will only underscore the professionalism of our troops as the best led and best trained fighting f6rce the world has ever known. And I join the secretary of defense and the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; as well as the overwhehning majority of service members asked by the Pentagon, in knowing that we can responsibly transition to a new policy while ensuring our military strength and readiness. It is time to close this chapter in our history. It is time to recognize that sacrifice, valor and integrity are no more defined by sexual orientation than they are by race or gendm; religion or creed. It is time to al!ow gay and lesbian Americans to serve their country openly." "First ursday" Art Opening and E ibit of Original Works by Tulsa World Editorial Cartoonist o Bruce Planteo TULSA, OK (PR) __ The January" Oldahomans for Equality (OlcEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature works by Tulsa World Editorial Cartoonist Bruce Plante. Bruce lcnew, while growing up in Texarkana, Ark., that drawing and humor were in his future: He began drawing cartoons in the second grade and began performing standup comedy in the sixth grade. As a sophomore at the University of Arkansas Bruce became the editorial cartoonist for the Arkansas Traveler, the school newspaper. He graduated the University of Arkansas with a Bachelor of Arts in 1977. In 1985, Bruce became the first staffeditorial cartoonist for The Chattanooga Times and held that position for 22 years. On Oct. 22, 2007 Bruce was lured away from Chattanooga to Tulsa, taking the position of edit0i:ial cartoonist.for the Tulsa World, replacing the late Doug Marlette. In 1989, he creatdd Plante Ink syndicate which distributes his editorial cartoons to 40 subscribers throughout the United States. His cartoons have been reprinted in The New York Times, USA Today;The %~ashington Post, The Wall Street Journal, The Los Angeles Times, Newsweek, Newsweek International (Europe), Newsweek Japan, Playboy; Sports Illustrated, Discover, CBS, CNN, college and high school textbooks and even the Iowa Achievement Test. In 1985, Bruce won Showtime’s Funniest Person in Aa’aerica Contest. He performed standup for 4 years for audiences as large as 3,000 and speak~s to more than 30 civic groups and schools every year. The show begins with a reception on ~lt~ursday, JanualT 6th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month, www.okeq. org Free help By Steven Petrow &even Petrozv is tt§e author of"The Essential Boot: ofGay Manners &Etiquette. Send him your questions at qUeerieS@live.com. "Too affectionate at the mall?" is not to hook-up; you’re making a political statement. ¯ Follow the leader: Breal~ only one rule at a time. Don’t go rogue on your comrades, (i.e. no name-calling, clashing with police). ° Be clean and kissable: Bring your breath mints; you may be kissing a lot of strangers. Don’t hog the best kissers. If everyone else is moving on to a new partner, it’s time to let go. Elton John to sing against Prop 8 Elton John will perform a private concert in Beverly Hills, Calif., on Jan. 19 to raise money for the ongoing federal lawsuit against Proposition 8, the voter-passed constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage in California. ~tle concert, to benefit the American Foundation for Equal Rigi~ts, which hired the gay side’s superstar attorneys, Ted Olson and David Boles, will take place at the Green Acres estate of billionaire political fundraiser Ron Burlde. "We are deeply honored to have the support of Sir Elton John," said AFER Board President Chad Griffin. ’!The American Foundation for Equal Rights stands for the enduring principle that all Americans are created equal, and believes that ending statesanctioned discrimination is a critical step we must tal~e toward ending the hate crimes and suicides that continue to claim the lives of young Americans." John has not always been a supporter of same-sex marriage. On Nov. 12, 2008, eight days after voters passed Prop 8, he told USA Today: "What is wrong with Proposition 8 is that they went for marriag.e Marriage is going to put a lot of people off, the word ’marriage’. ... I dont want to be married. I m very happy with a civil partnership. If BY people want to get married, or get together, they should have a civil partnership.... Heterosexual people get married. We can have civil partnerships." Prop 8 was struck down as unconstitutional at the federal district court level. The ruling is currently on appeal at the U.S. 9th Circuit Court ofAppeals, which heard oral arguments on Dec. 6. For concert ticket information, e-mail events@afer.org. 3131 January 1, 2011 I 7 Tulsa Eagle Staffready to serve the crowd at thier 2009 New Years Eve Black &White Ball, and did they ever! Sooner &ate Softball Association Games promised an ex’citing summer 2010. Shown above is Oklahoma Chaos Team ofOklahoma Ci~ Gorin photo .............MORE Photo’s on page 11 8 January 1, 2011 AffirmingChurch in Owasso expands ministry to gay OWASS0;OK (PR)~ ~.Table UCC h~ ~0urd~ and ~fi~ort for G~TQS~yo~t~ ~i~i~)~e Youth gr~U~ is c~i~ ~nPlace. ~ey m;et0n F~i~ay ev~fiings from 6:30pm t0 8~00pm. B~ginning the 3rd Monday in Janua~ they will have k PF~G meeting from 7’8 p.m. Rev Melinda Foster leads the congregation and they meet at 202 S Cedar, Suite E, Ow~so OK 74q55. Rev. Melinda Foster can be reached at 918-693- 0458. For more information visit: http://opentableucc.com/ Nommanons Comm ity Heroes TULSA, OK (PR) Oklahomans for Equality is now taldng nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have made an impact on the work for equality for the LGBT community. These awards are presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30, 2011, Tulsa Convention Center Ballroom. The following awards are presented: Lifetime Achievement Award- Recognizes a lifetime dedication tothe cause of equality for LGBT community in O~ahoma. Past recipients include Nancy McDonald, Dennis Neill and Kelly Kirby. This award is nor always presented, annually. Community Heroes- Recognize ~hose individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. Many of these hdroes have "taken a bullet" for our cause. Past recipients include Council Oak Mens Chorale, Jim Roth, Carol Crawford, Tim Williams, and Kelly Carter. The Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBT community in our local congregations. Past winners include Rev. Leslie Penrose, Rabbi Sherman and Rev. Richard Ziglar. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 11 th- Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBT community in a courageous and visible manner. Past recipients have been 11 year old Noah Blatt and the Rev Marlin Lavanhar for his advocacy work for the gay community in Uganda. You can download a form at http://www.okeq.org/wp-content/ uploads/2010/12/nominationform. pdf Please return completed form to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687, Tulsa, OK 74101 or email paul. allen@okeq.org Rev S eve uric spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org Have a God filled and Blessed Day! January 1, 2011 Creep ofthe Month By D’Anne Witkowski D’Anne ~tkowski has been gayforpay since 2003. Shes aJ~eelance zortter andpoet (believe ~t:9. When she’s not taking on the creeps ofthe world she reviews rock ~’ toll shows in Detroit with her ~oin sister "John McCain" 10 January 1, 2011 I wish I still had my dog-eared and tattered copy of Conduct Unbecoming so I could send it to John McCain. Not that he’d bother ro read it. The U.S. military’s vicious anti-gay history with its vcitch-hunts and outright persecution of gay service members probably isn’t of much interest to McCain. Especially since "don’t ask, don’t tell" solved everything. Don’t you dare try to tell him anything different. During a Nov. 28 appearance on "State of the Union" with host Candy Crowley, McCain actually had the audacity to claim that "don’t ask, don’t tell" is an effective policy that doesn’t harm anyone, gay or straight, and that the call for its repeal is just politics. "There was no uprising in the military," he said. "There were no problems in the military with ’don’t ask, don’t tell.’" "If you were gay it was a problem," Crowley interjected. "No it wasn’t," McCain snapped. "It’s called ’don’t ask, don’t tell,’ okay? Ifyou don’t ask them, you don’t ask somebody, and they don’t tell." Got that? It works. End of story. Crowley tried to ask McCain something else, but he cut her off. "I understand your point of view. I understand the poil~t of view by the majority of the media," he said. "But the fact is, this was a political promise made by an inexperienced president or candidate for presidency of the United States." In other words, it’s all Obama’s fault. He’s too young to know what a good idea it is to discriminate against homos in the military. Why, when McCain was Obama’s age he had to walk 15 miles in the snow uphill both ways in order to make a campaign promise likd that. "The military is at its highest point in recruitment and retention and professionalism and capability," McCain continued. "So to somehow allege that this policy has been damaging the military is simply false." Tell that to the thousands of gays and lesbians who have been booted out of the military since "don’t ask, don’t tell" was enacted. According to Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, that number is upwards ~s"R’s cal~ed ’don’t ~ k, don’t te~,’ okay? you don’t ask Ithern, you don’t ask IsorneSody, and they ~.on’t tell." ~ of 14,000. You may recall that in 2002, amid a severe shortage of Arabic-speaking translators, the Army fired six linguists trained in Arabic simply because they were gay. Apparently McCain sees this as some kind of success. "The fact is that this system is working," he told Crowley. McCain repeatedly stressed that he wanted to know what the effect ~vill be of letting gays serve openly - and that’s the operative word, "openly." Because gays already serve in the military, they just have the weight of a government-mandated closet on their backs threatening to tumble open and ruin their careers ar any moment. "I believe we need to assess the effect on the morale and battle effectiveness of those young Marines and’Army people I met at forward-operating bases that are putting their lives on the line every day," he said. Never mind that some of these "young Marines and Army people" are probably gay. McCain Said he has had "a number of" military folks come up ro him and say, "Look, we fight together, we sleep together, we ear together." His choice of anecdotes illustrates one of the main concerns ofhomophobes: that homosexuality is contagious, and the best way to guard against it is to make sure you never l~ow when and if it’s around you and to punish gays and lesbians who dare make such an enormous sacrifice to serve the country. A L G A T S L 0 T A T L L A C Y N Y T Miss Bamboo 2011 @ the Bamboo Lounge ~dsa November 2010. Staffphom @A~tes OKC]anuary 2010. Godn photo Hot Dancers @ 77~e End Up, ~dsa March 2010. ~affphoto F ash Back TobyJenkins, President, Oklahomansfor Equality and Oklahoma State Representative Al 3/IaAd~ey at the 30th Equality Gala, Tulsa. Photo by Liz Ingersoll, Mia Bella [m~es @the Copa, OKCfidy 2010. Gorin photo @ Finishline, OKCJanua,y 2010. Gorin ghoto @Alibis, OKCJune 2010. Godn ghoto April 2010 Open Arms Youth Project hosts P?vm Night. P,vm Queen, Brenda "G,andma" Bolen and Prom I~%tg, Kim W,§#enhunt. Judy G. Photo Best Wishes For Kel~ Kirby receives Lifetime Achievement Award, p,~sented by N,znoy McDonald @ the 30Anniversary Equality Gala, ~dsa. Photo 3det,v Star Staff" Ginger Lamar, Grand 3darshall 2010 OKC Pride. Do,werphoto Untertaine. @ Ledo. O {C 20 OI Gon,, photo @ Club Majestic, TulsaJanuary 2010, fi~dy G. photo Sooner State Rodeo Association at the 2010 Tulsa Pride Parade. Judy Gphoto 2011, From The Metro Star Team @ Club 209, ~dsaJanua,7 2010, Ju4y G. photo Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association @ the Habana hzn Pool Party 3day 2010. Godn photo By Rex Wockner* Judges hint at Prop 8 case twists and turns 9t,§-Gtvuit Federal Court, APpoolphoto @Eric Risberg The effort to undo California’s Proposition 8 inched forward Dec. 6 when a three-judge panel of the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals entertained nearly three hours of oral arguments from the attorneys in the case. In an ornate courtroom on the third floor of San Francisco’s historic James R. Browning U.S. Courthouse, amid murals, stained glass and statues dating to 1905, the attorneys replayed some of their main arguments and the judges offered hints of where the case might go. The gay side’s lawyers, who include famed attorneys Ted Olson and David Boles, sought to defend U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker’s ruling from August that Prop 8 violates the U.S. Constitution’s guarantees of equal protection and due process. They also argued that the parties who brought the appeal to the 9th Circuit -- the activists who created Prop 8 and the deputy county clerk of Southern California’s dusty Imperial County -- have no legal "standing" to have mounted this appeal ofWalker’s ruling. Those parties are trying to defend Prop 8 because all the public ot~cials who were sued in the case -- including Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General (and Gov.-elect) Jerry Brown -- have refused to defend the voter-passed state constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage in November 2008 after it had been legal for 4 1/2 months and after t8,000 same-sex couples had married. It is unclear if the court will grant the Prop 8 proponents or Imperial County standing to allow the appeal to move forward. ~e judges seemed unimpressed by Imperial County’s desire to be let into the case. Among other things, they seemed annoyed that the deputy county clerk rather than the actual clerk is pursuing the move. As to whether the people who put Prop 8 on the ballot should be allowed to step into the shoes of the state government and defend a piece of the state constitution that the state itself refuses to defend, the judges hinted that they might bounce that question off of the California Supreme Court to see hmv it feels about the idea. If the 9th Circuit does that, it could delay appellate rulings on both the standing issue and the merits ofWalker’s decision. On the merits, Olson told the judges that California has unconstitutionally "taken a class of citizens and put them in a separate category." California gives same-sex couples all the of marriage under a domesticpartnership law, but prohibits gay couples from marrying. Under another law. gay couples who go get married somewhere else also receive all the California rights of marriage but are prohibited from calling their marriage a marriage in California. Yet other gay couples, who got married in California or somewhere else before Prop 8 passed, are considered to be married in California and are permitted to use the word. It’s very messy. All of this is discriminatory, Olson said. It harms gay Californians. ~here is no legal rational basis for it. It cannot be "justified," he said. "California has built a fence around its gay and lesbian citizens and around the institution of marriage," Olson told the judges. "That is a violation of the equalprotection clause and it’s a violation of the due-process clause." Attorney Charles Cooper for the Prop 8 proponents told the judges that his case in defense of Prop 8 centers on "procreation." In Coopers view, it is rational for the state to limit marriage to men and women because the reason marriage exists in the first place is because sex between men and women produces children. ~e state, he suggested, has a unique interest in human unions that are procreative. At the end of the day, court-watchers were talking about three things that piqued their curiosity during the oral arguments: * Will the case be delayed so the 9th Circuit panel can sound out the California Supreme Court on the question of whether people who put initiatives on the ballot should be able to defend those initiatives when they are struck down by courts? Regardless of whether the judges seek advice from the California Supreme Court, the case ¯ cannot proceed if the 9th Circuit decides that neither the Prop 8 proponents nor Imperial County has legal standing to appeal. If they do not, Walker’s ruling striking down Prop 8 would come back into force. * In hearing the appeal of Walker’s ruling, will the 9th Circuit rely solely on Walker’s expansive trial record, which seems to demolish most of the myths, lies, arguments and opinions that historically have been used to oppress gay and lesbian people? Or will the 9th Circuit look at additional sources of information and seek out other facts . ine court hinted that it may review more than just the District Court’s findings. * And has the 9th Circuit perhaps hinted that it plans to uphold \Valker’s decision but in a way that would limit the case’s impac~ to California, the only state that ever let gays get married and then later took that right away from them? The court spent a fair amount of 12 January 1, 2011 Ed Sikov is the author ofDark l/icto*_7; 7be Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutf!lms and fihnmakers. "Kahlua, Cream and Fiasco: -he White Russian" My cold lasted another week, so forget about literary reticence. Let the gross descriptions fly: Shot spewed out of my nose like raw scrambled eggs, only darke,; more translucent, and graced by tiny bloblets of blood. My lungs hacked up a hocker so gray it could have come out of an old coal miner. When I wasn’t wiping smears of sputura off my hands, sheets and nearby skin mags, ! contemplated my recent poor behavior. Dan was right: I’d become "an old-fashioned asshole." Dan was nothing but affectionate with me, even after I spat goose-shit-green mucous onto his pillow while he slept. He deserved better from me. So did my friends. When I stopped being viral, I invited Craig and Kyle to dinner. Surprisingl); Craig didn’t hang up on me when I called. "I’m sorry..." I began. He cut me off: "Listen, dollface - I’ll forgive you anything as long as you keep your tongue off my boyfriend." "Right-O!" I sang out, amxiery turning me strangely into Terry-Thomas in some British war comedy. "How about dinner here on Saturday? It’s Chicken Cacciatore and an after-dinner drink that doesn’t suck." All was well. Dinner xvas a disaster. Dan was late, so I had to wield the vacuum cleaner and a can of Pledge and set the table while trying to make what turned out to be an absurdly complicated "hunter’s style" chicken with only half the ingredients the recipe called for. (I hadn’t bothered with a shopping list. "Calling Dr. Freud! STAT!") The result was a greasy; taste-free horror - no wild mushrooms, no fresh sage or thyme, clumpy years-old garlic salt instead of garlic.... "Hunter’s style?" What were they hunting - something outof Oliver Twist? Having tasted the cacciatore, I downed some Tormore Single Malt and became morose. But when Dan waltzed in mere minutes before Craig and Kyle were supposed to show up, my irrepressible life force returned. [ became hostile. Craig and Kyle thus entered during the second act of _Who’s Afraid ofVirginia Woolf_, with me playing both George and Martha. I behaved terribly; Dan was rightly embarrassed. I might have summoned enough dignity not to spend the whole evening staring at the gap between Kyle’s bottom shirt button and his belt. a space out of which a perfect tuft of soft hair emerged. Craig noticed, much to his giee and my continuing disgrace. But dessert was fiibulous! Ttxe White Russian is one of my favorite cream-based cocktails because of its subtlety, simplicity and relative lack of.sweetness. It’s got a little Kahlua for a cafd au lair effect, vodka for some kick and thick, chilled heavy cream for the mouth-to-belly bliss that only cold dairy fat can provide. Still, two rounds of White Russians wasn’t enough to make up for hurling lettuce fragments and bacon chunks in Craig’s face after discovering that puppy Kyle had been gobbled up by Jabba the Hut. Am I still bitter? You bet your elephantine ass I am. ~-he White Russian 1 part Absolut 1/2 part coffee liqueur 1 part chilled heaW cream Put some ice in a shaker and add all the ingredients; put the cap on and swirl it around a bi{ rather than shake it. (After all, you’re not trying to make liquor butter.) Pour through strainer into a good-looking glass and serve. time discussing a 1996 case from Colorado in which the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a state constitutional amendment that deprived gay people of anti-discrimination protections that Colorado governments previously had extended ro them. A "narrow" ruling against Prop 8 by the 9th Circuit could bring same-sex marriage back to California but possibly thwart Olson, Boles and the American Foundation for Equal Rights’ desire to take before the U.S. Supreme Court the proposition that samesex couples have a constitutional right to get married in all states. Lesbian becomes Colorado Supreme Court justice Monica Marquez became the first openly gay or l~sbian member of the Colorado~ Supreme Court when she was s~vorn in Dec. 10. Her partner, Sheila Barthel, helped her put on her black robe at the ceremony. Marquez, 41, previously served as deputy attorney general. Spacey won’t discuss sexual orientation Actor Kevin Spacey told The Daily Beast on Dec. 15 that he’s not interested in discussing his sexual orientation. "I have not given up my right to privacy," Spacey said. "People have different reasons for the way they live their lives. You cannot put everyone’s reasons in the same box. It’s iust a line I’ve never crossed and never will." "You have to understand that people who choose not to discuss their personal lives are not living a lie." he continued. "That is a presumption that people jump ro.... I iust don’t buy into that the personal can be political. I just think that’s horseshit." ING AROLINI~ NOW...BECAIJSE OF THE. CHANGES IF "/OIJ WANT TO RMIN THEN GO. e~il: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com ty.net Chuck Breckenridge %q~cther buying or selling I’!1 work hard for you. !~-rk~_ra~~ 597 Magnetic Road Eureka Springs, Arkansas www.magneticValleyresort.corn info@magneticvalleyresort.com 800-210-8401 479-244-6821 Abutting Downtown Bars, Clubs, Baseball, BOK Centel; Tulsa Gay Center. ~M]rordable Homes and Apartments. For mo,:e Info~wmtion visit: www~aybn~dyheightsmha.com By Jack Fertig Janua~ 20tl "Take a cSance on ~ove, Gemini!" Sun squaring Saturn adds the weight of age and responsibility, but Venus enters Sagittarius, leading affections and aesthetics toward new adventures. She gets in the middle of that square offering frivolous escape that can too easily complicate problems at hand, but she also offers some creative solutions. ARIES (Narch 20- Apri~ 19): The responsibilities of work and relationships can feel oppressive. A romantic adventure is much needed. If partnered, plan a getaway. If single, a stern attitude can be sexy, but balance it with playful warmth. (Think gym coach!) TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - Nay 20}: As hard as you’ve been working, you’re entitled to a much-needed release. Find an appropriate place to scream and let it all out. If you really need to beat someone there are eager victims. Just keep it safe and consensual. GEN~N~ (Nay 21o June 20): Play only for funsies. Don’t take any bets. but take a chance on love or a passionate facsimile. Incredible sex is no basis for a solid relationship. Take it one day at a time and see what else there is. CANCER (June 21o Ju~y 22): A strong sense of responsibility at home can be a millstone or a motivator. Go with the latter. Once you drag your tush into action, momentum will make the rest of it a lot easier. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): Even you may have inarticulate moments, but just take them as a creative challenge. A little playfulness can boost morale and productivity. Too much, not so good. If a few jokes and your dazzling smile aren’t enough, turn it up slowly. V~RGO (August 23 - September 22): Your best investment of time, energy and money is in your own home and community. Think ahead before taking on responsibilities. Spreading humor and good will at home or close by will help build your standing. L~BRA (September 23 - October 22): The weight of the world seems to be on your shoulders. Opportunities can be hard to find, but they’re there! A lighthearted chat with a sister (genetic or otherwise) can help you get perspective. SCORHO (October 23 - November 21): Life is tough, but don’t let current troubles wear you down. When you catch yourself worrying, channel that into constructive thought toward a solution. Stick to basics and remember what’s important. November 22 - December 20): The money crisis will hit everyone. You may be worrying too much on a personal level. Focus on your personal assets, the kind you would still have even if you were penniless and naked. Never forget: You almost always fare better than most. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January- 19): You’re at the top of your game, but what’s next? The answer to that is not as urgent as it may seem. Relax, indulge in a romantic or sensual retreat, and the hard questions will gain perspective, AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): The world’s troubles are the world’s, not necessarily your own. Discussing global and personal worries with friends will help balance it all out. For answers to the world’s problems and your own, look across borders and oceans. HSCES (February !9- Narch 19): Put your deep, dark imagination to work. Even in a bleak future there are opportunities. You can be inspired to find them for yourself and to guide others. Even if the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train you could ride it out. Community for People iving with H V/A DS A 50I c (3) Not] Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail ourhousetoo9865@sbcglobal.net ’1 14 /7 20 27 34 37 43 46 2 3 4 5 : 6 7 8 I 48 11 !2 24 25 26 33 53 54 55 Across 56 63 57 58 49 Down "i[hree-men-in-a-tub event Oral attention getter So,s0 grade 14 Point of View intr0, at Gay.c0m 15 "Oh, ~,X?hat a Beautiful Morning" sin er 16 Prayer Stm~&r !7 Hides ofhai~T guys? t9 ~orkers under Barney Frank 20 He had a crush on Beatle John 1 Lettuce variety 2 US citizen 3 The king in N~e ~ng I. ~br one 4 Time for Frida 5 Fireplace rods 6 Bounds gaily 7 Deadly septe[ 8 HIV exam, e.g. 9 One that reproduces without sex 34 "l~wo to one, }~r one 35 Cat on Tin RoOf 36 LacldngToc"ks ~, 37 E~rly g~atle song that expressed how 20- Across irelt : t3 ’60s radical org. 18 Type of tool 2! .M.use for Millay 24 My Cup Runneth Over s~nger Whitrnan’s dooryard bloomers the shaft a hottie 14 January 1,201t During the Metro Star’s time in publication Oklahoma and America has experienced great changes including two major elections, inclusion of GLBT persons among those with Federal Hate Crimes protection, the OKC and Tulsa School districts adopting policies protecting gay students from harassment and bullying, the tremendous growth of Oldahoma’s gay rights advocacy organizations and at presstime finally the end of legal discrimination for GLBT Americans in the US military. However as 2010 concludes on this happy note Chaz \gard, at age 7t, has made the decision to retire after publishing the newspaper for over 7 years. "It’s time for me to relax, I want to do some traveling, and will continue to help advance total equality for GLBT people." In conclusion the Metro Star wishes to say that they were proud to be part of the GLBT community of Oklahoma and the region, thanking our advertisers and readers for 7 great years. We come to a close xvith a recap of the highlights of 2010, and in this last issue we say thank you and we appreciate the support everyone has given us. Another endeavor has been their Cooking for Ct~ange Program which has been selling freshly made homemade tamales as a means for fundraising. A dozen tamales are only $24 and are available in pork, chicken or vegetarian style. Contact P-Flag to order some! P-Flag Enid also wants .to announce that nominations are open for their 2011 Stand Awards, which are open to GLBTQA individuals, businesses, organizations, media, artists and other categories of Oklahomans ~vho have improved life for the GLBT community in the state. They are also seeking similar groups interested in partnering with P-Flag as a Communty Parmer sponsor to keep the work of the Center going and growing. Enid P-Flag is a 501c3 organization so contributions are tax deductible. To contact Enid P-Flag one can call toll free 1 800 878 5298, or logon pflag@ enidglbt.org.. Flash Back I~cmr & Chaz 200~ January 1, 2011 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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After Obama signs the measure, he and the Secretary of Defense and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff must certify that the military is ready for the change and that it will not harm military readiness or effectiveness, unit cohesion, recruiting or member retention. Then after that DADT repeal will take effect 60 days later. Xhe process is expected to proceed relatively smoothly. "No longer will patriots be forced to lie in order to serve the country they love and are willing to die f?r," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "~his vote gy:the United Sta{es Senate will have Presi&nt Barack Obama. ~Wockn~rphoto extremely pOsitive rippl~ effects well b~yo~d " Dont Ask; Dont Tell. Our government has ,WA~SHINGTON, DC Don’t Ask, sent a powerful message that discrimination,,, Dont %11, the military’s ba~on open gays, " on any level, should not be tolerated lS " headed for the dustbin of history. Servicemembers Legal Defense Network The Senate voted 65-31 on Dec. 18 to authorize the policy’s repeal and sent the measure to President Barack Obama for his signature. Eight Republicans joined all but one Democrat in voting to repeal the ban. They were Susan Collins and Olympia Snowe of Maine, Scott Brown of Massachusetts, Richard Burr of North Carolina, John Ensign of Nevada, Mark Kirk of Illinois, Lisa Murkowski ofAlaska and George Voinovich of Ohio. Democrat Joe Manchin of West Virginia did not vote. Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis called on the Pentagon to cease DADT discharges during the months between now and when repeal is finalized. "I respectfully ask Defense Secretary Robert Gates to use his a[tthority to suspend all Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell investigations during this interim period," Sarvis said. "Until the president signs the bill, until there is certification and until the 60-day congressional period is over, no one should ........Continued See DADT Page-5 Enid P-Flag Presents the 2011 Winter Bal ENID, OK On Saturday Night, January 22, 2011 Enid’s Symphony Hall will coine alive with the festivities of P-Flag’s (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) gala major event, the Winter Ball. N~e event runs from 8 p.m. until midnight and will include a live DJ, light food, a catered ba,; and a professional photographer to take photos of the partiers upon request. Tickets for the Ball are $10 and can be ordered by contacting Enid P-Flag. Xhis event is sponsored by Cross~valk United Church, Enid’s only official open and affirming church. Since opening in March of this year a~ 1319 S. Van Buren Enid’s GLBT community center, which is named simply, "N~e Center", has been busy and activities are growing. Through the Center Enid’s P-Flag chapter provides free counseling find mediation, and recently added free rapid HIV testing. Enid’s P-Flag is also partnering with other organizations through their Bridge Building Program for which GLBTWA youth and young adults sign up to assist people in need of help with tasks such as raking leaves, putting up or taking down holiday decorations, delivering hot meals or other useful activities. Not only does this program help provide needed volunteers, it also connects GLBTQA youth and young adults to the mainstream community and allows them to share their stories of diversity as the beneficiaries get to know them. During this holiday season food has been donated ftom the Center to the Horn of Plenty, which is Enid’s largest food bank. ........Continued See ENID Page-15 Metro to Retire F .er & By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Chaz Ward Founder and Publisher ofthe 7hlsa based Mewo Star Newspaper retires at 71. TULSA, OK __ "It’s the right time to retire. The business is changing and needs younger blood with nexv ideas. It’s been hard work but very rewarding to inform, unite and entertain the GLBT community of Oklahoma and the surrounding region." Chaz Ward When Mr. Ward decided ro start a GLBT focused newspaper he did so with mixed hopes, appropriate apprehensions, and small beginnings. The purpose for starting this enterprise as the Ozarks Star in 2003 was to provide the unrepresented gay community of southxvest Missouri, northeast Oklahoma and northwest Arkansas with a viable voice. It was just a digest size black and white news and information magazine with just 12 pages, four advertisers and a circulation under 700 distributed in Joplin and Springfield, Missouri, Fayetteville, At’kansas, Pittsburg, Kansas and Tulsa. Even then he lmew he ~vas getting into a challenging fidd where countless entrepreneurs had come and gone in that region alone. Then as now in this area of the United States gay newspapers deal with limited advertising revenue because so many business owners are reluctant to be seen in a gay focused publication. "The limited revenue forced us ro rely on part time staff~vorking primarily as a labor of tove, which makes ir tough going," said Mr. \Yard. He would also be dealing with fear and animosity towards the GLBT community, but he had seen toughe~~" times. Growing up in Oklahoma City as a teenager in the mid 1950s he faced what was then a different world. Oklahoma City had only one gay bat’, the Mayflower, and even that oasis of GLBT life was subjected to constant police harassment for which there was no recourse. Homosexuality was considered a mental illness, sodomy laws were tstilt on the books, and gay rights (let alone marriage) weren’t even considered worthy of discussion by mainstream society. Understandably, along with many other GLBT people, he moved to California where the environment was at least a little better, working in management with a nationa! building services firm until his retirement in 1994. He then began buying and remodeling old homes ro resell, one of which he turned into a bed & breald’ast in Joplin that he operated and where the Ozarks Star was born in 2003. Although he knew from firsthand observation what he was getting into, he began his publication xvith lots of encouragement from the areas GLBT community. After selling the bed and breakfast in 2004, he moved to Tulsa and renamed the paper simply, "The Star." At that time the largest publication was the Gayly Oklahoman, which focused primarily on local news, while the Star dealt more with entertainment and syndicated columns. When the Gayly ceased publication in 2006 after 22 years as the primary news source for the GLBT community and a restart failed that same year, The Star became Oklahoma’s largest GLBT newspaper with a new role to fulfill. Victor Gorin, formerly with the Gayly Oklahoman, began working at the Metro Star serving as Copy Editor, writer, working in ad sales, photography and distribution primarily for the Oklahoma City area, joined by writers Robin Dorner and Jeanne Flanigan. Also coming on board in Tulsa were writer Michael Sasser, distributor Bill Francisco and photographer Judy Gabbard. Later becoming the Metro Star in 2007, the paper had grown to a circulation of 4000 to 5000, changed from a magazine to a tabloid, had gained credibility as a viable source of news and information for the GLBT community of Oklahoma which included national news along with local events and entertainment features. ........Continued See METRO STAR Page- 15 22 o5 est Gay Rese S~rvice Road banain .C 2221 Follow us on Fac~book Major Credit Cards Accepted 2 January 1, 2011 [] [] Paul ~ompson passes Away Leaving a lifetime ofService ( 93 o20 0) Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association ~des Again For 25th ye~ars the Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has held this annual Memorial Day weekend event which celebrates gay cowboys & cowgirls with their friends. Held as always at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, the rodeo is like any other with regular roping and riding events, and unlike most others with campy "Drag Races" and goat dressing competitions. This rodeo now ranks among the top 4 rodeos of the International Gay Rodeo Association, which comprises over 20 rodeos in the United States and Canada. Kelly Kirby receives the Equality Oklahoma’s Lifetime Achievement Award Paul ~hompson was a well known activist for the GLBT community, starting from the early 1970s when he w~s arrested for public lewdness for publicly kissing a man on the neck. He fought his case and won, and he continued the rest of his life working to make things better not only" ~br the GLBT community but also other marginalized minorities. He had co-chaired OGLPC fiom 1992 until tis death on March 4 o~: this year. He also had co-chaired the OKC Pride Parade and Festival for many years, and was instrmnental in arranging the first one in 1987. In addition he was a tireless activist with the Oldahoma Democratic Party:, was an active board member ~vith the Oklahoma City chapter of the NAACP and also served on the Martin Luther King Parade Committee. His life made a major impact on the lives and future of GLBT Oldahomans and others seeking justice and equality. Cimarron Alliance Foundation acquires new once and gets a new Director Cimarron Alliance dates back to its original formation in 1995, beginning then as a Political Action Committee striving to promote gay or gay friendly candidates and legislation in Oklahoma. In 1997 the Cimarron Alliance Foundation was formed in order to enable the organization to accept tax deductible contributions and work towards educational efforts for the GLBT community and Oklahomans in general about their issues. They acquired their first office this year at 729 N.W. 17th Street, and also hired their first fulltime Executive Director, Scott Hamilton. He strives to keep the Foundation going strong during these tough times stating, "You keep going because the needs do not abate just because money is tight. If you bdieve in social justice that doesn’t stop until there is justice." At their 30th annual Equality Gala Banquet, Equality Otdahoma bestowed their Lifetime Achievement Award on Kelly Kirby. A veteran and successful businessman xvith his own accounting firm, he was honored for over 20 years of activism on behalf of the GLBT community in Tulsa. Not going overboard he stated modestly afterwards, " I would have to say that at 56 years old the word lifetime is a bit daunting." Oklahoma City holds their 23rd Annual Pride Parade and Festival From humble beginnings in 1987, the Oklahoma Pride Parade and Festival once again brought people together to parry, reminisce, and stand together. N~is year it was accompanied by the banners of Cimarron Alliance displayed on the lampposts along the parade route on Classen Boulevard. N~is time it also began with an outrageously fun block party on Friday night June 25th on the 39th Street Strip, follmved by the Festival in Memorial Park Saturday and Sunday which is the beginning point of the Parade. The Parade ~cked off on grand style at 5 p.m., much glamorized by this year’s Grand Marshall, Ginger Lamar. Miss Lamar ( a,k,a, Queen Supreme, Beauty with a Bite, Queen of the F---king Universe) has been a mainstay in the OKC entertainrnent scene for over 30 years. A wild emcee never caught short for a wisecrack or snappy comeback, she has delighted audiences in a style all her own. Today she still reigns as the emcee Saturday nights at the Boom, a proud Oklahoma tradition that truly did it her way. Pride Parade and Festival Celebrated in Tulsa On June 5 Tulsa held their 14th Pride Parade, followed by their biggest festival yet in Centennial Park. N~is year their Parade Marshall was the Reverend Martin Lavanhar, Senior Pastor of Allsouls Unitarian Church ofTulsa. He was honored for his courage shown when he spoke at a conference in Uganda rallying against efforts by that nation to make homosexuali.ty a crime punishable by the death penalty. Aiding a sister Unitarian church in Uganda for this cause was a very risky undertaking but he felt he had to make a stand saying, "I’m 4! years old and I%e never been called upon to go overseas to risk my life for freedom. In some ways this was that kind of call." When he returned safely Toby Jenkins, the Director of Equality Oldahoma stated, "We had to hono~ this wonderful man, to let people know that this straight minister fi’om Oldahoma was only one of m,o ministers who was at this conference in Uganda." Enid gets their first GLBT Commtmky Center, and holds their first Pride Celebration One might not think a town like Enid, well known for its conservatism, grain elevators and their powerful football team( the Enid Plainsman) as a place for a gay scene, but yet this has emerged. Enid High School has a Gay/Straight Alliance, a local P-Flag Chapter ( Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), and now a GLBT community center called simply the Center at 1319 S. V3n Buren. Everything fi’om HIV testing to dances are held there, ~long with many groups now forming tip. ~ihis year Enid celebrated their 2nd Pride Festival as Meadowlake Park came to life with vendors and entertainers followed by an evening firewor~ sho,a: This time over 400 people came to savor the solidarity and enjoy the fun. SSRA Rodeo -Back a~er 5 years in Grand Style Back after 5 years, the Sooner State Rodeo Association was again in full swing. Hosted this time by the Ramada Inn East, the event was held on October’s first weekend at the Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort in Sperry. Founded in 2002, SSRA is a member of the International Gay Rodeo Association. 0 Y A CONGREGATION OF THE ~N~T~D CHURCH OF CHRIST Join us Sundays at 6pro 3901 NW 63rd St www.cohokc.com God is still speaMng, Ban Empi~ ’uptcv ® Civil Rights ~Criminal ’ment ® Family Law ® Litigation January 1, 2011 i 3 School Board As a well known activist who has proudly marched in OKC’s Pride Parade carrying a sign that says "Gay Teacher", Joe Quigley has for years been a tireless advocate for equality and safe schools for all students, including those GLBT or perceived to be. For this he has gained the respect and admiration of not only the GLBT community but also that of countless of fair-minded Oklahomans. A teacher with the Oklahoma City School District since 1994 with 10 years of satisfactory appraisals, he was at Northwest Classen High School when in May of 2009 the Oklahoma City School Board voted to fire him. Although they claimed it was for poor performance, Mr. Quigley and his supporters saw it as a ruse to get rid of him due to his advocacy for GLBT students. With the help of the American Federation ofTeachers he took them to court where District Judge Barbara Swinton not only ruled in his favor, but apologized to him on behalf of how he was treated by the district. The District appealed, and. Judge Swinton’s ruling was upheld. The Oklahoma City School Board has now appealed to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. At this time Mr.Quigley is now in a permanent position teaching English at Douglass High School; N O ahoma attempts Exemption from Federal Hate Crimes Law In October of 2009 Presiden{ obama signed into taw expanded Federal Hate Crimes protections to include real or perce@ed sexual orientation or gender identity as well as disabilit)’ and gender. Although this was hailed by the GLBT community and other activists as a long overdue step forward, it was also condemned by some religious groups and other conservatives nationwide who claimed that this measure promoted homosexuality and stifled fi’ee speech. Oklahoma was no exception, and in early 2010 State Senator Steve Russell introduced legislation to exempt Oldahoma from this provision, prohibiting Oklahoma law enforcement authorities from cooperating with the Federal government investigating these ty-pes of hate crimes. After overwhehning passage in the Senate, it went to the State House of Representatives where State Representative Mike Shelton, in a brilliant procedure of legislative maneuvering, got this legislation stopped. He had this to say as to why-- "There are pastors who wear the veil of Chrisrianity who support this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." Mr. Shelton later received Cimarron Alliance’s Legislator of the Year Award, an honor shared with State Senator Judy Eason McIntyre ofTulsa. Oldahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Moves from Surv "va Mode back to Recovery During late 2009 and into this year, the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus ( known as OGLPC) was in survival mode. Formed in the early 1980s, the group had a long history of advocacy and education for the GLBT community, and was most famous for their voter guides mailed out to GLBT voters and their allies. However, during 2009 and into this year attendance had fallen to the point that the group could not function. Paul Thompson, who had been the male co-chair of the group since 1992, was trying to revive the group when he passed away during March of this year. Determined to carry on the legacy of OGLPC, co-chairs Jeanne Flanigan and Steven Dubois have been working to rebuild the group, and to reform it as a PAC ( Political Action Committee) that ~vill enable OGLPC to do fulfill their goals more effectively. They look forward greater milestones ahead. N Brittany Novomy made history when she ran against State Representative Sally Kern Sally Kern had already made a name for herself long before she sha@d a spotlight with Brittany. First elected in 2004 as a self described "Kernse~-~ative", she gained international notoriety’ after a speech she gave to a Republican gathering was secretly taped and posted on youtube. This speech stated that "gays are a bigger threat than terrorism or Islam"and that "no societ~r" that has embraced homosexuality has lasted for more than a few decades."She led the charge to get the book "King and King" ( ~ story" for children about a gay prince) removed from the Children’s Section of Oklahoma County- Libraries, labeling it "obscene." She also graced the front page of the Metro Star when she presented her Proclamation for Morality at the Oklahoma State Capitol, which claimed that America’s economic woes were due to "abortion~ pornography, same sex marriage, sex trafficking, divorce, illegitimate births, child abuse and other forms of debauchery." In 2010 Brittany Novotny threw her hat in the ring to give District 84 voters a choice. An Oklahoma Cite~ attorney and activist with the Young Democrats, she was the first transgendered person ever to run for public once in Oklahoma. However she made it a point not to focus on that issue, but rather on things that she felt mattered more for average raional Oldahomans like jobs, education and transportation that Sally had neglected due to her focus of social issues. AJthough she lost to Ms.Kern in the Red Sweep of the November general elections, BrittaW still made history and will no doubt make more in the future. Tramps continues the Proud Tradition ofHave a Heart An annual event of love happens . appropriately each year around Valentine’s Day at Tramps with their Have a Heart Benefit Show and Auction. It began as the creation of the late Larry Crosby, then a coowner ofTramps and Sister Gall Addis who was then with Catholic Charities’ Loaves and Fishes Program, which provided meals ~’~r those living with HIV.Although Larry has passed away his sister, Canaille Rohn who is still a part owner ofTramps, along with the stat~" and many volunteers again made this event a fabulous success. This year over $8,000 was raised. Richard Ogden sworn in an Oldahoma Regent [ Openly gay attorney and longtime activist Richard Ogden was appointed by Governor Brad Henry to the Board of Regents of the Regional University" System of Oklahoma on June 10. He was sworn in by District Judge Barbara Sxvinton. As a regent Mr. Ogden will be part of that governing board which is responsible for the hiring of university presidents. Tulsa adopts Non- Discrimination Policy for City Employees On June 17 the Tulsa Cit-y Council voted 6-3 to adopt a nondiscrimination policy for municipal employees on the basis of sexual orientation, ,~though in 1975 then Mayor Robert LaFortune commissioned a report recommending adoption of this policy; the report was rejected Iia 1994 the Tulsa GLBT community participated in formal hearings in favor of this policy, only to be denied again. The Tulsa Human Rights Commission had been recommending this change for over 15 years. I~a-is Wilmes, Oklahomans for Equality’s Advocacy Director stated, "This makes such a strong statement to the region on how Tulsa is a welcoming and sensible island in a state that is often ridiculed for being intolerant and unjust towards marginalized populations." Tulsa now joins other Oklahoma cities who have this policy for their employees, Del City, Mtus, McAlester,Miami, Noble and Vi.nita. Tulsa School Board Votes for GLBT clusive Nondiscrimination Policy During September the Tulsa School Board voted unanimously to include GLBT persons in their nondiscrimination/anti-bullying policy for teachers, students and parents. Tami Marler, a spokesperson for the Tulsa Public Schools, stated that this change was made in accordance with recommendations by the Civil Rights Office of the U.S. Department of Education. With this measure they now join the school districts of Norman and Oklahoma City ~vho also have this policy, . although Oklahoma City’s policy goes further in also protecting gender identity. "At Century 2t Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPL~ 3627 NW Expressway Oklahoma City, OK 73112 By Rex Wockner Dan Choi hospitalized Activist Dan Choi. Wocknerphoto Leading Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell activist Dan Choi said Dec. 14 that he was committed to a veterans hospital psychiatric ward on Dec. 10, the day after the U.S. Senate again refused to authorize repeal of the DADT ban on open gays in the military. On Dec. 18, the Senate reversed course and voted 65-31 to authorize the repeal. (See separate story.) In an on-the-record e-mail sent from his iPhone, Choi said he had experienced "a breakdown and anxiety, attack." "(T)he failures of government and national lobbying carry consequences far beyond the careers and reputations of corporate leaders, elected o~cials, high powered lobbyists or political elites." Choi wrote. "They ruin lives. My breakdown was a result of a cumulative array of stressors but there is no doubt that the composite betrayals felt on Thursday, by elected leaders and gay organizations as wel! as many who have exploited my name for their marketing purposes, have added to the result." Choi was released from the hospital several days later and sounded like himself in a telephone interview with CNN on Dec. 18. Activists hope to force teaching ofgay history A bill introduced in the California Legislature by Sen. Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, would require that LGBT people be fairly and accurately included in school teaching material. ~ihe measure is sponsored by Equality California and the Gay-Straight Alliance Network. ~ae bill also prohibits the State Board of Education from using instructional material that discriminates on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity. EQCA said that if enacted, the law "would add LGBT to the existing list of underrepresented cultural and ethnic groups (that) are covered by current la~v related to inclusion in textbooks and other instructional materials in schools." "LGBT people should not be pushed into the closefwhen it comes to what students learn about history," said EQCA Executive Director Geoff Kors. "Educating youth about the contributions ofLGBT Californians and our state’s rich diversity will help foster true acceptance of LGBT students and will ultimately create a safe school environment for all students." GSA Network Executive Director Carolyn Laub added, "LGBT youth are denied a fair education xvhen they are exposed to harmful stereotypes in classroom materials and are excluded from learning about their history." Leno said that "most textbooks don’t include any historical information about the LGBT movement." "Our collective silence on this issue perpetuates negative stereotypes ofLGBT people and leads to increased bullying of young people," he said. "We can’t simultaneously tell youth that it’s OK to be yourself and live an honest, open life when we aren’t even teaching students about historical LGBT figures or the LGBT equal rights movement." UN secretary-general, US ambassador attend LGBT event United Nations Secretary-General Ban Yd,moon and the United States’ U.N. ambassador. Susan Rice. joined a high-level U.N. panel Dec. 10 that condemned anti-gay violence and the criminalization of same-sex relations. The Human Rights Day event was hosted by several nations and organized by the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission, Human Rights Watch and other organizations. "Violence will end only when we confront prejudice," Ban said. "Stigma and discrimination will end only when we agree to speak out. That requires all of us ro do our part -- to speak out at home, at work, in our schools and communities." "Where there is tension between cultural attitudes and universal human rights, universal human rights must carry the day," he said. "Personal disapproval, even society’s disapproval, is no excuse to arrest, detain, imprison, harass or torture anyone -- ever. ... Human Rights Day commemorates the Universal Declaration ofHuman Rights. It is not called the Partial Declaration of Human Rights. It is not the Sometimes Declaration o~Human Rights. It is the Universal Declaration, guaranteeing all human beings their basic human rights, without exception." Rice told the gathering: "The story ofmy country is, in part, a story of the expanding boundaries of rights and dignity -- of the way that discrimination and prejudice have been countered by acceptance and equality. I feel dais deeply and I feel it very personally. Even at a time of profound challenges at home and abroad, we dare not give up on the great causes of equality and fundamental rights. And that includes the pursuit of full and equal rights for the millions of people in this country and around the world ,vho are gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender." "Change," Rice said, "comes from people ... who refuse to move to the back of the bus. It comes from the leaders, the activists, and the ordinary men and women who believe that all human beings have equal worth, equa! dignity, equal consequence -- and equal rights. This conviction underpins the significant steps that the United States has taken over the past two decades to advance the human rights of all of those who are gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender." The event was sponsored by U.N. missions from Argentina, Belgium, Brazil, Croatia, France, Gabon, the Netherlands, New Zealand, Norway, and the United States and by the Delegation of the European Commission. Illinois passes civil-union law The Illinois Legislature passed a civilunion bill Dec. 1 and Gov. Pat Quinn said he will sign it into law. Gay or straight couples wilt be able to enter into a civil union starting in July. The unions will carry the san~e state-level rights as marriage. ~ae vote in the Senate was 32-24. ~e vote in the House of Representatives was 61-52. "(These days), legislator after legislator talks about ’my gay daughter;’ ’my gay brother,’" Equality Illinois Director of Public Policy Rick Garcia told Windy City Times. "The most politically powerful thing gay people can do is to come out to family and friends.... Illinoisans are middle-of-the-road, very steadfast folks, so [ think {’this bill~ passage) bodes well for our community across the country." Freedom to Marry Executive Director Evan Wolfson ~velcomed the new iaw as a "step," but said "civil union is no substitute" for marriage. "States that have created civil union as a means of both giving and withholding -- providing legal protections wMle withholding the freedom to marry and all its meaning -- have found that civil union falls far short of marriage vcith al! its tangible and intangible significance in our lives," Wolfson said. Chicago Mayor Richard M. Daley sounded a similar note Dec. 2, saying: "Eventually marriage will take place. It has to be.... We have to move faster." Same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont and Washington, D.C. In addition, New York and Maryland recognize same-sex marriages that take place elsewhere in the nation or world. Civil-union or domestic-partnership laws that grant all state-level rights of marriage are in place in California, Nevada, New Jersey, Oregon and Washington. Laws that grant same-sex couples some of the rights of marriage are in place in Colorado, Hawaii and Maine. California is a further case unto itself. Same-sex marriage was legal from June to November 2008, when voters amended the state constitution via Proposition 8 to put a stop to it. The couples who married then are still legally married, as are other same-sex couples who live in California and got married anywchere in the world before Prop 8 passed. Gay couples who married somewhere else after Prop 8 passed, or ~vho marry elsewhere in the future, receive every state-level right and obligation of marriage in California except for the legal right to call their marriage a "marriage" when they are in California. They are not recognized under the state’s domestic partnership law, but rather are married.cou,p,les who are denied use of the word "marriage. N January 1, 2011 5 O ahomans Eqt ality hires new Execrative ~e Board of Directors of Equal:t). Oklahoma hired Toby Jenkdns as their new Execut@e Directoi; beginning his duties October 1 .He had served on their Board of Directors since 2008 and has a 13 year history of volunteering for the organization. He has been employed at the Tulsa County Courthouse :[))r 18 years and has for the past 11 years served as the Civil Appeals Court Clerk to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. He holds a BS degree in Criminal Justice and a BA degree in Biblical Linguistics and Pastoral Studies. He also holds a masters degree in theolo~~ and has done graduate work in the Sociology of Aging. He has 2 married children and a granddaughter. He is glad to be there stating, "It~ a great honor to work for an organization that saves lives every day. I believe we must do more tO address to needs of our community and challenge them to step up to volunteer service." Norm Teenager commits Suicide af,er Ci W Co nci Meeting Abo t GLBT History On September 27 the Norman City Council voted 7-1 to approve a proclamation ~br GLBT History Month. The Norman Human Rights Commission wrote the proclamation after much deliberation, and there was a great deal of positive publicity concerning the Council’s action. Howevm; this approval met with strong opposition from some Norman residents who showed up at that meeting to air their protests, many using stereotypical and negat@e references to homosexuality. This was wimessed by Zach Harrington, a 19 year old gay Norman resident who had heard similar sentiments when he had been bullied as a student at Norman North High School. Although his parents, Van and Nancy Harrington and his sister Nikki were aware of and supportive of his lifestTle, the sentiments he heard expressed yet again apparently were too much and he took his life at his parents’ home October 10. A candlelight vigil was held for him October 13. Margaret Cox, Don & Mick Schirron honored at the Cimarron Alliance Awards Gala Margaret Cox was honored with the Cimarron .Alliance Lifetime Achievement Award for many years spent to help women achieve equality through her work with the Oklahoma Chapter of the National Organization for \7~/omen, and for ~vork helping the GLBT community through Herland Sister Resources and Cimarron Alliance. Also honored as Legislators of the Year were State Representative Mike Shelton and State Senator Judy Eason Mclntyre. Don Hawkins and Mick Schirron received the Media Avcard as former owners of the Gayly Oldahoman, which began operation in 1983 and was Oklahoma’s longest lasting and largest GLBT newspaper. Beginning as a monthly paper with a circulation of 4000, it later grew to a biweekly publication with a circulation of 10,000. Due to a changing business climate and personal commitments, Mr. Hawkins and Mr. Schirron sold the Gayly in 2006 to Andrew Hiclcs and the late Heather Harp ofTulsa. Although reincorporated, the paper resumed operation in March 15 2006 and ceased publication in December 15 of that same year. Currently the Oklahoma Historical Society is copying an entire set of the Gayly OHahomans on microfilm. @ AIDS Walk O ahoma "Each Step Brings Hope" was the theme for the AIDSXX/-alk 2010 which took place September I9 for the 12th year of this event. Previously held in October, the date ,vas moved up and the location changed to the Sonic Plaza in Bricktown, this time also accompanied by a 5K run that morning. Money raised from this event goes to help those in the OHahoma City area infected and/affected by HIM Arnold ’%rna Lee" Smith passes away at 83 As a longtime club owner, activist and entertainer Arnold Lee Smith, best known as Arna Lee, left a legacy of pride, hope and fond memories for GLBT OHahomans. He was a pioneer, spearheading efforts that won Oklahoma City’s GLBT community many freedoms they now take for granted. When he was a club owner, with a club called Lee’s Lounge in the early 1960s, he endured relentless police harassment and never backed down. Longtime partiers remember police raids where he was arrested along with his customers, and he would bail them out along with himself and re-open his bar that same night. Later he opened Oklahoma’s first premier showbar, the Roadhouse, where many big name Oklahoma entertainers got their start. Later he also owned a steamy dance club called the Outrigger from 1979 until 1981. After a sojourn in Florida, he opened another bar complex also called nostalgically the Roadhouse in 1995, which closed after a year of operation, and then went partly into retirement, still doing shows in various clubs for many good causes. \ghen his heath failed and he entered the Norman Veterans Center Nursing Home, he passed away October 3 I. He was missed by his many friends, and honored because he madea difference for the GLBT community of Oldahoma. be investigated or discharged under this discriminatory law. :.. Certification and the 60-day congressional requirement must be wrapped tip no later than the first quarter of 2011." Sarvis called the repeal of the ban "the defining civil rights initiative of this decade." Lambda Legal Executive Director Kevin Cathcart called the I7-year fight to overturn the ban "a heroic political battle by LGBT advocates who refused to give up." In a statement Defense Secretary Robert Gates said: "Once this legislation is signed into law by the president the Department of Defense will immediately proceed with the planning necessary to carry out this Change carefully and methodically, but purposefully: This effort will be led by Dr. Clifford Stanley, Undersecretary of defense for personnel and readiness. The legislation provides that repeal will take effect once the President, the Secretary of Defense and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff certify that implementation of the new policies and regulations written by the department is consistent with the standards of military readiness, military effectiveness, unit cohesion, and recruiting and retention of the armed forces .... I will approach this process deliberately and xvill make such certification only after careful consultation with the military service chiefs and our combatant commanders and when I am satisfied that those conditions have been met for all the Services, commands and units. It is therefore important that our men and women in uniform understand that while today’s historic vote means that this policy will change, the implementation and certification process will take an additional period of time. In the meantime, the current law and policy will remain in effect." Obama issued-a statement that said: "Today, the Senate has taken an hist~oric step toward ending a policy that undermines our national security while violating the very ideals that our brave men and women in uniform risk their lives to defend. By ending Don’t Ask, Dofft Tell, no longer will our nation be denied the service of thousands of patriotic Americans forced to leave the militao; despite years of exemplary performance, because they happen to be ga}~ and no longer will many thousands more be asked to live a lie in order to serve the country they love. As commander-in-chief, I am also absolutely convinced that making this change will only underscore the professionalism of our troops as the best led and best trained fighting f6rce the world has ever known. And I join the secretary of defense and the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; as well as the overwhehning majority of service members asked by the Pentagon, in knowing that we can responsibly transition to a new policy while ensuring our military strength and readiness. It is time to close this chapter in our history. It is time to recognize that sacrifice, valor and integrity are no more defined by sexual orientation than they are by race or gendm; religion or creed. It is time to al!ow gay and lesbian Americans to serve their country openly." "First ursday" Art Opening and E ibit of Original Works by Tulsa World Editorial Cartoonist o Bruce Planteo TULSA, OK (PR) __ The January" Oldahomans for Equality (OlcEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature works by Tulsa World Editorial Cartoonist Bruce Plante. Bruce lcnew, while growing up in Texarkana, Ark., that drawing and humor were in his future: He began drawing cartoons in the second grade and began performing standup comedy in the sixth grade. As a sophomore at the University of Arkansas Bruce became the editorial cartoonist for the Arkansas Traveler, the school newspaper. He graduated the University of Arkansas with a Bachelor of Arts in 1977. In 1985, Bruce became the first staffeditorial cartoonist for The Chattanooga Times and held that position for 22 years. On Oct. 22, 2007 Bruce was lured away from Chattanooga to Tulsa, taking the position of edit0i:ial cartoonist.for the Tulsa World, replacing the late Doug Marlette. In 1989, he creatdd Plante Ink syndicate which distributes his editorial cartoons to 40 subscribers throughout the United States. His cartoons have been reprinted in The New York Times, USA Today;The %~ashington Post, The Wall Street Journal, The Los Angeles Times, Newsweek, Newsweek International (Europe), Newsweek Japan, Playboy; Sports Illustrated, Discover, CBS, CNN, college and high school textbooks and even the Iowa Achievement Test. In 1985, Bruce won Showtime’s Funniest Person in Aa’aerica Contest. He performed standup for 4 years for audiences as large as 3,000 and speak~s to more than 30 civic groups and schools every year. The show begins with a reception on ~lt~ursday, JanualT 6th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month, www.okeq. org Free help By Steven Petrow &even Petrozv is tt§e author of"The Essential Boot: ofGay Manners &Etiquette. Send him your questions at qUeerieS@live.com. "Too affectionate at the mall?" is not to hook-up; you’re making a political statement. ¯ Follow the leader: Breal~ only one rule at a time. Don’t go rogue on your comrades, (i.e. no name-calling, clashing with police). ° Be clean and kissable: Bring your breath mints; you may be kissing a lot of strangers. Don’t hog the best kissers. If everyone else is moving on to a new partner, it’s time to let go. Elton John to sing against Prop 8 Elton John will perform a private concert in Beverly Hills, Calif., on Jan. 19 to raise money for the ongoing federal lawsuit against Proposition 8, the voter-passed constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage in California. ~tle concert, to benefit the American Foundation for Equal Rigi~ts, which hired the gay side’s superstar attorneys, Ted Olson and David Boles, will take place at the Green Acres estate of billionaire political fundraiser Ron Burlde. "We are deeply honored to have the support of Sir Elton John," said AFER Board President Chad Griffin. ’!The American Foundation for Equal Rights stands for the enduring principle that all Americans are created equal, and believes that ending statesanctioned discrimination is a critical step we must tal~e toward ending the hate crimes and suicides that continue to claim the lives of young Americans." John has not always been a supporter of same-sex marriage. On Nov. 12, 2008, eight days after voters passed Prop 8, he told USA Today: "What is wrong with Proposition 8 is that they went for marriag.e Marriage is going to put a lot of people off, the word ’marriage’. ... I dont want to be married. I m very happy with a civil partnership. If BY people want to get married, or get together, they should have a civil partnership.... Heterosexual people get married. We can have civil partnerships." Prop 8 was struck down as unconstitutional at the federal district court level. The ruling is currently on appeal at the U.S. 9th Circuit Court ofAppeals, which heard oral arguments on Dec. 6. For concert ticket information, e-mail events@afer.org. 3131 January 1, 2011 I 7 Tulsa Eagle Staffready to serve the crowd at thier 2009 New Years Eve Black &White Ball, and did they ever! Sooner &ate Softball Association Games promised an ex’citing summer 2010. Shown above is Oklahoma Chaos Team ofOklahoma Ci~ Gorin photo .............MORE Photo’s on page 11 8 January 1, 2011 AffirmingChurch in Owasso expands ministry to gay OWASS0;OK (PR)~ ~.Table UCC h~ ~0urd~ and ~fi~ort for G~TQS~yo~t~ ~i~i~)~e Youth gr~U~ is c~i~ ~nPlace. ~ey m;et0n F~i~ay ev~fiings from 6:30pm t0 8~00pm. B~ginning the 3rd Monday in Janua~ they will have k PF~G meeting from 7’8 p.m. Rev Melinda Foster leads the congregation and they meet at 202 S Cedar, Suite E, Ow~so OK 74q55. Rev. Melinda Foster can be reached at 918-693- 0458. For more information visit: http://opentableucc.com/ Nommanons Comm ity Heroes TULSA, OK (PR) Oklahomans for Equality is now taldng nominations to recognize individuals or groups who have made an impact on the work for equality for the LGBT community. These awards are presented at the annual Equality Gala on April 30, 2011, Tulsa Convention Center Ballroom. The following awards are presented: Lifetime Achievement Award- Recognizes a lifetime dedication tothe cause of equality for LGBT community in O~ahoma. Past recipients include Nancy McDonald, Dennis Neill and Kelly Kirby. This award is nor always presented, annually. Community Heroes- Recognize ~hose individuals and groups who have represented or served our community in the previous year. Many of these hdroes have "taken a bullet" for our cause. Past recipients include Council Oak Mens Chorale, Jim Roth, Carol Crawford, Tim Williams, and Kelly Carter. The Russell Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion - Presented to a faith leader who leads and supports affirming the faith of the LGBT community in our local congregations. Past winners include Rev. Leslie Penrose, Rabbi Sherman and Rev. Richard Ziglar. Grand Marshal for the Tulsa Gay Pride Parade June 11 th- Recognizes an individual who has supported the LGBT community in a courageous and visible manner. Past recipients have been 11 year old Noah Blatt and the Rev Marlin Lavanhar for his advocacy work for the gay community in Uganda. You can download a form at http://www.okeq.org/wp-content/ uploads/2010/12/nominationform. pdf Please return completed form to: Oklahomans for Equality PO Box 2687, Tulsa, OK 74101 or email paul. allen@okeq.org Rev S eve uric spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org Have a God filled and Blessed Day! January 1, 2011 Creep ofthe Month By D’Anne Witkowski D’Anne ~tkowski has been gayforpay since 2003. Shes aJ~eelance zortter andpoet (believe ~t:9. When she’s not taking on the creeps ofthe world she reviews rock ~’ toll shows in Detroit with her ~oin sister "John McCain" 10 January 1, 2011 I wish I still had my dog-eared and tattered copy of Conduct Unbecoming so I could send it to John McCain. Not that he’d bother ro read it. The U.S. military’s vicious anti-gay history with its vcitch-hunts and outright persecution of gay service members probably isn’t of much interest to McCain. Especially since "don’t ask, don’t tell" solved everything. Don’t you dare try to tell him anything different. During a Nov. 28 appearance on "State of the Union" with host Candy Crowley, McCain actually had the audacity to claim that "don’t ask, don’t tell" is an effective policy that doesn’t harm anyone, gay or straight, and that the call for its repeal is just politics. "There was no uprising in the military," he said. "There were no problems in the military with ’don’t ask, don’t tell.’" "If you were gay it was a problem," Crowley interjected. "No it wasn’t," McCain snapped. "It’s called ’don’t ask, don’t tell,’ okay? Ifyou don’t ask them, you don’t ask somebody, and they don’t tell." Got that? It works. End of story. Crowley tried to ask McCain something else, but he cut her off. "I understand your point of view. I understand the poil~t of view by the majority of the media," he said. "But the fact is, this was a political promise made by an inexperienced president or candidate for presidency of the United States." In other words, it’s all Obama’s fault. He’s too young to know what a good idea it is to discriminate against homos in the military. Why, when McCain was Obama’s age he had to walk 15 miles in the snow uphill both ways in order to make a campaign promise likd that. "The military is at its highest point in recruitment and retention and professionalism and capability," McCain continued. "So to somehow allege that this policy has been damaging the military is simply false." Tell that to the thousands of gays and lesbians who have been booted out of the military since "don’t ask, don’t tell" was enacted. According to Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, that number is upwards ~s"R’s cal~ed ’don’t ~ k, don’t te~,’ okay? you don’t ask Ithern, you don’t ask IsorneSody, and they ~.on’t tell." ~ of 14,000. You may recall that in 2002, amid a severe shortage of Arabic-speaking translators, the Army fired six linguists trained in Arabic simply because they were gay. Apparently McCain sees this as some kind of success. "The fact is that this system is working," he told Crowley. McCain repeatedly stressed that he wanted to know what the effect ~vill be of letting gays serve openly - and that’s the operative word, "openly." Because gays already serve in the military, they just have the weight of a government-mandated closet on their backs threatening to tumble open and ruin their careers ar any moment. "I believe we need to assess the effect on the morale and battle effectiveness of those young Marines and’Army people I met at forward-operating bases that are putting their lives on the line every day," he said. Never mind that some of these "young Marines and Army people" are probably gay. McCain Said he has had "a number of" military folks come up ro him and say, "Look, we fight together, we sleep together, we ear together." His choice of anecdotes illustrates one of the main concerns ofhomophobes: that homosexuality is contagious, and the best way to guard against it is to make sure you never l~ow when and if it’s around you and to punish gays and lesbians who dare make such an enormous sacrifice to serve the country. A L G A T S L 0 T A T L L A C Y N Y T Miss Bamboo 2011 @ the Bamboo Lounge ~dsa November 2010. Staffphom @A~tes OKC]anuary 2010. Godn photo Hot Dancers @ 77~e End Up, ~dsa March 2010. ~affphoto F ash Back TobyJenkins, President, Oklahomansfor Equality and Oklahoma State Representative Al 3/IaAd~ey at the 30th Equality Gala, Tulsa. Photo by Liz Ingersoll, Mia Bella [m~es @the Copa, OKCfidy 2010. Gorin photo @ Finishline, OKCJanua,y 2010. Gorin ghoto @Alibis, OKCJune 2010. Godn ghoto April 2010 Open Arms Youth Project hosts P?vm Night. P,vm Queen, Brenda "G,andma" Bolen and Prom I~%tg, Kim W,§#enhunt. Judy G. Photo Best Wishes For Kel~ Kirby receives Lifetime Achievement Award, p,~sented by N,znoy McDonald @ the 30Anniversary Equality Gala, ~dsa. Photo 3det,v Star Staff" Ginger Lamar, Grand 3darshall 2010 OKC Pride. Do,werphoto Untertaine. @ Ledo. O {C 20 OI Gon,, photo @ Club Majestic, TulsaJanuary 2010, fi~dy G. photo Sooner State Rodeo Association at the 2010 Tulsa Pride Parade. Judy Gphoto 2011, From The Metro Star Team @ Club 209, ~dsaJanua,7 2010, Ju4y G. photo Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association @ the Habana hzn Pool Party 3day 2010. Godn photo By Rex Wockner* Judges hint at Prop 8 case twists and turns 9t,§-Gtvuit Federal Court, APpoolphoto @Eric Risberg The effort to undo California’s Proposition 8 inched forward Dec. 6 when a three-judge panel of the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals entertained nearly three hours of oral arguments from the attorneys in the case. In an ornate courtroom on the third floor of San Francisco’s historic James R. Browning U.S. Courthouse, amid murals, stained glass and statues dating to 1905, the attorneys replayed some of their main arguments and the judges offered hints of where the case might go. The gay side’s lawyers, who include famed attorneys Ted Olson and David Boles, sought to defend U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker’s ruling from August that Prop 8 violates the U.S. Constitution’s guarantees of equal protection and due process. They also argued that the parties who brought the appeal to the 9th Circuit -- the activists who created Prop 8 and the deputy county clerk of Southern California’s dusty Imperial County -- have no legal "standing" to have mounted this appeal ofWalker’s ruling. Those parties are trying to defend Prop 8 because all the public ot~cials who were sued in the case -- including Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General (and Gov.-elect) Jerry Brown -- have refused to defend the voter-passed state constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage in November 2008 after it had been legal for 4 1/2 months and after t8,000 same-sex couples had married. It is unclear if the court will grant the Prop 8 proponents or Imperial County standing to allow the appeal to move forward. ~e judges seemed unimpressed by Imperial County’s desire to be let into the case. Among other things, they seemed annoyed that the deputy county clerk rather than the actual clerk is pursuing the move. As to whether the people who put Prop 8 on the ballot should be allowed to step into the shoes of the state government and defend a piece of the state constitution that the state itself refuses to defend, the judges hinted that they might bounce that question off of the California Supreme Court to see hmv it feels about the idea. If the 9th Circuit does that, it could delay appellate rulings on both the standing issue and the merits ofWalker’s decision. On the merits, Olson told the judges that California has unconstitutionally "taken a class of citizens and put them in a separate category." California gives same-sex couples all the of marriage under a domesticpartnership law, but prohibits gay couples from marrying. Under another law. gay couples who go get married somewhere else also receive all the California rights of marriage but are prohibited from calling their marriage a marriage in California. Yet other gay couples, who got married in California or somewhere else before Prop 8 passed, are considered to be married in California and are permitted to use the word. It’s very messy. All of this is discriminatory, Olson said. It harms gay Californians. ~here is no legal rational basis for it. It cannot be "justified," he said. "California has built a fence around its gay and lesbian citizens and around the institution of marriage," Olson told the judges. "That is a violation of the equalprotection clause and it’s a violation of the due-process clause." Attorney Charles Cooper for the Prop 8 proponents told the judges that his case in defense of Prop 8 centers on "procreation." In Coopers view, it is rational for the state to limit marriage to men and women because the reason marriage exists in the first place is because sex between men and women produces children. ~e state, he suggested, has a unique interest in human unions that are procreative. At the end of the day, court-watchers were talking about three things that piqued their curiosity during the oral arguments: * Will the case be delayed so the 9th Circuit panel can sound out the California Supreme Court on the question of whether people who put initiatives on the ballot should be able to defend those initiatives when they are struck down by courts? Regardless of whether the judges seek advice from the California Supreme Court, the case ¯ cannot proceed if the 9th Circuit decides that neither the Prop 8 proponents nor Imperial County has legal standing to appeal. If they do not, Walker’s ruling striking down Prop 8 would come back into force. * In hearing the appeal of Walker’s ruling, will the 9th Circuit rely solely on Walker’s expansive trial record, which seems to demolish most of the myths, lies, arguments and opinions that historically have been used to oppress gay and lesbian people? Or will the 9th Circuit look at additional sources of information and seek out other facts . ine court hinted that it may review more than just the District Court’s findings. * And has the 9th Circuit perhaps hinted that it plans to uphold \Valker’s decision but in a way that would limit the case’s impac~ to California, the only state that ever let gays get married and then later took that right away from them? The court spent a fair amount of 12 January 1, 2011 Ed Sikov is the author ofDark l/icto*_7; 7be Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutf!lms and fihnmakers. "Kahlua, Cream and Fiasco: -he White Russian" My cold lasted another week, so forget about literary reticence. Let the gross descriptions fly: Shot spewed out of my nose like raw scrambled eggs, only darke,; more translucent, and graced by tiny bloblets of blood. My lungs hacked up a hocker so gray it could have come out of an old coal miner. When I wasn’t wiping smears of sputura off my hands, sheets and nearby skin mags, ! contemplated my recent poor behavior. Dan was right: I’d become "an old-fashioned asshole." Dan was nothing but affectionate with me, even after I spat goose-shit-green mucous onto his pillow while he slept. He deserved better from me. So did my friends. When I stopped being viral, I invited Craig and Kyle to dinner. Surprisingl); Craig didn’t hang up on me when I called. "I’m sorry..." I began. He cut me off: "Listen, dollface - I’ll forgive you anything as long as you keep your tongue off my boyfriend." "Right-O!" I sang out, amxiery turning me strangely into Terry-Thomas in some British war comedy. "How about dinner here on Saturday? It’s Chicken Cacciatore and an after-dinner drink that doesn’t suck." All was well. Dinner xvas a disaster. Dan was late, so I had to wield the vacuum cleaner and a can of Pledge and set the table while trying to make what turned out to be an absurdly complicated "hunter’s style" chicken with only half the ingredients the recipe called for. (I hadn’t bothered with a shopping list. "Calling Dr. Freud! STAT!") The result was a greasy; taste-free horror - no wild mushrooms, no fresh sage or thyme, clumpy years-old garlic salt instead of garlic.... "Hunter’s style?" What were they hunting - something outof Oliver Twist? Having tasted the cacciatore, I downed some Tormore Single Malt and became morose. But when Dan waltzed in mere minutes before Craig and Kyle were supposed to show up, my irrepressible life force returned. [ became hostile. Craig and Kyle thus entered during the second act of _Who’s Afraid ofVirginia Woolf_, with me playing both George and Martha. I behaved terribly; Dan was rightly embarrassed. I might have summoned enough dignity not to spend the whole evening staring at the gap between Kyle’s bottom shirt button and his belt. a space out of which a perfect tuft of soft hair emerged. Craig noticed, much to his giee and my continuing disgrace. But dessert was fiibulous! Ttxe White Russian is one of my favorite cream-based cocktails because of its subtlety, simplicity and relative lack of.sweetness. It’s got a little Kahlua for a cafd au lair effect, vodka for some kick and thick, chilled heavy cream for the mouth-to-belly bliss that only cold dairy fat can provide. Still, two rounds of White Russians wasn’t enough to make up for hurling lettuce fragments and bacon chunks in Craig’s face after discovering that puppy Kyle had been gobbled up by Jabba the Hut. Am I still bitter? You bet your elephantine ass I am. ~-he White Russian 1 part Absolut 1/2 part coffee liqueur 1 part chilled heaW cream Put some ice in a shaker and add all the ingredients; put the cap on and swirl it around a bi{ rather than shake it. (After all, you’re not trying to make liquor butter.) Pour through strainer into a good-looking glass and serve. time discussing a 1996 case from Colorado in which the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a state constitutional amendment that deprived gay people of anti-discrimination protections that Colorado governments previously had extended ro them. A "narrow" ruling against Prop 8 by the 9th Circuit could bring same-sex marriage back to California but possibly thwart Olson, Boles and the American Foundation for Equal Rights’ desire to take before the U.S. Supreme Court the proposition that samesex couples have a constitutional right to get married in all states. Lesbian becomes Colorado Supreme Court justice Monica Marquez became the first openly gay or l~sbian member of the Colorado~ Supreme Court when she was s~vorn in Dec. 10. Her partner, Sheila Barthel, helped her put on her black robe at the ceremony. Marquez, 41, previously served as deputy attorney general. Spacey won’t discuss sexual orientation Actor Kevin Spacey told The Daily Beast on Dec. 15 that he’s not interested in discussing his sexual orientation. "I have not given up my right to privacy," Spacey said. "People have different reasons for the way they live their lives. You cannot put everyone’s reasons in the same box. It’s iust a line I’ve never crossed and never will." "You have to understand that people who choose not to discuss their personal lives are not living a lie." he continued. "That is a presumption that people jump ro.... I iust don’t buy into that the personal can be political. I just think that’s horseshit." ING AROLINI~ NOW...BECAIJSE OF THE. CHANGES IF "/OIJ WANT TO RMIN THEN GO. e~il: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com ty.net Chuck Breckenridge %q~cther buying or selling I’!1 work hard for you. !~-rk~_ra~~ 597 Magnetic Road Eureka Springs, Arkansas www.magneticValleyresort.corn info@magneticvalleyresort.com 800-210-8401 479-244-6821 Abutting Downtown Bars, Clubs, Baseball, BOK Centel; Tulsa Gay Center. ~M]rordable Homes and Apartments. For mo,:e Info~wmtion visit: www~aybn~dyheightsmha.com By Jack Fertig Janua~ 20tl "Take a cSance on ~ove, Gemini!" Sun squaring Saturn adds the weight of age and responsibility, but Venus enters Sagittarius, leading affections and aesthetics toward new adventures. She gets in the middle of that square offering frivolous escape that can too easily complicate problems at hand, but she also offers some creative solutions. ARIES (Narch 20- Apri~ 19): The responsibilities of work and relationships can feel oppressive. A romantic adventure is much needed. If partnered, plan a getaway. If single, a stern attitude can be sexy, but balance it with playful warmth. (Think gym coach!) TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - Nay 20}: As hard as you’ve been working, you’re entitled to a much-needed release. Find an appropriate place to scream and let it all out. If you really need to beat someone there are eager victims. Just keep it safe and consensual. GEN~N~ (Nay 21o June 20): Play only for funsies. Don’t take any bets. but take a chance on love or a passionate facsimile. Incredible sex is no basis for a solid relationship. Take it one day at a time and see what else there is. CANCER (June 21o Ju~y 22): A strong sense of responsibility at home can be a millstone or a motivator. Go with the latter. Once you drag your tush into action, momentum will make the rest of it a lot easier. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): Even you may have inarticulate moments, but just take them as a creative challenge. A little playfulness can boost morale and productivity. Too much, not so good. If a few jokes and your dazzling smile aren’t enough, turn it up slowly. V~RGO (August 23 - September 22): Your best investment of time, energy and money is in your own home and community. Think ahead before taking on responsibilities. Spreading humor and good will at home or close by will help build your standing. L~BRA (September 23 - October 22): The weight of the world seems to be on your shoulders. Opportunities can be hard to find, but they’re there! A lighthearted chat with a sister (genetic or otherwise) can help you get perspective. SCORHO (October 23 - November 21): Life is tough, but don’t let current troubles wear you down. When you catch yourself worrying, channel that into constructive thought toward a solution. Stick to basics and remember what’s important. November 22 - December 20): The money crisis will hit everyone. You may be worrying too much on a personal level. Focus on your personal assets, the kind you would still have even if you were penniless and naked. Never forget: You almost always fare better than most. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January- 19): You’re at the top of your game, but what’s next? The answer to that is not as urgent as it may seem. Relax, indulge in a romantic or sensual retreat, and the hard questions will gain perspective, AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): The world’s troubles are the world’s, not necessarily your own. Discussing global and personal worries with friends will help balance it all out. For answers to the world’s problems and your own, look across borders and oceans. HSCES (February !9- Narch 19): Put your deep, dark imagination to work. Even in a bleak future there are opportunities. You can be inspired to find them for yourself and to guide others. Even if the light at the end of the tunnel is an oncoming train you could ride it out. 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However as 2010 concludes on this happy note Chaz \gard, at age 7t, has made the decision to retire after publishing the newspaper for over 7 years. "It’s time for me to relax, I want to do some traveling, and will continue to help advance total equality for GLBT people." In conclusion the Metro Star wishes to say that they were proud to be part of the GLBT community of Oklahoma and the region, thanking our advertisers and readers for 7 great years. We come to a close xvith a recap of the highlights of 2010, and in this last issue we say thank you and we appreciate the support everyone has given us. Another endeavor has been their Cooking for Ct~ange Program which has been selling freshly made homemade tamales as a means for fundraising. A dozen tamales are only $24 and are available in pork, chicken or vegetarian style. Contact P-Flag to order some! P-Flag Enid also wants .to announce that nominations are open for their 2011 Stand Awards, which are open to GLBTQA individuals, businesses, organizations, media, artists and other categories of Oklahomans ~vho have improved life for the GLBT community in the state. They are also seeking similar groups interested in partnering with P-Flag as a Communty Parmer sponsor to keep the work of the Center going and growing. Enid P-Flag is a 501c3 organization so contributions are tax deductible. To contact Enid P-Flag one can call toll free 1 800 878 5298, or logon pflag@ enidglbt.org.. Flash Back I~cmr & Chaz 200~ January 1, 2011 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document LOCAL NEWS ~ NATIONAL NEWS ~ V¢ORLD NEWS @ LIFESTYLE ~ FITNESS TRA~¢~L ~ ADVICE ~ ENTERTAINMENT THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA Page-!4 VOLUME 7 ISSUE 7 Twitter.com/MetroStarNews ® MetroStarNews.corn JULY 1, 2010 .sa to By Michael W. Sasser Contributing Writer Tulsa Ci~ Council votes to include sexual orientation to ci~y policy. Photo by Mia Bella Images Oldahom s have a chance difference By Victor Gorin Contributing writer 17th meeting. While most rank and file GLBT Oldahomans have no protection against discrimination, Tulsa city employees will enjoy codified defense. "This makes such a strong statement to the region on how Tulsa is a welcoming and sensible island in a state that is often ridiculed for being intolerant and unjnst towards marginalized populations," said ~is Wilmes, OHahomans for Equality (OkEq) Director of Advocacy. The policy has been a long nine in coming - 35 years, in fact. In !975, then Mayor Robert Lafortune commissioned a report that recommended the city adopt this polic?; but the report was rdected. In 1994 the Tulsa gay community Commission has recommended that Tulsa adopt an inclusive policy. Wilmes and Oldahomans for Equality worked in collaboration with Nancy McDonald ofPFLAG Tulsa and Alice Blue and Tommy Chesbro of the City of Tulsa Human Rights Commission worked with City Councilor GT Bynum and City Councilor Maria Barnes to bring about the formal vote by the Tulsa City Council. "Tonight, PFLAG parents celebrate with the LGBT community," said McDonald. "No longer can a city employee be discriminated against based on sexual orientation. The majority of City Councilors are to be applauded for their vision and vote for Tulsa to be an inclusive city." ....Continued See CITY COUNCIL Page-11 BrittaW NovotW and Kern to face off November 2 for State Ho se District 84 By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The smoke has finally deared and the race is on. Although the filing ended with 4 candidates vying for the State House District 84 seat, the two others will not be on the ballot. Republican Garrick Voth was challenging Sally Kern for her party’s nomination for the General Election. Voth, a 34 year old Oklahoma City resident who described himself as a conservative Republican, also Brittany Novotny andLt. Governor Candidate Kenneth Corn. Pressphoto described Ms. Kern as ignoring the needs of her district. When publicity surfaced shortly after the filing that he had been arrested in OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ This election cycle is offering GLBT Oklahomans and their allies a major opportunity to vote for real change. Although Oklahoma has the dubious honor of being the reddest state in the country; we have never had so many candidates to vote for who are either GLBT or allied with us. In this issue of the Metro Star there is a candidate for District Judge (Jackie Short), 2 candidates for U.S. Representative District 5 (Tom Guild & Billy Coyle) and an Oklahoma County Commissioner District 1 ( Willa Johnson) each directly asking for your vote by advertising in the Metro Star. running for State House District 71, Democrat Amy Corley running for State House District 53 and Democrat Mike Shdton running for District 97. In the State Senate we can vote to keep Andrew Rice (Democrat District 46), who has always been one of the GLBT community’s strongest allies in the legislature. All of them face opposition from Republican and/or Independent candidates in the General Election. Last but certainly not least, Brittany Novomy is running against Sally Kern to represent State House District 84. Sally has made history and garnered international attention as one of the most anti-gay In addition there are 2 candidates running laxvmakers in the country. Brittany, has who are 0penlygay, Tom Kovach running for already made history.as ~k]ahoma~s first Stat~ Rep~es;~}~[ti~e Di~tricv ~4 and Andrew transgendered candida{e aud Sheis ready Willi~ for Si~di~e Representative in District tO fight for GLBT equality. GLBT and 66. fair ~inded Voters of that district have There are also 2 DemoCratic Candidates an Opportunity to give Ms. Novomy a running for the Oklahom~ City State Ho~e vict(Jr} ~at W~uld likewise no doul~t get DiStrict 93 seat allied with the GLBT community, former legislator Wanda Jo Peltier and Wilfredo Santos Rivera ( formerly of the Oklahoma City School Board, one of only 2 members who voted not to fire openly gay teacher Joe Quigley.) There are other candidates allied with our community we will be able to vote for in the General Election November 2. There is our only openly gay State Representative Al McAffrey- Incumbent Democrat District 88 of Oklahoma City, and our allies Democrat Dana Orwig running for State House District 87 also of Oklahoma city, JeffTracy in Tulsa international attention and give Oklahoma a better image, besides getting better representation. For more information or to contribute to her campaign, her website is brittany4HD84.com. On a further positive note, our allies Anastasia Pittman ( Democrat District 99) and Richard Morrissette (District 92) have already been elected by acclamation ( no opponents filed.) Check out the voting instructions on page 9 if you need any information about voting in this upcoming and future elections. The GLBT community has never had as many candidates seeking our vote, and it’s up to us to make that worthwhile. Will Rogers Park last September, charged with attempting an act of public lewdness with another man ( the case is still pending), he withdrew from the race. The other candidate was Ray Prewitt, aged 40 and a resident of Bethany running as an Independent. Ms. Kern successfully challenged his eligibility before the Oklahoma State Election Board, and he was stricken from the ballot as he had not been registered as an Independent at least 6 months before the filing period as the law requires to be eligible. Brittany faces a three time incumbent who has for better or worse, undoubtedly attracted national and even some international notoriety. She replaced another conservative Republican, Bill Graves who was likewise famous for anti-gay sentiments, when she was first elected in 2004. She was re-elected without opposition in 2006, and defeated Ron Marlett to win a third term in 2008. She is married to Steve Kern, the Pastor of Olivet Baptist Church and has 2 adult sons. She had been a teacher at Oklahoma City’s Northwest Classen High School, teaching American Government and coaching the girl’s golf team. She led opposition to the book "King and King" being in the children’s section of Oklahoma County libraries, daiming that the American Library Association is "trying to sexualize your children." She has made public statements stating that homosexuals are a bigger threat to our nation than terrorism, resulting in countless public demonstrations and demands for an apology; even generating a phone call from Hlen Degeneres placed ........Continued See BRITTANY Page- 17 No matter who are on life’s journ~ 3131 ~. Pennsylvania,Oklaho Straight but not narrow. believe in equality for everybody fight for that in Washington. and I’ll I NEED YOUR VOTE JULY 27. Bi!Iv Covle is orga nized, well fUnded and his beliefs are right in line with the fair minded people of the Fifth District. -Richard Ogden Organized by: leave a message please Major Sponsors: h o m a New Report Shows Surprising Gains for Gay O ahomans P/~oto: Laura Belmonte, President ~e Equa[i~ ~work (TEN). TULSA, OK (PRy June 16, 2010 __ g/ith the Ttflsa City Council poised to add sexual orientation to its nondiscrimination policies fi3r public employees, a new report by the TEN Institute, the research arm ofThe Equality Network, reveals that * several Oklahoma municipalities already extend these protections to their gay employees. Preliminary data from an ongoing project documenting municipal policies on lesbian, gay, adopted inclusive t.heir public explains *Williarns, president Network. bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) citizens challenge longstanding assumptions that LGBT Oklahomans have virtually no legal protections at the local level. "W~nen we began this research, we expected o.nly to validate the widespread belief that few communities protect their ~ ~ LGBT citizens here. To Update: Late Thursday surprise evening the Tulsa City ~bund Gounc~ "qoted 6-3 in favor of adding sexual orientation to the nondiscrimination policy v. for public employees...., our great mad joy, we that maW cities have already LGBTpolicies fo[, employees. Ph.D., ofThe Equality Del Cit)~ Altus, McAlestm; Miami, Noble, and Vinita al! have nondiscrimination policies including sexual orientation among the categories protected in the hiring, promotion, and retention of public employees. Another group of municipalities do not offer employment protections for their LGBT public employees, but does include sexual orientation in their anti’harassment personnel policies. ~aese include Muskogee, Chickasha, and Perry. Oklahoma City" is the only municipality xvith an ordinance outlawing harassment, intimidation, or assault based on sexual orientation. ~is protection is particularly significant because the states hate crimes taw does not currently encompass sexual orientation. Currently, there are no municipalities in Oklahoma that include gender identity or expression anaong the protected categories for either public employees 6r the general citizenry. 2qae study, also shows that Ponca City, Cushing, and Sallisaw appear .to sanction housing discrimination against gay people. For example, in defining what constitutes a disability, Cushing’s housing ordinance states "’handicap’ does not apply to an individmd because of sexual orientation or the sexual preference of the individual or because that individual is a transvestite." qThe Ponca City and Sail!saw housing ordinances are worded similarly. "~9{fe were stunned to discover such bizarre and offensive assertions enshrined in public policy in 2010. These three communities are clinging to the characterizations 0f LGBT people that the medical and psychological establishments rejected ahnost fi3rty years ago. \~ghile we agree wholeheartedly that being gay is not a disability, we believe that allowing landlords to bin" LGBT people from renting an apartment f6r which they qualify as tenants is blatant discrimination." stated Williams. TEN Institute will continue to analyze municipal policies on LGBT Oklahomans and will integrate them into its Municipal Equality Database. The pre.liminary findings may be accessed at http:/l~aw~/v.scribd.com/doc/33127989/ Municipalities-Database ~e E,q.uali~ Network. works, to achieve equali~y and to secure legal *vmcuonjbr /esbmn ~y bzsexua[ and trans ender Oklahomans d;~rough advocao,, coal~)on building, and in~i,idua/ empowerment in the polidcalprocess.. 3 GLBT Organizations honored as U.S. Census Partners at the O ahoma State Capitol SundayJune 12 By Victor Gorin Contributing writer TobyJenkins receives the U.S. Census Bureau’s Partnership Award on beaalfofOk~homansfor Equalio,. ~ his l@ is D,: Robert Groves, National ~& Census Bm~au Direcm,; and w his right Re~onal Dimcmr DennisJohnson. Gorin phom OKLAHOMa\ CITY, OK __ In the Blue Room of the Oklahoma State Capitol in Oklahoma City maW organizations were honored for their work helping the U.S. Census Bureau obtain an accurate count with correct information for 2010. A tradition every decade since the first tally in 1790, the U.S. Census proves increasingly important as the data gathered may determine ?vhere government resources are allocated, where companies locate, as well as countless other factors affecting the life quality ofAmericans. Working to achieve this goal for 2010 the Bureau worked with a wide variety of diverse organizations to help them reach out to various demographics of society, especially those who might be fearfu! or and/or otherwise reluctant to be counted. In his address Dr. Robert Groves, the Director of the U.S. Census Bureau, thanked the honorees for their efforts that truly paid off, as this year’s operation is already ahead of schedule and under budget. This involved a ~vide variety of faith communities, social groups and advocacy organizations, included among them alliances from the GLBT community: This was significant also in that for the first time, GLBT couples could be counted as married. The three GLBT organizations honored that day were Oklahomans for Equality from Tulsa, Oklahoma City’s Cimarron Alliance, and the Metro Star. Feeling privileged to be included among the honorees on behalf of Cimarron Alliance, Director Scott Hamilton stated "XWe were so honored to be part of it. XWe felt it was a big step forward. The Census people were extraordinary partners, and were so encouraging of our work in the community. I think that in the long term the comraunity ,/viii benefit substantially from the work that we were able to do." N OGRe’s riderless horse ceremoW honors community leader By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer 7he riderless horse ceremony lends respect th# year to Cookie Arbuckle w/so diedApri119th , 2010. Picmred above (r to 0 # K/int Weiden, co-director OGRA 2010 leading t]~e horse with Lina Hineman and ~Ia,y Arbuckle. Photo by Denise Whithorne ofishoo~ru.com OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Once again OGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) served the community by hosting a better-than-ever event for their 25th annual rodeo over Memorial Day xveek-end. Nais year’s rodeo charity partners were midtown OKC based - Other Options/Friends Food Pantry, Be The Change, and Expressions Community Center. The amount donated to these charities varies each year based on participation, events and overall donations. "The event went just a smooth as it always does,’ said .... Steve Sublet, a returning visitor to the annual event. ~’OGRA has a history of being a well run rodeo and they sure proved that again this year." Sublet is former IGRA (International Gay Rodeo Association) Royalty as well as a performer who has been selected for the 2011 season of’Americgs Got Talent.’ The Riderless Horse Ceremony was dedicated to Other Options and Friends Food Pantry founder Coolde Arbuclde who died on April 19th of this year. "q]ae saddle is the one we used in our family years ago when we showed Arabians," said Mary Arbuckle, Coolde’s daughter who is now tile Executive Director of Other Options and Friends Food Pantry. "The colors symbolized - blue, for Oklahoma as mom died on ¯ April 19th, the green was for mother earth, which is where we placed her ashes and the red was for the tireless work morn did for the HIV/AIDS community." This ritual adds such poignancy to the event which manually includes this observance. The history of the gay rodeo dates back to 1975 when Phil Ragsdale of Rend, ix~, came up with this most creative idea to raise funds. He thought an amateur gay rodeo would be fun, raise money, and even erase a lot of gay stereotyping. Over 125 people took part in this event and the winners were crowned; first, "King of the Cowboys," second, "Queen of the Cowgirls," and third, "Miss Dusty Spurs" (the drag queen). It was great fun and a minor success. It wasn’t until 1985 that gay rodeo came to Oklahoma. The IGPvA has a rich history of supporting associations that support their communities. They help other groups provide quality events. Naey promote, in a positive way, the GBLTQ country western lifestyle and support amateur sportsmanship through participation, competition and recognition. They are comprised of numerous regional Gay Rodeo Associations from across the United States and Canada. 07.01.2010 Openly- Gay Candidate running for State Represe tative in Norman’s House Dis ric 44 By Victor Gorin Contributing writer No,vnan CiO, Coucilman TOm Kovach NORMAN, OK Tom Kovach ~vas ~ glad but not totally surprised ~vhen he became the 2nd openly gay man elected to the Norman City Council. He’d lived most of his life in Norman, his family locating there when he was only 1 1/2 years old. His father was a philosophy professor at OU, and after graduating from Norman High School Tom earned a undergraduate degree in letters from Oklahoma University. While attending college he worked in a Safe,vay Store, and as a union member there with the United Food and Commercial Workers (UFCV¢) he won his first election to be the Secretary/Treasurer of his local. Later going on staff for the union he found he enjoyed advocating for people. He and a friend opened and operated a successful bakery called Jason D’s, for over !0 years. He then joined Astronomics, a company that sells quality optics worldwide, where he ~vorks today. Only two years ago he joined the race to be on Norman’s City Council to reprelent \Vard 2, and his victory in 2008 not only made him the 2nd openly gay person to serve on the Council, but the 4th openly gay elected official in Oklahoma history. In 2010 he ~vas re-elected to his City Council seat without opposition. Tom is 47 and has been with his partner, Will Weir, for over 11 years. He takes pride that Will is listed as such on the Normaffs city website, and credits Will for helping him through the tough times and giving him the strength for much of what he has been able to accomplish. Mr. Kovach believes his city council experience will serve him well in the Oldahoma Legislature. As he puts it, "My ward is about 1/2 the size of the district, and I’ve advocated for people and helped constituents with their problems. You also deal with larger issues that affect the whole town. You learn how to work to make things happen." Pleasantly enough, he found that his sexual orientation wasn’t much of a campaign issue, and proved to be a nonissue during his time in office. In 2010 his State Representative Bill Nations would be forced out of office due to term limits, so Mr. Kovach decided he wanted to run for that office where he felt he could make positive change happen on the state level. " I learned at the city council that one person can make a difference, and even if you’re in the minority speaking out can help change direction. The s{ate is facing monumental problems, especially the budget. We are falling behind in many areas that would make a state proud, such as education. We’re last in the nation in the area of women’s health and 1st in the rate ofwomen in prison per capita. These are things we should be working on, and when there is a problem there is also an opportunity to address it," and he elaborated to say, "Instead they have been scapegoating, Randy Terrill with the Hispanics and Senator Russell trying to exdude GLBT Oklahomans from Federal hate crimes laws. You can’t just sit by and let that go." If elected he wants not only to be an advocate for working Oklahomans. He is also pro-choice, and as expected has stated he xvill advocate in favor of equality for GLBT Oklahomans. He has been endorsed by the Victory Fund (a national organization that funds campaigns of GLBT candidates), and on July 27 he will face 3 Democrats in the Primary Election. 2 are OU law students. Emily Virgin who is 23 years old and Isaiah McCaslin who is 26. The third Democrat is Robert Murphy who is 52. This 4 way race will result in a runoff if no candidate garners 50% of the vote. There are no independent candidates, so the winner will face the sole Republican in the race, Kent Hunt, in the November 2 General Election. Although Mr. Kovach feels he has a strong following and is fairly confident, he stresses that no election should be taken for granted, and he isfft going to. N Friend ofOklahoma’s GLBT Community Reelected by Acclamation By Victor Gorin Contributing writer rote Representative Anastasia Pittman J~iend Rachelle Taylor (left). Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Anastasia Pittman, a longtime friend of not only the GLBT community but also an advocate of equality and justice for many progressive groups and causes, has won re-election to the Oldahoma State House of Representatives with the closing of the filing period June 9 when she drew no opponents. She represents District 99, first elected to that position in 2006. Prior to holding office she had earned a Bache!or’s Degree in Journalism at Oklahoma University and a Master’s Degree in Education and Behavioral Science from Langston University in 2002. She garnered legislative experience worldng in the State Senate from 1999 through 2006 as a clerk, media assistant and legislative assistant. She has also worked as a Spanish instructor and has hosted a radio talk show: She has one child, Ayshia, and among her many mi!estones she was honored as Legislator of the Year in 2009 by the Cimarron Alliance. Tom Guild-Democrat for Congress By By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As candidate filing is completed and political season is upon us, community leader and Professor Tom Guild, an Edmond Democrat has filed for U.S. Congress. He hopes to be the Democratic nominee to represent Oklahoma’s Fifth District, which includes most of Oldahoma County, and also Pottawatomie and Seminole Counties. Guild is currently the Secretary of the Oklahoma County Democratic party. "The 5th Congressional District has not had a Congressman who represented all of the district in quite some time," said Guild in an interview with The Metro Star. "We are becoming a very diverse district and as time passes the district will become even more so. I’m the only candidate with progressive values ~vho will be open to the ideas and needs of all of the people in our district." Guild taught 27 years at the University of Central Oldahoma in Edmond, where he was conferred the title of professor emeritus by the Board of Regents; and three years at Oklahoma City University. He taught political science and legal studies at UCO, and in the MBA program at Oklahoma City University. He earned a BA in political science from OU and his juris doctor degree from SMU School of La~v. Guild was a Robert Dean Bass - Memorial Scholar ar OU and the Maurice E. Purnell Scholar at SMU. Guild is proud of the support he has received from various diversity groups. "It was gratifying at our first campaign event we had leaders from at least nine different groups represented," added Guild. "The diversity of that event reflects the diversity of our campaign and hmv we will serve our constituents once As a candidate who supports diversi~ Professor TOm Guild will make his ,vtn at the 7he 5th Congressional District seat in Oklahoma. 7he seat is being vacated by Mary Fallin. Robin DTownsendphow background, which includes 30 years of teaching experience at the college level, taught me how to value different people, different cultures and different ideas and to work with a wide range of individuals." In a previous run for office, Guild had strong support from a diverse coalition in the state’s largest county. Guild plans to work hard to protect and expand the middle class and make the American dream a realistic possibility for everyone in the 5th District. For more information, please visit www. guildforcongress.com. N "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST proper#es are ourPEOPL 3627 NW Expressway Oklahoma City, OK 73112 07.0’i.2010 By Samantha Fields and Lisa Keen Keen News Service An informal survey by the Washington Post published June 18 asked a tiW number ofwell-placed experts -six-- to say what they think will happen if federal Judge Vaughn Walker overturns California’s ban on same-sex marriage. Two of the six pointed to existing polling data to warn of the potential for a negative impact. Scott Keeter, director of survey research at the Pew Research Center, said Pew’s previous polling data predicts "bacldash." ~lose polls, and others, have historically shown LGBT victories in court lead to an increase in public opposition to same-sex marriage. It happened a~ter the U.S. Supreme Court struck down state sodomy laws (in June 2003). It happened after the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court ruled gay couples had a constitutional right to marriage equality (in November 2003). And even before ~Talker issues his decision, said Keeter, polls indicate the public opinion climate "remains chilly" for same-sex marriage. Joe Mathews, a senior fellow at the New America Foundation, a political think tank, said that, while public opinion is trending m £wor of marriage equaht~, a d,ws~ve court decision that gets too far ahead of voters could prolong the fight over same-sex marriage for a generation or more...." "Ifjudges strongly support overturning Prop 8 at each stage of the appeal, this emerging judicial consensus that gay-marriage bans are unconstitutional would speed acceptance of such unions across the country," wrote Mathews. "But if Prop 8 is overturned by a narrovdy and nastily divided U.S. Supreme Court, say 5 to 4, such a decision could conceivably do more harm than good." So, where is public opinion on same-sex marriage right now? ~¢o recent reports shed some light on that, and some doubt. First, the light: ~e 2010 Values and Beliefs survey, which Gallup conducts every May, indicated that 52 percent of adults surveyed consider "gay and lesbian relations" to be "morally acceptable," compared to 43 percent who said they are "morally wrong." Five percent had no response or had some other opinion. The results were based on random telephone interviews with 1,029 adults conducted between May 3 and 6, 2010. Hie margin of error is plus or minus 4 percentage points. ¯ne 52 percent saying "morally acceptable" was up three points over 2009, when 49 percent said "morally acceptable." And the percentage saying "mora!ly wrong" was down four points -from 47 percent in 2009 {o 43 percent this year. (Five percent no opinion or Other response in 2009.) ~is year was the first time since Gallup began asking the question that more than 50 percent ofAmericans said they believe "gay and lesbian relations" are morally acceptable. "W~at’s different this year is that the spread between ’morally acceptable’ and ’morally wrong’ is a whole lot bigger," says Lee Badgett, a professor of Economics at UMass Amherst, and the research director at the Williams Institute for Sexual Orientation Law and Public Policy at UCIA. It was a nine-point spread this year, compared to only a two-point spread last year. "The question is," said Badgett, "will that turn out to be a tipping point or not?" Gallup polling data shows the "morally acceptable" response has been on a steady trend upward since 2004. It took a sixpoint dive in 2004, .just six months after the Massachusetts high court issued its landmark marriage equality decision. The percentage ofAmericans who consider gay relations to be "morally wrong" --43 percent-- is the lowest it’s been in a decade. And also for the first time, a larger percent of men said "morally acceptable" than women ~- 53 percent of men and 51 percent ofwomen now believe "gay and lesbian relations" are morally acceptable. The change in men’s attitudes was striking. tn May 2006, 39 percent of men polled said they felt "homosexual relations" were morally acceptable. By this year, that number had jumped to 53 percent. That’s a 14-point iump, while, over the same period, acceptance among women increased just 2 percent. Gary Gates, a demographer at UCLA who studies the LGBT population, cautions against putting too much stock in one poll But, he Says, "a varietT ofpolls have been showing, depending on the wording, increased amounts of acceptance towards LGB and, in some cases, T people. That acceptance has gone up in both men and women. To a certain degree, the improvements could have something to do with the fact that Gallup’s wording changed in 2008, from "homosexual relations" to "gay and lesbian relations." According to Gates and Badgett, people respond differently in polls on gay issues depending on the way questions are asked. Questions about "homosexuals" tend to receive more of a negative reaction than the same questions about "gays and lesbians." ~The closer you get to people having to think about sex," said Gates, "the worse gay people do in polls." But experts agree, saying there is probably no single reason for this change in how men are polling, but rather a number of contributing factors. "Some of it is exposure," says Mark Stevens, a psychologist at California State University in Northridge. "Guys are growing up where they have friends who are gaF: There is a little bit more in the media, on the And it’s kind of cool to be a little bit more liberal and a little bit more accepting." Gates agrees that exposure is likely a big part of it, though not just for men. "We know that a higher proportio~ of gay people are being more open and being more open at younger ages. And we do know that 1mowing gay people or having a relationship with an LGBT person does actually have an impact on people’s broader attitudes." Age is, and always has been, a factor, something that was clear in the surveys results. Younger men (like younger women) are generally more accepting than their parents and grandparents. In addition to the increase in acceptance among men, the Gallup poll also found improved attitudes towards gays and lesbians anmng every other sub-group polled: from Catholics to Protestants, Democrats to Independents, moderates to conse,watives. Though the degree to which those views shifted differed greatly, it’s evident that there is a stead}; gradual shift raking place . in the way Americans view gay and lesbian relationships and civil rights for gay people. In fact, Gallup’s polling this year shows the public views "gay and lesbian relations" as more morally acceptable than doctor-assisted suicide (46 percent) and less than having a baby outside of marriage (54 percent). But what about legalizing marriages for same-sek couples?. While the Gallup poll showed 52 percent of people said they consider "gay and lesbian relations" to be "morally acceptable" and 58 percent said those relations should be "legal," only 44 percent said such marriages should be recognized. ~hat is up four points from 2009, and up 16 points since 1996, when Gallup first began astdng about gay marriage specifically. The Gallup polling on gay marriage is now approximately where it was for interracial marriage in the late 1970s and early 1980s. The balance in favor interracial marriage crossed its tipping point with the 1991 survey -when 48 percent approved and 42 percent disapproved marriage between blacks and whites. But do people’s attitudes necessarily translate into how they are likely to vote on an issue? Not as reliably a~s one might expect. Political scientist Patrick Egan, who has done considerable polling on gay-related political issues, examined the results of 167 pre-election polls on 32 different ballot measures concerning either same-sex marriage or domestic partnerships. He found that preelection polls "consi"stently underesn"m’ ated" the number of people xvho would vote for a ban on same-sex marriage -by all average of seven points. And, "the share of the public saying they intend to vote for or against these measures typically chaiages very little over the course" of the ballot measure campaigns. This gap between how voters say they will vote and what they actually do in the voting booth does not appear to be a product of wanting to give the a poll-t~er a socially desirable response of supporting equality for all, said Egan. He could find no evidence for that. For instance, he said, in states ~vith large gay populations, one would expect many people who wanted to ban gay marriage would tell a pollster that they were against the ban. Voters in California, for instance, would be more likely than voters in Mississippi to say they ~vere going to vote against the ban and then vote for it. But there was no such correlation and no other evidence emerged in Egan’s analysis to explain tile gap. Still, it’s clear Americans are becoming inc~reasingly open and accepting and experts and polling data suggest this trend will continue -unless something happens to set opinion back. "You never know how socie9, is changing, and sometimes it’s not very obvious because it’s very subtle," says Stevens. While the reasons such a shift is occurn"ng now "mi"ght not be necessarily explainable," he says, "it’s really good to see." State House candidate openly supports GLBT inclusion By Michael W. Sasser Contributing Writer Jefl~Tracy candidatefor Oklahoma House District 71 with wife Stacey and son Eli. Pressphoto TULSA, OK Hes stralg t, has a beautiful family, wants to be the next District 71 State Rep. - and JeffTracy would be supportive of GLBT issues even if he weren’t already" committed to inclusion issues on principle. "I believe in equality issues but even if for some reason I didn’t, I would still represent the GLBT community’s concerns because you don’t pick and choose who you represent," Tracy told the Metro-Star. "District 71 has the highest density population ofGLBT persons in Oklahoma. The support I have received has been fantastic. I have the moral obligation to support equality issues." Tracy is the son of a police officer and a Registered nurse. He is an Amarillo, Texas native who graduated from the University of Tulsa law school. He said that he has long been interested in politics but finally decided to run as a result of being parent of a son almost two-year old. "Being a parent cha.nges your perspective," he said. At just 27 years old, the attorney hopes to unseat Republican Dan Sullivan in what has historically been a GOP stronghold. Tracy, though, said the campaign is going well. "We’ve looked at the numbers and the numbers took good for us," TracT saKt. It s atway tough to take on an incumbent but I believe that if you have good idea, you can do well." Inclusion issues aren’t the highest profile issues in the campaign. On his website Tracy addresses issues of wastefu! spending, education, healthcare and the need to support the energy sector while developing green job technology. "I am so sick ofwhat’s going on in the State Legislature," Tracy said. "They have no concern for kids well-being. ~xey’re talking about different abortion bills and carrying guns at work." Tract has built a warm relationship with the GLBT community and recognizes that this could be used against him. "I know I will take flack for it - that’s almost a given in Oklahoma," Tract said. "But that doesn’t mean that they are right. It’s a moral issue. We have the moral obligation to respect people. If people don’t elect me because of what I believe in, that’s fine. My family will still love me. They won’t take away my birthday. What would be worse is if I didn’t remain true to what I believe in." For more information on JeffTracy, State House candidate, District 71, visit wvcw. jefftracy.org. Attorney Richard Ogden appointed by Governor Brad Henry to the Board of Regents By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Attorney Richard Ogden sworn in by Districtfi~dge Barbara Swinton and wittnessed @partner Mike McLain. P~vss ghoto OK3~&HOMA CITY, OK __ Attorney Richard Ogden, an openly gay and longtime activist for the GLBT community has been appointed tothe Board of Regents for the Regional University System of Oldahoma (RUSO) June 10, sworn in by District Judge Barbara Swinton. He is currendy vice-president and manager of the Mulinix Ogden Hall ~amdrews and Ludlam PLLC Law Firm of Oklahoma CitT. He has previously stowed as the Chair of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. AS a Regent, Mr. Ogden is part of that governing board responsible for the hiring of university presidents, employment and budgets along with other aspects of administration pertaining to Oldahomgs system of higher education. Governor Henry expressed his confidence stating, "Richard Ogden is a proven leader with the judgment, skills and commitment necessary to make a positive difference for the universities and students in the RUSO system. Richard has dedicated his life to making Oldahoma a better place, and I know he will be a great addition to the RUSO board. I greatly appreciate his willingness to serve that state in this capacity." His appointment is for 9 years, serving six regional universities, East Central University (Ada), Northeastern State University(Tahlequah), Northwestern State University(Alva), Southeastern State University" (Durant), Southwestern Oklahoma State University(\Weatherford) and the University of Central Oklahoma(Edmond). As for Richard he is glad to serve stating, "I would like to thank Governor Henry and the leadership of the House and Senate for their dedication and continued financial support for higher education, especially during these difficult economic times. I took forward to worldng alongside my fellow regents and regional university presidents, as well as the governor and legislature. " Billy Coyle-Democra t for Congress By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Born in Oklahoma City in 1974, his family moved to Florida when he wag a teenager and he graduated from Fort Lauderdale High School in 1993. He then enlisted in the United State Marine Corps, made it through boot camp at South Carolina’s Parris Island, followed by 7 years of se~ice until honorably discharged in 2001 at the rank of E-5 Sergeant. After graduating with a bachelor’s degree from Florida State University, he later returned tO Oklahoma City where he graduated from the University of Oldahoma Law School in 2003¯ He has since been a practicing attorney’ with OKC’s Coyle Law Firm. He is married, and his wife Heather is an assistant district attorney for Oklalmma County: Together they have a 2 year old son, Jack. Understandably, veterans issues are important to him. As he sees it, "Right now we have veterans who are unable to get the attention they deserve from the very country" they fought for." Another area is jobs. On this he states, "We continue to have American jobs going overseas while our elected officials have become complacent. That’s wrong and un- American. Very litde is Made in America and I want that to change. And while it may be rdatively easy to be a straight family man in the Bible Belt, he is among only a few candidates willing to openly ask for the support of the GLBT community in the reddest state in the country. He has not only advertised in the Metro Star, he is scheduled to speak to the Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, and has also rented a booth to meet widi potentiad ;corers at the Pride Festival al0ng wi~ ~ent~ i~ the Pride Parade. Asked if he feared the wrath of Republicans and rightwingers he replied ¯ to this reporter, "I don’t care, they’re going to pick on me anyway." For more information about his campaign, or hove to contribute and/or volunteer Call 405 (600 9161) or access his website wwcw.bill)~coyle2010.com Billy, Heather and their son Jack. Press photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It isa first for Oklahoma when we have not one, but ~vo candidates running for Congress that are openly asking for the support of the GLBT communitT. Billy Coyle, a veteran and straight t~mily man is one of them, ready to take on "Washington for what he believes is dest,3,erately needed change. , This campaign is about the common " ,nan. I m not running because I nee a job, nor am’I a politician looking for a government career. I want to be a Congressman looking out for the people of O~dahoma, and Billy also added, I m tired of big government, big insurance, and big politics. I am convincedI can make a difference." SAGE (Servi°ceS & Advocacy [’or GLBT Elders) TULSA, OK (PRy __ The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is launching day time programing for those who are retired or free during the day. OkEq ~vill be establishing a SAGE chapter (Services & Advocacy for GLBT Elders) which is a national program geared toward individuals over 50. Each Tuesday the Center will open at 10 am for Coffee and Bagels followed by a computer class taught by Don Satterth~vaite at 1 t:00 am in the Cyber Center’. Lunch will be provided at noon for a donation. At 1 pm there will be a book Study on classical gay authors such Edward Albee, Oscar Wilde, James Baldwin, and Armistead Maupin. "Pne Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa. The following corresponence on ENDA from Senator Coburn should be of interest to your readers Dear Editor A ick Tutoria{ on the Gay/Lesblan Equality Decisions o£the Kende! Powers Supreme Court Moore, OK Dear Mr. Powers, or Frank Rich can be the Best Man at my Marriage Thank you for writing me about S. 1584, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA). I enjoyed reading your message and learning about your family’s history of in~olvement with tt~is issue. I hope that you wiil accept my sincere apology {or the delay in my response. A tenfold increase in mail volume has made it difficult for me to stray current in my correspondence. Even so, I am sorry to have kept you waiting. Let me be clear: I believe discrimination is wrong and I am committed to fighting prejudice. As a businessman and a family physician, I believe employees should be judged upon their individual merits and work ethic, and should not be dismissed without proper cause related to their actual performance. I know we can agree that each of us deserves to be treated with respect and without bias. Nevertheless, I have concerns about the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA). As currently drafted, the bill is ovedy vague and broad, and will spur by James Nimmo O~tHOMA CITY, OK __ As the time draws near for the final arguments of Perry v. Schwarzenegger, aka the Prop 8 trial, we’ll come to the close of chapter four in the ongoing saga ofAmerica’s love-hate relationship with diversity, be it based on sldn color, gender, or sexual orientation. I’ve numbered this as chapter four because there have been three previous chapters in our gay/lesbian history that have been decided by the United States Supreme Court, the first one going against us, vdth the subsequent two keeping us in the game. Bowers v. Hardwick (1986) ruled 5-4 against us, claiming" ... a rig!~t to engage in such conduct is ’deeply rooted in this Nation’s history and tradition" or ’implicit in the concept of ordered liberty’ is, at best, facetiotts." ( http://tinyurl.com/jus3e ) Romer v. Evans (1996) reared its ugly face in an attempt to further keep gay citizens away from full indusion in the political and needless liti~t~on. The bi!l~ text creates , ,............. mcons~stencles w~m ex~st,ng te{aera~ civil , ~ for us, Justice Kennedy wrote ~hat {he passage rights starutes. I am atso concerned that a discrimination claim could be based on ’real or perceived" sexual orientation characteristics. ~][hese terms will require a court to decide their raeaning. Issues such as these require the Senate Health, Education, Labor and Pensions (HELP) Committee to };arther study this legislation and amend these vague terms so Congress does not abdicate its legislative duty to the courts. In addition, ~ also am concerned that ENDA would impede the religious liberties ol:’churches and of other non-proifit religious groups. The current religious exemption in the bill is not robust enough and should be expanded. tn addition, I believe states are already appropriately working to address this issue. In fact, thirty-one state~ have some form oflaw, regulation or executive order that requires protecting employees from discrimination based on sexual orientation including some states that protect transgendered individuals. When a majority of the states have shown a propensity to address an issue as they see fit, Congress should not intervene and unnecessarily preempt state law. I believe government is at its best when it is closest to the people and our states should continue to decide how best to protect employees from discrimination. Again, thank you for writing me on this issue. If you have any additional concerns, please fed free to write again. I look forwad to hearing from you in the future. Sincerely, Tom A. Coburn, M.D. United States Senator of Colorado~ Amendment 2 disallowing any recognition of gay people under the laws of Colorado was unconstitutional. He wrote in the ma ority opinion that "laws of the kind now before us raise the inevitable inference that the disadvantage imposed is born of animosity toward the class of persons affected." The Court implied that the passage of.&nendment 2 was born of a "bare...desire to harm a politically unpopular group". ( http:/Itinyurl.com/49m9er ) Turning the page we get to tbe decision striking down sodomy laws with the Supreme Court’s decision in Lawrence v. Texas (2003) that helped immensely in removing the uncharged felon status every gay man and woman carried with them as these laws were selectively enforced to intimidate us in our public and private lives. ( http://tinyurl. com/br2tj ) The Prop 8 ruling, regardless of~vhich gay or homo-hating party it favors, will eventually make its way to the US Supreme Court where for many years the decisions have been 5-4 with the 5 going mostly to the regressive sides of the arguments, be they social justice or economic equality questions. I was tickled pink when Olson and Boles took up the clarion call from the Equal Rights Foundation ( equalrightsfoundation. org ) to make a full court argument on our behalf~br civil rights in marriage. Even as the purpose of the trial has been to reverse the unconscionable passage ofCalf" fo~rm"a’s Prop 8 that disallows same gender marriage after a favorable California Supreme Court ruling, there’s no doubt in my mind that the extensive media coverage and social conversation of the nearly four-year hist~iry of this latest action to remove gay/lesbian discrimination has been effective in diluting the homo-hating potions and superstitious invectives thrown at us. The echoes of previous court decisions that have been heard across the country will prove too powerful for the cobwebs of prejudice and animositT to resist. Frank Rich, op/ed columnist for the New York Times and first pick for best man at my marriage, has written an optimistic essay ( http:lltinyurt.com/38gornv ) I recommend for anyone down in the dumps over our on-again/off-again progress for civil equality. Mr. Rich writes that approval of same-gender marriage is higher now than the approval for inter-racial marriage a year after i{ was supported by a Supreme Court ruling in 1967 (Loving vs Virginia), I think thanks to the vastly easier modes of communication now available with social networking and the Internet. If Limbaugh can have Elton John sing at his fi~urth marriage can my first marriage be far behind? * CiVi Rights *Criminal ’ment * Family Law * Litigation 625 13,th Street : City’s, OK 73103 07.01.2010 ~’J’~R Celebrations during Hard Times Benefit Our House Too By Judy Gabbard Contributing Writer ]:~rogr~m Director Steve [Vissen and 7E~,rT~ owner Margarita Chand~e~ Judy G. photo TULSA. OK __ Xghen our :ountry and particularly O~ahoma was in the grip.s of severe hardship during the Great Depression, people in their communities came together for hard times dances, bake-offs and rummage sales with the proceeds going to help those in need. %ese events not only made things better for the beneficiaries, but also gave a spirit of community solidarity to those who contributed as welI. Carrying on this proud tradition is Our House, Too. Located in Ttdsa at 203 N. Nogales Avenue, assistance is available there for people living with HIV/AIDS providing household and toiletry needs, weekly meals, food baskets and general support. The weakened economy has affected charitable organizations in Oklahoma and natiomvide, with declining donations combined with ever increasing needs. Our House, Too is also feeling this dilemma, so in the spirit of coming together as a community they are organizing 3 events to generate awareness as wall as raise much needed funds. ~ihere will be benefit shows at TNT’s on both Friday Jtfly 2 at 9:30 p.m. and Saturday September 4 also at 9:30 p.m., ~vhere you can enjoy cold beer, fine drinks, tasty snacks and great entertainment to support this worthy cause. TNT’s is located at 2114 S. Memorial Drive in Tnlsa. In addition to these events is their Sixth fimnual Drag Queen Bingo (bingo like your mother never played). %is grand event of course features female impersonators, but also "all kinds of cmnpy fun. It all happens at Tulsa’s CaMs Ballroom located at 423 Main Street at 8 p.m. on Saturday August 21. Our House too would like to thank their Program Director Steve Nissen, TNT’s owner Margarita Chandler and all those who work hard to make these events happen and keep Our House Too operating to serve our community. Our House Too is a 501c3 organization so donations are tax deductible, and 100% of donations received benefit their clients. For more information about their services, donating or volunteering, or about these events contact Our House Too at 918 585 9552 or visit their website at www. ourhousetoo.com. N Obdahoma Tobacco Domestic Abuse in the GLBT Community A secret shame £or us "We learned that 40% of gay men wind up in abusive relationships. Clearly this is a huge problem we’re just not talking about. I was excited to see people come out for this workshop. It ,vas a chance to inform and educate, and to hear firsthand ka~owledge from those who had been in abusive relationships. I hope this opens the door for more conversations in our comrnunit):’ Scott Hamilton. Cimarron Alliance Director By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Erin Walker OKC ~CA Director ofOutreach and Vo&nteer S~ice~: Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Domestic abuse has never been easy for our society to talk about. Family loyalties ("what goes on here stays here"), guilt of the victim ("If I’d been a better ,vife, he wouldn’t hurt me") and the ego of the abuser ("She made me do it.’) When the women’s movement of the late 1960s and 1970s brought what had been and is still somewhat taboo out into the open these were some of sentiments expressed. However, at the very least some of these beliefs are now being questioned, and there are more options now for victims of abuse to change their lives with more assurance that they don’t need to feel ashamed to get help. As the GLBT community has made great strides towards equality, xvith open relationships more widely accepted and even marriage (a concept not even fathomed only 20 years ago) what inevitably followed were many problems and taboos coming out of the closet as well. In response to this, when Cimarron Alliance held their monthly educational discussion group on June 3 they focused on domestic abuse in the GLBT community. ~eir special guest was Erin Walker, the Director of Outreach and Volunteer Services of the YWCA, which has provided help for domestic violence victims since the late 1970s.As she pointed out during the discussion, domestic violence in the GLBT community occurs with relationships of all types of people and lifestyles, rich and poor, various educational levels, religions and cultures just as it does among heterosexuals. As Erin put it, "Domestic violence is an equal opportunity epidemic." Erin pointed out that as same sex relationships have become better known, so has the veil of secrecy been lifted about domestic abuse that happens there as well. Paula Sophia Schonauer. an Oldahoma City police oi~cer and activist with the GLBT community, has answered hundreds of domestic disturbance calls during her 18 year career with the department, including many involving same- sex couples. Concurring with Ms. Walker’s experience, she saw that the dynamics were the same. Likewise through the years she has seen increased awareness and better handling of these situations by law enforcement. Legislation such as the Domestic Abuse Act has made procedures easier for victims and does not differentiate between heterosexua! or same sex couples. Erin did relate that currently the ~VCA has an excellent relationship with the Oklahoma City Police Department. which is helpful as domestic violence intervention is almost always stressftd and frequently dangerous to the o~cers responding as well.. While recognizing that abuse in same sex relationships follows most of the same patterns as their straight counterparts, there are unique aspects as well. Often a controlling partner will threaten to "out" their partner to their employer or family, k has been reported that occasionally police departments will take same sex domestic violence calls less seriously than those of heterosexuals. Whether valid of not, people abused in same sex relationships may fed they aren’t resources that can help them. The YWCA maintains a 24 hour hodine for victims of domestic abuse which has expanded their services to include assistance for same sex victims as well. As with any caller, the listener at the hodine will try to obtain as much information as the caller wants to give, with priority on safety planning. In the case of a lesbian in need of a place to stay, she could be taken to a women’s shdter. At present there are no facilities for male victims, however a man in this situation would not be turned away, in some cases a hotel room could be provided as a temporary refuge. Erin most stressed this point, " No matter what type of relationship people find themselves in, we want to reach all communities, .especially those that are under served." N~eir 24 hour hotline-- 800 522 SAFE. N to NE~07.0’!.2010 Voter Registration in © ahom Eligibility: A person who is eligible to register to vote must be at least 18 years old, a United States citizen and a resident of the State of Oklahoma. How to Register: ~bu must fill out a voter registration application form. Voter registration applications are available at your County Election Board, post offices, tag agencies, libraries and many" other public locations. You will be offered a voter registration application when you get your driver’s license and when you apply for assistance at some government agencies. You also may" down!oad an application form. ~bu must sign and date the oath printed on t2qe form. "g’nen yon sign the voter registration application form, you swear that you are eligible to register to vote. Changing Your Registration: Ifyou need to change your name, your address or your political affiliation, you must fill out another voter registration application form. You may change your registration at any time xvith one exception. You may not change your political affiliation during the period from June 1 through August 31, inclusive, in any even-numbered year. The last day on which you may change your political affiliation before the closed period is May 31; the first day on which you may change your political affiliation after the dosed period is September t. Submitting Your Application: You may mail your voter registration application to the State Election Board, The card is already addressed, but you must add a first-class postage stamp. If you fill out your voter registration application form at a tag agency when you get your driver’s license or vchen you apply for assistance at a government agency, the agency will mail the form to the State Election Board for you. ~,bter Identification Card: You do not become a registered voter until the county election board in the county where you reside has approved your application. \~en your application is approved, the county election board will mail a voter identification card to you. Your voter identification card lists your name, address, political a~liation and the polling plaee for your voting precinct. When you receive your voter identification card, look at it care~hlly and report any errors to the county election board immediately. Keep your voter identification card in a safe place and always take it with you when you go to vote. If your voter registration application cannot be approved, you wilt receive a letter from the county election board. ~lhe letter will tell you why your applicatior~ was not approved and explain the steps you need to take to become registered. You may be able to return the letter with some additional information, or you may need to fill out and send in another voter registration application forn!. Closed Primary System: Oklahoma has a closed primary system. O~fly voters who are registered members of a recognized political party may vote for the party’s candidates in primary and runoff primary elections. Registered Independent voters may be eligible to vote in party’s primaries and runoff: primaries if authorized by the party. However, nonpartisan judicial offices, state questions and county questions often are included in primary elections. All registered voters, including Independents, are entitled to receive those ballots. At general elections, all voters receive the same ballot and may vote for any candidate or question on the ballot. When to Register: You may submit your voter registration application form at any time. However, voter identification cards cannot be issued during the 24 days prior to an election. If your registration application is received by the county" election board during the 24 days before an election, you will not receive your voter identification card until after the election. tf you will become 18 during the 60 days before an election, you may apply for voter registration between 25 and 60 days before the election. Additional Information: For additional information about voting in Oldahoma, contact your local county election board or the State Election Board. Oklahoma State Election Board PO Box 53156 Oklahoma City, OK 73152 (405) 521-2391 Download and print application: www. ok.gov/elections/Voter_Registration/Voter_ Registration_Application_Form/info@ elections.ok.gov Church ofthe Open Arms to host Homosexuality and Scripture Confederence OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Church of the Open Arms-UCC ( United Church of Christ) of Oklahoma City is hosting a Homosexuality and Scripture Study on Sunday, July 18 from 4 pm until 6 p.m. Tt~e Reverend Kathy McCallie will lead this workshop, shmving ways to defend the belief that homosexuality is neither sickness nor sin. ~ae study will focus on the history of the scriptures and the cultural settings of the texts in the spirit of faith and understanding. In particular "clobber passages" (scriptural references used to demonize or "clobber" GLBT folks) will be clarified. ~is conference is flee, hmvever to RSVP is encouraged. Childcare is available if reselwed no later than July 12. To RSVP or to obtain more information call (405) 525-9555 or check out the church website at wccw.openarms, org. ~he church is located at 3131 N. Pennsylvania Avenue in Oldahoma City. By Steven Petrmv Stewen Petrow. is the author of"7~e Essential Book ofGay Manners &Etiquette. "Send him your questions at queeries@live.com. Can I break up with my boyfriend by text? By Ronald Blake Contributing Xg~riter RonaM Blake, Certified Fimess Inst~wtor through ISSA International Sports Sciences Association Sun Tzu ~vas a management conflict philosopher and author who lived in a time and land far, far away. He’had many grand things he laid out in his writings but we shall focus on only one of his wise sayings: "All battles are won before they are fought." My task today is to make this relevant to your health and fitness mode in your life. X~bu are on lunch hour and are driving down the boulevard of broken diets and yo~ are hungry. %ree of your best work buddies are in the car with you. "W’e don’t have much time and we need to just grab something now," is the consensus from the backseat and shotgun positions. You’ve already !ost this battle and you’ll end up eating out of that fat trough with Ronald, Hamburglar, and Grimace. This could have been avoided with a little pre-lunch menu planning or the sack lunch fi’om home. You havefft run in over five years but you used to be the All-Conference runner back in your university day]. You grab those dusty Asics shoes and decide to give that five mile race the old college try at the old college pace. You’ve already lost this battle and will end up limping and muttering obscenities for the next four score and seven hours while you nurse that sore Achilles. This could have been avoided with a gradual training regimen and the purchase ofsome new shoes before entering that Charity 5K race. After one round ofJose Cuervo you announce your retirement from cigarettes beginning tomorrow. After three rounds of Jose Cuervo you announce with mucho gusto your intention to banish Joe Camel from your life beginning tomorrow. After five rounds of~ Jose Cuervo you boisterously and vehemently declare your partnership with nicotine to be dissolved beginning tomorrow. You’ve already lost this battle even before the seventh round of Senor Tequila. This could have been avoided by making a signed declaration to stop smoking while you weren’t half in the bag with agave juice. The sober prover of pen to paper has a great effect on action. Your class reunion is three months away and you want to shed that freshman fifty that you’ve put on since being named most likely to blah, blah, blah in the Quill and Scroll Yearbook. You’ve joined the health club and you want Donna Dixbottom to rue the day she turned you down to the prom. You’ll show her the error of her ways with that great body and that rented Sebring convertible. You’ve already lost this battle and Ms. Dixbottom will only treat you to a haughty cursory glance at the festive soiree. You need more than just a health dub membership and a desire, You need a daily workout routine and a trusty companion to guide you to your fitness goals. Think about what you want to accomplish in life. You don’t need to be Chinese, have a two syllable name, or be a philosopher to achieve successes in your time. You only need a well prepared plan and action. Chmarron Alliance hosts art show to kick-offPride month By By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer Pride in Art, an art show presented by Cimarron Alliance Foundation m kick-offPride month, was held at the Istvan Gallery in Oklahoma City. Pictured above are (l to r) foyer Cima,ron Board member Terry Gatewood andMargaret Cox, Cimarron Board member andpast chair ofthe organization. Robin D-Townsendphoto OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__To ldck-off an art show, sale, and reception held earlier LGBT Pride month, the Cimarron Alliance this month at OKC’S Istvan Gallery. The Foundation hosted "Pride in Art," event showcased the creativity and diversity among LGBT and LGBT-supportive artists. The festive, casual evening also featured entertainment provided by Mary Reynolds, Louise Goldberg, and Jamie Bramble. "We came to enjoy the art, celebrate diversity and to support other organizations that do the same," said John Greer, President of the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma. "It is helpful to businesses, the community and those in need when the organizations work together in support." A fundraiser for tile AIDS Walk wil! be at the COPA on July 19th, from 6-10. Pride in Art artists participating in the show include: Jennifer Barron, Gary Bates, Rick and Tracey Bewley, John Carter (Orlando, FL), Sue Clancy (Norman), Sam Echo!s, Ron Ferrell, Richard Ydeffman, Christina Kovash, Kenny McCage, Monty Milburn, Bernadette Martinez, Cindy Mason, Louis Scott, Joe Slack, Sue Moss Sullivan, Frank Troutman, Rhonda Polen X~ernick (Nashville, TN), Cynthia Daniel Wolf- and others. Each artist will provide up to five pieces or original art for the show. Sales will benefit both the artists and the Cimarron Alliance Foundation. Event sponsors were Premium Beers of Oklahoma - Bud Light, Iguana’Mexican Grill, Istvan Gallery, and Art Fusion Studios. Since the incorporation of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, the organization has operated under the leadership of a dedicated volunteer Board of Directors. From the very beginning, Cimarron’s Board has been comprised of people within the LGBT community and straight persons supportive of the organization’s mission. For the past 13 years tile Cimarron Alliance Foundation has served as a powerful resource for individuals and organizations vcithin the LGBT community. The mission of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation is to support educational efforts that validate personal identity, promote public enlightenment, and advance equality for LGBT Oklahomans. For more information about Cimarron Alliance visit vcww.dmarronalliance.org. "First " ursday" Art Opening and Exhibit ofOriginal Works: Verisimilitude -New Paintings by Michael Christopher TULSA, OK (PR) _The July Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature the Art of Michael Christopher. "lhe show begins with a reception on Thursday, July 1st from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month. Michael Christopher began figurative painting as a young teen - dropped it by the time he turned twenty - and started again thirty years later. Michael’s other creative pursuits have included professional acting, theatrical production design, composing incidental music for the theatre, writing scores for musicals and an opera. Michael helped organize the Tulsa Artists Coalition and he founded the Tulsa Center for Contemporary Art (TuCCA). What started a few years ago as a handful of illustrations for a graphic novel project became a more serious return to painting. The works in this show reflect an eye for photorealistic rendering and a vision that loves and understands the human form. ~xe works in Verisimilitude spread open the time frame, drawing on the idealized realism of the early oil paintings, touching on themes from his 1987 "Living Arts ofTulsa" shmv, Boys in the Machine, infused with a poetry earned from life as an artist working across many disciplines. The paintings in Verisimilitude raise interesting questions about artistic values. Some viewers have .expressed an initial feeling of disappointment when learning that the works, which seem so realistically to be painted with a physical brush, were really made in the computer as if the digital medium is somehow beneath fine art. The works are not from photographs, but using drawing software similar to programs used in architecture and engineering. After a computer drawing is made it is "painted" using brushes, smudge sticks and other tools, each tool a small computer script written by the artist. These digital paintings take at least as long to create as "wet paint" works. This new dimension within realism is one of the fascinations that drove the creation of these paintings. Follow the progress of new projects and experience Michael’s art and music, at wv#cc.michaelfire.com. 2010 Primary Tues. July 27° General E ection: Tueso November 2. ese Democratic candidates gear up £or an important campaign £or O ahom s f t re: GOVEI~2qOR Lt. Gov. Jari Askins Attorney General Drew Edmondson LIEUTEN~T GOVERNOR State Sen. Kenneth Corn ATTOP&qEY GENERAL Jim Priest STATE AUDITOR & INSPECTOR Steve Burrage STATE tNSUR~qCE COMMISSIONER ~m Holtand (incumbent) STATE SUPERINTENDENT OF PUBLIC INSTRUCTION State Sen. Susan Paddack Jerry Combrink Larry Huff STATE T~SURER Stephen Covert STATE L&BOR COMMISSIONER Lloyd Fields (incumbent) U.S. SENATOR Jim Rogers Mark )vgil~S ..... ..... U.S. CONGRESS District 2: Dan Boren (incumbent) Jim Wilson District 3: Frankie Robbins District 5: Billy Coyle Tom Guild STATE SENATE District 2: Sean Burrage (incumbent) District 4: State Rep. Nell Brannon Mark Cornell District 6: Jay Paul Gumm (incumbent) District 8: Roger Ballenger (incumbent) District 10: Dale Christenson District 14: Donna Spring, Daryl Roberts District 16: John SparEs (incumbent) District 18: Janice Aldridge District 24: Susan Brooks, John Branum District 26: ~Tom Ivester (incumbent) District 32: Randy Bass (incumbent) District 42: Mike Kelly District 44: Randy Rose District 46: Andrew Rice (incumbent) District 48: Constance Johnson (incumbent) Steven Davis, Mark E Temple, Clyde E. Maddon STATE HOUSE District I: Dennis Bailey (incumbent) District 2: Glen Bud Smithson (incumbent) District 3: Jake Leming, James Lockhart, Jarrod Ridenour, Matt Webb, David Hogan Traci Barnes District 4: Mike Brown (incumbent) District 6: Chuck Hosldn (incumbent) District 7: Larry Glenn (incnmbent) District 8: Ben Sherrer (incumbent) District 9: Eric Cullen District 10: Nick Brown District 12: Vc~ade Roussetot (incumbent) District 13: Jerry McPeak (incumbent) District 14: Brad Clinkenbeard District 15: Ed Cannaday (incumbent) Annie J. Goolsby District t6: Jerry Shoemake (incumbent) James Bo Delso District 17: Brian Renegar (incnmbent) District 18: Donald Condit, John M. Freeman, Carolyn Hilt, Roger Shirly District 19: R.C. Pruett (incumbent) District 20: Paul Roan (incumbent) District 21: Oden Grube, Chris Pierce, Nathan Williams, Jerry Tomlinson District 22: x.X/es Hilliard (incumbent) District 23: Mark Manley District 24: Steve Kouplen (incumbent) District 27: Chris Odneal District 28: Ed Smith District 29: David Narcomey District 30: Donna Marie Vogelpohl District 32: Danny Morgan (incul-nbent) District 34: Cory Williams District 35: Rodger Ensign District 36: Greg Brown District 37: Ken Luttrell (incumbent) District 43: J. E Hemminger District 44: Isaiah McCaslin, Emily Virgin, Tom Kovach, Robert Murphy District 45: Wallace Collins (incumbent) District 49: Samson Buck (incumbent) District 53: Amy Corley DiStric~ 56: Maya To~ralba District 58: Wilson John Adamson District 60: Purcy Walker (incumbent) District 64: Michael J. Corrales District 65: Joe Dorman (incumbent) District 66: Eli Potts, David Phillips, Andrew Thomas Williams, Melani Hamilton District 68: Troy Zickefoose, Seth \gatkins District 71: JeffTracy District 72: Seneca Scott (incumbent) District 73: Jabar Shumate (incumbent) Kevin Matthews District 77: Eric Proctor (incumbent) District 78: Jeannie McDaniel (incumbent) District 84: Brittany Novotny District 85: Gall Vines District 86: John Auffet (incumbent) Jeff Collyge, William Fourkiller District 87: Dana Orwig District 88: AI McAffrey (incumbent) District 89: Rebecca Hamilton (incumbent) District 9 t: Hollis Harper District 92: Richard Morrissette (incumbent) District 93: Wilfredo Santos Rivera, Wanda Jo Peltier, Jeff Pecld~am District 94: Scott Inman (incumbent) District 95: Michael A. Walker District 97: Mike Shelton (incumbent) District 98: Dennis V/. XWeese District 99: Anastasia Pittman (incumbent) District 101: Johnny Laudermilk Creep of he Month ByD’AnneWitkowski "Family Research CounciF’ yes. N~e fabled "Gay Agenda." Having invested so much in the fight against it, anti-gay groups will leap at anything that they can hold up as proof that a sinister gay agenda exists. So when the Gay and Lesbian Activists Alliance ofg[ashington, D.C., released "Agenda: 2010," the Family Research Council pounced, cla,vs out. GLAA calls "Agenda: 2010" an "electionyear briefing paper on local LGBT issues." FRC calls it a veritable blueprint for a hostile LGBT takeover. In a June 16 W’ashington Update post, FRC posits, "What’s left for homosexual activists to do after they’ve trampled voters on their way to the altar? tn Washington, D.C., where same-sex ’marriage’ is legal (for now), the gay and lesbian crowd is just getting warmed up." The post is accompanied by a graphic reading of the ’,Homosexual Agenda" alongside a list of things like innocence, family and public health. Through each item is a blurry red line with a few drops of red here and there. Presumably it’s supposed to be spray paint (Vc~at, is the gay agenda written on the xvall of an abandoned warehouse?) but it cotfld also be blood. AIDS blood, of course. "Apparendy, their updated political agenda spans everything from classroom infiltration to legalizing prostitution," FRC’s message continues. I have to ask- what does "classroom infiltration" even mean? Sending in undercover homos to high schools like a gay "21 Jump Street?" And I have a follow-up: "Will there be a reality show? So just what is the "everything" this new agenda covers? "Local groups will try to elect more homosexuals to places of power, push in-school gay-straight alliances, support D.C. sex-oriented businesses, defend adult entertainment, grant special perks to crossdressing prisoners, force same-sex adoption and legalize sex tra~cldng," claims FRC. \Voah: Sounds ambitious. But let’s address some of these claims. First of all, what FRC calls "cross-dressing prisoners" are often actually transgender people, some who have broken the law, others who have been victims of crimes. "Ihe "special perks" include not throwing them into jail cells based solely on what’s between their legs. GLAA also doesn’t want to see them "denied appropriate health care, sexually assaulted, abusively strip-searched, (or) placed in protective custody that amounts to punishing the victim," which are some of the current "perks" of being a trann> As for legalizing "sex tra~cMng," that’s not quite it. GLAA does advocate legalizing prostitution. While a controversial position, they’re hardly calling for a sex-for-mone> free-for-all. GLAA raises a lot of important issues, i~cluding "survival sex," where people - ~’requently gay runaways and transgender people - turn to prostitution out of desperation, when it’s the only option they have left. Throwing them in jail doesn’t address the core problems. "If (policymal~ers) want to provide safer, healthier and more sustainable alternatives to survival sex, you can support the creation of drop-in centers, transitional housing, job training, counseling, addiction recovery programs and other services for at-risk populations," GLAA’s agenda reads. Oooh, counseling and transitional housing. Really racy stuff. "Lots of people in this country mistalcenly believe that this community will be satisfied when it redefines marriage," FRC claims. "That’s not the case. Homosexuals and transgenders (sic) won’t be happy until they sever every moral underpinning in America." That’s right. Because LGBT people have no morals and fantasize every night about living in some kind of lawless neo-sexual apocalyptic hellscape. You hear that, FRC? It’s right here, in writing. It must be true. And it must be true for all LGBT people ,vithout exception. Feel free to use it in your next fundraising letter. Tell your members we said, "Boo!" Ttae occasion prompted OkEq to hold a supportive Town Hall rally at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. "It is a great day to be gay in Tulsa Oldahoma!" said OlcEq President Toby Jenkins, echoing a slogan he has often employed at Pride and on other occasions. "This time I am serious." While the city council vote has been met with optimism throughout the GLBT community, some residents still see the need for progress. "IfI get beat up tonight, will the police actually come help?" pondered one young gay Tulsa man who did not want to be identified. "We can still be fired without cause and we can still be abused and lmow there’s a good chance authorities won’t be interested in helping," said Rogers County’s Brett Peason. "This is a great step but it doesn’t really affect most people in the community." Others suggested that the city should address the issue of equal protection at companies that do business with the city - thus xvidening the scope of the new policy’s effects. Oldahomans for Equality said that it would continue to press the City ofTulsa to add gender identity to the employee non-discrimination policy and also begin the dialogue with other Tulsa County municipalMes. OkEq encourages supporters of the new policy to personally contact City Councilors GT Bynum, Maria Barnes, Roscoe Turner, Jack Henderson, Chris Trail and Bill Christiansen and express appreciation. Tulsa elected ot~cials can be contacted at ~ax~¢~.~v.cityoftulsa.org/ourcity/elected-oNcials. aspx, 07.0’1.20’!0 For D~r~c~ Judge Vote...QuMity &Experience in 2010 35 45 $5,000 Face Value Cost Call 918o695o1806 $10,000 for accede a~ death H~V Coverage T For uildforcon, Congress ressocom forby G~itd for Congress, PO Box @21, Edmond, OK 738~s 07.01.2010 Photo’s by Judy G. Photography Downtown Tulsa, Oldahoma June 5, 2010 .................................................................................Continued on page-!8 By Andrew Collins Andrew Collins covers gay travelfor the New Drk Times-owned website About.corn and is the author ofFodor’s Gay Guide to the USA. t Exploring Coasta Maine Maine’s classically quaint seaside towns and breezy beaches seem tailor-made for a rela~ing vacation and sure enough, the state’s coastal sections are invaded by pleasure seekers ai! summer. Prestigious, blue-blood retreats like Kennebunkport and Camden overflow with magnificent estates, while the pristine scenery" ofAcadia National Park and Camden Hills State Park draw scads of hikers and bikers. Artsy and gay-popular Ogunquit makes a wonderfully low-keyed alternative m Provincetown. while hip Portland and upand- coming Rockland offer sophisticated arts and dining. The state’s shoreline twists and turns for an astonishing 3,478 miles - counting every inlet, cove, and bay; only the states ofAlaska, Florida and Louisiana can claim more miles ofwaterfront. You could spend all summer exploring the dozens of inviting hamlets up . and down tile coast. The southwestern edge of the state - just 70 miles from Boston and about 300 miles from both Montreal and New York City - is not only the most accessible, it has the most to offer gay and lesbian travelers. The region extends from the bustling outlet-shopping hub of Kittery north through Ogunquit and tip to Ken.nebunkport. Fringed by a lovely 3-mile beach, tiny Ogunquit first developed a discernible gay following in the 1930s, with the opening of one of the country’s first successful summer theaters, the Ogunquit Playhouse. It still presents first-rate theatrical productions today. The gay presence grew in the ’60s, when hippies and beatniks started regularly renting cottages and homes here. By the following decade the scene fully blossomed with the opening of a gay guest house, as well as a disco called Anabelle’s (still open but now called 02). U.S. 1 and Shore Road, the main drags through the village, bustle with funky shops, ar~ galleries, boutiques and several good restaurants. It’s a very short walk to the beach from iust about any point in town. Ogunquit supports a pair of lively gay nightclubs, a piano lounge, and several restaurants with inviting bars. In a state xvhere beaches can sometimes be pebbly or difficult to access, Ogunquit has one of Maine’s most celebrated ones - tile northern reaches of this fine, golden spit of sand draw a predominantly lesbian and gay crowd. Consider an excursion south to Kittery’s hundreds of mid- and high-end outlet shops. Or check out York’s Stonewall Kitchen - nearly 20 years ago, a local gay couple named Jonathan KAng and Jim Stott started selling their fabulous jams, mustards, relishes and sauces at a farmers market. They soon formed this now-internationally renowned emporium and mail-order company of delicious gourmet foods. For the best scenery on this trip, follow Shore Road south from Ogunquit through York’s Cape Neddick, where you can stop [:or a picnic at the park that overlooks the diguified Nubble Lighthouse (built in 1879). There are about a dozen gay-oriented accommodations in Ogunquit, most of them male-owned but catering to a mLx of women and men, Jtist a fe~v of the excellent possibilities include Moon Over Maine (http://www.moonovermaine.com), a fully restored 1830s Cape-style house with perioddecor, well-chosen art, and a great location in the heart of the village; and the reasonably priced Ogunquit Beach Inn (http://www. ogunquitbeachinn.com), a handsome litde 1920s compound comprising a main house with five guest rooms, as well as two cottages with full kitchens (rented weekly). A bit more upscale are the lovely Gazebo Inn (http:// www.gazeboguesthouse.com), a handsome 14-room property with two hot tubs and a gym and sauna; and the beautifully situated Rockmere Lodge (http://www.rockmere. corn), which is just offthe famed Marginal Way walking path - most rooms have ocean views. Charming Portland lies within striking distance of Ogunqnit, perfect ifyou need a dose of urbanity. Don’t overlook this youthful, progressive city as a base, either, especially ifyou’d rather browse museums and stroll along shop-filled streets than loi1 about on the beach. Portland daims a dynamic arts scene and some of the best restaurants in Maine. You can also check out a few very fun GLBT nightspots. The city crowns a hilly peninsula, surrounded by rivers and harbors - you’ll see water from many points and find the bulk of the city’s best restaurants, shops and bars in the histgric Old Port district, a warren of cobbled lanes and vintage redbrick warehouses fringed by a phalanx of wharves. A short drive or moderate walk puts you square in Portland’s West End, where grand sea captains’ mansions mingle with smaller row houses. More than two decades of intense rehabilitation have given the neighborhood a graceful countenance, and lesbians and gay men have restored many of these homes. In the heart ofdowntown’s arts district, the gay-friendly Eastland Park Hotel (http:// www.eastlandparldmtel.com) has tastefully appointed rooms with handsome colonialinspired furnishings - several units have kitchens. Amenities include a well-equipped fitness center, and a rooftop lounge with great city views. More intimate gay-popular options include the historic Inn at ParkSpring (http://www.innatparkspring.com), which Boats in Camden Harbor is just steps from the Portland Art Museum and six warmly furnished rooms; and the Morrill Mansion B&B (http:/Avww. morrillmansion.com), a 19th-century mansion on a picturesque West End Street - the seven tasteful room contains period-style furnishings. To see a less-developed side of the state, it’s about a two-hour drive from Portland - much of it along a very scenic stretch of U.S. 1 - to the resort comnaunities along western Penobscot Bay; including Rockland and Camden. You’re not going to encounter as many gay travelers out this way, but there are a handful ofvery gay-friendly accommodations. Maine’s Mid-Coast is a place for quiet vacations, ideal if you’re a hiker, photographer, fishing enthusiast, or sailor. Camden is home to a fleet of Windjammer sailing ships (http://www. mainewindjammercruises.com), which can be booked not only on multiple-day excursions throughout the region but also for afternoon jaunts along Penobscot Bay. The craggy 1,000-ft peaks of Camden Hills State Park are a regional highlight; you can tread along more than 20 miles of rugged nature and hiking trails through this dramatic 5,500-acte paradise, and overnight in a 112-site camping area. The once-workaday town of Rockland has blossomed of late, with several outstanding restaurants and cafes. The key draw here is one of the foremost small art collections in the nation, the Famsworth Art Museum, which contains works by many noted Maine painters, including the George Bellows, Louise Nevelson, and the Wyeth ¯ The on-site Wyeth Center explores that famous family of painters. Rockland’s elegant, yet reasonably priced LimeRock Inn, is operated by a lmowledgeable and friendly couple Frank Isganitis & EJ. Walter, who prepare a delicious breakfast each morning. Rooms in this handsome Queen Anne Victorian are done in period style, but with such modern perks as flat-panel TVs with HDTV/DVD and clock radios with iPod docks. First- Andrew Collinsphoto rate restaurants and galleries are just steps awa): The gay-owned Camden Harbour Inn (http://www.camdenharbourinn.com), with its spectacular location overlooking the town’s harbor, is ideal for a luxury getaway - the 18 rooms and suites are sumptuously appointed, and the on-site restaurant, Natalie’s, serves exceptiofial contemporary American fare. Still about 75 miles farther "down east" (Maine lingo for in the direction of the Canadian Maritimes - "down" refers to the fact that longitude decreases as you travel east), lies Mr. Desert Island. Here you’ll find the resort town of Bar Harbor and the adjacent 40,000-acre Acadia National Park. A 27-mile Loop Road meanders through the park, accessing trailheads and many scenic vistas. Some.hiking trails climb up to 1,530- foot Cadillac Mountain, the highest point on the Eastern Seaboard, and still others hug the granite-strewn shore. In Bar Harbor, the Abbe Museum, set in the 1893 former YMCA overlooking the village green, contains an enormous trove of artifacts and exhibits that trace the state’s Native American history. Bar Harbor has dozens of motels, hotels and inns, among them the gay-friendly Anne’s White Column Inn (http://www. anneswhitecolumns.com) and its sister property, the larger and more elegant Clefrstone Manor (http://www.cleftstone. com). ~ae advantage ofAnne’s White Column Inn is its close proximity to area shopping and dining. One other excellent LGBT-friendly option in Bar Harbor is the Aysgarth Station (http://~vw~v.aysgarth.com), which is quite affordable and located very close to several good restaurants. With so long a shoreline and so relatively small a population, Maine offers one precious commodity that’s all too rare in the northeastern U.S.: space. Although parts of the coast has been developed with mini-golf centers and condo colonies, the majority of it remains beautifully preserved and ideal for a memorable getaway. 07.01.2010 help Demented Inc.’ Tour graces the Copa to promote their new DVD ofmadness ’Memoirs ofDmentia" By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Jenna Zdia, Dmentia Divi~yl and OKC’s Bearded Lad3,. Gotqn photo OKLAHOMA CI~L OK On Sunday the 13th ofJune Rachae! Eik~’s Sunday night show had a special treat as Dmentia Diviw1 / a.k.a, director Glenn Storm) and his sid&dck Jenna Telia performed and promoted Dmented Inc’s new film, "Memoirs of Dmentia.:" With Drnentia showing up in the style of Dawn Davenport. she and Miss Telia put on quite an act promoting this work of art. Nxis 90 minute film is not for everyone, bur &finitely a must for those who love artistic dysfunction, insanity and pure white trash truly in the style ofJohn Waters, who is credited with inspiring this epic. Various ideas and concepts show up clearly with obvious influences from the xT~qzard of Oz, the infamous Female Trouble movie, the Rocky Horror Picture Show, the classic Deliverance fli& ~ a real squealer) among maW others. With only 4 people in the cast, it tells the story of mad Scientist Dr.Frankemveenie who creates the lead hermaphrodite, she male Dmenria Divinvl. Dmentiahas ahard life running a bordello, fights off the advances of Hillbilly Cousin Earl only to be impregnated by Officer Baloney Pony. She sells her baby for cat’fare to Cousin Earl, who falls for her neighbor Petunia.. Meanwhile Officer Baloney Pony happens into a gay bar, falls into a slumber, and in his subsequent dream follows the Yellow Bri& Road to see the Queen of Zoe who tells him how he can come back to earth as a gay man. All of these happy events are entered into Miss Divinyl’s diary, who wonders about her lost child. Will there be a sequel??? For cultist movie fetishists, this movie is a Godsend. For more information or to order this DVD check out www.Dmentedlnc.com. deadCENTER film depicts reversal o£Cali£ornia gay marriage law By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer Oldahoma City, OK In the film ’8: The Mormon Propositioff’ a former Mormon missionary. Director Reed Cowan depicts the events supporting the passage of Proposition 8. He chose to leave our opinions but rather chose to tell the story objectively without opinions, which he felt the public cleady wanted. ~e film was originally premiered at the Sundance Film Festival and received the longest standing ovation in the histmw of that festival., despite that it was held in Utah where Mormons number well above 60% of the population. "I am honored to present this film at deadCenter", said Melissa Scaramucci, deadCenter Board Member and Director/ Producer with Crazy Diamond Productions. Scaramucci and the organizing group invited Oldahoma’s own TEN ( The Equality Network) to talk to the crowd about the fight in Oklahoma toward equality for all. For those who dofft remember, on June 17, 2008 the California Supreme Court ruled that California’s ban on same sex marriage was discriminatory, thus making same sex marriages legal in that state. Following this ruling thousands of gay couples got legally married in California, but this new matrimonial freedom would not last long. Anti-gay groups hired companies to obtain signatures to put Proposition 8 on the ballot of the November 4, 2008 election. Successful at obtaining enough signatures, Proposition 8 was on the ballot and simply stated, "Only a marriage beva,een a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California." This proposition passed~ not only ending the right of same sex couples to marry in California but also leaving the marriages of those same sex couples ,vho had already married in lega! jeopardy ~e film depicts the astonishing approach of the Mormon Church and their leadership, primarily from Utah, using their tax free financial support to get this measure passed. "Ihere is proof by documentation and video Emotions ran high during thefight to allow gays to retain the right to marry in California. Their" ~orts were in vain. in the film that this information is not fabricated. This documentary follows the activities of the Mormon Church, questioning the legality of their actions supporting Proposition 8 as a tax free entity, donating millions to promote its passage. The passage of Proposition 8 was a crushing defeat for gay rights activists who had hoped that public opinion on dais issue had shifted enough to help them defeat dais measure. The film depicts addition irony in that the Mormon Church claimed to take this action in the name ofJesus Christ. This exploration of the Chur& ofJesus Christ of Latter Day Saints’ involvement in the passage of Proposition 8 reveals their secretive, decades long campaign against same sex marriage. More information about the film can be found at wv#;v.mormonproposition. com. Business is booming for Sean Hayes Things were looking tough for Sean Hayes for a minute there - his coming-out interview in The Advocate came off as cranky and too-late, and then that Newsweek piece suggested he was too gay to be convincing as the hetero leading man of the Broadway revival Promises, Promises. It looked for a second like he was damned if he did and damned if he didfft. But the one-time Will & Grace star is having the last laugh: He scored a Tony nod for the show, reviews for his gig as host of the Tony Awards were glowing, and his prodnction company scored a hit with the sitcom Hot in Cleveland, which premiered. to high ratings on TV Land. Hayes will be keeping his TV mogul hat firmty~in place, with NBC Universa! signing a two-year deal with Hazy" Mills (his company with Todd Milline0 to develop new shows for network and cable. (Yoglt recall Hayes showing off his sitcom-creating acumen On Bravo’s Situation: Comedy.) So yes, naysayers, this gu)?s officially a litde more than "Just Jack~" from her national TV talk show. During July of2009 she issued her "OHahoma Citizen’s Proclat~aation for Morality" at the Oldahoma State Capitol in which she blamed our nation’s troubled economy on "same sex marriage, divorce, pornograph)~ sex trafficking and other forms ofdebauchery’. On economic issues she iS likewise far to the right, opposing a minimum wage increase in Oklahoma in 2006 ~vhen it was $5.15 an hour, even requesting that a study be done to see how people living on that wage could better budget their money. Although Brittany has already made history by being the first transgendered person to run for public office in Oklahoma, she isn’t running for that reason. She has publicly stated, " I understand that there are going to be some folks who try to make this election about the fact that my medical history includes a gender transition, but I’m running for office because I believe I’m the best candidate to fight for jobs, education and transportation." Born in Chickasha, Oklahoma, Ms. Novomy graduated from the University of Arts and Sciences of Oldahoma and went on to get her law degree from the University of California-Hastings and is now a practicing attorney. She is an active member of the Young Democrats, who elected her as a national committeewoman and also honored her as their 2010 Woman of the Year. Oklahoma House District 84 indudes parts of northwest Oklahoma City, Bethany and Warr Acres. She’s ready for the fight and feels "I think our chances are really great. People are ready for a change." 07.01.2010 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. Out &Aboa~t in Oklahoma @ Tulsa Eagle. Tulsa Tasha Carrington and Billy Jackson per[orming to the smash hit of Lady Antebelliums’. "Need You Now". tt was well received by the overflow crowd in attendance. Photo by Ernest Atchison @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Tulsa Pride Parade 2010 @ Finishline, Oklahoma City Mayor Oscar Goodman oI~cially welcoming the award ~vinnmg celebrity Gay Travel Columnists, Donald Pile and Ray Williams to Las Vegas. @ @ Tulsa Pride Parade 2010 @ Tulsa Pride Festival 2010 @ Tulsa Pride Festival 2010 07.01.2010 By Ed Sikov for Me, Marg itff’ Craig was giddy on the ferry: "Margaritas are my tCavorite drink!" He clapped his dimpled hands in excitement and began singsonging, "Goodie goodie gumdrops!" He was still jolly because I had withheld my controlfre~ Msh plan. I had no intention of using that sticky-sweet frozen concentrate he loved, and I was too much of a food snob to even let the bottled pigswill variety into the house. Once, in a notorious act of radical foodie-ism, I poured Sa!’s bottle of Yucatan Yuri’s Primo- Papi Mix off the de&. Before I had a chance to tel! an outrageous lie about Yucatan Yuri’s whereabouts, Sal saw me, rushed outside in a fuD4 and punched me in the shoulder. We didn’t speak for a month. "Vge need frozen concentrate, of course. W-e do have orange liqueur...." "I have to tell you something," I began, but the two nasty Pomeranians owned by the cable sex show hostess Raven Wren - who apparently didn’t have enough smarmy gay men around her in the city, so she bought a place in the Pines - suddenly defined the term "bad canine karma" by attacking a distraught muscle-boy’s twin white Shih Tzus. The ensuing screeching and yelping (by Raven) drowned out further discussion. Vge were in the grocery’s frozen foods section with one of Craig’s giant-size Cabbage-Patch-Ydds fists engulfing a can of corn syrup with artificial lime flavor when I yanked it out of his hand; declared, %XZe’re not using that"; and threw it back into the freezm: Craig looked stricken. "Let’s make our Margaritas from scratch, OK?" I demanded, none too consolingly. "I don’t _want_ scratch," Craig whined; "I want my Margaritas! V/hy are you so mean? Why can’t I have what I want?" "l-hen came big whopping tears streaming down his colossal face, which rippled with despair. whopping tears streaming down his colossal face, which rippled with despair. At first I was mortified. But I’m here to tell you that mortification is preferable to the near-suicidal guilt that followed. I Wasn’t on the ferry any more so I couldn’t jump off. I could do nothing but hate myself to the bone. "Don’t cry! Get what you ~vant! I’ll make Margaritas my way, and you make yours your way." I pulled the can of frozen concentrate out of the freezer. "See?" I said, putting the wretched junk into our cart. Then I took one of Craig’s soft hands in mine and led him toward the unsweetened lime juice. "Ihe Margarita, Two Ways Craig’s way: Dump a can of children’s frozen concentrate into a blender, add ice and enough tequila to keep everyone from realizing how crummy the drink tastes, and press "ultra-high"; if you’re lucky you’ll forget to put the top on the blender. My way- makes four cocktails: 3/4-cup inexpensive white Tequila (it’s dumb to waste fine tequila by drowning it in a Margarita, but then I’m a cheapskate) 1/3-cup unsweetened lime juice 1/4-cup orange liqueur (we had Orange Curacao on hand - you can use any tTpe) l/4-cup Really Simple Syrul5 (you can buy Simple Syrup ready-made, or you can boil sugar and water and stand around staring at a candy thermometer, or you can make Really Simple Syrup by putting equal parts sugar and water in a jar and shaking it until the sugar dissolves) Pour some flaked salt onto one small plate and a thin layer of lime juice onto another. Add all ingredients to a large cocktail shaker with some ice; shake. Dip the rim of each glass first in the juice and then in the salt, then pour the Margaritas in the center. N AWeekend ofPageantry at Angles Newly Crowned Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA Newcomer and Miss Gay US ofA at Large By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Miss Gay US ofA Oklahoma at Large 2009 Lindsay Paige, winner Bianca LeBlanc, April Reign Miss Gay US ofa A at Large and 1st alternate Cordillia 3/Ionroe. Gorin photo OKI~HOMA CITY, OK__ Jack Calcote, Steve Davis and Nathan Thomas had a busy weekend as they put on two pageants back to back Friday June 11 and Saturday June 12. Angles came back to life as the girls competed for their titles, retaining the usual glamour of yesteryear while also reflecting changes in the field of female impersonation in Oklahoma. The trio of Calcote, Davis & N~omas owns both pageants as well as the Mr[ Gay Oklahoma US ofA Contest ( men competing as hot men, not to be confused with Mr. Gay US ofA MI, which is for male illusion). The nationwide Gay US ofA system differs from the Miss Gay America System in that while that system does not allow surgical alterations below the neck, the Miss Gay" US ofA system allows unlimited alterations except that one must have male genitalia. The At Large US ofA system in addition requires that the contestants weigh at least 200 pounds. The weekend marked a special occasion as the Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA Nexvcomer contest was premiering with their first pageant. Emceed by the team of Rache! Erikks( Miss Gay Oldahoma America 1994 and Miss Gay America 2004) and Jozlyn Welch ( Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA at Large 2008), the winner was Carmen Deveraux with 1st alternate Ferrah Mikals. N~ey will both go to on compete in the national Miss Gay US ofA Newcomer Pageant held August 11-13 in Indianapolis. The following Saturday Lindsay Paige passed on her title as Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA at Large to Bianca LeBlanc, with Cordillia Monroe as 1st alternate. That festive night was emceed by the lovely Latina Tillie Laine, who herselfwas a Miss Gay Oklahoma America in 1983. The winners of that contest will go on to compete in the national Miss Gay US ofA at Large Pageant which will also be held also in Indianapolis October 6-8 of this year. 3-he Mr Gay US ofA Contest will be held this upcoming August 25 at the Copa. For information about that contest e-mail Mr.Calcote at calcojack36@yahoo com. N 07;0"1.2010 E-.~ail- KylesBrd3@aol.eom Chuck Breckenridge Whcthcr buying or sclling I’lI work hard fi~r you. Private Me=~s Reso~ 597 Magnetic Road Eureka Springs, Arkansas www.magneticvalleyresprt.com info@magneticvalleyresort.com 800-210-8401 479-244-682:1 Abutting Downtown, ::Bars, Clubs, Baseball, BOK Center, Tulsa Gay Cente,: Affi3rdable Homes amd Aparmaeuts. For more L.~fo~ation visit: www.gaybradyheightsmlsa.com English Garden Paradise with Private Tree Top Balcony 6365 S. 84th E. Ave., Tulsa web site with full information www.Tulsa4Bedroom.com With outer planets hanging out near the cusps, Mercury entering Leo and Venus into Virgo kick off a lot of issues. Being cute, outspoken and constructively cdticat (let’s hope!) wilt have broad ramifications. Modesty, compassion and forethought are atways good to check before speaking. ARIES (Narch 20- Apri~ 19): Playful banter can help stimulate a better work environment, but not [oo playful lest your intentions are misunderstood. Spontaneous provocation has its place, but strategic consulting with colleagues will probably prove more effective. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - Nay 20): Your new playful streak could come off as critical and bitchy. Sometimes a Bette Davis impression just can’t make it right. One should never let go of the Golden Rule - but’cha are, Blanche! Well, you easily could. Be extra mindful and considerate! GEN~N! {Nay 21- June 20): You have a lot to say and it feels very important to you. Your family and boss may disagree. Look for a new perspective and tweak your message a bit. Listen to friends with radical, challenging suggestions. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Even if changing jobs seems risky these days, con sider taking the chance. Staying where you are could be worse. Any current dissatisfaction with your job invites self-sabotage. Seek advice from a friend experienced in the work you want to do. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): However you identify with your words, some separation is good. Your partner can help open you up to powerful new ideas. Look past long-held notions to your most basic values; it’s better to take in those fresh notion s. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Step out of the social whid for a bit. Focus on taking care of yourself inside and out. A new look should honor your age, not hide it. Knowing your limits can help you zero in on your strengths. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Conflicted about social opportunities? You may be better off in quiet retreat with fewer, better friends. Favor the more productive and creative ones. Save time and energy for your partner, even if you don’t have one - yet. SCORPIO (October 23- November 21): Balancing friendly conversations with the boss, and maintaining friendships with colleagues, and could get you a huge promotion. Never forget where you came from and that going up the ladder helps you to pull others up after. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Showing off newfound wisdom could quickly force you to admit to the limits of your recent learning. Instead, ask thoughtful questions of a real expert. Don’t be shy! An outr4 creative approach could spark new directions and insights for both of you. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Sex seems to be shifting from practice to theory. That’s OK, especially if you consider deeply what it’s all about. Old messages on the topic take sudden relevance. Tapes to erase? Valuable but forgotten lessons? You could be surprised. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Your sex life should be picking up pretty well. What does your partner say about that? A discussion on the topic is at least in order. People do change and grow. Even if everything is hunky-dory, it’s good to talk. PISCES (February 19 - March t9): Being playful is important, but for now focus more on the actual work and responsibility of your relationship, real or hypothetical. When you feel uncertain and use your partner for grounding that may be unfair to him or her. Community for People living with H V/A DS 50I c (3) Non ! rofit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to hel p combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. 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Going with it all this year are the Pride Banners of Cimarron ~Nliance, which will fly fi’om Oldahoma City lampposts of Classen Boulevard fi’om June 8 to July 8 to highlight the festivities. It all begins with a Block Party Friday June 25 on the N.W. 39th Street Strip (beginning at NT~ 39th Street & Pennsylvania Avenue), this time beginning at 8 a.m. and lasting until 4 p.m. The Festival itself will take place again this year in Memorial Park, located at N.W. 36th & Classen Boulevard, opening on Saturday June 26 at 10 a.m. and dosing at 10 p.m. It will reopen the next day on Sunday June 27 at 10 a.m., closing down at 3 p.m. as the Parade lineup begins. N~e festival will feature a varietT of live entertainment, events, vendors, and informational booths. The Pride Parade will step off that Sunday at 5 p.m. at Memorial Park, concluding with the Grand Finale over the Hill past Peunsylvania through the N.W. 39th Street Strip. For 2010 this event was renamed the Paul Thompson Memorial OKC Pride Parade to honor his memory as one of Oklalaoma’s most renowned activists for GLBT equality and human rights in general. Mr.~-hompson had also served for many years as the Male Co-Chair ofOKC Pride, and had passed away March 4 of this year. The Festival and Parade commemorates Gay Pride Week, which marks the Stonewall Riots of 1969. Itwas June 28 of that year when patrons of the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar in New York City, fought baek against the police after enduring endless harassment. This was an event unprecedented in American history where the police were forced to barricade themselves in the very bar they came to raid, and the rioting that followed changed America forever. Straight people were forced to deal with a gay community that would no longer accept discrimination, and the GLBT community was awakened to ........Continued See OKC PRIDE Page-8 Rev Lavanhar took long path to Tulsa Pride Grand Marshal By Michael W. Sasser Contributing gZriter Reverend Marlin Lavanba~ Pressphoto TULSA, OK__ Although Reverend Marlin Lavanhar was surprised and honored to be named Grand Marshal ofJune’s Tulsa Pride Parade and Festival, he has his sights set beyond on a larger objective. "For me it will be especially worthwhile if the role allows me the platform to speak on for the inclusion of all people, regardless of orientation," said Lavanhar, senior pastor at All Souls Unitarian Church in Tulsa. Lavanhar has been a high-profile advocate for the GLBT community in a state notably light on supporters from the clergy for many years. He has been a tireless supporter of the local community during his 10 years at All Souls and has made the inclusion of the GLBT world key to his ministry. "I realized early on that this wotdd be the major civil rights issue over tl~e era of my ministry," Lavanhar said. Stil!, l,avanhar’s most recent high profile effort was a rislo! one even for a clergyman with a long history of championing human rights. Just months ago, Lavanhar accepted an invitation to speak at a conference in Uganda that was a rallying point against efforts by that African nation to approve capital punishment as the sentence for homosexuality. "We have a sister church in Uganda and my colleague there was the conference organizer," Lavanhar said. "The purpose is to build grassroots resistance to the anti-GLBT bil!. They asked me to speak. Honestly I had to think about it." There was real danger for the conference organizers and those who attended. ........Continued See LAVANHAR Page-8 : A LBT Comm ity Center opens in Enid; Oklahoma! 773e Cenmr Enid, Oklahoma. Gorin photo On Saturday April 24 the Center held their first Stand Awards Ceremony ~br various Oldahoma groups and individuals who have advanced the cause ofGLBT equality. Among them was Pastor J,E Wickey’(pa~tor of Crosswalk United Church of Christ), the M~t~ ~{~r ( m~dia represent~ti0n ~fthe year)Victor Gorin (journalist oi~ the year) and ,p,oetess Lisa Herald for her verses entitled "Sally Sally Ket~ which was a bittersweet lament to that Oklahoma legislator (to see her read it ~on youtube, type in Lisa Herald Sally KemP. As an endorsement from beyond, the sky featured a double rainbow as the ceremonies began. rl~e Center is almost totally funded by loCal gay and gay friendly indiViduals and organizations,, arid is appropriately decorated with gay[icons tl~roughout history. Exi~ansion plans are already being discussed, including possibly a homeless shelter. Everyone and their talents are welcomed, so for more information contact 800-878 5298. Hate Crime victim leaves State By Michael x~ Sasser Contributing writer TULSA, OK A young gay man who was beaten and ENID. OK The town of Enid, Oklahoma lies 70 robbed in Claremore and then claimed to have been further miles north of Oklahoma City, is the county seat of Ga~eld victimized in the subsequent weeks, has left Oklahoma for County and thehome ofVance Air Force Base. Founded in another state. 1893. Enid has been nicknamed Queen Wheat City because it has the third largest grain storage capacity in the world. ~I~aeir high school football team. the Enid Plainsmen, has a longstanding powerful reputation, and the city at present hasn’t a single gay bar. Yet amid this setting of Conservatism, a gay scene has "I just didn’t feel safe anymore," said Phillip Nelson; 24. "I didn’t feel safe leaving my home. Things are better noxv." Nelsons story captured local hgadlmes m M~rch when he was assaulted outside his’Clm~em0re apartment by several unknown assailants, and when his apartment was broken into and vandalized. Prior to the more violent incidents, Nelson Representative - Dis ric 88 Oklahoma Ci,y Paid for by Committee to. Re’-Elect AI McAffrey 2010, P.O. Box 60668, OKC 73148. Recognizing ~he need fbr a welcoming place for the various At 77~e Center: TJ Re),nolds, Nate Bowen, Bill), Igalke~ Brandon Bidtve~!, Brandon Ratclifl;" Brandon Lopez, Lisa Heral~ Gorin ohoao ~5cets ofEnid’s GLBT community, members of the local P-Flag chapter discovered a vacant site at ! 319 S. Van Buren. v~qth the group’s determination and a willing landlord, it xvas leased Mar& !0 and plans went full speed ahead to make it alt happen. ~,lready several support groups meet at the Center including no~ only Enid’s P-Flag but alsoa youth group, a ~ransgender support group, a group for bisexuals, and one ~or GLBT parents and &ildren. CoUnseling services are also cond ucred tixere, with plans for a legal clinic, employmen~ assistance, and health services including HIV testing. It’s aires@ a place where GLBT and friendly groups can distribute their literature, and it i)atures a lot more than just serious activity. Friday nights are dedicated to social activities such as dances, open mic nights, & karaoke. Social clubs meet there that are too numerous to mention that include a chess club, a book club, a gardening club, etc to give some perspecrive. "There is something not right there," Nelson said. "They’re not there to protect people from hate crimes. They are iust there to hide it under the carpet and to wait fbr it to go awa3~" Nelson said he finds it most curious that there has been no progress on the Claremore case because he was able to provide an obvious, distinct clue as to the identity of one of his attackers. N~ings did not improve for Nelson after the story broke. N~e former Rogers State University student found himself the target of verbal abuse and hostility in school and around his apartment complex. Less than a month after the attack in Ctaremore, Nelson said that he and a female friend were assaulted in a Tulsa karaoke bar. "A bunch of bikers got very- aggressive and hostile ~vith us," Nelson said. He said that he believed that the ,alleged harassers recognized him from television news reports and that they hurled antiagay epithets at he and his friend. "\Ve’d been in there before and it wasn’t a problem," Nelson said. This time, Nelson said, it was a problem. He claims that he and his friend "barely escaped" when the bar management sided with the aggressors and Nelson and his friend were instructed to leave. Nelson said Tulsa Police would not respond to his calls. He said they did initially respond to his friend’s calls, but he was not sure if anything ever came of it. His friend Could not be reached for comment. rrhe final straw for Nelson was when management asked him to vacate his apartment iust weeks ago. Nelson believes he was asked to leave because of his orientation and said that management representatives had previously made anti-gay comments to him. slide." Toby Jenkins, President of Oklahomans for Equality, said that everyone xvho comes forward after an assault is a hero and that he understands Nelson’s frustration with Claremore Police. "We admire his tenacity in staying after police to be vigilant," Jenkins said; "All crime victims have to stay after police." Nelson said he does not lmo,v if his move is permanent. Interfaith Pride Memorial Service Planned By Victor Gorin Contributing Writer OIC&&HOMA CITY, OK __ Plans are underway for a community wide service ofremembrance on tl~e evening of Wednesday, June 16 at 7 p.m., right in the middle of GLBT Pride Month. This service will be held at Epworth United Methodist Church, located ar 1901 N. Douglas Avenue in Oklahoma City. The purpose of the service is to provide comfort ro those experiencing grief, and to celebrate those who have touched our lives, promising to be an uplifting occasion for everyone who attends. If you have lost a loved one--partner, relative, or friend in the past year and want them remembered in this memorial service, please e-mail their name to scott@cimarronalliance. org. www.metrostarnews.com Bigger and better as cdebrates 25 years Grand Marshalls; fonnding members ofOGRA By By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer OKLAHOMA CIT~; OK __ As OGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) codirectors, Klint Wieden and Paul Boyd have had a busy year. Taking the responsibility on to produce this annual event means planning and implementing the entire event; taking care setting the dates, securing the venue, contracts, scheduling, securing sponsors, appointing committees and so much more. After all this work, the culmination of their efforts are enjoyed when they direct the rodeo itself during the entire weekend of the event, which is each Memorial Day weekend at the State Fairgrounds (Barn 8). "Our goals for this year, our 25th Anniversary Great Plains Rodeo is to make it a memorable event ~vhile commemorating our founding members and board," said Wieden. "We want to increase both contest participation as well as spectator attendance. We have planned more entertainment during rodeo weekend, more parties, and more things leading up to the rodeo." Mmualty OGRA is held in Oklahoma City over the Memorial Day holiday, May 28- 30 for 20!0. Here is the lineup of events; Thursday, May 27th, 6-8pro VIP Reception pool side at ~e Habana Inn for all of our rodeo sponsors and officials. After that, The Finishline will be hosting a stick horse rodeo with plenty of events using stick horses. A stick horse decorating contest ~vill be on display during rodeo registration and then all day Saturday at the OGRA booth at the rodeo-$1 per vote for the best decorated stick horse with the proceeds going to charity. Friday, May 28, 10am Board of Directors Meeting; from 6pm - 9pm is Rodeo Registration for contestants at the fairgrounds, Barn #9 in the vendor area. 7pm - OGP,~k Royalty Team will be hosting "A Night of Royalty Nikki & Mark" entertainment during registration, at the Fairgrounds, Barn #8.10pm - OGRA Royalty Team will be hosting "A Night of Royalty Nikki & Mark" at PhoenLx Rising. Saturday, May 29th, 8am Rodeo begins with Calf Roping on Foot, Steer Deco, Break Away Roping, Team Roping, Steer Riding, Pole Bending. At high-noon is the Grand EntD" witb~Bronc Riding, Chute Dogging, Goat Dressing, Barrel Racing, Flag Race, Wild Drag Race, Bull Riding and the Rodeo will finish up around 5pm. Texas Gay Rodeo Association will be hosting the Texas Tea Party at the Copa with entertainment and drink specials that evening. OGP,ak and Angles will be hosting a LIVE concert performance at Angles from 9pro til! who knows when! Live vocal performers are lined up featuring James Allen Clark, a new Nashville recording artist, along vdth several popular 16cal performers. Winners of the Stick Horse Decorating Contest and then auction offthe stick horses to the highest bidder to help raise more money for charity. ~ Sunday, May 30th; OGRA day 2 begins with, Calf Roping on Foot, Steer Deco, Break Away Roping, Team Roping, Steer Riding, Pole Bending, and high-noon again brings the Grand Entry with more Bronc Riding, Chute Dogging, Goat Dressing, Barrel Racing, Flag Race, Wild Drag Race & Bull Riding. At 5pm the Rodeo wraps up and we move to the Finish line for a BBQ Dinner put on by Head Country BB% and at 7pro, the Rodeo Awards CeremoW at the Copa where they ~vill be awardingbucldes, saddles and cash prizes to all of the winners of the Rodeo. Monday, May 31st at noon will be a Rodeo Wind-Down Party at Phoenix Rising where the), will be serving hamburgers and hotdogs along with drink specials, relaxing and recounting all of the fun times of the weekend. This year’ charity partners are Other Options/Friends Food Pantry, Be The Change, and Expressions Community Service. "Several months prior to our rodeo, ’ usually in November we request letters from qualifi/ing 501 (c)3 non-profit charities stating vchy they want to be considered as one of our charity partners," adds Wieden. "Then, as a group, we discuss each organization and look at their merits and what they do for the community. We consider their financials and the services they offer to our community, and then vote on the ones we want to support." The amount donated to these charities varies each year based on participation, events and overall donations. "I just want to stress what a vital service we provide for people in our community to participate in a sport that they enjoy (rodeo) while at the same time giving back to our community in volunteer services as well as financially," concludes Wieden. "Our local charities that we support rely heavily on donations from our local community and we provide that link through a fun event such as rodeo. We also help provide a positive outlook to our city, and state as well by our conduct and actions, hdping the gay community at large to be more accepted by everyday citizens." The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (OGRA) is a nonprofit organization and member of the International Gay Rodeo Association, Inc. (IGRA) which is comprised of 28 state/provincial associations throughout the United States and Canada. OGRA is proud to be the first association seated at the first ever IGRA Convention in 1985 For more information check out the OGRA website at www.ogra.net Feast to Gain Funds for HIV/AIDS TULSA, OK__Tulsa CARgS, a 50!(c)3 nonprofit organization is planning its first "Feast with Friends®" fundraiser for Saturday, July 24. "Feast with Friends°" is an at-home fundraiser where individuals and groups host dinner parties in their homes, workplaces and faith communities on Saturday evening, July 24. In exchange, their guests make a donation to Tulsa CARES whose mission is "Delivering social services to people affected by HIV/ MDS" in northeastern Oklahoma. After dinner, all hosts and their guests are invited to the fabulous "Dessert Extravaganza" from 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. at the Central Community Center, 1028 E. Sixth St. Non-alcoholic beverages and dessert are provided to guests. ~ose not attending a dinner may participate in the dessert event for a $10 donation at the door. Tulsa CARES’ Executive Director, Sharon Thoele hopes Feast with Friends ’\vill hdp us bring to light the fact that the AIDS epidemic is far from over, and ~ve need everyone’s help to meet the enormous need that exists in our community." "Old friends, ne~v friends, everyone and anyone who wishes to support Tulsa CARES is invited to participate in this event - it’s fun and it’s a great excuse to gather with your favorite people and help out a worthwhile cause all at the same time," Thoelesaid. "Tulsa CARES will use the proceeds to support our programs as we assist people who are living with this disease." In-kind sponsors for the event are: Hla’s Dell, QuikTrip, Tulsa Parks and Starbucks Coffee Compan3a For more information about hosting a party or about the dessert event, contact Ally McGinnis, Tulsa CARES resource development coordinator by calling 834-4194 or by e-mail, allym@tulsacares.org. Founded in !991, Tulsa CARES, a United Way Member Agency, delivers services to low-income people living with HIV/ AIDS. Services include case management by professional social workers, access to physicians and prescription assistance, counseling services, housing assistance, a food pantry with access to our registered dietician, and many other forms of support. Tulsa CARES’ mission is "Delivering social services to people affected by HIV/AIDS." For more information about Tulsa CARES, visit ww~v. tulsacares.org. Tulsa couple marry in By Staff Editors TULSA, OK__ Erin Taylor McClanahan and Scott Andre Harper were married on Friday, May 7th at the Polk County Courthouse in Des Moines, Iowa at 10:30 AM. The Honorable Judge Robert Hanson performed the ceremony. Witnesses were Linda and Jamie Harper, brother and sister- Erin McClanahan and Scott Harper at their wed~ing reception May 8, 2010 at the Bamboo Lounge ~dsa. Stajfphoto in-law to Scott. The happy couple left Tulsa on May 6 and made a rest stop in Osceola at a casino called Terribles. Following the nuptials on Friday, they were offto Kansas City were they spent their wedding night at Harrah’s Hotel Casino. Then they went back to Tulsa for a rousing reception at the Bamboo Lounge. The beautifully planned reception including the wedding cake, champagne, flowers and all the trimmings was organized by Philip Simmons and Tammy Randell. It was a family affair with Scott’s mother Evelyn, his brother and sister-in-law, Erin’s sister Kristen and over 100 friends there to congratulate and wish the couple a long and happy marriage. Although Erin and Scott’s Iowa marriage is not legal in the State of Oldahoma, same sex marriages are legal in five states, Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont, and Washington, D.C. Three states recognize same sex marriage, New York, Rhode Island, and Maryland. Couples must first apply for a license to marry in Iowa. You can download an application at www.polkrecorde,:com/ marriages.htm or call 515-286-3160 in Des Moines to request the documen~ be mailed to you. Instructional handouts are available from county officials, who also serve as County Recorders in county courthouses. No matter who are on life’s jourm Reeerend Ur. Kathy 3131 N. Pennsylvania,Oklah0 405.525.9555 4 June 1, 2010 Obama selects Supreme Court nominee The Human Rights Campaign "hailed" President Barack Obama’s May 10 selection of U.S. Solicitor General Elena Kagan as his nominee to replace retiring Justice John Paul Ste,,v.ens on the U.S. Supreme Court. We are confident that Elena Kagan has a demonstrated understanding and cormnitment to protecting the liberty and equality of all kanericans, including LGBT Americans," said HRC President Joe Solmonese. Gay cases that could come before the court in the near future include the Proposition 8 federal case by famed lawyers David Boles and Ted Olson and other same-sex marriage cases, challenges to the anti-gay federal Defense of Marriage Act andto the military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell ban on gays who do not stay in the closet, and cases targeting the new federal hate-crimes law that is inclusive of sexual orientation. .As dean of Harvard Law School, ~C~gan opposed the Solomon Amendment, a 1996 federal law that allows the secretary of defense to deny federal grants -- including rmearch grants -- to universities and colleges that prohibit military recruiting on campfis. Some schools banned military recruiters because Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell amounts to employment discrimination based on sexual orientation, which violates the schools’ policies. At Harvard, Kagan partially blocked the recruiters in 2004 a~er a federal court struck dmvn the Solomon Amendment, then unblocked them after the U.S. Supreme Court upheld tt~e amendment in 2005. "~Ihis action (the arrival of military r~cruiters on campus) causes me deep distress," Kagan wrote in October 2003. "I abhor the military’s discriminatory recruitment policy. (It is) a profound wrong -- a moral injustice Of the first order." HRC’s Solmonese said, ’Sg[e applaud Elena Kagan’s vocal opposition to the Solomon Amendment andthe discriminatory Don’t Ask, Dofft Tell law." In April, CBSNews.com mistakenly called Kagan "openlygay" and, in,,an addendum to that post, also called her apparently still closeted." ~e network later deleted the column because of its "irresponsible speculation." The ~gashington Post reported April 16 that an unnamed Obama administration oi~cial said "ICxgan is not a lesbian." On May 13, Politico.corn reported that it had talked to some of Kagan’s friends and they confirmed that she is "not gay." Richard Socarides, former President Bill Clinton’s gay White House special assistant, told CNN on May 10 that Kagan is "a brilliant, pragmatic progressive xvho is intent on hearing all sides to fashion a solution that works for the most amount of people." California Assembly calls £or DADT repeal The California Assernbly passed a resolution 51-17 on May 13 urging repeal of the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell ban on open gays in the military. The measure asps Congress to pass, and President Barack Obama to sign, the Military Readiness Enhancement Act of 2009, which Wockner News Service would dear the way for LGB service members to come out of the closet. "\Ve are proud of our state’s leadership for championing fairness and equality in the military," said Equality California Executive Director Geoff Kors. EQCA said Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell has led to the discharge ofsome t3,500 service members, including some 800 specialists serving in critical operations. More than 300 language specialists have been discharged under the policy, "resulting in a critical shortage of qualified translators in intelligence-gathering posts," the group said. The California resolution now goes to the state Senate, which had passed it last year, for a concurrence vote. Christian right leader went to Europe with ’rentboy’ Prop 8 £ederal trial likely to conclude in June ~giiami New 7~mes’photo ofanti-gay activist George Rekers and a rentboycom escort returning together to _Miami International Ai,portfi’om a European vacation. Proposition8 is likely tofinal~ wr~p up in U.S. Dist~ct Court in San ]~)ancisco on June i~ ~d Olson, left; and David Boles are lead counsel~r the gay side. Phow @ z~’x ~ckner The trial in the federal lawsuit against Proposition 8is likely to finally xvrap up in U.S. District Court in San Francisco on June 16, when Judge Vaughn \Valker has tentatively scheduled closing arguments. ~ae trial has been paused since testimony concluded on Jan. 27 because Walker said he wanted to study the record before hearing the attorneys’ final statements. ~lhe hiatus dragged on longer than expected because of sldrmishes between the anti-samesex- marriage side and the gay groups that ran the campaign against Prop 8, who are not parties to the case. The same-sex-marriage opponents demanded that Equality California and the American Civil Liberties Union produce various documents and e-mails from the campaign period. EQ~A and the ACLU fought the demand at length before relenting on April 27. Lawyers for the two groups said they turned over 4,500 documents and "thousands of e-mails" that seemed to fal! within the purvie~v of an order Walker had issued. The opponents also are attempting to strike from the trial record some of the testimony of one of their defendant-intervenors, Hak- Shing William Tam. Walker told the antisame- sex-marriage side to submit its motion by May 6 and told the gay" side to respond to it by May 10. Appearing on the wimess stand Jan. 21, Tam said: "I believe that if the term ’rnarriage’ .....Continued see PROP 8 - page 6 www.metrostarnews.com ~IET~OSTAR 5 George Alan Rekers, who co-founded the anti-gay Fatally Research Council, was photographed at Miami International Airport On April 13 returning from a European vacation xvith a male escort who says the two met via rentboy.com, Miami New Times reported May 4. The escort, who has been called "Lucien," "Geo" and "Jo-vanni" in news reports, also told various media outlets that he gave Rekers daily massages in the nude during the trip,. which included genital tonching. Lucien showed CNN a travel contract between the two men that mandated daily hourlong massages, and told the network that Rekers "basically got excited" during the massage sessions. Rekers, 61, has used his professorgeorge. com website and other online resources to fight back against the "slanderous" reports, saying he’s not gay and that nothing "illegal or sexual" took place during his trip with Lucien, 20. Rekers told multiple media . outlets that he will acquire or has acquired a lawyer and may or will sue for "defamation." "I have been advised to retain the services of a defamation attorney in this matter, because the fact is that I am.not gay and never have been," he told the Washington Post on May 6. On his website, Rekers wrote: "A recent article in an alternative newspaper cleverly gave false impressions of inappropriate behavior because of its misleading innuendo, incorrectly implying that Professor George Rekers used the Rentboy website to hire a prostitute to accompany him on a recent trip. Contrary to Internet stories based on this slanderous article, fo!lowing medical advice Professor George Rekers requires an assistant to lift his luggage in his travels becanse of an ongoing condition following surger): ... Dr. Rekers found his recent travel assistant by interviewing different people who might be able to’help, and did not even find out about his travd assistants Internet advertisements offering prostitution activity until after the trip was in progress. ~ere was nothing inappropriate with this relationship. Professor .....Continued see RENT BOY - page 6 Pelosi promises votes on both DADT and ENDA this year By Lisa Keen Keen News Service House ’Speaker Nancy Pelosi reassured representatives of several LGBT organizations this week that the Employment Non- Discrimination Act (ENDA) and a measure to repeal Dofft Ask Don’t Tell (DADT) will get votes this year. Pelosi made her comments in an hour-long telephone conference call with representatives of six LGBT groups on Monday. One of those representatives, Kate Kendell, executive director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), said Pelosi, "in no uncertain terms, without any equivocation or evasion, stated several times that ENDA was her priority and that it would move in this Congress --and there was no question." Concern that ENDA might not get a vote this Congress has been intensifying for the past several weeks, as the number of voting days in the House dwindles during the last months of the 111 th Congress. Some activists said the 2 I8 votes to pass the bill are there but that the House !eadership had not scheduled the bill for a vote. And many were alarmed that the momentum to pass a measure to repeal DADT rnay have been seriously hobbled by missives from Defiense Secretary Robert Gates and the Vc~nite House year, on how repeal could be implemented. But Kendell and others said Pelosi committed to passing ENDA and repealing DADT this year. "St~e seems absolutely committed to getting that done," said Mara Keisling, executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equali*T. Keisling, who has been a key organizer of support for this term’s ENDA, which includes a prohibition of"gender identitT" discrimination, was another one of the participants in Monday’s conference call. Keisling, who said the phone call took place at about 1:30 p.m. eastern time, noted that Pelosi talked about there being a "limited amount of time" and many other things that have to happen on the House floor before the end of this session. "While Pelosi "did not commit to a specific datg’ for a vote on ENDA, said Keisling, she lea the impression it could move in committee as early as this week. And Kendell said Pelosi reassured the group leaders that, while a measure to repeal DADT may move first, "she stated in no uncertain terms that ENDA is moving and it will move under her watch and it will move in this Congress." DADT could coine up as early as next ~nursday, when the House begins consideration of an annual bill on Defense spending. Pelosi spokesman Drew Hammill confirmed the call took place and said that, in addition to Kendell and Keisling, the participants included several Pelosi staff members, Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign; Geoff Kors of Equality California; Toni Broaddus, executive director of the national Equality Federation; and Masen Davis, executive director of the Transgender Law Center, a California legal group. HRC spokesman Fred Sainz said Solmonese was traveling Tuesday and could not return a reporter’s call, but Sainz, too, confirmed that Pelosi made a commitment to vote on both ENDA and DADT repeal. He noted this was the first time the Speaker had had a conference call specifically xvith representatives of LGBT organizations on this issue. Broaddus of the Equality Federation said Pelosi "didn’t give us any dates" but "assured us both bills are moving and that she’s very committed to getting them through." Several participants in the phone call said Pelosi expressed concern about the likelihood that Republicans will exercise their option, as the minority party, to ask for a vote on a "motion to recommit" "the bill to committee. Such motions, which Republicans have used recently ~to thwart Democratic legislation, can force votes on whether to send a bill back to committee with instructions to either kill or amend it. The amendments proposed on recent legislation have been designed to both delete essential language from the underlying bill and propose language that could cause embarrassment for any legislator to oppose. Such was the case last on a bill to create more jobs. The raotion to recommit sought to insert language to prohibit paying any federal employee "officially disciplined for violations regarding the viewing, downloading, or exchanging of pornography, including child pornograph> 6n ~ federai~mpute~ or whil~ ~erf0rmin~ official government duties." Democratic leaders pulled the jobs bill when they saw that a sufficient number of Democrats were voting for the motion to recommit. "I’m sure they’ll tiT that with ENDA," said Keisling, "but they’re going to try that with every bill that comes along frorn now on." So, supporters ofENDA and the DADT repeal must ensure they have 2 ! 8 votes in the House, not only to pass each measure but also to defeat any such hostile motion to recolnmit. A spokesman for Rep. Barney Frank (DvMass.), who introduced ENDA, said last week that Frank was urging LGBT activists to continue and step up the lobby effort to secure those votes. Frank was not available for comment Tuesday, and Rep. Tammy Baldwin’s office did not respond to a request for comment. But several participants in Monday’s phone call said Pe!osi assured them she has "no intention of losing either" ENDA or DADT repeal. Keisling and others said Pelosi was "very clear" that one of the bills -but not both-- would see action before Memorial Day. The House is slated to take up its annual bill on Defense funding on Thursday and Friday, May 27 and 28. Frank and others have said that DADT repeal, like the hate crimes measure that passed last yea,; would come up during consideration of the DOD - authorization bill. Activists held a rally outside the Speaker’s office in San Francisco and a press conference in Washin~on, D.C., on Tuesday to keep the pressure on for a vote. At the National Press Club press conference, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey said LGBT activists are "at the end of our patience." "We have done our work," saidCarey. "We have provided the numbers and the stories; and we have endured as we\’e watched thousands of LGBT workers lose their foothold in a struggling economy-- not because of downsizing, or poor performance or closed businesses but -- because of prejudice .... "So today, Congress must step up to its responsibility, to fully accept its charge to serve its constituents," said Carey. "To step up to its moral obligation to preserve the integrity of the very fabric of our nation by providing an accessible workplace to all Americans- regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity." Noting that activists have been trying for 36 years to pass some form of federal protection against discrimination against gay workers, Carey demanded Congress pass the bill "without delay." Rekers was not involved in any illegal or sexual behavior with his travel assistant." As the story unfolded, Lucien learned of Rekers’ history of anti-gay activism and then decided to tell media outlets about the trip’s alleged sexual component. "It’s a situation where he’s going against homosexuality when he is a homosexual," Lucien told New Times. Gay activist XX~ayne Besen, whose Truth \Vins Out group battles the anti-gay movement, told New Times that Rekers’ "fingerprints are on almost every anti-gay effort to demean and dehumanize LGBT people." "His work is ubiquitously cited by lobby groups that work to deny equality to LGBT Americans," Besen said. "Rekers has caused a great deal of harm to gay and lesbian individuals." Reports said Rekers also is a member of the board of the anti-gay National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality. He also recently was paid tens of thousands of dollars by the state of Florida to be an expert witness against gay adoption. Florida is the only state that bans gay people from adopting across the board. After Rekers testified in that case, Miami- Dade County Circuit Judge Cindy Lederman wrote: "Dr. Rekers’ beliefs are motivated by his strong ideological and theological convictions that are not consistent with the science. Based on his testimony and demeanor at trial, the court cannot consider his testimony to be credible a0r worthy of forming the basis of public policy." Lucien told The Miami Herald he became an escort to pay for college, but that he might have to drop out now. He said Rekers paid him $75 per day during the trip, which is less than the $300-$500 he would have charged for sex. He told CNN there Was no sexual contact other than the massages. In a message to the Joe.My.God. blog, Rekers said no one should be surprised he was found in the company of a male escort. "Like Jesus Christ, I deliberately spend time with sinners with the loving goal to try to help them," Rekers wrote. "Like John the Baptist and Jesus, I have a loving Christian ministry to homosexuals and prostitutes in which I share the Good News of Jesus Christ with them.... If you talk with my trave! assistant that the story called ’Lucien,’ you will find I spent a great deal of time sharing scientific information on the desirability of abandoning homosexual intercourse, and I shared the Gospel ofJesus Christ with him in great detail." Not everyone in the media bought that explanation. "Here’s the basic idea about cases like this," MSNBC’s IL-tchel Maddow said May 7. "N~e miserable denial and lying in your own sex lives is your mvn miserable, in-denial, lying business -- unless you make it the whole country’s business by crusading against the thing that is true about yourself that you hate so much. Being gay cannot be cured. Being a contemptible, pathetic hypocrite can be cured.... Congratulations, you?ve made the ne~,vs." can be used beyond one man and one woman, then any two person of any age or of any relationships can use the same argument and colne and ask for the term ’marriage.’ That would lead to incest. That would lead to polygamy." Tam said he had learned "in the Internet" that af,er the Netherlands legalized same-sex marriage in 2001, it went on to legalize incest and polygamy. ~ "Another person in the organization found it and he showed me that," Tam said. "I look at the document and I think that was true." ~e gay side is represented by famous lawyers Ted Olson and David Bole), who attempted to prove that Prop 8 violates the U.S. Constitutiol~’s guarantees of due process and equal protection under the law. Mindfu! of severa! precise legal considerations or constructs, they tried to show" that there’s no coherent reason for the government to ban same-sex marriage, that Prop 8 passed primarily because California voters are prejudiced, that gays and lesbians need government help to fight the discrimination and persecution that continue to harm them, that being gay is usually not a choice and sexual orientation is usually immutable, that gay couples’ children fare as well as straight couples’ children, and that so-called traditional marriage has undergone transformations throughout history. Passed by voters in November 2008, Prop 8 amended the California Constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage just 4 1/2 months after the state Suprelne Court legalized it. Olson and Boies’ lawsuit is ultimately aimeO at the U.S. Supreme Court, where it could end up as soon as next year, af,er a stop at the 9th U.S. Circuit Court ofAppeals. If successful, the lawsuit could bring about the legalization of same-sex marriage nationwide. If unsuccessful, it could have the effect of stopping the movement for same-sex marriage -- which now is legal in five states and~ Washington, D.C. -- dead in its tracks for possibly a generation. The suit is without doubt a high-stakes gamble, so much so that the gay rights legal establishment initially opposed it and was, as a result, blocked by Olson and Boles from intervening once it became clear the case was going to happen and was going to be a big deal. June 1,2010 Sooner State SoAball Association Games promise an exciting S~mer Contributing "~;qiter Oklahoma Chaos Team ofOklahoma City. Godn photo pu fhe °’ Sunday Services @ 11:00 AN CC United 918-8~8-171~ A Metropolitan CommuNb/Church WWWom~et~saoorg Ot~J_~!OMA CITY, OK __ Sunday May 9 proved to be a beautiful spring day for the Sooner State Softball Association ~raes as they competed at Edmond’s Bickham Field. Currently comprised of 16 teams, the alliance provide~ a great opportunity to play ball for serious or recreational softball players of the GLBT community in the Oldahoma City are~. The.Association has joined the North Lm=bda Leag~e &~mmer TULSA, OK (PR) __ Lambda League Summer Bowling Started May t7th and goes tlwoug}~ August %h. Games are each Monday 7pro at Andy B~ Riverlm~es, 871 ! South Lewis ~Asa. No gaflae on Memorial Day. %e Summer league is open to anyone. ~t’s a great way to make ftiends and have fun. Cost is $14.00 each Monday and a one time summer league membership fee of $20.00 For more information call 918-637-0889; or emaiI: bubuinok@yahoo.com or beads4me@ cox.net. Openarms Youth Center Hosts Prom, Las Vegas By Judy Gabbard Contributing xg~’riter TULSA, OK__ April 24, 20!0, Openarms ~k>uth Project hosted another successful Prom Night. ~e theme was Las V%as S@e. Tim GilIean and Ken Drape1; once again achieved a successful night of food, dance and entertainment riot area GLBT youth. Approximately 80 yom-h were in a~tendance, dressed in their own unique finer> Parents and volunteers attended as chaperones. ~ae highlight of every prom is to cast American Gay Amateur Athletic Association. Tulsais in the process of forming a league as well, although a competition planned between the two cities, the Turnpike Challenge scheduled for May 15, was rained out. For more information or game schedules check out soonerstatesoftball. com. or contact Recruitment Director Chad Previ& at soonerstatesoftbalt@hotmail,Com. Brenda "Grandma" Bolen and Kim Whisenhunt. Judy G. Photo votes and to crown the annual Prom King and Queen. Openarms selected Royaltywas beyond special. The 2010 Prom King is Kim Whisenhunt and Prom Queen Brenda Bolen. Brenda Bolen is the oldest volunteer at Openarms Youth Centre: Brenda is a youthful and loving individual who reaches out to evewone who comes to the center and is repectfully called "Grandma". King Kim ~/hisenhunt brings class to the King Crown, and is highly respected by her peers. Openarms Youth Center operates on private donations, and is located at 2015- B S. Lakewood in ~alsa, OK. For more information or for donations contact Tim or Ken, 918-838-7104 ;uptcv o ~iVil Rights °Criminal ’ment o Family Law o Litigation 625 N.W. lSth Street Citg, OK 73103 www.metrostarnews.corn ~ETROSTAR 7: Month: By D’~mne Witkowstd Say you’ve had surgery that renders you unable to carry luggage and you’re about to go on a European vacation. What’s a person to do? Wall, if you’re Family Research Council co4Ounder and ex-gay therapy champion George R~ekers, you look no fnrther than RentBoy.com for a "travel assistant." And then you get caught at the airport with this hot young stud while pushing your own luggage cart. Whoops. ~at’s right, yet another anti-gay so-called Christian has been caught gay-handed. Rekers doesfft seem to think so, however. He’S stiddng very hard to his "travel assistant" story. According to a statement on his website, "Following medical advice (Rekers) requires an assistant to lift his luggage in his tra:zels because of an ongoing condition follovdng surgery. His family, local friends, and even another university professor colleague have offered to accompany him on trips to assist him in his travel." Wow. It looks like he had a lot of people he could have asked to accompany him on his trip, and yet he still went with the prostitute from RentBoy. Maybe his family, friends and that mysterious other university" professor don’t give good enough hand jobs. "Rekers found his recent travel assistant by intep4ewing different people who might be able to help, and did not even find out about his travel assistant’s tntemet advertisements offering prostitution activiV until after the trip was in progress," his website’s message continues. i reckon "interviewing different people" means "I looked at lots of hot naked dudes on RentBoy befi~re deciding on the one I now refer to as my "travel assistant." It~ kind of hard to believe that Rekers found out about the RentBoy profile while the two were in Europe together, unless of George course his so-called assistant said, "Oh, by the way, want to see pictures of my penis online?" Rekers claims that there "was nothing inappropriate with this relationship" and that he "was not involved in any illegal or sexual behavior with his travel assistant." He even went as far as comparing himself to Jesus and John the Baptist saying he ,vas just ministering to his sinner of a travel assistant and trying to save his soul. Needless to say, it’s all ldnd of hard to swallow. Rekers can claim all he wants that he isn’t gay has never been gay and just wants to save the real gays from their evil gay selves, but he is definitely one confused and hypocritical little man. Rekers has made a career out of demonizing LGBT folks and doing everything he can to mal(e this country less safe for anyone who isn’t heterosexual. For example, Rekers was paid real taxpayer dollars to testify for the state in favor of Florida’s anti-gay adoption ban. It’s really not a surprise that so many folks who are rabidly anti-gay have turned out to be closeted and suffering even as they fight to keep discrimination against LGBT people written in this countr)?s laws. It’s as if they’re thinking, "Gosh, this had better stay illegal otherwise I’m going to do it al! day long." You know what, Rekers? You don’t end up at RentBoy.com by accident and you sure as hell don’t hire a guy whose credentials include a "large" and "uncut" cock as a "travel assistant." I’m not a doctol; but I don’t think foreskin is usually involved in carrying a suitcase. D’Anne Witkowski has been gayforpay dnce 2003. She’s a~eelance writer andpoet (believe it:9. When she’s not l:aking on the creeps ofthe worm she reviwws rock and roll shows in Detroit with her twin sister. MOREcolor 2010 E ibi ion to Benefit OkIahomans for Equality Contours H by Laine Godsq TULSA, OK (PR) __ 33he annual MOREcolor fine art eydfibition organized by Oklahomans for Equality (Ok~q) was one of the first art shows in the state featuring contemporary, and often edgy, art work. Begun nearly 30 years ago, the show is still one of the largest of its Idnd in Oklahoma, _ offering work by more than sixty artists. MO~olor 2010 begins Thursday, May 27 with a free public opening reception from 5:00 PM to 9:00 PM at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Centre; 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, The show runs through June 5 during the Equality Center’s hours, 3:00 PM to 9:00 PM Monday through Saturday. A unique feature of the MOREcolor event is the way in which it works with artists. Zhere are two categories; an Invitational categoEr; in which established artists are explicitly invited to exhibit, and a Juried category, designed as a way for new artists to join the exhibition. An uncommon aspect of the show is that the organization gives the artist 70% of the price of sold work, compared with much lower percentages - or nothing - in other area charitable art sales and auctions. Audiences find works under some of Oldahoma’s best-loved signatures, as well as a number of exciting new works ftom names they don’t yet kmmv. "I-his year’s event features dance and musical performances at various moments during the opening on May 27~ featuring the contemporary dance team Ari&:Nina:TuMM. The exhibition is held in the Equality Center’s 3,000 square toot event center. For event information, visit vaa~w.OkEq.org. a sense of pride that could never be turned back. In June of 1999 the site became a National Historical Landmark, and reopened as a bar in 2007. That consciousness eventually reached Oklahoma, and Oklahoma City held their first Pride Parade in 1987. It was a humble beginning when about a dozen brave souls put it together not knowing if anyone would show up, and around 400 marchers actually did. Now a raajor event marking 23 years of celebration and an OkJal~oma City tradition, the celebrating is pulling together. For more information contact their ,vebsite www. okcpride.com. Homosexuality is already punishable by imprisonment and the Ugandan government shows little interest in human rights. Lavanhar, tho@, said he felt like it was a call he had to accept. "I’m 4! years old and I’ve never been called upon to go overseas to risk my life for freedom," he said. "In some ways this was that kind of call." After discussing it with his family, Lavanhar made the trip to Uganda, spoke at the conference and avoided any trouble. "It was about being an ally - using my power and privilege as an American and as a minister to try to help," I.avanhar said. "It was an amazing experience." Lavanhar said that he has never seen people living with such persecution and feat: "it was a profound experience and the people were so wonderful, so beautiful, so kind," Lavanhar said. ~ Uganda, facing international attention, has yet to pass the proposed law: Lavanhar said there has been some evidence that the government might instead pass a slightly watered down version of the legislation. The capital punishment component, for example, might be dropped to acquiesce to external pressure. But the core goal of the bill - to assail a tiny portion of the population - remains in play. Lavanhar said that the Ugandan government has scapegoated homosexuals in a t~ical effort to draw attention from its own failures elsewhere. The government has characterized in{ernal homosexuality as some sort of colonialist import from the west, and ironically lined up behind Christianity which is also a colonial import from the west to use scripture as it s battering rmn against gays. "It seems like they are waiting for international attention to die down before they vote," Lavanhm" said. Lavanhar was lauded by Oklahomans for Equality for his effort in Uganda, and subsequently named Grand Marshal for Pride 2010. "We wanted to honor this wonderfxil man, and to let people know that they had this straight minister from Oldahoma as one of only two ministers who attended the conference in Uganda," said Oklahomans for Equality President Toby Jenkins. For more information on Tulsa Pride or Oklahomans for Equality, visit mvw.okeq. org. OMahomans £or Equality celebrates 30th By Michael W. Sasser Contributing writer TULSA, OK __ Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) continues its celebration of 30 years in existence with several events throughout the summer. Future Anniversary Celebration events include a tribute concert with Eric Himan at Tulsa Pride 2010 honoring the founders of Oldahomans for Equality. On July 31st Oldahomans for Equality will host a regional summit bringing together the heartland LGBT groups for an afternoon of networking and a rdationship building party. On September 15, they will have a daylong celebration for the National LGBT Center Awareness Day and its 30th anniversary, O~q President Toby Jenkins said that the latter event should be particularly improved over previous years. "We’re in a lot better position this year," Jenkins said. "We spent the entire year building,, rdati6n~hips. Jenkins said that the goal is to have every- elected officiat in the area to at least visit the EqualitT Center for the occasion. Ot’~q has expanded and thrived despite numerous challenges in a state ~;ar behind many others when it comes to recognition of equal human rights. Otdahomans for Equality was originally a chapter of Oklahomans for Human Riglv;s, based in OKC. Founder Dennis Neill learned of OHR through his work with the ACLU. He developed a friendship with Bill Rogers, one of the [bunders ofOHR. Additional early organizers were Bob Inglish, Mike Green and Gary Durst. OHR amended their by-laws in !979 to allow for chapters and beginning in 1980 Nalsans began meeting in homes for recruitment.The first newsletter was published and the first public general meeting Was in the basement of Harwelden M~sion on Jan 19, I981 which featured a lecture by a noted psychiatrist from OU. In 1985 the Tulsa chapter of Oklahomans for Human Rights became independent mad autonomous. They reorganized under the name Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). ~l-he organizatioffs monthly membership meetings routinely attracted 100s of participants as the community saw TOHR as the principal source of information and support. TOHR hosted man}, nationally known GLBT spokespersons. The Chicago Resource Center gave TOHR two grants which was the first time an Oklahoma GLBT organization received out-of-state funding and recognition. TobyJenkins, President, OhZahomansfor Equali~ and Ohlahoma State Rel~resenmtive AIMcA~ey at the 30th Equality Gala, ~dsa. Photo by Lia Ingersoll, Mia Bella In October 1996 TOHR opened Tulsa’s first Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered Community Center at 1338 East 38th Street in the Brookside neighboFhood ofTulsa. Vandalism was common and landlords began to be increasingly apprehensive about renting to the gay community, In June 1997 TOHR organized Tulsa’s first Gay Pride march with 60 participants. Year after year the Tulsa City Council refused to grant the Tulsa Gay community a parade permit. Finally in 1999 Tulsa’s first Diversity Parade was held on Peoria Avenue in the Brookside neighborlmod ofTulsa and featured Rep. Barney Frank, DMassachusetts, as its first Grand Marshal[ The parade cuhninated with the Diversity Festival at Tulsa’s Veteran’s Park. On October 31 st 2005 TOHR purchased the Property at 621 E~t 4th Street in downtown Tulsa ,joining the revitalization of the urban core ofTulsa County. In September 2006 the membership ofTulsa Oklahomans for Equality approved the most recent name change and became Oklahomans for Equality. With the help ofTulsgs top architects and designers 275 volunteers donated 7000 hours to renovate an 18,000 square foot facility now known as the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. In June 2007 Oldahomans for Equality (OlcEq) moved the Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade to the premiere dmvntown venue Centennial Park just 2 blocks south of the Equality Center, solidifying the organization’s commitment to the arts and entertainment district ofTulsa. In 2009 Oklahomans for Equality had over 40,000 visitors utilizing the services and programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Through batdes with institutions, public and private, through vandalism and threats of violence, OkEq persevered to reach this landmark anniversary. Several events this year have already commemorated the occasion. "When I realize hmv heroic and faithful our founders and members have been for three decades I am humbled to be at the helm serving such a great organization," Jenkins said. For more info~ation on OKEq, the Equality Center or 30th anniversary events, visit www.okeq. Nle David Bohnett Foundation _Awards ’Refresh’ Grants Totalling $500,000 To David Bohnett CyberCenters Nationwide Paul Moore, Program Manager at the DavM Bohnett Foundation. Pressphoto TULSA, OK (PR) __ In February 2010 Tne David Bohnett Foundation announced they had selected the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa to be among the 24 LGBT Centers across the United States to be recipients of the "Refresh Grant"~ In establishing the CyberCenters, technology entreprdneur and ~hilanthropist David Bohnett’s vision was to provide LGBT communities with a %Ared" hub through which its members could network, communicate, and explore educational, professional and recreational opportunities. To keep the CyberCenters up-to-date, in 2004, the "refi’esh" program was started, where each CyberCenter is supplied with brand new state-of-the-art equipment on a consistent basis (approximately every three to four years). David Bohnett serves as Chair of the David Bohnett Foundation, the head of the private equity firm Baroda Ventures and was the founder of GeoCities2com, an Internet based media and e-commerce company in 1994. GeoCities was acquired by Yahoo! in 1999. His goals are improving lives, empowering indMduals and building viable communities by connecting like-minded people in meaningful ways. Also central to Bohnett’s vision is his call to action to aspiring philanthropists to begin their giving by getting personally involved with causes with which they identify so that they can experience service first-hand. "The Centers provide a safe environment for members of the LGBT community 2_ from youth who may find themselves without a support system--to seniors, who may have little or no familiarity with computers," said Michael Fleming, Excecutive Director for the Bohnett Foundation. "In today’s increasingly Internet-driven world, the David Bohnett Cyber Centers have proven to be a lifeline for people of all ages. We are happy to provide regular ’refresh’ grants enabling groups to keep pace with the many advances in computer hardware and software." Paul Moore, Program Manager at the Foundation, who oversees the CyberCenter program will be in Tulsa for the Grand Opening of the newly refreshed David Bohnett CyberCenter. The reception and ribbon cutting ceremony is scheduled for Thursday May 27th at 6:30 pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 East 4th Street in downtown Tul~a Oklahoma. The Dennis R Neill Equality Center’s Technology Team Eric Vogelpohl and Don Satterthwaite have installed the equipment upgrades which include Lenovo al!-inone A70z PCs customized bundle with Microsoft Office software, Windows Pro 7 - 19" XWidescreen Monitors in addition to Documate 5!0 Flatbed Scanners and IBM Infoptint color laser printers. The Equality Center serves as the headquarters for Oklahomans for Equality and received a David Bohnett CyberCenter Grant in 2003. Dennis R. Neill with Sampson donated 10 new chairs for the computer stations. Over 39,000 visits were made to the Equality Center in 2009 and more than 53% of those individuals utilized the CyberCenter. The CyberCenter is free and open to public Monday through Friday 3pm to 9pm. Tulsa 2010 Pride Events Tulsa More Color Pride Art Show May 27th - June 5th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center More info at www.morecolorart.com Equality Day at the Zoo Saturday, May 29th :10am - 2pro PFLAG Night at Circle Cinema Tuesday, June 1st : 7pm Pride Night at The LibraIT Thursday, June 3rd: 7pm Council Oak Men’s Chorale Tulsa Downtown City-County Library PFLAG Spaghetti Dim,er Friday, June 4th: 5:30pm - 7:30pm Centennial Park- Community Building Tulsa Pride OYP Youth Night Friday, June 4th: 5pm -1 lpm Centennial Park (6th &: Peoria) Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade Saturday June 5th:lOam- lOpm Centennial Park (6th & Peoria) Equality Night at Light Opera Oklahoma Friday, June 1 lth: 8pm Tulsa PAC Pride Night At theWNBA Saturday, June 19th: 7pm Tulsa Shock At the BOK Center Equality Night At the Philbrook Tuesday, June 22nd Philbrook Museum ofArt w~gv.metrostarnews.com ~÷troSTAR 9 be Best Time To Start By Ronald Blake Co~ributing ~rker When should you start an exercise program? ~xere are many choices: Saturday the 22nd, Sunday the 30th, or Tuesday the 18th. Maybe you could aim for next year in February or April. Time for a powwow to decide the best time to begin the blood, sweat, and tears program. We’ll write down the possibilities and then pick a winner. The first up for consideration is now. The good part about starting now is that you will actually start. The bad part about starting now is that the holidays are here. You have the Christmas shopping to do for five aunts, four brothers, three best friends, two parents, and that boyfriend in a pear tree. Then there’s the office party, the hanging of the holiday lights, and the ~xanksgiving vacation at ,grandma’s house in Indianapolis. The secondoption is January. The good part about starting in January is that you will actually start. The bad part about January is that you have those two classes you will be taking at the community college. You need those classes to finish the Masters Degree program so you are eligible for a promotion. Between a 40 hour work week and six credit hours of business courses there Ittst ~snt t~me. ~ne third option is April. The good part ~bout starting in April is that you will actually start. The bad part about April is that you are taking that two week cruise in the Caribbean, your morn is visiting from Michigan, and your best friend from Indiana University’s class of 1991 is making his way west to see you. ~ae fourth option is June. The good part about starting in June is that you will actually start. The bad part about June is that you are attending your nephew’s graduation in Evansville and your niece’s graduation in South Bend. There are also the life insurance . sales conventions in Schenectady, New York; Eugene, Oregon; and Joplin, Missouri during his upcoming summer. The fiiih Option moves us to September. 7he good part about starting in September s that you will actually start. The bad ~art about starting in September is that ~ou will travel to Texas for your college roommate’s wedding, to Chicago for your iister’s wedding, and to Savannah for the commitment ceremony for the first guy you ~ad sexual relations with and become such est friends With after the breakup. Vghat’s a person to do? N~ere are five options and none of them work. We are right back to this time next year and I would bet that your options ~hen will look just as bleak. The answer is quite simply to just start now; There is never a good dine to s~ar~ any fitness Fb~d a way m ic~corporare fitness into your daity rourbae. Make some changes, rearra~g¢ difl)rence between ~tarboaM and port. ~lhat gw is Ron Blake and you can u~uallv find hira &iAing aimlessly about On somebody of water. Feel fi’ee to guide him back to shore by e-mailing him on his sloop at www. myblakefimess.com. Controversial OKC School Board Member Gail Vines will run for State House District 85 OKIAHOMA CITY, OK __ Gall Vines, who currently represents District 2 on the Oklahoma City School Board has announced that she is running to be a State Representative for District 85, which is in north~vest Oklahoma City and extends into the suburban municipality of Nichols Hills. The seat is currently held by Republican David Dank, who was first elected in 2006. Ms. Vines was first elected to her school board position in 2005, re-elected without opposition in 2009, and her actions later that year stirred controversy when the Oklahoma City School Board voted to fire openly gay teacher Joe Quigley. She is well known not only for her school board position, but also as the co-owner of Flips’s Wine Bar & Trattoria, a longtime Oklahoma City eatery and nightspot. Gall Vines abstained from voting on the Quigley firing, stating that she didn’t have enough information about the situation. After Joe Quigley was ordered reinstated August 26 by the District Court, the Oldahoma City School Board appealed that decision, then voted September 14 not to reinstate Mr.Quigley pending the appeal despite the court order, and to stop his salary and benefits. That vote was 6-2, this time with Gall Vines voting for his termination. In Memoriam Chuck Nugent 1970-2010 TULSA, OK Chuck Nugent, a former Yale and Cushing resident, passed away on Monda); April 12, 2010, at his home in Broken Arrow, OK at the age of 39 years. The son of Charles L. Nugent and Leora J. Johnson Barrows. Chuck was born on May 20, 1970 in Upland, C_&. He came ro Cusliing as a small child, later moving to Yale, where he was raised and educated, graduating from Yale High School. Chuck was currently a volunteer for the Dennis R. Neill Equali.ty Center in Tulsa, where he enjoyed counseling individuals in a crisis situation. Chuck was th£ Committee Chair 0fthe Center Cinema program on Friday evening. His hobbies included cars, Survivors include his mother, Leora Barrows of CUshi~; two sisters, Deanna Couch and her husband Janaes ofYale and Kristal Kuelll and her husband ToWof Stillwater; four nephews; three nieces; a half brother Steve Nugent; a half sister Pamela Rogers, and other relatives and friends. He was preceded in death by his father, Charles Nugent and a half sister, Deborah Nugent. A memorial services was held Saturday May 1 st at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa Oklahoma. Memorial contributions may be made to Oklal~omans for Equality; EO.’ Box 2687, Tulsa, OK 74101 10 ~OSTAR June 1, 2010 For .... lress,com : Larry Bourne & David Stevens Come see us a~d check out that gets 31 mpg! www.metrostarnews.com ~TROSTAR 11 Major Sponsom: 12 P~ETROSTAR June 1, 2010 heart-time flaytime discovery breath .sa~E "~ have~i ~ever www.metmstarnews.com ~ETROSTAR 13 UNEocom Celebrating a month of Pride in No~hwest Arkansas facebook.com/ailoutjune twitter.com/alloutjune bON T DUCK AESPONSIBIL 7/ 14 ~ETROSTAR June 1, 2010 a~ks of~he So~ By Andrew Collins {:umacecrcekresort.com) [br tru Steakhouse ~ w~.metrostarnews.com #~TROSTAR 15 16 ~ET~©STAR June 1, 2010 www.metrostamews.com #~ETROSTAR 17 Photo~ by,Victor G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma City Kelly Kirby receives Lifetime Achievement Award presented by Nancy McDonald @ the 30 Anniversary Equality Gala,Tulsa. Photo Metro Star Staff @ Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Alibis, Oklahoma City @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa John Southard (Equality Gala Co Chair), Ann Hampton Callawa); Dennis Neill (Equality Gala Co-Chair) I~_ri Strand @ the Equality Gala Tulsa, Photo by Liz Ingersoll, Mia Bella Images Toby Jenkins President O!~q, Tulsa County Toby Jenkins President OkEq, Tulsa City Commissioner Karen Keith District 2 @ the Councilor Maria Barnes District 4. @ the Equality Gala ~ialsa. Photo by Liz Ingersoll, Equality Gala Tulsa. Photo by Liz Ingersoll, Mia Images Belta Images @ The End Up, Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City 18 %~÷troSTAR June 1, 2010 By EI Sikov The "I Dodt Care~at .~uyone Says" Classic Martini "It’s early AJzheimer’s," I whined. I’d left the duck breasts I’d planned to grill at home. I’d have to rush to the grocery and buy some more. And th~,’d have no time to marinat!! "A]zheimer’s jokes arefft funny," Dan scolded. "Chipotle-Grapefruit Duck is no .joke either." "You k_now what I mean. And it’s not funny. I know 2dzheimer’s. You don’t have Alzheimer’s. So stop it." As Director of Research at CogniTech, a pharmaceutical company that developed new ~zheimer’s treatments, Dau didn’t find fake whimpering about forgotten duck amusing. "I’ll go get more duck. You start the rest of the stuff." Just as Dan was leaving, Chipper burst in. Fie dropped his backpack on the floor and spouted off. "That train was late - again! So, I missed the 6:30 ferry and had to wait at that bar in Sayville, with their watered-down drinks, and.... Martini! Now!" ’TII make you one," I offered. "Hell no!" Chipper snapped.. "Yours are lousy." "I beg your pardon?" "Your proportions suck." He stripped off his sweaV T-shirt and sprinted to the liquor cabinet. I admired his moist, wide, delightful lats while resenting his stupid opinion as he reached t:or the Beefeater. "They da no~U I make the classic ma~tinL’: I was "If~u like a little gin With your vermouth." I watched Chipper in speechless rage as he grabbed the cocktail shakm; filled it with ice, poured in a full martini glass full of Beefieater, then added precisely five drops of d® vermouth and stirred wildly. "If you want straight gin," I said coldl> %vhy bother with that silly nod to tradition and just go the W. C. Fields route? I’m sure some perv in the Pines gets off on guys with gin blossoms." ?Jag-off," Chipper muttered as he leR the room clutching his martini. Chipper had lived in New York for 20 years but reverted to Pittsburgh slang when he got mad. I was still stewing when Dm~ returned vdth the duck and a botde of Sancerre. He was accompanied by Paolo, who had stopped at BarHarbor, right off the dock, for - yes - a martini, the dregs of which he carried in a red plastic cup. I offered to make him a real martini in a real martini glass. "Thanks, no," Paola said. ’Tll make my OWD "W/~? Aren’t mine good enough for you?" "Good that you brought that up," he said with business school tact. "I prefer my proportions." "Here we go again," I snarled, then told him about Chipper, who had shut himself inside the room he shared with Paolo. "It’s actually quite the reverse," Paolo explained. "You should taste the vermouth clearly. Otherwise there’s no point in adding it." I watched in piqued fascination as Paolo made a distinctly wet martini. "Well," I huffed, ,if you want to drink straight vermouth..." vchereupon Dan swatted my behind, then shoved the paper bag full of duck breasts into my ribs. "ShUt up and grill." This is a Cla~ssic Martini; Paolo aa~d Chipper cm~ write their o,w damn columns: 4 parts Beet~ater gin (If you want to use Absolut, fine; just don’t call it a Classic Martini.) 1 part dry vermout!~ Fill shaker with ice. Pour liquors in. Just let it sit on the counter to chill - no need to shake. Stir just once, put the lid on, and strain your Classic Martini into the proper glass. Add an olive or a lemon twist; a cocktail onion turns it into a Gibson. w~¢.metrostarnews.com ~4{E°HgOSTAR 19 Chuck Breckenridge Whcthcr buyin~ or scllin~ I’H work hard for you. ~nsas~ Bxc1~sive ........ 597 Magnetic Road Eureka Springs, Arkansas www.magneticvalleyresort.com info@magneticvalleyresort.com 800-210-8401 479-244-6821 email: bitterglrl@qsyndicate.com www.joanhilty.net ’ .~14 20 I~?~ETROSTAR June 1, 2010 By Jack Fertig JUne 2010 "Be careful with your money, Pisces!" Mars in Leo is triggering crises, mostly in the form of fights and misunderstandings that show where we need to wrap things up and move on. Clear away worries and doubts. Analyze problems realistically to find novel solutions. ARIES (March 28 - Apri~ 19): Asserting yourself too forcefully can show people not what you want them to see, but things you’d rather they didn’t. Working to be more truly yourself can be very humbling. That humility will win you great respect. TAURUS (April 20 - Nay 20): Can a person have too many friends? You may find too much quantity and not enough quality in your social circles. Take some time alone to sort out in your mind who are the ones you really want in your tribe. GEMINI (May 21- June 20): Examining the provocations to arguments and staying silent (one can dream!) can prove more educational than actually arguing. Review goals that have recently been accomplished and think carefully about your next steps. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Are your priorities and ideals proving dysfunctional? Be willing to grow and adapt. The time for planning career moves is endiing. Make big, bold choices or events will force difficult changes. Even in those there may be great opportunities. Maybe. LEO (July 23 -August 22): Pressuring your partner to make a decision will backfire. Physical play - maybe, but not necessarily sexual - will help work off frustration. Be careful with the rough stuff and keep your head clear. Accidents. are looking to happen. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): You can meet somebody very hot and sexy while doing charity work. Not a mercy date, but another volunteer. That milieu will also get you out of your own head, which is a dangerous place. Worry only undermines your own health. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): What do you want tonight? What do you want in 14 years? Answer the latter question; then think hard about the first. Somewhere in there is a clue about your next big relationship, or necessary changes in your current one. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Demands at work are keeping you from home and family. If that sounds like a good thing, you need to make changes around the house. Whatever work offers that home doesn’t suggests the changes you need to make. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): The best way to avoid arguments is to think twice about what you’re hearing and about how others might hear what you’re saying. Or maybe you’d rather not avoid them. The interchange can open you up to new perspectives. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Sex and money are the biggest sources of domestic disputes. Work on money issues first and be willing to bend on sex. Take the initiative on flexibility. Clearing the air can be rough, but is necessary for a happy home. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): With a little help from your partner or a counselor, your money troubles should alleviate soon. (Given the times, that’s relative!). Acting spacey and lost and trying to deny it could upset your partner. Admitting to being vulnerable and a bit confused will help. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Worrying about your health only makes it worse. Take positive steps. Moderate exercise is good; overdoing it is not. Your ~nances should be going up, but like that first rise on a roller coaster. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA VOLUME 7 ISSUE 3 Twi~er.com/MetroStarNews e MetroStarNews.com U,S, Census being Conducted for 2010 Same Sex Marriages and There is a particular need and focus on the LGBT community and the census. This community is one of those that has been undercounted. Many don’t feel a connection to the government and how it affects their lives. An inaccurate count could negatively affect their lives and community fro7 the next ten years or longer." Emmet Morris, Partnership Coordinator U.S. Census Regional OfFice, Kansas City, Missouri By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ For the last 220 years the U.S. Census Bureau has been counting the people of the United States of America, recording numbers that reflect many great changes. When the first census was taken in 1790, it was administered by the late our 3rd president. At the time it showed the population of the United States to be 3,929,326 people, ofwhich 697,681 Emmett Morris, U.S, Census Partnership Coordinator with Fran Dozz ofChurch ofthe Open Arms in OKC. Gorin photo were African American slaves ,who counted as 3/5 of a person for purposes 0f taxation and representation. New York City, then as now, was our largest municipality, but 0nly had around 33,000 people. Over two centuries later our 2000 census showed a population of 281,421,906 people, and 16% of those counted received a "long form" with over 100 questions, going into far more depth including inquiries about home ownership, finances, relationships and other data. Then as now there were no inquiries as to sexual orientation, but for the first time it did provide a way for gay and lesbian couples to be counted. Asking the sex of the residents of a household with the corresponding relationship, among the options listed for the first time was "unmarried partner." If two persons of same sex at the same address answered with that option, it would statistically record a same sex couple. At that time legal same sex marriage did not exist. ~is has changed since then as same sex marriages became legal in 7 countries, the first being the Netherlands in 200!, followed by Belgium, Sweden; South Africa, Norwa~ Canada and Spain. It became legal in the US ~nfive St~t~s, the first being ,M~achusetts in 004,followed by Vermont~ Ne~v Hampshire, COnnectiCut, and I6wa; plus marriages that took place in California ~lufing a brief period MARCH 1, 2010 cann0wbec0 d! it was legal there during 2008. As dais is the first census since same sex marriages have gained legal status, this is the first time that same sex couples will be counted as married partners if they indicate that is their relationship. But for the GLBT community as well as all Americans, the census affects far more than that. Numbers from the census impact almost every aspect of our lives, which makes it imperative that there is an accurate count of all the people in our country and where they are. It affects over 170 Federal allocations of money to states and localities, including money for transportation, healthcare including HIV grants, education induding money for school lunch and breakfast programs, Medicaid assistance, money for housing and nutrition assistance, grants for drug education and treatment, Head Start and child care programs, crime prevention assistance and much more. Data ~rom the census also determines how you are represented politic~11); affecting government operations from the Federal level all the way to local School districts. ........Continued See CENSUS Page-4 Gay vet: military is ready for openly gay servicemen By Michael W. Sasser Contributing writer Photo: Navy Lt. Everett "Earl"Morrow While President Barack Obama’s call for the end of the military’s ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ (DADT) policy is stalled in bureaucratic neutral, one recent NaW veteran tells Metro- Star that he believes servicemen are ready for out comrades. "Once the decision is made (to end DADT), I think the transition will be quick," said former NaW Lt. Everett "Earl" Morrow. "Troops don’t get enough credit. They will be supportive of it. I’m not saying that there won’t still be homophobes. There are still racists and sexists out there." However, Morrow said, his experience taught him something about servicemen. "I was surprised that more people than not said they didn’t care ifsomeone serving with them was gay," Morrow said. Morrow, who granted his first interview as an out veteran on the subject to Metro-Star, said that he has plenty of experience on which to base his experience. He had a successful NaW career for five years, leaving active duty in April 2008 in part because of the DADT policy. The to repeal the policy recently prompted his to speak out on the subject. ........Continued See DADT Page-9 State Senator Russell Introduces a Bill restricting Oklahoma cooperation with Federal prosecution of Hate Crimes By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As he had promised to do earlier, State Senator Steven Russell (Republican District 45) has introduced legislation ( SB 2165) that among its provisions would greatly limit Oklahoma state, county and !ocal law enforcement from providing evidence or assistance to Federal authorities prosecuting hate crimes. It proposes that "law enforcement agencies shall deny access to law enforcement records to any Federal agency when such request is made relating to a case handled and completed by a law enforcement agency of this state, and the purpose is to attempt to investigate or prosecute the individual or individuals pursuant to 18- U.C.S. Section 245 (the Federal Hate crimes law with protections added in 2009 for sexual orientation, gender, gender identity and disability- Matthew Shepard-James Byrd act). Exceptions are basic information that is available for public inspection and records of those convicted pursuant to Section 850 Tide 21 of Oklahoma Statutes, which are Oklahoma’s Hate Crimes laws which do not cover sexual orientation or gender identity. What this entails is that if an Oklahoman was victimized by a hate crime, and Federal authorities deemed the case to be under their jurisdiction, loca! authorities could not provide data beyond the most basic information available to the public, witness statements, physical/forensic or other any other type of evidence or assistance. This would prohibit providing as evidence to Federal authorities a bloody baseball bat or gun used in that type of crime to assist in their prosecution of that hate crime. Since crimes committed due to a victim’s sexual orientation/gender identity are not Hate Crimes under Oldahoma state law, and this restriction ~votfld make Federal prosecution of this type of crime in Oldahoma very difficult if not impossible, this would greatly impede Hate Crimes protection for the GLBT community in Oklahoma. Senator Russell has stated, "Oklahoma has tough good laws that include hate crimes laws. Any murder or brutal assault is hateful. That is the problem with singling ,, out something more with this Federallaw. However A1 McAffrey, Oklahoma’s only openly gay legislator, (Democrat-District 88) has a different opinion, considering this legislation a publicity stunt stating, " Preventing crimes against Oklahomans because ofwho they are is in no way an attack on free speech. This is nothing but emp,ty rhetoric used to scare and mislead folks. D ion School District retains gay-friendly book By Michael W. Sasser TULSA, OK__ ~adter a flurry of controversy in January, the Union Public School District ofTulsa County has retained a gay-friendly book available to students. By a 3-1 vote, the District Board of Education decided that "Buster’s Sugartime" would remain on the shelf. The book, by author Marc Brown, is a simplified version of a 2005 episode of the PBS series "Postcards from Buster." It is ostensibly about Buster the Rabbit’s exploration of how maple syrup is made in Vermont. However, the bulk of this particular episode revolves around Buster hanging out with the children of a same-sex couple. Despite only a pair of Very gentle allusions to same-sex parents, the content did prompt many stations to pull the episode. Last year, some parents argued that the book was inappropriate and took their complaint to the district’s Materials Review Committee. That committee backed the book’s presence by a 6-1 margin. At least one set of parents appealed the decision to the Board of Education, which then confirmed the decision with the January 3-1 vote. Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) President Toby Jenkins said that he wasn’t surprised by the decision. "When I first heard about it, I didn’t know what would happen,’~ Jenkins said. !~But I wasn’t surprised by the decision because this is one of the more progressive school districts. They have a non-discrimination policy and a strong Gay-Straight Alliance." Old~q board members include a couple of out Union District employees, Jenkins said. "I knew what the background of the school board was," he said. "Still you can never be too sure. Boards often cave to pressure." Jenkins praised Union for a positive experience interacting on the issue and for even setting up an emait contact for community advocates to express their opinions. "They were very good to work with," Jenkins said. According to Jenkins, stirring the controversy were some advocates who apparently went so far as to express dismay at the bigotry and homophobia expressed by some school parents. "In no way was that something that we did and no statement from us cast any dispersion on parents," Jenkins said. He suspected that some advocates got carried away in their emails to the dedicated address with the District. The more virulent commentary prompted a comlnent from a Union District official defending parents. Its theme was that complaining parents were protesting because gay marriage is "illegal" in Oklahoma - a position Jenkins said is unfortunate and not true. "Gay marriage is not legally recognized in Oldahoma, it is not illegal," Jenkins said. "If a couple marries outside Oklahoma and then comes home, no one comes to arrest them. It’s just that the state doesn’t recognize the marriage." Still, Jenkins was pleased with the outcome and with the District’s handling of the mattm: "I don’t lmow if there will be another appeal but for now it seems resolved," Jenkins said. "Now is a quiet time, but before long it will be something else. There is always something else." The Union Public School Board did not reply to an email seeking comment. Group Forming At OSU-OKC OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ A new social/activist group has formed at OSU-OKC called Diverse Partners, Family, & Friends. Organized by Kyle Moore, the group plans to focus on educational goals and equality for GLBT students at the university. As it is a student group recognized by the university, only enrolled students can vote, but meetings are open to everyone interested. They will meet every Tuesday at 6:15 PM in the Conference Room North on campus. For more information contact Kyle Moore at 405- 209-6340. uptcv * CiVil Ricjhts *Criminal ’ment o Family Law * Liticjation N.W. Street city, OK 7SlOS To Haiti with love meeting was called February 15 to determine Sooner State Sofi ball nights. Contact HSR at: 405-521- ifOGLPC had a future and if so, was the 9696, herland@herlandsisters.org or community ready to make it happen, herlandsist~rs.0rg. Presided by co-chair Jeanne Flanigan, International Women’s Day (IWD) is a that meeting was held at Church of the global day celebrating the economic, political Open Arms, attended by around 15 people, and social achievements ofwomen past, some of~vhom were longtime activists and present and future. ~e IXWD ~vebsite lists some newcomers. Ms. Flanigan agreed to events worldwide celebrated on or around continue serving as co-chai~; and Secretary March 8 each year. For more information Victor Gorin also agreed to continue in that about IXYgD: ww~c.internationalw0mensday. position. Co-chair Paul Thompson resigned com. his position, Enough interest was shown for another meeting which would be at the regular time, the second Monday of March which would be the 8th at 7 p.m. ~at. meeting will happen at the usual place, the Neighborhood Alliance Building located at 1236 N.W. 36th Street of Oklahoma City. A benefit to supply HIV reeds for Haidans By Robin Dorner Contributing Writer O~OMACITY, OK On January !2 a magnitude 7.1 earthquake shook Port au Prince, Haiti. The earthquake left hundreds of thousands dead, millions were homeless and left without food, water or resources. Many of trs thought, "What can I do to help?" XTge sent money, food, water, medical supplies and many of our own citizens went to help in rescue efforts. As the cleanup continues, there is still much needed help. "When the earthquake first hit Haiti, I asked Robin [Dr. Robin Meyers, Mayflower Church pastor] ifwe could do a Haitian benefit concert at Mayflower," said Rev. Loyce Newton Edwards, an associate at Mayflower who has a Masters Degree in Divinity. "Dr. Maria Lupe, another Mayflmver member and I had a shared vision for this event because of the devastation in Haiti." Edwards is committed to helping HIV + people stay alive and she lost a sister to the disease in 1999. On the UCC (United Church of Christ) national level she serves in three areas related to HIV/AIDS: UCAN. Inc., UCAN Inc. Leadership Team, Wider Church Ministries Board of Directors HIV AIDS Ministries. Haiti has the highest HtV/AIDS rate in the western world. Tl~e UCC Common Global Ministries has a longstanding ~dationship xvith a communion of 6.000 chucches in Haiti. The UCC Haitian Relief Fund had raised over $650,000 for Haiti relief ofwhich 100% of the proceeds go ro our partners in Haiti. By design, this event falls on the first day of"The National Week of Prayer for the Healing ofAIDS" for ~vhich UCC is a co-sponsor. That week starts Sunday March 7th, which is the day of the benefit. "To Haiti with love" wil! include one great hour of sharing, filled with music, poetry, and inspirational spealdng. At the end of the benefit donations ~vill be accepted for Haitian relief efforts for HIV medications. Please make plans to attend this great event on Sunday; March 7th at Mayflower UCC Church located at 3901 NW 63rd Street in Oklahoma City. For more information or to make a donation, please contact Rev. Loyce Edwards at 405-642-0124 or email her at loycee@sbcglobal.net. O ahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus Holds Re-organizational Meeting OFRAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ It was a turning point for the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Politica! Caucus, an organization first incorporated in 1985 that ~vorked to register and educate voters of the GLBT community, and also to educate elected officials about issues of the community as well. During recent years OGLPC had faced difficulty due _to lack of partic_ipation, and a special Democracy for America to Host Grassroots Training in Tulsa Locals to participate in voter contact, fundraising, organizing and messaging sessions BURLINGTON, VT (PR) Hundreds of local activists, campaign staffers and candidates wil! receive hands-on training at an upcoming Campaign Academy hosted by Democracy for America. The two-day interactive worlcshop will be held March 13-14 at the Tulsa County Democratic Party headquarters 907 S. Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK. Experienced campaign professionals will lead sessions in voter contact, fundraising, communications, online organizing and much more to empower progressive activists with ~he skills to win electiofis in November and beyond. Attendees will also have a chance ro meet with localprogressive Candidates and learn about job andvolunreer opportunities in their area. "Our Campaign Academy trainings empower citizens with the tools to change their communities," said DFA Training Director Matt Blizek. The DFA Campaign Academy aims to focus, network andtrain grassr0ots activists in the skills and strategies to take back our country, manage successful campaigns or run for office themselves. Since 2004, DFA has held more than 100 trainings throughout the country. For more information visit: www. democracyforamerica.com. Obituary OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Dennis Allen Dohm aged 48, passed away at OU Medical Center January 7 due to massive organ failure caused by a heart infection and damage to an aortic valve. He was a well known entertainer in Oklahoma City, best known in his drag persona as Danae Daniels. Performing in regular shows and benefits at Tramps, PhoenLx Rising, & the Hilt, his wild wit and outrageous humor wowed his audiences, showing he was truly special. Oklahoma Tobacco Free help Association Opens their 2010 Season By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Once again Oklahoma’s Sooner State Softball Association is opening up for their biggest season ever. During 2009 3 of their teams represented Oklahoma at the NAGAAA ( North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance) g[orld Series held that year in Milwaukee, with the Oklahoma Chaos team achieving the best results with a 7th place finish. Now comprised of 12 teams, the League is working on recruiting players, coaches, sponsorships and other support. Based on their growth last year, they feel they can look forward even better times ahead. Now into their 7th season, the league was formed in order to provide those interested in the GLBT community a place for camaraderie and to play ball! Recreational players are welcomed as well as serious competitors. On Friday March 19 Angles will host a Recruitment Party for the League at 9 p.m. This event is a great chance for those interested to learn about the league, have a few drinks, get to know some of the players and learn what it’s all about. Past and current players are encouraged to wear their team shirts/jerseys, and there will be an informaional booth for learning more and signing up. For more information contact Recruitment Director Chad Previch at soonerstatesoftball@hotmail.com. Herland Celebrates International Women’s Day OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __Herland Sisters Resources will celebrate International \Women’s Day with an "All That Jazz Party" on Saturday March 6th at The Boom Club and Restaurant, 2218 NW 39 th Street. The Jazz Party is a fund-raiser for Herland bookstore, their lending library and events for women, in cooperation with Cimarron Alliance Foundation. The party will feature music by the Dynamics, a local jazz band, playing standards and original music. This is a come-and-go event, beginning at 6 PM with drinks, hors d’oeuvres by Chef Suzie Lopez, and music until 9pm. Guests will be asked for a donation at the door, encouraged to wear gay attire, and will be offered wonderful art work to buy at the silent auction. The auction includes a beautifully framed poster signed by the artist Native American Dana Tiger, art glass, and jewelry along with gift certificates from local businesses. Herland Sister Resources (HSR) is a non-profit organization, and one of the few U.S. women’s bookstores/lending libraries in operation for over 20 years. The bookstore is located at 2312 N\V 39th St., and is open from 1-5 PM each Saturday. HSR also sponsors Spring and Fall Retreats at state parks, monthly supper clubs, a poetry group, the Annual Pride Picnic and game Ron Harwood & Cathy Hill Seeking International Leather By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Cathy Hill and Ron Harwood. Gorin photo OKJ_At-IOMA CITY, OK It was a hot Friday night at Angles February 12 when a fundraiser was held to send two of our major tideholders of the leather community ro international competition. Ron Harwood, our current Oldahoma Mr.Leather, who also holds the title ofTulsa Mr. Leather 2009, will be competing in Chicago for the International Mr Leather title May 28-Junel. Ms. Cathy Hill, who currently holds the title of South Central Leather Woman 2009 is seeking the title of International Ms. Leather, and that competition will be held in San Francisco on April 15-18. The next upcoming leather contest in Oklahoma will determine our new Tulsa Mr.Leather, and that event will take place on Saturday, March 20 at Tulsa’s Club Maverick’s at 8 p.m. ~is will follow a meet and greet to be held the preceding Friday night, March 19, at t the Tulsa Eagle. Tulsa Metro SoRball League’s Spring 2010 Season Starting TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa Metro Softball League (TMSL) will hold their spring clinics March 14-20 at Hicks Park, 3443 S. Mingo Rd, Tulsa. They may only have one spring clinic. The spring clinics are for new players looking for a team and returning players who want to change teams. Team Coaches ,vill be present to scout the local talent and to recruit. For more information visit: vmwv.TulsaMetroSoftball.com ~<,.metrostarnews.com M{~TI~OSTAR 3 I Low Change Looks Like, but M1 I Can See Are Two Faces. Constitutional Rights Are Not a Raffle Ticket Prize by James Nimmo OKI~HOMA CITY, OK __ In this article from the Salt Lake City Tribune, http://tinyurl.com/ygpfl~6u we’re told that support for LGBTs has "shot up" over the past year following passage of a bias ban approved by the Salt Lake City Council that includes sexual orientation/gender iden’tity in housing and employment. How- many time, have I heard that legislatures and courts must not get too far ahead of the "will of the people" or there will be some ill-described chicken-little type of reaction among the voters, respect for the la~v and morn and apple pie will diminish and Gee-sus himself will come to earth and.... well, you get the drift. AaCter reading the article I’m again reminded that so many people, such as toe-the-line Mormons, can change their opinions merely because their leaders in effect tell them to, either directly through the legislative process or by leading xvith their own behavioral change. If this SLC Tribune poll is close to accurate in its description, just how accurate is the dreadful prediction that if United States Supreme Court rules in fa~vor of same-gender marriage on appeal of the currently litigated California Prop 8 trial~ ,~x~erica ~vill fall into total oblivion with Joe Six-Pack hubbies divorcing their long suffering wives to run offfor a gay fling with Ted Haggard, and Sally Soccer rooms running off to pal around with Ellen Degeneres for free samples of Cover Girl make-up? Just how far in front of public opinion does the Supreme Court need to be ifa majority of Mormons in Utah, which led the fight with Roman Catholics against Prop 8 in California in 2008, can increase by a range of 10% to 45% their approval and acceptance of gay/lesbian civil rights in their own state? By the way, the recognition ofmy civil rights is inherent with my birth as an American citizen and in no way needs approval from anyone, let alone those who believe in golden tablets from the sky, magic underwear, and ancestral baptism. The denial of my civil rights because I’m gay is what’s wrong, not my desire to have the same social, financial, and legal benefits which I’m paying for with my taxes. No one’s Constitutional civil rights should be held up as the prize for a rafl]e ticket in the lottery of public opinion. What I’m coming around to is this: If America had a national spokesperson who led using the force of law as well as his own example and not just by mere words of fierce advocacy, and who had led by his presence in Maine in its recent vote on same-gender marriage, or even farther back, to the California vote in November 2009 on Prop 8--both votes having a devastating setback on civil rights fiar gay/lesbian taxpayers--can’t you imagine that successful votes would have reinforced the legislative and judicial decisions that were already in place at the time, decisions that fully recognized our rig!~ts of citizenship? What if that person was the president of the United States, one who prides himself on his commitment to changing the tone of government in Washington? I know what change-I-can-believe-in looks like, but all I can see are two faces. Oklahoma Man Sues Tax Commission Over "IM Gay" License Plate OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) __ Oklahoma taxpayer Keith Kimmel has filed a civil lawsuit in Oklahoma County District Court against the Oklahoma Tax Commission, continuing a battle for freedom of speech on vanity license plates. The suit seeks to have part of the Commission’s rules regarding the issuance of personalized license plates declared unconstitutional. Keith Kimmel, who filed the suit through his attorney provided the following statement: "The Oklahoma Tax Commission is continuing to subject Oklahomans to a subjective decision making process in issuing personalized vanity license plates. Under our state Constitution, all Oldahomans enjoy the right to freedom of speech and an equal opportunity to express their viewpoints. Previous testimony in the administrative proceedings held on this matter have shown that the Commission is sdectively granting and denying applications based on Commission employees’ own personal prejudices and viewpoints. The Constitution requires that state rules are ;¢iewpoint neutral, with an objective standard that puts the taxpayer on notice ofwhat is legal and what is not. This suit is intended to put an end to the Tax Commissions unconsntunonal practice of subjecting taxpayers to the whim of individual employees." The case is Keith Kimmel v State of Oklahoma, ex rel, Oklahoma Tax Commission, Oklahoma County Case No. CJ-2010-1072. Federal law requires that the count include all U.S citizens, all legal residential noncitizens, long term visitors, and illegal aliens. There are many groups that have been undercounted in the past, including African Americans, Native A~mericans, Latinos, the poor, and the GLBT community. Discrimination and prejudice against people in these communities have made many feel bitterness and distrust of government in general, causing them to avoid cooperation with the census either out of anger and/or fear. Although we can be reasonably certain that there have always been GLBT people in America, there is little recorded history about them until the 20th century, and considering the legal status of the GLBT community until the late 20th century, this would hardly be surprising. Sodomy laws, which prohibited same sex activity, were in affect in all 50 states until 1962 (when Illinois was the first state to repeal their state sodomy statute), and some, including Oklahoma’s, were in effect until 2003 when the U.S. Supreme Court invalidated these statutes (Lawrence vs. Texas). Currently there is still no Federal protection for the GLBT community against job and housing discrimination, nor is there in 29 states even today, including Oldahoma. There was no Federal Hate Crimes law until late 2009. Understandably there are many in the GLBT community who feel, like others in similarly challenged groups, resentment and!or fear of government which could cause them to avoid participation in the census. In order to ensure an accurate count, legislati.on has made the process safe for all to participate. Information obtained by the Census Bureau is confidential by Federal law (Title 13 U.S. Code). Any employee that divulges confidential information outside the agency could face up to 5 years imprisonment and be fined up to $250,000. Census information about an individual cannot be used in a court of lave, nor is that information subject to disclosure under the Freedom of Information Act. No individual, private business or government authority can obtain personally identifiable data from the Census Bureau, including the ~]hite House, Internal Revenue Service, U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services, the military, welfare agencies, CIA or the FBI. The rule even supersedes the Patriot Act. Yet despite these protections there is still fear and mistrust that impedes cooperation and causes ~ndercounting. The bureau realizes that these protections wofft serve their intended purpose of ensuring an accurate count unless people know about and understand them. Therefore, combined with these safeguards is a massive educational effort, and the GLBT community is now included among those groups they want to reach out to.~ X~orldng with this effort is Emmett Morris, a Partnership Coordinator with the Census Bureau worldng in the Kansas City Regional Office that oversees Oklahoma. He met with the Metro Star to inform the GLBT community about the 2010 census and its importance, and also to gather ideas about hmv to work with the Oklahoma GLBT community to ensure an accurate count. As he put it, "We want the GLBT community to know that the census is really about them, as it is with everyone. It’s about their future, and ,ve live with everyday tangible aspects of our lives that come about because of census numbers including roads, jobs, bridges, companies locating here and more. It’s not a bunch of numbers that live in abstract in Washington D.C. in some computer. These numbers actually come back to serve community needs, prosperity and our quality of life." In mid March 90% of U.S. households will receive a U.S. Census form to fill out. This will be preceded by a postcard letting the, residents know in advance. ~xe questionnaires will sent out by address and not to individuals by name. The form has only 10 questions, is easy to fill out and can be returned by mail with the provided postage paid envelope. If there is no response it wilt ’ be followed by a second form, and if there is still no response a census worker will attempt to get the information in person. In the interest of an accurate count at the lowest possible cost, recipients are encouraged to fill out the form and mail it back as soon as possible. The Census Bureau will be worldng with various communities in this effort, setting up centers to help people with the forms, answer concerns they may have, and gathering information. Bi or multi lingual people will especially be needed, as they are planning to provide assistance in 59 languages. They will need workers to staff these centers, along with field workers to do follow up inquiries door to door and to count people in unconventional housing, including the homeless. In this effort they will attempt to hire personnel from their respective communities, realizing that people who have familiarity with a certain community, group or ethnicity can do a better job reaching out to those who need to be counted. Currently the U.S. Census Bureau has 5 Oklahoma offices, located in Oklahoma City, Tuls~l, Tahlequah, Enid and Lm~on. They are many job openings, so ifyou are interested in what could be a quite interesting endeavor that could lead to other opportunitieS,~please call toll free 866- 860-2010. It’s a chance that comes once every 10 years. "First t sday" Art Opening and Exhibit of New and Original Works by Robb Conover TULSA, OK (PR) __ ~ne March Oklahomans for Equality (Old,q) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa), will feature a new and unusual "Progressive Display" of works by artist Robb Conover; the show begins with a reception on Thursday, March 4th from 6-9pro and continues throughout the month of March. The March exhibit at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Gallery will feature a catalogue ofworks by Robb Conover which will create a progression of art from one side of the gallery to the other. This is an exciting acrylics on canvas display; it is unlike anything that has been in the Gallery before and promises to be an unusual and visually stimulating presentation. Robb lived in Tulsa in the 1970’S and 80’s; He currently resides in Dallas and is represented io several galleries there. Please join us to visit with Robb at the Opening Night Reception on Thursday, March 4, from 6to ,9pm. Refreshments will be served. Robb s art will be on display through March 20 t 0. 4 ~ttET~:~,OSTAR March 2010 Gays arrested at NYC marriage license bureau Four members ofa newACT UP-like group known as Queer Rising were arrested in Manhattan On Feb. 12 after chaining then~elves to the entrance ofthe New York Ci{y Marriage Bureau. Photo by Jamie McGonnigal, www. TalkAboutEquality.org NEWYORK, NY__ Four members of a new ACT UPdike group known as Queer Rising were arrested in Manhattan on Feb."12 after chaining themselves to the entrance of the New York City Marriage Biireau. Alan Bounville, Jake Goodman, Justin Elzie and Gabriel Yuri Bollag sought equal marriage rights for same-sex couples. Dozens of gay marriage supporters cheered them on. Twenty same-sex couples went inside and tried to obtain marriage licenses. ~ey were rebuffed. A gay naan and a lesbian then presented themselves as a faux couple, asked for a license and were given one. "New York City is home to the Stonewall Riots and in that tradition we are here to say that equality doesn’t arrive through the ballot box," said Queer Rising spokesperson Spring Super. "~e bankrupt strategy of putting all efforts into electing so-called friendly officials has failed," Super said. "We must shift to building a grassroots, national movement that demands full equality by any means necessary. New York state recognizes same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions but does no~ allow them itse!£ Same-sex marriage is lega! in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Vermont. It also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden -- and in Argentina’s Tierra del Fuego province. It will become legal in "Washington, D.C., in March and in Portugal later this year. S.F. Chronide says iud e federal Prop 8 ca e gay- Vaughn Walker, the judge heariflg the federal same-sex marriage case in San Francisco, "is himself gay," the San Francisco Chronicle reported Feb. 7. The case, featuring famous lav~Ters Ted Olson and David Boies on the gay side, seeks to overturn Proposition 8, California’s voterpassed constitutional ban on gay marriage, as a violation of the U.S. Constitution’s guarantees of due process and equal protection under the law. "Many gay politicians in San Francisco and lawyers who have had dealings with Walker say the 65-year-old jurist, appointed to the bench by President George H.W. Bush in 198% has never taken pains to disguise -- or advertise -- his orientation," the Chronicle said. Asked by the paper if he had "any concerns about being characterized as gay," Walker responded, "No comlnent." Right after the interview was conducted, however, another judge contacted the paper, identified himself as ~d~lker’s friend, said he had spoken with Walkeh and expressed concern that "people will come to the conclusion that (\Nralker) wants to conceal his sexualiD:" "He has a private life and he doesn’t conceal it, but doesn’t think it is relevant to his decisions in any case, and he doesfft bring it to bear in any decisions," said the second judge, who agreed that Walker’s sexual orientation is "newsworthy" -- in the same way it would be newsworthy if a Jewish judge were hearing a case involving the Anti- Defamation League, the Chronicle said. A lawyer for the pro-Prop-8 side, Andy Pugno, said his team won’t do anything with the revelation. "We are not going to say anything about that," he told the Chronicle. " The National Organization for Marriage, however, might feel less restrained. In a letter to supporters about the Chronicle article, Executive Director Brian Brown alleged: "We do lmow one really big important fact about Judge Walker: He~ been .an amazingly biased and one-sided force throughout this trial, far more akin to an Wockner News Service activist than a neutral referee. That’s no secret at all." The trial is expeqted to resume sometime in March or April for closing arguments. Gay lmaTers, activists and others who followed the testimony have.asserted, nearly unanimously, that the gay side won the case in a landslide. Walker’s ruling likely will see appeal to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court ofAppeals and then to the U,S. Supreme Court. If successful, the lawsuit could bring about tlxe legalization of same-sex marriage nationwide. If unsuccessful, it could have the effect of stopping the movement for same-sex marriage, which now is legal in five states, dead in its tracks for possibly a generation. Moves to repeal samesex marriage in Iowa and NH fail Iowa legislators opposed, to same-sex marriage vcere unable to force resolutions out of House and Senate committeds Feb. 9 in support of a statewide vote to amend the constitution to re-ban gay nuptials. Nineteen senators signed a petition to get the Senate measure out of committee, but 26 signanires were needed. In the House of Representatives, a vote to push the measure out of committee failed 45 to 54. " A recent poll found that 62 percent of Iowans don’t think the Legislature should tackle the issue. Same-sex marriage became legal in Iowa in April 2009 courtesy of the state Supreme Court. A spokesman for the state’s main gay rights group, One Iowa, expressed relief at the developmeffts but warned against the g~, side’s letting down its guard. "Our opponents are ruthless aped will stop at nothing to take away the freedom to marry," said Communications Director Justin Uebelhor. "There were four legislative attempts to undermine the Supreme Court’s ruling last year and we expect more political attacks this year. We don’t want to take anything for granted and are communicating this message to our supporters and media on the ground. In addition to the constitutional amendment, a religious-exemption bill has already been proposed and we have to be vigilant of any attempts to chip away at the ruling." Also on Feb. 9, a committee of the Ne~v Hampshire House of Representatives overwhelmingly killed t~vo bills aimed at. rebanning same-sex marriage. One bill called for a public vote on gay marriage. The other would have repealed the la~v that legalized it. In addition to being allowed in Iowa and New Hampshire, same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Massachusetts and Vermont. It also is legal in Belgium, Canada, the Netherlands, Norway, South Africa, Spain and Sweden -- and in Argentina’s Tierra del Fuego province. It will become legal in Washington, D.C., in March and in Portugal later rkis year. www.rnetrostarnews.com g~ET~,# STAR 5 Stress Test By Ronald Blake Contributing V&iter Photo: RonaM Blake, Certified Fittwss I~zstructor ~hrough ISSA International Sports Sciences Association You have vowed to lose 30 pounds before your niece’s wedding in September. Your trainer and doctor are recommending an exercise stress test before you lace up the sneakers and start sweating. What’s that and who needs one of those? These tests can also be called graded exercise stress tests or GXT’s. Affix whatever title you want to this procedure but it simply measures how your heart performs with and without exercise. Nae American Heart Association (AIq_A) has stated that an individual under 40 years old can forego this test if he or she has had a normal physical exam, doesn’t show signs of cardiovascular disease, and has no coronary risk factors. The captain’s turned off the caution sign and you’re }}ee to roam around the exercise However ifyou are a man or women over 40 years old, have an abnormal physical exam and/or have two or more coronalT risk factors then it’s time to schedule that exercise stress test. This just means your fitness flight has been grounded until the medical tower dears you for takeoff. The GXT can be done in a doctor’s once, a hospital, or a specialized hea~Ith cam facility. Talk with your doctor and decide where this should take place. Nae .AH~ guidelines call for there to be professionals trained in CPR to administer these tests. Furthermore, one of the techs in the testing area should be advance cardiac life support certified with a doctor iri the building. You’re not in Haiti after the big quake so it’s safe to assume this is all in place when you go for your exam. It’s just nice to know for peace of mind! The test is usually done on a treadmill wtaile you are hooked up to devices that’ll give you a feeling of Pinocchio and Geppetto attaci~ment. The test with its tracking equipment wil! check your blood pressure, heart rate, and the electrical activity and rhythm of your ticker. An analysis will be performed before any stress or exercise i~ started and an additional analysis will be gathered as exercise is introduced. Your heart could show signs of adequacy at rest but not after exercise. There are maW possibilities and the results will show this. Tr~e nurses, doctors, and techs administeting this exam will gradually increa~se the speed and incline on your treadmill to assess your cardiovascular limits. ~{Then symptoms of exhaustion and fatigue appear the testers will cease their period of sadistic glee and record the findings. The findings should be discussed with your doctor. About 15% of these results will be false positive which indicates there is a problem when there really isn’t a problem. About 30% of the results will be false negative reports which show you are OK when you really aren’t. This is ~vhen you look at your doctor with your best confused face and beseech his advice. Another GXT might be requested or other testing methods might be called upon for further explanation of your situation. When in doubt always make the decision to err on the side of safety when starting a fitness program. That might mean taking the GXT. Tixese tests are just as important as buying the correct training shoes, workout clothes, and health club membership. Join my masochistic readers who called their physicians to inquire about graded exercise tests several minutes ago! This column is brought to you by that guy who once challenged George Bush to a spelling bee. That orthographist who never heard back from the \ghite House is Ron Blake and he can be reached at wv~v. myblalcefitness.com. Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa opens Health Clinic for the uninsured. TULSA, OK (PR)~ __ OlcEq has opened a Health Clinic in collaboration with Dr. Jeremiah Rutherford, M.D., PC for the uninsured. The clinic will be held at the Dennis R. Nell Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK each ~ursday from 6 pm to 9 pm. The dinic also offers free HIV testing Tuesday through ~ursday, 6-8 pm and Saturday, 4-7 pro. For more information: 918-743-4297 Tramps, OKC Have a Heart Benefit--Love at its finest By Victor Gorin Designer Keith Reding with emcee l~aven Del Ray at Have a Heart Benefit at ~’amps. Gorin photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ It is rare to see a more festive expression of love than what happens at Tramps every Valentine’s weekend when they hold their Have a Heart Benefit. It began over 20 years ago as a team effort of the late Larry Crosby, then a coowner ofTramps, and Sister Gall Addis who was then with Catholic Charities’ Loaves and Fishes program which provided meals for those living with HIV. Since then it has become a wild yet sacred Okflal~oma City tradition. Although Larry has passed away; his sister Camille Rohn still is a part owner ofTramps. Ms.Rohn and the staff ofTramps, along with many othe[s of the community who share their time, {alent and money, have made this event a proud tradition in her brother’s memory. ~xis year it was special as the celebration was held on Valentine’s Day itsel}] giving it a special bonus, although as Camille puts it, ’This is giving back to the community, and we look forward to it every year." This time over $8,000 was raised, and Tony Sinclair is already shopping for fabulous items to auction off next year! 6 March 2010 Week three is a charm on RuPauFs Drag Race. most recer t cor testant to a hay away talks £ood, com try Western and the beauty By Bebe Zahara Benet I was surprised to learn Mystique ~vas ecstatic over RuPaul switching out their script with the one being used by the other team. "For us, it got easier because the script was easier," she explained. "I was happy. It was actually fun." I also wanted to know what she thought of Raven, and her sometimes very cutting comments about Mystique and food. "Out of everybody on the show, Raven is the only one I have not heard from," Mystique told me. "Haters are everywhere, but haters make my life easier, because I work harder just to make you hate on me even more." Mystique stands by her decision to go with a very modern interpretation of country wear for her runway walk, and argues what the other girls presented was more a Western look. "I don’t like making fun of people," she explained, noting that if she had gone for a stereotypical look it may have offended her most dedicated fans. When I think Mystique, I think splits, more splits, which leads to additional splits. And then remember Mystique? She’s the one who nails the splits! I can barely lift my leg, and here is a big girl making it look so easy. "My signature is my eyes and my spins," she said. But when she really wants to shock, she breaks out a split. Mystique must get into the zone, because when she watched her solo on TV last week, she didn’t even remember she did a death drop! Now that’s a girl who knows how to work for a crowd. Mystique, thank you for your inspirarion, thank you for your self-integrity and thank you for being yourself. ~~ello all you beautiful people! Can you believe it is week three of RuPaul’s Drag Race already? So much is happening - let’s get right into my conversation with Mystique Summers Madison, the Texas beauty who went out with a bang! I was impressed how well Mystique did in the third episode’s opening challenge, when she just dove right in and swallowed down all those mystery foods she had to eat. "I was like, ’Oh no, it’s fried food,’" Mystique remembered. "I hadn’t had fried food in four months. Oh my God, I just went for it. I was just swallowing, I wasn’t tasting." Even though she looked like a cool cucumber, Mystique was nervous. "It was the scariest thing evel;" she revealed. "Zl~at was drag Fear Factor[" ~at win made Mystique one of the group leaders for the Disco "Extra Greasy" shortening TV commercial exercise, and I wanted to know what her strategy was for pictdng which gifts would be on Team Mystique. "Pandora did work editing TV commercials, and Jessica is a dancer," Mystique explained. "Everybody else had pretty makeup and were people I got along with." Catch RuPaul’s Drag Race at 9 p.m. (ET/ PT) every Monday night on Logo and visit LOGOonline.com to find out about viewing parties in your area. Until next week, kisses and splits! NOTE: Ifyou missed weeks 1 &2 Metro St[zr News online will cover all 12 weeks and it will beposted on out" website at: www. metrostarnews, corn www.metrostarnews.corn ~t~oSTAR 7 3131 ~. Pennsylvania,Oklaho 405.525.9555 put the °°gay°° in Christian, CC Un A ~etropoli~n Co~uni~ Church Chuck greckenridge Whether buying or selling I’ll work hard for you. 8 March 2010 "%q~en t watched the initial Senate hearing. I was offended by what the opposition said - that [gay servicemen] undermine units," Morrow said. "The policy already does that. You can’t build unit cohesion because people cafft be honest. There are a lot of traditions in the military, a lot of social situations that really help create camaraderie. People bring their wives and girlfriends to events." Morrow said that he believes most of the men with whom he served would have been able to handle his coming out if it had been possible. It was not; and a promising career was cut short to the Naw’s detriment. "There were other reasons as well, but certainly the policy was a big part of it," Morrow said. "I did not think there was any way for the two parts of my life to work together." Morrow grew up in a small town in Connecticut, graduated high school and then opted for the US Naval Academy. He was keenly aware of his orientation from an early age but said he had no struggle to come to terms with it. Still he decided to head to the Naval Academy where he effectively had little social life for the following four years. "It didn’t occur to me what a challenge it would be being gay and going to the Academy;" Morrow said. Morrow’s social isolation continued for the bulk of his active duty career, which included periods ashore as well as serving on submarines. It was during the long time underwater that he had the opportunity to learn about the sensibilities of those with vchom he served. "We had a tot of time to discuss just about eveD~hing and the subject ofhomosexuality came up," Morrowsaid. "It really surprised me that most people said they really didn’t care." Had he been able to serve openly, Morrow believes it would have helped serve the cause of understanding and acceptance. Once people find that they lmow someone who is gay, it is much more likely that they would be accepting. In many cases, Morrow said, prejudice is just a matter of unfamiliarity. Morrow said that he was pleased to see Navy Adm. Michael Mullen, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, assert recendy that servicemen were not being given the credit for acceptance that they deserved. Still, after years of being afraid of being identified and even though he was offered the exact position and assignment he most coveted with the Nav~ he left active duty and today works in the medical equipment field in New York. He said that were DADT not in effect, it was likely he would have stayed with the NaW. "Ultimately DADT is discrimination," Morrow said. "It fails to recognize that homosexuality is the same as race and sex. Tl~e military doesn’t recognize that. In general if that was recognized the policy would end tomorrow. As a consequence of that, the military is losing good people." Today, Morrow remains in the Reserve. lie’s a member of SAGALA -- Service Academy Gay & Lesbian Alumni -- and he participated in an off-camera interview for the documentary film "Out ofAnnapolis," which is expected to premiere this spring, likely on the independent film circuit. Morrow said that gay men aa~d women will oneday be able to openly serve in the military - it’s only a matter of when. He said that the potential for the repeal ofDADT is "as real" as it has ever been. "~xe Chairman of the Joint Chiefs, Secretary of Defense Gates...the highest military officers all agree...I think it’s come a long way," Morrow said. "Since it was passed by Congress, it must be repealed by Congress. I think there are currently 180-something congressmen willing to effectively eliminate DADT. Hopefully it will be sooner than later." LGBT Lobby Day to be hdd at state cap to1 By Robin Townsend Contributing XX~riter OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ The Equality Network is hosting a lobby day at the State Capito! and you are invited, in fact, encouraged to attend. The event is geared to visitors telling our representatives that citizens care about LGBT equality in Oklahoma. There xvill be a brief training, networking, and visiting with representatives as well as having lunch together. "From its inception last year, TEN (The Equality Network) identified an annual LGBT Lobby Day as one of its top priorities," said Laura Belmonte, Vice President and Co- Founder ofTEN. "We believe a consistent presence at the State Capitol is critical to increasing and maintaining the visibility ofLGBT Oklahomans and their allies, to putting forward a proactive program for LGBT equality, and to giving individuals the knowledge and confidence they need to engage their representatives effectively." Belmonte’s personal advocacy experience spans almost twenty years and has entailed public speaking, creating and organizing e-advocacy campaigns, writing op-eds, media monitoring, and lobbying public officials directly. She is a professional historian and lifelong news and politics junkie - those traits also help shape and inform my activist endeavors. "Our most important goal is to secure passage of pro-LGBT legislation and to block passage of bills that are detrimental to LGBT Oldahomans," adds Bdmonte. "This will be a continual, long-term effort. It is going to take time and effort to move Oklahoma toward more inclusive and just public policies for LGBT people." TEN would like to have people from as many of Oklahoma’s political districts as possible participate in LBGT Lobby Day. If concerned citizens from any district register, appointments will be made with those representatives, including Rep. Sally Kern. "In the current session, Senator Steve Russell has introduced a bill highlighting the inadequacies of Oklahoma’s hate crimes law," furthers Behnonte. "Sen. Russell’s bill makes it impossible for law enforcement officials to work with federal agencies in prosecuting hate crimes targeting people because of sexual orientation or gender identity’. In essence, the senator’s bill attempts to lock in place Oklahoma’s current weak hate crimes statute and to prevent the state from enforcing the LGBT-inclusive federal hate crimes law, the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act enacted in October 2009. Passage of this bill would have a terrifying impact on LGBT Oldahomans." To register for LGBT lobby day, please go to http:// theequalitynetwork.org. There is no fee for the event. For more information, contact Laura Belmonte at lbelmonte@ theequalitynetwork.org or 918.906.2134. For more information about TEN, see the art*de in next month’s Metro Star. Deep Inside Hollywood By Romeo San Vicente Susan Sa andon entering Valley PoiSed to re-enter pop-culture consciousness as a feature ilhn, The Big Valley is justthe right sort of remake candidate: one that’s had time to exit public consciousness first. It has no other cast yet, but Romeo would love to see a gay cowboy subplot somewhere in the mix. Nothing major, just something where the quiet "special friends" get to live happily ever after. Susan Sarandon Paramount Pictures Photo Whorehouse to reopen for business Back in the 1960s, Barbara Stanwyck (who may or may not have been bisexual - as was rumored during her career - but who was a favorite of lesbian and gay audiences all the same) played Victoria Barkley, sturdy matriarch ofthe wild west TV drama The Big Valley. So it’s fitting, in a way, that Susan Sarandom about whom no one creates sexuality rumors because her early career choices (The Hunger and The Rocky Horror Picture Show) more or less cemented her position as a queer screen icon, may be stepping into Stanwyck’s ladylike boots~ So Nine tanked at the box office. Oh well. We’re now back at a point in the moviemaking landscape where one failed big-budget musical doesn’t derail the genre’s viabilit~ which is great news for fans of that heightened reality where breaking into song and choreographed dance moves is commonplace. Here come two more: The Song Is You, from Dreamgirls director Bill Condon, is about a man who turns to music as a refuge, connecting it to key moments in his life (or as Condon has described it, "(falling) into his *Pod Shuffle"). In turn, the man also falls into a romance with a singer he hasn’t even met. At the same time, the remake ofThe Best Little, Whorehouse in Texas is or;the horizon. No cast yet, no release date yet, no nothing yet, ...Continued seeHOLLYWOOD page ~ 12 ~.metrostarnews.com ~{ETROSTAR 9 March 2010 Room Rates From ~2.95 A~About Our Suites Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. Out &Aboua in OKC & Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City ~Club Majestic, Tulsa Free help 184.8669 @ The End Up, Tulsa @ The Copa, Oklahoma Cit @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ Ledo, Oklahoma City Deep Inside Hollywood-continued from page -9 just a teasing promise. So, a biopic about the late gay artist Robert message to people responsible: Mapplethorpe, she probably knew tl~er&l obviously she’s not going to be clout-and cash-collecting detours along play the lod, but there must the way. And here they are: the horror film be a liberal infusion of Dolly Zoe, slated for 20 ! 1 a~nd Co-starring James Parton into this movie all the same. Anything ~ tess wilt be blasphemy. Now go r~ake i~ work. Anyone who fbllows the man recently ejected from a Southwest Airlines flight for taking up too much seat space knows that Kevin Smith is a bear. A heterosexual one, but }till a bear. ~d his gay bear colleague, documentau fihmnaker }v~alcolm Ingrain (Small %wn Gay Bar, which Smith producedX has enlisted the help of Silent Bob to get his new project offthe ground. Smith has executive-produced and also makes an appearance in Bear Nation, a doc from Ingram about the bear subculture (for the still-uninitiated, they are that niche Van Der Beek and Freddie Prinze, Jr. (is it market of gay" men who refuse to Shdve, xvax, set in the ’90s too?} in which Dushku play,s or say no to seconds at the buffet} and all the a small-town waitress terrorized by... -,veil... ways they’ve begun to make their presence known in the larger gay" world. 7fhe film premieres any minute now at Austin’s South By SoUthwest Film Festival. Non-Ausdnites will have to wait for a local lest or cable airing, all ofwhich are highly likely to follow. Prep now by growing that fiacial hair. Ehza Dushkus road to Mapplethorp something; you’ll see when it opens. And then there’s the future mega-event ka~own as Ghostbusters III, a project sh& been circling, one that would pretty nmch catapult her to the A-list, with all th’e production shingle perEs that status tends to dole out. Hope so. And really, what’re a few slimed ghosts on the road to making art? Romeo San l~cent&J~vorim thing about Actors with ambition to produce and bea~s # thdrproximity toj}ied chicken direct knoW that tO make d~ir dream projects and wa~s. He can be reached care ofthis come true there are dues to be paid. So publication or at DeepInsMeHollywood@ whenDollh0use star Eliza Dust~ku announced qsyndicate.com. her intentions to n’lake ~lhe Per~?ct Moment, @Club 209, Tulsa 12 March 2010 by Jack Fertig March 2010 "Tweet, ScorpioV’ Mercury in Pisces sextile to Pluto in. Capricorn offers very deep insights that seem illogical, but go with your gut. Your subconscious may be catching rational connections that your conscious - mind doesn’t see. ARIES (March 20- Apri~ 19): Folks in charge have a hidden agenda. Reading between the lines isn’t necessarily paranoiac. Confide in a close friend to keep that in proportion. If you must choose between loyalty and ambition, think ahead and remember who you are, TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Hints of the future and conversations with friends challenge some of your beliefs, triggering inner conflicts. You like life more certain, but accept the challenge to be truer to yourself and more ready for what’s coming. Resistance to inevitable change only makes it harder. GEM~N~ (May 21- June 20): Sharing a confidence with your boss could open him or her up to letting you in on some secrets. The road to power r~eed not pull you away from your friends, but your goals may-challenge you to choose or reconcile. CANCER {June 21- July 22): Ideals and religion should offer guideposts, not strict instructions. The way to effective partnership in love and work needs some improvisational detours from those marked paths. Independent thought and extrapolation breathe real value into.old faith and wisdom. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): There’s a time and place to show off your sexual prowess. At work that energy is best sublimated to focus on practical techniques to get powerful results. Go slow and steady at exercise. Trying too hard could get you hurt! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Identifying strongly with a sexuallydefined community can strengthen or limit your individuality - or do both. Discuss this with your partner or a Iongtime friend. Be very clear about how your milieu affects your own creative spirit. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Service to your community does give you deep insight; respect that it does so for others, too! Sharing your insights will help everyone; try to keep the corn petitive urges entirely friendly to build cooperation. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): "Your wonderfu, wicked wittiness will delight your friends, but could make big trouble at work. Keep a journal handy or Tweet your pals in those moments when you can hardly suppress yourself, but it is neither the time nor the place! SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Pluto in Capricorn until 2023 means that financial worries will be with all of us for awhile, and that you will tend to worry way too much. Your biggest challenge is to keep perspective. That takes practice. Easy does it! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January t9): If you’re not careful you may reveal some very personal secrets. If you are careful you could learn a few! Assert yourself in a mature way - being responsible and independent- to shift your status in your family. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): A shopping list or receipt could be a meditative focus. Consider what you eat, what you use, what you need, what you don’t and how this reflects your habits and goals. Compare the reality to your ideals and see what you can learn about yourself. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Even if a bit pessimistic, your foresight will be appreciated. Times are tough, and a thoughtful assessment is much more valuable than false optimism. Ruthless honesty could still upset some friendships; try to be diplomatic. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meat Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! Across Hemsley sitcom) 38 Pointless 39 Milita~, policy Farewell" musical theme from a Sherman Down 10r~sm, e.g. 2Top 3 Lady’s title 4 iWriter Calvino 5 Audeffs adieus 6 Cabaret’s "Mein . 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Although the route has changed it still is a Sunday afternoon event with preregistration beginning at 12:30 P.M. with stepoffat 2 p.m. Likewise tables ~vill still be available for vendors and for various groups to give out information. The Walk will also be preceded that day by the 5K run, which will begin on John Carter Drive and Rent Avenue, with registration for that event beginning at 11 a,m. Participation in that race costs $20 in advance, $25 the day of the race, and the runners are offat 12:30 p.m. Now chaired by John Greer MDSWalk OKC has 5 new board members, Dwayne Jones, Scott Hines, Cindy Cabrera, Diane "Wood & Maria Srouiji, who share a vision for the future. This year’s theme for the ’,Walk is "Each Step Brings Hope", and their first fundraiser will be at Partners, March !9 at 9 p.m., featuring entertainers John Beebe, Sonja Martinez and other great local entertainers. It’s a chance to get this event off:to a strong start for 2010! 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More on page-3 VOLUME 7 ISSUE 5 Twitt÷rocom/MetroStarNews President directs HHS to crack down on hospitals barring lgbt partners House ethics committee draft s.ays Congressional staffers with same-se~ spouses must include them in annual financial ~isclosure statements; Family Research Council says that violates DOMA By Lisa Keen Keen News Service WASHINGTON, DC President Obama issued a surprise memorandum Thursday- night, April 15, calling for an end to discrimination against gays and lesbians by hospital visitation policies that limit visitom to immediate family members. The timing for release of the memo was a litde odd- at 7:29 p.m. while the president was onboard Air Force One enroute back to Washington from a day of events in Florida. arrived at the hospital, a hospital social worker said they would not be able to visit Pond, even though Langbehn and Pond had executed a heal~ prox~ and Langbehn had a friend fax the document to the hospital. According to a press release from Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, which is representing Langbehn in a lawsuit against the hospital, the president apologized to Langbehn for what happened to her family. After signing the memorandum onboard "It was very rewarding to hear ’I’m sorry,’ Air Force One, the president then called from the President because that’s what I Washington State resident Janice ~gbehn have wanted to hear fro,m,,Jackson Memorial tO express his sympathy for the lossi0fhet since the night Lisa died, Said ~gbehn parmer of !8 y~s~Lis~Pond:;: m~ ..b..e..statement;" "I hopetha.t.t.a.ki"n"g these .........Vo.d and Langbehn~ st0~~subject ~tepS make~ siireth~ no ~ily eve;:-h~ t6 ~€ ~ p~6f\~\as~ rues; ~peri~nce’the pi@tm~re :thatlm ily4~as illUsiradng one ~£~h~ Urgent ~blemST~ gone ith~o!agh." : i: .... c ui les face becatise Can fid "Pres~denrObama.s.m...e.m..orandum directs because some entities still refuse to respect !he,,secr~ 0fHealth and:Human Se~ices their relationships, to ensure’ ~at hospitals which participate in During a family vacation to Miami, Medicare and Medicaid "respeCt the rights of Florida in February 2007, Pond collapsed patients to designate visitors" and ~llow those with an aneurysm and was taken by visitors the same privileges as immediate ambulance to Jackson Memorial Hospital’s family members. trauma center. When Langbehn and their ........Continued See HOSPITALS Page-6 O ahoma Exempdor £rom Federal Ha e Crh es Law- stopped "There are a couple of pastors who wear the veil of Christianity who were pttshing this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." State Representative Mike Shelton. By Victor Gorin Contributing vcriter OKLAHOMA CITY, OK When Barak Obama signed the Mat~ew Shepard- James Byrd Jr. Federal Hate Crimes Prevention Act into law last October 22, it was celebrated by the GLBT community and their allies as a major civil rights victory that was the result of almost a decade of loiJbying efforts and activism. Although some states already had hate crimes laws protecting the GLBT community (Oklahoma not among them) for the first time Arnericans in the State RepresentativeMike Shelton. Pressphoto GLBT community nationwide were protected by hate crimes laws at the Federal level. Also added by the same action were Federal protection against hate crimes based on gender and disability. Both of Oklahoma’s Senators, Dr.Tom Coburn and James Inhofe voted against the bill, along with the entire Oklahoma ........Continued See HATE CRIMES Page-6 e MetroStarNews.com May 1,2010 Gay Rodeo an Oklahoma tradition 25th Great Plains Rodeo Rides Again In OKC By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s a proud Memorial Day weekend tradition in Oklahoma City when cowboys, cowgirls and their fans celebrate the Great Plains Rodeo, which now has the distinction of lasting a quarter century. In keeping with long time tradition, it will be held at the Oldahoma State FairgroUnds. From humbler beginnings, the first rodeo came together when OGRA (Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association) joined up with the Kansas and Missouri Ga~ Rodeo Associations to form what was then the Great Plains Regional Rodeo in August of 1986. Joined by Arkansas in 1992 the event was moved to the Memorial Day weekend. In 1999 the 4 associations split up to form their own respective rodeos, thus the word "Regional" was dropped to make the event simply the Great Plains Rodeo it is today. This rodeo ranks among the top 4 rodeos of the entire International Gay Rodeo Association circuit, which comprises over 20 rodeos. The International Gay Rodeo Association is made up of 28 state/provincial rodeo associations in the United States and Canada, and OGRA has been part of that organization since their first convention was held in 1985. O.G.R.A. was formed to provide a welcoming environment for those interested in the Western lifestyle without regard to sex or sexual orientation, national origin, race or any other form of prejudice. In other words, a way to bring people together to enjoy country and western life! This year the fun kicks offThursday May 27 with a Poolside Reception Party at the Finishline from 6-8 p.m. for the Rodeo sponsors and officials, followed by a stick horse rodeo that’s sure to be hilarious. This year will also feature a Stick Home Contest in which organizations can enter a decorated stick home, with votes for a winner that cost $1 apiece. The winning organization will receive a cash prize, and the stick horses will be auctioned off for charity. For more ........Continued See RODEO Page-8 ere’s More Fun this Fall at SS ’S 2010 Sooner State Stampede By Victor Gorin ~m Dic~,,nan, SSRA President. Sta~Cphat:o TULSA. OK As the OGI~’s Great Plains Rodeo welcomes summertime fun, this year more festivities jumpstart autumn as SSRA ( Sooner State Rodeo Ass6ciation) hosts another rodeo event, their 2010 Sooner State Stampede. It will not only feature traditiona! rodeo events, but also the fnn trappi,~gs of gay rodeo such as wild drag and goav dressing. It will mark SSI~k’s first rodeo with fifll equestrian amenities. t wvw¢.bridlecreekok.com). Sanctioned by the International Gay Rodeo Association I IGRA) this event promises to attract westerners from all over Oklahoma and nationwide. SSRA was formed in 2002 to give men ~d women of rodeo and the western lifestyle ofTutsa and eastern Oklahoma an association by which to come together and celebrate country culture. Like OGRA. SSRA is a 501c3 organization, and likewise is united ~br this cause without regard to race, sexua! orientation, religion, national origin, or any other prejudice one might encounten SSP~ celebrates not only rodeos and horse relaed activities, but also dogging, western and square dancing. The}, are also active in fundraisers that benefit various Oklahoma charities. Each October they select their royalty competitions for Mr. SSRA, Ms. SSRA, plus Miss and MisTER SSRA, who represent the organization at rodeos and fundraising events. ~aeir current president is Tulsan Tim Dickman. ~e winners from this event may go on to compete at IGRA’s World Gay Rodeo Finals held this year in Laughlin, Nevada October 2!- 24. For more information about the event check out ,a~vw.soonerstaterodeo.com tThe host hotel will be the Ramada Tulsa Airport East located at 1010 North Garnett Road, telephone 918 437 7660 (ww~:ramadaairport.com). Be sure to mention the Sooner State Stampede when booking your room for a special rare. www.metrostarnows.corn Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus elects new o cers By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK As O.G.L.EC. re-organizes, at their April meeting newofficers were elected: The cochairs are Steven Dubois & Jeanne Flanigan, Secretary Victor Gorin and Treasurer Richard Vreeland. As a revitalized organization they are meeting at the Neighborhood Alliance Building, 1236 N. 36th Street { N.W. 36thand Classen Boulevard) of Oklahoma City at 7 p.m. the 2nd Monday of each month, the next meeting on May 10. For~ more infBrmation e-mail Jeanne Flanigan at Ok.glpc@Tahoo.com or call her at (405) 255 3658. Openly Gay TeacherJoe igley to be trans£erred £rom U.S. Grant High School By Victor Gorin Contributing writer TeacherJoe Quigley. Gorin ?hoto OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Joe Quigley is a high school English teacher who made history in Oklahoma City not only in the school system but for the GLBT community. He became well known when he was teaching English at Northwest Ctassen High S&ool. fighting for years to have the ~vords "sexual orientation/gender identit3:’ included in the Student Handbook to be among categories to be protected from harassment and bullying, His tenacious efforts almost cost him his iob last August when the OKC School Board voted to fire him. He not only won reinstatement in District Court, but soon after~vards th’e Oklahoma City School Board finally voted in the inclusive language for the Student Handbook. Although he was reinstated, instead of being returned to his original position at Northwest Classen he was instead transferred to U.S. Grant High School. U.S: Grant had been on the Federal list of schools in need of improvement and ~vas thus required to restructure under the guidelines of the No Child Left Behind Act. ~is would require that 50% of the teachers be removed. Joe Quigley was among the teachers to be transferred, who will receive full pay and benefits as substitute teachers for a 2 ........Continued See O~IGLEY Pag_e-4 Keith Kimmel found Dead in Norman March 31 following his arrest by Tulsa Police By Victor Gorin TULSA, OK Keith Kimmel, an activist with the GLBT com.munity was found de~d Wednesday morning March 31 around 7:45 a.m. by Kerri Logsdon. He had been staying at her home temporarily, and he was found seated in front of her computer. In a posting Monday on his Internet blog he had written, "I am done trying to love a world that has no love for me. I am done trying to believe redeeming things about people who have nothing redeemable about them." In accordance with his wishes, after an autopsy is performed his body would be cremated and his ashes sent to his family in Indiana. Tile preceding Friday night he had been drinking at the End Up Club, and according to statements he made was upset about a relationship he had with a dancer there. According to the dub owner Blake Mterman Keith had been there earlier that evening, left and then returned around 11:00 p.m. At that point Mr. Kimme! was very intoxicated, became very, combative and angry when the bartenders refused to serve him at which point the Tulsa police were called. During his arrest he claimed to have been physically and verbally abused at the club, and that officers had hit his head several times on the door frame of a patro! car. He was taken to St. John’s Hospital where he was given treatment ~br his injuries and bus tokens to get him back to his car. He returned to Norma~ the following da); and mailed a complaint of police brutality to the Internal Affairs Departmefii~ of the Tulsa police. Keith ~mmel had been im,olved with activist causes with the GLBT community but ,was probably best known for filing a lawsfiit against the Oklahoma Tax Commission ~vhen they refused to issue him a specialized license plate that stated IMGAY. He had dismissed that lawsuit February 26, stating that he would re-file it in Federal court at a later time. Mthough there was speculation as to what really happened during his arrest, including the possibility that his death might have been caused by the injuries from that night, the facts of his death are unknown at press time pending the results of a future autopsy. Mr. Mterman has urged caution stating," While I do want to see justice served. I would urge that as a community we wait until the final verdicl comes in. giving the police and the coroner’s office the proper time to do their invesngation before we make any conjectures or statements. After that comes out we as a communitT can move forward and get through this togethed" Blake further related that business had dropped since the incident, and stated that he’d like to remind the community that his establishment is still a peaceful party place. On Monday afternoons beginning around 4:30 p.m. there is still a free dinner courtesy of Midtown Meats located at 7924 E. 21st Street in Tulsa, and has morphed into a potluck supper. Tuesday nights still feature draft beer specials from open til 7 p.m. dose (understandably a busy day). The pool tournament happens on \gednesday nights at Bingo Thursday nights continues to be a rocking event, and the weekend features partying with the hot dancers. ~nis is follmved by Sunday beer busts. Blake further stated that business was picking up, and invited the community to see for themselves that the Endup is still a happening place to come together. Oklahomans for Equality Award Recipients 2010 TULSA, OK Each year OkEq recognizes outstanding individuals who have both helped change and shape our ever evolving community. This year we are pleased to announce the following winners. The awards were presented at the 30th Anniversary Equality Gala on April 24, 2010. Life Time Achievement A,vard 20 years of service to the lgbt community Kelly Kirby Russell Bennett Spiritual Inclusion Award Advocacy for interfaith and lgbt dialogue Rabbi Charles E Sherman Temple Israel Community Hero Advocacy work for lgbtq youth Karen L. Davis Senior Program Officer Tulsa Community Foundation and Tulsa Reaches Out Community Hero 2004 Oklahoma Marriage Discrimination Lawsuit Gay Phillips & Sue Barton Sharon Baldwin & Mary Bishop Volunteers of the Year I.T. Team Eric Vogelpohl Don Satterthwaite Andrew Hicks Grand Marshal 2010 Pride Parade and Festival Rev Marlin Lavanhar Advocacy work for the global lgbt community year period if they cannot be placed in a permanent position, after which a teacher could be dismissed without the procedures of due process afforded tenured educators. As Joe puts it, "I was deliberately placed in a sChool where the District knew the teachers would have to be reduced and I look at this as yet another attempt to skirt the wilt and judgment of the District Court." The Oklahoma City Schoo! District has appealed his reinstatement, a process that could take as long as 2 years, so far incurring over $200,000 in legal expenses as the district faces a severe budget crisis. But so far Joe Quigley can say this much. "In the future the parents and taxpayers of the Oklahoma City Public School District need to start paying more attention to the teachers and less to the highly paid administrators, because there is documentation both anecdotal and in writing that the taxpayers have been continually ripped off in order to make administrators look good at the expense of the education df their students. " Senator Rice: "GOP Leadership Must Rebuke Incendiary R etoric" Oklahoma State SenatorAndrew Rice. File photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (PR) April 15, 2010 Senator Andrew Rice (D-Oldahoma City) said today that the anti-government rhetoric among some Republican state legislators" has reached disturbing levels. Rice pointed to comments by a Republican legislator running for statewide office who said on Wednesday that the federal government is "tyrannical" and said he is willing to take his challenge of the federal government "to the max." Rice said these comments are particularly disturbing given the fact the remarks came just days after the Republican state legislator and others said tile state of Oklahoma should create a citizen’s militia to protect Oklahoma’s sovereignty from an "overreaching" United State’s government. "All elected officials have a tremendous responsibility to be careful with the words xve choose to use in public," Senator Andrew Rice said. ’~t a time when more and more people are using words that carry violent connotations to express what may be legitimate frustrations with government policies, you would hope that elected officials would refrain from feeding into that frenzy." Rice said that non-partisan experts of anti-government violence and terrorism have recently expressed concerns about the rhetoric. Rice pointed to comments by David Cid, executive director of Oldahoma City-based Memorial Institute for the Prevention ofTerrorism, who was quoted in the Oklahoma Gazette saying: "People are angry and frustrated, and among those who are angry mad frustrated, there is a small number, but them are a number who will pick up a gun." Rice said examples of evidence of antigovernment violence occurred both in Austin, Texas and Michigan as one group threatened violence against the government, and another person acted out on his anger in an act of domestic terrorism against the IRS, killing one innocent citizen and himself. ’°I call on the Republican leaders of the Legislature to rebuke this inflammatory language ofsome of their members coming just days before the 15th anniversary of the Oklahoma City bombing," Rice said. ’~All Oklahomans should be offended to hear any elected official use language that is reminiscent to the anti-government language used by Timothy McVeigh, especially leading up to this painful time of year for our state." Rice explained while McVeigh was on death row awaiting his execution for the murder of 168 innocent Oklahomans, he sent a letter to a London newspaper titled: "Why I bombed the Murrah building." In it McVeigh explains: "I reached the decision to go on the offensive - to put a check on government abuse of power, where others had failed in stopping the federal juggernaut running amok," he said. Oklahoma Tobacco Free help No matter who yot are on life’s -Reverend 3131 N. Pennsylvania,0kloh0~ 405.525.9555 4 ~:~,T~:()STA May 1, 2010 Out magazine lists ’most inEuential’ gays, lesbians Ellen DeGeneres. GL_~L4D photo Ellen DeGeneres is America’s "most influential" gay man or woman, according to Out magazine’s fourth annual "Power 50" list. "Since DeGeneres replaced Paula Abdul as a judge on Banerican Idol in February, millions upon millions of viewers are getting a double dose of the hugely popular talk show host and 12-time Emmy winner," Out said. "The American FLxpre~s and Covergirl pitchwoman’S rcacb~ is nearly unparalteled~ ... A passionate advocat( ~br marriage equalit)5 anavid opponent of’don’t ask, don’t tell,’ and staunch defender of animal rights, DeGeneres’s enormous platform is many an American’s gain." Others near the top of the list include MSNBC anchor Rachel Maddow, CNN anchor Anderson Cooper, singer Adam Lambert, actor Nell Patrick Harris, Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese and U.S. Reps. Tammy Baldwin, Jared Polls and Barney Frank. For the full list, see out.corn/power50. Effort to repeal Prop 8 fails to collect enough signat es. Federal Prop 8 trial remains paused. A grassroots effort to force a November 2010 ballot-box vote on repealing Proposition 8 failed to collect enough voter signatures by the April 12~deadline to get the measure on the ballot. Groups pushing the 2010 repeal effort faced an uphill battle from the get-go because California’s gay-rights leadership refused to support the project, believing that 2012 will be a better year to return to the ballot. The lead 2010 organization, Love Honor Cherish, did not say" hmv many signatures it did manage to collect. Just under 700,000 valid signatures would have been needed. "Tnis is a heartbrealdng moment," said LHC Executive Director John Henning. "Despite the dogged efforts of hun&eds of volunteers across California, we did not get Wockner News Service 7he #’ial in the.f}dem! tawsu# to overturn 8 as a violation ofthe U.S. Constitution.{ms been paused in San Francisco sinceJan. 2Z Famous attorneys DavM Boles, r{~ht, and Ted Olson are among the l.mwers argui,g the case for the gay side, Photo @ Rex Wochner the signatures we needed within the 150-day window set by the state. Regrettably, Prop 8 will remain as a stain on our constitution until at least 2012, and perhaps latel:" Love Honor Cherish was one of 40 mosdy grassroots groups working for a 2010 vote within a coalition called Restore Equality 2010. "Our signature-collection effort may have fallen short, but we stand tall as being the only statewide campaign that fought for repealing Proposition 8 in 2010," said Sean Bohac, chair of the Restore Equality 2010 Statewide Advisory Panel. "Our campaigners carried the torch of Harvey Milk, who showed that change only happens when we get out of the bars and into the streets. Band our efforts are reflected in the new polls that show increased support for extending marriage to all Californians." Bohac told The San Diego Union-Tribune that the number of signatures collected "was not particularly close" to the 694,354 needed. "We won’t be making, it public," he said. Recent polls by d~e Public Policy Institute of California and by the Los Angeles Times/ University of Southern California have shown that, for the first time, a majority of Californians now support same-sex marriage -- suggesting that top gay rights groups Equality California and Courage Campaign may have made a misstep in refusing to support the 2010 effort. EQCA and Courage expressed fears that voters would not be ready to reverse themselves just two years after rebanning same-sex marriage. But EQCA Executive Director GeoffKors said the poll results haven’t caused the group to second-guess its decision. "Equality California still believes 20!2 is the fight time to go to the ballot;’ Kors said. "Those polls were not oflikely voters for the 2010 election. When you dig deeper into those polls -- and our internal polls during the same time period -- what’s clear is young voters are the ones who move the most. And young voters make tip a much larger percentage of the electorate in a presidential race (2012) than a gubernatorial race (2010), which is why the L.A. Times said, after looking at their poll numbers in the article, it’s clear why gay rights groups wanted to wait until 2012, because 2010 doesn’t provide us the best opportunity to win due to voter turnout." Restore Equality 2010 said it now will join up with the 2012 effort. Signature collecting for that project is expected to begin in the summer of 2011. A California Supreme Court ruling legalized same-sex marriage in May 2008 and weddings began June ! 6, 2008. Tiae court said preventing gay couples from marrying violated the state constitution. Even more groundbreakAng, the court also ruled that sexual orientation is a "suspect classification" -- which made aW type ofdiscrimination based on sexual orientation constitutionally subject to the strictest level ofscrutiny by California courts. California governmental entities now have to prove they have a specific "compelling interest" -- rather than a mere "rational basis" - - when they treat GLB people differently in any way. The change made it dramatically harder for any level ofgovernment to defend itself in any arena where gays, lesbians and bisexuals are not treated the same as heterosexuals. Some 18,000 same-sex couples married in California before voters amended the state constitution to re-ban same-sex marriage in November 2008. N~e California Supreme Court later ruled that Prop 8 was a valid amendment to the constitution. A federal lawsuit led by famous attorneys David Boles and Ted Olson to overturn Prop 8 as a violation of the U.S. Constitution is ongoing in San Francisco. The trial paused on Jan. 27 after all testimony had been heard but before closing arguments because Judge Vaughn ~Walker said he wanted to review the testimoW prior to hearing the attorneys’ final statements. The conclusion ofthe trial apparently has been further delayed while gay’ groups that ran the ballot campaign against Prop 8, who are not parties to the federal lawsuit, fight an order to turn over some of their e-mails from the campaign period. Protestors chained to W/site HousejSnce: PtSoto b_yjohn Aravosis @A_MERICAblog N~e LGBT community’s new activist pit bulls, GetEQUAL, dramatically upped the pressure on President Barack Obama on April 19 and 20 over his failure to succeed in keeping major campaign promises to LGBT Americans. Although Obama has taken several small steps seen as favorable or helpful to LGBT Americans, he has yet to engineer the passage of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, or the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act. GetEQUAIJs latest broadside started April :....Continued see Get_EQUAL - page 9 www.metrostamews.corn ~)~ETROSTAR 5 More specifically, the memo instructs HHS to ensure that hospitals receiving federal funds nor deW visitation based on sexual orientation or gender identity, along.with the usual categories of non-discrimination. Human Rights Fund spokesman Michael Cole said his organization had been ~vorking with the Xg~hite House on the memo language [’or some rime. He said he was unaware of any particular reason for the timing. "It was a long process for them to get the memo language set and al! of their ducks in a row," said Cole- so my impression is that this was the point at which it was done." The April 15 memorandum is the second memorandum issued by the president to specifically help LGBT people. In June 2009, President Obama signed a memorandum to the ONce of Personnel Management Director requesting that the heads of all executive departments and agencies "conduct a review" of current benefits available to federal employees within 90 days "to determine what authority they have to extend such benefits to same-sex domestic partners of Federal employees" and submit a report on rMs to OPM. Kevin Cathcart, executive director of Lambda Legal, called the president’s hospital visitation memorandum a "great leap forward in addressing discrimination affecting LGBT patients and their families." "These measures are intended to ensure that no family will have to experience what the Langbehn-Pond family did that night at Jackson Memorial Hospital," said Cathcart, in a statement isstled Thursday night. k federal district court judge dismissed Lambda’s ta~vsuit on behalf of Langbehn, saying there was no law requiring the hospital to allow Lisa Pond’s partner to see her at the hospital. On Monday, April 12, Lambda issued a press release saying it had reached an agreement with Jackson Memorial for "qmproved policies that are more responsive ro the needs of the LGBT community." But Lambda said the agreement does "not provide as much protection as may be needed in critical sitnations." Lambda noted that the president’s memorandum calls on HHS to take steps to ensure that hospitals respect legal documents that some patients have to designate who can make decisions for them if they become incapacitated. It also requires HHS to report back to the president in !80 days with additional recommendations for actions HHS can take "to address hospital visitation, medical decision-maHng, or other health care ~ssues that ~?cr LGBT patients and their Ironically, the pool reporter on board the ~ighr back to Washington reported there was No news on the way back" from Florida. Meanwhile. Roll Call a newspaper specializing in covering Capitol Hill, reported Thursday that the House Committee on Standards of ONcia! Conduct has "drafted rules that for the first time would define gay married couples as ’spouses" for the purposes of filling out their annual Congressional financial disclosure forms." The forms are used by members of Congress and their staffs to make annual discIosures of any additional sources of income and investments by them and their spouses and dependent children. The draft rules propose requiring that any members or staffwho have married same-sex spouses in Washington, D.C. or aW of the states which provide for equal marriage rights to include information about their spouse’s finances, the same as straight members and staff Inust do about their legal spouses. Roll Call quoted a spokesman for the Family Research Council as saying the draft rules violate the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DO1VL&), which prohibits federal recognition of same-sex marriages. The paper noted that the draft rule had been removed from the committee’s website. The Committee’s webs!re currently lists instructions for filling out the form for calendar year 2008 disclosures even though the forms due next month are for calendar year 2009. MissoOa bans anti- LGBT discrimination The City Council in Missoula, Mont., voted 10-2 on April 12 to prohibit discrimination in employment and housing on the basis of sexual orientation or gender identity, the Missoulian reporte& The vote came at 1:45 in the morning at the end of a seven-hour meeting. "Most of us can’t remember civil rights in action," said Councilwoman Sficy Rye. "This is it for us." Gay man elected mayor ofsmall Colorado town An openly gay man, Ron Holland, was elected mayor of Dillon, Colo., April 6. He received 90 votes to an opponent’s 72 in the mountain town of about 800 people. Holland, who is serving his first term on the City Council, told the Summit Daily News he was "ecstatic" over his victory. Martina has breast cancer Mart!ha NavradIova. Ougames~hoto Lesbian tennis legend Martina Navratilova told People magazine April 7 that she has breast cancer. The ductai carcinoma was discovered early and is expected to be fully curable. "I cried," Navratilova said. "It knocked me on my ass, really. I feet so in control ofmy life and my body, and then this comes, and it’s completely out ofmy hands." "I went four years between mammograms," she added. "I let it slide. Everyone gets busy, but don’t make excuses. I stay in shape and eat right, and it happened to me. Another year and I could have been in big trouble." Navratilova will undergo six weeks of radiation treatment starting in May. Congresswoman Tammy BaldWin On President - Obama’s signing ofa. memorand reNardmg the visitation rights of hospital patients Congresswoman Baldwin. Woclowrphoto WASHINGTON, DC (PR) "President Obama’s decision to direct the Secretaryof Healrah and Human Services to take steps to ensure that hospitals participating in Medicare or Medicaid respect the rights ofpatients to receive visitors and designate others to make decisions about medical care in the case ofan emergency is the right one. It follows the lead ofmany states and makes a strong statement about who we are as a nation and what we valne. No one should face the distress oflying ill or injured in a hospital bed with the loved one you designate barred from your bedside for any other than a compelling medical reason. For too long, such access has been arbitrarily denied many individuals, most especially to gay mad lesbian Americans. President Obama’s action tonight puts us another step doser toward our goal ofequal rights for all Americans and I appland his decision: Congressional Delegation, Passage of the bill intensified conservative religious groups who had campaigned against the Act and this was particularly felt in Oklahoma, although the legislation was hailed by the GLBT community and civil rights activists as a progressive measure long overdue. What followed was an attempt to "opt Oklahoma out" of this new protection, spearheaded by State Senator Steven Russell ( Republican- District 45) with State Senate Bil! 1965. The bill actually began as an ordinary measure to start a task force to research public and private high school athletics, authored by State Senator Harry Coates (Republicam) and State Representative "Wes Hilliard (Democrat). After the bill passed out of committee, S.B. 1965 was altered by Senator Russell who removed the original language. He then added language that would have prevented Oldahoma law enforcement from cooperating ,vith Federal authorities when a hate crime ~vas committed in Oklahoma. ~e bill then passed the State Senate 39-6. The ensuing publicity, including a GLBT lobbying day at the State Capitol focused mainly on this legislation, resulted in a re-xvrite of the bill by Senator Russell in an attempt to make it less offensive and passable. The rewritten version permitted Federal authorities to petition State District Courts for evidence relating to an Oldahoma hate crime if local law enforcement objected to cooperating with the Federal authorities. Among the groups opposed to this legislation was the Oklahoma American Civil Liberties Union. One of their lobbyists, Tamya Cox, spoke to State Representative Mike Shelton (Democrat District 97) who "hated this bill, understood the implications and issues of this from the onset, stated that we had to do something." Mr. Shelton persuaded the House author of the bill, Representative Danny Hilliard to let him have the bill. Once Mr. Shdton had control of the bill he withdrew it, thus ldlling this legislation. Although an unusual strategy, it was an effective action he stated that he felt he had to take because as he put it, ’~Mnything that breaks down the opportunity ro protect Oklahomans from harm is wrong. Legislation and resolutions that hurt people only give a black eye to our state." Although he has received positive feedback for his action, predictably he has received negative responses as well, including some from the conservative religious community. It hasn’t swayed his resolve as he relates, "There are a couple of pastors that wear the veil of Christianity who were pushing this legislation. As a Christian this offends me because the Jesus I know doesn’t stand for that." GLBT and civil rights activists are continuing to monitor the situation in case attempts are made to re-introduce this or similar measures with another bill. ’uptcv - CivJJ Rights oCriminal ’ment o Family Law o Litigation 625 N. o l th street Cit% OK 7 105 6 ~KTROSTAR May 1, 2010 contim es "First ursday" Art Opening and E ibit ofOriginal Wbrks by MattJohnson. Bebe gives her ’Best O£’ for Race! The reigningD*agRace queen goes though her list ofseason two superlatives TULSA, OK (PR) The May Oklahomans for Equality (Oldgq) showcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Nei!l Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown Tulsa), will feature the Artistic Nude Photography ofMatt Johnson. The show begins with a reception on Thursday, May 6th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month of May. Oklahoman Matt Johnson, owner of Johnson Studios, specializes in Artistic Nude Photography and is based in Tulsa. Matt has always had a deep appreciation for the human form. He began his art expression in the color pencil medinm sketching in the pln-up type format in his teen years. Mfitt is a neon bender by trade for a commercial sign company. He has been married to his wife Denise since 1987 and they have three wonderful children. In 2006 his artistic will drew him to the camera. Since then he has been creating nude art using the lens of a camera and his imagination through the editing process. After developing a diverse portfolio Matt’s xvork was accepted into galleries in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. He was the featured artist in two different Eureka Springs gallery shows in 2009. Matt is beginning to show his work in his home town ofTulsa and is scheduled for two separate gallery shows in the upcoming months. Matt’s friendly easy- going manner makes his photo sessions comfortable, relaxed and fun experiences for his models. They are always thrilled with their images and often come back for additional sessions. allows Matt to continue to create new and exciting images from his eyeto the computer and then the paper. The show begins with a reception at the Dennis IL Nei!l Equality Center on Thursday, May 6th fi’om 6-9pm; Matt’s art will be on displa~v through May 2010. Founded by a dedicatedgroup ofvolunteers in 1980, Oklahomansfar Equali~r/OkEq is Oklahoma’s oMestgay rights o~nization. From testingfor HIV/AIDS and hosting t/~e annual 7~dsa PHele and Diversi~ Celebration m operati~ the Equadity Center and documenting the ~tha LGBTcommunity’s rich histor~ OkEq worksfor socialjustice amtfidl inclusionfor Oklahoma’s lesbian, ga)~ bisccuai, and transgender (LGBT) citizens and their allies. For more i*{~ormation, see wwt~;okeq.org By Bebe Zahara Benet Wasn’t it great to see me on the special episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race this week? Well, it was wonderful to sit down with RuPaul and my season one sisters Ongina and Nina Flowers to critique season two, but there was still so much more to be said that I tlmught I’d dedicate this week’s colttrnn to some ofmy favorite moments that we didfft get a chance to talk about during the show. Funniest Moment: There’s plenty to choose from, but for me it has got to be Jujube during the reading challenge. I just loved everything she said about everybody - calling Raven legendary- as in "leg" and "dairy," snapping at Jessica in Chinese and even ta~ng smack about Tyra’s grill - that reading was hilarious! A second runner-up moment was Pandora Boxx playing CarolChanning in the "Snatch Game" challenge. Ms. Boxx knows how to mine a laugh. Biggest Diva Moments: We had more , than a few moments to judge this season. 111 skip ranking catfights a~d assess in terms of performance. I’d say the other Tyra coming out as sophisticatedlady on a mad shopping spree was a great diva moment, as was Jujube’s peach dress in the Old Hollywood fashion challenge. It was mentioned in the live show, but it bears mentioning again - Raven’s gold Cleopatra dress and blonde afro was really, really fierc!! ~ Best Makeup: Oh honey! Give it to Raven! I think Raven really s~vitched up her makeup to go with different looks. Even , , ~vhen she did the country girl or the rock n roll look or the whole glamour thing she was able to create a different persona through makeup. She is really mastering the craft and art of drag. Best Runway: I will go with Jujube. I really will! She walks with confidence, walks with so much fierceness, so much attitude and so much personality. I really love how she does all levels of her presentation. Best Lip-sync: It seems like I’m a fan of Jujube! I love how she lip-syncs. Sometimes she gives a little too much, but she is more often right on the money. She is able to catch the little things the artist does. She’s right on point with it. ~aat’s someone who has studied the music and knows what the whole song is about. I also liked Raven’s lip-syncing. ~aere is something about it that is a little sassy. I’d give it to both of them. Biggest \Vish: To see Jessica \~ild last longer. She had so much potential! If she had been given another chance I am convinced there ~vould have been other things about her ~erfor,mance that would have made us all go WOW. Catdh the finale of RuPaul’s Drag Race at 9pro (ET/PT) this Monday night on Logo and visit LOGOonline.com to find out about vievdng parties in your area. Until next week, kisses and good luck! www.metrostarnews.com ~et~oSTAR 7 H e tension By Ronald Blake Contributing ~X~riter Photo: RonaM Blake, Certified Fitness Ins~’uctor through ISSA International Sports Sciences Association The heart beats faster! Tixe blood vessels constrict even more! Tixe h<art, lungs, and brain ache for more help but it isn’t coming fast enough! There is a shudder and then complete blackness! This Edgar Allan Poe moment of chimerical horror describes a massive stroke for someone that suffered one day too many from hypertension. Gather round the campfire and H1 explain this medical condition, its causes, and preventative measures to avoid it. Hypertension is high blood pressure and one out of five people in our country are experiencing it. Tile blood vessels constrict and the heart has to pump harder to get that blood delivered around the bod?,: The heart begins to ,yemen from overload and the constricted vessels become compromised over time. Blood pressure changes all the time. It won’t kill you to have high blood pressure once in awhile though. Swerving to avoid the reckless driver on the freeway, climbing five flights of stairs quickly, or being startled by the ghastliness of that first and last time drag queen can all contribute to a spike in blood pressure. Consistently visiting this elevated zone is very much a problem. Many people wofft feel any symptoms from this disease for 10 to 20 years and then it can strike like a thief in the night. There isn’t a specific cause of hypertension but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a lack of culprits calling in and claiming responsibility for this physiological terrorism. Heredity is a card we are dealt at birth and is a frequent contributor to this ugliness~ Hypertensive parents bequeath their kids a two times greater likelihood of having this disease than for those kids of parents without hypertension. That really sucks and all you did was be born to the world! Don’t grab the bottle and give up just yet if you inherited these lousy hand-me-downs from morn and pop. There are plenty of other ways to cotlnteract the ill effects of high blood pressure. Other causes of this nasty medical condition are obesity, stress, smoking, and improper diet and they are al! something you can control. Obese individuals are about twice as likely tO be hypertensive as those men and women ,vho are aren’t in that overweight category. I’m no Pd~odes Scholar but I think that means if you exercise and stay lean then you decrease your risk. That sounds like something you can control! S[ress can walk you down the aisle and give you away to high blood pressure too. Stop getting angry at all the little problems in the world! A late bill, rush hour traffic, the moth~r-in-law visit, and the ripped underwear at 6AM aren’t worth your emotional intensity. Relax and take a deep breath when these moments occur. That sounds like something you can control! Smoking always constricts your blood vessels and raises your blood pressure every time. Cigarettes aren’t cheap and there are smoking cessation programs al! over the place. That sounds like something you can control! Foods with excessive sodium, saturated fat, or cholesterol are al! significant donors to th~ election campaign for hypertension. This candidate for office can’t win without your donations. That sounds like something you can control! There are also drugs that can Be prescribed to aid in your efforts against this evil force. Don’t be scared by this villain of your vessels! With adherence to these suggestions you may live a healthy life and worry about hypertension (Quoth the raven) nevermore! This purloined letter was brought to you by that guy who tore up the planks in the house of Usher. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be found descending into the maelstrom at www.myblakefitness.com. information about the contest contact the rodeo’s co-directors, Klint Weiden ( 405 408 6140) or Paul Boyd (405 630-4388). Following on Friday it gets wild with a Poolside Cookout also at the Finishline from 3-6 p.m., then it’s registration time at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds from 6-9 p.m ( Barn #9)., with a cash bar and snacks provided to make it go better, along with entertainment from 6-8 p.m. Keeping the night kicking along is the HomoRodeo Mixer happening at the Finishline beginning at 9 p.m., also a All Rodeo Royalty Show at Phoenix Rising at 9 p.m. as well. The Rodeo begins the following Saturday at 8:00 P.m., and after a funfilled day of events one can unwind or windup at the Copa’s Texas Tea Party beginning at 6 p.m. a grand tradition hosted by the Texas Gay Rodeo Association. At 9 p.m. that same night there will be a country concert at ~Amgles featuring recording artist James Allen Clark among other local muscians. That night the stick horse contest winner will be announced, and the stick horses auctioned off. Then it’s Sunday morning coming down as the rodeo begins the final day o£ competition, resuming at 8:00 a.m. at the Fairgrounds. The Finishline that day will feature a Head Country Barbeque at 6:00 p.m. with a hearty dinner for the price of $12. followed by the Awards Ceremony at 7 p.m. a,varding bucldes, saddles and cash to the winners of the rodeo. To wind up the event Monday a Wind Down Party will be held at Phoenix Rising with a hamburger/~bt d6g c86koUt froln Noon until 2 p.m., with drink specials and funfilled recollections of the wild weekend. ~ Ifyou or an organization is interested in being a vendor, contact Larry Foley at auditor@ogra.net ~ne host hotel this year is the Hilton Garden Inn, located at 801 S. Meridian. Telephone (405 942 1400) with special rates available until May 14 ifyou mention the rodeo. Come join the fun! For more information check out their website at vcww.ogra.net. 8 ~Y~:OSTAR May 1, 2010 CMS now- pays for treatment ofHIV related facial Lipodystrophy Disorder must cause depression for individuals to receive coverage By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services (CMS) announced last month that it will pay for facial injections for beneficiaries who have facial lipodystrophy syndrome (LDS) if, in fact, the person suffers from depression secondary to the disorder. Reportedly, individuals who take these medications and experience facial LDS side effects may suffer psychological effects related to a negative selfimage. "Ofcourse I am depressed about the way I look from the way my face looks now;’ said Allen Leon, an OHahoma City man who has the disorder. "Looks are very important to everyone, not just gay people. People stare; they can’t help it. I feel that I am judged by people and I am uncomfortable when meeting new people." The disorder is very stigmatizing. LDS is a localized loss offat from the face, causing an excessively thin, hollowed appearance in the cheeks. In some cases, facial LDS may be a side effect ofcertain kinds of Director, Coverage and Analysis Group for CMS. "These effects may lead people living with HIV to discontinue their antiretroviral therapies." Grade four (offour grades) leaves a person the most emaciated-looking. The injections are "fillers" that have been approved by the U.S. Food & Drug Administration (FDA) to be injected under the skin in the face to help fill out its appearance specifically for treatment offacial LDS. Data show that these injections can improve patient self-image, relieve symptoms ofdepression, and may lead to improved compliance with anti-HIV treatment. The average cost of the injections is $500 for a two-vial treatment. Most people require a total of three treatments. Medicare coverage for the injections has already begun. This is an important milestone in Medicare coverage for HIV-infection therapies by helping people living with HIV improve their self-image and treating side effects of Lipotrophy by grade: Lipoatrophy withfat loss covering a wide area oftheface and the skin is living directly on thefacial muscles. medications (antiretroviral therapies) that individuals receive as part ofan HIV infection treatment regimen. "Facial LDS can leave people living with HIVlooking gaunt and seriously ill, which may stigmatize them as part oftheir HIV-infecrion status," said Dr. Louis B. Jacques, MD medications. Compliance with anti-HIV treatment can lead to better quality oflife and, ultimately, improve the quality ofcare that beneficiaries receive. For more information, visit http ://,arww.cms.hhs.gov/mcd/ viewdecisionmemo.asp ?id=234. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender aging issues take center stage at Congressional briefing on Capitol Hill WASHINGTON, (PR) April 21 The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force and Services and Advocacy for LGBT Elders (SAGE) are convening a National LGBT Aging Roundtable this week in Washingxon, D.C. In addition, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force has organized a congressional briefing on issues facing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people as they age. The briefing was held April 22, 9:30-11 a.m. in Room 121 of the CannonHouse Office Building on Capitol Hill. The injustice facing many LGBT elders was brought home just this week by the painfut stoW of Clay Greene and Harold Scull~ an elderly gay couple separated by o~ci~s in Sonoma County, Calif., who also sold their possessions despite the measures the couple took to protect their relationship. More details here. "The needs of the oldest members of our community have long been invisible to many of us and ignored by most institutions in our society," said Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, which recently released Outing Age 2010: Public Policy Issues Affecting Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (LGBT) Elders. "LGBT elders remain a highly vulnerable and largely invisible aging population. We know that invisibility leads to greater social isolation~ which can lead to increased vulnerability in many areas. We also know that discrimination across the tifespan leaves LGBT people economically and socially vulnerable as tlaey age. There are many challenges but we also have concrete recommendations on how aging advocates, policy mak,e,rs and social service agencies can meet them. Scheduled speakers at Thursday’s congressional briefing were Laurie Young, aging analyst and interim director of Public Policy and Government Affairs of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, who discussed findings and recommendations in Outing Age 2010; Hope Barrett, director of Elder Affairs of the Howard Brown Health Clinic; Harper Jean Tobin, policy counse! of the National Center for Transgender Equality; Joyce Pierson, elder rights advocate and former staffofthe Elder Rights Project of the National Center for Lesbian Rights; and John Johnson, SAGE’S federal director of governmental affairs. "Most Americans already face challenges as the~ age, but LGBT older adults have the added burden of a lifetime of stigma; relationships that generally lack legal recognition; and unequal treatment under laws, programs and services designed to support and protect older Americans," said Johnson. We must educate our elected officials and the public about the facts: that LGBT elders are more likely to live in poverty, face social and community isolation, and lack appropriate health care and longterm care. SAGE recently released a groundbrealdng report representing one of the first major collaborations between LGBT advocacy organizations and mainstream aging organizations to comprehensively examine the issues facing LGBT older adults. Improving the Lives ofLGBT Older Adults was co-authored by SAGE and the Movement Advancement Project (MAP), in partnership with the American Society on Aging, the National Senior Citizens Law ~er~ter, and the Center for American Progress, with a foreword from the AARE The report was formally rele,ased at the ~eri~n Society on ~ing’s national conference, held last mont~ in Chicago, Ill. "SAGE’S report outlines the issues and offers solutions, providing a much-needed roadmap for creating a society where all older dults are treated with &gmty and respect, said Johnson. The LGBT elder population is growing, with a large wave of openly LGBTbaby boomers poised to seek aging-related services over the next 25 years. Despite that, there is virtually no government-sponsored research on aFing that includes sexual orientation or gender identity variables. This lack of data results in policy and practices that ignore the unique realities a~d needs of older LGBT people, q-his is beginning to shift, as the corigressional briefing and ISIealth and Human Services Secretary Kathleen Sebelius’ announcement last fall of plans to establish the first national LGBT elder resource center indicates. 19 at a fundraiser for U.S. Sen. Barbara Boxer in Los Angeles. Activists David John Fleck, Dan Fotou, Laura Kanter, Zoe Nicholson and Michelle Wright paid their way into the event and then repeatedly shouted at Obama about repealing DADT as he tried to address the gathering. We are going to do that. Hey. Hold on a second! Hold on a second! We are going to do that!" Obama responded. ’7~1 right. Guys. Guys. All right. I agree. I agree. I agree.... What the young man was talking about was we need to -- we need to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, which I agree with and which we have begun to do. But let me say this: When you’ve got an ally like Barbara Boxer and you’ve got an ally like me who are standing for the same thing, then you don’t know exacdy why you’ve got to holler, because we already hear you, all right? I mean, it would make more sense to holler that at the people who. oppose it." A few moments later, more shouting ensued. "I’m sorr~ do you want to come up here?" Obama said direcdy to a protester. "Can I just say once again, Barbara and I are supportive of repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, so I don’t know why you’re hollerin’." Obama then stepped away from the microphone and spoke with Boxer. He returned to the mic and stated: "I just checked with Barbara, so if anybody else is thinking about starting a chant, B,arbara i ’ r d dnt even vote for Dont Ask, Dont Tell in the first p1ace, so you know she’s goi"ng to be in favor of repealiiag Don’t ASk, Don’t Tell." The protesters were eventually removed from the room. "President Obama has been AWOL on DADT," said Fotou. "We had to remind him of the promises he made to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community during his campaign and several times during his ~residency--t,hat DAD.T, will be repealed oecause, as he s stated, it s the right thing to do.’" Added Wright, "We made it clear our community will hold accountable our president for unkept promises." In response to Obama’s questioning why gays are shouting at him over DADT, blogger Andrew Sullivan explained: "Because, Mr. President, it is not enough to be ’supportive’ o en&ng DontAsk, DontTell. When you have the presidency and your party controls both houses of Congress, it’s a matter of having the political will to end it. Not all gay people are HRC fundraisers. Some are even risking their lives every day for this country; in uniform, only to be treated like second class human beings and citizens by their own government. Their own government? That means you, Mr. President and Senator Boxer." The following da~ April 20, GetEQUAL protesters returned to the White House for a second round of handctffl:ing themselves to the fence and getting arrested, a month after the group’s initial action there. This rime six people chained themselves to the gates -- Lt. Dan Choi, Capt. Jim Pietrangelo II, Petty Officer Larry Whitt, Petty Officer Autumn Sandeen, Cadet Mara Boyd and Cpl. Evelyn Thomas. "We are handcuffing ourselves to the White House gates once again to demand that President,Obama sho,w lea,d,ership on ,r,epealing Dont Ask, Dont Tall, said Choi. Ifthe president were serious about keeping his promise to repeal this year, he would put the repeal la%,uage in his defense authorization budget. The president gave us an order at the Human Rights Campaign dinner (in October) to keep pressure on him and we will continue to return to the W’hite House, in larger numbers, until the president keeps his promise to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell this year." Thomas commented: "A few weeEs ago I saw Lt. Dan Choi take dramatic action at the White House and it made me realize that I needed to do something to stand up for all the black female soldiers who have been discharged under DADT. Many people don’t mow that we black women are discharged disproportionately more than others under DADT2 At press rime, acco~&n~ to GetEQUB32s Twitter feed: "All six servicemembers have been taken into custody. They have served their country again today, and they deserve better than #DADT." May1, 2010 ~.metrostarnews.com 12 S~!T~OSTAR May 1, 2010 JOIN L YO~ A SHOT! ONLY ¥~11) www.metrostarnews.com RIITIOSTAR 13 We p t ..... ,Church ,~vww,mcctu~sa,org ’uptc~ o CI~il Rights °Criminal ’ment ® Family Law ~ Litigation 625 N.~’. 13.~:h Street City, OK 73"103 14 ;~ET~©STAR May 1, 2010 Photo~ by Victor G. @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angtes, Oklahoma City @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Ledo, Oklahoma City By Chris ~zopardi Glee: be Music, ~e Power o£Madmma Gle~ We wet{ alrea& episode! 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Saturn opposing Uranus is a longrunning on-and-off aspect that’s scattering minefields, challenging us to change structures and goals through the year. The Sun and Mars are triggering those with sometimes violent results. Ideological, "values"- based attacks are likely at personal and political levels. ARIES (March 20- AprR 19): Your competitive drive can become obsessive, even self-destructive. Looking good is not about conquest, but moving on gracefully. Let go, meditate, open your creative soul. You can’t do that while guarding your turf as queen of the mountain. TAURUS (Apri~ 20- May 20): Celebrate your birthday with your family and your most creative friends, not necessarily at the same party. Bringing. them together may get a bit dramatic, even catalytic. This could be a good thing, or not. Think it through. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 20): Meditation will cool your heated brain and help you to keep your mouth out of trouble. In that calm solitude, think of ways your home life can support your ambitions. They don’t have to be at war with each other. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Showing off to your friends can get expensive and become a source of fights. If your love and admiration aren’t enough, home-baked cookies should do it. If they want more, they’re not really your friends, and their arguments aren’t worth the trouble. LEO (Ju~y 23 -August 22): Whatever you do is sure to get noticed. You do realize that can be a mixed blessing! Some humility would be in order, but that doesn’t mean denying your actual gifts and accomplishments. It’s just a matter of keeping perspective. V~RGO (August 23 - September 22): Your brain wants a challenge. Find it in a book; don’t go picking arguments. If you want a good debate, hold yourself back a bit and make an effort to really hear what the other person has to say! LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Trying to keep up with peer pressure, you could worry yourself sick. Balance? It means they have to meet you half way, too. Your real friends will do that. Standing your ground is sexy. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Immediate concerns- work and partnersh p - feel like distractions from your creative engagement with the world, building the future. In fact, those quotidian details are exactly how we do that. Try to channel that aggravation into creative energy. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Domestic drama threatens to disrupt your plans at work. If you can keep an even keel, handling those unpredictable upsets could help you gain confidence in your managerial skills: Remember, a team leader is still a team member! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Maintain respect for people even when their questions seem abysmally stupid. It is tempting to mess with their heads, or to mock them, but mellow out that playful streak and engage them. That could lead to fun for all! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Everybody needs to be concerned about money these days. You may be more worried than is necessary or helpful. Don’t take it out on your family or housemates. The first purpose of discussion is to get problems into perspective. PISCES (February 19- March 19): Flaws and frustrations in your relationship, however minor, are now feeling worse than they really are. You could both make a list now to discuss later. If you must trash someone, that is what POliticians and celebrities are for. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, M0 64804 417-52943480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 1 2; 3 4 ’11 12 13 17 !9 44 46 47 64 6~667295 66 68 69 ! ofview Solution page 19 www.metrostarnews.com ~#~<~t~’oSTAR 17 WIT www.kylecomics.com RAN INTO YOU. 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On Monday September 20 the Tulsa School Board voted unanimously to add sexual orientation to its nondiscrimination and anti-bullying/harassment policy for staff members, students and parents. Tami Marlin; a spokesperson for the Tulsa Public Schools stated that the Board revised the nondiscrimination clause of the district’s anti-harassment and non-bullying policy in accordance with recommendations from the Civil Rights Office of the U.S. Department of Education. \gith this measure the Tulsa Public School District joins the school districts of Norman nondiscrimination policies. The Oklahoma City School District also includes gender identity. Oklahoma GLBT and human rights organizations hailed the decision. As Kathy L. 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O ahoma US ofA By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team 2010 M*: Gay US ofA Oklahoma Dillon Gri~n with Mya Mokka Iman-Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA 2009 U.S. Senate fails to move forward with Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Repeal Measure likely dead for this year By Rex Wockner Lady Gaga in Washington DC to support ofDADTrepeal. Rex Wockner photo OICJ_AI-IOMA CITY, OK __ It was a fun filled evening at the Copa as handsome contestants vied to be the new Mr. Gay Oklahoma US ofA. Passing on the title was Warren G ( Joshua Warren Gately), who has garnered renown as a choreographer in various pageant systems. On hand performingfor the occasion was the national titleholder, Simba R. Hall of Georgia. It was kept lively, emceed by pageant owners Jack Calcote, Steve Davis and former Miss Gay Oldahoma Brigitte Lee. The winner was Dillon Griffin with the first runnerup Andrew BeShears. Both gentlemen will compete in the National Mr. Gay US ofA Contest in San Antonio this coming November 10-12 at the Saint, a well known nightclub there. For Mr. Calcote and Mr. Davis, it has been a busy year. Their promotional firm, Topfrog Productions, puts on not only Mr. Gay US ofA Oklahoma, but also Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA at Large and Miss Gay Oldahoma US ofA Newcomer, which debuted this year. As Jack puts it, "It was a good year, exhausting but gratifying. I’ve met a lot of new performers, many who now are like sons and daughters." Next year Topfrog will feature the same pageants, with a new addition to be announced. WASHINGTON, DC __ The U.S. Senate failed by four votes Sept. 21 to end a filibuster by Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., and move on to consideration of this year’s military funding bill that contains congressional authorization to repeal the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell gay ban. The vote was 56 to 43. Sixty votes were needed to halt the filibuster. The measure already had passed the House of Representatives. Although Congress may opt to fund the military after the November elections, the provision repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell seems unlikely to survive now, advocates predicted. "Today’s Senate vote was a frustrating blow," said Servicemembers Legal Defense Network Executive Director Aubrey Sarvis. "We lost because of the political maneuvering dictated by the midterm elections. Let’s be clear: Opponents to repealing Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell did not have the votes to strike those provisions from the bill. Instead, they had the votes for delay. Time is the enemy here. We now have no choice but to look to the lame-duck session where we’ll have a slim shot." National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director Rea Carey accused "politicians (of) playing politics with people’s lives." "Seventy-eight percent ofAmericans support ending Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," she said. "The senators who led and supported the filibuster effort should be ashamed." Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nicholson blamed Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, D-Nev., for the !oss. "The votes to break the filibuster had previously been lined up, but last week ... Harry Reid decided to use an uncommon procedural privilege on the bill that eroded support for breaking the filibuster and guaranteed the vote’s failure," Nicholson said. "Intense lobbying and public pressure over the past week proved not to be enough to force either side to back down." Courage Campaign Chairman Rick Jacobs responded to the loss by saying the Justice Department and President Barack Obama should opt not to appeal the recent federal court decision in Riverside, Calif., that struck down DADT as unconstitutional. "We applaud the Log Cabin Republicans for initiating this case and we hope the Justice Department recognizes that it’s time to consign this discriminatory law to the dustbin of history," Jacobs said. Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese said the filibuster "was electionyear politics at its worst." HRC sent a letter to Attorney General Eric Holder joining Courage in demanding the government not appeal the district court decision. ........Continued See DADT Page-5 os.e UoS. Marine Corps Veteran1 that can get the job done and I am to ask for y~r Vote ~n November 2! November 2" Friends of Wi|la "At Centu~ 2I Gold Castle oa BEST prope4ia are ourPEOK~’ METROPOLITAN COiVfMUNITY CHURCHES Rev ,Steve T. Urlle Spirit ot: Christ iVICC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community IVleal Wednesdays at 6:00 www.socmcc. Have a God filled and Blessed Day! 2 B~ocks West of the Habana 2 ~ October 1, 2010 OGLPC will be hosting Ca didates’ Reception sending Voter Guide- October Fellowship four years ago, their vision for it was simple; a Bible study with the goal of reaching people that came fi’om a contemporary charismatic church background. The idea has grown vastly into what is now Expressions Community Center, located on ’the strip’ in Oklahoma City. OI~AHOMA CITY, OK (PR) For many years t~he Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Political Caucus (OGLPC) has been sending surveys on LGBT issues to candidates, and reporting the results to their members in a voter guide. ~his year the Voter Guide will include results from 132 candidates for state office, reporting their "Yes" or "No" responses to 11 questions. Most of the questions are not asked by the local media or other organizations, and many of the questions are not comfortable for candidates -to answer since they assume the majority of the population is not interested or will not vote for a candidate who believes in equal rights for all. Since only a few votes can decide an election, OGLPC believes that educating our community and registering people to vote is veW iinportant towards achieving the goal of equality. OGLPC is the only LGBT organization in Oklahoma to take on this task. With a mailing list of almost 4000, the Voter Guide is usefid information for the LGBT voting public, PFLAG members, and others, straight or gay. As a noprofit, non-partisan group, OGLPC does not endorse candidates elected officials. On Tuesday, October 19, OGLPC will host a Candidates’ Reception at the Belle Isle LibraW in OKC f,om 6-8 pm. Candidates will beOffered a time ~o speak briefly, answer questions, distribute brochures, and socialize over light refreshments. ~he library is located at 5501 N. Villa. just north of~~pressway,.berween Pennsylvania and May Avenues. Those attending will be able to register to vote, take a copy of the Candidates’ Smwey 2010, and become a member of OGLPC. The reception is free and open to the public. To become a member of OGLPC, contact the Board of Directors at ok_glpc@ yahoo.corn, or attend a regular meeting on the second Monday of each month. Meetings are at 7 pro, and are held at the Neighborhood Mliance building, a NrW 36th St and Classen Boulevard. Additional information is available at www.oglpc.org and on Facebook. Expressions Community Fellowship O treach "Together, we can make a difference" By Robin D-Town~end Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ gThen Pastor Neill Spurgin and his partner/husband Dean Coffman started Expressions Community Chuck Longacre ,_fRed Rock Behavioral Health Services in OKC, explains the testing process. 77srough Red Rock, Longacre helps staff Evpressions Community Outreach Center with trainedpersonnel at their location on the strip. Expressions has been through many a metamorphosis since the Bible study days. Their firs~ services were held at the OKC Farmers Market. ~lhe fellowship movedto Lansbrook Event Center and now the church and c0inmunit~ ~entei: hav~ found a fi~in~ on the strip. They are conveniently located iusr south ofNW 39th on Youngs Blvd. "As the Bible study started to grovv we saw a need to start a church," said Spurgin. When he met the current landlord Spurgin said, "We started talldng and I shared my vision on how I felt God wanted to bring His Love, Grace and Healing to the hearts of the LGBT community. I wanted the LGBT children of God to knmv that He loves them and that it was okay r. be gay and Christian." Within months of being on the strip, this church of 14 people had an 1800 square foot sanctuary built and ~vas ready for their first service, holding the inaugural service in June 2009. "We had our first service the Sunday after Pride 2009," said Spurgin. "By January 2010, we had outgrown our space. We then started construction on a 3,000 square foot addition to the property located in the same warehouse." By April 2010 they opened a new sanctuary by the 2010 summer they were out of room again and added 50 chairs to the sanctuary just this September. "We are now in planning phases for our next expansion that will double our sanctuary, prayerfully, by Valentine’s Day 2011," adds Pastor NeiI1. "Our vision for the Center is to expand into the entire property at the corner ofNW 39th Street and Youngs Blvd, so our community will have a true living and thriving Community Center." Spurgin also hoped he could bring HIV testing back to the 39th Street strip and through his persistence and the hard work of .......Continued see CHURCH page - 6 New Report Shows Serious Weaknesses in Oklahoma’s Higher Education Indusivity Policies 82% ofOklahoma’s Colleges and Universities do notprotect LGBTfaculty, staff, or students TULSA, OK (PR) __ A new report by the TEN Institute, the research arm of The Equality Network (TEN), reveals that many of Oklahoma’s institutions of higher education have yet to embrace full inclusivity for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) students and employees. While there are a few positive standouts, 82% of Oklahoma’s colleges and universities have no policies in place to support and prorecr LGBT faculty, staff, and students. TEN Institute’s preliminary research shows that out of the 66 statewide colleges and universities: ° Only 11 have Compliance/EOE/ Affirmative Action Statements ~vhich include sexual orientation. o Zero include gender identity or expression in Compliance/EOE/Affirmative Action Statements. * One provides domestic partner benefits for employees. * Onl~ 12 have an LGBT student group or Gay/Straight Alliance on campus. "When we first began this research, we hoped that Oldahoma’s inclusivity protections in the higher education community would rival those of other states. While this is not currently the case, we are vety pleased to highlight those institutions who have taken steps to embrace equality on thei~ campuses." explains Kathy L. Williams, Ph.D., president ofTEN Institute. Those institutions with protections in place include: *Northeastern Oldahoma A&M (Miami), Oklahoma City Community College, Oklahoma City, University, Oldahoma State University for Health Sciences (Tulsa), Oklahoma State University Institute of Technology (Olm~ulgee), Oklahoma State University (Stillwater), Oklahoma State University (Oldahoma City), Oklahoma State University (Tulsa), Rose State College (Midwest City), University of Phoenix (Oklahoma City and Tulsa): all have nondiscrimination policies including sexual orientation. °The University ofTulsa provides domestic partner benefits. *Cameron University (Lawton), East Central University (Ada), Murray State College (Tishomingo), Northeastern State University (Tahlequah), Oklahoma City Community College, Oklahoma State University (Stillwater), Oldahoma State University (Oklahoma City), Southwestern Oklahoma State University (Weatherford), Tile University ofTulsa, University of Central Oklahoma (Edmond), University of Oklahoma (Norman), University of Science and Arts of Oklahoma (Chickas~ha): all have LGBT student groups and/or Gay/Straight Alliances. Dennis Rudasill, President of Oklahoma State University’s Sexual Orientation Diversity Association (SODA), noted a disjuncture between students’ increasing acceptance of their LGBT classmates and inequalities still embedded in university policies. "As a student, it’s easy to feel the attitudes of my peers progressing in the direction of open-mindedness and inclusion, but this index shows that our institutions of higher education are struggling to keep their policies aligned with this generational progress. Although I’ve never felt actively discriminated against by any member of my university’s administration, I ~vorry about passive forms of discrimination like rny university’s lack of domestic partner benefits." said Rudasill. In early August Campus Pride, a national organization for student leaders and campus groups working to create a safer college environment for LGBT students, released its annual Campus Pride Climate Index. The study awarded nineteen U.S. colleges and universities its highest ranngs for LGBT inclusivity - the largest number of institutions to achieve this status since the inceprion of the index in 2007. "TEN Institute is pleased that more and more colleges and universities across the nation are willing to stand up for their LGBT faculty, staff, and students, and provide a safe and inclusive environment." said Williams. "It is imperative that the Oklahoma higher education community work to recruit and retain the best and brightest amongst its employees and students, while respecting the diversity which comes with that effort. We hope that with the release of our Higher Education Fairness Index we can work with Oldahoma’s colleges and universities r. enhance those protections already in place, as well as encourage institutions lacking inclusivity language and programs to adopt appropriate policies to protect their LGBT employees and students." said Williams. TEN Institute will continue to solicit information on inclusivity practices and will integrate additional findings into irs Higher Education Fairness Index. Colleges and universities wishing tO partner in efforts to improve LGBT inclusivity- or to provide more data may reach TEN Institute at (918) 906- 2134 or info@theequalitynetwork.org. The entire TEN Institute Higher Education Fairness Index may be accessed at wwcc.scribd.com/doc/35962887/Higher- Education-Fairness-Index-August-2010 FBI Agents in Oklahoma to Hold Forums on Hate Crimes By Jeanne Flanigan and Victor Gorin Metro Star Team OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Agents from tile FBI ( Federal Bureau of Investigation) specializing in civil rights have been assigned to Oklahoma with tile purpose of educating the public about hate crimes committed against persons of the GLBT community. The Matthew Shepard Act was passed on October 22, 2009 to include crimes committed against persons due to their sexual orientation or gender identitT as hate crimes under Federal law, as ~vell as adding the categories of gender and disability’. However, soon after this took effect legislation was introduced in the Oklahoma State Senate in early 2010 by Republican Senator Steve Russell (SB 2165) that would have prevented the state of Oldahoma from assisting Federal authorities when a hate crime was committed not covered by the Oklahoma state hate crimes law, which does not cover sexual orientation or gender identity. Although this measure was stopped in the House by State Representative Mike Shelton, it demonstrated ........Continued See FBI Page-19 October 1, 2010 ~ 3 Race is on for State House 84, Brittany Novotny v Sally Kern By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Brittany with AttorneyJackie Short. Gorin OKI~HOMA CITY, OK __ The smoke has finally cleared and the race is on. Although the filing ended with 4 candidates wing for the State House District 84 seat, the two others will not be on the ballot. Republican Garrick Voth was challenging Sally Kern for her party’s nomination for the General Election. Voth, a 34 year old Oldahoma City resident who described himself as a conservative Republican, also described Ms. Kern as ignoring the needs of her district. \Vhen publicity surfaced shortly after the filing that he had been arrested in Will Rogers Park last September, charged with attempting an act of public lewdness with another man ( the case is still pending), he withdrew from the race. The other candidate was Ray Pre~vitt, aged 40 and a resident of Bethany running as an Independent. Ms. Kern successfully challenged his eligibility before the Oklahoma State Election Board, and he was stricken from the ballot as he had not been registered as an Independent at least 6 months before the filing period as the law requires to be eligible. Brittany faces a three time incumbent who has for better or worse, undoubtedly attracted national and even some international notoriety. She replaced another conservative Republican, Bill Graves who was likewise famous for anti-gay sentiments when she was first elected in 2004. She was re-elected without opposition in 2006, and defeated Ron Marlett to win a third term in 2008. She is married to Steve Kern, the Pastor of Olivet Baptist Church and has2 adult sons. She had been a teacher at Oklahoma City’s Northwest Classen High School, teaching American Government and coaching the girl’s golf team. She led opposition to the book "King and King" being in the Childreffs Section of Oklahoma County libraries, claiming that the American Library Association is "trying to sexualize your children." She has made public statements stating that homosexuals are a bigger threat to our nation than terrorism, resulting in countless public demonstrations and demands for an apology; even generating a phone call from Ellen Degeneres placed from her national TV talk show. During July of 2009 she issued her "Oldahonaa Citizeffs Proclamation for Morality" at the Oldahonaa State Capitol in which she blamed our nation’s troubled economy on "same sex marriage, divorce, pornography, sex trafficking and other forms of debauchery". On economic issues she is likewise far to the right, opposing a minimum wage increase in Oklahoma in 2006 ~vhen it was $5.15 an hour, even requesting that a study be done to see how people living on that wage Could better budget their money. Although Brittany has already made history by being the first transgendered person to run for public office in Oklahoma, she isn’t running for that reason. She has publicly stated, " I understand that there are going to be some folks who will try to make this election about the fact that my medical history includes a gender transition, but I’m running for office because I believe I’m the best candidate to fight for jobs, education and transportation." Born in Chickasha, Oklahoma, Ms.Novomy graduated from Oklahoma University and went on to get her law degree from the University of California-Hastings and is now a practicing attorney. She is an active member of the Young Deraocrats, who elected her as a national committeewoman and also honored her as their 2010 Woman of the Year. Oklahoma House District 84 includes parts of northwest Oklahoma City, Bethany and Wart Acres. She’s ready for the fight and feels "I think our chances are really great. People are ready for a change." Oklahomans for Equality hires new Executive Director TobyJenkinsformer Board President ofOkEq is new Executive Director TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Board of Directors of Oklahomans for Equality is pleased to announce that they have hired Toby Jenkins as the Executive Director of the organization. He will begin his duties on October 1st, 2010. Toby Jenkins has served as the President of the. Board of Directors of Oldahonaans for Equality since October 2008. During his term as President the organization has: ~ Developed over 50 new ~veekly programs at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ® Persuaded Tulsa City Council to add sexual orientation to their employee non discrimination policy @ Grew the membership to an all time high in the organizatioffs 30 year history @ Strengthened the relationship with Oklahoma City based Cimarron Alliance Foundation @ Expanded the volunteer staff from 43 in 2008 to over 150 in 2010 serving the LGBT community @ Implemented a Rapid Response Team for the victims of hate crimes and domestic violence ® Achieved record fundraising goals during an economic downturn Toby has a 13 year volunteer history with Ok~q. He has an extensive background in the legal community and has been employed at the Tulsa County Courthouse for 18 years and for the past 11 years has served as the Civil Appeals Clerk to the Oklahoma Supreme Court. He holds a BS degree in Criminal Justice and a BA degree in Biblical Linguistics and Pastoral studies. He has Masters in Theology and graduate work in the Sociology" of Aging. He has 2 grown and married children and 1 granddaughter. "It is a great honor to gvork for an organization that saves lives everyday. I believe we must do more to address the needs of our community and challenge them to step up to volunteer service" said Jenkins. "I have 2 things that I say everyday: Gays are good for Oklahoma and Everybody must serve. When our neighbors come to appreciate the helping hand we extend to them, they will demand that we be treated equally:" Largest LGBTQand Mly Event to hit the four state corners JOPLIN, MO (PR) __ An event sponsored by Spirit of Christ MCC; Kansas- Missouri Network ofMCC Churches and the Joplin Out & About 4 States Equality City a Network Weekend concluding with an MCC Homecoming Concert that will be the biggest this year to hit the four state corners. The worlcshops include "Communion Our Way; Isn’t It About Time?" "Matching Music to Worship," and "Liturgical Dance." The concert features Deloris Berry, Marsha Stevens-Pint, Susie Brenner & Linda Be&stead, Sam Sampson and Shawn Thomas with a special guest appearance of the MCC Topeka Drumming Circle. From gospel to contemporary Christian music there will be something for everyone. ~ae concert is free but a love offering will be collected to offset the cost of travelling of the performers with 100% of the offering going to the artist many ofwhom have traveled for years presenting their music to the community of the greater Joplin area. The concert starts at 6PM on October 9, 2010. All alliance groups, equality centers and accepting churches are invited to attend and have a display center during the day, free of charge. See www.socmcc.org for more details or call 417-529-8480. 2010 Sooner State Stampede TULSA, OK (PR) __ Sooner State Stampede Presented by the Sooner State Rodeo Association, 9 a.m. - 5 p.m. Oct 2nd - 3rd, Bridle Creek Horse Ranch and Resort, 5811 Roper Rd, Sperry OK (10 minutes north of downtown Tulsa). The 2010 Stampede will be a full rodeo featuring 13 events including Bull Riding, Bareback Bronc, Steer Wrestling, and some not so traditional events like Wild Drag and Goat Dressing. There will be additional entertainment as well as great food and cold beer. Tickets $15.00 single day and $25.00 two day, kids under 15 free. For more information visit: http:/£a~w. soonerstaterodeo.com/ Cimarron A liance to hold their Annual Gala Awards Banquet By Victor Gorin Metro Star Team Cimarron Alliance Foundation Executive Director Scott Hamilton at his 50th birthday celebration with well wisher Esther Baltie~’a OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ At the Oklahoma History Center on Saturday October 16 the Cimarron Mliance Foundation will hold their Annual Gala Awards Banquet. This year’s honorees include Dr. David Macey who will receive their Torch W-orld, Don Hawkins & Mick Schirron who were awarded the Media Award, the Legislator Award which will go to 2 legislators, State Senator Judy Eason- Mclntyre and State Representative Mike Shelton, plus the Lifetime Achievement Award which will go to Margaret Cox. Featured as the guest speaker is Romaine Patterson, a ~vell lmown lesbian activist, author, OUT Qradio host, and a close friend of the late Matthew ShepaM. She will also host an after party- at Angles. For more information check out the Cimarron Alliance Foundation website at www.cimarronalliance. Federa ge s r kes , down Don Ask, Don Tell U.S. District Judge Virginia Phillips in Riverside, Calif.. struck down the military’s Don’t Ask. Don’t Tell ban on open gays in the military Sept. 9. Phillips found that the ban violates the U.S. Constitution’sguarantees of free speech and due process under the First and Fi~th Amendments. "The Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Act infiinges the fundamental rights of United States servicemembers in many ways," Phillips wrote in her 86-page opinion. "The Act denies homosexuals stowing in the Armed Forces the right to enjoy ’intimate conduct’ in their personal relationships. The Act denies them the right to speak about their loved ones while sep¢ing their country in uniform: it punishes them with discharge for writing a personal letter, in a foreign language, to a person of the same sex with whom they shared an intimate relationship before entering military service; it discharges them for including information in a personal communication from which an unauthorized reader might discern their homosexuality. In order to justify the encroachment on these riFhts, Defendants faced the burden at trial oi showing the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell Act was necessary to significantly further the Government’s important interests in military readiness and unit cohesion. De~ndants failed to meet that burden." Gay Saud d ploma seeks U.S. asylum The former first secretary of Saudi Arabia’s consulate in Los Angeles has requested asylum in the United States because he says he’ll be executed for being gay if he returns home. "If I go back to Saudi Arabia. they will kill me openly in broad daylight," Ali Abroad Asseri e-mailed media outlets in mid- September. Asseri said Saudi ot~cials oi’dered him home after finding out he’s gay and is friends with a Jew. He apparently has been in hiding since. The U.S. does grant asyluna to foreign gays if the U.S. is convinced they face genuine harm in their native lands. ~e laws treat gay asylum-seekers as members of"a particular social group." Saudi Arabigs entry in the United States’ 2009 State Department Human Rights Reports says: "Under Shari’a as interpreted in the country, sexual activity between t~vo persons of the same gender is punishable by death or flogging. It is illegal for men ’to behave like women’ or to wear women’s clothes and vice versa. There were few reports of societal discrimination, physical violence, or harassment based on sexual orientation. There were no organizations of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. There was no official discrimination based on Worried about such a determination. conservative forces have been trying to find some other route to assure that the 9tl~ Circuit hears the appeal -- including pressuring defendants Brown and Schwarzenegger and pushing to add Imperial Count); located in the southeast California desert, as an official defendant. ~e 9th Circuit xvill inake the call on the county’s long-shot effort, probably in December. when it also will take up the question of whether the pro-Prop 8 activists have standing. If they do, the 9th Circuit xvill then move on to hear the appeal ofWalker’s actual ruling. If the activists do not have standing and Imperial County can’t become a defendant. the case is over and same-sex marriage is legal again in California. unless the activists arrempt to appeal the standing question to the U.S. Supreme Court. ~at. too, would be a long shot, many legal experts believe. They say the Supreme Court would be unlikely to conclude that displeased citizens can step into a state government’s shoes to defend a state law that the state government itself refuses to defend and, indeed, believes violates the U.S. Constitution. tn rejecting the activists’ latest move, the California Supreme Court denied reviexv xvithout comment. Phill.ips said the government~ contention sexual orientation in employ~en~ h~ugi!}.g, .... ,i ....... that letting gays be open in the military, statelessness, or access to education or health We expect the Justice Department h~m~ its run’tidYing i~ fully undgi~min~ bY ~’S~x~al 6timideSt-ion CoUld d0nsti~Ute the to recognize th~ ovet~¢helming evidence the fi~ct that the milita~T delays d~scharge of bas~s fbr harassment; blackmail, 0~ other that pr0ves DADT is unconstitutional,’ ~ys and lesbians who viOlate:DAD~ Until acti’ons. No such cases.we.re.re.p.or.ted." Soln~:0nese said. .... : they~retu.rn from c~o.mbat ~deploy.m.ent~, ~lne..e..nt~" conti¯nues..:.. ~av~~n j*unel~og;l’~~"yao~n ~~2etE%¢~UA~ resg~0nded b’."r cNlin- on Ine.six~ea.r7oi.~.ca.se~.Droug~t D~ tlle~,g"y pd~ce ar~ste~67 men ftom the Phmpph,es O~am, to ~ssu~ an e~ecuti~ orde~ suspen#ing group Log ~aDm ~epuDucans; w~ near~ , . ¯ . ¯ ~,, ~ ;, ,~ ~,, ),,1, for dnnk~ng and dressing m womens clotl~ng &scha~ges under DADT be~veen now and ........... ~*~ ,~, a~,,> at a private~ar~ Accord-ing to ~eir embassy[ the time that repeal is achieved Phillips said she will issue a permanent ¯ ,....; , ., injunction pr@ibiting th~ military from police released the men to their employers eour.~onms.ago, we as~d the presment enforcing Dont Ask, Dont %11. She gave while charges were being processed. In 2007 to stop military &scharges while the U.S. LCR until Sept. 16 to submit proposed the newspaper Okaz reported the public Congress haggled over our rights," the group language for the injunction and gave the U.S. government until Sept. 23 to respond to LCR’s submission. "She could at that point stay the injunction pending an appeal or, as Judge (Vaughn) Walker did (in the federal Prop 8 case), she could deny such a stay but grant a temporary stay to allow the government to seek a stay pending an appe~i from the 9th Circuit," said Jon Davidson, legal director of Lambda Legal. If no stay is issued, it is unclear whether Phillips’ ruling would take effect nationwide or just in California’s Central District of the federal courts. "This is an historic moment and an historic ruling for the gay military community," said Servicemembers United Executive Director Alexander Nicholson, who was ldcked out of the M’my under DADT. "_As the only named injured party in this Case, I am exceedingly proud to have been a~ble to represent all who have been impacted and had their lives ruined by this blatantly unconstitutional polio/. ~,We are finally on our way to vindication." Gay activists responded to the ruling by calling on President Barack Obama to cease enforcement ofD~T immediately and demanding that the U.S. Justice Department decline to appeal Phillips’ decision. flogging of two men in the city of Al-Bahah after being found guilty of sodomy. N~e sentence was 7,000 lashes." California Supremes rebuffProp 8 proponents The forces that want to keep Proposition 8, the voter-passed constitutional amendment that re-banned same-sex marriage in California, cafft catch a break. The state Supreme Court on Sept. 7 slapped down an effort by conservative activists to force Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Jerry Brown to defend Prop 8 in the federal case that was appealed to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals after U.S. District Judge Vaughn W;alker found in August that Prop 8 violates the U.S. Constitution. None of the governmental entities that were stied in the federal case is interested in defending Prop 8, so the appeal to the 9th Circuit w~ filed by the activists who put Prop 8 on the ballot. It is unlikely; however, that the activists have "standirlg" to mount an appeal, since it’s not their job to defend California’s constitution. said. "He didn’t respond, and we’re now seeing the result ofthis complete lack of presidential leadership and courage. So we’re taking the fight back to the White House." "We need volunteers to help us hold the president accountable and meet him headon during this election season, asldng him at each campaign stop and at each fundraising part); ’\ghen will the discharges end?’" the direct-action group said. "Now its time for our ’fierce advocate’ to .step up to the plate for us." Nearly 80 percent ofAmericans support repealing DADT, according to a recent CNN poll If the Senate had passed DADT repeal and President Barack Obama signed it, nothing would have happened right away. That’s because oflanguage in the bill that delays.repeal until three things take place: the Pentagon completes a study by Dec. 1 on how to implement DADT repeal; Obama, Defense SecretalT Rdbert Gates and Joint Chiefs of Staff Chairman Michael Mullen certify that the military wilt not be harmed by implementing DADT repeal in accord ;with the Pentagon’s plans; and 60 additional days pass after the certification. @ October 1, 2010 @ 5 Handicapping the Prop 8 Appeal: A Photo Finish Horse Race By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ "Ihere has been much constructive talk, as well as arm-chair quarter-back style blogging and blathering in conjunction with California’s Prop 8 trial (Perry v. Sch,varzenegger, http://tinyurl.com/2utbpsd ) as to whether this is a good time for Ted Olson and David Boles, worldng for the American Foundation for Equal Rights (http://vcww. equalrightsfoundation.org/), to bring to the United States Supreme Court (SCOTUS) a case that could, if lost; set a precedent that ~vould allow the Religious Right’s discriminatory dogma to remain on the statute books as settled law. These proscriptions would be enforced despite the First Amendment’s first clause that denies a legal haven for any particular religious belief. Some of the squeamishness in presenting a same-gender marriage case to SCOTUS rotates around the center of the US Supreme Court’s current composition, namely Justice Anthony Kennedy, well known as the "swing vote" in many of the single vote majority decisions of the highest court in America. SCOTUS is currently balanced with four justices, each generally voting liberal or conservative with Justice Kennedy being the pivot. ( http://en.xvikipedia.org/wild/ Anthony_Kennedy ) Here is a golden nugget of gay equality history from Justice Kennedy’s prior time on the Ninth Circuit Court ofAppeals, the position he held prior to his appointment to SCOTUS. "LeBlanc requested a restraining order in Federal Court, and no less than now-Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy was one of the woo Ninth Circuit Court ofAppeals judges who, while not ruling the ban itself was wrong [gays serving openly in the US military], surprisingly ordered the Marines either give him an honorable discharge or retain him until his case could go to trial. They chose the former." (http://tinyurl. com/23ugk69 ) Justice Kennedy wrote the majority opinion in the case Romer v. Evans, 6-3, that turned back the Colorado voter-passed Constitutional Amendment 2 that was the mother of anti-gay discrimination bills. Colorado’s Amendment 2 was even more broad than the subsequent marriage amendments in that it prevented any governing body in the state to offer legal protection to gay/lesbian citizens. Again in a major victory for gay/lesbian equality, Justice Kennedy delivered the majority opinion, 6-3, in the Lawrence v. Texas case striking down sodomy laws that criminalized private, non-commercial, sexual activity between consenting adults. Contrary to what flat-earth groups such as Focus on the Family or National Organization for Marriage want their followers to believe, having a voter-passed amendment added to any state’s constitution or civil code can and has been overturned by a state or federal supreme court. ~Pais principle of justice in the American legal system is vital to continued progress for rights as outlined in the Constitution and Bill of Rights can not be used as prizes in a majority voter raffle aimed at installing any particular religious or social view. Citizenship with its attendant responsibilities, obligations, and benefits should not be subject to partisan popularity. As Judge Walker wrote in his unprecedented ruling overturning California’s Prop 8 gay discrimination amendment, "In the absence of a rational basis, what remains of proponents’ case is an inference, amply supported by evidence in the record, that Proposition 8 was premised on the belief that same-sex couples simply are not as good as opposite-sex couples. W’hether that belief is based on moral disapproval of homosexuality, animus towards gays and lesbians or simply a belief that a relationship between a man and a woman is inherently better than a relationship between two men or two women, this belief is not a proper basis on which to legislate." (p. 132, http://tinyurl.com/2utbpsd ) Just as racists are at perfect liberty to retain their moral disapproval of interracial marriage, just as die-hard religious fundamentalists can retain their belief that a particular denomination should write laws of the country, moral disapproval of gays and lesbians, as ~vell as the content of our private lives, can continue to occupy their every waking moment as it has in the past. The only thing that will change with the full recognition of gay/lesbian citizenship will be the diminution of diversity-deprived, sexually immature adults to impose their private thoughts and neuroses on the rest of the country. Whether Justice Kennedy will be the deciding vote remains to be seen. His judicial philosophy indicates he adheres to precedent. His two opinions recognizing our gay/lesbian equality are good indicators of how he might vote in the inevitable appeal of Prop 8. However, the health ofJustice Ruth Bader Ginsburg is not strong. Considering the outcome ofthe November, 2010 elections, the majority party of the Senate will be vital to the appointment of a successor to Ginsburg. In the two and-a-half years of the Obama Administration, the President has shown himself not able to muster the "fire in the belly" needed to press for his court appointees. ( http:l/tinyurl.com129xbhr4 ) The two ne~vest justices appointed by Obama, Sotomayor and Kagan, have not been on the Court long enough to have a reasonable record of voting to draw conclusions. Court appointees don’t always adhere to the expectations of the appointing president, Justice David Souter being a recent example. ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wild/ David_Souter ) I strongly think the Prop 8 appeal will be decided not so much on the strong argument presented by Olson and Boles as much as on the accidents of health and political expediency. In other words, a real race to the finish. Further reading-- You can read more about Colorado’s Amendment 2 (Romer v. Evans) here: general information http!//en.wikipedia. org/wild/Romer v. Evans and the SCOTUS decision http://tinyurl.com/24xa2oc You can read about the overturning sodomy laws (Lawrence v. Texas) here: general information http://en.wildpedia.org/ wild/Lawrence v. Texas and the SCOTUS decision http://tinyurl.comhmvu4ry Tulsa AIDS Walk Saturday ,October. 2nd: 9am TULSA, OK (PR) __ Tulsa’s annual AIDS Walk. The Walk is only 2 miles and raises money for a great cause. The walk route is .from 21st to 31st along Riverside Drive Xgalldng Trail back to Veterans Park. Suggested Donation: $20, but anyone can walk without making a donation. You must sign a registration form ifyou plan to walk. The AIDS Walk helps mamy of the clients served by The AIDS Coalition ofTulsa. Visit the website and donate by using Pay Pal. http://www.tulsaaidswalk.org/You and your family and friends can form a walking team, collect contributions and bring your donations to AIDS Walk or send a check to the Tulsa AIDS Walk at Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership, 16 East 16th, Suite 202, Tulsa, OK 74119, Attention: Janice Nicklas. If you have any further questions contact Janice Nicklas at jnicklas@csctulsa.org or 918-949-0447. Proceeds from the Tulsa AIDS Walk benefit Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP), a program of the Community Service Council. TCAP provides funding for the National AIDS Fund AmeriCorps Team Tulsa and local AIDS service organizations. T.U.L.S.A. to host weekend ofeducation & competition TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association (T.U.L.S.A.) invites you to Tulsa, Oklahoma October 8-10 for a weekend of education competition, and the Oklahomg Mr. Leather Contest. Friday night October 8 starts out with a Bar Crawl, leaving from Club Maverick at 8:00 pm traveling to local dubs and ending back at Club Maverick for the introduction of contestants and judges around midnight. Saturday afternoon three educational classes beginning at noon. The Oklahoma Mr. Leather contest is at Club Maverick, beginning at 9 pm. Leather Masters from Dallas, Texas ,;viii serve as the vendor. . Weekend registration is only $65 which will include entry to all weekend events, the hospitality suite located at the Days Inn, 1- 244 & Sheridan, the host hotel, and an OML 2011 tshirt and commemorative run pin. If you’d like to compete, advertise, or register to attend, head to http://v~,rw.tulsaleather.com/ and click on "OML"! N the congregation and supporters, that goal has been accomplished. There are npw are testing rooms, classrooms and a reception area for the Center. Through collaboration with other agencies, the center provides HIV testing and referrals 5 days a week, The Center is operated utilizing volunteers from the church and community, side by side with the Oklahoma AIDS Care Fund, Oklahoma State Department of Health, Red Rock Behavioral Health Services, Latino Community Development Agency and Guiding Right, Inc. "Expressions, as a church and a community center has most recently partnered with Other Options; Friends Food Pantry and Be the Change which will allow us to reach even deeper into the needs of the HIV/AIDS community and the homeless youth of Oklahoma City," adds Spurgin proudly. "We plan to add more space for HIV outreach and testing, as well as syphilis testing. We are also hoping to bring in an HIV/AIDS Case Manager here at the Center." They are currently in the fundraising stage to expand our services to the community. This will include building additional offices and acquiring additional square footage. Tnere are also a variety of support groups and classes held at the Center. "Our vision for the Center is to expand into the entire property at the corner of NW 39th Street and Youngs Bird, so our community will have a true living and thriving Community Center," Spurgin concludes. "I believe as long as we keep our heart focused on God’s love through relevant messages and opening our arms up to the community, through love and grace, we will continue to see more collaboration through the church and center so hearts can be healed." Located at 4010 N. Youngs Blvd, the Center is open Monday through Thursday from 10am to 9pm and on Friday afternoons from lpm to 5pm. Expressions Church services are Sunday mornings at 1 lam and Thursday evenings at 7pm. For more information please visit their website at www. ExpressionsOKC.com or call their office at (405) 528-2210. No matter who are on life’s -Ilte~erend ~r. K~hy 3131 ~. Pennsylvania, 405.5~5.9555 October 1, 2010 @ 7 Lyric eatre announces most ambitious season to date OI~AHOlvL~, OK (PR) __ Lyric ~l]~eatre, Oklahoma’s leading professional theatre company; announces its 2011 Season, incIuding Always... Patsy Cline (January 26- February 5); Boeing Boeing (March 30- April 9); Oliver! (June 21-25); Hairspray 0uly 5-9); Ragtime (July 19-23); A Chorus Line (August 2-6); Altar Boyz (October 12-22) and A Christmas Carol (December 9-31). Lyric Theatre’s new Artistic Directm; Michael Baron, wants to make Lyric ~eatre’s 2011 Season full of fun and excitement with eight great shows including Lyric Theatre’s new" holiday tradition, A Christmas Carol. During the 2011 Season, ~,ric Theatre will perform on two separate stages. Four shows will be performed at Lyric’s Plaza Theatre on N\V 16th Street and the remaining four shows will be performed during the summer at the Civic Center Music Hall in downtown Oldahoma City. Starting Lyric’s 2011 Season is Always... Patsy Cline. See countW music legend Patsy Cline come to life this winter at Lyric Theatre’s Plaza stage. This show introduces 27 musical renditions of her unforgettable hits such as "Crazy", "I Fall to Pieces,, "Sweet Dreams" and "Walldng After Midnight". Share the power of friendship betvceen Patsy and her number one fan, Louise Seger, before Cline’s tragic death in 1963. ~xis endearing true stoW combines humor, ,vith sincerity and gives fans a chance to remember the most acclaimed female countW vocalist of the 20th century. ~-ric presents its only pla~, Boeing Boeing, at the Plaza. ~xe Tony Awardwinning comedy is a hilarious 1960’s romp, immortalized by JerW Lewis and Ton~ Curtis on film, has a handsome bachelor juggling three international flight attendant fiancds. Lyric will continue its 2011 Season with Oliver! at the Civic Center Music Hall. Based on the Dickens novel, Oliver ~B~cist, this new production combines heartbreak and triumph, while delighting audiences with outstanding musical theatre gems like ~Food, Glorious Food", "I’d Do Bmything", "Where is Love?" and "As Long As He Needs Me". Dickens characters come alive once again through music and dancing for a new generation of theatre-goers to experience for the first time. The second show on the Civic Center stage is the Tony Award-winning fun-loving musical, Hairspray. ~atch Baltimore’s new teen celebrit3~ TraW Turnblad, a girl with big hair and an even bigger voice, as she dances her way into everyone’s hearts. En.joy hit tunes like ’~Mama, I’m a Big Gift Now" and "Welcome to the ’60s" that take Tracy from the crazy local TV dance show to d~e hippest downtown rhythm and blues record shop. In July, come to Civic Center and enjoy the Tony Award-winning musical, Ragtime. A show about a powerful portrait of life in turn-of-the-century America and a moving, relevant story for today: Based on E.L Doctorow’s distinguished novel, the musical intertwines the stories of three extraordinary families, as they confront history’s timeless contractions of wealth and poverty, freedom and prejudice, hope and despair, and what it means to live in America. The ultimate "Singular Sensation", A Chorus Line, will dance its way this summer onto the Civic Center Music Hall stage. ~lt~is timelessly stunning musical will astonish those who have ever had a dream for the Broadway stage. For 25 dancers, it’s the one opportunity to do what they’ve always wanted -- to have the chance to dance. With its brilliantly complex fusion of dance, song and compellingly authentic drama, you will love this brand-new production as Lyric Theatre re-invents a classic. Back on the Plaza stage, Lyric Theatre will perform its Oldahoma premier ofAttar Boyz. Altar Boyz is a foot-stomping, rafter-raising, musical comedy about a fictitious boy-band on the last night of their national "Raise the Praise" tour. The Boyz are five all-singing all-dancing heartthrobs from Ohio: Matthew,; Mark, Luke, Juan, and Abraham. Lyric will close its 2011 Season with a spectacular new Oklahoma holiday tradition at the Plaza Theatre, Charles Dickens’ classic, A Christmas Carol. Capture the magic and joy of Christmas as the ghosts of Past, Present and Future lead the miserly Ebenezer Scrooge on a powerful journey of transformation and redemption. With over 20 Christmas carols, beautiful costumes, and lots of snow! This timeless story ~vill get your family into the holiday spirit with a production that’s musically high-spirited and infectiously jolly. Current season subscribers may renew their season tickets now through October 29th. To become a season subscriber, ........... tickets go on sale November 1st, 2010. For the convenience of our loya! season subscribers, Lyric Theatre is providing three season subscription packages for the 2011 Season. Season tickets range from $94-$322 depending on what musical package you chose. Performances are on Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday nights at 7:30 p.m., Friday and Saturday nights at 8:00 p.m. and Saturday afternoon at 2:00 p.m. For information abofit the 2011 Season subscription packages or to purchase tickets go to www.lyrictheatreokc.com, call (405) 524-9312, come by Lyri.c Theatre’s ticket office located on 1727 NW 16 St., Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Single tickets are now available for the remaining 2010 season shows ofThe Rocky Horror Show, showing from October 14-31 and December Divas, showing December 16-18. Call the Lyric Box office at (405) 524- 9312 or go to wv~alyrictheatreokc.com. Art Opening and E.xhibit o£Origina1 Works. stained, £t sed and cast glass £rom G ass Star-ion" TULSA, OK (PR) __ ~e October Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) showcase and exhibit oftocaI artists at the Dennis R; Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in Downtown ~alsa), will feature the art from "The Glass Station". The show begins with a reception on Thursda> October 7th from 6- 9pro and continues throughout the month. The October Oklahomans for Equality (Old,q) shmvcase and exhibit of local artists at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa), will feature the Art from "The Glass Statioff’ with creations by Carole Odearno, Judy Hopica, Angela Bland, Chris White, Valerie Greenhaw, and Sue Underwood The Glass Station is a place to come and create a vision in stained, fused or cast glass. People from all professions create their ideas for stained glass or fused glass to be given as gifts, added to their art collection or to enhance their home decor. The owner Danna Ozbun has been c~eating and teaching sta!ned glass for 16 years and fused glass fo~ 10 9d~ Valerie Greenhaw has been working with and teaching stained glass techniques for 10 years and fused glass techniques for 9 years. Sid Clanton has been creating and teaching stained glass techniques for 20 years. The show begins with a reception on ~ursday, October 7th from 6-9pm and continues throughout the month, w~vw. theglassstationok.com 918.258.3651. are By Steven Petrow &ez~e~ ..Pet~’o,# is tl~e g~thor of"7/3e E,sential BooL, ofGay Manners &Etiq,ette. "Send him your questioi~s at queeries@live.com. Online relationships are just like offline ones. Peeling back ~e layers of someone’s life and person~aliv shouldhappen in a gradual way, as you build up trust. October 1,2010 ~ 9 By Ronald Blake Contributing Writer Ronald Blake, Certified Fitness Inswuctor d~rou,gh [SSA b~t~rnational Sports &iences A~ociation How to begin! So how do you begin a new fitness t~’aining program? It starts with levity and fun. The key to life is to enioy that very thing...life. How to do that? Fun...fun with moderate doses of responsibility. As a fitness trainer, my iob is r. encourage you to take responsibility for your life. Maybe not quite to the degree of your friendly neighborhood preacher who pounds the pulpit and proclaims all homosexuals doomed to kiss the conflagration of hell because of their evil and irresponsible ways. I’m a kinder, gender more compassionate kind of fitness trainer, at least that’s what they taught me when I was still a straight boy in college. Then I saw the light when I ran into this self-absorbed fitness enthusiast who converted me into a rainbow flag-waving, Prada dressing extrovert and taught me that I too could earn a free toaster if I transmogrified three breeder boys to the dark side. No more tangent thoughts or digressions! This is a fitness column and I’ve gotta save you heathens from your licentious and hedonistic lifestyles! So as I was saying.., any fitness program you embrace should involve fun. Yeah, working out does involve hard ,york and dedication. We all know that. It should also be something you look forward to and get excited about. Otherwise, why do it? But yes, there is hard work involved and I would be remiss ifI didn’t mention that. Afteg all I come from a corn-fed Midwestern background that is engrained with a great work ethic! Wily else do you think fellbw Hoosiers like David Letterman, Orville Redenbacher, Kurt Vonnegut, and Michael Jackson would be so successful? During my numerous years of training dients and coaching high school athletes, I have stressed one thing and that is for them to simply enjoy the ride as each day passes. I involve trivia contests, singing, motivational handouts, music, vocabulary lessons, and endless anecdotes about my life into my training programs. In many ways I feel like an entertainer who tries to regale my clients with the lighter side of it all. Fitness trainin~ should be a method of escaping the harsh realities of the daily grind. It makes a perfect opportunity to channel any frustrations or aggressmns in an appropriate manner. I have informed my clients that they might not have control over what goes on in life but that they certainly have the power to control what goes on in their lives. ~lis control exists in workouts, training runs, bike rides, yoga classes, and other exercise routines. This control should be used when deciding the "who" and "where" of your workout. First who will you ~vorkout with? Choose someone who will motivate you, make you laugh, and validate the quality person that you are. Choose someone who is reliable, trustworthy, and goal-oriented. Choose someone who will help you change your life for the better. Then where will you work out? Choose someplace that has pretty curtains, Tiffany lamps, and leather recumbent sofas. What? It’s not really my cup o’ tea but hey, if it works for you then do it! You need to choose a place that fits your style and personality and a l~lace that wil! allow you to have fun during your workout sessions. Find that place where you can adjust the radio to any station and any volume. Find that place where you can tak~ offyour shirt and walk around flexing in front of the mirrors like you would at your favorite gay haunt on a Saturday night. Find someplace that is relaxed and understanding. We all want results when we begin a fitness routine. It just doesn’t need to be approached as a dreaded task. You have the power! You have the control! You can have fun! Two ofmy favorite motivational sayings are from Victor Borge and Mary Pettibone Poole respectively: "Laughter is the shortest distance between two people" and "He who laughs, lasts." This Creep ofthe Month By D’Anne xYgitkowski D’Anne Witkowski has beet, gayforpay since 2003. She’s afi’eelance writer andpoet (believe it!). When she’s not taking on thk creeps ofthe world,he reviews rock ),’ roll shows in Detroit with her twin sistrr "ToW Perkins" S_~: Brz~n Fleming claims thatgay soldie~" can’t be trusted becauseyou wouMn’t know ifthey had ’Tnapprop~v~te" motivesfbr wanting to beyourfiqenc£ 2Vever mind that DADTis a recipefbr mistrust since it’s a poli~ based on dishonesl): vmTbody loves a parade, don’t they? Especially gays. Mad gay-loving militaries the world over. I mean, with homos in the ranks. they aren’t much for fighting, but the)) can build a fabulous flotilla of floats. Or so ToW Perkins of the Family Research Council thinks. On Sept. 17, Perkins hosted a "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" panel at the Values Voters Summit, which is basically a circuit party for social conservatives - except there’s no dancing, since gyrations of any kind are the devil’s movements. Perkins claims "our military is under immense attack from within our country" because Obama has made it a priority r. "force the military to embrace homosexuality" regardless of "what the military thought." And to explain what the military thinks, Perkins was flanked by retired Lt. Col. Robert Maginnis, a senior fellow for defense policy at FRC, and Sgt. Brian Fleming, a young man injured twice in Afghanistan. Fleming claims that gay soldiers can’t be trusted because you wouldn’t know if they had "inappropriate" motives for wanting to be your friend. Never mind that DADT is a recipe for mistrust since it’s a policy based on dishonesty. Maginnis calls the U.S. military a "moralbased organization" (because it’s moral for a dude to kill another dude, so long as he doesn’t kiss another dude). And since no moral person would want to be around a bunch of queers, Perkins claims that ifwe let gays into the military ’’we will see Bible-believing chaplains being forced out of the military and not joining the military, leaving a huge vacuum." Letting gays serve openly would be to "just stab (service members) in the heart" and would be "suicide for an all-volunteer force," according to Maginnis. "That’s ~vhy countries ... that have the 10 largest militaries in the world say, ’No, this isn’t the thing to do,’" Maginnis says. Perkins chimes in: "~Well, those that do (let gays serve), they’re the ones that participate in parades, they don’t fight wars to keep the nation (and) the world free." The crowd bursts into applause and Maginnis responds, "Right." Except, you know, not right. In fact, not only are the countries that allow gays and lesbians to serve openly more than glorified color guards, several of them are actually U.S. allies. Take Israel, for example, where gay and lesbian troops have been serving openly since 1993. And then there are countries that have sent troops to Iraq and Afghanistan, including Australia, the United Kingdom, Canada, Germany, France, Italy and Spain. Now, I’m not a military expert, but I have a feeling these allied troops are doing more than dressing up as clowns and riding unicycles while throwing candy to smilirig Iraqi and Afghan children lining the streets (although I do admit I think soldiers dressed as mimes would be an excellent psychological warfare tactic. This responsibility would obviously fall to the French). Oh, by the wa3~ those countries "that have the 10 largest militaries in the world" and who also reject homos include China, Russia, North Korea and Egypt. As Matt Gertz of Media Matters says, "That’s generally not a list you want your country to be on where human rights issues are concerned." But that would be a real bummer. So Perkins makes a hilarious joke about tranny soldiers trying r, figure out which uniform to wear. And everybody laughs. Ban ’uptc¥ * Civil Rights *Criminal ’ment * Family Law * Litigation 13th S ree : CitV, OK 73103 the Nation’s Top ..............~~ October 1, 2010 ~ 11 i~ Hous~ How ~s Q r ~ncumb®nt David Dank 2 October 1, 2010 T CAND~ ~S YOUR ~NDEPENDT - A STRONG ENViRONMENTALiST - PRO-CHOICE ¯,. A SUPPORTER OF EQUAU~ FOR ALL O~LAHOMANS Lisa LarnpaneIli: One Mean Q,Eeen Comedian on gay marriage, celebrity roasts and how we screwed up~h~r life - By Chris Azzopardi There’s nothing like hearing a familiar voice on the other end of the line, and Lisa Lampanelli’s is just as I remember it: loud and mean, like she’s burping up Sue Sylvester. "What’s up you big fag face?" she razzes in her bawdy blurt. And I’d be shocked, like I admittedly was during our first interview just over three years ago, had this not been our fourth chat together. So how she’s doing now? "Sick of straighties!" she says. Which is unusual for the selfdubbed "Lovable Queen of Mean," who’s typically trashing the minorities. But the insult comic’s bad-mouthing, like the greeting she swooned me with, is just her way of sc0oping you up into a big bear hug and gently placing a soft kiss on your forehead, like you’d imagine ftom someone who looks as bingo grandma as she does. Ridicule doesn’t exactly express a tender fondness, but Lampanelli dishes it out fairly, so at least nobody feels left out. Now that’s love. She’s experiencing the real thing lately, falling for a guy she wouldn’t typically, if you know Lampanelli, go for: a white one. "I know - I’ve disappointed everyone," she pouts. "But he’s Italian, so when I tour the South he’s still looked at like a colored, so it all works out." The wedding is set for October at the historical Friars’ Club in New York, and unlike most stars, the Connecticut-born comedian’s hungry for any Idnd of publicity. Her people even suggested it as a talking point. "I’m whoring out everything, are you kidding?" Lampanelli admits. "Who wants to talk about their wedding? Me! ’Cause I’m, like, fucking romantic, okaaay?" Will she hire a gay wedding planner? "Nooo! Screw those dirty faggots. I’m not going to support you and your gay lifestyle. You guys should’ve listened to Howard (Stern) and heard my price because I’m not telling you, because you fucking faggots are all jealous of me and my $300,000 wedding ... oh, did I let that slip out?!" Then we logically jump into gay marriage, and in her own lovingly backward way she wonders why it’s such a big deal to us because "you have the best out in the world." She continues: "We should say yes to gay marriage but outlaw gay divorce and see how you like it." ........Continued See LISA Page-19 October 1, 2010 By Andrew Collins Andrew Collins cove,s gay m~velfor the New Drk ~’mes-owned website Abou~;com and is the a~thor ofFodor’s Gay Guide to the USA. Travel in America’s Las I recently returned from my second rrip to Americgs largest and least populated (by densiw) state, Alaska. ~ese facts aren’t a big surprise to most people, but sometimes it’s difficult to grasp the state’s sheer dimensions - for example, Alaska is about 15 times bigger than Pennsylvania, but Pennsylvania has 17 times the number of residents. Beyond coming up with startling (and geographically geeky) trivia facts like these, it’s difficult to describe Alaska’s terrain and scenery without resorting to trite superlatives. It’s truly a land you need to visit to even begin to comprehend. The leading highlights for most visitors are up-close views of massive glaciers (dozens of them in some areas), a fascinating array ofwildlife, and North America’s highest peak (20,320-foot Mt. McKinley, in Denali National Park). Alaska also offers some of the world’s most exciting kayaking, fishing, rafting, hiking and campir~g (not to menti0n’dog-sledding). This An excellent general GLBT resource for the state is BentAlaska.com, a website with events, news, and organizations of interest to the communitT, plus a list of gay-friendly businesses. Taking a Cruise in Maska Even if you’re not especially enamored of cruise vacations, traveling by boat is without question the best way to see southeastern Alaska’s scenery, including areas like Glacier Bay National Park and College Fjord. Many major cruise lines offer Alaska cruises, with Holland America Line (http://www. hollandamerica.com) and Princess Cruises (http://www.princess.com) offering the greatest variety of itineraries, along with the exceptional line of smaller, upscale ships, Cruise West (http://www.cruisewest.com). These are all extremely gay-friendly and gay-popular Cruise lines. Several GLBTis { state ric~:in his,tory- from indigenous oriented tour operators, notably RSVP culture to tales of Russian trappers and U.S. Vacations (http://www.rsvpvacations.com), gold-fortune seekers. And the abundance of Olivia (http://www.olivia.com), Atlantis delicious fresh seafood makes this a terrific dining destination. Alaskh is ideally suited to outdoorsy travelers, but - thanks to cruise ships and scenic railroads - it’s also relatively easy .to enjoy the natural beauty from a comfy and controlled environment. Is "Ihere a Gay Scene in Alaska? Let’s put it this way: I wouldn’t recommend traveling to Alaska expressly to partake of gay nightlife, or meeting other "family." Anchorage is a large, modern city with a couple of gay bars, induding the extremely fun and friendly dance club Mad Myrna’s (http:llwww.alaska.net!-madmyrna) - you’ll also find some excellent museums and many stellar restaurants in Anchorage. The state’s second largest city, Fairbanks, has a small but active GLBT scene, some of it tied in Alaska’s oldest college, the University of Alaska Fairbanks. Juneau, with a population of about 30,000, is the state capital and is generally considered the most progressive city in the state - a fair number of gay folks live here, and bars and restaurants are generally quite friendly. Also noteworthy is tiny but funky Talkeetna, midway between Bmchorage and Denali National Park. This cool little village is a great base for exploring Denali and a haven of free-spirits (it was the inspiration for TV’s Northern Exposure). Throughout Alaska. and especially around Anchorage, you’l! find many gay-owned and gay-friendly inns and B&Bs. There’s a good list of these at PurpleRoofs.com (http://www:purpleroofs. co m!usa/alaska/alaskaregion.hmal). (http://www.adantisevents.com) book all-gay charter trips on some of the major lines that ply Alaska waters, including Holland America and Princess, as well as Carnival (http:// www.carnival.com), Celebrity (http://www. celebritycruises.com), Norwegian (http:// wvw2.ncl.com), and Royal Caribbean (http://www.royalcaribbean.com). Also note that such ultra-luxurious lines as Silversea (http://www.silverseaships.com) and Regent Seven Seas (http://www.rssc.com) regularly visit Alaska. Even on cruises booked to the general public, you’ll nearly always find gay and lesbian passengers (and certainly some crew). And on these cruises, there’s usually at least one and sometimes several GLBT mixers or meet-ups onboard during the week. If you’d like to find other gay travelers booked on the same cruise, or read other GLBT feedback related to cruise travel, check out the gay/ lesbian cruising forum at Cruisemates.com (http://www.cruisemates. tom/forum/gaylesbian- cruising). I can speak very positively about Alaska cruises based on my recent sailing aboard Holland America’s exceptionally well-outfitted Statendarri. I traveled ~vith my family; seven of us altogether, and we chose a particularly glacier-intensive itinerary, through the Inside Passage, with calls at Ketchikan, Juneau (my favorite), and Skagway, plus a day each sailing through Glacier Bay- and College Fjord. I’m not, for the record, a general fan of cruise vacations - iust a personal preference, as I’m more partial to the freedom of road-tripping, and traveling without a set itinerary. But this Harvard Glacier is one ofthe highlights ofa cruise through Alaska’s breathtaking College Fjord. Holland kanerica cruise was a wonderful adventure from start (out of Vancouver) to finish (in Seward). And if you are planning a trip with a few friends or relatives, a cruise can be ideal in terms of logistics, value and the pure fun of sharing countless memorable experiences together. Alaska cruises range greatly in price, starting for as little as $600 per person, based on double-occupancy, with an inside cabin on one of the less-fancy ships that visit the region, such as the Carnival Spirit or Norwegian Star - this is also assuming you book during the shoulder months (May and September). For a stateroom with balcony on an upscale line like Holland America, expect to pay $1,500 or more, depending on the size of the cabin, the particular ship, and the time ofskiling (June through August are high season). And if there were ever a great time to splurge for a balcony cabin, it’s an Alaska cruise, as a huge part of the experience is observing the magnificent scenery from aboard the ship. If yon’re averse to organized-group travel, would like to combine driving your own car with traveling by ship, or simply enjoy the excitement and relative affordability of ferryboat transportation, consider a do-it-yourself version of an Alaska cruise: traveling the Alaska Maritime Highway System (http:// www.dot.state.ak.us/amhs/index.shtml). You can get around via this extensive network of state-operated ferries, just as many Alaskans get from town to town, either without a car or - at considerably greater expense - with one. This is an adventurous way to sail through the Inside Passage, starting either dmvn in Bellingham, Washington, or much closer to Alaska in the Canadian port city of Prince Rupert. The ferry stops at all the major towns in southeast Alaska. You can also sail via the ferry system through Prince \Villiam Sound and to Kodiak Island (with stops in Valdez, Cordova, Whittier, Homer, and others), or through southwestern Alaska’s remote Aleutian Chain, from Chignik all the way to Unalaska/Dutch Harbor. Again. traveling with a car and sleeping onboard in cabins can make this a fairly costly trip - figure on about $800 to $900 for two passengers, a car. and a cabin for a one-way trip from Port Rupert to Skagway. But you can choose an itinerary that allo~vs you to get on and offat a number of ports, and it’s still cheaper and allows for greater flexibility than a cruise. Touring Maska on Land Whether you reach Alaska by cruise ship, plane or car (the 2,300-mile drive from Great Falls, Montana to Fairbanks on the Alaska- Canada Highway is quite a memorable undertaking), it’s worth taking some time to explore some parts of the state’s rugged and largely unspoiled interior. Many cruise lines offer one-way itineraries (as opposed to "loop" itineraries, that return you back to Vancouver, Seattle, or wherever the cruise started). These begin or end in Alaska, typically in a port that’s relatively close to Anchorage, such as Whittier or Seward. This latter community, home to the superb Alaska SeaLife Center aquarium and Kenai Fjords National Park, is where my recent Holland America cruise ended. From here my family and I rented a couple of cars and explored the area, continued on to Anchorage, and then spent two nights up in Talkeema. Other notable areas within relatively easy driving distance ofAnchorage and the Kenai Peninsula include the charming little vacation town of Girdwood, which is home to upscale Alyeska Resort; Homer, a popular fishing town; and Whittier, which has kayaking and boating on Prince William Sound plus access to several stunning glaciers. Farther afield and also wellworth investigating are Denali National Par.k (4 to 5 hours north ofAnchorage), Fairbanks (2 hours farther north of Denali), and Valdez (6 to 7 hours east ofAnchorage). One way to explore the interior without a car, as far north as spectacular Denali National Park and on up to Fairbanks, is via the scenic Alaska Railroad (http://ww~v. alaskarailroad.com). Many Alaska cruises offer post- or pre-trip options that includes several days on the railroad, or you can book a your own railroad package, which includes riding the railroad’s gleaming railcars past incredible scenery, tours at different stops, and overnight hotel accommodations. These packages range .................Continued SeeALASKA Page-19 October 1, 2010 15 Photo’s by Victor G. Out &About in Oklahoma @ Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa @The Ledo, Oklahoma City @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa OKC AIDS Walk and Run Double attendance from 2009 By Jeanne Flanigan Metro Star Team O~HOMLA CITX~ OK The 2010 OKC AIDS xTchlk and Run was held on a beautiful Sunday September 19 in the heart of Bricktown, this time at Sonic Headquarters with double-the attendance from last year. AIDS \Valk Board President John Greet estimated that over 88 runners and over 1000 walkers participated this yeal; including Teleflora and AAA. Volunteers fi’om Dell Computers, \V-gaigreens, BancFirst, United \Ygay, Sonic, the Red Cross and others signed in participants, sold T-shirts, set up the course, and also provided water and relief to organizations that had booths surrounding the Sonic building. . The route for the \Valk was changed this year due to renovations going on at the Myriad Gardens where the festival had been held in the past, so Sonic generously donated their space for this event. Canopies for the booths were provided by OKC Pride. ~e booths ran along the north side of the Sonic building, facing the Bricktown Canal with a DJ on the canal dock. AIDS Walk OKC raises money for grants to nonprofit organizations that provide services for people living with HIV/AIDS. During 2010 AIDS Walk OKC has held fundraising awareness of the need for the vital services these organiz,~tions provide. An award was given to Johnny Norris and the Friends of the Hilo who have consistendy raised thousands of dollars for AIDS Walk OKC for the past 18 years with their Turnabout Show, which this year,raised over $4000. Other fundraisers were organized by Sonja Martinez and Dee Britt at Partners, Nick Post at the Copa, KJttT Bob Aimes ar the Boom, and at the Pride Festival as well as individual house parties. Greer said these fundraisers would happen again next year and into the future. In 2009 eight organizations were awarded grants to continue their work to help those living with HIV. Earnings from the 2010 AIDS Walk will be announced on the AIDS Walk OKC ,vebsite by October 1. Grants to organizations will be given out after the yearly World AIDS Day Remembrance Service at Mayflower Congregational Church December 1. Organizations helping those living with HIV with 501C3 IRS status can apply for a grant online from October 1 through 31. To apply for a grant or for more information go to www.aids~valkokc.org. @ The Copa, Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ OKC AIDS WALK 2010 18 ~ October 1, 2010 @ OKC AIDS WALK 2010 By Ed Sikov Ed Sikov is the author ofDark Victory; 7he Life ofBette Davis and other books aboutf!_/ms andfilmmakers. "Look, darling! A cocl ail just for us!" The puppies were in residence that weekend, which meant the rest of us gorged on calorie-free eye candy, since the boys were untouchable. The best we could do was smell them. Robbie had a distinct personal funk that shifted a little from day to day: top notes of salt water with middle notes of two rank men - Robbie and the previous night’s trick. Kyle, on the other hand, always smelled faintly of Dr. Bronner’s peppermint soap, which blended with his naturally sweet disposition to create aromatically the ideal playmate, soulmate, best friend, husband and ultimately survivor, weeping over the grave even as he inherits the fortune. I had a major crush on him. CNN’s prepster-geek reporter Jack Fogg showed up, too, along with his glorious boyfriend, Sammy. Dan came straight from the airport (conference in Cleveland) in a stressed, must-be-medicated state. And with the angel of cocktail creation smiling upon us, it was Craig’s weekend as well. If you found yourself in a Tarantinodesigned slaughterhouse with a large enough beam balance, you could hang Craig on one hook and the rest of us on the opposite end, and Craig would still remain on the ground. Not really, but in the Pines, Craig felt like (and frankly looked like) a mastodon. But he adored the beach and loved Our house, so he braved the stares and not-even-stifled laughs of skinny, giggling twinkles who didn’t have a quarter of Craig’s wit. He dismissed them Bugs Bunny-style as "maroons." We were all in the living room late on Saturday afternoon when Craig, as though by instinct, launched into one of his routines: a frightfully accurate imitation of a certain glamorous 1950s song belter. He ran through bits from _It’s Always Fair Weather_ and _Kismet_, and even the song she sings (uncredited) in Bette Davis’s -~Mr. Skeffington. I was, as usual, enthralled and applauded at the end; Dan grinned with joy. Craig’s Dolores Gray was phenomenal. He even claims to have coached Lypsinka. Jack and Sammy were polite but dueless. Kyle said, with wide-eyed wonder, "Wow! You’re really good! Who was that? She’s amazing!" At which point Robbie Stood up, stretched dramatically to show off his chilired treasure trail, and announced, "Why do bitter queens love clownish women from old movies nobody else cares about? I’m too young for this. I won’t be back for dinner." And out the door he strolled. ’~sshole," said Kyle. Dan seethed. Jack and Sammy kept their mouths shut; they probably agreed with Robbie but were too polite to say it. I was offended across the board - for Craig, for old movies, for the late Dolores Gray- and was paralyzed with outrage. "Robbie’s hot," Sammy observed. Jack threw a pillow at him. "Eureka!" Craig declared. "I have just invented a cocktail to celebrate the revelation that Robbie is an agent of Satan. I always thought there was something suspicious about that flaming red hair. Gents? xX/-ho would like a Bitter Queen?" "What goes into a bitter queen?" Kyle asked innocently. "Nothing! That’s the problem!" Craig batted back. Here’s Craig’s incredibly simple and quite delicious recipe. We collectively added the descriptive details during a slightly sodden dinner: T~ne Bitter Queen Take last night’s martini glass with the dregs still in it, and toss the dregs in the sink. Don’t rinse out the glass. Add a bit too much Jameson Irish Whiskey and three or four dashes ofAngostura Bitters. Plunk a single, pathetic ice cube into the glass. Fo~ the full effect, drink it alone. Variation: "The Bitter Old Queen": use Jameson 12-year Special Reserve. N clearly that not al! Oklahomans shared the vision of the Federal legislation. At a recent meeting of leaders ofLGBT organizations held at the headquarters of the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, the FBI agents announced they will be presenting three forums on hate crimes. The public meetings will be held on October 5 in Oklahoma City, October 6 in Tulsa and October 7 in Muskogee, with the FBI represented by Jim \Vindsor,/hny Koons and Doug Straight. The purpose of these forums is to assure the LGBT communitT of the privacy- to be expected when reporting crimes, the interest the FBI has in bringing perpetrators of hate crimes to justice, and to introduce members of various legal and criminal investigation agencies who want to eliminate hate crimes. For more information on the forums or to report a hate crime, contact Cimarron Alliance Foundation at intb@cimarronallince. org, www.crimarronalliance.org, or the FBI at James.straight@ic.fbi.gov. Does that mean divorce is imminent for ~he soon-to-be newlyweds? "I got my prenup all set," she says. "Signed, sealed and delivered!" Lampanelli’s always on top of it, always getting the last laugh; she clobbers the hell out of mankind (gay kind, bla& kind, old kind, handicap kind) with a mouth that never lets up - onstage, duringTV interviews, during this interview. She toned her dirtiness down for a recent _Chelsea Lately_ appearance, but that wasfft all that seemed unusual: Viewers, myself included, sensed awkwardness between the comedian and the show’s host, Chelsea Handler. Lampanelli settles that: "No, you read it wrong, because when we came offwe were like, ’Oh my god, wasn’t that so much fun?!’ like two giddy schoolgirls. You know what it is? You faggots love to stir up trouble! Like, ’Hey, let’s make Kathy Griffin hate Lisa; hey, let’s make Lisa hate Margaret Cho.’ Well, guess what? You don’t have to make me hate Margaret Cho ... because I already do!" Lampanelli backpedals, slipping out a light laugh that’s more sweet than sour, and says she doesn’t really abhor Cho, a constant among her targets. She doesn’t even know the fellow queer-loved comedian, but "I always have to make fun of her because she’s a dirty Asian." So there’s no rivalry among female comedians? "Not from where I sit, because I’m, like, better than them all," she explains, mentioning that Handler is actually producing her upcoming reality show that’s still in negotiations and can’t be discussed. "There’s none between me and Kathy because she’s tough, man. She doesn’t care whom she fucks with; that’s beautiful! A lot of people allude to celebrities, but she just says it, and I’m like, that’s balls! I love that." But Lampanelh"’s own saucy remarks sweep up lots of attention, too, just as they did after she opened the _Roast of David Hasselhoff_ in August on Comedy Central, where she’s also roasted Joan Rivers, Pamela Anderson and William Shatner (next up, she hopes: "The fat lesbian roast. I’d love to do Rosie O’Donnell ... and Oprah Winfrey.’) For Hasselho~s time in the hot seat, Lampanelli said his black and bloated liver could’re starred in _Precious_ and that his career "has crumbled worse than downtown Haiti." Even Perez Hilton thought it was too much. "Oh, she just had her period! She was just a little annoyed, and I get it," Lampanelli says. "But where’s the line? And who’s gonna draw it, some arbitrary FCC or whatever? If you can make it funny - which I obviously did, because I’m, like, the best comedian who ever lived! - then obviously it has not gone too far." When Lampanelli was on the receiving end, the roasters went for the obvious - her love for black men and her voluptuous size. After opening up about her self-esteem battle in her book _Chocolate, Please: My Adventures in Food, Fat, and Freaks_, recently out in paperback, you might wonder if she was more affected than she looked. Not this time, she says. "If they’re funny, I don’t mind them. And they were funny," Lampanelli says, naming Gilbert Gottfried as her favorite that night. "In the past there’s been .jokes that aren’t that great and you’re just like, that kind of hurts. But when the joke is really good, you almost appreciate the comedy more than what they’re saying. These were really clever and I said, ’OK, this is not affecting me.’" Lampanelli breaks off for a bit, mulling over her thoughts a little more until she swings back in: "I mean, it hasn’t yet. Oh my god, maybe now that you mention it I’ll go and binge this afternoon. You faggot, leave it to you to fuck up my life!" Payback’s a bitch, Lisa. from 5 to 12 nights and start around $1,800 per person. Shorter day trips are also available on the Alaska Railroad - among the most rewarding itineraries are the ride from Anchorage to Denali (starting around $150), and the Glacier Discovery Trains to Grandview (starting around $85). Another great option is to book a trip with a local outfitter. Based in Fairbanks, Out in Alaska (http://www.outinalaska.com) is a highly reputable, gay-owned tour operator that offers exciting trips, both camping (starting around $1,800 for six days) and hotel-based (from $2,500 for seven days), to some of the state’s mosvscenic areas. Out in Alaska trips typically last a week to 10 days, have 5 to 10 participants, and include meals, transportation within the regions visited, activities, and - in the case of camping - gear. Some Out in Alaska trips are oriented primarily toward sightseeing and might cover major national parks (Denali, Kanai Fjords, Wrangell-St. Elias) and the regions around Fairbanks and Anchorage. The more activitydriven trips - which can be themed around glacier trekking, hiking, rafting, or kayaking - venture into the state’s remote wilderness, from the Arctic National Wildlife Refuge to the Yukon or Copper rivers. The company also organizes small LGBT group adventures on some Of the mainstream cruises offered through the Inside Passage. However you explore this majestic land, it’s absolutely worth the time and effort to get yourself up here - and to plan on spending a minimum of seven days. When even seasoned travelers talk about "trips of a lifetime" and "most memorable travel experiences," they’re often referring to adventures they’ve undertaken in Alaska. Others also welcome this measure as another sign of progress for Tulsa. Tulsa Human Rights Commission Chairman Tommy Chesbro stated, "It is exciting to see Tulsa moving forward and being more inclusive of all our citizens." Others are not so optimistic. As Tulsan m McGregor put ~t, On the student end I th~nk theyre be,ng set up for failure because school might be a relatively safe zone, but when they get out into the real world in Oklal~oma they will find that they can be freely and openly discriminated against and not only is it legal, but there will be plenty of political leaders around to say that it is perfectly acceptable too." Oldal~omans for Equality is encouraging members of the community to contact t~e Tulsa Board of Education (www.tulsaschools. org/district/admin.shm) to thank the board members for this progressive and courageous step to~vards providing Safety and a better learning environment ~br all students and teachers, especially those of the GLBT community. @ by Greg Fox ~ebsite- www.kylecomics.com E-MM1- KylesBnB@aol.eom emaih bittergirl@qsyndicate,com 20 ~ October 1, 2010 Chuck 8reckenddge 88T "gq~cthcr buying or selling I’ll work hard tbr you. 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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your plans with your friends may be farfetched, even utterly impractical. Don’t push too hard; be open to trimming your sails to a steadier process and a more reliable goal. Share your opinions, but let others take the lead. GE~’~NI (May 21- June 20): You will be noticed; don’t worry about that! Trying to get noticed will only make you look like a grandstanding egoman~ac. Play it cool; focus on your work. Innovative approaches modestly advanced will get you the attention you want. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Hey, Dorothy, click those slippers and take care of business at home! Wanderlust and the search for novelties are mostly counterproductive distractions, but they might inspire playful ways to pep up your domestic life. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Are you out to your family? Raise issues that need to be discussed with them. Still, be careful not to spill too much info. Meaningful relationships deserve openness; tawdry adventures and intimate details are nobody else’s business. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Don’t shy away from the tough issues with your partner, but be careful not to be too provocative, smug or selfrighteous. It’s not about you. Keep the focus on what’s really important. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Retail therapy is just an enabling term for "shopaholic." Step away from the counter and get a realistic handle on SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Reaching for the future may be more comfortable than resolving erupting issues from the past, but the latter is your foundation so make sure you deal with that. Friends offer perspective and distraction. Be careful to distinguish between the two. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Two paths ahead of you: One is bright and brilliant and offers lots of amazing thrills at considerable risk. The other is much duller and leads through hard work toward success. You know which road to take. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Your ability to collaborate and bring together diverse ideas is what will get you favorably noticed. Resist the tern ptation to show off your sense of economy and resourcefulness. That will just blow up in your face. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Being your own brilliantly spiritual self will probably confuse people and maybe even scare some. Whether you actually win arguments, you may terrify your opposition. Channel that energy into quiet study. Cultivating an air of serene mystery will convey powerful sexiness. Across Story of Greeks that busted some Troians Ml-night bash 0 She played ~vith Sherman on The Jefl~)rsons !5 Brando~ last one was in Paris 1 Simpson trial judge Lance 2 Avoid premature eiaculation 3 Nothing to brag about 4 Tutti-fi’utti ingredient 5 The Sound of MUsic song 6 Takes five your accounts. Yes, you are entitled to a birthday treat, but shouldn’t your friends and family be covering that? SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): It’s not all about you. On the other hand acting as if it were could unlock creative potential. Still, there is a time and a place for indulging in rampant egomania. Keep it where it belongs, and dig for those deep inner truths. Community for People iving H V/A DS 501 c (3) Non P~o£t Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to hel p combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. 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Gay Travelers: St. Louis, Missouri Out of Town: Portland, Oregon Dining In or OUT Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President. BOOKS This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get ,vhat you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. ON THE COVER: EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CiTY TULSA LAVVTON MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Home Tour sllated for O dest Historic District "Brady Heights" Green Renovation Home Tour 2007" TULSA, OK___On Sunday, October 14th residents of Brady Heights, Tulsa’s oldest historic district, will open their homes to the public for a neighborhood tour of some of the State’s most original and historic homes, as part of Oklahoma’s Centennial celebration. Oklahoma’s early political, mercantile, oil, spiritual and social leaders made Brady Heights their home in an era that spanned Territorial Days through the 1930s. The homes vary in style and design from Victorian and American Foursquare Style, through to the Wright inspired Prairie Style and the Craftsman Bungalow Style. Residents have lovingly restored the homes and guests will be treated to casual discussions by the homeowners relating the history of their home and the machinations they Went through to restore them. Many of the homes still retain original details such as: leaded glass, carriage houses, craftsman made detailing and broad front porches. The tour provides a unique look into the preservation of Oklahoma’s architectural history while highlighting resource conversation. Visitors will have the opportunity to review the resource-conserving materials and practices used in these historic restorations as well as talk with providers of"greeff’ products and technologies. Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and lies on North Denver and North Cheyenne Avenues. The tour will start at 12 noon on Sunday, October 14th and begins at the Centenary United Methodist Church, 621 N. Denver Ave. The fee is $7.50 for adults and $3.00 for children under seventeen with no charge for children under twelve. Tickets will be available until 4pm the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm. Advance tickets are available at www.bradyheights. com. Proceeds will benefit community projects of the Brady Heights Neighborhood Association. www.ozarksstar.com Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed On the National Register of Historic Places. The most diverse neighborhood in Tulsa, Brady Heights boasts a co!- lection of families and individuals of all races, income ranges, ages, sexual orientations and religions. Proud urban pioneers were guaranteed continued historic integrity of their homes and neighborhood when the Brady Heights Historic District was granted the Historic Preservation Overlay Zoning by the City ofTulsa. For more information about Brady Heights mad The Historic Home Tour, please visit www.bradyheights.com. the STAR 5 6 the STAR By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ I’m a big fan of the Internet and think it’s one of the most momentous advances in human communication since our hairy, howling, humanoid ancestors developed spoken language. Then, with Gutenberg and the invention of movable type, it became possible for large numbers of people to communicate over great distance and beyond life times, two of the greatest inconveniences in maintaining human progress. Now, the electronic Internet takes care of distance and time, while cell phones introduce the convenience of mobility in communication. TXT MSGing (text messaging) has caught on in a big way. It allows frequently used expressions to be condensed to acronyms and abbreviations for quick notes to be displayed in the small confines of the cell phone display window. "l-he American LGBT equality movement has its own list ofTXT MSG acronyms that represents the core of discrimination still being directed at us, even as many countries in western Europe, the Southern Hemisphere, Canada, and Mexico have recognized the inherent right of their own LGBT citizens to the legal equality of a modern, humane society. ENDA -- Employment Non-Discrimination Act MSA/HCPA -- Mathew Shepard Act/Hate Crimes Protection Act DOMA -- Defense of Marriage Act DODT -- Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (Don’t Pursue) Anyone who knows he/she is LGBT should be familiar with these text letters and know the importance of having the first two passed and the last two overturned. ENDA and MSA have passed the House where there is a Democratic majority, though full disclosure nags me to remind you that Oklahoma’s lone DEMO in DC, Dan Boren, voted against our LGBT citizenship, but then he was swimming upstream against the popular tide with the minority of House GOP’ers. I say against the tide because a recent NYTimes poll indicated that 75% ofDEMOS and 49% of GOP’ers thought same-gender couples should have marriage equality or civil marriage. Can it be anymore clear that the people are ahead, the engine is in front of the caboose. A recent report tabulating the current roster of presidential candidates published by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF, www.thetaskforce.org) shows that based on the candidates’s own words, all the DEMOS support ENDA and MSA, while the GOP’ers have disdain or no opinion. With DOMA and DODT the count is much the same. But some DEMOS are dragging their feet in regard to same-gender marriage. Only Kucinich and Gravel clearly support unequivocally full-blown same-gender marriage. IMO, we LGBT people need to tell our candidates to get on the equality train. Never before have our issues been so prominently in the spotlight of public view and we need to push our candidates, regardless of party, to keep the light on fairness and parity. BTW, CUA, and THX for reading. EOM. Creating Community for People living ~7ith H Dd/AiDS A 501 c (3) Non Profit" Org~tnizat~ioia Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the soolal isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those "~,’ho are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone would like to volunteer or provide nancial assistan~ to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrisrnmjr@yahco.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Recognized by Keller Williams For outstanding achi~rnent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Summer 2007 Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs, Arkansas, August 3,5 By STAR Staff EUREKA SPRINGS, AR__Ifyour planning a trip to the Gayest little city in America, this coming weekend should prove to be a fun time, and if you plan to hitch up with that special love of your life with a Domestic Partner Registration you will need to get there early on Friday August 3rd or you’ll have to wait until Monday. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available at http://www. cityofeurekasprings.org/. Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. The City Clerk’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carroll County Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 a.m. to 12 noon and 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Once you have that certificate safely tucked away in your travel bag, step out and enjoy some live action, good food and the great hospitality of Eureka Springs. Friday/Saturday, August 3, 4: Hitch up the U-Haul: The 12th annual YARDS AND YARDS OF YARD SALES (almost 100 last year). Find locator maps at shops and restaurants. Sponsored-oddly-by the Greater Eureka Springs Chamber of Commerce. Patronized-avidly-by antique queens from far and near. Friday - Sunday, August 3, 4, 5: Hitch up the Pop-up: DIVERSITY CAMP OUT, Lake Leather~ vood (nice combo there, doncha think?) campground (479) 253-2866. Advance reservations for RV sites ($15/night) and cabins ($70/night) required. Tenters ($10/night) pre-register at (479) 387- 2871 or RaeSwt@yahoo.com by July 30. Canoe & Paddle Boat Rentals Available. Fishing, Hiking, Biking and Swimming. Community Potluck Dinners & Campfires. Weenies and S’mores. Just two miles west of Eureka Springs offU.S. Highway 62. Frida~ August 3 S&M: Stand and Model at the Diversity Weekend Kick-Off Party. Serious cruising begins here. ’PRINCESS’ WELCOME MIXER Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren, 7-9 p.m.ish. Cosponsored by Diversity Pride Events and Eureka Pride. Mix and mingle with locals and visitors from around the country- Lipstick ladies and sturdy gurls, leather to Levi guys, twinks, trans, clones, bis and burly bears. Contact: info@eurekapride.com Spin Cycle: 10 pm - DJ Kyle Egan Live at Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Dance to the hottest hip hop and R&B mixed live on two turntables. Shot specials all night. Saturdaj6 August 4 Straddle This: DIVERSITY BIKERS BRUNCH & RIDE 10AM. Join Diversity Pride Events and the Diversity Bikers at the Best Western Inn of the Ozarks, 207 WVan Buren. Then, saddle up and ride to show your true Rainbmv colors. \Vet n’ Wild: MENS AND WOMENS SWIM PARTIES, 11 a.m. to 4 p,m. MEN: Rodeway Inn Swiss Holiday Resort, 2015 E. Van Buren. Featuring DJ Rob. \VOMEN: Carolyn’s Ozark Swiss Inn, 3061 E. Van Buren. Kiss Off: PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) photo shoot, 12 noon in Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. And to amuse the tourists and annoy the fundies. A chance, too, to show a Christian biker group-the Jericho Riders from Missouri-the difference between love and hate. The bikers will be in the park at the same time, praying for the Domestic Partnership Registry to go away. Not a chance. But be NICE to them anywa): Remember, the whole world is watching. Cake ’n Cocktails: A reception honoring DOMESTIC PARTNERS, family and friends at 6 to 8 p.m. Generously hosted by Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Sponsored by gaynewsbureau. com. No cover. Cash bar. Open to the public. Even-or especially-the Jericho Christian Bikers. Splane it to us Lucy: Robbie Walker and a special guest, or a cavalcade of stars, xWith Robbie, you just never know. 9 pm Saturday night at Henri’s Just One More. Come early. Robbie PACKS the house. Subterranean Collision Course: Diversity Pride Events brings "COLLIDE" DANCE PARTY to Eureka Live Night Club, one flight belmv street level at 35 N. Main, 9 p.m.-2 p.m. Featuring DJ Rob. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Disco Hoedown: Diversity Pride Event’s RETRO/COUNTRY D~a~NCE & CABARET, 9 pm. to 2 p.m. at Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren. Featuring DJ/singer Mary King and additional performers. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Sunday, August 5: A Feather In Your Cap: See Hitchcock classic "THE BIRDS" at our downtown BYO-canvas-chair-or-blanket and kids-and-dogs outdoor, under-the-stars Luckyl3 Starlight Cinema. The TIPI HEDREN LOOK-ALIKE CONTEST alone is reason enough to extend your visit to Eureka Springs one more day. In the parking lot next to the Basin Park Bath House (huh?), 1 N. Main St. Start time: When the bats fly. Weekend schedule provided by http://www.eurekagaynews.com/ 10 the STAR ~wvw.ozarksstar.com Joplin’s Seventh Annual "Night of Stars 2007" %Viii Feature Ben Miller Band By STAR Staff JOPLIN, MO Tim and Tom’s 7th annual Night of Stars Gala is scheduled for September 12th. ~Ihe Event will be held at Kitchen Pass Bar and Restaurant, 1212 S. Main Street, Joplin, MO. Phone 417-624-9095. The Night of Stars affair is held each year to raise awareness within the GLBTA community, and to raise money for the critical needs of those living with HIV/AIDS in the SW Missouri area. All proceeds go to the non-profit organization AIDS Project of the Ozarks. In an interview Tim said, "We still need auction items. This year we are doing a buffet from 5:30 pm to 7pm and 2 beer tickets for $25.00 per person or you can buy a table for 10 for $200.00. After 7:00 pm door charge will be $6.00 per person. Entertainment this year will be the Ben Miller Band. The silent auction will start then also. I think it will be a great night and raise money for a greater cause. We are looking forward to seeing you there." If you have any questions please feel free to call Tom @ 417-629- 8994 or Tim @ 417-629-8995 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVISTD Hotline www.ozarksstar.com No Surprises Staying with... Rodeway inn Ozarks Family Owned! Great Sunday, Thursday Rates ’Visitors center and area attraction ticket center o Jacuzzi king rooms for two, On.site weddings and wedding .packages Close to restaurants and attraCti0ns Small pets allowed. Family reunions ,0~ark Mountain Motorcycle Tours of popular area deStinations, Picnic. and barbecue area- Group rates and package plans Church group packages,a{,ailable , Friendliest atmosphere in Eureka.Springs Family . ofwonrgeudeasntsd.oCpoenratitneedn,taTlroblrleeyaksfatospt . MFreeeetitnagnnr0inog~bteod h01d 80 with full kitchen ; On-site massage therapy mater,Guest aundry Center of all attracti0ns Call for toll free reservations: 1-888o582o84 4 P.O’ Box 430° Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 479’253-9501 www,eurekaspringsresort,com the STAR 11 ]~t~s hard to believe. Here’s a x 6thcentury Baroque master whose bold naturalistic painting style t~rst created whose life was filled with ~e turbulence and excess of a do~e:n Mario Pu~o novels. ~ouM~,u~yfound re~mption and i~ormliW in his ~t. But does the averag~ kid on the s~eer even know ~vho Carava~io F~hgedaboudit. T~ ~d. Xs~cmHy when you consider how much our c~ldren can lea~ ~om the conflicted life a ~eat ar~st like Miche~ngelo Caravaggio. ~e grew up in less ~an ideal circ~stances. Most ofhis f~ily died m the plague. Much of his youth was misspent on the mean s~¢ets of Rome. And as a young artist he strt~gg]ed for years to make a living. He was angry. Yet the angry contrast between iight and darkness in h~ work isthe very reason it no~v hangs in countless museums ~around the world. If nothing else, it’s a case study of the importance of having art as an outlet. Unfomanately, one we’re fast removing from our kids" lives. If the arts are indeed a vital part o£ your child’s education ~and studies show you believe they a~e), th,n you should demand his or her fair share. To find out how, or for more information about benefits of arts education, please visit us at AmericansForTheArts;org, Because, as Caravagglo would tel! you~ life without artis tomlre. Historic American Event August 9th on LOGO TVo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Maintaining its grassroots traditions, the Oklahoma Democratic Party and OK Stonewall Democrats will host a meet-n-greet on Thursday, August 9, starting at 6:00pm at the Party’s headquarters at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard. This informal reception will have refreshments and live entertainment until 8:00pro. Following immediately will be a watch party to view the live streaming video of the LOGO TV and Human Rights Campaign sponsored forum between the Democratic Presidential candidates. This is the first forum in American election history devoted exclusively to LGBT concerns. Both events are free to the public. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (wwv.okstonewall. org) is a chapter of National Stonwall Democrats in Washington, DC (wvw. stonewalldemocrats.org) and a recognized dub of the State Democratic Party (www. okdemocrats.org). We work for the equality ofAmerica’s LGBT citizens in its social and political life. TAMMY FAYE DIES AT AGE 65 WASHINGTON, DC~The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force expressed its condolences at the passing ofTammy Faye (Bakker) Messner, ex-wife of disgraced evangelist Jim Bakker. Messner died last Friday after a long battle with cancer. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force "Tammy Faye became an icon for our community. In spite of-- and perhaps because of the hardships she faced -- she embraced us, she refused to judge and repudiated those who did. She will be long-remembered and deeply missed. Our condolences go to her family and her wide circle of loving friends." Christmas In Ju y Fundraiser A Great Success! By STAR Staff TULSA, OK Yes Mrs. Hood, there is a Santa Clause! But in July? Bamboo Lounge Tulsa and Miss Bamboo 2007, Holly Rose hosted the First Annual Miss Bamboo Christmas in July charity event to a packed house and a delighted crowd. The entertainers and auction raised $600 to benefit H.O.EE. Clinic ofTulsa. Clinic personnel were also in attendance and administering free AIDS/HIV testing. H.O.EE. testing clinic is a non-profit Mens Outreach program providing free HIV testing, including the 20 minute OraQuick test. The Clinic is located at 3540 East 31st Street in Tulsa. Phone (918) 812-7045. The Clinic is closed on Friday and Sunday. Their Oklahoma HIV/STD Hotline number is (800) 535-2437 Combine ingredients in mixi~ glass. Add ice, stir to strain into your chille( Glass. Pop in CD for fun www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 stream society elevision is a major influence on American popular culture, and the evolving presence ofLGBT people on the small screen has both reflected and fostered acceptance of gays in main- In the 1950s and 1960s - a time when homosexuality ~vas regarded as a crime or a mental illness - a few brave queers began appearing on local television talk shows. In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. Asked whether he would change his sexual orientation if he could, Olson replied that he would not; the next day, he was fired from his job. Four years later, New York’s WABD ran a similar program featuring sympathetic psychologist Albert Ellis and Gonzolo Segura, a gay chemist who wore a hood to hide his identity. In November 1964, New York Mattachine Society member Randy, Wicker went undisguised on the popular Les Crane Show, and in 1967, activists Franklin Kameny, Jack Nichols, and Lilli Vincenz appeared on channel WOOK in Washington, D.C. "Once we started appearing on TV and on talk radio shows, [the public] started seeing us as more real," Vincenz later said. LGBT people garnered a national audience in March 1967 with a special episode of CBS Reports entitled "The Homosexuals," hosted by Mike Wallace. The program - which ran with virtually no ads since sponsors wouldn’t touch it - featured Jack Nichols, author Gore Vidal, a federal judge, and conservative psychiatrist Charles Socarides; though Nichols used an alias, he too lost his job. That same year, New York Mattachine president Dick Leitsch appeared on The David Susskind Show, which aired on PBS stations nationwide. In 1971, Susskind featured a panel of lesbians, including Daughters of Bilitis member Barbara Gittings, Wayland Flowers (with his puppet "Madame") who proclaimed, "Homosexuals today are taking it for granted that their homosexuality is not at all something dreadful - it’s good, it’s right, it’s natural, it’s moral, and this is the way they are going to be." By the late 1960s, talk show host Phil Donahue also began featuring queer people (originally on his local program in Dayton, Ohio, which was later nationally syndicated), despite his fear that some viewers might think he was gay, himself. After the Stonewall Riots in June 1969, occasional queer characters began to appear on TV with increasing frequency. The CBS series Medical Center (1969-1976) featured perhaps the first-ever sympathetic portrayals of gay and lesbian characters on television. During the first season of CBS’s _All in the Family_ in 1971, Archie Bunker was taken aback to learn that an old drinking buddy - a former pro football player - was gay. The show prompted then-president Richard Nixon to complain to his staff, "Goddamn it, I don’t think you glorify [homosexuality] on public television." In a later episode, Archie saved the life of a female impersonator, and in the spin-offThe Jeffersons, lead character George reunited with an old Navy buddy who was now a woman. The 1970s also saw the first sympathetic made-for-TV movies, including That Certain Summer (1972), in which a teenage boy discovers his father is gay. While reality TV is often regarded as a recent phenomenon, the 1970s PBS series An American Family portrayed the real-life travails of a Southern California family, the Louds. Teenage son Lance came out on screen in January 1973, sparking both condemnation and applause. He performed in a punk rock band and wrote for magazines, including The Advocate, before dying of liver failure related to HIV and hepatitis C at age 50. Variety shows of the 1970s, such as Rowan and Martin’s Laugh-In and Saturday Night Live, addressed homosexuality in their skits, often by making fun of stereotypical gay characters. By mid-decade, three gay men - Paul Lynde (~vho previously played a bachelor warlock on Bewitched), Charles Nelson Reilly (who had a role in the children’s show Lidsville), and Wayland Flmvers (with his puppet "Madame"), had become flamboyant fixtures on popular game shows, though they did not openly acknowledge their sexuality. While several programs in the 1970s occasionally featured queers, regular LGBT characters were scarce, q-he first, in 1972, was Peter Panama, a gay designer on the short-lived ABC sitcom The Corner Bar. This was followed in 1975 by the first gay male couple, on the network’s Hot L Baltimore. An unhappily married woman on the daytime soap opera Days of Our Lives admitted she was bisexual in 1977, but the storyline was brief. A longer-running and better-known example of a recurring queer character was Jodie Dallas on ABC’s Soap (1977-1982). 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com As the gay liberation movement gained political clout, the National Gay Task Force and other activists protested against shows that cast queers in a negative light, including a 1974 episode of Marcus Welby, M.D., in which a male teacher molested a boy. During the first season of Soap, the campy, effeminate Jodie dated a closeted football player and planned to have a sex-change operation, until the Task Force successfially demanded that the script be altered. By the late 1970s, however, the religious right had also become more powerful, and producers and advertisers began to face competing boycott threats from queers and conservatives. (Continued in part 2.) What were some milestones for queers on television? (Part 2) milestones. espite growing pressure from conservatives follmving the proliferation of LGBT characters in the mid-1970s, the 1980s and 1990s witnessed no shortage of queer television In 1981, ABC’s popular Dynasty introduced Steven Carrington, the first openly bisexual regular character in a dramatic series. The network’s daytime soap opera All My Children featured its first gay storyline in 1983, when erstwhile heterosexual Devon McFadden declared her love for her lesbian psychiatrist. Five years later, ABC presented the first recurring out lesbian character in prime time - nurse Marilyn McGrath on the short-lived medical drama Heartbeat. During these decades, television increasingly addressed issues of concern to the LGBT community. The 1985 made-for-TV movie An Early Frost offered one of the first portrayals of people with AIDS. MTV’s The Real World also dealt with AIDS, featuring HIV-positive Pedro Zamora during its 1994 season. That same year saw the first televised gay male wedding, on the CBS series Northern Exposure, set in a small Alaska town founded by a lesbian couple. www.ozarksstar.com Paul Lynde (who previouslyplayed a bachelor warlock on Bewitched) The first same-sex wedding be~veen two women - with activist Candace Gingrich serving as the minister - came on Friends in 1996. NBC’s TV movie Serving in Silence (1995) related the story of Lt. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who was ousted from the military after acknowledging that she was a lesbian. But not until 2006 did The L Word introduce Moira/Max, the first female-tomale character to transition on the small screen, followed later that year by Zarf/Zoe’s male-to-female transition on All My Children. In a bid for increased visibility, LGBT people continued to appear on television talk shows, even as such programs shifted from the measured affairs hosted by David Susskind and Phil Donahue to shows in which hosts and audience members blatantly attacked the guests. The controversy over "trash TV" came to a head in March 1995, when Jonathan Schmitz killed Scott Amedure after Amedure revealed his crush on Schmitz on The JenW Jones Show. Over the years, expressions of same-sex affection between women were more accepted than those between men. In November 1989, the sitcom thirtysomething lost more than $1 million in ad revenue when it showed two men in bed together, even though a preceding kiss was axed. In February 1991, C.J. Lamb and Abby Perkins, two attorneys on NBC’s L.A. Law, shared the first lesbian kiss on network TV. In 1994, over the objections of network executives, Roseanne kissed a lesbian character played by Mariel Hemingway, and the following year on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, the character Jadzia Dax kissed a woman who xvas the re-embodiment of her dead husband. AJanuary 1997 episode of Relativity showed a passionate, close-up lesbian lip-lock, and two years latin; TV lawyer Ally McBeal shared a prolonged smooch with a female office rival. Fox’s _Melrose Place_ deleted a planned prime-time gay male kiss due to boycott threats in 1994, leaving Jack and Ethan on WB Network’s Dawson’s Creek to break that barrier in 2000. The late 1990s saw the first shows with prominent LGBT lead characters. On April 30, 1997 - after months of innuendo - Ellen DeGeneres had the most famous smallscreen coming-out, in a star-studded episode of her ABC sitcom Ellen that attracted some 35 million viewers. But not tong thereafter, her same-sex kiss on the show prompted a parental advisory warning, and the program’s ratings dropped as it began to focus more on gay issues. NBC’s Will and Grace also broke new ground, though some viewers were disappointed that the gay male lead never had an ongoing romantic relationship. The turn of the century witnessed the most visible queer personality on reality TV since Lance Loud, when self-proclaimed "fat naked fag" Richard Hatch - who later served time for evading taxes on his prize money - won the first season of Survivor in 2000. Reichen Lehmkuhl and Chip Arndt, the couple who triumphed in the fourth season of CBS’s The Amazing Race (2003), proved to be more likable gay role models. That year also saw the debut of Bravo’s popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, featuring five gay men giving fashion and lifestyle advice to style-challenged heterosexuals. Cable television offered the most daring series featuring primarily queer casts, beginning with Showtime’s Queer as Folk in 2000 and The L Word in 2004. In a reflection of growing LGBT economic clout, Canada’s PrideVision (later renamed OutTV) became the world’s first channel offering full-time programming for a queer audience in 1991. The U.S. cable channels Here! TV, QTelevision Network, and MTV/Viacom’s Logo followed suit, ................ Continued page 23 the STAR 15 One ofPortland’s hippest hangoutsfor cocktails and terrificfood, the Mint restaurant and adjoining 820 bar are owned by highly talented and openly gay drink mixologist Lucy Brennan. (Photo by Andrew Collins) It’s both a cliche and an injustice to compare Portland xvith Seat~e and Vancouver, but people do it all the rime - the three eiries are, after all, the crown jewels of the Pacific Northxvest. Portland stands very much on its oxvn, however, and despite its considerable groxv~ in recent years, it retains a surprisingly intimate scale and lowkeyed personalit3: Gay and lesbian visitors xvill discover a city xvith no predon~finantly alternative neighborhood, but a progressive, welcoming attitude that permeates every inch of the city. The city’s strengths include a plethora of classy, gay-friendly, boutique-style hotds (many of them xvithin walking distance of the city’s best gay bars); a pedestrian-friendly downtown with lively cultural venues and engaging retail strips; and one of the most exciting restaurant scenes around. Even better, accommodations and meals cost considerably l~ss here than in other West Coast cities of comparable acclaim. If it seems odd that you haven’t heard more about Portland, keep in mind that locals are fiercely intent on keeping it from groxving too big and too croxvded - the city is, by design, a well-guarded secret. Portland lies just below the confluence of the Columbia and the Willamette rivers. The Columbia forms the border between Washington and Oregon; from it, the Willamette txvists in a southerly direction, bisecting the city and its attractive skyline. In this eclectic city center, high-end boutiques border funky pawn shops, dapper bistros sit beside humble burger joints, and postmodern office towers rise above cast-iron Victorians. Along the river, Tom McCall Waterfront Park stretches for more than a mile, providing a scenic venue for cycling, jogging, and sunning. Brown baggers congregate at Pioneer Square, a tidy redbrick plaza at Yamhill Street and Broadxvay. Many high-end chain stores are clustered here, including NikeTown, the unabashedly commercial tribute to the Portland-based maker of athletic wear, and Nordstrom. South of Pioneer Square the impressive Portland Center for the Performing Arts presents ballet, opera, and classical music, and the Portland Art Museum specializes in Native American, regional contemporary, and graphic arts. A fexv blocks northwest lies the city’s compact gay entertainment district, mostly along bar-studded Stark Street. Vintageclothing, book, and used-record shops line Burnside and Oak streets, including one of the nation’s most famous bookstores, Powell’s, which has an enormous GLBT section. Across Burnside is Portland’s hottest neighborhood, the swank Pearl District, where massive warehouse buildings have been converted into trendy loft-style condos and hip eateries. The Pearl District’s Bluehour is well-regarded for its inventive seafood, such as semolina-encrusted halibut with lava beans and an herb-risotto cake. The same culinary team is behind Saucebox, a sdf-conseiously hip care delivering tasty multinational fare. Budget time to explore Portland’s Northwest neighborhood, along 23rd and 21st avenues, where upscale boutiques and restaurants proliferate, including one of Portland’s hottest purveyors of Pacific Northwest cuisine, Wildwood. The menu here changes often but might feature, for example, day-oven roasted leg of lamb with summer squash grarin. From Northwest you’re a short drive from Metro Washington Park Zoo, which anchors 322-acre, densely wooded Washington Park, opposite xvhich sits the International Rose Test Garden; 10,000 bushes with more than 500 varieties are displayed xvithin its 4 acres. Just up the hill is a serene Japanese garden. The wooded grounds abut the 5,000-acre Forest Park, great for hiking and biking. Across the Williamette River from downtown you’ll find several neighborhoods acclaimed for their artsy fed, popularity with gays and lesbians, and wealth of great shopping and dining options. The Hawthorne District might just be Portland’s most lesbian-popular neighborhood, and it also has scads of pleasing retail and dining options, including the superb Castagna Restaurant, known for its creative regional Northwestern cuisine. Bread and Ink Care is another Hawthorne favorite, captivating regulars with its Mediterranean, Mexican, and Yiddish fare (how’s that for an unlikely trinity?). The cheeseburgers garner raves all around, as do the chicken enchiladas. Nearby Southeast Stark and Southeast Belmont streets also hold a share of the area’s coffeehouses, boutiques, and music clubs. Other East Side neighborhoods of note 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com include Alberta, Division/Clinton, and East Burnside. And the once derelict industrial area on the northeastern shores of the Willamette, the Lloyd District, now contains a convention center, sports stadiums, and the impressive 200-store Lloyd Center mall. The variety of excellent, gay-friendly restaurants on the East Side is staggering, but standouts include Mint/820, a contemporary bistro and cocktail bar owned by openly gay and nationally renowned drink mixologist Lucy Brennan; and Rocket, a see-and-be-seen space known for such simple but mouthwatering fare as braised beef rib with red wine jus and black cod with a radish salad. Also consider sassy Rou_x for imaginatively rendered New Orleans-style cuisine; Helser’s on Alberta for amazingly delicious breakfast and lunch fare; and Vindalho for modern Indian food. There are countless opportunities for getting out and enjoying the countryside within a short drive of Portland. Rooster Rock (aka Cock Rock) State Park lies 20 miles east of the city in the scenic Columbia Gorge and is a favorite place for gay sunbathers. Sauvies Island, about 8 miles northwest of Portland, has another scenic and scene-y clothing-optional beach with a decidedly gay following. This area is also poptflar for kayaking and boating - you can rent kayaks or take tours from Scappoose Bay Kayaking, and Portland’s own Out Kayatdng is a GLBT social group dedicated to this very ?ctivity - it welcomes visitors on its frequent weekend excursions. In the other direction, magnificent Mt. Hood (elevation 11,300 feet) offers year-round skiing, great hiking, challenging rock-climbing, and plenty more to get the blood flowing. In the same area, you can take a hair-raising whitewater rafting trip on the roiling Clackamas River - a highly reliable outfitter for this activity is Destination Wilderness. And south of Portland, you’ll find the fantastic Willamette Valley wine country, which has become internationally renowned for its pinot noir and pinot gris. Numerous wineries in the valley are open for tastings. With one of the more pronounced and vibrant women’s scenes on the West Coast, Portland has not only a couple of popular lesbian bars but also many spots where both women and men congregate. Near Hawthorne, the Egyptian Club is the most popular such venue, with strippers some nights and always a big crowd for dancing. Also on the east side of town, Crush is a swish and sophisticated cocktail lounge drawing a mix ofwomen and men. The kitchen here turns out excellent bistro fare, and there’s a popular brunch on weekends. Stark Street has the bulk of the city’s top gay clubs, including Boxxes and Red Cap, a pulsing dance club-cum-video bar; Eagle PDX, a cruisy leather bar; Silverado (think go-go boys); and Scandals, a convivial and laid-back video bar popular with the after-work set. After the bars close, gay meets grunge in the neighborhood’s 24- hour diner, the Roxy; on any given night you’ll see big hair, pierced extremities, lotsa muscle, leather, rubber, drag - you name it. Old Town, a short walk from the Stark Street area, also has a handful of noteworthy gay hangouts, among them the upscale steak house Hobo’s - this popular lounge has piano music nightly. Darcelle XV Showplace is famous for its elaborate drag revues; on nights the gals don’t dress up, strippers dress down. C. C. Slaughter’s is Old Town’s top gay dance club, pulling in a mostly under-35 crowd and pulsing into the late hours. Portland abounds with distinctive hotels. The famously gay-friendly Kimpton Group has a pair of gems. With the Hotel Monaco, Kimpton improved on a familiar Portland strategy: Take a classy old building and convert it into a charming hotel. Many of the accommodations here are full suites, and all have such high-end amenities as DVD players and 12Occitane bath products. You’ll find the same level of quality at intimate Hotel Vintage Plaza. Rooms in this restored downtown 1894 building are large and done in warm colors; many have two-person hot tubs and spiral staircases leading to second-story sleeping lofts. The hotel’s Pazzo Ristorante serves exceptional contemporary Italian fare. You’l! find several more gay-friendly hotels of note around the city, some high-end, and some geared toward travelers on a budget. On the inexpensive side, try the offbeat Ace Hotel, which is set inside a vintage 1912 building along Stark Street’s gay bar strip. There’s a bohemian sensibility to the place, from the coffeehouse off the lobby to the contemporary paintings in the large but modestly furnished rooms. Upscale choices include the Hotel Deluxe, a retro-cool property with plush rooms and one of the coolest little bars in the city, the Driftwood Room. Its sister property is the even more stunning Hotel Lucia, a modern, artful lodging in the heart of downtown. Among the perks are iPod docking stations in every room. For a more intimate experience, try the MacMaster House B&B, which is on swank King’s Hill, two blocks from Washington Park. This grand turn-of-the-century Colonial Revival home is convenient to the business district. The rooms have a romantic mix of antiques and reproductions, and four have fireplaces. Arguably Portland’s most distinctive accommodations, however, are found at the Jupiter Hotel, which is just across the Willamette from downtown and is a favorite roost among hipsters, musicians, artists, and bon vivants. The once prosaic motor court has been transformed into a mod boutique hotel with sleek furnishings and a playful sensibility. ~he on-site Doug Fir restaurant and lounge hosts a wide range of indie rock bands, and the Jupiter has its own branch of the popular Portland adult erotica shop, Spartacus Leathers. This is one hotel where you’re never far from romantic inspiration. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 AUGUST 2007 Repeating Holocaust History Lesbian Notions, looks atpeople who seem toforget the history ofthe Holocaust. Photo: Anti-Gayprotest marc,b 1939Nazi Germany it wasn’t unril the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C., opened in 1993 that this treatment was brought to national and international attention. As a second-generation Jew on the cusp of turning 50, I grew up with stories ofWorld War II and the reality ofthd Holocaust. My father fought in the war; my mother was in the Signal Corps. Anti-Semitism was a hatred I was taught about at an early age - from hearing the stories of pogroms in Eastern Europe, where my family was from, to reading and talking about Hitler’s rage against anyone different from his Aryan ideal. In the 1960s and ’70s, few publicly questioned whether the Holocaust happened, as some revisionist historians, Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, and others do today. It was a time when the slogan "Never I was in D.C. for the 1993 lesbian and gay March on Washington. Hundreds of us gathered at the museum the evening before it opened, laying down carnations to symbolize the lives of gays and lesbians lost in the Holocaust and praying for their souls. Since opening, the museum has printed educational material, sponsored major exhibitions about gays and the Holocaust, and has an online exhibition dedicated to the subject. Thousands of gay men were killed in the concentration camps, forced to wear pink triangles so everyone knew why they ~vere there. These men ~vere not only abused - and even killed - by the Nazis and the people who ran the camps, but they were also subjected to the homophobic reactions of their fellow prisoners. Again" was a rallying cry for American Jews More than 100,000 gay men were arrested under the Nazis’ notorious Paragraph 175 so that we would never forget the six million law that broadly defined lewd behavior who died in the camps, between men. A man could literally be ar- It was only after I came out that I learned that gay men and lesbians were also interred in the concentration camps. It certainly wasn’t something I was taught in Hebrew school. I knew early on that Jews were not the only ones targeted by the Nazis, although we were the largest group. Germans with disabilities or mental illness, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Gypsies, Poles, and Soviet prisoners of war, among others, also found themselves in concentration camps. But no one ever talked about the gays. Richard Plant published The Pink Triangle in 1988, which chronicled the atrocities against lesbians and gays inthe camps. But rested for just looking at another man the "wrong" way. Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Hundreds of men were castrated under court order or coercion. According to the museum, record-keeping on gay concentration camp victims is sketchy, but it estimates that between 5,000 and 15,000 gay men were imprisoned at the camps, where many died from starvation, disease, exhaustion, beatings, and murder. After the camps were liberated, many of the German gays were sent back to prison to finish their terms, because Paragraph 175 was not among the Nazi laws that were repealed. 22 the STAR The museum is one of the world’s leaders in making sure we don’t forget what happened during the Nazi reign of terror. Too bad some others - like the ultra-orthodox Haredi sect ofJews in Israel - apparently haven’t made the trip to D.C. or availed themselves of the museum’s online resources. The Haredi are the folks who routinely protest Gay Pride parades in Israel - the country that was established as a democracy that would be a haven for the persecuted Jews of Nazi Germany, the former Soviet Union, and other countries. All the Haredi are doing is repeating the hatred that fueled the Holocaust in the first place. They put a hate-filled coalition of reactionary Christians, Muslims, and Jews together to try and stop World Pride from happening in Jerusalem. It always amazes me how conveniently and quickly enemies become allies when it comes to denying us our rights, our pride, our way of life. This year in Jerusalem, the Orthodox Righteous Court of Law actually placed a curse on the city’s Pride parade organizers and marchers, as well as on the police who helped to keep the event safe and secure. It went like this: "To all those involved, sinners in spirit, and whoever helps and protects them, may they feel a curse on their souls, may it plague them and may evil pursue them; they will not be acquitted of their transgressions from heavenly judgment." Then you have the ultra-orthodox members of the Knesset, Israel’s parliament, sponsoring bills to outlaw al! gay Pride parades or to establish "rehab centers" to teach us how to repress our sexuality. Knesset member Nissim Ze’ev considers us dangerous and says that the government needs to keep an eye on us. The rehab centers would be staffed with a special team of psychologists, psychiatrists, and social workers who will help us return to "a normal life." According to Ze’ev, lesbian and gay people must be made aware of "how their lifestyle is destroying our existence." Camps, curses, making us the enemy of society - it all smacks of Hitler’s rhetoric. But this time, it’s wrapped in an ultra-orthodox tallit (prayer shawl) that gives it a credibility it doesn’ deserve. www.ozarksstar.com Past Out: producing original programs such as Noah’s Arc - described by The Economist as a takeoff on Sex and the City from an African- American gay male perspective - and the supernatural gay drama Dante’s Cove. The increased presence of LGBT people on TV over the past half century reflects the growing influence of both out queers in the entertainment industry and straight producers who grew up in an era of greater acceptance of sexual diversity. Nonetheless, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation found that during the 2006-2007 broadcast network television season, only 1.3 percent of regular characters on scripted, prime-time programs were gay or lesbian, and none were bisexual or transgender. For further information: Alwood, Edward. 1996. Straight News: Gays, Lesbians, and the News Media (Columbia University Press). Eisenbach, David. 2006. Gay Power: An American Revolution (Carroll & Graf). Raymond, Susan, and Alan Raymond. 2002. Lance Loud! A Death in an American Family (PBS documentary). Transgender Seeks Office ofPresident of the United States. by STAR Staff HUTCHINSON, KS__Bennie Lee Ferguson, of Hutchinson, Kansas, has officially declared candidacy for the office of President of The United States, and for a House of Representatives seat in Kansas district 104. Born on February 25, 1953 at Grace Hospital in Hutchinson, Kansas. The son of an Air Force aerospace engineer and a Kansas farm girl, he spent his childhood in cities and towns all across the nation, from Massachusetts to California, always returning, however, to his home in Reno County and Hutchinson. Ferguson is running on the Libertarian ticket, and will be a write-in candidate in the General Presidential Election in 2008. While openly transgender candidates for office like Kim Coco Iwamoto (HI), Dana Beyers (MD) and Amanda Simpson (AZ) have experienced some modicum of success at the state level, Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President, and is certainly the first transgender candidate for a state legislative seat in the state that elected Sam Brownback (R, KS). It should be noted that now Republican Presidential Candidate Brownback was one of the three candidates at the first Republican debate to declare the theory of evolution invalid. Ferguson’s campaign isn’t necessarily based on being transgender. The candidate’s platform is firmly rooted in the Libertarian philosophy, preservation of personal civil liberties being the supporting plank of the Libertarian platform. While Ferguson is not running specifically as a transgender candidate, the idea of the preservation of individual liberties is certainly consistent with the interests of the transgender community. Candidate Ferguson faces an uphill batde in both the Presidential and the House of Representatives race. This is her second bid for a seat in this district. Of course, the opportunity to project a positive image of transgender people as active participants in the American political process is certainly an endeavor worth supporting. Ferguson holds a Bachelor’s degree from Wichita State University where he is currently enrolled in the graduate program. He expects to graduate with a Master’s degree in history in spring of 2008. In connection with his master’s thesis on the subject of micropatrology (the study of small self-proclaimed nations), he has founded The Kingdom of Fergus within the city limits of Hutchinson, Kansas. The principles espoused by the micronations movement are philosophically akin to Libertarian views. Following his graduation, he intends to commute to law school at Oklahoma City University having already taken the Law School Admissions Test in 2004. Ferguson also continues to work as an entertainer. The Ben Ferguson Band is a popular attraction throughout the area and he has appeared several times at Hutch Fest and the Kansas State Fair. Bennie will answer your questions and accept campaign contributions at bennieleeferg@ hotmail.com. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ARE RIGHT AROUND THE CO ER FROM NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY AND SHE IS COMING OUT IN A BIG WAY @~nother National Coming Out Day is approaching and change is in the air. Gays are fighting for the right to get legally married and to be legally protected against hate crimes and discrimination. Scientists are looking for the gay gene. Gay themes are frequently seen in major T~. shows. We have GLBT cable stations, LOGO and here! and shows like Queer as Folk, Will and Grace, Noah’s Arc, and the L-Word, which focus on the lives of homosexual people. Openly gay people like Rosie O’Donnell, Melissa Ethridge, and Ellen have successful careers that are building a bridge between gays and straight people. And The Secret, a new bestselling book by Rhonda Byrnes, describes a new spirituality, a new way of thinking about God, the universe and ourselves. So, where are we headed? We are running down the yellow brick road toward freedom - freedom in the truest sense of the word. Freedom from discrimination; freedom to marry the one we love; freedom from traditional spirituality; freedom to feel good about ourselves; freedom to break down cultural walls, freedom from labels of good and bad, freedom from society’s rules and government propaganda, freedom from the "musts" and "shoulds" and "need tos;" freedom from limiting beliefs about who we are and our value to the world; freedom from separateness and freedom to pursue our dreams. Grace Lawson realized at the age of 41 that she is gay. Since then she has gone through significant personal transformation including leaving a heterosexual marriage, finding her true love, and moving from a traditional Christian view of God to a much deeper spirituality. She has written a book called Coming Out Coming Alive which is about personal freedom; about becoming who you truly are. And this book is the final stage of her own coming out. The environment at the corporate office where she works may be homophobic and she could loose her job over this, but she is willing to take the risk for the sake of the book and what it can do for the world. This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get what you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. htm. Coming Out Coming Alive will be in stores on September 1st, but you can get it early at http:// www.comingoutcomingalive. com/COCABook. 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Openly-Gay Democrats Elected to Lead Young Democrats ofAmerica Stonewall Democrats to Serve as YDA President and Vice President WASHINGTON, DC Today July 23rd, the Nationa! Stonewall Democrats (NSD) congratulated a newly-elected leadership of the Young Democrats ofAmerica (YDA), including two openly-gay Stonewall Democrats who will now lead the organization as President and Executive Vice-President through 2009. "Young voters are the new base of the Democratic Party, and we are proud that the Young Democrats ofAmerica support equality for LGBT families and have placed their faith in the leadership of two great Democratic leaders who happen to be gay," said Jo Wyrick, NSD Executive Director. "The future of our party now has an opportunity to demonstrate to all Democrats how fully engaging our community is politically viable and smart." On Sunday, David Hardt (Texas) was elected as President of the Young Democrats ofAmerica with 93% of the delegate votes during the organization’ s national convention in Dallas. Also elected on Sunday was Chris kaqderson (Tennessee) as the organization’ s Executive Vice President. The election of Hardt and Anderson mark the first time that the Young Democrats ofAmerica will be led by an openly-gay leadership team. The Young Democrats of America GLBT Caucus also elected its new leadership on Saturday, including the election of NSD Board Member Kyle Bailey (Georgia) as Caucus Vice-Chair. Bailey also serves as President of the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats. The other elected GLBT Caucus officers include Rachel Kau-Tayler (California) as Caucus Chair, Rob Hudson (Florida) as Caucus Secretary and Byron LaMasters (Texas) as Caucus Treasurer. The Young Democrats ofAmerica have undertaken a dramatic outreach to LGBT Democrats over the past several years. Congruently, the National Stonewall Democrats have also increased their outreach to LGBT Young and College Democrats. NSD has established youth scholarships for national trainings, including the "Keith Smith Fund" designed to honor the outreach work of former NSD Board Member Keith Smith of Oklahoma. Over the past two years, young leaders within the Stonewall Democrats have also established Stonewall Young Democrats chapters across the country, which serve to organize LGBT Youth within the Democratic Party. As the official youth arm of the Democratic Party, YDA mobilizes young people under the age of 36 to participate in the electoral process, influence the ideals oft,he Democratic Party and develops the skills of the youth generation to serve as leaders at the local and national level. YDA has 43 chartered states and US territories with over 1,500 local chapters. In 2003, members of the National Stonewall Democrats authored and passed language adopted by YDA which declared the organization’ s support for civil marriage for same-sex couples. To learn more about the Keith Smith Fund for LGBT Students go to: www.stonewal ldemocrats, org/smithfund/ Task Force, Inc., releases first comprehensive analysis of2008 presidential candidates’ positions on LGBT issues WASHINGTON, June 27 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc., today released the first comprehensive analysis of the top 19 candidates for the 2008 presidency on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues. Democrats discussed in this report include Hillary Clinton, John Edwards and Barack Obama. Republicans include Rudy Giuliani, John McCain and Mitt Romney. The report, The 2008 Presidential Candidates’ Positions on Lesbian, Gay; Bisexual and Transgender Issues, and its accompanying chart are based on an analysis of the voting records and public statements of the candidates in eight key LGBT issue areas, including sexual orientation and gender identity nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws; HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment; lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members; and partnership recognition for same-sex couples. According to the report, all Democratic candidates are supportive of the majority of LGBT issues, including transgender-inclusive nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws. Only two Democratic candidates support marriage equality for same-sex couples, however, yet all of them are in support of other partnership recognition fights, such as civil unions. Across the board, Republican candidates were in opposition to the majority ofLGBT issues, with most publicly opposing lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members. Ten of 11 Republican candidates also oppose any partnership recognition for samesex couples, whether it be marriage equality, civil unions or domestic partnerships. U.S. Rep. Dennis Kucinich is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly supported all eight LGBT issues. Former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly opposed all eight LGBT issues. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. "The differences between the Democratic and Republican fields of candidates on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues are shockingly stark and profoundly depressing. Over time, the majority ofAmeficans have moved to support basic fairness for LGBT Americans, including nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws, repeal of ’Don’t Ask Don’t’ Tell,’ and protections for our families. Sadly, the Republican field has gone in the opposite direction, still dearly pandering to the venom of the so-called ’religious right.’ This only means that they will continue to use our lives as cultural wedge fodder whenever it’s deemed politically expedient. "The public statements and voting records of the Democratic candidates show that they are clearly light years ahead of the Republicans on almost every issue important to the LGBT community. Nevertheless, the lack of courage on marriage equality is disturbing on both political and moral grounds. Politically, being for civil unions but against marriage doesn’t bring a single voter over from the other side. Morally, it’s hard to understand how a Democratic candidate can say to people they know individually and to one of the most loyal and generous voting blocs the party has, ’Sorry, I just can’t go there -- you understand, right?’ Actually, we don’t." wvw~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 "Take a hike, Sagittarius!" Venus squaring Mars provokes libido and creativity. Mars is moving forward from Taurus to Gemini, and Venus is retrograding from Virgo into Leo. This activity creates bold talk and uncertain or ill-considered action. Be very careful what you wish for, especially out loud! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play! But it’s going to end up costing you in ways you hadn’t bargained on. Caution and forethought were never the best traits of your sign; this would be a good time to work on developing them! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Most families are mortal embarrassments, but we see the flaws at home far more clearly than our guests do. (At least we’ll invite the guests back!) These universal constants are driving you mad. Think about home impro.vements, but don’t act now. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): With your current inability to keep a secret, you must be careful to listen to none. Your own secrets - so deep and dark, even you don’t know them - can come to light in playful banter, so be careful whom you play with! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your friends will surely enjoy your charitable impulses, but let a little generosity go a long way. Spending like a drunken sailor could leave you with a titanic financial hangover. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You feel pretty, and you _are_ pretty. Everyone already sees that, and even your slightest efforts to play up your glamour will only push you way over the top. Relax, honey. You’re already too fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): You want to be absolutely correct, but nobody is! Don’t fret. Worrying about it can lead you into silly arguments, provoking others to feel criticized and take offense, even when your aims are entirely self-critical. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your reputation as a lover is getting around, perhaps with details you’d prefer to keep quiet. Take it all with good humor. Cheerfully refusing either to admit or to deny anything may be your best bet. Or invite some of the gossipers to find out for themselves. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): You’re concerned about your career, but you have other problems closer to home. Discussions, even arguments, with your partner should clear the air, perhaps even shedding light on those issues at work! 28 the STAR SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Your wanderlust is showing, and that could be causing both general nervous tension for you and irritation among your colleagues. Go ahead and get away if you can. At least put on the lederhosen and go for a hike in the hills. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): You’re feeling a little too frisky, and everyone’s noticing it. Getting it out of your system won’t stop the indiscretion; but if everyone suspects you of philandering, you might as well be guilty! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Are you showering your darling with too much or too little praise and attention? Pay close attention to your baby’s needs, but you’re still likely to get it wrong. Talking about it at home helps. Listening is even better! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Wanting to shine at work can cause friction with your colleagues. Just do your best work, let it speak for itself, and make sure to share all due credit - and perhaps a bit more - with the rest of the team. MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Memorial- 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th.......... 918-293-0304 HAG R~,~Y AN GOTTA TAKE TNIG... ART CRITIC FROM THE VO/C~" bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com N~V Arkansas GLBT Communi~ Center "Linking Together as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 F Ghad[¢k 07 Speakers, 9ames, food, information booths and our terrific #i¢ni¢ show! GING LAMAR Oklahoma’s Cowboy Crooner Matthew HeathoFitzgerald Susan Leah 10i Ways Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, August 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 8 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource August 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Paul Wortman James Nimmo Joey D. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY*TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID* LITTLE ROCK* NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN ¯ WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com OKLAHOMA COUNTY COMMISSIONERJIM ROTH APPOINTED TO THE OKLAHOMA CORPORATION COMMISSION Exclusive by Victor Gorin to complete his term which expires in 2010. Commissioner Roth hopes that the work of preparing the county’s 2008 budget will be completed by the time he leaves office. As specified in the Oklahoma Constitution, as an appointee to a statewide office, he must run in the next general election to fill the balance of Ms. Bode’s unexpired term, which also ends in 2010. If elected, he plans to run for re-election for a full six year term at that time. He will be serving on the Corporation Commission with Republicans Bob Anthony and Jeff Cloud. A giant step up from his county commissioner position, he stated that he fully understands the challenges of this statewide office. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___’Tm grateful to Governor Henry for his vote of confidence, I’m grateful to for the public that has employed me these past years, and I look forward to making a difference for the state of Oklahoma." On May 14 Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to the Oklahoma Corporation Commission to succeed Commissioner Denise Bode, who is resigning her seat for a job in the private sector. The Corporation Commission functions in Oklahoma state government to regulate telecommunications, utilities, the oil & gas industry & transportation providers. It consists of 3 commissioners elected statewide that serve 6 year terms. As the Governor stated, "Jim Roth has the intellect, the integrity and the dedication to public service needed to be an outstanding Corporation Commissioner." When he was elected to be Oklahoma County Commissioner of District 1 in 2002, he was the second openly gay elected official in Oklahoma. Despite a rough campaign where his opposition, the incumbent Republican Beverly Hodges, played the antigay card to the max, he still won based on a campaign of efficient, trustworthy county government that would serve all the citizens www.ozarksstar.com of the district. After his victory he and his stafffound that his predecessor had left the office with the computers crashed, files shredded, and a card with men in drag that said, "Don we now our gay apparel" that gave new meaning to the concept of sore losing. Despite this rock), welcome he gained the confidence of the district’s voters, achieving a balanced budget and getting 8 new bridges built in his district during his first term while the previous commissioner had built only one. He also was able to get Oklahoma County to adopt an employment nondiscrimination policy for their employees that protects them from discrimination based on sexual orientation, the first and only such government policy in Oklahoma. His job performance won the respect and support not only of the GLBT community and traditionally progressive groups, but also a surprising number of conservative Republicans. This showed clearly when he ran for a second term in 2006 and his opposition, Republican David Mehlhaff, ran a campaign almost entirely based on anti-gay rhetoric, and he still won handily ~ith 63% of the vote. He will retain his office until May 31. Unless she declines the position his chief deputy, Linda Simpson, will serve in his place pending the outcome from a special election that will be set by Governor Henry " I spent the last 3 weeks doing my due diligence exploring the position, finding out if it was something I could make a positive impact with. I also explored the idea about leaving a job that I loved and a county that relies on me. My partner (Worth Ross), my family and I all discussed my original intentions for public service, and that is to change people’s lives for the better, and we , decided that if the governor were to offer it this would be a tremendous opportunity to do that higher goal of helping change people’s lives for the better across the state. " "As for my skill sets, I feel I would be up to the challenge, "I feel that in the last 5 years I have learned a lot ofwhat it takes to be successful as a member ofa 3 member board, pushing for progressive change even in contentious, difficult environments. My record for being fair and honest made me a good candidate in the governor’s eyes for that statewide position. Beyond that I would say that it is a huge honor to be able to take an oath to serve the state of Oklahoma just as I have felt it an honor to serve Oklahoma County". And as for the challenge of his upcoming statewide election? "I have always approached public service based on job performance, I work hard, I work long hours to make a difference. That will be my same strategy, that in the next year and a half that I will work so hard for the public that given the chance to rehire me, I hope they say yes." the STAR 5 Dear Editor, Thank you for publishing information about the recent $24-miltion class action settlement with EMD Serono, the maker ofAIDS -wasting drug Serostim. The lawsuit had alleged that EMD Serono promoted the use of an unapproved medical device that improperly diagnosed people as having AIDS wasting; provided doctors with travel stipends in exchange for their agreement to prescribe Serostim; and marketed the drug for uses that were not approved by the FDA. The U.S. Attorney in charge ofa government case against EMD Serono asserted that "nearly 85% ofprescriptions written for Serostim ~vere not medically necessary." It is important that anyone who paid for any of the cost ofSerostim know that they may be eligible to receive a payment from this settlement. The deadline to make a claim is approaching fast! Claims must be submitted byJune 19th, 2007. Claims forms and more information are available at www.serostimsettlement. com. Thank you, Mark D. Snyder Prescription Access Litigation www.prescriptionaccess.org Dear Editor I’m concerned about the takeover of my country by the Alice-in-Wonderland anti-Democratic nature of the religious far right. It’s my contention that fundie religious observance and stridency are a brake on natural human progress and diversity. As we’ve seen with the latest Supreme Court decision on privacy and women’s bodies, the opinions of six lower courts, logic, precedence, and rule of law are put aside when the observance of these important elements in human civilization would run counter to the biblical barbarism many people would prefer to humanist progress. In that same light, our gay equality--despite some advancement in the area of civil unions and civil equality for same gendered couples--can be canceled by a Supreme Court decision should it decide that unanimity of a legislature is never to be had, and therefore, the law must bow to the least common denominator of human reason: bigotry. This is the logic that was used by the Supreme Court in denying any allowance for the health or life of the mother in the case of an abortion after consultation with the patient and her medical professional. The Court said that because the legislatures have a "right" to pass laws, and even should those laws be passed in contradiction to scientific fact, the ignorance shown by the law must be upheld. This reasoning is driven by religious fear and not sound jurisprudence. Let’s remember the slogan from a prior presidential election: "It’s the Supreme Court, Stupid!", and vote accordingly in November 2008 for the enforcement of the Constitution and not the Bible. James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK 6 the STAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 SATURDAY ,JUNE 23, 2007 THE JAZZ DEPOT ’lST AND CiNCINNATi FREE VVW’W.OEJAZ7-ORG OKLAHOMA JAZZ HALL OF FAME Creating U~ity Throu~ab Music "’A¸ t Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2106 www,c21goldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Old homa Stonewa l Democra,s The LGBT Voice ofthe Democratic Party 10 the STAR Stonewall Democrats Work to Raise Awareness that LGBT Democrats Care and We VOTE! We Seek Equality andHuman Rightsfor ALL Peoplefrom within the oMv Political Party that Endorses LGBT Inclusiveness at All Levels ofPolitics and Governmen~ Help us elect Democrats who will welcome YOU into their campaigns, their lives, and their offic!s! We’re Proud ofOklahoma Stonewall Members ~State Corporatwn Commissioner dim Roth ~State Representative Al McAffrey ~State Senator Andrew Rice (Congratulations on the new baby, SenatorO Join us at wwwook~tonewallo~rg www.ozarksstar.com Pinkie and the Snakeshokers, Sa~rday Evening Come check out the improvements made to the festival as we~l as the many interactive activities such as Pride Idol, Pet Contest, Return of the Children’s Area, Two Stages of Entertainment plus a DJ Tent, Food, Shopping, Historical Exhibits, Karaoke m Q ClMARRON g a zi n e,,~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Unprecedented series of" gains coast tO coas for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people ’The tide is clearly shifting.’ Matt Foreman, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, May9 " ~{~007 state legislative season has b~ ~{ ~ost productive in the history of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights movement and, as a result, for the first time more than half the U.S. population will live in jurisdictions that outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, according to an analysis of Census data and current laws released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. In addition, nearly 40 percent of the population wilt now live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination -- a sevenfold increase since 2000, and one-fifth of all Americans will live in states that offer same-sex couples broad rights under state law, more than an eightfold increase since 2004. The Task Force said the 2006 elections and years of dogged work at the grassroots level were responsible for the surge in legislation. "This is a historic and long-overdue milestone. At long last, a majority ofAmericans will now live in jurisdictions that protect people from discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "As important, protections for transgender people and broad rights for same-sex couples are surging from coast to coast. We still have a very long way to go, but the tide is clearly shifting." Nondiscrimination Protections Surge Since Jan. 1, 2007, the legislatures in four states -- an all-time high -- have passed nondiscrimination laws. Three of those states -- Iowa, Oregon and Colorado -- moved to extend protections to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, and the Vermont Legislature passed a bill amending its existing nondiscrimination laws to include transgender people. As a result, the percentage of the U.S. population living in jurisdictions protecting lesbian, gay and bisexual people from discrimination will rise to 52 percent, crossing the halfway mark for the first time. The laws of Iowa, Oregon and Vermont prohibit discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations, among other categories; Colorado’s law covers employment only. I7 Oregon GoT. Ted Kulongoski is scheduled to sign his state’s ............... bill into law today; the governors in the other three states have pledged to sign their bills into law. Protections for Transgender People Growing Rapidly nondiscrimination laws covering gender identity/expression grew 32 percentage points (from 5 percent to 37 percent), more than five times the rate of growth for sexual orientation protections. When the four state discrimination taws go into effect, 37 percent of the population will live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination. Protections for transgender people have grmvn much more quickly over the last decade than those for lesbian, gay and bisexual people because of a commitment of the LGBT movement to insist that transgender people be included in new nondiscrimination laws and to go back and add protections for transgender people to existing sexual orientation-only laws. Since 2000, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with nondiscrimination laws covering sexual orientation grew 14 percentage points (from 38 percent to 52 percent). During the same period, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with The "Eask Force created and staffed its Transgender Civil Rights Project in 2001 with the goal of increasing the number of transgender-protective discrimination laws. Since the project’s inception, the proportion of the population covered by transgenderinclusive laws has increased from 6 percent to 37 percent. "It’s clear that legislators recognize that transgender people face widespread discrimination and deserve the same protections as other minorities," said Foreman. "The common wisdom used to be that including protections for transgender people would kill a bill -- that’s obviously not the case." Foreman noted that last week the U.S. House of Representatives passed a hate crimes bill containing explicit protections ................... Continued nextpage t2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com for transgender people by a vote of 237-180 and that this year the Employment Non- Discrimination Act (ENDA) was amended to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity and expression. There is widespread expectation that both houses of Congress will take up ENDA before the end of the calendar year. Gains in Broad State Protections for Same- Sex Couples Over the last five months (December through April), legislatures in three states New Jersey, New Hampshire and Oregon passed laws granting same-sex couples the same rights and responsibilities afforded married couples under state law through civil unions or domestic partnerships. As in the nondiscrimination arena, this is more states taking such action than in any previous state legislative season. As a result, onefifth (20 percent) of the U.S. population will live in states that offer broad rights and responsibilities to same-sex couples. (Other jurisdictions, including \Vashington state, Hawaii and the District of Columbia, have passed laws that give significant but not comprehensive rights to domestic partners. These jurisdictions are not included in the calculations.) Five years ago (in 2002) just one state, Vermont, ~vith 0.2 percent of the population, offered broad protections to same-sex couples. When the bills passed this session take effect, seven states (California, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon and Vermont), with 20 percent of the population, will offer broad protections to same-sex couples. The Task Force said Oregon’s new law was a particularly satisfying turnaround from 2004, when voters approved a constitutional amendment banning the recognition of same-sex marriage by a margin of 57 percent to 43 percent, the narrowest margin among the 13 states voting on anti-marriage measures that year. The Task Force donated nearly $900,000 in cash in the attempt to defeat the amendment and sent 10 organizers to help staff the campaign. "While the 2004 loss really hurt, it’s now clear that our campaign really did convince people that all families deserve broad protections and relationship rights," said Thalia Zepatos, director of the Task Force’s Organizing & Training Department. Zepatos, who played a major role in fighting every anti-LGBT measure in Oregon since 1988, will attend today’s bill-signing ceremony in Salem, Ore. 2006 Elections and Years of Grassroots Work Credited with Surge in Protections The results of the 2006 election played a pivotal role in four (Colorado, Iowa, Ne~v Hampshire and Oregon) of the six states passing nondiscrimination or family protection laws since December, the Task Force said. Before the November elections, Democrats held control of both houses of the state legislatures in three of the states taking pro-LGBT action: Vermont, Colorado and New Jersey. As a result of the November elections, however, Democrats picked up control of both houses in the other three states: Iowa, Oregon and New Hampshire. Before the elections in Iowa, the Senate was evenly divided and the House was Republican- dominated; in Oregon, Democrats controlled the Senate and Republicans controlled the House; in New Hampshire, both houses were controlled by Republicans. In Co!orado, Democrats strengthened their control of the Legislature, and Democrat William Ritter succeeded Republican William Owens as governor, who had twice vetoed the nondiscrimination bill. The change in control of the state legislatures was due to Democratic gains nationwide, as well as specific work to elect pro-LGBT state legislators spearheaded by Colorado philanthropist Tim Gill. "The lesson here? What a difference an election makes!" said Foreman. In Oregon in 2006, then-House Speaker Karen Minnis was singularly responsible for blocking nondiscrimination and family recognition legislation bills. With Democrats taking control of that chamber, Minnis has since lost her leadership position. Although it took Democratic control to move the bills, each passed with Republican support (although Colorado’s employment nondiscrimination bill passed with only one Republican voting for it). The Task Force stressed that while the change in party control was an essentia! factor in moving bills this year, grassroots activism over many years made it possible for legislators to vote on the pro-LGBT measures. In Oregon, for example, activists had been pushing a nondiscrimination law for nearly 30 years, and work on the comprehensive domestic partnership law began immediately after the 2004 election. Similarly, the LGBT community in Vermont has been pushing to include protections for transgender people for eight years, and New Hampshire’s civil union law is a direct result of marriage equality organizing by the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "These bills would have never passed without the dogged work of state and local leaders and organizations over many, many years," Foreman said. "Our national community owes them all its respect and gratitude." Since Jan. 1, the legislatures of all 50 states have been in session. As ofMay 8, 29 legislatures remain in session. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 By D. Rose Photo: Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Wilson. EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~"Zhis is a monumental occasion for our town," proclaimed Mayor Dani Wilson. "I am so incredibly proud that our c0uncil has had the courage to stand for equality for all." She concluded, "It reinforces the fact that Eureka Springs was founded upon equality, inclusion, and love for all, and still holds those principals true today." Diversity thrives in a Victorian village wedged in the rocky Ozarks hills. On May 14, 2007, Eureka Springs, Arkansas added another jewel to her crown with the passing of the Domestic Partnership Registry, standing in the company of many astute cities choosing to push aside religious oppression to progress equality for all couples. For many, the benefits of the Registry may be more symbolic in nature, but it is a monumental step toward enlightenment. young and old, gathered in sister-brotherhood, while others spoke for us inside. We held our signs aloft, talked, laughed, and waited for the Counci!’s final vote. From an open window, two of our elders signaled victory and we roared with joy in our hearts! We hugged each other, we cried and fett" as ONE community. It was a wondrous evening!" -- Marie Howard, age 73, retired teacher "As a gay father and spouse raising two children, I see this action by the Council as a major step in the ongoing process of attaining equal rights for citizens that are unduly discriminated against. For couples who can’t otherwise be married or have a Civil Union, the Registry will give us a small way to publicly recognize and help solidify our loving families. And for some couples fortunate to work for an employer that offers Domestic Partner benefits, it will help them attain much needed spousal benefits." -- JT Williams, Arkansas "Eureka shows us LOVE is for everybody!" -- Joney Harper "Who does DP benefit? Any adult couple who, for whatever reason, chooses not to legally marry or who, because of antiquated and discriminatory laws, can not legally marry. Every woman, man and child in Eureka Springs, in Arkansas and in the rest of the nation. Anything that inches those who have been disenfranchised and marginalized closer to full citizenship, emancipation and equality under the law is a benefit for society." -- Michael Walsh "As a mother of a deceased gay man, my first thought was Robert would love this. My second, he would be so proud of his mother for standing in for him to celebrate the life he fought so hard for. EQUALITY! Parents’ love never dies, but grows because he/she is your child as well as God’s." - Jude Murphy For more details about ordinance 2052, go to www.Diversitypride.com Center for Artistic Revolution Blog BENTONVILLE, AR The father of two teenage boys has asked city Officials to fine the Bentonville Public Library for keeping The Whole Lesbian Sex Book by Felice Newman on the open shelves where his sons could find it. Earl Adams said his 14- and 16-year-old sons discovered the book in January while browsing for literature on military academies and were "greatly disturbed," causing "many sleepless nights in our house." Adams wants the city to pay him $10,000 per child, the maximum allowed under Arkansas obscenity law. "God was speaking to my heart that day and helped me find the words that proved successful in removing this book from the shelf," Adams said in the April 20 Springdale Morning News. City Attorney Camille Thompson said the book was not pornographic and Adams has no "valid legal concern." After receiving his original complaint, the library advisory board voted April 3 to remove the book from circulation and look for a similar, less graphic resource for the open stacks. "I thought we had a very intelligent I almost want to say high-minded--discussion about the book," said board member, George Spence. Library Director Cindy Suter said that she disagreed with Adams’s conclusion that having Newman’s book in the library follows an "immoral social agenda," adding, "My focus was to develop an inclusive collection and not an exclusive collection." "In the parking lot outside of City Hall, an amazing combination of people: gay, straight, mothers, fathers, nurses, teachers, 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Anal PAP Smear For Men, Ana.1 Cancer Prevenuon SAN FRANCISCO, CA If you have followed the news, you’ve heard about advances in preventing cancers caused by HPV (human papilloma virus). The Food and Drug Administration has approved a vaccine for women and girls th~lt is expected to prevent up to 70 percent of cervical cancers caused by HPV. Unfortunately, there have been fewer advances in prevention and education for gay and bisexual men who face alarmingly high rates of another cancer caused by HPV, anal cancer. Most men and women who are sexually active acquire HPV at some point. Most HPV infections don’t cause cancer~, but some do. Rates of anal cancer among gay and bisexual men are 35 times greater than the general population -- comparable to rates of cervical cancer in women before routine Pap smear screening for cervical precancerous cells. HIV-positive men and women are even more susceptible, with HIV-positive men a staggering 80 times more at risk. Anal cancer rates have doubled in the last 10 years and are expected to continue rising. Black gay and bisexual men have seen the sharpest increase and have lower survival rates. The National Cancer Institute estimates that 4,650 people in the United States will be diagnosed with anal cancer this year and 690 people will die from it. Early detection of precancerous cells can save hundreds of lives each year and spare thousands of people from radiation therapy, chemotherapy and a lifetime of painful side 4ffects. The good news is that anal cancer is potentially preventable and highly curable. An anal Pap smear is an inexpensive and relatively painless screening procedure that can detect abnormal cells. A follow-up exam, which includes a high-resolution anoscopy, helps determine whether abnormal cells are precancerous. Specialists believe that treating anal precancerous cells, often through a simple in-office procedure, can prevent anal cancer. Despite the experience of specialists, these potential preventive measures are not part of routine care for those at risk. One reason 1 {5 the STAR is a disturbing lack of large-scale studies and research funding on anal cancer prevention. Without these studies, policymakers and medical associations are hesitant to recommend preventive measures. In contrast, cervical Pap smears became part of women’s health care before conclusive studies were published, yielding an 80 percent reduction in cervical cancer. Another reason that preventive measures are not in place is the limited number of providers trained in high-resolution anoscopy (HRA). Further, if pre-cancers are detected through the procedure, no guidelines exist for optimal treatment. This potentially preventable cancer is needlessly advancing among thousands of Americans each year. Some specialists are screening for and treating anal pre-cancers, but without randomized clinical studies, it hasn’t been proven that these measures prevent anal cancer. Required studies are in the planning stages and will take years to conduct. The STOP AIDS Project, a San Franciscobased community project that works to prevent the transmission of HIV among gay and bisexual men, supports evidence-based standards of care. However, until standards of care are implemented, something needs to be done. STOP AIDS advocates that policymakers and medical associations support and fund research on anal-cancer prevention, including the efficacy of HPV vaccines in males. In anticipation of published guidelines, a health-care infrastructure should be developed that includes provider training. Policymakers should also consider piloting screening programs to collect data and determine efficacy and feasibility. Gay and bisexual men and those with HIV should talk with their health-care providers about their risk for anal cance.r and HPV. Men can decrease their risk for HPV by using condoms. Those at risk should consider getting an anal Pap smear annually if they are HIV-positive or every two to three years if they are HIV-negative. At minimum, they should have a rectal exam to detect abnormal growths. Also, men at risk can !ower their risk by stopping smoking, because smoking is a risk factor for developing anal cancer. Men at risk can advance prevention efforts by volunteering for clinical trials or advocating for research funding and health insurance coverage. Additionally, providers can Seek training in preventive anal cancer procedures. The San Francisco Department of Public Health STD Control Branch and STOP AIDS are convening an expert panel to evaluate existing data on anal cancer and develop recommendations. Last month, New York’s MDS Institute became the first Department of Public Health in the nation to publish such recommendations. Other organizations, counties and states should follow this lead. Dr. Joel Palefsky is a professor of medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Jen Hecht, Jason Riggs and Michael Scarce are staff members of STOP ,adDS Project, an HIV prevention and health promotion organization for gay; bisexual and transgender men. For more information visit www.stopaids.org and www.analcancerinfo. ucsf.edu/ Doctors in Bay Area, San Francisco are encouraging ga), men to have pap smears, after a significant increase in cases of anal cancer. In the United States, the number of people diagnosed with anal cancer has increased by close to forty percent since 1996. This is in contrast to the overall increase of cancer diagnoses of just one percent. Although the cancer can be easily treated, 660 people died ftom the disease last year, with over 4,500 new cases. Doctor Joel Palefsky, Director of the Anal Neoplasia Clinic at the University of California, spoke of how anal pap smears could detect legions before becoming malignant. "We haven’t proven it yet, but we believe that we are likely to be preventing anal cancer." Although women are more likely to be diagnosed with anal cancer, gay men and those who are HIV positive are also at risk. It is now believed that 35 out of every 100,000 gay men in the United States has anal cancer. A report is currently being prepared on the introduction and promotion of pap smears for gay men. www.ozarksstar.com You want to be healthy. Go to bed and sleep on it. Sleep is a great way to maintain your health and it’s not that complicated. You just need to sleep. So, why is that everyone seems to get so little of it? People are always rushing about. There’s the nine to five job. There’s the one hour commute. There’s the grocery shopping. There’s always something that seems to eat away at your precious sleep time. Let me give you some good reasons to make room for the pillmv and mattress. First, you just simply need to make the time for sleep. The average adult needs seven to eight hours of sleep. This is a priority and you need to allocate a period of your day ~vhen you can accomplish this. If you can’t schedule it then you are doing too much during your daily routine. Cornell psychology professor James B. Maas provided research that shows that if you get less than eight hours of sleep per night, you are operating impaired; and your alertness, productivity, creativity, and general health are all affected. The body is able to restore itself during REM sleep. ~lis is when the body can process the emotional moments of the day through dream imagery. ~is explains why I have such a hard time sleeping after watching movies like The Grudge, White Noise, or Gigli. The brain tries to interpret and process this information so that we can forget and then move on for a new day. Try to mix and match these hues with the d’cor of your boudoir and serenade yourself into a lullaby. Some people tell me that they need to do as much as possible while they are alive. They tell me that there will be plenty of time to sleep when they’re knocking on heaven’s door. True but why not try to get as much quality out of your awake time as possible? Proper sleep equates to much more energetic and productive awake time. I opt for quality in lieu of quantity. "Goodnight, you princes Of Maine. You Kings ofNew England." Ron Blake is a personal fitness trainer and owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or blake.fitness@ yahoo.com. Owasso Community heatre’ Season Opens. OWASSO, OK__The O~vasso Community Theatre’s Season "It’s All About Family" will be opening on June 22, 2007 with a musical production of Ruthless! directed by Bruce Lewis. Season Tickets for all five shows are now available from the contacts listed below, and cost $25.00 for access to all four shows which include the mysterious Arsenic and Old Lace, the heartwarming Cheaper By The Dozen, and the entertaining Babes in Toyland. For further questions, please contact: Tammy Quick, tammylq@cox.net, (918) 851-3830 Bruce Lewis, brucel@tulsacares.org, (918) 906-8992 It becomes easier to fall asleep when you get in a routine. Watch the nine o’clock news each night and then head off to the bedroom. Notice I said head off to the bedroom. That would mean that you were watching the news in another room. Very good! The bedroom is just for sleeping and occasionally some carnal indulgences. Keep the television and DVDs out of this sacred slumber sanctuary. The more you associate this part of the house with somnolence, the easier it will be become to fall asleep quickly when your head hits the pillow. Don’t engage in disruptive activities just before being summoned by the sandman. Headbangers ball, a cup of joe, a row with your partner, and a tintinnabulary tango are bad ideas. Soothing music, non-caffeinated drinks, and a rendezvous with your favorite book are great ideas. Make your bed as comfortable and appealing as possible. There are certain colors that have that hypnotic effect on individuals. Green coos peace and serenity and helps lower the heart rate. It is a great comforter and stress reliever. Blue entices you to fantasize and daydream. Its cerulean effects cause the brain to emit tranquilizing hormones. Purple has the capacity to pacify frayed nerves and slow muscle activity. Pink just has a way with calm, cool, and collective. www,ozarksstar.com the 8TAR OK .AHOMA SHAKESPEARE IN THE PARK MOVING TO THE HEART OF DOWNTOWN OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park (OSP), Oklahoma’s premiere classical theater, announced at the Myriad Botanical Gardens that beginning in 2007 and beyond, it will stage its summer seasons in the heart of downtown Oklahoma City. The inaugural 2007 season will kick-offJune 14 and continue through Sept. 1. It will be staged on the Myriad Botanical Gardens Water Stage, which the Myriad Gardens Foundation (MGF) in a partnership with OSP will renovate. OSP has partnered with the MGF to raise private funds for the renovation. Improvements will include new sound and lighting, seating and a stage structure. The renovated theater will add a new premiere venue to doxvntown Oklahoma City and will be available for other bookings when OSP is not in residence. OSP has also moved its offices to Stage Center in Oklahoma City’s Arts District. The 2007 Summer Season opens June 14 with A Midsummer Night’s Dream, followed by Cyrano de Bergerac and Macbeth. The final summer performance will be September 1. The announcement came on the day that OSP’s three-year lease with the Myriad Gardens Authority and the City of Oklahoma City for use of the \rater Stage was unanimously approved by the Oklahoma City Council. It had previously been unanimously approved by the OSP Board of Directors and the Myriad Gardens Authority. This approval represents the culmination of a process that began in the spring of 2005, when OSP’S stage in Edmond’s Hafer Park was burned down for a second time. Because of that tragedy, OSP staged its summer seasons the past two years at the University of Central Oklahoma. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park 2006 Season "The Temioest at Stage Center" Photo Subjects: Left: Holly McNatt (Miranda) and Rig/st: J. Shane McClure (Prospero). Photo by: Andrea NotTis O’Meara. The past 22 summer seasons have been staged in the City of Edmond. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park traditionally mounts a summer season consisting of three plays; a winter season of one play, which is traditionally performed at Stage Center in downtown Oklahoma City; a production ofA Christmas Carol, which will remain at the University of Central Oklahoma; and statewide touring productions year-around. Educational outreach is also a core part of OSP’S mission. OSP is supported in part by the Oklahoma Arts Council, Allied Arts, Chesapeake Energy, OG&E, the Kirkpatrick Family Fund, the Kirkpatrick Foundation, the Inasmuch Foundation, and is in alliance with the University of Central Oklahoma’s Department of Theatre, Dance and Media Arts. For more information, visit www.oklahomashakespeare. com. Thi~ drink ! Yummy 1½ oz. Vodka 1 oz. Creme de Banana 1 oz. Dark Creme de Cacao ½ oz. Light cream Pour ingredients into mixini~ glass. Add ice, shake and strain into your Martini Gl~ss. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park was founded in 1985 by current Artistic Director Kathryn McGill and the late Jack 1 8 the BTAR www.ozarksstar.com By Joey De The boys are back in town, and for the 2007 Light Opera Oklahoma season, they’re behaving badly, beginning Jun. 15. Presented as a repertory festival and in conjunction with the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust’s Summerstage festival, the 2007 LOOK season features a classic, a contemporary and countess, in addition to three cabaret performances. "We select our shows and obtain rights about a year and a half to two years in advance," says Eric Gibson, artistic director of LOOK. "Then we take a look at the shows and ifwe can, hopefully find a theme or a common element to tie them all together." This year’s presentation of bad boys are Meredith Willsoffs "The Music Man," the dark opera/musical "Sweeney Todd" and the more light hearted operetta "Naughty Marietta." Kicking off the festival Jun. 13 and running through Jul. 8 is "The Music Man," a golden age musical about Professor Harold Hill, the most charming of con artists, and his descent upon River City, Iowa. Hill convinces the town’s youth that they are in so much terrible trouble the only way to keep them safe is to introduce the boys to music and join a band. The con’s plan includes getting unwitting parents to buy instruments and band uniforms and then skipping town with the proceeds. The plan hits a snag when Harold falls in love with the local librarian Marian Paroo. Resistant at first, Marian sees Harold transform the citizens of River City into exhilarated, musically challenged people. "This show’s a classic," says Gibson, "High schools everywhere do it, but rarely is it performed ’right,’ with professional talent." Following the feel-good frivolities of Music Man will be a trip to the dark side xvith Stephen Sondheim’s "Sweeney Todd," about the wrongfully imprisoned barber, Benjamin Barker. Barker, who returns to London to reclaim his life and reunite with www.ozarksstar.com his wife and daughter, finds that his judge has taken his wife and child, and swears revenge. Known on the streets as Sweeney Todd, Barker kills a street mountebank who recognizes him, and makes it that much more easy for him to kill anyone who gets in his revengeful way. His accomplice Mrs. Lovett, a fledgling pastry cook, has the brilliant idea of popping Todd’s victims into meat pies, boosting her own sagging business. Although it is a more contemporary piece of musical theatre, Gibson says that Sweeney Todd is very operatic, and is in fact performed frequently in opera houses throughout the United States. Rounding out the main stage season for LOOK is a light hearted return to the operettas that the company was built on. Although it is not Gilbert and Sullivan, as many have come to expect from the troupe, "~xe Naughty Marietta" is full of the same wit and charm that makes light opera fun. The show, which opens June 28, tells of the escape of the Countess D’Altena of Italy. D’Altena finds herself on a ship bound for New Orleans, but once there must escape the pirate Bras Pique. To join her in these escapades, Marietta enlists the aid of Captain Dick Warrington, a ranger in the US Army. They quickly fall in love and in order to foil the plot of Bras Pique, they enlist the aid of a French fop, marionettes, a jilted lover and many others! Through out the season, LOOK will also be offering three intimate evenings of cabaret-style entertainment, billed with the show "Trial By Jury." "Jury," a one act Gilbert and Sullivan Operetta is about a philandering man who cheats on his intended and gets sued for breach of promise. An equally badly behaved judge presides over the case, and, you can guess the rest. All four shows have rotating schedules which can be found at wvw.tulsapac.com or at www.lightoperaok.org. For ticket information visit www.myticketoffice.com. LANG & LOVETT CONCERT COHING TO OKC AND TULSA TULLSA, OK Musician, singer, songwriter, and actor, Lyle Lovett, together with K.d. Lang is in concert at Oklahoma City’s ZOO Ampitheater Saturday July 7th and in Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Sunday July 8th, 2007. By breaking the rules and experimenting with music, each has earned a cult following around the world with a modern, eccentric sound coupled with literate, witty lyrics. K.d. Lang was inspired, at an early age, by the music of country western diva, Patsy Cline, and released a string of albums with a decidedly country flair enjoying moderate success in both sales and airplay. It was not, however, until the release of"Ing~nue" that K.d. Lang hit it big. Hailed as her "crossover" album, critics praised her work even as her country fans were feeling alienated. Lang further removed herself from her country/western fame by publicly declaring her lesbianism, shortly after the album’s release. the 8TAR www.ozarksstar.com down and T;ad.K TO EVERYBODY! When that was in harurally,, no one knOws y0u; s~ it is YOUR responsibility to start a conversation, The colorful gutchart Gardens rank among !~ctoria’s most memorable at~actions. (Photo by Andrew Collins) around the city and its environs by car. A favorite excursion is so-called Marine Drive - not the name of any one street but a scenic coastal circuit extending from Ogden Point, which is southwest of the Inner Harbour, to Cadboro Bay. Dignified, historic, studded with parks, and packed with some of the nation’s most notable cultural attractions, Victoria offers the perfect recipe for a short getaway in western Canada - it’s also easily reached from Vancouver or Seattle by way of regular ferry service. At the southern tip ofVancouver Island, this leafy capital of British Columbia has also become a popular spot for gay honeymoons and weddings since Canada legalized same-sex marriage in 2005. Great Britain’s first colony on the Pacific Coast of North America, Victoria was established in 1849 as a trading outpost. By the end of the century, when the now much larger city ofVancouver was still a mere blip on the radar, Victoria had become B.C.’s capital. The city remains an important political center, but tourists definitely butter the bread these days. The formal, lmndon-inspired Parliament buildings and the Fairmont Empress Hotel edge the harbor, set against a commanding backdrop of snowcapped mountains. With its tow skyline, downtown is compact and user-friendly, and fine shopping and care-hopping abound. The south end of the Inner Harbour contains Victoria’s provincial government buildings as well as the imposing Fairmont Empress Hotel, which is famous not only as a place to stay but for its regal afternoon high teas. Few museums in Canada are more fascinating than the Royal British Columbia Museum, whose artifacts and exhibits document life 12,000 years ago in xvhat is now Western Canada. Around the corner, the Crystal Garden Conservatory contains more than 65 endangered species that make their home in this re-created tropical forest. just south of here, off Douglas Street, the 185-acre Beacon Hill Park is typically filled with joggers, strollers, and sun-worshipers soaking up the atmosphere and the floral aroma. Nearby you can visit the Carr House, which affords a glimpse into the life of British Columbia’s most beloved painter, Emily Cart. Walk 15 minutes or drive a short way east of downtown along Fort Street, which is lined for several blocks with fine antiques shops, to reach one of B.C.’s greatest house-museums, Craigdarroch Castle. From the top (fifth) floor you’re treated to outstanding views of the city. Just west is the Art Gallery of Greater Victoria, one of the top art museums in Western Canada. Once you’ve exhausted Victoria on foot, consider tooling Victoria and the surrounding area are also idea! for outdoorsy activities - in fact, it’s been named Canada’s fittest city, owing to the high percentage of residents who regularly participate in outdoor recreation. Favorite activities include diving, kayaking, fishing, mountain biking, and hiking. A number of local outfitters lead tours through nearby old-growth forests, up rugged mountain peaks, and on whale-watching expeditions - visit Tourism Victoria’s helpful website (www.tourismvictoria.com) for a full list of providers. Victoria lies at the southern tip of the Saanich Peninsula, a fertile strip of land dotted with family farms and a growing number of esteemed wineries. It’s worth spending an afternoon exploring this region, whose most famous attraction is Butchart Gardens, a half-hour northwest of the city. The Butchart family made its fortune manufacturing cement in the late 19th century; when they finished mining their quarry, they transformed it into this magnificent collection of gardens. Among the 55 acres you’ll see every imaginable flower, and there are concerts as well as Saturday-night fireworks displays in July and August. From Butchart, there are several wineries within an easy drive. As you motor around the countryside, keep an eye out for farm stands and roadside markets, many of them selling fresh jams, baked goods, flowers, and produce. They often operate on an honor system - pick out your goods, and leave behind payment. Wineries of particular note include Marley Farm, a family-run establishment that specializes in some quite unusual fruit wines, including kiwi, pear, loganberry, and quince varieties. You’re apt to see sheep and horses wandering the 5-acre grounds. Tiny Chalet Estate Vineyard is well-regarded for its high-quality, unfiltered vintages, from syrahs to viogniers. Where there are wineries, there are virtually always wonderful restaurants, and Victoria is no exception. Probably the most gaypopular of the city’s up-market restaurants, Cafe Brio is a sophisticated little chef-owned ........Continued next page. vwvw.ozarksstar.com bistro that’s an absolute delight for romantic, intimate meals. The contemporary West Coast cuisine has Tuscan overtones - you might start with crispy roasted sweetbreads with poached rhubarb, followed by tomato-and-molasses-braised lamb shank with fresh-mintpotato gnocchi. For some of the best modern Italian food in town, including fantastic wood-fired pizzas with such creative toppings as smoked ahi tuna and marinated artichokes, dine at I1 Terrazzo, whose airy dining room resembles a cloistered courtyard. It’s steps from the diverting shopping along Johnson Street and features one of the city’s best wine lists. been refitted into a distinctive all-suites accommodation. Groups of friends traveling together will find Swans a bargain - up to six people can easily fit into its huge rooms. Each has a dining nook, a patio or a terrace, and many have skylights. There’s a microbrewery and an excellent restaurant, Wild Saffron Bistro, on the premises. Also worth consideration is the Magnolia Hotel and Spa, a snazzy and modern boutique hotel with a first-rate spa and a great location in the Inner Harbour neighborhood. Rooms receive plenty of sunlight, with their floor-to-ceiling windows and views of downtown and the waterfront. With a memorable setting inside a former schoolhouse in Canada’s oldest Chinatown, Brasserie I2Ecole is the domain of talented chefowner Sean Brennan, who utilizes local produce in his innovative regional fare, such as local trout with escarole and Jerusalem artichokes. Well-seasoned, imaginatively prepared vegetarian fare is the specialty at Re-Bar Modern Food, an offbeat spot on downtown’s Bastion Square, where you might dine on shiitake-tofu potstickers or Thai coconut-cashew prawn curry. For lighter dining and snacking, grab a latte or cappuccino at gaypopular Bean Around the World Coffee, a Chinatown java joint that uses organic coffee beans. Or nosh on eggs Benedict, hefty burgers, and other short-order fare at Rosie’s Diner, a downtown cafe with a festive ’50s-inspired retro look. The city’s sizable Asian community ensures a wealth of first-rate Chinese, Thai, and Japanese restaurants. For sensational Tixai fare, try Siam Thai. If you’d rather stay out in the country, but still within striking distance ofVictoria, consider booking into the swank yet low-keyed Sooke Harbour House, which is a 45-minute drive away. This is the ultimate luxury hideaway, complete with 28 imaginatively decorated rooms, many with views ofWashington’s Olympic Mountains and the Strait ofJuan de Fuca. There’s also a splendid restaurant serving fantastic four- and seven-course dinners, complete with wine-pairing options. One signature dish is the trio of garden-inspired sorbets (which might include quince-lemon-verbena or rhubarb-fennel). Indeed, this perfectly tended inn is surrounded by some of Vancouver Island’s most beautiful gardens - a night or two here will leave you totally refreshed and relaxed. Victoria is by no means a major hub for gay nightlife, but it does have a couple of friendly; laid-back gay hangouts. There’s the " popular (at least on weekends) dance club, Hush, as well as Prism Lounge, a basement space with fun drag shows and karaoke nights. The two bars lie within a short ,valk of one another, on the north side of downtown. You might find the ambience and vibe a bit hipper and more upbeat at some of Victoria mainstream but perfectly ’ gay-friendly social spots, such as the ornately decorated Temple Bar, known for its extensive lists of wines and martinis. Other good bets include Lucky Bar, a convivial beer hall set inside a historic building, and the Mint, a vaguely New Age-y space with Tibetan and .Nepalese food, and DJ music and dancing many evenings. In Victoria, there’s no fancier lodging in town than the Fairmont Empress Hotel. This 1908 Edwardian hostelry is the most sumptuous grand dan~e on Vancouver Island, and its Empress Room is a superb restaurant. Newer rooms are larger than those in the original section but keep with the hotel’s tradition. Celeb spotting is not uncommon. The hotel is also notable for its beautifully decorated Bengal Lounge, which serves traditional Indian cuisine in an oldworld Colonial ambience. Abigail’s Hotel is a great bet, in part for its enviable location - it’s at the end of a quiet, residential lane, yet it’s just three blocks from the Inner Harbour. The 23-room gayfriendly, hotel consists of two Tudor-style buildings, one with more traditional decor, and the other with more modern-feeling units. Many of the accommodations have wood-burning fireplaces and Jacuzzi tubs, and rates include an extensive full breakfast (enjoy it on the sunny patio, overlooking the English gardens, when the weather is cooperating). Set inside a former warehouse near Victoria’s Market Square and within ,valking distance of downtown attractions, Swans Hotel has www.ozarksstar.corn the ~TAF~ ~. 5 GAY TRAVELERS from page-22 town for th~ weekend. Later in the day we did meet some ~vonderful people at the bar and they invited us to a big party that they were having the next day. The Dallas businessman lost out on a lot! We make friends wherever we go, both gay and straight. Most people enjoy talking ~vith other people but sometimes you just have to make the first move. For us, we enjoy traveling to see interesting and new places, try new food, enjoy the sights and sounds of an area unknown to us but it is the people that we meet that are our real memories. We hear from way too many of our readers who return from their vacation and say that they didn’t have a good time, that they didn’t meet anyone and no one talked to them. Well, you cafft just go and sit like a bump on a log. Remember the immortal words ofAuntie Marne, ""Life is a banquet and most people are starving to death". Don’t be one of those people! Have good safe fun when traveling, enjoy life and TALK TO EVERYONE. We have been so fortunate in our travels to meet authors, poets, writers, entertainers, movie and TV actors. We get invited to a lot of parties in Hollywood, New York, Chicago, Florida and everywhere we go only because we make the first move and talk to everybody. Life is just too short to do it any other way. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD is written by Donald Pile and Ray \Vi!liams, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Hosts First DBAT After Hours During Tulsa Pride Week TULSA, OK A vital aspect ofDBAT partidpation is the opportunity to meet with and learn from other LGBT business owners and professionals. Such an opportunity is offered through DBAT After Hours, our own version of a business after hours event. Join us for June’s DBAT After Hours and network in an informal atmosphere, make new contacts or to get reacquainted with former contacts. Nibbles and beverages provided. DBAT After Hours Thursday, June 7th 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Downtown Tulsa "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast Harry Caray’s Restaurant, Chicago Harry Caray’s, named for the late, renowned baseball announcer, has become one of the most nationally recognized restaurant groups in the Midwest. Opened on October 23, 1987, this legendary Italian Steakhouse serves the finest prime, aged steaks and chops in a truly warm "Chicago" atmosphere. The friendly, energetic atmosphere embodies the amiable personality of the restaurant’s namesake. The combination of mahogany paneling, white tablecloths and a veritable museum of baseball history creates a warm and casual elegance. It is located at 33 W. Kinzie in downtown Chicago. They are open for lunch, Monday thru Saturday from 11:30 to 3:00. They are open for dinner Monday thru Thursday from 5:00 to 10:30 and Friday and Saturday from 5:00 to 11:00. Sunday they are open from 4 to 10 and their bar is open everyday from 11:30 to closing. The food served here is steak and Italian. The price range is from the $10’s to the $30’s per meal. Service is great. Each server is personable and enthusiastic. There is also a bar on one side of the restaurant with plenty ofTVs. They also have a second location at the O’Hare International Center, 10233 West Higgins Road in Rosemont, Ill. In August 2007, Harry Caray’s Restaurant Group will open it’s third Harry Caray’s Italian Steakhouse in Lombard, Ill. And although it is not an Italian Steakhouse, Harry Caray’s Seventh Inning Stretch premiered in 2001 and is the largest restaurant and bar at Chicago’s Midway Airport. This restaurant is ideal for travelers looking to take a delicious sandwich to go or those who have a short respite while waiting for their flight. We have always enjoyed our meals and had a great dining experience at Harry Caray’s. 26 the STAR w~v.ozarksstar.com JUNE 2007 ExpoSing Hate World Congress ofFami/ies, a gathering thatfocused on "naturalfamilies. " No longer content with the obscene political and monetary profits they realize in the United States, the radical Christian right is now exporting its number one product - homoph0bia - to Europe. A few thousand zealots from the United States and other countries converged on Warsaw, Poland’s Palace of Culture and Science in mid-May for the World Congress of Families, a gathering that focused on "natural families." "Natural families"? Just more spin - another euphemism for degrading LGBT families. These folks only consider assembly-line-produced families using eggs and sperm - introduced to one another through that old heterosexual standb); the missionary position, engaged in by a married, heterosexual couple - to be the real thing when it comes to producing progeny. How hateful of our -kids and our f,mailies. But let’s face it - hate is all these folks know, even though they couch it all in "Jesus’ love." The usual cast of radical Christian right characters was on hand for this particular love-to-hate fest. James Dobson from Focus on the Family was joined by folks from the American Family Association, Concerned Women for America, the Family Research Council, the Helcitage Foundation, and the Discover), Institute, which isn’t about designing good, intelligent television programs, but instead about programming youth to believe in intelligent design. The World Congress was organized by a group I hadn’t heard of - the Howard Center for Family, Religion, and Society, whose president, Allan Carlson, declared, "The cultural battle has gone international. The American religious right, instead of being isolationist, has in fact gone global." Oh, joy. But what about their destination? Why Poland? Why not Rome, to be near their buddy, the pope? Or Nigeria, where Archbishop Peter Akinola is masterminding a homophobic schism within the Anglican Church? Nope, they chose Poland because of its state-sponsored homophobia. I’m not talking about the run-of-the-mill "we ~von’t pass a probill gay bill if our lives depended on it" homophobia. This is a government that bans Pride celebrations, speaks openly about purging "homosexual propaganda’’ from the country, refuses to recognize the rights of lesbians and gays, and is now considering a bill that would make it illegal for any teacher in any classroom, public or private, to discuss homosexuality, LGBT rights, or safe-sex practices, The bill would bar LGBT organizations from schools, and lesbian or gay teachers who come out would automatically be fired. 7his is a government that does nothing to stop sldnheads and other nationalistic groups from targeting its LGBT citizens. This is a government that is tailor-made to be the only elected Western European ally ofAmerica’s radical Christian right. So what canoe out of this love-to-hate lest? Poland’s education minister, Roman Giertych, a leader in the country’s right-wing League of Polish Families party - who also happens to be a Deputy Prime Minister - became the politico celebre as he told the group that combating the "propagation of homosexuality" was just "something I have to do." His remarks were echoed by Polish President Lech Kaczynski Rallying around the homophobic flagpole, World Congress participants cheered at the news that the Polish government would not be cowed by the European Union, which has warned Poland that its antigay policies might cost the country its voting rights. They listened to U.S. Assistant Secretary of State Hlen Sauerbrey bring greetings fromW and thank the Howard Center "for all of their hard work in organizing this wonderful opportunity to celebrate and reflect upon the family and its vital role in society." No question that the current administration stands firmly alongside homophobic repression. They heard Ben Bull of the Alliance Defense Fund say, "Marriage will be destroyed by making all relationships equal," and Brigham Young law professor Lynn Wardle chime in with, "Legalizing samesex marriage will drain marriage of its social meaning." They also came together to embrace the "natural family manifesto." I think it’s kind of funny that a gathering in a former Communist country attended by those who hate Communism would support something called a "manifesto." But yes, there is a manifesto. It encourages mothers to stay home and have many children. It fervently opposes LGBT people and abortion in a single breath. "It is not enough to stop public recognition of ’gay marriage,’ nor to oppose ’safe-sex education’ in the public schools, nor to ban partialbirth abortion, nor to create ’covenant’ marriages. Victory for the natural family will come only as we change the terms of the debate." If changing the terms of debate means the wholesale exporting of hate, they’ve offto a good start. I just wish folks would stop bwing it here in the States. An endnote of worth: While all this homophobia is defining Poland to the LGBT world, Warsaw Mayor Hanna Gronkiewicz Walz defied the country’s president and ultra-right-wing organizations by letting a Pride parade take place in her city on May 19. More than 5,000 marched amid bystanders who waved and were generally supportive. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 May 1920 (87 years ago this month): Erotic A~-tist Touko Laaksonen (Tom of Finland) is born in Kaarina, Finland. Who was Tom of Finland? Photo’s courtsey of: www.eroticartcollection.com 28 the STAR The erotic art ofTouko Laaksonen - better known as Tom of Finland - shaped the erotic fantasies of countless gay men and helped redefine the popular image of male homosexuality. Laaksonen was born May 8, 1920, in Kaarina, a rural village in southwest Finland. Both his parents were schoolteachers, and he developed an early appreciation for art and music. Aware of his same-sex attractions from a young age, he created homoerotic drawings - often featuring farm boys and laborers - for his own enjoyment. At age 19, Laaksonen moved to Helsinki to attend art school, but was soon drafted into the Finnish army, which allied with Nazi Germany to fight the Soviet Union in World War II. Serving as a lieutenant, he began having sex with fellow soldiers and developed a fetish for men in uniform, which he reflected in his drawings. After the war, Laaksonen completed his art degree and studied piano at the Sibelius Institute. By day, he worked as a commercial graphic artist, then played the piano at cafes and private parties in the evenings. Feeling little affinity for the flamboyant and effeminate men who frequented Helsinki’s homosexual venues, he traveled often and became familiar with the gay leather scenes in several European cities. In 1953, while cruising in a Helsinki park, Laaksonen met his sole long-term romantic partner, a dancer named Veli (whose last name is not publicly known); their relationship endured until Veil’s death from cancer nearly 30 years later. Encouraged by friends, Laaksonen submitted some of his sketches to the Los Angeles- based bodybuilding magazine _Physique Pictorial_. Publisher Bob Mizer was impressed enough to feature a drawing of a lumberjack on the cover of the spring 1957 issue, dubbing the artist "Tom of Finland." In 1973, Laaksonen had his first public exhibition in Hamburg, Germany, and was able to quit his job at an advertising agency and live offhis art. In 1978, he visited Los Angeles for his first U.S. exhibition, where met Durk Dehner, who became his friend and manager; after Veli’s death in 1981, Laaksonen split his time between Los Angeles and Helsinki. Laaksonen is credited with introducing the masculine homosexual into gay, and eventually mainstream, culture. His drawings of stereotypically macho men - bikers, cowboys, cops, sailors - were almost photographic in their detail, but grew increasingly idealistic in their portrayal of perfect male specimens with protruding nipples, exaggerated bubble butts, and enormous penises. As censorship laws loosened, his drawings also became more sexually explicit. He was among the first artists to portray manly men engaging in joyous, guilt-free sex; even his sadomasochistic scenes had a playful aspect. "I work very hard to make sure that the men I draw having sex are proud men having happy sex," he once declared. According to author Ron Suresha, "Tom of Finland’s visions of happy, masculine, loving men projected forth from the collective unconscious of gay men’s liberation and increasingly, through the second half of the 20th century, defined much of its erotic substance and style." Indeed, Laaksonen’s work helped bring the underground leather culture to light, and the "Castro clone" look - black leather jacket, cap, moustache - became a new gay stereotype. But Laaksonen’s work was not without controversy. Some critics accused him of harboring an affinity for Nazis, though he disavowed fascism and racism. In the ! 970s and 1980s, his work was caught up in gay and lesbian community debates about pornography and sadomasochism, as well as the charge that his idealized images were impossible for real men to live up to. For his part, Laaksonen maintained that his work reflected his own erotic sensibilities, not a .......... Continued nextlaage www.ozarksstar.com Tom ofFinland continued: larger politica! statement. "If I don’t have an erection when I’m doing a drawing," he said, "I know it’s no good." As his work grew more popular, Laaksonen became an international celebrity. His images spawned an industry, and in 1979 he and Dehner co-founded the Tom of Finland Company. In addition to several books of collected works, Laaksonen produced a multi-volume series of comics featuring Kake the leatherman and did private commissions (including a revisioning of Michelangelo’s David for Italian filmmaker Franco Zeffirelli). "Tom’s men" became cultural icons and inspired many imitations, including the "Tom Girls" series by punk artist G.B. Jones. Today, his work is included in the permanent collections of several museums, including the Ne~v York Museum of Modern Art and Finland’s Kiasma Contemporary Art Museum. The Tom of Finland Foundation, initially founded in 1984 to preserve Laaksonen’s work, now offers a "safe haven" for all erotic art. Laaksonen continued to frequent the leather and dance club scenes well into his 60s. Diagnosed with emphysema in 1988, he was forced to cut back on his travel, but continued to draw. In 1991, his life and work were chronicled in the documentary Daddy and the Muscle Academy. In November of the same year, he died of a stroke in Helsinki. "I know my little ’dirty drawings’ are never going to hang in the main salons of the Louvre," Laaksonen said shortly before his death. "But it ~votfld be nice if...our world learns to accept all the different ways of loving. Then maybe I could have a place in one of the smaller side rooms." For further information: Hooven, E Valentine. 1994. Tom of Finland: His Life and Times (St. Martin’s Press). Pohjola, Ilppo. 3.992. Daddy and the Muscle Academy_ (documentary film). Ramakers, Micha. 2000. Dirty Pictures: Tom of Finland, Masculinity, and Homosexuality (St. Martin’s Press). OKLAHOMA ACTIV ST, KE TH Bo SMITH HONORED By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Stonewall Democrats (OKSD) posthomously have presented the 2007 Mary Lou Lemon Humanitarian Award to Keith B. Smith, the well-known and effective professional lobbyist and activist who died suddenly in November, 2006. A memorial service was held on December 1 in the Oklahoma Capitol Rotunda. Mr. Smith’s tireless advocacy for gay equality and other progressive issues was legendary. His ideas and techniques live on in the many grassroots activists who continue to push back the stultifying limits of the ignorant and bigoted. No Oklahoma legislator, however recalcitrant in thinking, was immune to Mr. Smith’s wit, charm, and stunning strategies at passing progressive legislation. The award is named for the late Mary Lou Lemon, matriarch of a prominent Oklahoma Democratic family, who believed fervently in an American society free from discrimination directed at minorities, especially gay and lesbian citizens. It has been presented formally at the Activist Hall of Fame Dinner on Saturday, May 19, during the Oklahoma Democratic Party State Convention. Previous award recipients have been Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, and Governor David and Rhonda Walters. OK Stonewall Democrats ( www.okstonewall. org) is a constitutional club of the Oklahoma Democratic Party and a chapter of National Stonewall Democrats, Washington, DC (www.stonewalldemocrats.org) NEW GALLUP POLL SHOWS 68 PERCENT OF AMERICANS SUPPORT HATE CRIMES BILL BEFORE CONGRESS Poll Shows Overwhelming Support Includes Majority ofRepublicans, Conservatives, and Religious Voters WASHINGTON, DC_. A new national poll conducted by Gallup shows an overwhelming support of the American people for passage of federal hate crimes legislation currently being considered in Congress. The poll, conducted on May !0-13, shmvs that 68 percent of all Americans believe that current federal hate crime laws should be expanded to include "sexual orientation, gender and gender identity." Even more impressive is that this support cuts across partisan, ideological and religious lines with a majority of each of those demographic groups supporting the legislation. "This new national poll continues to reiterate how incredibly out-of-touch rightwing organizations are with the will of the American people and underscores the need for the Senate to pass this bill," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "I hope President Bush will look at this poll and realize how unbelievably out-of-line a threatened veto of this critical crime-fighting piece of legislation is with a majority of Americans. President Bush’s threatened veto isn’t even supported by his base. The writing is on the wall and it is past time for President Bush to stop bowing to the pressure ofJames Dobson, Pat Robertson and other right-wing, anti-gay leaders and join the majority of Americans who want to see this bill become law." On May 3, the morning of the House vote on the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592), the White House put out a "Statement ofAdministration Policy" stating, "IfH.R. 1592 were presented to the president, his senior advisors would recommend that he veto the bill." www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 29 By Joey De She’s known by only one name, has fabulous hair, incredible skin, the carefree spirit of the 80’s, and is mounting a tour to benefit gay rights. Cyndi Lauper, who has spent her career as the quintessential gay icon, is once again showing her fearless dedication to equality with her 15 city nation wide "True Colors" tour, presented by The Logo Network, kicking offJune 8th in Las Vegas. Cyndi and special guests Erasure, Debbie Harry, The Dresden Dolls, The Gossip and The Misshapes will be taking the stage, with emcee Margaret Cho to present five hours of non-stop music benefiting the Human Rights Campaign. Also joining the bill on select dates will be Rufus Wainwright, Rosie O’Donnell, Indigo Girls, THE CLIKS and Jeffree Star. We caught up with Miss Lauper between breaks on her busy rehearsal schedule to find out more about the tour, her views on the gay community and why she still looks so good. STAR: Oh my god, I’m talking to Cyndi Lauper, I can’t believe this. You’re a gay legend. You have been since the beginning of your career. \re’hat do you credit with making you such a gay icon? CL: It’s a natural fit. When I came onto the scene, I guess what the community related to was my overall vibe, not just my music. I was and still am very colorful and animated. I was also a bit left of center in my artistic approach and I think that really resonated. I have always been in tune with gay people, even before I became famous, so I think the relationship was just another extension of Cyndi the person to Cyndi the artist. STAR: You first made your first big mark in the 80’s, a time when musical tastes were totally different. To what do you owe your continued success? www.ozarksstar.com CL: I’ve stayed at it and I’ve strived to continue to grow as an artist. I still love to write, produce and perform and am still inspired by the world around me to create my music. I’m really fortunate to have the platform that I do and I don’t take that for granted. STAR: As a performer and gay rights advocate, ho~v would you say that the world has changed in the time since you began performing, in relation to equality? CL: I think that the visibility of the GLBT community has come further than 20 years ago, but, as we can see by the past few years under this administration, things are going backwards. It outrages me. The further ahead the community has gotten, the more resistance and push back to progress it encounters. We have to keep pushing forward. STAR: Would you care to share a story about a favorite gay companion who inspired you to take on the fight for equality? CL: I wrote the song Boy Blue for my friend Gregory. He passed away from AIDS and his life and death affected and inspired me deeply. He still does. STAR: What was your inspiration behind the "True Colors" tour? CL: I’ve been trying to do the tour for the past five years. It came from my outrage about what is going on in this country and specifically what is going on with the erosion of GLBT civil liberties and rights. It has affected my family, my close friends and my fans. Your civil liberties are my civil liberties. If yours are being taken away or going backwards, so are mine. I’ve been a part of the women’s movement and the civil rights movement for the African American Community. I feel like what is happening in this country with the GLBT community is outrageous, and this tour is a reaction to that, STAR: Why did you select the Human Rights campaign as your benefactor? CL: Their have been some rumblings from the right about it, but that’s the whole point isn’t it? I have the right to do this tour and get the issues out there to be debated and discussed via music. They have the right to criticize, disagree and debate the issues. The more discussion the better as far as I’m concerned. STAR: You have an incredibly impressive line up of guest performers, how did you select them? CL: I’m glad you like the line up. I’ve worked with some of the artists before and I’m excited to be working with some of them for the first time. It’s really great to be sharing the stage with such talented artists. STAR: Will we get to see that fabulous rainbow statue of liberty dress? CL: I actually had that dress custom made for the Gay Games. I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve in regards to outfits for the tour...a girl’s gotta have some secrets (haha). You’ll have to come on down to the show for my runway action. STAR: Your gay audience transcends generations and even includes the current generation of youth. What, as an ally, do you think is the biggest challenge facing them and what do you think is their greatest strength? CL: I think the gay youth of today hold great promise. You can look at the way they connect and interact on myspace and other community sites and they know that they are not alone. I also look at PFLAG, GLSEN and the many local youth organizations out there that provide support and outreach. They are vital. Ifa kid can come out and be accepted by his family then he should cherish that, not every kid gets the love and support they need at home. That’s why PFLAG is involved in this tour, if coverage of it can open a difficult discussion then I’m doing my job. This tour is as much for gay engaged family members and friends as it is for GLBT people. for parents of gay youth increases. It starts at home. It’s (the tour) all about opening up the discussions on the home front, the political front and the music and entertainment front, but let’s not lose sight of the fact that this is a great musica! celebration. It’s going to be a kick ass party... STAR: In addition to this tour, you have a new album coming out. Would you care to share a little bit about it? CL: It’s definitely NOT a mellow album. It’s an ass shaker. STAR: Can tour-goers expect to hear their favorite hits, or will there be a lot from the new album? CL: I’m still mulling over what the set list is...so we’ll see...I may sneak in a few new songs. STAR: Most importantly for gay men and drag queens everywhere: You look fabulous, and haven’t aged a bit! Please, tell us your secret. CL: Yoga and keeping up with my son’s energy level. STAR: What can we look for from Cyndi Lauper in the future? CL: I’m wide open. I’m in a great creative space and looking forward to touring and finishing the new CD. Once that’s done, I’m sure I’ll be on the hunt for my next creative endeavor. Right now, it’s all about the True Colors tour. STAR: Miss Lauper, thank you for your time. We wish you the greatest of success with the tour and the album. The True Colors Tour will be visiting Dallas on June 23 and Houston on June 24. For more information or for a complete list of tour dates visit www.truecolorstour.com. CL: I have ahvays admired and respected the work that the HRC has done. They are working on a federal level and a local level for issues that are important to me. STAR: Have you received any back lash or criticism about the tour? www.ozarksstar.com I do want to say that I hope some of the apathy around HIV with the younger generation changes. We’ve made great medical advances and people are living with HW and MDS, but people are still dying. I hope that the kids wil! be responsible if they are having sex and I hope that the education the STAR 33 "Easy does it, Sagittarius!" Mercury is in Cancer, which normally facilitates sweet expressions of genuine affection and swapping old family recipes. But as Mercury clashes with Saturn in Leo, that "affection" may now seem overbearing and critical. Try to be modest and sincere, and offer healthy, low-fat recipes - or chocolate. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Efforts to show off your home in a good light can be a major source of irritation. Can you just relax, and let your place be comfortable and fun? Your real friends don’t care how it looks, as long as it’s happily lived in. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Do you really need to call your family now? Let it wait until next week. It’s bad enough hearing one of your parents in your own voice. Play that up for satirical effect and you’ll learn something useful, if not entirely pleasant. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Getting caught up on bills may be a hassle, but do what you can now to avoid trouble later. Advice from an older sibling - or a "sister" - can be irritating, but well worth heeding. At least think about it! SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Your eagerness to tweak and provoke is dangerously high, tempting you to much more trouble than you’re ready to risk. New games in the bedroom may require innovative safety awareness. Slow and easy does it, Tiger! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): If demands (or lack thereof) in the boudoir are dampening your relationship, discussing the issues now could make or break it. How much courage, patience, and love do you have? Be very clear on your issues before taking on your partner’s. AQUARIUS (January 20 o February 18): Your clever innovations at work could irritate your colleagues. At least include them in some discussion before you make any changes. Mollify dissent by keeping your mind and ears open for further improvements. P~SCES (February 19 - March 19): Try to focus those playful urges into some modest, constructive activity. Showing off is too likely to get you into an awful accident. The more annoying you find criticism, the likelier you should heed it! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Trying to sound authoritative just makes you sound bitchy. Let your words follow the law of supply and demand. The less you say, the more valuable it is. Writing is safer than speaking, but scrutinize e-mails carefully before you send them! LEO (July 23 - August 22): Being cranky and bossy is largely a cover for doubts and worries. To be more truly your sweet, lovable self, take time out to meditate or talk with a confidante about what’s bugging you. An imaginary conversation with Mom will help. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): The future may seem dark and hopeless, and the next few years are challenging, but still you worry too much. You can make the most of it; use your instincts to figure out a way through the dark labyrinth ahead. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your foresight is especially sharp, but without caution, so is your tongue. Nagging undermines the effectiveness of your prescience. Imagine that everyone is your boss and be careful of what you say. That will heighten your own authority. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Any discussion can turn into an argument much too easily. 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The State of Oklahoma does not allow same gender marriages, therefore.I must decline your application." Photo: ~vo women askfor a marriage license application at the 7ffdsa Count. court house. Photo: Three same gender couples cut the wedding cake that was adorned with two brides toget,§er and two grooms at a reception in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center: NEW JERSEY GAY COUPLE8 G NTED UR ON UCENSE. (AP) Hundreds of gay couples were granted the same legal rights, if not the title, as married couples Monday as New Jersey became the third state to offer civil unions. More than a dozen other couples applied for licenses for ceremonies later in the week. The civil unions, which 6ffer the legal benefits but not the title of marriage, were granted automatically to hundreds of gay New Jersdy couples who had previously been joined in civil unions or married in other states or nations. The three couples, referred to as "The Love Warriors", walked quietly away from the counter after each where refused a license. The group then boarded a shuttle bus which took them back to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center where a wedding reception had been prepared. Two brides and two grooms gdorned the wedding cake. Oklahomans for Equality, lead by their tPresident Laura Belmonte, sponsored the demonstration and was held on Valentine’s day in celebration of the 10th anniversary of"Freedom to Marry Week". The goal of the demonstration was to bring awareness to the 1049 benefits allowed opposite sex couples who are legally married in the State of Oklahoma and a call for marriage equality for Oklahoma same gender couples. "It is an equal rights issue", said Belmonte. Oklahomans for Equality is a non-profit organization committed to securing equality for Oklahoma GLBT citizens as well as all Oklahomans. They are now located in their new permanent home inside the Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, celebrated it’s grand opening February 14-18. In honor of the organizations founder Dennis R. Neill the building was named the "Dennis R. Neil Equality Center". v~vw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 A national report titled Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth: An epidemic of homelessness. "Epidemic" is a strong word to use, but in this case it’s justified. Lily Tomlin to appear at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center March 18th. GLBT Homeless Youth - page 5 African-American comedian Jackie "Moms" Mabley - dubbed "the funniest woman in the world" Gay Travelers "Tucson Arizona’’ Otit of Town "Budget Getaxvays " This month Uncle Mikey recovers from a love affair of epic proportions. I mean whew, that man was just too much. It was like being at the DQand trying to take that extra dip The STAR Interview with Lily Tomlin - page 10 GLBT Homeless............ 5 Lily Tomlin ................ 10 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Stage.................... 11 Past Out.................. 14 Leslie Jordan ............. 15 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds ................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Gay Leslie Jordan to Host 10th Annual Red Ribbon Gala on March 10. -page 15 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LA~Xq-ON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVtLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR ~,vw.ozarksstar.com LGBT Youth Homelessness: A National Disgrace By Jason Cianciotto piece of federal legislation that directs funding and programming guidelines to homeless youth service providers nationwide, the Congressional Research Service released its own report on youth homelessness in the US. Their report did not include a single mention of LGBT youth. If Congress’s own research arm is unwilling or unable to acknowledge this epidemic, how can we expect our elected officials to address it? I think part of the answer lies in supporting and replicating the successful efforts of service providers and activists at the grassroots level. Photo:Jason Cianciotto The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute, in collaboration with the National Coalition for the Homeless, released a national report today titled Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth: An epidemic of homelessness. "Epidemic" is a strong word to use, but in this case it’s justified. While approximately, 3 to 5 percent of the total U.S. population identifies as gay or lesbian, our review of the available academic and professional literature found that an estimated 20 to 40 percent of the up to 1.6 million youth who run away or are homeless each year identify as LGBT. In other words, LGBT youth are grossly overrepresented in the homeless youth population. The report goes into great detail about why LGBT youth are becoming homeless, their experiences on the streets, and the pervasive harassment and discrimination they experience at many homeless service providers. Just as important are the model service practices and policy recommendations also included in the report, which if implemented nationwide would help to curb this epidemic and truly make a difference in the lives of our most vulnerable youth. Several weeks ago, I received what is perhaps the greatest example of the hard work ahead of us as we use this report to educate politicians, policymakers and service providers. In anticipation of the 2008 renewal of the Runaway, Homeless and Missing Children Protection Act (RHMCPA), the primary For example, there’s the street outreach program and drop-in center developed by the Ruth Ellis Center, which predominandy serves LGBT youth of color in Detroit, Mich., and the transitional living program run by Green Chimneys in New York City, which provides safe and supportive housing for LGBT homeless youth for 18 months while preparing them for in&pendent living. Urban Peak in Denver, Colorado has developed specific guidelines for creating a safe space for transgender homeless youth in shelters, given their unique needs and experiences. Because most homeless youth service providers are not LGBT-specific, our report also highlights the success of Ozone House, in Ann Arbor, Mich., an organization that serves all homeless youth but has specifically striven to create an LGBT-safe space. Waltham House in Massachusetts has even developed a program that has provided LGBT cultural competency training to over 2,000 employees at the state Department of Social Services. While the programs highlighted in our report may be the exception today, they are replicable anywhere in the country. Indeed, one of our critical aims and hopes is that service providers and social service agencies will see this report as a wake-up call to the crisis of homelessness among LGBT youth. Some may already work with this population and learn from one of our contributors about how to enrich an existing program. Others might know they need to reach out to LGBT youth but need additional guidance on how to do so. Continued page-23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Oklahoma Activist Named to Board of National Stonewall Democrats Oklahoma Chapter MaiFltains Strong Presence on National Board By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (~x~9.0kstonewall.org) announced today that activist and poht~cal consultant Linda Gray Murphy of Oklahoma City has been named to the Board of Directors for National Stonewall Democrats (NSD) (,wvw:stonewalldemocrats.org). She will begin a two-year term in March as a delegate from Region 6, representing Iowa, Missouri, A~kansas, Kansas, Texas, and Oklahoma. Her election continues the strong presence that Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (OSD) has had on the national board for the last three years, beginning with the late activist and lobbyist Keith Smith. Ms. Murphy and Mr. Smith, both Yellow Dog Democrats, were close allies in advocating for the betterment of Oklahoma’s citizens through work in many progressive issues such as equality for gay people, women’s health dare, and the environment. Ms. Murphy is well kmown throughout Oklahoma and Texas for her work with political campaigns and progressive causes, with her latest victory being the election ofA1 McAffrey to the Oklahoma House of Representatives. She serves as executive director and spokesperson for WorkAng Families Project (wvwv.workingfamiliesproject. corn), a statewide organization to increase the minimum wage and improve the lives of all Oklahomans. Membership growth in Stonewall Democrats, the only ga~ lesbian, bisexual and transgender organization recognized by the National Democratic Party, has prompted recent expansion of Region 6 representation on the NSD board from three to five delegates. Ms. Murphy will join Olga Hernandez of San Antonio as female delegates. Four candidates will vie for the three remaining positions. They include incumbent national board members Jesse Garcia and Buck Massey, both ofTexas, and two Oklahoma City men, Steve VanHook and Colin Raley. VanHook has served OSD as interim co-chair since early December. The lowest vote-getter in February’s regional elections is expected to be named an alternate delegate, attending when a regular delegate cannot. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, with nearly 200 current members, is constitutionally recognized as an active dub of the Oklahoma Democratic Party (www.okdemocrats.org) with a voting seat on the state party’s governing Central Committee. The Stonewall organization is dedicated to achieving ful! equality for America’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender citizens, and its members work in campaigns and raise money for both openly gay and gay-friendly Democratic candidates at all levels of government. 6 the STAR w~rw.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 PRELIM TO MiSS GAY OKLAHOMA AMERICA April 4, 2007 10:00 PM @The Copa, OKC OK CONTESTANT INQUIRES CALL MARK ORJAMES (NIKKI STARR) (580) 216-2715 must be 21 yrs old to enter colt5294@yahoo.com 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com pancakes ~nd, just trying to g~t book, music ~. lyrics by Jerry Rabushka (of Somebody ~Ise~s Life) WOOFI wags Oklahoma~t TULSA: March 2~3, 8:00pro Nightingale Theater, 1416 E. 4th St, Reservations: 918-633-8666 OK. CtTY: March 23~24, 8:00 P~ IAO Galle~: 81! N. Broadway Re~ations: 314-280-1035 Dir~ions: 40~232~060 ~e~: $10; ~5.~ s~dent~senio~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 10 the STAR Evenin Coming Interview by: Victor Gorin An Evening of Classic Lily Tomlin is a nostalgic and warm presentation of Lily’s "greatest hits," with more than a dozen of her famous characters, including the precocious six-year-old Edith Ann; the irascible telephone operator, Ernestine; the aging beauty adviser, Madame Lupe; Lucille, the rubber addict; prim Judith Beasley from Calumet City, Indiana; and Lily’s most profound character, Trudy, the street lady who starred in The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe. THE INTERVIEW: VICTOR: Well hello Lily, and welcome to Oklahoma. When did you last perform here? LILY: Many years ago, it must have been in the 70s. VICTOR: Your entertainment career has spanned over 4 decades, and a lot of changes have happened in show business. What major changes have you noticed and what has stayed the same? LILY: Well, it’s all in how you approach it, what your own sensibility is, whatever you think is funny and how you deal with it, matter of nuance and style. Certainly a lot of barriers have been knocked dmvn. I can remember when the word "ass" said on network TV was unheard of. VICTOR: Well it was a different world when you began viewing corned}; when you favorites included Lucille Ball & Jean Carroll, the first female standup comic on the Ed Sullivan Shiny. When you started college to study medicine, was that just to be practical when you really wanted to be in entertainment? LILY: (laughs) I was just a blue collar kid who grew up in inner city Detroit. I mean you were supposed to be serious about getting a job, a career. Being a doctor seemed like a very noble thing to aspire to, and there was quite a reverence for doctors in those days. In my neighborhood though, we were grateful if boys didn’t wind up in the slammer or girls didn’t get pregnant. VICTOR: Well, you managed to avoid both. Among your many personas, my true favorite was the telephone operator Ernestine, who won you a Grammy Award for a comedy album. She became part of our culture, and as a former long distance operator myself, you can see why she’s dear to me. LILY: While I had never been an actual telephone operator, I did march in a picket line with the operators in 1971 during a strike in San Francisco. The Communications \gorkers of,4anerica awarded me a "Cracked Bell Award" for standing with them. I owe everything to Ernestine, and she knows it! She’s like a real person to me, and like people such as Bette Davis, she’s one everybody tries to imitate. VICTOR: Back in Ernestine’s day, did you ever think there would be shows like "Will and Grace"? LILY: No probably not. It’s kind of evolutionary. Hlen having the success she has had is remarkable, and a whole generation has grown up with that support and knowledge. I can relate, I was in the middle. I knew of performers in the 40s and 50s who were suppressed, repressed & oppressed. VICTOR: I loved your role in the movie "9 to 5" which, although a comedy, really depicted the issues of working people. Can you see workers and the gay communit-y coming together for positive change, particularly in the political area? LILY: Any groups working for change are usually coming from an outsider status, so they can align themselves with others who are disenfranchised so that opens doors for everybody. I might also add that I’d like a new president! ........................... Continuedlvage 13 www.ozarksstar.com Coming to Tulsa and Oklahoma City. By Staff Reporter ST LOUIS, MO__Ragged Blade presents "Woof, The Road Show," a two man minimusical with Zach Jett & Jerry Rabushka. Book, lyrics & music by Jerry Rabushka A script that keeps changing, and love that keeps threatening to cross from on stage to back stage, and lots of silly jokes. Woofl is a mini-musical about dogs, pancakes, and just trying to get some. Don’t you just hate it when you’re trying to make out and there’s a dog panting at your feet? Woofl Adam and Jon are touring a show. A gay romance, come to think, that Adam wrote without realizing he’d have to deal ~vith an acting partner who keeps trying to make it happen in real life. If that’s not bad enough.., a group of frustrated writers (not to mention the Wednesday Mah Jongg club) keep xvorkshopping the play and our poor actors never know what’s in the script from one show to the next. Oh, and then there’s... Woody. You know, that "hot" stage hand who took up a career in theater so he could sleep with touring actors. He’s had his way with Jon and Adam... so they like each other to think. Poor Woody, he meets his demise more often than Kenny in South Park. What happens when he goes to an Annie cast party? It’s too scary to mention. Can they ever transfer the on stage love to back stage.., even if there’s a clause in the contract that forbids it? It’s an unusual play with dry humor, a bit of a vaudeville style, and some great fun. JERRY RABUSHKA is a St. Louis based writer, composer, actor, and director and a co-founder of Ragged Blade productions, a company that produces original theatre and also produces touring artists. Rabushka has won awards for several plays including The Checkpoint, Kiss of Death, and Empty Closets; he received the Director’s Award For Outstanding Service (to the GLBT theater community) at the 2006 National Gay and Lesbian Theater Festival (Columbus, OH). He’s had about 80 scripts of various lengths published by Brooklyn Publishers, Odessa, TX. His solo piano CD "Piano 362" was nominated for "Outstanding Instrumental Recording" by NYC based Outmusic in 2003. ZACH JETT is a St. Louis area actor & singer who has performed in a number of musicals and is currently in his third show with Ragged Blade. "Jett’s experience shows through his command of the stage, his vocal ability, and how well he looks in a dog collar," says critic Tamitra Williford, KDHX Radio, St. Louis. RAGGED BLADE has been to Tulsa and OKC with Rabushka’s one-man show "Somebody Else’s Life." The Nightingale Theatre also produced his play Love of Last Resort in 2006. His play "Gay Christian, Gay Muslim, Gay Jew," commissioned by award winning performer, recording artist & Comedy Central personality Jade Esteban Estrada, premiered at the IAO Gallery February 16 & 17, 2007. Woofl The Road Show will be in Tulsa March 2-3, 8 PM Nightingale Theater 1416 E. 4th St. (at Peoria) TULSA, OK, 74120 Info/Reservations for TULSA: 918-633- 8666 March 23-24, 8 PM, IAO Gallery 811 N. Broadway, OKLAHOMA CITY, OK, 73102 Info/Reservations for OKC: 314-280-1035. Directions 405-232-6060 Admission for both: $10; $5 students/seniors. For more information please visit www. raggedblade.com www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 11 / a 41;GAYLIEN \VEEY ND" SPRING DIVERSITY \VEEKEND April 13-15, 2007 EUR£KA SPRINGS, AR~Spring Diversity is falling on the same weekend as the annual UFO Conference in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Many visitors asked for Diversity Weekend to be delayed one week, so they could be home with their families for Easter. On Saturday night, everyone is encouraged to dress in Gaylien themed costumes and artists ~vill be available to create one of a kind Face Art just for you. Eureka will be filled with festive Gayliens and you may just win a prize! Deborah Rose with Diversity Pride Events Productions, proudly announces the return of the popular "GAYCO gang", a hysterical comedy troupe born from members of Chicago’s famous "SECOND CITY". Last Spring’s production was a big hit. ~lere will be 2 performances, a 2pm Matinee and 7:30pm evening show. (Ticket info available online) And YOU could be on stage with GAYCO! By taking a special workshop on Friday 1- 4pm with GAYCO coaches, class members will have the option to perform Saturday in an improv/sketch on stage with GAYCO! Experienced or non-experienced, the class will be loads of fun and your friends will be amazed to see you on stage at the showi Must RSVP and pre-pay online. There will be DPE’s "DIVERSITY BIKERS" contests and Poker Run. Our golden oldies dance, newly named "RETRO DANCE & CABARET" at Caribe’s Restaurante y Cantina, featuring the fabulous Mary King from Oklahoma, DJing and singing, plus invited guest singers. It’s not just a dance, it’s a social! (Emaii us your requests for your favorite dance hits now, so Mary will have time to get them) Don’t forget to drop in to the "PRINCESS WELCOME MIXER" at Caribe’s always on Friday night 7 to 9pro to mix and mingle with Gayco cast members, locals and visitors. Be sure to pick up a copy of the DIVERSITY GUIDE and get the scoop on Eureka and weekend happenings. Of course there will be many more events sponsored by others, great shopping, dining and that great sense of freedom and friendliness that blows through Eureka! More details will be posted as soon as confirmed. Be sure to keep checking Diversitypride. corn for updates. CONTACT DIVERSITY PRIDE EVENTS Deborah Rose 479-253-2555 Email: deborah@diversitypride.corn Web: http://xvwxv.diversitypride.com Community for People living D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com, 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com LILY TOMLIN INTERVIEW: VICTOR: I’m with you there. But focusing on you, since you’ve been involved with almost every form of media there is, what are your goals now and where is your career going? LILY: I like to keep my hand in by performing live, and I do and 40 or 50 concerts a year. I have a part in a new HBO series, "Twelve Miles of Bad Roads," a comedy drama series where I play a matriarch of a very rich Dallas real estate family. Mary Kay Place plays my sister, Leslie Jordan is my cousin Kenny, and I deal with 3 out of control loaded ldds. VICTOR: Sounds like a load of fun! LILY: We hope it will be, and it will go on the air next year. I also ¯ have a part in an upcoming movie, ’The Walker,’ so I’m always looking for new opportunities. VICTOR: Well ~ve certainly wish you luck, and we welcome the opportunity to see your performance in Tulsa. Tomlin has remained at the top of her game for almost 40 years, winning six Emmys, two Tonys, a Grammy and two Peabody Awards. She was a favorite of the late great director Robert Altman, appearing in several of his movies, including her Academy Awardnominated role in Nashville and with Meryl Streep as a countrywestern sister act in Altman’s final film A Prairie Home Companion. She was equally unforgettable in 9 to 5 with Jane Fonda and Dolly Parton, in Big Business with Bette Midler, and as an eccentric rich woman whose soul invades Steve Martin’s body in All of Me. In 2003, she received the prestigious Mark Twain Prize for American Humor. It will be a night of cerebral comedy vcoven among Lily’s affectionate reminiscences about her childhood in the Midwest. March 18th at 7 p.m. Tulsa Performing Arts Center Chapman Music Hall. Tickets can be purchased online at www.MyTicketoffice. com or by phone at 918 596 7111. By Strengthening Your Business TULSA, OK__Diversity Business Association ofTulsa, a program of Oklahomans for Equality, is off and running! Join us at our monthly meeting, held the first Thursday of each month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. DBAT provides a forum to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networking, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. Networking is key to business and a cornerstone of the DBAT mission. The DBAT business network fosters a sharing of information, ideas, and contacts and so strengthens and expands our businesses, careers and our community. Additionally, the Professional Development Programs offered by DBAT at our monthly meeting enables members to access information and resources that are important to the growth, promotion, and visibility of their businesses. DBAT’s 2007 agenda includes a number of events, most exciting of which is the Diversity Business Expo and the distribution of the new Pride Business Directory planned for June. A presence on the web is also in the works as well as community workshops and socials. Get Involved! Get Connected! Join DBAT today and learn, participate and lead in the most dynamic business climate in the LGBT community. For more information on membership, including the many benefits, contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@cox.net or 918-274-1699. TWO F RST’$ FOR TULSA’S; LEATHER BAR By Michael Leach TULSA, OK The Tulsa Eagle recently had its First Fundraiser and performance by a female impersonator all in the same night. On, Saturday, Jan. 20th the current Mr. Tulsa Eagle 2006, Mr. Jay Whiteside had a fundraiser and celebrated his birthday by presenting a Benefit for the HOPE Testing Clinic. Hosted by Miss Kimbefly Foxx and Mr. Jay Whiteside, there was live entertainment and many comedy numbers by Mr. Jay and Clogger Bill. The Benefit included a silent auction, with many items donated by Coral West, Priscillas, Tulsa Rough Riders and the support of T.U.L.S.A. and the Driller Bears. A grand total of $615.00,was raised for the HOPE Testing Clinic, and Mr. Tulsa Eagle presented the money to HOPE Testing Clinic the following Wednesday. Many thanks for all the support and help by all the organizations that made this Fundraiser a success, and also gave Jay a wonderful 54th birthday celebration. wvo,v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 was ]ackAe "Morns" Mabley? African-American comedian Jackie "Moms" Mabley - dubbed "the funniest woman in the world" - was known for her ribald humor about young men, but her personal relationships were often with women. The great-granddaughter of a slave and one of 12 children, Mabley was born Loretta Mary Aiken in March 1894 (some historians say 1897) in Brevard, N.C. When she was 11, her father, a businessman and volunteer firefighter, was killed when his fire truck exploded. Not long thereafter, her mother died after she was hit by a mail truck one Christmas morning. By the time she turned 13, Mabley had been raped twice - first by an older black man and later by a white sheriff- which resulted in two pregnancies; the babies were put up for adoption. In her early teens, at the urgleft home and moved to a m~msters family. Before show, beginning as a sing.er to comedy. While traveling performing for black audiwith fellow entertainer Jack daughter. To allay the embarabout her stage career, she own. "He took a lot off me, his name," she said in a 1974 nickname "Moms" for the younger performers. Mabley began performing as is widely regarded as the first so. In 1921, a well-known ing of her grandmother, Mabley Cleveland, where she lived with long, she joined a minstrel and dancer but soon turning the vaudeville "chitlin circuit" ences, she began a relationship Mabley, and the couple had a rassment of one of her brothers adopted Mabley’s name as her so the least I could do was take interview. She later earned the maternal role she took with a solo stand-up comedian, and African-American woman to do vaudeville couple, Butterbeans and Susie, saw Mabley’s show in Texas and invited her to join them. She was soon performing at legendary Harlem venues, including the Cotton Club and the Savoy Ballroom, sharing the bill with jazz greats such as Count Basle and Duke Ellington. the black circuit - Mabley broke through the color barrier and gained considerable mainstream success, likely because white audiences found her frumpy character nonthreatening despite her biting wit and edgy themes. By this time an actual toothless old woman, Mabley performed at large venues such as the Chicago Playboy Club and Carnegie Hall, recorded some two dozen comedy albums (becoming Billboard’s highest- ranking female comedian), and made numerous appearances on television variety shows hosted by the likes ofMerv Grit~n, Bill Cosby, and the Smothers Brothers. Mabley continued working until the end of her life, starring in the film _Amazing Grace_ (1974) - in which she plays a fed-up elderly woman who becomes a community organizer and takes on Baltimore’s political establishment - the year before her death in ~/hite Plains, N.Y., on May 23, 1975. Though surprisingly unknown to contemporary audiences, Mabtey had a profound influence and served as a rote model for countless comedians, especially African Americans and women. In the words of author Mel Watkins, Mabley’s work "foreshadowed the shift to direct social commentary" that became a mainstay of comedy by the late 1950s, and "anticipated the assertive sexual humor unveiled by female stand-up comics in the eighties." For further reading: Gomez, Jewelle. 1993. Forty-Three Septembers (Firebrand). During the Harlem Renaissance, Mabley was part of a circle of black vaudeville performers and jazz and blues musicians known or believed to have been gay, lesbian, or bisexual, including Countee Cullen, Langston Hughes, Mabel Hampton, Bessie Smith, and Ma Rainey. Although she had relationships with women - and sometimes let slip innuendos about affairs with both women and men - Mabley was not publicly open about her sexuality. As the Depression put a halt to the Roaring ’20s, Mabley became one of the most sought-after black performers. In 1931, she co-wrote a Broadway play, _Fast and Furious: A Colored Revue in 37 Scenes_, with author Zora Neale Hurston. Starting in the late 1930s, Mabley began performing at the Apollo "l~eater; over two decades, she became the club’s most frequently featured act, and at the height of her career she was earning $10,000 per week. Watkins, Mel. 1999. On the Real Side: A History ofAfrican-American Comedy from Slavery to Chris Rock (Lawrence Hill Books). Williams, Elsie. 1991. "Morns Mabley and the Afro-~nerican Comic Performance." In \Vomen’s Comic Visions, ed. June Sochen (Wayne State University Press). Well before she became an old woraan herself, Mabley developed her signature character, a ribald granny dressed in a housedress, slippers, and a floppy hat (inspired, she said, by her own grandmother). Delivered in a characteristic raspy voice, her brand of humor tended toward social satire, often addressing the hardships of poverty and racism. While she may have preferred women in her personal life, Mabley became known for her jokes about pursuing young men, coupled with her disdain for old ones and their attempts to wield control over women. "There ain’t nothing an old man can do for me except bring me a message from a young one," she famously quipped In her 60s - unlike most performers on 14 the STAR ~.,.ozarksstar.com Leslie Jordan to Host l Oth Annua Red Ribbon Gala on March TULSA, OK__With the date set, the menu selected and the talent chosen, the 10th Annual Red Ribbon Gala is set to be a remarkable evening for all who attend. The Master of Ceremonies is none other than Emmy Award winner Leslie Jordan, who is best known for his roles on Will & Grace, Boston Legal and Reba. Jordan is currently filming the HBO pilot "12 Miles of Bad Road "with Lily Tomlin and Mary Kay Place and staring in the new CW show "Hidden Palms." ~l-he local band, Hero Factor, will provide the musical entertainment for the fun-filled evening and this year’s honorary chair is Suzanne Warren. The Red Ribbon Gala will be held in the recently completed Grand Ballroom at Southern Hills Country Club, 2636 E. 61st Street, on Saturday, March 10 at 6:30 p.m. The event is the largest fundraiser for Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. (Center for AIDS Resources, Education and Support), an organization that provides social services for low-income men, women and children living with HIV/AIDS throughout northeastern Oklahoma. This year’s Red Ribbon Gala will be a delight to the senses as a fabulous red martini bar will accompany the beautiful floral arrangements created by board member Toni Garner. The fun-filled evening will include a live and silent auction offering amazing vacation packages, private dinner parties, stellar antiques, flowers for a year, one-of-a-kind paintings from Patrick Gordon and Matt Moffett and original cuff links created by board member Susan Sadler. www.ozarksstar.com "~xe best part about the Red Ribbon Gala is that is supports the ongoing efforts ofTulsa C.A.R.E.S.," Pat Chernicky, event co-chair said. "For 15 years, Tulsa CARES has been providing support services to the individuals no one has wanted to serve. Without the proceeds from the Red Ribbon Gala our ability to provide these crucial services would cease." A United Way agency, Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. provides a variety of services including professional case management and mental health counseling, food pantry and nutrition services, financial help with rent and utilities, plus information and resources to help family members. "The Red Ribbon Gala is not only a fabulous evening of food, fun and friends, but the money raised from the event provides the organization with the financial resources to serve over 500 individuals a year," Robert Coffey, co-chair and board president said. "This event is one ofTulsa’s most elegant, yet worthwhile affairs. HIV does not affect a special group of people; it doesn’t discriminate, it affects all of us." For ticket information and sponsorship opportunities, contact Bruce Lewis at (918) 834-4194 or brucel@tulsacares.org 1.-800o535oNDS (2437) Oklahoma’s H~V/STD HerOine ~Preocupado con V.I.H~ en su comunidad? maestro salud quien pueda trabajar el tiempo eompleto/un examinador dei V.LH. quie~ es bilingtie con espafiol v ingles Ventajas fantastieas! Causas fantasticas! Pot favor llama 918.749.8378 Conoee su eslado...Haee un dii~reneia the STAR 15 nder We are always looking for a bargain and it’s hard to know sometimes which ,,vines are the best buys. Well we hope to shed some light on this for those of you who want to bring a good wine to a dinner party or to share with friends. We all want quality taste with out breaking the bank. There IS a difference between cheap and inexpensive. None of us are born with an infinite knowledge of wine and we all have to start somewhere. I think of myself as one of the kings when it comes to finding quality/low budget wines. I enjoy visiting the ,,vine shops here in Tulsa and I have found some really cool bottles ofvino. Check these out! for those who like ABC white wines (anything but Chardonnay). Pepperwood Grove Viognier This is one ofmy favorites. The next step up for this grape by other vineyards is about 2 or 3 times the price and that doesn’t mean that they will taste any better. Pepperwood Grove Riesling This is a new-comer to the P G stable. This label just recently started distributing this varietal. Again, a true value. ’ ¯ Schlink Haus ( Germany ) Riesting: Kabinet A fruit forward wine/not too sweet. ~he reds Terrazas (Argentina) Malbec, Cabernet The wines from this vineyard always seem to be well balanced and fruit fo~vard. A Mano ( Italy ) Primitivo Thought to have been of the Zinfandel lineage and every vintage consistently rates very highly. Black Opal ( Australia ) Cab/Merlot This label has come down in price recently and all the verietals they produce are not only a good bargain but the taste is right in the pocket. Pilar Box White This wine is a mixture of 3 grape varietals Chardonnay, Sauvignon Blanc and Verdelho. Give this one a try, you’ll be pleasantly surprised at the flavor. Marquis de la Tour/Sparkling wine France A truly great find/good balance of fruit forwardness & bubbles. As I always suggest, go and visit your local wine shop. See your retail specialist and ask questions. If you’re so inclined, share some bottles with friends over dinner! Bon Appetit! Cline Cellars Red Truck This vineyard is better ka~own for bigger budget wines and this one is a good sipping wine to share at social gatherings and the like. Bitch Grenache ( Australia ) This is a newbie in this market from the land down under. The Aussies seem to do quite well with this grape. This one is highly rated. Good sipping wine/not just with food. Pepperwood Grove Old Vine Zinfandel This, like nearly all of the wines under this label, gives you real big bang for the buck because these verticals so closely resemble the flavor and body of more expensive wines without tasting as low in quality as they’re priced. The old vine Zin is quite exceptional and will hold up strongly next to other Zin’s 2 or 3 times the money. Marchesi Di Barolo Barbera D’alba This is a new discovery for me. It comes highly recommended by a well know local retail wine buyer. I visited this wine-growing region in Italy. The wines from this part of the world are quite good. This grape not only pairs well xvith foods but after it’s been open for a while, it seems to take on a rich more flavorful state. ¯he whites Fazi Battaglia Verdicchio This wine from one of Italy’s oldest wine-making families is quite a find. The grape is found only in this part of the world and it’s great Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Call STAR ADVERT~SING today. the -~TA~ www.ozarksstar.com -TIRAMISUIngredients: 6 Egg Yolks 6 ounces Sugar 2 Tsp. Vanilla Extract 8 ounces Mascarpone Cheese 1 Cup Manufacturing Cream 2 Cups Strong Expresso Coffee 2 Cup Packages of Lady Fingers 2 Tsp. Cocoa Powder For Dusting In a mixing bowl, add yolks, sugar and vanilla. Beat until foaming. Add mascarpone and beat until creamy and smooth. Whip cream to soft peaks. Carefully fold whipped cream into egg yolk mixture. Cover and refrigerate for 10 to 15 minutes. Place espresso in shallow bowl and quickly dip lady fingers into espresso. Place lady fingers on towel lined baking sheets to absorb excess espresso. Using individual molds or a 3 inch deep baking dish (for self-serve dessert buffets) spread a layer of cream mixture on the bottom of mold, then the espresso dipped lady fingers. Repeat this until you reach top of the mold making sure you smooth cream mixture with a spatula. Refrigerate for 2 hours. Dust with cocoa powder just before serving. Serve with vanilla or chocolate sauce. More on ChefCelestin6 Drago and DRAGO pag, 1.9. Her ~ Jus~ surpasses expectations." This j alike since 1991, winning: Owner Cele,~tino Drago, top 5 Italian restaurams in by Drago and executed by the late. Brenr Saville, Drago radiates Understated, casual elegance. menu mi tL~ven is a multi that Southern California has to offer. artist behind Deer Raven. "Ihey are located at 2628 \Vitshire Blvd. in Santa fornia, %eir telephone number for reservations is 310-828q585. "Iheir hours are/£~londav thru Friday 11:30 Ab! to 3 PM for lunc 5:30 PM m 11:00 PM ~or dinner ai~d Sunday, 5:30 PM to 10:00 PM. 2628 Wilshire Blvd. com artwork. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR One ofthe most exciting and colo~l ways to experience North-CentralNew Mexico is by taking a hot-air balloon ride over the Rio Grande. (Photo byAndrew Collins) MARCH 2007 By Andrew Collins People often tell me they haven’t gone on a vacation in the past six months or year - sometimes longer - because they can’t afford to travel. This is especially true of singles, who anticipate higher costs without a partner to share expenses. True enough, there are a number of cities out there with prohibitively high hotel rates. But there are also quite a few lively and enchanting gay-popular destinations that can be enjoyed on a relatively tight budget, especially if you visit during slower times of the year. Here’s a rundown of 10 terrific destinations for budget-minded gay travelers. The first five are ideally suited for couples; the next five are great choices if you’re unattached. Traveling with your mate? Provincetown, Massachusetts Although Provincetown is a great place to meet singles during the busy and pricey summer high season, the rest of the year is perfect for couples seeking romance. And because prices fall off significantly after Labor Day and even more dramatically in winter, it’s a destination that can work for almost any budget. After the summer crowds have subsided, Provincetown is a quiet and low-keyed retreat. Its remote location, seemingly at the end of the earth, imbues this scenic beach town with an air of seclusion. It can be awfully romantic here in the fall, or even winter, when you’re cozied up in a quiet inn. Even the most luxurious guesthouses often drop their off-season rates to well below $100 nightly. Russian River, California Gay residents of San Francisco and the Bay Area have long favored this snug, woodsy riverresort area in western Sonoma County, midway between the fabled Wine Country and the rugged Pacific Coast. Accommodations tend to be rustic, which fits xvith the region’s verdant setting, and restaurants favor simpler and less expensive fare than what you’ll find in the swankier eastern reaches of Sonoma County, where most of the areas wineries are located. Ifyou and your honey love wine-tasting, hiking, and canoeing together, the Russian River is ideal. Salt Spring Island, British Columbia Salt Spring Island is a stunning, hilly little gem off the east coast of Vancouver Island, ~vithin an afternoon’s combined ferry/car trip from the cities ofVancouver, Victoria, and Seattle. There has long been a strong lesbian and - and to a somewhat lesser degree - gay male presence on this island of artist studios, great beaches, and picturesque mountain-biking and kayaking. Several B&Bs here are either gay-owned or quite queer-friendly, and it’s very easy to find a room for under $100. North-Central New Mexico North-Central New Mexico makes for the perfect weeklong romantic adventure. You can divide your time among a tiny, alluring village (Tats), a midsize city with some fun places to dance and eat out (Albuquerque), and a hybrid of the two (Santa Fe) - it takes about 60 minutes to drive between Santa Fe and Albuquerque, and 90 minutes between Santa Fe and Taos. Santa Fe is the priciest of the three communities, so you might want to base your overnight operations primarily in Albuquerque and Taos, which each have myriad accommodations under $100 nightly, from gay-friendly B&Bs to funky retro-hip motels. Even in Santa Fe, however, you can find some appealing places to stay that won’t cost you an arm and a leg. There are also scenic campgrounds set around the area and, wherever you awaken, it’ll be to views of the region’s spectacular Sangre de Cristo and Sandia mountains. Although plenty of fancy upscale restaurants have opened in these parts in recent years, it’s still easy to eat cheaply at local - and often excellent - hangouts serving burgers and blue-corn enchiladas. Etrreka Springs, Arkansas A curious hilltop village in the heart of Arkansas’ Ozark Mountains, Eureka Springs is a favorite getaway of both conservative 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Christians and gay people. How these two seemingly at-odds factions vacation together So peacefully is anybody’s guess, but they do. It helps that most of the queer folk tend to stay in the historic, renovated, and downright bargain-priced Victorian inns closer to the center of town, while religious groups favor the properties on the main roads leading in and out of the village. The downtown has blossomed in recent years with a growing number of antiques shops and galleries, and the restaurant scene is sophisticated while still providing great value. Despite the many gay-owned businesses here, this isn’t a nightlife mecca. Eureka Springs is definitely BYOB - bring your own bedmate. Single and looking? Chicago, Illinois Vibrant and friendly low-attitude bars and clubs and a slew of cheap but delicious dining destinations entice impecunious gay travelers to the nation’s third-largest city, a world-class destination by aW measure. Beaches, lakeshore parks, and funky budget-friendly neighborhoods like \Vicker Park, Bucktown, and Andersonville add to the lure of this easy-on-the-pocket city. Downtown business-oriented hotels can be costly, but you’ll find a handful of small, reasonably priced motels, hotels, and inns to the north, in or near the city’s gaypopular Lakeview neighborhood. Chicago’s glorious skyline is free to admire. To see even more, the Chicago Transit Authority (www. transitchicago.com) visitor passes provide unlimited CTA transportation for one to five days, allowing you to save your dollars for more meaningful expenses. Austin, Texas Queer Austin folks like to say that they live in the "un-Texas" Texas, a land of green rolling hills, beautiful lakes and rivers, a progressive populace, and an urbane alternative arts and music scene. As Austin has boomed with dot-comers and entrepreneurs in recent years, its costs have risen, but it’s still a good value, especially when it comes to dining out - Austin has scads of superb restaurants in all price categories. The bar scene is compact and the crowds friendly, and the presence of the University ofTexas adds a youthful edge. There’s a great gay swimming and sunning hole, Hippie Hollow, just west of the city - a free and friendly spot to cruise and make new friends. Pordand, Oregon Like Austin, funky Portland has received plenty of attention and an influx of newcomers in recent years, but it’s still a scaled-down, user-friendly city that offers much of the culture, attitude, and excitement of Seattle and San Francisco at a fraction of the price. The midsize metropolis sits on the pretty Willamette River. Foodies recognize it as one ofAmerica’s great gourmet bargains, and fans of historic hotels and inns appreciate the reasonable rates offered at several excellent properties within walking distance of the gay bars along Stark Street. The feminist scene here is one ofAmerica’s most pronounced, making this a potentially excellent vacation spot if you’re a single lesbian hoping to find a like-minded soul. Montreal, Quebec For U.S. travelers, Canada is less of a bargain than it was five years ago, as the Canadian dollar has gained considerable strength against U.S. currency. Still, Montreal can be a steal, with numerous gay-friendly hotels and inns charging as little as $50 or $60 per night. This fun-loving city is a great destination for bar-hoppers - the singles scene is frisky and sexy, and sultry gay saunas dot the landscape, appealing to guys of all ages and tastes. The city also has dozens of affordable cafes and coffeehouses, many of them in the hip Gay Village. Sacramento, California California’s underrated capital is, to be frank, a dark-horse candidate as one of the nation’s top gay singles destinations, but keep an open mind. The city is within a two-hour drive of much pricier places, including San Francisco, Lake Tahoe, and the Napa-Sonoma Wine Country, and yet here you can easily find rooms for under $100 nightly. Sacramento boasts a vibrant (if not particularly conspicuous) gay community that is remarkably friendly and diverse in age - it’s a pretty easy place to meet the locals. The dining scene here is excellent, and accommodations range from the gay-owned and upscale Inn at Parkside and Hartley House Inn to a slew of cheap and comfortable chain motels right in the center of the city, within walking distance of the several fun bars, coffeehouses, and restaurants. www.ozarksstar.com the ,STAR 21 MARCH 2007 Are We There Yet? By the time we actually get to vote for our next president, the majority of,aanericans may feel like little children in the back seat of the c~ir asking Mommy and Daddy, "Are we there yet?" The furious nature in which politicos from both sides of the aisle are jockeying, posturing, and pontificating is sure to bring a whiplash effect to the voters - in the long run, the 2008 presidential election will just be a pain in the neck, and we’ll vote for the candidate who gives us the best political pain killers. But who will those two final candidates be? Do we, as a high-voter turnout community, have a real chance to impact the nominee of the Democratic Party? After all, the overwhelming majority of us vote that way. Well, if you live in the states where the Democratic primaries are held in January and February of 2008, then yes - your votes will count toward the Democrats’ pick. As the political calendar shapes up, it seems that 20 Democratic caucuses and primaries will almost definitely be held by February 28, 2008, ~vith a majority taking place on what us political junkies call "Super Tuesday" - February 5. The new wrinkle in this schedule is that powerhouse states such as California, Florida, and New Jersey are toying with the idea of moving up their primaries to the first Tuesday in Februar); as ~vell. (As of press time, it looked like California’s bill to move its primary date was on the fast track to Arnold’s desk for signature.) That’s a big enough chunk of votes to swing a primary race. Bajko says the primary candidates in states with large numbers ofLGBT voters will have to address issues such as repealing "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell," gay adoptions, and civil unions vs. marriage. It’s during the primaries that the proverbial wheat ~vill be separated from the chaf~: None of the three leading candidates support same-sex marriage. It’s how they handle the issue and the honesty with which they speak that will sway us. For some reason, Tim Russert, the moderator of NBC’s Meet the Press, has been routinely asking presidential aspirants how they feel about same-sex marriage. When John Edwards appeared, he was honest about his struggle. He didn’t just reel off the standard pablum about civil unions. He spoke honestly about his Southern Baptist roots, but also his desire to be fair to all. I could respect that. Hillary’s position on our unions is "evolving" - as strategic a political answer as they come - but she, as well as the rest of the Democratic gang, oppose a federal amendment to ban same-sex marriage, and support the federal Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) and hate-crimes legislation. Most of them also want to repeal "Don"t Ask, Don’t Tell." Try as I might, I can’t find a thing about Obama’s position on this. But he has made one viewpoint abundantly clear - living free from discrimination is a human right, but being able to marry whomever you want is not. It’s a shame Obama can’t make the connection between our right to love and his parents’. His father was from Kenya, his mother a white woman from Kansas. In a pre-Loving v. Virginia United States (the 1967 Supreme Court case that struck down bans on mixed-race marriage), their marriage was illegal in many states across the land. If that’s the case, everything ~vill be over but the shouting - whoever comes out the victor on Super Tuesday 2008 will be the Democratic nominee. What I’ve been wondering about is the differences on our issues among all the Democratic candidates. The actual number of candidates is so fluid that I won’t even venture a guess. But we do know who the main contenders are - U.S. Senators Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.) and Barack Obama (ILL) and former U.S. Senator John Edwards (N.C.). Following them are two more U.S. senators, Joe Biden (Del.) and Christopher Dodd (Conn.); two governors, Bill Richardson (N.M.) and Tom Vilsack (Iowa); one retired U.S. army general, Wesley Clark; a lone member of the House of Representatives, Dennis Kucinich (Ohio); and one African-American preacher, Al Sharpton. With 21 months to go before we actually get to vote, we’re going to see and hear a lot more hyperbole and posturing. I only hope that "Are we there yet?" doesn’t turn into "Been there, done that" - leaving many of us too bored to actually get out and vote. EDITOR’S NOTE: In her next installment, Libby Post will look at the Republican presidential hopefuls. Most of them have campaign websites. All but Clinton’s detail their positions on the major issues, but none speak specifically about LGBT concerns. Honestly, that’s not too surprising. The general election is going to won or lost on Iraq, health care, the economy, and quite possibly global warming. However, the primaries in some states may well be won or lost on our issues, based on how big of a voter turn-out we can provide. According to an article by Matthew Bajko in San Francisco’s Bay Area Reporter, California’s electorate is 10 to 11 percent LGBT. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com 0p÷ a ms Ye th Preiect addresses the r eeds of Tu sa’s homeless youth, by Tim Gillean Photo by Chaz: Youth groz~ at T~dsa’s Openarms Youth Project. event. "While there, a young man walked in stating that he "was looking for his friends, he lingered, even a~er realizing they were not there. Over the next hour as the discussion continued, while we were doing our work, he revealed that he was homeless and someone had told him that Openarms could help. He took a chance that someone would be there and came by. His "ChristiaN’ mother had kicked him out because he is Gay. Our work continues. LGBT Homeless from page-5 Openarms has been addressing the needs of homeless youth in the Tulsa area for five years. By offering a safe haven for GLBTQyouth, and in fact all youth ages 14-21, Openarms has become the resource in Tulsa for these youth. A transitional living program has been the hope and dream of the Openarms board for many years. During the fours years that Openarms has been in operation, this past summer was the busiest period for youth homelessness. Within a two week period last summer Openarms was assisting six youth who had come to the youth center for help. To have that many homeless youth at one time is very unusual and something that the volunteers at Openarms hope can be prevented by early intervention. Through a net~vork of volunteers and networking with other agencies all of the youth were placed in a private home or public facility where their needs could be addressed without the extra feeling of desperation that homelessness brings. Openarms experience shows that most of the public facilities in Tulsa are not really prepared to address the issues that a homeless teen may face, and even less capable of dealing with a GLBT youth who might turn up at their facilities. Many of the shelters in Tulsa where assistance is available require the person to attend some type of religious ceremony to continue to access service. These services can be particularly terrifying to a youth who was just kicked out of their home because their parents won’t accept their sexuality based on their own religious biases. By providing a safe space where these youth are accepted for who they are, just as they are, Openarms is able to connect with them and find what their most pressing needs are. Openarms then begins to address those needs and help the youth develop in to a fully participating citizen. Openarms can provide education assistance, job assistance, food, housing and counseling for these youth. Most important of all it is a place ~vhere they can be with people who are like themselves working towards the same goals. All youth have the desire to succeed if provided with the necessary tools to do so and an understanding adult to help mentor them into their full potential. While Openarms continues to seek funding for a transitional living program, the support of the local community through unrestricted giving is the most effective way to help. Openarms Youth Project Inc. may be contacted at 918-838-7104 or through their website at www.openarmsproject.org. We are always glad to give tours of the facility located at 2015 South Lakewood, please call for an appointment or times of operation. One hour after writing this article for the Star, we went to the youth center to work on some lighting changes and furniture rearrangement for the upcoming Saturday evening While there is clearly more that can be .done at the grassroots level, in the end it is not enough to beat this epidemic without additional funding and support at the federal level. The president’s budget was released last month and Congress will begin work on the FY2008 budget and appropriations bills. The Task Force is recommending $140 million in FY2008 for the RHMCPA, a significant increase over its current $103 million allocation but Congress needs to do more. When the law is reauthorized in 2008 it needs to specifically address the needs of LGBT homeless youth and ensure that all homeless youth services organizations receiving federal funds are trained and capable of providing safe and culturally competent services to their LGBT clients. It is important that our allies in Congress insist that this pivotal piece of legislation accurately acknowledges and addresses the reality of youth homelessness in America -- nationwide, LGBT youth are grossly overrepresented in a system ill-equipped to meet their needs, and that simply must change. Jason Cianciotto is the research director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute. wwvv.ozarksstar.corn The STAR 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR, 25 Salutations and welcome once more to sluts "R" us, err something like that. This month Uncle Mikey recovers from a love affair of epic proportions. I mean whe~a; that man was just too much. It was like being at the DQand trying to take that extra dip, knowing your body, just won’t handle it. I mean; it just was not right. While appealing, some mountains just are not meant to be climbed. Sadly, I had to cut that stallion loose, sending him back into the ~vild. I hope he does not do any damage; talk about putting your eye out. I bet the censors are just on the edge of their seats. I guess, I do sound a little like a prom date gone bad. That man of substantial lovin’ made more of an impression than I realized. Kittens, I tried, really I did. You just can’t get a twelve in a size ten; I don’t care hmv you work it. Dear Uncle Mikey, At the college I attend, I have met, well kind of met, this man. He is in some of my classes and all I can say is he is fine. He makes me perk up every time I see him. I have seen him with several females, assuming that he is straight. To tell you the truth that just makes the attraction stronger. I want him only for a short time. These are my, college years, I’m supposed to experiment. So, should I just get him drunk so he can enjoy my talents? I really xvant this guy, so bad I have been ignoring the guys who would gladly enjoy my company. What should I do? Frat-boy-lecious A.K.A. butter, you know what you want, and I would even say, you have already greased the kegger nozzles, awaiting your fiat boy knight. Uncle cautions however, as though some straight wayward boys may let you play, some may not. Oh’ who are we kidding, order him a pizza and seal the deal. A straight college boy is like a walking drive through; you can have it your way, if there is a good supply of beer and pizza. That’s Amour’ Smooches-Michael errands, ect. I do not want to be one of those jealous types, questioning every move. I also do not want to be living with someone else who is living with everybody. Know what I mean? \~q~at would you do? Suspecting in Ohio Dearest Suspecting, Kitten, I te!l this repeatedly. If they are not getting it at home, they are getting it some~vhere. Via, liaison, hand-to-hand combat, somewhere, a man is a man after all. Secondly, if you feel something is amiss than more likely than not, there is. I would sit your man down and confront him with you feelings, prepared to hear whatever it is awaiting for you. Communication can be taken for granted after being with someone for a while, though never does the importance change in any relationship. He may be wondering why you two are not doing the bunny mambo across the front lawn anymore. Take it a step at a time, as anything and anyone xvorth having is worth working for. Smooches-Mikey Dear Mikey, Where did your site go? I really enjoyed it and miss going there every week. A fan of Mikey’s Kitten, You have touched me; moreovm; I am willing to touch back. Kitten, The world is not ready for an entire corner of Mikey, lets break them in slowly shall we? Smooches- Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, My friends all give me a hard time telling me that I am stuck in the eighties. While; this is a joke to some, it is a way of life for me. I belong to that time, style, and music. It was a time that meant something more than found in the hollow music and style of today. Bring back the eighties! Mrs.. Garret’s boy Dearest Kitten, Gimme-a-break! A virgin you are not, while time has turned and the beat goes on. You must accept the, facts of life, if you really want to enjoy the good-times. This is a serious condition even if spoken through careless whispers. Hanging on to the past can only prevent you from seeing the new and exciting times of today. You may be missing opportunity if you are looking behind you. If you want to hear anyone say, I want your sex, than you must nip it in the bud so to speak. Like a prayer, I send you good thoughts. Let go and let Cher! ...Smooches-Mikey Get with it, don’t you wish your Gurl was Hot like me? Yes, Kittens, Uncle Mikey is timeless, whilst my flame shall lead yet another generations ofyoung queers everywhere. Well Kittens, I guess that is all the time for this month. Until next, time. Smooches-Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I think my boyfriend of ten years has been seeing someone on the side. I have no real proof per say, just a nagging feeling in my gut. Sex has become strained, and I figured it was just because we had become so routine in our ways. 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CHAPMAN HALL: Les Folies Russes 7pm THURSDAY 9 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wt RachaeI Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro FI~JDAY March 30 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro SAT ~ch 31[ THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet l am-3:30am After Dark is a free service ro our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser m inform the STAR in www.ozarksstar.com writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accurac): the STAR 27 "Clean house, Virgo!" The Saturn-Neptune opposition, which inflates everyone’s sense of doom and despair, is getting a break as Jupiter offers liberating insights. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Stuck in the same old routine with your friends? You could suggest something new and different. Better yet, just go ahead and try out whatever interests you. Let them tag along or not. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Domestic duties and uncertainty at work have you in a crazy, confusing tug-of-war. Even if you can’t really escape your problems, a diversion - preferably a crazy, wildly erotic adventure - will help clear the mind and give you a creative perspective. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Listen to arguments; only say enough to draw out new opinions. Trying to win debates will only backfire; getting n.ew information and perspectives will prove immensely enriching, not just intellectually, but also to your relationship. CANCER (June 2t - July 22): It’s not unusual for erotic ideals to be at odds with practical concerns, but you’re feeling that tension acutely now. Attending to your own health or seeking opportunities at work may seem a diversion from that, but at least you’ll find some resolution to the conflict there. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Uncertainty about your partnership can make you cranky and controlling, which only makes things worse. Look for new ways to play together. A trip abroad would be ideal, but on such short notice a foreign film, festival, or art show is probably more feasible. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Home is rarely a safe haven from illness and accidents. But cleaning house, purging clutter, and organizing what’s left will make it safer. Getting family to help, or turning up old family treasures, will offer revelations. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Discuss political or social strategies with close friends, or better yet, a sibling. On your own, you’re too likely to make awkward gaffes. Lady Luck seems to be against you now, but you’ll score big in the larger game for being a good sport. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Hidden treasure in your home? Or some enriching family lore from your mother? 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CAF Host OHahoma Summit 2007 OkJahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart from District 2, a practicing public homophobe, was formally arraigned earlier this month. 4© PAST OUT The murder of gay sailor Allen Schindler in October 1992 contributed to a national debate about GLBT people in the military that remains unresolved to this day. Gay Travelers "Indianapolis, Indiana Out of Town " Denver, Colorado" ~ D~V~N$~ITY Wl~l~l~ND Good, clean, Christian fun...is not the way to describe the "Gayco" comedy show that took the stage of Eureka Springs’ Auditorium during the spring Diversity xXi’eekend. GLBT Summit..............5 Let’s Rodeo ...............6 James Nimo .............. 11 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Past Out.................. 14 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds................ 31 Let’s Rodeo Oklahoma - page 6 Mr, C~ntinental 2006 Simba R. Hal! at Club Majestic Tulsa - page 15 DISTRIBUTION: Fine Dining at Hotel Bel Air - page 17 )KLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ¢ ARRON ALLIANCE FOUNDAo T ON (CAF) HO$1" OKLAHOMA LGBT LEADERSHIP 2007 By Jeanne Flanigan Photo:Josh Hammers, Paul 7horn?son male co-chair Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, Mike McLain u~ith Hardnezvs Online. Community Partners were OKC Community Foundation, Respect Diversity Foundation, Herland Sister Resources, Winds House, P-FLAG OKC and Norman, North Care Mental Health Center, Cathedral of Hope, Progressive Alliance, DBA Metro, Central Oklahoma Prime Timers, Red Rock Behavioral Health Services, Hard News Online, OKC Pride, Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, Oklahomans for Equality, OSU Sexual Orientation Diversity Association (SODA), OCU Gay and Lesbian Law Student Association, Log Cabin Republicans of Oklahoma, Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, OKC Chrysalis Education Affirmation Network, ACLU of Oklahoma, AIDS Walk OKC, Heartstrong, the Trevor Project, Central Oklahoma Human Rights Alliance, and OU GLBT & Friends. For more information contact the Cimarron Alliance Foundation, website www.cimarronalliance.org, e mail RCO@lawokc.com or telephone (405) 495 9300. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Cimarron Alliance Foundation (CAF) hosted the Oklahoma LGBT Leadership Summit at the beautiful Ron Norick Downtown Library Saturday, April 14 with over 140 attending representing 33 organizations. The conference featured local presenters in the areas of politics, education, and the issues of the LGBT community, women, seniors, Pride events, religion, health and organizational processes and development in 18 breakout sessions. CAF was able to tackle this huge project with the help of 27 Community Partners and a National Sponsor, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). Breakfast and lunch were served, allowing participants an opportunity to meet and greet others and net-work with other organizations. Several people from Tulsa attended, sharing with OKC their success with the recent opening of their Dennis R. Nell Equality Center and other projects. There were attendees from other places as well, as far axvay as Tennessee and Wyoming. Official greetings were extended from Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, OKC City Council members Sam Bowman and Ann Simank, State Senators Connie Johnson & Andrew Rice, and Oklahoma State Representative Al McAffrey. CAF President Richard Ogden and DBA (Diversity Business Association) President Monty Milburn facilitated the opening and closing sessions, geared to open discussion and responses to the education presented. A survey was gathered to assess the conference and to guide planning to make the next one even more responsive to community needs and desires. Activists Launch Statewide LG Advocacy By Laura Belmonte TULSA, OK__On March 24-25th, activists from across Oklahoma gathered at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to formulate plans for statewide LGBT advocacy efforts. Sponsored by Oklahomans for Equality, the Creation Weekend meetings were facilitated by Toni Broaddus, Executive Director of the Equality Federation, Mickey Maclntyre of Real Change Partners, and Jeremy Pittman, Deputy National Field Director for the Human Rights Campaign. The Gill Foundation provided financial support. Representatives from several organizations including the Cimarron Alliance, H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic, OSU’s SODA (Sexual Orientation Diversity Association), Tulsa C.A.R.E.S., and RAIN attended. Throughout the meetings activists discussed their hopes and expectations of statewide LGBT organizing. They identified longrange political goals including non-discrimination in housing and employment, relationship recognition, safe schools, hospital visitation rights for same-sex partners, and hate crimes laws that include sexual orientation and gender expression. They also discussed possible strategies for statewide coalition-building, lobbying, voter registration and education, and electing LGBT and LGBT-friendly public officials throughout Oklahoma. A steering committee to direct these efforts is currently being formed. Interested organizations and activists are urged to participate and can contact Laura Belmonte, president of Oklahomans for Equality, at center@okeq.org for more information. For complete video coverage of Creation Weekend, see http://okgnn.net/ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 DBAT Hosts First Business After Hours by Suzan Hartman TULSA, OK__Business is built on relationships and what better time to start developing those relationships than during Tulsa Pride 2007! The Diversity Business Association ofTulsa, a program of Oklahomans for Equality, will host their first Business After Hours event on Thursday, June 7 from 7:00 to 9:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Business After Hours offers excellent networking opportunities for area glbt business owners and professionals. All members of the business community are invited to attend and refreshments will be provided. There is no cost so join us at this wonderful social gettogether and make new contacts or to get reacquainted xvith former contacts. DBAT provides a forum to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networking, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. We’re the heart of LGBT networking and business growth. We support. We lead. We promote professional development, business diversity and personal enrichment - so get involved today! For more information contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@cox.net or 918- 274-1699. GET READY [:OR THE 22nd ANNUAL GREAT PLAINS RODEO By Greg Steele OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__One of the longest running and largest of Gay Rodeo Organizations in the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA) system, Oklahoma’s Great Plains Rodeo will kick offa fun filled weekend May 25 through May 27th 2007. The event will be held in Oklahoma City at State Fair Park, 333 Gordon Cooper Blvd. Registration will be Friday 6pm to 9pm at State Fair Park Barn 3. Rodeo performance’s will begin Saturday morning 8am with the Grand Entry around noon. The event will wind down with the awards ceremony 8pm in Barn 3. Over $10,000 in cash and prizes will be awarded. The 2007 Rodeo has added money for Bull Riding, Bronc Riding, Steer Riding, Calf Roping on Foot, Breakaway Roping, Team Roping, Barrels, Poles and Flags will only be awarded to the top three place winners for combined scores Saturday and Sunday. Awards will also include Saddles for Top Men and Women Roping and Speed Events. The host hotel is Hollywood H~tel and Suites, 3535 NW 39th OKC, OK 73112 405-947-2351. Events Schedule .........Continued page-23 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 8 the STAR ww~.ozarksstar.com Tulsa Pride United for Equality June 2 - Pride Festival Saturday June 9th at Veteran’s Park - 18th & Main in Downtown Tulsa 11:00 AM -5:00 PM Over 15,000 expected to attend! Parade begins 10:00 AM - 15th & Utica to LGBT Pride Festival- Veterans Park presented by oklahomans for equality (OkEq) 621 E 4th Street* Tulsa, OK lent Outdoor Living Mitchell Savage Smith Hid-(:entury Nodern Gem Home of Rex Ball and Stephen Edwards Iplewood Secret ~3arden Home o1: Harcy Smitl~ Welcl~ wwN.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 LoPA~GE by Hr. Continental 2006 S~MBA HALL & Special gues~: SANTANA & TRIXIE DELUXXE CAYNE wihh Zsane’ Braxton, Ebony Hall, Krystal DeKanter, Bobby Paige !21 to dria~k www.OKContinental.com No Video Recording "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST prope~ies are our PEOPLU’ 4301 NW fi3rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 10 the STAR 405.840.2t06 www. c21 goldcastle.com w~v,ozarksstar.com Commissioner Brent Rinehart’s a Piece of.olToast, (his future, that is) By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma County Commissioner Brent Rinehart from District 2, a practicing public homophobe, was formally arraigned earlier this month for serious Oklahoma campaign law violations (ten by my count) ranging from perjury and filing false campaign reports to accepting illegal contributions from third parties and conspiracy against the state during his campaign in 2004. According to Attorney-General Drew Edmondsoffs office Rinehart, and his campaign manager Tim Pope (Pope, a former state legislator who carried a gun in his boot on to the floor of the House because he said gay, were after him, he was also found guilty of illegal campaign telemarketing in March for calls directed against Commissioner Jim Roth) are charged in Oklahoma Count), District Court with one count of conspiracy against the state, two counts of money laundering and three counts of knowingly accepting a contribution to a political candidate through an intermediary or conduit with unlawful intent. Additionally, Rinehart faces four counts of perjury. Run-of-the-mill political shenanigans you might yawn, but stay with me. If you’re LGBT or an ally, you know that Mr.. Rinehart, only just past the half-way mark in his first term, is finally getting his comeuppance as a public figure. From day one of his term he has ragged on Commissioner Jim Roth, District 1, for advancing what Rinehart thinks is the much talked about but seldom seen, "gay agenda". Why does Rinehart think he’s had a look at the "gay agenda"? I haven’t seen it and I’ve paid lots of dues in time and money. Does Rinehart know somebody I don’t? Does he have a secret handshake? He seems to walk and talk in the normal way. The only gay agenda I’ve seen is my own: to be treated under law in the same way as any other tax-paying citizen, irrespective ofmy sexual orientation, and according to my own observance of existing law. I’m paying the same fare as a straight man; I expect the same first-class ticket. In January 2005 Rinehart was one of 3 on the Oklahoma County, Budget Board (al! 8 county elected officials) who voted to rescind Oklahoma County’s policy of non discrimination for County employees that incudes sexual orientation. (The repeal efforts failed) There have been numerous articles in the Oklahoma City media about Rinehart being unable to work effectively with the other OK Count), officeholders. All the County elected officials issued a group letter the same day, as Rinehart’s arraignment in which they promised to maintain character and integrity in the face of these serious allegations of misconduct by Rinehart. In his defense, Mr.. Rinehart has spoken of a personal vendetta being directed against him by the Attorney-General and the "good ’ole boy" system he claims is responsible for his predicament. At a press conference Rinehart (Phonto right) said, "I will continue to serve the public despite the good old boy demands that I abandon public office. I look forward to my day in court where the facts ~vill reveal that I am innocent of the politically motivated charges made by Drew Edmondson." Does the "good ’ole boy" system include the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigation which did the ground work for the indictments? Does it also include the OK County District Attorney David Prater who, on April 11, 2007, made the legal determination that there is no current law which can remove Rinehart from office under only allegations of wrongdoing Prater concluded that conviction must first be found in court concluded DA Prater. It’s so easy to tease Rinehart as he leaves himself so wide open, and his delusions are indeed grand. In an interview with TV-4 he said (and I paraphrase) "the good ’ole boys want to get me, want to get me, right now, want to get me, take me down, because they know one day I’ll be governor." These words are nearly verbatim, repetitions included. His mantra of referring to the "good ’ole boys" so often makes me think no one played with him as a child. He still feels like an outsider. He prides himself on his role as a maverick yet he has nothing constructive to show for it. He never learned to socialize and he’s carrying this grudge even now as he digs his hole of seclusion ever deeper. Who would have thought he wanted to be governor? Would such a mark of victory expunge the feelings of exclusion from his psyche? Does he need something bigger than a county commissioner’s office to assuage his private demons? Personally, I can hardly wait for Rinehart’s days in judicial court as well as the court of public opinion. Even should he be found not guilt), I doubt if the voters of District 2 will want to continue Rinehart’s employment for another term as commissioner. Challengers from all political viewpoints now have a good lead time to establishing themselves with the voters of District 2. \Vho wants stale toast to represent them at the County office? www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Eureka Diversity Rains Supreme by Joey De EUREKa, SPRINGS, AR~IfDisney Land is the happiest place on earth, Eureka Springs, Arkansas, must be a close second. Nesded in the Ozarks, an hour away from Branson, MO, Eureka has made its name as a tourist destination with its eclectic array of nick-nack shops, historical architecture and southern hospitality. The community’s dozen-plus annual festivals help to attract a diverse crowd of visitors from across the country, including the ’iGaylien beings" who landed there from Apr. 13 - 15. Going a step further than hand holding, organizers arranged a public display of affection in the town’s Basin Park, during which a young lesbian proposed to her partner. As a living memorial to a lost friend of one Diversity Pride Committee member, the weekend featured a "Recovery in Pride" forum hosted by Mr. Marty Perry, the CEO of The Pride Institute. Followed by a self-help style meeting, the forum allowed participants to discuss how their sexuality may have influenced substance abuse or support healthy ways for them to overcome it. evening when the younger crowd to finally show it’s face. Although inhibited by a lack of sunshine, the 2007 Eureka Springs Diversity Pride Celebration followed through with a promise made to all of its visitors. All beings were welcome. Coinciding on the same weekend with Eureka’s annual UFO convention (yes, you read right), the Spring Diversity celebra- For tion welcomed beings of all.types to inhabit visithe streets of the quiet town. Although tots attendance was significantly reduced due who to weather through out the region, visitors did not came from as far away as Ohio to explore the streets of Eureka Springs. As laid back as the town itself, Diversity Pride offered a mix of events designed to appeal to couples who are past the up-allnight party phase of their life and to those who still don’t go down until the sun comes up (take it as you will). Many of the events showcased the town itself, spotlighting the forty five gay owned restaurants, dubs and businesses. Locals happily hosted tours of the area, diversity meals and spiritual events for the mostly 28-35 crowd who braved the rain, snow and ice. Advertised as a "Diversity Pride" festival, the weekend was more about embracing diversity than it was celebrating pride. With no major central event such as an all day picnic or parade, visitors were more integrated through out the community then at most Prides, where celebrants flock to one location. Although there was a visible show of pride in rainbow feathered boas and flags, the refreshing attraction of the weekend was its lack of spectacle. "It’s nice to be able to come to a town where you feel like you’re the ’norm’" expressed one gaylian visiting from St. Louis. "It’s refreshing to see people walking around holding their partner’s hand on the street." 12 the STAR participate in organized events, the shops of Eureka opened their doors, with many offering a "family discount." leries, jewelers and a puppet shop welcomed were browsing, buying and in some cases trying to escape the rain. Highlighting the weekend for visitors of all ages ~vas the return appearance of Chicago’s "Gayco" show, who offered two performances in the town’s historic "Auditorium." The group, who specializes in improvisational comedy offered a master’s workshop for visitors and even posed for pictures with gaylians after their show. For those who grew tired of shopping (or the endless up-hill walking) the bars of Eureka provided an impressive array of entertainment choices for a town its size. Whether visiting Henri’s, Jack’s Place or Chelsea’s for live music, Karaokeing with "Tiny" at Uncle Tuckers; or dancing the night away at The Tiki Torch, the liquor flowed and the good times rolled into the De Good, clean, ..is not way to describe "Gayco" comedy the of Eureka Auditoduring the i Diversity Following the success of the ’ appearance last year, Organizers of diversity weekend brought the troupe back to tackle pressing issues in the gay world such as marriage, don’t ask don’t tell, adoption and coming out. With a well articulated mix of low and high brow humor, the seven Gayco players entertained audiences with their unique blend of improvisational and sketch comedy. Originating as a gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender outreach project of the legendary Second City Comedy Club in Chicago, Gayco has been entertaining communities across the nation for almost eleven years. "Second City saw us as a one maybe two show outreach to the GLBT community," says Andy Eninger, one of the group’s founders. According to the performer, although there is no formal relationship between the two groups, they maintain a close working friendship. "We outgrew them, and they xvanted us to spin off and do our own thing, but they still watch us closely." Continued page-26 www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 Who was Allen Schindler? The murder of gay sailor Allen Schindler in October 1992 contributed to a national debate about GLBT people in the military that remains unresolved to this day. Schindler was born in December 1969 and grew up in Chicago Heights, Ill. A mediocre student, he joined the Navy right out of high school to obtain G.I. Bill money to attend veterinary school. He was first stationed in San Diego, where he frequented gay clubs and found a boyfriend. In 1991, he fulfilled his dream of serving aboard the aircraft carrier USS Midway, a ship with a relatively tolerant atmosphere. But after the Midway was decommissioned a year later, he was reassigned to the USS Belleau Wood, which had a reputation for a rough and rowdy crew. Schindler and other sailors suspected of being gay xvere routinely called "faggots" and shoved as they walked the ship’s halls. One night in September 1992, as the ship was en route from San Diego to Sasebo, Japan, Schindler, a radioman, broadcast an unauthorized message, "2-Q-T-2-B-S-T-R- 8" ("too cute to be straight"), which led to a month-long disciplinary confinement. Soon thereafter, he admitted to commanding officers that he was gay: Though aware that the disclosure would likely lead to his discharge, Schindler nevertheless felt a sense of relief: "Ifyou can’t be yourself, then who are you?" he wrote in his diary. 14 the STAR As word spread that Schindler was gay and discharge proceedings were underway, the abuse increased. "It scares me a little," he wrote. "You never know who would want to injure me or cease my existence." By late October, the Belleau Wood had reached Sasebo and Schindler’s confinement had ended. He began frequenting local bars, where he met a group of gay American entertainers, including dancer Eric Underwood, whom he told about the harassment. On the night of Oct. 27, after spending the evening drinking, two of Schindler’s shipmates, Terry Helvey and Charles Vins, followed him into a public bathroom in a park near the base. Helvey began to beat and kick Schindler, with Vins also joining in; Helvey finished off the attack by stomping on Schindler’s throat. As the assailants fled, wimesses arriving on the scene summoned the Shore Patrol, and medics tried to revive Schindler without success. The pathologist who conducted the autopsy reported that Schindler’s injuries were "similar to a highspeed auto accident or a low-speed aircraft accident." His face was beaten so badly that his mother could only identify him by tattoos on his arms. Helvey and Vins were identified by wimesses and arrested the next morning. As Helvey was being led awa); he told a shipmate, "The bastard deserved it." Vins received a quick court-martial and was sentenced to just four months in exchange for testimony against Helvey. The incident received little press coverage until Underwood and his associates wrote a letter to several publications exposing the antigay harassment Schindler had faced. The military newspaper pacific Stars and Stripes printed the lettel; and a reporter from the paper investigated the story, but the Navy tried to cover up the nature of the killing, going so far as to leak a rumor that Schindler and Helvey were gay lovers who had had a falling out. Gay activists raised a furor over the murder, at a time when the issue of gays in the military was high on the national agenda due to Bill Clinton’s campaign promise to lift the ban on GLBT service members. Michael Petrelis of Queer Nation - who vowed to make Schindler the "gay Rodney King" - organized a press conference at the Pentagon in December. Friends and supporters held a memorial in San Diego, while the Human Rights Campaign flew Schindler’s mother, Dorothy Hajdys, to Washington to speak at a candlelight vigil. Hajdys, a fundamentalist Christian who initially had trouble accepting that her son was gay; became an unlikely activist for GLBT civil rights. "If you would have told me I would have been at the March on Washington standing before a million people and being seen all over the world, I would have told you you were nuts," she later told an interviewer. Schindler’s killing remained front-page news throughout the spring of 1993. In May, Helvey was court-martialed in Japan, with his defense focusing on his abusive childhood and use of steroids. He admitted the crime, first claiming that Schindler had made a sexual advance in the bathroom and later saying that he found homosexuals "disgusting, sick, and scary." The incident never would have happened, he added, if gays weren’t allowed to join the military. Helvey pleaded guilty to murder with intent to commit great bodily harm, thereby avoiding the death penalty for premeditated murder. In 2002, Hajdys and gay activists successfully opposed his parole, and he continues to serve a life sentence at Fort Leavenworth, Kan. Schindler put an individual face on the debate about gays in the military, with both sides pointing to his murder to justify their positions. In November 1993, President Clinton signed the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy into law, after Congress and the Pentagon opposed lifting the ban. According to the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network more than 10,000 men and women have been discharged from the armed forces since the policy went into effect. www.ozarksstar.com Simba Ro Ha l To Host Miss Oklahoma Cor dnenta At Club Majestic Tulsa. TULSA, OK__Simba R. Hall is a creation and alter ego of LeSean D. Lewis. Simba was introduced to the field of pageantry in 2001 at Mr. and Miss Renaissance in Atlanta, GA. A good friend had heard him sing in the professional arena and needed some vocals to back his poetry. When Simba hit the stage, he was mesmerized. From there, he went to compete for Mr. Liberty, Mr. Renaissance, Mr. Duval, and Mr. Continental. He captured the title of Mr. Renaissance in 2004. This was followed by his win of Mr. Duval 2005 hosted in Jacksonville, FL. Simba R. Hall has always wanted to give back to his gay community. With this in mind, he used Renaissance as a platform to form the King’s Alliance. The King’s Alliance is a compilation of all the male representatives holding National titles. ~Pney perform a National show every year called M.E.N.S. (Male Entertainers of National Systems) Night. They donate all proceeds to a non-profit organization. Over the past three years they have raised over $4000. ~xis was recognized by the elite system that he now represents, Mr. Continental. It took Simba three times to capture this title. Each time he stood in the top five next to the winners, Ray Matthews and Tony Desario. \~qxen Simba won, he started using his popularity throughout the community, adding more benefit shows and fundraisers. He started a couple’s night which 7will feature duets from the kings and queens representing National titles. This is to be held at the Baton in June. He also had a Continental Christmas in Atlanta that raised over $3500 for Child Kind, an organization that cares for terminally ill children. Simba wants to be remembered for bringing the community to the forefront and showing the world that being gay is just a preference. \re are just as human as the next individual. Simba is also working on an album that ~vill be available in the fall. At the current time he is touring the US as Mr. Continental where he receives raves reviews and standing ovations. Simba Hall will Host the Miss Oklahoma Continental on Friday May 25th at Club Majestic in Tulsa at 8pm. This will be the fourth Miss Competition in Oklahoma produced by Monica Freeman. THE AUSTK LIAN BEE GEES SHOW at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater TULSA, OK___Having received nothing less than fantastic reviews, "The Australian BEE GEES Show" is coming to Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Friday May 4th. Ttxe house lights fade slowly and there is a cheer of excitement, then a brief moment of anticipation. It begins with a single bass note, then a chime that dances around the room, a whisper of strings, a stab of brass and percussion, a flash of light and the image flickers to life. "The Australian BEE GEES Show" is a multi-media concert event with the state-of-the-art sound, superb lighting and giant screens, featuring video clips, live camera images and stunning graphics. "The Australian BEE GEES Show" has captured the look, the sound and the personality that defines one of the most successful and adored acts in musical history. The show is presented from a contemporary perspective and has evolved to become the definitive live celebration of four decades of wonderful music written by the Brothers Gibb. Ten years in the making, a lot have been said about "The Australian BEE GEES Show", including some kind words from one of the Brothers Gibb’s niece, Deborah McLane, "When I first saw the show I had high expectations of what the performance would be like, those boys did more than exceed my expectations. I was completely moved by their harmonies and the way they perfected the whole Bee Gees image. This is the most outstanding Bee Gees tribute show I have experienced." For one night only, experience the magic, "The Australian ~BEE GEES Show." In concert at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater Friday May 4th, 2007. Doors open at 7:00 p.m. and show starts at 8:00 p.m. Tickets cost $27.50 and $32.50 and went on sale beginning at 10 a.m. on Monday March 26th at www.bradytheater.com, w~vw. etix.com, Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater at 105 West Brady, or by calling the Brady Theater Ticket Office at (918) 582-7239. w~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 Tuna Soup with Orange and Avocado Fresh tuna meat is easy to overcook and can sometimes be disappointingly dry and chewy, but in this juicy mixture it stays succulent and delicious. Ingredients: 2 - 3 tbls. Olive Oil 2 Onions (peeled, halved, and very thinly sliced) 2 Garlic Cloves (peeled and finely chopped) 1 tspn. Ground Cumin Pinch of Cinnamon 2 tspn. Chopped Fresh Parsley Finely Grated Zest and Juice of 1 Lime 2/3 cup Orange Juice 1 1/4 Fresh Tuna Steaks (cut into 3/4 inch cubes) 1 3/4 qts. Fish Stock Salt and Freshly Ground Black Pepper 6 Large Tomatoes (cut into short pieces) 2 firm but Ripe Avocados (peeled, pitted) 40 oz. Sugar Snap Peas or Green Beans (cut into neat cubes) Sprigs of Fresh Flat-Leafed Parsley (for garnish) Procedure: 1. Heat the oil in a large saucepan. Add the onions and gently fry until soft and translucent. Add the garlic and gently fry for 2 minutes. 2. Add the cumin, cinnamon, parsley, lime zest and Juice, orange juice, tuna, stock, and a little salt and pepper. Bring to the boil, reduce the heat, cover the pan, and simmer for 15 minutes. 3. Meanwhile, soak the tomatoes in boiling ~vater for several minutes until the skin xvill peel easily away. Cut away the hard cores and chop the flesh. Add to the pan ~vith the sugar snap peas or beans. Simmer for 4-5 minutes. 4. Just before serving the soup, stir the avocado cubes into the pan. Serve immediately, garnished with parsley. Serves: 6 More on the Hotel Bel Air, page 1.19. "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOL by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast HOTEL BEL-AIR 70! Stone Cmnyon Road Los Fmgeles; "~e dining room at the Hotel BeI-Mr is, ~vithout doubt, the most romcamc restaurants on, the planet, and one beautiful ! We dine As it is terribly expensive, we always order consists of a lovely Salad, soup of the day" mad finger sandwiches. And this costs $3~3.00! bur W~rth every pelmy o~it. nitelv the most ~¢~rwiOzarksstar:com Phe drag-themed Petticoat Bruncheon at Bump & Grind is one ofDenver’s best excuses to get out ofbed on weekwnd mo,~vings. (Photo by Andrew Collins) By Andrew Collins Denver has long been one of the country’s great centers of lesbian and gay culture. The GLBT community here is highly visible - socially, professionally, and politically - and gay-friendly restaurants, bars, hotels, and other businesses are easy to find in a number of prominent neighborhoods. With several new or expanded high-profile museums, easy access to skiing and hiking, a sunny climate, and relative affordability compared with other big urban centers, the Mile High City makes for a highly appealing vacation destination, whether for a couple of days or a full week .of exploration. The city’s bustling, modern downtown skyline is dominated by soaring skyscrapers. Here you can wander along 16th Street, a popular pedestrian mall filled with mostly upscale chain shops. Or explore artsy Larimar Square, a restored Victorian block of hip boutiques and cafes - be sure to check out the Market at Larimer Square, a coffeehouse- bakery-deli where a cool crowd enjoys mocha lattes, hearty breakfast burritos, and hefty pastrami sandwiches. Larimar Square marks the edge of dapper LoDo, which began as the city’s shipping 20 the STAR and retail center in the late 19th century. As recently as the 1980s, however, the neighborhood had been reduced to slums and abandoned brick warehouses. LoDo’s comeback began v,;hen artists started converting these classic redbrick buildings into galleries and studios. A flood of restaurants, coffeehouses, and shops followed, as did stately Coors Field, home to baseball’s Colorado Rockies. You can easily spend a few hours exploring this attractive district, perhaps dropping by the Tattered Cover, one of the country’s most beloved independent bookstores, which has an outstanding GLBT section. Another retail must is Rockmount Ranch Wear, a circa-1940s outlet for authentic Western shirts, belts, hats, and bolo ties - this is the very shop that provided those down-home sexy shirts worn by Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal in Brokeback Mountain. South of downtown you’ll find Capitol Hill, which is anchored on one end by the giltdomed State Capitol building. It overlooks a grassy mall surrounded by the Colorado History Museum and the spectacular Denver Art Museum, which underwent a dramatic expansion and redesign in 2005. The Capitol Hill neighborhood, which extends east from the Capitol building, is where many of the city’s GLBT residents live. On sunny days, check out lovely Cheesman Park and the nearby the Denver Botanic Garden. If you’re keen on shopping, head a few miles southeast of downtown to the Cherry Creek area, where you’ll find numerous opportunities for browsing and bargain-hunting at upscale Cherry Creek Shopping Center and Cherry Creek North. Tnese two premier shopping destinations contain a mix of top chain and independent stores. In the evening, try out one of the neighborhood’s fine restaurants, such as trendy Ocean, a haute seafood eatery, or North, which serves exceptional modern Italian fare. Dining is one area where Denver has truly come into its own in recent years. If you’re a serious foodie, sample one of the restaurants run by Denver’s acclaimed expert on innovative Mexican cuisine, Richard Sandoval. Best bets include Tamayo, near lively Larimer Square, and trendy Zengo, a boldly decorated space just north of LoDo, where Sandoval fuses the best ofAsian and Latin cuisine, serving everything from sushi to ceviche. A good bet for dining in LoDo is Vesta, which operates on a quirky premise: you choose three sauces (perhaps pistachio-mint or grilled onion jam) for dipping with whatever entree you choose, from grilled venison to harissa-roasted half chicken. You’ll find simpler fare at Dixon’s Downtown Grill, a nice choice for fish-and-chips and bluecheese burgers, and the festive Wynkoop Brewing Company, which serves the best green chile stew in town, plus a wide range of handcrafted beers. Near Larimer Square, chic Rioja serves creative, world-beat cuisine, such as Dungeness crab-and-shiso spring rolls, and grilled maple-cured pork chops with Calvados sauce. Favorite restaurants on Capitol Hill include I1 Vicino, which turns out creative pizzas and salads along with microbrewed ales, and Sparrow, a convivial neighborhood spot serving such inventive regional American fare as pumpkin-chicken served with pancetta risotto, sage, and cider. The local java chain Diedrich’s Coffee has a particularly gay-popular branch in Capitol Hill, too. www.ozarksstar.com The city has some great places for breakfast fare, including the gay lave Racine’s, which is open late and serves three meals daily. For amazingly tasty pancakes, head to Snooze, an offbeat storefront space near Coors Field where you might start the morning offwith pineapple-upside~down pancakes or vanilla-almond oatmeal brulee. On weekend mornings, don’t miss the legendary drag brunch, called Petticoat Bruncheon, held at Bump & Grind, a colorful bakery and care. One of city’s great strengths is its cultural scene, with maW of the top events held at the esteemed, high-tech Denver Center for the Performing Arts (DCPA), the second-largest such space in the nation (trailing only New York City’s Lincoln Center). tt comprises several performance venues and hosts everything from nationally touring musicals to acclaimed opera. Before a performance, plan to have dinner at DCPA’s top restaurant, Kevin Taylor’s. In this elegant basement space, sample such creative fare as Black Angus carpaccio with white-truffle oil, or charbroiled Colorado lamb chops with braised lentils and black olive jus. Denver has a friendly, eclectic gay nightlife, with a pleasing mix of hip cocktail lounges, pulsing dance clubs, and friendly neighborhood bars. One of the most popular hangouts is J.R.’s, an upscale, bi-level video bar in Capitol Hill that hosts such entertaining events as gong show karaoke and Broadway musical sing-alongs. Nearby Charlie’s is a famously fun country-western club with line-dancing and two-stepping, plus a restaurant serving decent American fare. The Denver Detour is a mostly lesbian-oriented hangout that’s popular early in the evening for happy hour cocktails - it’s right by the State Capitol. Other good women’s options include tHERe Denver, a lesbian-owned coffeehouse and lounge, and Ms. C’s, a long-running lesbian dance club a 20-minute drive east of downtown. Just south of Capitol Hill, the South Broadway area has several notable locals joints, including B.J.’s Carousel, which has its own volleyball court and a casual restaurant. You’ll find a somewhat cruisy bunch at the Compound, a low-attitude dance club that’s popular with everyone from collegiate hipsters to middle-aged bears. The Triangle, for the serious leather crowd, has a big after-hours following and a notoriously frisky basement. And Boyztown is one of the better places in town to watch strippers strut their stuff. Weekends are the best time to check out Denver’s most happening gay nightclub, the always-packed Tracks Denver, a massive warehouse disco with two pulsing dance floors, one spinning the latest club music, the other featuring classic tunes from the ’70s and ’80s. Denver has a number of memorable gay-friendly hotels. The swanky, pet-friendly Hotel Monaco is a top choice for its hip, Parisian-inspired aesthetic and remarkably friendly and helpful service. Vibrant, stylish decor and quirk), in-room touches, such as animal-print robes and pet goldfish, make this downtown boutique property a fan favorite. The on-site restaurant, Panzano, serves firstrate contemporary Italian fare. A new kid on the block that’s earned praise for its stylish look as well as its location across from the Denver Center for the Performing Arts, The Curtis opened early in 2007 and looks like just another high-rise from the exterior. But inside you’ll discover a www.ozarksstar.com whimsical, retro-fabulous hotel that looks like something out of an Austin Powers movie. Each floor of guestrooms is themed differently - rooms on the eighth level have a sci-fi look, while those on the 12th are done with a get-your-groove-on dance-floor theme. Moderate rates, VW Bug-shaped alarm clocks, and a cool eatery called the Corner Office Restaurant and Martini Bar are among the Curtis’ many charms. If you want to be close to the fabulous shopping of Cherry Creek, consider booking a room at the posh JW Marriott Denver, a contemporary 11-stoW hotel whose cushy accommodations have 32-inch flat-screen TVs, DVD/CD players, marble-and-granite bathrooms, and plush bedding with custom duvets and linens. The sterling service is another plus. One of the most romantic options is the gay-owned Capitol Hill Mansion B&B, a stately Queen Anne Victorian on an attractive residential street. Owners Jay Hadley and Carl Schmidt serve a lavish full breakfast each morning as wel! as refreshments and snacks in the afternoon; guests enjoy such pleasing amenities as free Wi-Fi and fresh flowers in every room, and gas fireplaces, whirlpool tubs, and private balconies in the top units. In the same neighborhood, the gay-friendly Castle Marne B&B offers similarly cushy, antiquesfilled rooms. The imposing 1889 building is one of Denver’s most distinctive houses, with its elaborate turrets and stonework. Probably no Denver hotel is more famous than the prestigious Brown Palace Hote! & Spa, which has hosted such dignitaries as Teddy Roosevelt and Sun Yat-sen during its 115-year tenure. Even if you don’t have a chance to stay in one of the hotel’s lavish rooms, consider dropping by for the daily afternoon high tea or evening cocktails in the famed Atrium Lobby, or for the decadent Dom Perignon brunch held in Ellyngton’s Restaurant on Sunday mornings. the STAR 21 MAY 2007 Gay LoA. All the One of the perks of being a "nationally syndicated columnist," which is my newest personal brand, is getting books in the mail to review. As the latest volume slipped out of its padded envelope, I saw "sexual outlaws, power politics, and lipstick lesbians" set in small caps across the middle of the cover. Mmmmm, this book is for me. Gay L.A.: A History of,.. (insert those three descriptors that caught my attention here), written by award-winning historians Lillian Faderman and Stuart Timmons, turns on its ear the notion that the lesbian and gay movement started in any one particular city. L.A.’s gay roots go way beygnd the emergence of Hollywood in the 1920s. We need to go all the way back before California was a state, before we were even a nation, and we find the raale native Americans who inhabited these lands to be quite fluid in their sexuality. California’s name came from Hernan Cortes, the explorer who discovered the tract of land now lmown as the Golden State. It seems that Cortes was taken with the 15th-century "protolesbian tale," as the authors put it, about a mythical isle called California, where Queen Califia lived among strong, butch women. Just like in the Amazonia legend, Califia’s women "waged bloody war on other lands, killing most of the males but carrying a few so that they might copuJate with them for the sake of procreation." For some reason, Cortes put that myth together with this new land and wrote "California" across the map of what was to become North America. The name stuck, but the legend - like those of most who come and go in this town known for making legends - faded into obscurity until Faderman and Timmons connected their gay dots. It wasn’t until Hollywood happened, with its star-making quality, that L.A. and gay really started to become synonymous. We flocked to this city of creativity and makebelieve because we could do just that - create and make believe we could be whatever we Way If only that was totally true. When it comes to the relationship between the community and the notorious LAPD...well, let’s just say it wasn’t a Hollywood love story. "The LAPD in the years after WW~I and into the 1960s was really particularly vicious in regard to lesbians and gay men," Faderman told me in a recent interview. "The police hired Hollywood rejects - handsome young men looking to break into the movie industry - who would then go to the places gay men cruised, hang out, strike up conversations, and then the handcuffs would come out, and the gays would be arrested." It wasn’t only gay men who were victim~- ized by the cops. "Butch women had a hard time, too," said Faderman. "They were very often arrested for ’masquerading.’" \Vghat is this "masquerading"? Being butch and dressing that ~vay. It seems that there was a laxv on the books, in response to how outrageous the puritanical city fathers thought things were getting, that men couldn’t be seen in public in women’s clothes, and women couldn’t don men’s clothes either. Reading this, I was disgusted by how those we pay taxes to for protection - in a city, the police, for the nation, the armed forces - victimize our community. While "don’t ask, don’t tell" is still in place, the LAPD has changed its tune to some degree. Now they’re recruiting us to their ranks - us meaning lesbians and gays; transgender people need not apply. "The West Hollywood sheriff’s department really wants lesbian and gay folks," explained Faderman. "But on the other hand, I read about a trans person who supported herself by prostitution. The police would take her in the back alley practically every night and rape her." As someone who grew up in L.A., Faderman seems to be particularly proud of the lesbian and gay firsts of her native city. Honestly, these were things I never knew. I always considered Stonewall to be the "start" - that is, after all, what we celebrate every June. In 1947, for example, the first lesbian magazine, Vice Versa, was started in L.A. A few years later, the Mattachine Society was born - the child of Harry Hay. Ten years before the Stonewall Riots, drag queens and hustlers in downtown L.A. took to the streets to protest the LAPD’s consistent harassment of them at their hangout, Cooper Donuts. In 1968, Troy Perry founded the first gay church, the Metropolitan Community Church, and in ’71 lesbian and gay Jews had a welcoming place to worship at the nation’s first gay synagogue, Beth Chaim Chadashim. "With L.A., there were all these incredible firsts," said Faderman. "It’s sort of incredible that no one has observed that before, and no one has tried to make a history out of it." Until now, that is. This book is a great read that is both entertaining and educational. The nonfiction addict that I am, Gay L.A. gave me my fix of facts and fun that kept me turning the pages. I really xvanted to kmow what happened next. I can’t wait until we all write the next chapters as we continue to tear down the barriers to our freedom. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Rodeo Schedule Thursday, May 24, 2007, from 9pm till ?, The Great Plains Rodeo Kick off Party, featuring the current royalty and all former royalty we can encourage to attend, at the Finishline. Friday, May 25, 2007, from 6pm till 9pm, The Great Plains Rodeo Registration Party, featuring contestant registration, a silent auction, and a fundraiser shiny, at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 3. Saturday, May 26, 2007, from 8am till ?, Rodeo events with grand entry around noonish at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 6. Tickets are $10.00. Saturday, May 26, 2007, from 6:30pm till 9pm, The Texas Tea Party, featuring the IGRA Royalty, The Texas Royalty and the Oklahoma Royalty, and others, at the COPA. Sunday, May 27, 2007, from 8am till ?, Rodeo events with grand entry around noonish at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 6. Tickets are $10.00. Sunday, May 27, 2007, from 8pm till ?, Rodeo awards ceremony, at the Oklahoma State Fair Park Barn 3. BBQ Dinner $10 per plate advance purchase by end grand entry Sunday see any OGRA royalty member or Officer. You’re guaranteed a fun filled and exciting weekend at Oklahoma’s largest Gay Rodeo. Tickets can be purchased at the gate. For more information go to: www.ogra.net or call 405-290-8779 Jays ModelAgency Talent Search ~ Males 18 to 21 Jays Model Agency is Seeking New Faces for our 2007 Online Gallery ofArtistic Nude, Casual& Formal Wear Models. We Pay Our Models $300 to $500 Call Today (405) 946-5297 See Our Display Ads in Frest~rn~: & Men Magaaine Creating Community for Peop ÷ :ving with H~ViAIDS 50t c (3) Non Profit Organizatio,:t Our House, Too offers a vadoty of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 25 GAYCO From page 12 With seven players at their Eureka appearance, the troupe delivered a performance that would make the raunchiest of comedians and the driest of analysts proud. Opening their show with a stirring anthem of "gay recruitment" the comedians set the precedent that over the next hour and a half nothing, not even death, would be sacred. Blending lesbian issues and gay issues, the comedy of Gayco had a little something for everybody. Whether it was a widower admitting her secret love for her best friend or the gay man dating the barely eighteen year old, the situations that Gayco created were as real as the performers themselves (even though it may take a few years to see "Baby Time Share" become a reality). ’%V4e like to take hot topics of the day, but also what is going on in our lives," explains Eninger. "Sometimes we’ll have a sketch completely written and sometimes we’ll just improvise it. We use the ensemble to improve each idea and make it better." Eninger says that thanks to the unique backgrounds of each of the core cast members and their crew of artistic associates, that the show is able to have such a wide ranging appeal. "A lot of people in the comedy and improvisational tend to have a broad background, most everyone has some kind of theatrical training and has worked with some kind of improvisational group. You add on to that having a broad based understanding of things like politics, anth. ropology and cultural references to make your jokes as on top of your intelligence as possible." "We all (the cast) have an activist streak in us," Eninger continues, "we all have a message we want to get across that’s paramount, but we’re also not afraid to get a little low brow. Gay people like that too. It’s nice to show a human scene with a couple and just flip to show something like ’Club Uranus.’" During the show, the Gayco Performers were not the only ones who had fun on stage. Participants from an improvisational workshop held the day before xvere invited to become a part of the act. According to the group, one of their favorite parts of touring is reaching out to the communities they visit to help aspiring performers (or those wbo just want to do it for fun) learn a little bit more about their craft. If and when Gayco will returns to Eureka Springs is not yet known, but for the group that travels the world, Diversity Pride is a favorite stop. Be sure not to miss them if you have the chance. 26 the STAR DBA METRO OKC PRIDE EVENT A SUCCESS By Jeanne Flanigan Photo by I~ctor Gorin: Left to Right, Reverend ScottJones ofCathedral ofHope Drag Emcee Ivana Deville, Jeanne Flaniagn. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK~Xhe Diversity Business Association of Metro OKC hosted the Second Annual Silent Auction and Benefit for OKC Pride on March 29 at the Copa. Nick Post and his staff provided a banquet buffet, a festive ambience, and space for 6 locations throughout the club for auction items. The auction included approximately 60 items, ranging from original art to tools and electronics. The benefit made over $7000 for the OKC Pride Festival and Parade, which is celebrating their 20th Anniversary in June. This time the event raised over twice as much as it did last year, thanks largely to entertainers Alison Scott, Lady Spencer, and the magnificent Ivana Deville. Three large items were raffled off, with several generous people buying over 100 tickets each. The club was filled to capacity with many DBA members, a!ong with other movers and shakers of the community. DBA Metro meets twice monthly for networking and educational opportunities. For more information !og on to www.dbametro.org. Drag Queen Bingo _At Cains Ballroom, Tu]lsa. By Randy Vineyard TULSA, OK__On May 4th the Cains Ballroom will play host to yet another historic event. Drag Queen Bingo, benefiting Our House Too sponsored by Regional Aids Funds Ameri-Corp and the Cains. An annual event in Tulsa, this years theme will be "Tulsa’s Dream Girls Present Motown", the 60’s remember. Local celebrities will be performing and a show stopping appearance by Tulsa King Ty West. The event will be hosted by Kris Kohl, a veteran performer of 31 years. Twenty additional fantastic female impersonators will be entertaining you. Prizes for Bingo and door give-a ways have been donated by local business and associations. Doors open at 8pm. Tickets are on sale now, Milton Harris 918-585-9552. All proceeds will benefit Our House Too a Tulsa area aids outreach activity center. A LANDMAP K GONE \Vho Remembers the Free Spirit? By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Maybe it wasn’t so long ago, or maybe longer ago than some of us might xvant to admit, when OKC’s most fabulous place to dance and party was the Free Spirit. Located at 3121 N. Classen, originally an Episcopalian Church, it first changed to an upscale restaurant called Dino’s Steak & Spaghetti before it became the Free Spirit disco in 1977, owned by Steve Sixbey & managed by Michael Tarr. Affectionately nicknamed "the Spirit"( and its regulars "Spirit Queens") it became the "in" place to be featuring cutting edge dance music, some of Oklahoma’s early fabulous pageants, and even appearances by major artists including Sylvester & Disco Tex/Sex-o-Lets. In 1982 the club became Jazzy’s, a straight club with a predominantly black clientele. It changed back to the gay focused Free Spirit again in 1984, competing head on with Angles which had just opened in 1982, and the war began as to who would be OKC’s premier gay dance dub. The partiers !oved the battle, which resulted in all you could drink for $5 on Fridays and Saturdays at both venues, but the Free Spirit finally capitulated in August of 1984. Again going through a series of straight ventures, it emerged again as a gay club in 1986 renamed "~he Bar," even though it was still referred to as "the Spirit." ~hat venture failed as well, and after a long run as the straight club" Infinity" it made a few more changes before finally closing the doors for good. The building sat abandoned for many years before finally being demolished in March of this year. "Now a vacant lot with a future unforeseen at this time, memories of that place will always inspire priceless memories for some of us to treasure and pass on. www.ozarksstar.com THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest 12am MO BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm "~DNESDAY May 2 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Varie9" Show 10:30pro FINISHHNE: Dart Tournament I0pm THURSDAY May3 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~v/Rachad Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent wtShemoane Somemore 10:30pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host. Pancho 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pro THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE COPA: Varlet7 Shmv 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wtRachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent wlShe~noane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro SATU May5 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9prn GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am SUN THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB MAJESTIC: /vlajestic Kings Show 10pm. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch LUB b~JESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet THE COPA: P,achael Erikks Show lam-3:30am 10:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight. BA!vIBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Varieq, Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro THURSDAY M~v 17 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachaet Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHHNE: Dart ~bumament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE COPA: \4trieiy Show 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament !0pro THURSDBX May 24 CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wt Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore t0:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro \ May [25 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB NL&JESTIC: Miss Oklal~oma Continental 2007 - Doors open 8pro OGRA: RODEO, OKC OGRA: RODEO. OKC THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am SUN 27 OGRA: RODEO, OKC BAMBOO LOUNGE: Brunch 2pro BIG Memorial Cookout. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm "H-IE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm MEMORIAL DAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro, THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest lam-3:30am Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm DAY May 30 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: gariety Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm www,ozarksstar.com BA~MBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachael Erildcs THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. After Dark is a free service to ou~ advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in writing of updates, additions or discontinued events, q’he STAR is not responsible for accurac): THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pro HNISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm the STAR 27 "Doodle, Capricorn!" Mercury aligned with the Sun in Taurus makes us stubbornly attached to our ideas. Both orbs clashing with Pluto bring those ideas under harsh scrutiny. Arguments are inevitable but offer chances to learn. ARIES (~arch 20 -April 19): Holding fast to your principles doesn’t require arguing with everyone who disagrees with you. Better to challenge yourself and see if your ideals are strong enough to encompass more than just the ideas you’re comfortable with. TAURUS (April 21) - May 21)): Little disagreements can feel like major personal attacks. Try to shrug them off and relax. A little sexual exploration can take the edge off, although that might also feel like a challenge. Still, it should be a challenge you can rise to! GEMINI (May 21 - June 21)): An erotic retreat with your partner can relieve pressures that are making you feel paranoid. Even if you (~an’t get away, stop imagining hostile agendas behind every conversation. Meditation or a dream journal can help unravel what’s really bothering you. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your long-range vision may cause clashes with colleagues who are locked into accomplishing the task at hand. Helpful as your ideas may be, arguing about them won’t help. Bite your lip, go with the flow, and save your inspirations for later. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Eager to get ahead, you may be pushing too hard. Sit back a bit, strategize, and try to cultivate finesse. Getting into everyone’s face about your brilliance is counter-productive. Let your creativity speak for itself. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being terribly certain in your ideas can put you at odds with your family or your community. It may well be that you have something important to tell them, but you need to listen in order to be heard. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): The more you struggle against scandal, the more it grows. A bemused response - "Mercy! Who’s telling such silly stories?" - wilt help facilitate a quick change of subject. Or you may prefer a smug, quiet smile that enhances a wicked mystique. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): If you’re partnered, arguments are nearly inevitable for you, with money being the likely trigger. If you’re single, your feistiness will make or break the interest of a potential mate. Arguments now can foreshadow a bigger struggle in six weeks. 28 the STAR SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Safe sex is as important now as ever. Your health is extremely vulnerable right now, especially in erotic situations, but also while you’re at work or exercising. Re-examine your habits at work, working out, and "working it." There’s always room for improvement! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Your efforts at playful repartee may seem a bit artificial, as if you’re trying to hide something that is bothering you. At an unconscious level, you probably are. Doodling, humming, or singing in free association can help provide clues to what’s behind the banter. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): How far do your ambitions and dreams lead you away from the comfort of family or tribe? And how far away do you really need to go? Those questions seem important now. The answers are not comfortable, but neither are they final. PISCES (February 19 - Nlarch 19): The stronger your opinions, the more they’ll be challenged. Do some homework to back up your arguments. You may even learn something that wil! push you to grow and change. Remember, it’s only resistance to change that makes it difficult. FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appointment 41%529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our COITIITIUI~ty Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. 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Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, May 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 5 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Rachael Sage Talks with the STAR before her performap,ce in Tulsa. Gay Travelers: San Francisco Out of Town: Austin, Texas Dining In or OUT Lesbian Notions, an interview with Jennifer Chrisler, executive director of the Family Equality Council. Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Deborah Harry & Rachael Sage 4 the STAR In the interview with Nick Post, the new owner of Angles, we incorrectly stated due to a typo that he had acquired the Finishline, Copa, Ledo and Gushers in 2007. It was actually 2000. We regret the error. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * NEW ORLEANS * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com R÷a By Greg Steele With all the outing of gay penguins, sheep, dogs and other species, is there a possibility there are gay turkeys? How would you know if you were eating one of our own? I mean the poor critters are just herded into the slaughter pen, humanely killed, I presume, plucked and whisked off to Walmart. I for one will be asking the Walmart meat lady if my turkey was gay! I refuse to bake, fry, barbecue or boil a family member. We assume that all turkeys are hetero, and it’s OK to bake or fry ect., a homophobic hetero turkey, but what if your turkey was hetero and gay friendly? This outing of animals and now fowl is just not right. It raises so many questions and creates so many problems and it’s Thanksgiving for God’s sake. Where are the Fowl Rights people when you need them! Have a Great Holiday! INTERNATIONAL GAY BOWLING TOURNAMENT AND CONVENTION ROLLS INTO OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (P/R) __ Oklahoma City wilt be hosting the International Gay Bowling Organization’s (IGBO) 2007 Mid-Year Tournament and Convention, November 7-12, 2007. This event will cap offtwo years of preparation by the OKClassic Bowling Association as it welcomes bmvlers from al! over the United States and Canada. IGBO is the world’s largest GLBT sports organization with over 170 member leagues and over 60 member tournaments. OKClassic has hosted one of IGBO’s largest and most-respected tournaments for over 16 years and has donated over $100,000 to local charities in the process. Oklahoma City hosted IGBO’s 1994 Annual Tournament and Convention. The convention activities will be held at The Holiday Inn Hotel & Suites on NW 63rd & Robinson. IGBO’s Board of Directors, Regional. Representatives, and league and tournament representatives from around the world will conduct various business meetings at the ......................................... Continuedpa~,e- 27 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 rocre tior Uber AlOes OK~.AHOMA CITY, OK__ Who would have thought that the successful union of a spermatozoa and an ovum would be a taxpaying citizen’s certification of citizenship. ¯he highest court of the state of Maryland has recently joined New York and Washington state in ruling that because same-gendered people can’t procreate they can not be married in the same way that opposite-gendered people can. Reading between the lines it seems straight people who have the corresponding slot A and tab B are automatically entitled to the approximately 1,400 Federal and state benefits that accrue with state-sponsored marriage. I always thought that paying taxes made one a citizen. Odd, that even though I have no children, I’m still required to pay school taxes. Additionally, I pay a sales tax to help pay for municipal structures such as sports arenas that I will never use, my gasoline taxes are used to pave roads which I’ll never drive on, and my library taxes will pay for books which H1 never read. And now, at least in Maryland, New York and Washington-- I have to pony up with a wife and child in order to be a REAL citizen? Paying taxes isn’t enough? I’m glad these anti-gay judicial decisions are finally exposing the hypocrisy of our socalled civil society where the First Amendment defense of the separation of secular and sacred is being ignored and willfully convoluted in order to perpetuate the ideas of religious supremacy, the power of the penis, and the submissiveness of the vagina. Since when was being the father or mother of a child necessary to prove one’s citizenship? Is that really the case? Don’t we all know married straights who have never had biological children? Are their marriages in danger of being repudiated in those states that have ruled procreation as a necessary possibility for a complete marriage? Are childless marriages breaking the law? Doesn’t this suggestion smell strongly ofNazism and other totalitarian creeds such as one-child China? AS our American society devolves into a seriously reality-adverse Gulag of religiously based proscriptions against equality, and as the "demos" is removed from Democracy and replaced with "theos", I’ve written a proposed bill that someone like Trent "gays have Heptomania" Lott, Larry ’Tm not gay" Craig, David "diaper" Vitter, or Jim "no gays in my family" Inhofe wil! take up on the floor of Congress. IfI were a God-fearing, Bible-banging GOP straight man truly interested in the precepts of the great Creator who knows all things and requires the institution of marriage to be solely and soulfully about procreation I would legislate for the fol!owing policy to be instituted. A provisional license would be issued following a medical examination to determine the gender and procreative viability of the man and woman applying. Should one applicant fai! this examination in either part no license from the state would be allowed. In addition the failing partner would be required to register on a publicly available website to insure against fraud and redundancy. Opposite gendered married couples that do not procreate vcithin three years of their marriage will have that marriage annulled. If a procreative impediment, other than self-induced conditions, develops after the issuance of the provisional license as ~vell as after the issuance of the final license, the marriage would be allowed to continue. Should there be a stillbirth or death within one year of the birth of a living child, an extension of one year would allowed for each subsequent stillbirth or early death. Such extensions would continue until the natural menopausal advancement occurs with the woman. The man is considered to be fertile for life. As the balance scale of Lady Justice is replaced with a cudgel, and her blindfold exchanged for binoculars it would do for us all, gay or straight, to reassess just what makes a civil society. 6 the STAR wxvw.ozarksstar.corn ~’wvw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Recognized by Keller Williams For outsLandlng achievement 2005 and 2006 Chuck Sreckenridge 918-706-1887 3627 NW Expressway 405.840.2106 TESTING CLINIC hea]t~ ow~each prevention education, inc. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIV/STD Hotline PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(S) ¯ Frse nonjudgmental HIV ~esting, including the 20 minute OraQuick TesL KNOW YOUR STATUS *Free Syphillis screening at th~ GLBTCommunity Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin H,O,P.E. Testing Clinic Mens Outreach Program In Tulsa at (918) 812-7045 Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTISING today. (918)835-7887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 AIDS WALK OKC R~MEMBEIUNG THOSEPASSED ON, WORKING TOWA~ocDSABETTER FUTURE. By Victor Gorin Photo:Joe @dgle); OKCsc~ool teacher and political activist with Miss America Lauren Nelson OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Keeping up a proud tradition begun in 1998, the Oklahoma City AIDS Walk was held again on Sunday, September 29 as usual sponsored and supported by a wide variety of groups & people from all walks of life to help those living with HIV, prevention and education, as well as remembering those passed on. ~his year the occasion was honored as Miss America, Oklahoma’s own Lauren Nelson, headlined as this year’s Grand Marshall. This year’s walk raised over $60,000. The Walk benefits the AIDS Support Program/Winds House, RAIN (Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network), Guiding Right, Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma-HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project, Northern Lights Alternatives, Other Options Inc, Planned Parenthood of Oklahoma & Red Rock North. Currently over 6000 Oklahomans are living with HIV or AIDS. OKC MDS Walk President Danny Morgan looked to the future with his statement, "We are really excited over the increase in attendance and money raised over last year, and we’re looking forward to an even bigger event with yet more money raised for the valuable work that our agencies do in the Oklahoma City area." STOP HATE N THE HALLWAYS A BULLYNG CONFERENCE THAT NADE H STORY By Victor Gorin OKLAHOIVlA CITY, OK __ On October 11 history was made in Oklahoma. Although there had been numerous conferences and seminars about school safety in the past, there had always been something conspicuously missing, and to one group of victims, along with their friends and families, it was obvious. It was students harassed because of their real or perceived sexual orientation. The Stop Hate in the Hallways Conference was held at the Springlake Metro Tech Campus, organized by Cimarron Alliance and co-sponsored by numerous organizations. The conference was attended by over 300 people, among them teachers, school administrators, law enforcement, and other people from all walks of life throughout Oklahoma. As one of the organizers, OKC Councilperson Ann Simank pointed out, " I think the conference is addressing many issues that should have been addressed years and years ago. The whole goal is for the attendees today to obtain some real knowledge and tools to take back to their communities so that they’ll be able to make children safer and feel better, to feel accepted." The conference explored the price society pays for school bullying. Victims of bullying are less likely to go on to college, many even drop out of high school to escape abuse, thus doing serious damage to their careers. School districts have been successfiAly sued when harassment was deliberately allowed, and tragedies have resulted that have made schools less safe. The keynote speaker was Kevin Jennings, the founder and national director of GLSEN (Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network), which works to educate the public and school systems about the problems faced by students harassed due to sexual orientation. A former teacher himself, he pointed out that a generic policy prohibiting bullying" is no more valuable than no policy at all. Gay students likelihood of skipping school is when they see themselves specifically mentioned in the policy, among race, religion, color, and so on". He also pointed out that it has been shown that schools that have a policy specifically protecting students from harassment due to sexual orientation have a lower incidence of bullying overall. On a positive note, he stated that among parents surveyed almost 83% support school policies protecting students from bullying due to real or perceived sexual orientation, even 77% of those parents identified as born again Christians. Although there are many differences of opinion, the overall consensus of parents is that they want their children’s schools to be safe. He compared the threats & opposition of fundamentalist parents opposing a policy of this protection to be "like a dog on the other side of a door that is really a chihuahua. " There was discussion about the Oklahoma City School District, which last year posted on their website the upcoming Student Handbook, which included among the categories protected from bullying & harassment "sexual orientation," then mysteriously pulled those words two days later. Despite numerous appeals by many diverse speakers and groups, the Oklahoma City School Board has yet to give any reply as to why this happened, or why there is no policy protecting OKC students from this category of harassment to this day. To attend the conference, personnel from the OKC school systera had to take personal time off from their jobs. In closing Richard Odgen, President of Cimarron Alliance had some optimism in saying, "I think this will not be the end of this discussion, but the beginning. We’re hopeful that in the years to come that rather than the State Secretary of Education saying ’ I’m too busy’ she wil! be here. Rather than a lack of support from largest school district in the state, there will be a policy of sending teachers to the conference. We’re letting people know, we are going to talk about it, it isn’t right that that these hot topics aren’t discussed, in fact that is why the), must be discussed. " 10 the STAR ~.ozarksstar.com TULSA, OK (P/R) __ The Dennis 1L Neill Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly meet-the-artist reception from 6- 9pm, Thursday, November 1, 2007, for the opening of its November exhibit, "Schizo", works by artist Patrick Uva. Uva comes to Tulsa via New York City where he studied art at City College ofNew York. Since moving to his new home, Patrick has created a prolific collection of new paintings and sculpture. His new shmv "SCHIZO" was inspired by the auditory hallucinations he struggles with every day. "I wanted to express my struggle with the voices, but also the idea of collective freedom. I have this ’built-in’ collective consciousness so I wanted to show how individual awareness affects humanity as a whole. Patrick uses vibrant colors, fabric, dirt, sand and even cigarette ash within the confines of a skewed geometry to produce art that is at once violent, harmonious, haunting and ioy6 l. The exhibit will remain up through the month of November, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pm. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the web at okeq.org. This monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Cdebrate 1st Arm versary Oklahoma’s Log Cabin Republicans (LCR) will be celebrating their first year as a chapter of the national organization with a special free barbecue dinner November 1. The social event is for members only and their friends, including many Democrats who have been invited. It is also an event geared toward welcoming potential new members. "We are going to throw a nice dinner party for our members and friends, to celebrate the fact we completed the requirements of our national committee for full chapter status," said Tim O’Herin, president of the group. LCR is the nation’s largest organization of Republicans who support fairness, freedom, and equality for gay and lesbian Americans. It has state chapters nationwide, a full-time staff in \Vashington, DC, and a Federal political action committee. "Although LCR of Oklahoma has been active in the gay community for about three years, this is our first year as a recognized chapter," he said. The party is by invitation only, and will be held in a member’s home in the south Edmond, North Oklahoma City area. The barbecue dinner is being provided by Head Country Barbecue of Ponca City. Dinner will be at 7:30 PM., with a one hour cocktail hour at 6:30 PM. "We encourage any gay man or lesbian who is a Republican, or supports our goals, to contact us for details about the dinner," he said. "Since it is being held at a private residence, we will not publicize the exact details of its location, but anyone who is interested in attending can contact us for further information," O’Herin said. ....................Continued page 27 Deborah Harry per£orm At T sa’s Historic Brady eater TULSA, OK (P/R) __ The lead singer for Rock & Roll Hall of Fame inductees Blondie, Deborah Harry is performing at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Tuesday November 27th. The ultimate pop-rock, new wave diva, Debbie Harry set the mold, incorporating everything she learned from culture pioneers like Andy Warhot, Giorgio Moroder and Fab Five Freddy into her fashion, look and, particularly, sound. With Blondie, she and Chris Stein brought the worlds of disco and rock together with "Heart of Glass", "Dreaming", "The Tide Is High", and "Call Me" and broke ground by combining hiphop and pop on "Rapture." As a solo artist, Nile Rodgers & Bernard Edwards co-produced her first release Koo Koo in 1981. She continues to defy expectations with such genre-busting efforts as "French Kissing in t~he U.S.A.," "Rush Rush," "Rain", ’[Atomic", and "The Jam Was Moving." Before there was Madonna and Gwen Stefani, Debbie Harry was rock’s reigning blonde pin-up icon, and both are quick to acknowledge her inspiration, as are countless female (and male) rockers who have since formed bands. On the heels of her sixth solo album "Necessary Evil", Deborah Harry will be performing live at Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater Tuesday November 27th, 2007. Doors open at 6:30 p.m. and show starts at 7:30 p.m. Tickets cost $29, $39 & $49. at www.bradytheater.com, Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater at 105 West Brady, or by calling the Brady Theater Ticket Office at (918) 58-BRADY (27239). www.ozarksstar.corn the ST.~R 11 Y÷a ! GUTHRIE, OK__ The Guthrie Centennial Committee, in coordination with the Oklahoma State Centennial Commission, is proud to present a major state celebration in Guthrie, Oklahoma on November 16, 2007. This State Holiday celebrates the 100 Year Proclamation of Oklahoma Statehood by President Theodore Roosevelt on November 16, 1907. Guthrie, as Oklahoma’s First State Capital, will host historical re-enactments of the statehood proclamation, the swearing- in of Oklahoma’s First Governor, Cliarles Haskell, and the symbolic wedding of Oklahoma Territory with Indian Territory. These re-enactments will be held at the historic Carnegie Library in Guthrie, where they actually occurred in 1907. At 12 Noon, a historic parade will be held, just as occurred in 1907, and will retrace the route from the Scottish Rite Temple to Mineral Wells Park. This historic parade will include major university marching bands such as the University of Oklahoma, Oklahoma State University, Langston University, the University of Central Oklahoma, and the Oklahoma Centennial All Star Band. In addition, marching bands from Logan County high schools will also perform. At Mineral Wells Park, a barbeque will be held with the identical menu which occurred a century ago...barbeque, bread, a pickle, coffee and lemonade. Other events and entertainment venues will also be held throughout the downtown area during the day. State and national dignitaries will be in Guthrie, to participate in the reenactments, and in the parade. The President of the United States has been invited to be in Guthrie also on this day. The City of Guthrie has been advised that between 75,000 and 100, 000 visitors may attend events on this historic day. As a small city, the challenge of these crowds will be enormous. City planning is ongoing throughout 2007 to anticipate and deal with crowds. Many volunteers from the Guthrie and Logan County communities, and from the region, will assist in making a historic day for visitors. Lodging, dining, other details: Residents are being encouraged to wear early 1900 "Period Dress" for the Statehood Day events. Victorian, Edwardian, and Western dress is encouraged but not required. Visitors to Guthrie are also welcome to wear period attire. Lodging and dining referrals may be found through the Chamber of Commerce at 405-282-1947. Historic Pollard Inn at 405-282-1000 The Guthrie Bed & Breakfast Association through v~.guthriebb.com Sleep Inn at 405-260-1400 With the large anticipated crowds, visitors may desire to bring personal or picnic lunches. 12 the STAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com PlanetOu InCo Sells RSVP Vacations SAN FRANCISCO, CA (PRNewswire- FirstCall __PlanetOut inc., the leading media and entertainment company exclusively focused on the gay and lesbian market, today announced that it has entered into a definitive agreement with Atlantis Events, Inc. for Atlantis to acquire RSVP Vacations. The transaction is subject to customary closing conditions and is expected to close on or about October 24, 2007. The sale will not affect RSVP’s scheduled itinerary, nor will it affect current passenger bookings. "We are extremely pleased that RSVP wil! become part of the Atlantis family," said Karen Magee, chief executive officer, Planet- Out Inc. "Atlantis plans to preserve RSVP’s distinct brand, enabling Atlantis to expand the audience it serves by taking advantage of RSVP’s unique positioning within the LGBT community. We believe this combination also will be a real positive for RSVP’S customers and business partners. It really is a perfect match and we’re looking forward to expanding and extending our marketing relationship with Atlantis." "From a corporate perspective, we believe this transaction demonstrates to our shareholders that we are continuing to deliver on our commitment to leverage our strengths by simplifying our business model and emphasizing our core competencies," added Magee. "We are focused on ensuring that we are in the best position to realize our full potential as the leading media and entertainment company exclusively serving the LGBT market, while also strengthening our balance sheet." Magee also pointed out that the sale of RSVP reflects PlanetOut’s strategy of shifting its business to a model which has advertising revenue at its core, and draws strength from the company’s powerful, iconic media brands. Quot bBe Quotes The U.S. Supreme Court declined to hear a challenge to Alabama’s ban on the sale of sex toys, ending a nine-year legal battle and sending a warning to store owners to clean off their shelves. Sherri Williams, owner of Pleasures stores in Huntsville and Decatur, said she was disappointed, but plans to sue again on First Amendment free speech grounds. "My motto has been ’They are going to have to pry this vibrator from my cold, dead hand.’ I refuse to give up," she said. George Takei gets own asteroid: "I am now a heavenly body,’, says the out gay actor ofAsteroid 1994 GT9’s official renaming in honor of his long "Star Trek" service. George Takei already had a place among the stars in the minds of millions of"Star Trek" fans. Now he’s taking up permanent residence as the namesake of the asteroid formerly known as the 1994 GTg. The asteroid, located between Mars and Jupiter, has been renamed 7307 Takei in honor of the actor, who is best known for his role as Hikaru Sulu in the original "Star Trek" series. "I think the opponents of gay marriage really fall into two categories. A small group of people just don’t like gay people. If you don’t like one, you don’t like two. It’s geometric. The larger percentage are people who are generally supportive of equal rights, as they have been in Massachusetts, but hear these predictions that it’s going to be socially very chaotic, and they figure, why take the chance?" -- Gay U.S. Rep. Barney Frank, D-Mass., to the Wellesley [Mass.] Townsman. Photo: Presenting the CarlAlbertAward to Mr. Lemon (right) isfim Frasier, a Tulsa Stonezoall Democrat OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ On October 20 at the Oklahoma State Democratic Party’s annual Carl Albert Dinner, Bob Lemon received the Carl Albert Award along with the late State Senator Keith Leftwich. Mr.Lemon, who describes himself as "straight but not narrow," is an active member of the Oldahoma StonewaB Democrats and a generous supporter of many causes of the GLBT community. Quotable Quotes Opponents of Oregon’s new same-sex domestic partnership law failed to turn in enough valid signatures to block the measure that takes effect Jan. 1, 2008. "We’re thrilled to bring Atlantis and RSVP together into the same family for the first time," said Rich Campbell, chief executive officer ofAtlantis. "The two companies are stronger together than they are apart, and taken together demonstrate the strength and vitality of the gay travel market." www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 13 October 1930 (77 yeas ago this month): Sociologist Laud I-tumphreys is born in Chickasha, Oklahoma. was ONahoman Lau d Humphreys? aud I-Iumphreys’ 1970 book, Tearoom Trade: Impersonal Sex in Public Places, presented a landmark ethnographic study of men who cruise for anonymous sex in public bathrooms - a topic that remains relevant to this day. Robert Allan Humphreys was born October 16, 1930, in Chickasha, Okla., the son of a conservative member of the state House of Representatives. After graduating from college in Colorado Springs, Humphreys earned a Master of Divinity degree in 1955 and was ordained an Episcopal priest (at which time he adopted the name "Laud"). He married his wife Nancy at age 30, and the couple had two children. Humphreys’ involvement in black civil rights and antiwar activism in the 1960s garnered attention from the FBI and angered prominent members of his various congregations. After he was dismissed from a parish post in Wichita, Kan., he enrolled in graduate school at Washington University in St. Louis to study socio!ogy and crimino!- ogy. Possibly motivated both by the discovery that his deceased father led a secret homosexual life and by struggles with his own sexuali~ Humphreys decided to study men who seek sex in public toilets, or "tearooms." Though Humphreys claimed he was a "watch queen," or a voyeur who acted as a lookout, many suspect he was a more direct participant. Humphreys recorded the license plate numbers of more than 100 men he observed having sex - mainly fellatio - in the bathrooms of a city park, used these to track down their addresses, and later visited their homes in disguise, posing as a public health interviewer. ~ne subjects never knew they were part of a study, much less gave their consent. Humphreys’ Ph.D. dissertation, published as Tearoom Trade in !970, detailed the steps involved in the homosexual public sex ritual - positioning, signaling, maneuvering, contracting, foreplay, and the payoff- as well as the intricate back-and-forth as men gauged one another’s interest. As such, he concluded, it was highly unlikely that an unwitting straight man would be molested or pestered for sex. Though the men went to great lengths to avoid both arrest arid violence from uninterested heterosexuals, police used the cruising code for entrapment. "W-hen a homosexual takes a seat in the adjacent commode and starts tapping his foot, the decoy will tap back," Humphreys wrote. Humphreys found that just over half the men he studied were married, 38 percent did not consider themselves either homosexual or bisexual, and only !4 percent were openly gay. They came from diverse races and socioeconomic classes and were generally similar to "normal" heterosexual men, except that the cruisers tended to be politica~ y and socially conservative pillars of their community. "In donning the breastplate of righteousness," Humphreys wrote, "the covert deviant assumes a protective shield of superpropriety." Humphreys’ dissertation caused an immediate furor. ~Pne university chancellor sought to have his degree revoked for abetting felonies, sociology colleaDles criticized his dishonest research methods, and some gay activists regarded the study as an embarrassment - though it shored up the argument that since homosexual cruisers bothered no one else, bathroom busts were a waste of resources. Nevertheless, _Tearoom Trade won the prestigious C. Wright Mills award from the Society for the Study of Social Problems. In 1972, Humphreys was hired as a professor of sociology and criminal justice at Pitzer College in Claremont, Calif. - a contract he negotiated from a jail cell where he was serving time for invading a draft board office and smashing a portrait of Richard Nixon. He came out publicly at the 1974 annual meeting of the American Sociological Association as part of a panel discussion in which he also outed Edward Sagarin (who had written the groundbrea~ng Tlxe Homosexual in ka~aerica under the name Donald Webster CoW in 1951, but had since grown critica! of the gay movement). Humphreys went on to co-found the Sociologists’ Gay (now LGBT) Caucus. By the mid- !970s, Humphreys’ scholarly productivity had declined, and he began to shirk his academic responsibilities. In 1980, he left his wife, moved in with a male protege, started a private counseling practice, and became increasingly involved with the Los Angeles gay community. In his later years, he returned to the ministry, serving people with AIDS. A heavy smoker, he died of lung cancer at the age of 58. The ethics of Humphreys’ study are still widely debated. Along with other questionable research in various fields, it helped usher in strong informed consent requirements and institutional review boards to protect research participants. But his work has undergone reconsideration in recent years. None of his subjects were actually harmed (Humphreys kept their information under lock and key), and some commentators have suggested that much of the initial furor was motivated more by distaste for the topic than true concern for the subjects. Further, information about public sex cultures proved invaluable in devising AIDS prevention strategies, and partidpantobserver research with an advocacy" angle became more acceptable. Almost four decades after its publication, Tearoom Trade remains the definitive guide to homosexual toilet sex. Despite a much larger GLBT community, many more venues for meeting, and pervasive sex on the Internet, anonymous sex in public places shows no sign of dissipating among gay or non-gay-identified men. For further reading: Galliher, John, W’ayne Brekhaus, and David Keys. 2004. Laud Humphreys: Prophet of Homosexuality and Sociology (University of Wisconsin). Horowitz, Irving. 2003. Tributes: Personal Reflections on a Century of Social Research (Transaction Publishers). Schacht, Steven. 2004. Moving Beyond the ControversT: Remembering the Many Contributions of Laud Humphreys to Sociology and the Study of Sexuality. International Journal o-fSociolo{~y and Social Policy (Vol. 24; special issue on Humpnreys). 14 the STAR ~w.ozarksstar.com AbriefhiSlory ofthe grape Pinot Noir comes from all over world. It’s grown in many coun including: France, Argent Austria (called burgunder), (Sp&tburgunder), (Pinot Nero Zealand, "Dole" when the United States, gundac). Pinot Noir is a difficult with. The plant is A parent plant can wildly different ~erry size ar even flavor. Cabernet I genetically individual clones Noir has it ages earthiness, smoke Chardonnay in spar- Ion in inot Noirgoes l~hrough a range of langes as it matures. A young wine will fruity characteristics including: Cal raspberry and strawberry. 4. Jayer-Glf Hautes Cot Burgundy 5. Etude Carneros ’05 California 6 Raptor Ridge Willamette Valley ’05 0~egon And as always, I say go to your favorite www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 15 OnSaturday night November I0 Tulsans "W~II have an opportunity to hear one ofAmerica’s greatest songrcesses, a remalkable artist with her own eclectic brand of modern folk music with her own unique twist. Born in Greenwich, Connecticut and growing up as a talented prodigy, she studied at the American School of Ballet, went on to earn a drama degree at Stanford Universi~ founded her own MPress Record label, racked up a repertoire of discography, and has even written & performed nasionally known TV commerai£s. She has toured extensively in both the United States and Europe. Described by Judy Collins as great glfx...an incredible talent and beauty," the shares her thoughts, hopes and aspirations with us. STAR: Glad to have you with us, we’re delighted you’re coming m Oklahoma. Have you been here before? MS SAGE: I have, I played there a couple of years ago at your Tulsa Pride Festival. STAR: How would you describe your unique brand of music? MS. SAGE: I would tend to call my music arc-pop, which kind of btingr in some of the pop music that I listened to growing up from the 50s, 60s and 70s and some of the classical music I heard as a ballerina. STAR: As a record coflector myself I was intrigaed with some of the music that influenced you growing up, like the records your parents had of Broadway shows, the Beades ¯nd the do-wop artists of the 60s. MS. SAGE; Certainly the Beades, a lot of classical music, and Broadway musicals. In the 70s a best friend tttrned me on to a lot of folk ardsts like Carole King, James Taylor 1 6 the STAR & Cat Stevens. Of course I heard Isreali folk music when I was at Temple, STAR: Did the music you hear at your synagogue have a big influence on your style? MS.SAGE: Mosdy the Temple music made me love to sing. Tae cultural aspects of tynagugue exposed me to a lot of music, a lot of minor keys & beautifid melodies, another area that showed me how music can bring people together. MS.SAGE: Well, I was always into music, sounding music out on the piano by ear when I was about 2 ½ years old. Actually the first Broadly show I saw was Ok~homa, and when I gut home I would try to play the score by ear. I gut into dance, which was a good part ofmy muaiol education a~ well. STAR: You had written and performed for some nationally known TV commercials. What are some that we might remember? MS. SAGE: I did one for Gillette, ~nd another one for Cwstal L 7 or 8 years ~ inside you, takes you away, Crystal Light, 5 different STAR: I love it! What influences your music most of nil today? SPINNAKER CRAB CAKES Ingredients: 1 pinch white pepper a bowl with crab meat may<:~rt~i~ eggs, chives and seasonlow heat. Slowly now or they WJI! ~l to bum. Ser~e with a side of mayonnaise into which a few dl~p~ of fresh lemon juice and TRAVEL by Donald Pite and Ray Williams SAN FRANCISCO AND "THE CASTRO" ~ehave just returned froio the beauttfial "City by the Bay~ and it is tr~y as wonderful, exciting alld lnagl~ificellt as ever. For some strange re~.son it kad been 6 years shace we were last there and we used to go once a year, but we got involved with othes places to visit instead, but we were so happy to visit San Frmlcisco again. \Ve find it am~iog how many gays around the country have never been to gan Francisco so we will start of by saying that Saa Frmacisco is the city ~uxd "]he Castro" is the gay district in Sm~ Frmacisco which is filled with lots of great restaurants, shops and ofcourse plenty of bars. "!bns of bars so whatever you ~re into you will be sure to find a bar just for you! "The Cusrco" has been around for y~ a~d years. All up ~nd dco~n the Castro d~strict ~re gay ttags waving e,mrywhere ~d the largest one is just as you step offthe pubic transportation system and you are laced with the largest gay ttag that we and a wondert~ c~mmunity room located t~ght at the front which overlooks the mreet where you c~n watch hmtdreds ofgays w~k b?; 18 the STAR ins and a public email statina, available 2417. And in addition you have access to their refrigerator and mlcro-wave. They care about their guests! Just wish that more B and B’s were as considerate and caring. Why ~xor stay where you are partying? Be sure ~nd check out both of these B and B’s before making a trip to San Francisco. Shopping for gifts, clothing, decorating items or even groceries are all within a couple bIoch area of the Castro. T~e res~aura~*rs axe a~ individu.tlly owned and off&s a wide ~ango of menus. A~xd of course by s tayla~g at the Village House you ~e right i~ tlm middle of everyth~g ~d can w~kk everywhe~[ ~en there is San Francisco i~sel£ What a beaurifu[ dty and of art work, museums, down,town shopping on Union Squaxe. Chinatown is just a few bhicl~ from downtown and you certainly don’t want to miss the shopping and food there, From downtown take one of the cable cars to Fisherman’s Wharf alld Pier 39 to see all die The gay section ofHippie Hollow Park is afavorite Austin kangout on weekend afternoons. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Austin, Texas Fast-growing Aastin has been one ofAmerica’s most talked about cities over the past decade, having not o~ly increased its population by nearly 50 percent but also solidified its [eputation as an ultracool place ro live and visit. The fact that Austin is oppressively hot for a few months each summer is about its only maior negative. A~ auctman approaches, however, Austin cools off again ~nd this means the city’s myd~ad cafes, lounges, music dubs, and gay hangouts sizzle with activit~ If yoffve been to this lefr leaning - especially by Texas standards - city before, say five or more yeaxs ago, you may have trouble recoguiaing it. The downtown landscape has been transformed by recendy constructed office and hotel towers, and a fantastic new air port makes traveling here a breeze. Here’s a recipe for enjoying the perfect three-day weekend in this upbeat, welcoming metropolis. Consider staying in the forty downtown Warehouse District, with its bounty of both gay and gay-friendly bars as wdl as hip restau rants and offbeat boutiques. Worthy recommendatiorts include the most glamorous hotd in town, the Intercontinental Stephen E Austin. an opulent 16-stoty beauty with marne baths, 1920s era furnishings, mad twice-daily maid service. Perfectly appealing yet less pricey downtown alternatives include the Radisson Town Lake, whgse rooms face the scenic Colorado River (known as Tow~ Lake 20 the STAR in this part of the dty), and the H~apton Irm and Suites, an attractive, reasonably priced mid-rise opened a few years ago. Across the river, within walking distance of downtown, you’ll find another excellent todging base, the retro-trendy South Congress district, home to the devedy restored Austin Motel. Many rooms at dais quirky slice of ’50s-style Americana have tile floors, kitchenettes, Jacuzai rubs, and kidney shaped patios. There’s an on-site Mexican restaurant, El Sol y La Luna, that turns out fiery, kich-ass huevos rancheros and carne asada. A few blocks away, the swankier Hotel San Jose is another old motor court that’s been given a postmodern, mlnlmalist makeover. The spacious courtyard suites are downright posh (and pricey), but a simpler though soil snazzy room with a shared bath runs for under $100 nighd)~ Entertain g~ests in the hotel’s scene-y iounga-cum-coffechouse. OI~ Friday, your first night in town, decompress ~tfter your flight or car ride with a rel~xh~g, informal meal at one of the city’s well-regarded purveyors ofTex-Mex, such as Guero’s or Manuel’s. A former feed store that’s now a fabulous taqueria, Guero’s serves some of the best Mexic~m f~re in central Texas - flora standard but artl~ly seasoned tamales to more innovative creations like marinated grilled pork on a corn tortilla with onions, cilantro, mad fresh pineapple. Fancier than most oFabe Mexican testaments in town, M~nuel’s is a sleek, deco-inspired space i~ the Warehouse District with a sassy little bar in back. Try some of the more innovative creations, fike corn-battered colossal thdmp with a poblano-chile c~rn, or pork enchiladas in a velvety mole sauce. Al~er your meal. it’s time to check out at least a couple ofAustin’s inviting gay bars - it’s a topsy-turvy scene in these parts, with one or two bars coming and going seemingly every year. But you can consistendy count on there being roughly a half dozen gay bars downtown, mosdy concentrated in the Warehouse Distticr. Worthwhile options on Fridays include the relatively new Rain on 4th, which opened in the Warehouse District in 2006, and has a kively deck out back, a cozy bifliards bar up front, and a mldssize dance b~r iu file middle; and Chadie’s, the city’s oldest gay bar, which fies in the shadows of the state capitol building. Go-go boys perform inside, ~nd there’s a spacious deck in back. If you’re looking to keep it mellow your first night, have an ~er-dlnner cocktail, fruit smoothie, or espresso drink at the stylJth Halcyon Coffeehouse and Lounge, a hlpster-i~fested, gay friendly bengout across the street from Rain on Rise a~*d shine on Saturday morning with breakfast at one ofAustin’s more eccentric nosh pits, Magnolia Crate, which has branches along South Congress Avenue ~aad also just west of downtown on Lake Austin Boulevard. The delicious, filling breakfast specialties range from the "Solar Landscape" (seasoned grilled potatoes, red onions, and ham topped with queso ~nd chipotle sauce) to hefty gingerbread pancakes bursting with blueberties. Very dose to the South Congress neighborhood, you can take to the outdoors and work offsome calories with a stroll through beautiful 350-acre Zilber Park, a fine spot to tan your hide on sunny days. The park’s spting-fed Barton Springs Pool, a popular and enormous swimming hule, remains an invigorating 68 degrees year-round, so bring along a swimsuit if the weather’s nice. Austin’s best outdoor attraction, however, is Hippie Hollow Park, which hugs the shores of stunning Lake Travis, about a 30-minute drive west of town. This is the region’s only official clothing-optional sunbathing spot. The gay section, which draws substantial crowds on just about any day with temperatures above 65 degrees, lies at the very end of the pathway that leads from the parking lot. On weekend afternoons you’ll often see pleasure boats packed with cute guys docked just offshore. Break for refreshments with a meal at the Oasis, a massive outdoor compound set high on a bluff overlooking the lake and Hippie Hollow - it’s a short drive from the park. The mediocre Mexican food at Oasis won’t win any culinary awards, but the views and the potent margaritas make this a winner. On your way back into town, treat yourself to some truly heavenly ice cream at Amy’s, a shrine to fattening dairy treats. Mexican vanilla, pumpkin cheesecake, and honeyed brandy are a few poptflar flavors at this local chain with outposts in several handy locations, induding South Congress Avenue and 6th Street downtown. If you still have a litde time left, stroll among the cool antiques, homefurnishings, and second-hand clothing shops a!ong South Congress Avenue and also in the Warehouse District. Saturday-night dinner options are many. Stick with the Warehouse District for the best people-watching, plus proximity to gay nightlife. Excellent dining bets include Kenichi, a mod, happening place where pretty young things hobnob over superbly rendered Japanese cuisine. At nearby Malaga, you can savor plate after plate of terrific tapas, such as braised beef short ribs in Riojo vdne. It’s a dramatic space with tall brick walls and marble tables, and there’s Latin music most nights. Saturday is Austin’s big night for gay revelry. Rain on 4th and Charlie’s remain popular options, but this is also the best night to check out Rain’s neighbor, Oilcan Harry’s, which has been a £xture in the city for years. This always-packed stand-and-model bar attracts a hot collegiate crowd. There are a couple of bar areas, a patio in back, and a good (loud) sound system serving the tiny but pulsing dance floor. Austin’s many queer country-western fans head to the nearby Rainbow Cattle Co., where they two-step and line-dance below a sea ofwagon wheels and Wild West artifacts. If you’re into leather, head to the Chain Drive, which cultivates a bearish and rugged ambience. The city also has dozens of clubs and lounges hosting bands and singers ofjust about every ilk, making Austin one of the nation’s top cities for live music. Just stroll through the Warehouse District, especially along East 6th Street, and listen for the sounds of music to your liking. In Austin, nobody cares much about looks, labels, and agendas - you’ll be made to feel welcome most anywhere. Sunday morning offers a fresh opportunity to sample one ofAustin’s great brunch or lunch spots - depending on how late you sleep in. A favorite of the gay community, Katz Dell is renowned for its half-pound sandwiches - the grilled three-cheese with tomatoes is especially good. Another enjoyable option is the South Congress Cafe, a handsome space known for such toothsome brunch treats as duck-and-oyster gumbo, and a luscious carrot cake French toast. Spend your final afternoon in town exploring the leafy 357-acre campus of the University ofTexas, whose attractions include the Lyndon Baines Johnson Presidential Library and Museum and the Texas Memorial Museum, which has exhibits on state history and local flora and fauna. UT’s Blanton Museum ofArt is well-regarded for its collections of Renaissance paintings as well as modern Latin American art. Guadalupe Street, known along its border with LIT as "the Drag," is a haven of alternative culture as well as the place to shop for locally made arts and crafts, Longhorn memorabilia, and other offbeat goods. On your final night in Austin, you might go all out with a highticket dinner at one of the city’s most sophisticated restaurants, such as dark and sexy Jeffrey’s, which has the polish of a big-city supper dub and a clientele that ranges from celebs to politicos. The lamb T-bone with spinach-parmesan souffle and onion-mint confit is a typically sublime dish. Don’t miss the white-chocolate parfait with brandied cherries and pistachios i~or dessert - a memorable ending to a great Austin weekend. 72% of gays and lesbians prefer to buy from companies that advertise to them directly. (Source: Harris/Witeck-Combs) Brand loyal, 89% of gays and lesbians are highly likely to seek out brands that advertise to them; the majority are willing to pay a premium for quality products and services. (Source: Simmons) ~,~twv.ozarksstar,com the STAR 21 by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast lae Spinnaker Restaurant, On San Francisco Bay The Spinnaker Restaurant in downtown Sausalito, California is one of our very favorite restaurants in the country. We have dined there many times over the years and it just keeps getting better and better. Chef Phil Collins has been there since 1982 and Jeff Scharosch the General Manager has been there since 1994. q-hey do a remarkable job and it shows! "l-he Spinnaker Restaurant has panoramic views of the Sausalito waterfront, San Francisco skyline, Angel Island, Belvedere, Alcatraz, & the Bay Bridge. Floor to ceiling glass walls enable guests the chance to enjoy the scenery from every angle in the dining room, which is built on piers directly over the water. The view is unrivaled and is the best in the San Francisco Bay Area. Located in beautiful historic Sausalito, The Spinnaker is just a short drive from the Golden Gate Bridge. The stunning view is only surpassed by our extensive menu, featuring the freshest seafood & finest ingredients. You can also take the Ferry or bus service to Sausalito and it is just a 5 minute walk from either terminals to the restaurant. For over 47 years they have been treating guests to the finest in seafood and pasta. q-hey are open everyday from 11:00 AM to 11:00 PM. Their menus offers something for everyone, with fresh seafood, pasta, steak, chicken, & vegetarian options. Seafood highlights include the Mixed Seafood Grill, Spinnaker Paella, Pacific Mahi Saut~ with Crab & Brie, Grilled Lobster Tail, & Petrale Filet with a Crouton & Macadamia nut crust. Our pasta selections include Penne with Grilled Chicken, Four-Cheese Ravioli with Walnut Alfredo or Pesto Sauce, & Fettuccini with Crab. They also offer Petite New York Steak or Filet Mignon with Cabernet Bordelaise, Piquant Chicken Breasts Saute, & Braised Chicken Breasts in a Champagne reduction. Vegetarians can choose from an array of salads, Pasta Primavera, Bruschetta, Cheese Quesadilla, or Baked Brie with Roast Garlic. If you wish to dine for lunch, they also offer many delighttiff sandwiches including the Crab, Shrimp & Avocado Club, Club House Sandwich, & The Spinnaker Hamburger. For those with a sweet tooth, their desserts will surely hit the spot. Cr~me Brule, Berry Trifle, Warm Apple Tart with Vanilla Bean Gelato, & Hot Fudge Sundae axe just a few of their sinful selections. They also have a huge wine selection and banquet facilities are available for special events and parties. Valet parking is available. Be sure and check their website at: www.thespinnaker.com No trip to San Francisco would be complete without dining at Spinnaker’s! 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.corn A Family Affair Lesbian Notions, an interview with Jennifer Chrisle~ executive director ofthe Family Equality Council No good deed goes unpunished. That is certainly the case for Michael Gregg Valdez and Michael Oberg, who took in the four young children ofValdez’s niece. The niece asked the couple to take care of her children while she dealt with some drug-related criminal matters. Already parenting Valdez’s biological daughter, Michael and Gregg, as Valdez in known, are more than happy to provide a stable, loving home until the children’s mother is ready to do the same. The problem is they live in Utah, where two unmarried people cohabitating cannot serve as foster or adoptive parents. And in Texas, the state is proposing spending close to $3 million to investigate current foster parents. If any of the parents are found to be LGBT, the kids will be yanked from the homes. Chrisler has been working to protect those kids and their LGBT families since Apri! of 2005, when she came to the Council, then located in Washington, D.C., after serving as a fundraising consultant for political campaigns and LGBT organizations in Massachusetts. She and her spouse, Cheryl Jacques (yes, the same Cheryl Jacques who helmed the Human Rights Campaign for a brief and shining moment) recently moved The state’s Division of Children and Family Services asked the courts to take the children away from the two men so they could be placed in foster homes more to the state’s liking - married, heterosexual households. Instead of handing custody to the state, the court took custody of the kids and then turned around and granted Gregg temporary custody. For now, the four will stay together. Remember the Easter Egg Roll at the White House, where LGBT families wore rainbow leis and received national media attention? That was thanks to FEC. This is just the type of situation that fuels the passion ofJennifer Chrisler, the executive director of the Family Equality Council. You may have knmvn the organization as Family Pride - the name was recently changed to reflect their purpose of achieving family equality for all loving families. "Mike and Gregg’s willingness to open their homes and hearts highlights ~vhat is best about families - love, commitment, strength, and support," Chrisler told me recently. "Utah’s law regarding placement of foster care children is not good public policy, nor is it good for children." Ballot initiatives banning gay adoption and fostering may well raise their ugly heads in the 2008 presidential race - although when that tactic was used in 2004, it didn’t gain much traction. However, according to Chrisler, Arkansas is likely to mount a ballot initiative that in the long run will just hurt kids in need of loving homes. back to the Bay State with their 5-year-old fraternal twins, Tim and Tom. The organization moved with them, and is now headquartered in Boston. ’Tm a mother. I’m raising my kids in a world where our families don’t have what they need to keep each other strong and protected," she noted. "Kids spend a lot of time explaining who their families are, and I’d like that to stop." In the little more than two years that Chrisler has been at FEC, she has transformed the organization into a political powerhouse. Remember the Easter Egg Roll at the White House, where LGBT families wore rainbow leis and received national media attention? That was thanks to FEC. When James Dobson from Focus on the Family wrote a hatefiA op-ed in _Time Magazine_ about Mary Cheney’s pregnancy, FEC pressured the conservative weekly to run a counterpoint piece entitled "Two Mommies or Two Daddies Will Do Fine, Thanks," authored by Chrisler. The piece focused on the inequity ofVirginia state law - where Cheney and her partner, Heather Poe, live with their son - and how Poe is without any legal parental rights. "Some of the pressing issues we face are marriage equality and uniform parenting laws," said Chrisler. "We need laws that recognize the complicated and creative ways our families are created. Issues such as surrogacy, sperm donors, and divorce create legal complications. It would be nice to have a uniform law to protect our families." A community organizer at heart, Chrisler understands that she can’t be the only one out there speaking on behalf of family equality. Through OUTspoken Families, the organization’s national speakers bureau, more than 1,000 people in 39 states, D.C., one U.S. territory, and three foreign countries have been trained to speak out on family equality issues. "We’re training people to be advocates for themselves, their families, friends, and people they care about at every level of their life, from responding to a comment in an elevator to speaking to the PTA," said Chrisler. "We have a lot of people raising the issue of family equality at lots of different levels...we’re working to change the hearts and minds of straight people we come into contact with." Changing those hearts and minds means changing the way LGBT families live. Many of us no longer have to live in the shadows, afraid that someone will find out that our kids have two mommies or two daddies. But for those who do, FEC and Chrisler work to change laws, make schools safer, and create a national LGBT family movement that can no longer be ignored. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 Diversityl~ ~ho are your greatest enemies? Luke Skywalker batded the respiratory challenged scoundrel Darth Vader. Superman played chess games with the Mensa maniac Lex Luthor. Batman and Robin were vexed with the likes of the Joker when they weren’t exploring the depths of their’batcaves. You and I have much worse enemies to ward off. These foes rear their ugly heads daily and seek to divert us from our health and fitness goals. The Bangles rendition of Manic Monday starts us heading through a sea of procrastination and fitness evasion. There is the Monday happy hour and 2-4-1 drinks the rest of the night at your favorite watering hole. This double headed monster lures you from your daily workout with promises of sweet intoxication and the aroma of tangy mouth-watering boneless buffalo wings. This enemy gets extra fire power during October, November, and December ~vith Monday night football. Resistance is futile. Tuesday night should be your cardiovascular workout on the elliptical machine. However, that new television lineup on NBC isn’t going to watch itself. It took scores of actors, directors, producers, grips, and cameramen many weeks to compile "Must See TV". You could just TIVO it all and catch up some other night. You would then be terrifyingly ignorant around the water cooler the next morning. That’s too dangerous to chance. Bad guys win again! It’s hump day and you’ll get back on that fitness wagon that you fell off of earlier in the week. I smell a conjunction though. BUT.... the guy in shipping and receiving is requesting your attendance at his birthday bonanza at the Hoo-Ha Lounge. The enemy here 26 the STAR calls himself GUILT. Your coworkers needle you about missing the retirement party for Nallely in the claims department. The decision is dear. You can always hit the weights tomorrow at the gym. Thursday dawns on you and what knave could be lurking to derail your plans today? Out of the bushes and over the grassy knoll are fired two shots. They are in the form of two tickets to that sold-out Erasure concert. No way! Get out! Andy Bell is in town and you’ve got your daws on some front row seats. You know every song and every lyric. That arm and chest workout can be shelved until tomorrow! What a concert! You have a hoarse voice but at least it’s Friday. Oh no! It’s Friday! There’s no way you can hit the gym tonight. Everybody who’s anybody will be at that new dub in downtown. Those hot DJ’s from KGAY will be handing out free T-shirts and selling $1 shooters for charity. You have all weekend offwork and you can surely make up for missed workout time then. After all Scarlet, tomorrow is another day. Saturday brings bright skies and temperatures in the low 90’s. The phone rings and it’s the boys. They’re heading for the lake with the boat, sunscreen, and a cooler stocked full of barley pops. There is no way you can miss this. I know you’ve said it before. But this has just been an unusual week. You really will get back on track soon. Right? Sunday comes and you can probably write your own defeat against an evil enemy. It doesn’t have to be this way. Stay strong against the dark side. With some discipline and some proper planning, you can keep a workout routine. Know what is important and stay focused. Tomorrow is always the busiest day of the year. Don’t let it be that way. Take charge today! ~is column is brought to you by that guy who likes to stomp hisfeet in bathroom stallsJUST for attention. Thatguy is Ron Blake and he can be reached at www.goblakefirness.com. Quotable Quotes Uganda’s leading Muslim cleric has proposed to President Yoweri Museveni that gays be rounded up and marooned on an island in Lake Victoria unti! they die. Sheikh Ramathan Shaban Mubajje told reporters of his plan following a much publicized meeting with Museveni. "I asked President Museveni to get us an island on Lake Victoria and we take these homosexuals and they die out there," Mubajje told a news conference. "If they die there then we shall have no more homosexuals in the country." Creating Community for People iving with HP4iAtDS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or IMng with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com R~chad Sage continued: MS. SAGE: So very many independent artists actually, because the bulk of my listening time is spent evaluating and listening to music independent artists are sending me at my record label, MPress Records. ’,We do compilations which benefit charity called New Arrivals, we’ve released 2 so far and are working on a third. It’s a great opportunity to hear all kinds of independent music, spanning the range of folk, rock, alternative pop. I think that more inspires than influences me. I try to find my own voice continually, which I have found is a never ending process. As far as mainstream artists I always look forward to the next record from Fiona Apple, and Rufus Wainwright is one ofmy very favorite artists. I also like Coldplay, U2, and I still pull out my Carole King records, am I’m looking forward to an upcoming new Mark Cohn album. STAR: What kinds of audiences do you mainly appeal to now? MS. SAGE: Actually there are several, that’s one of the fun things of starting out at a young age. There is the folk world, the alternative college listeners xvhich are ever changing, a younger set and also those in their 40s 50s and beyond from the coffeehouse scene. I love to play at Pride festivals every summer, about 10 or 15 every year. Of course the GLBT community is a wonderfid and supportive audience. As a matter of fact, we’re about to pul! into Provincetown where we will be playing a gig for Women’s Week. STAR: ~his tour promotes your newest CD The Blistering Sun, what inspired the title? MS.SAGE: It’s a lyric from one of the songs of the album, "Surprise" which was written for my sister’s wedding years ago. It came out almost a year ago, and I’m almost ready to bring out another one in the spring of 2008 called Chandelier. The Blistering Sun is really about self-determination, coming to that place where you are true to yourself, a process and lesson that really never ends. ST/MR: Anything special you’d like to say to the music lovers ofTulsa? MS. SAGE: Just that I’m really excited to come back, it’s been quite a few years. I can’t wait-it’ll be fun! STAR-Looking forward to it, i’ll see you at the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. www.ozarksstar.com Log Cabin Ref)ublicans continued: Oldahomds LCR is one of the newest organizations in OkAahoma dedicated to promoting gay rights. During the past three years it has been active and present at most gay public events, including gay pride celebrations in Tulsa, Oklahoma City and McAAester. "I believe the positive changes we need to make in America for gay rights can best be made when both major political parties are confronted with the reality of its gay members," O’Herin said. "This is espedally true of the Republican Party." For further details contact O’Herin at OKLOGCABIN@aol.com, or call 405-945- 0368. (IGBO) Continued: hotel. Holiday Inn will also host the registration suite, hospitality suite, many social events and a display of panels of the AIDS quilt. The tournament activities will be held at Heritage Lanes at 122nd & Penn and Windsor Lanes at NW 23rd & Meridian. Single and doubles bowling events will be held at Heritage Lanes and the team and Scratch Masters events will be held at Windsor Lanes. Management and staff at both centers are excited about hosting this special event. The weekend will wrap up with a gala awards ceremony to be held in the Sam Noble Special Events Center inside the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum on Sunday evening. This remarkable room will host a catered meal, special presentations by the IGBO Board of Directors, rousing entertainment by Lyric Theatre and the announcement of the winners of the tournament. The tournament will coincide directly with the state of Oklahoma’s Centennial cdebration. We hope our guests will take time to enjoy the city as it steps into its second century of growth and excitement. Please extend a hearty Oklahoma welcome to our guests as they visit our city for this special event! More information about IGBO can be found at www.igbo.org. More information about IGBO Mid-Year 2007 in Oklahoma City can be found at www.igbomy2007.org. MCCJopt r , Ce eBrates 10th Anniversary JOPLIN, MO (P/R) __Spirit of Christ MCC cdebrates ten year of service to the greater Joplin, MO area. This church was started in 1996 in the home of our pastor, Rev. Steve Urie. During the last ten years we have survived in a community where our own GLBT people said we would not survive. We have fed hundreds for the holidays, work closely with our local office ofAIDS Project of the Ozarks, have been a sanctuary for students dismissed for being GLBT, and have a food program available for everyone. Just this year Spirit of Christ MCC joined with MCC of the Living Spring to support the Domestic Partnership Registry in Eureka Springs, AR. We continue our concert series with such talented artists as Marsha Stevens, Terry Lee Ousley~ Shawn Thomas and Sam Sampson. During our celebration Marsha Stevens, Sam Sampson, Rev. Carolyn Mobley from Tulsa, Rev Kurt Krieger from Kansas City and friends from Eureka Springs, AR were all present. We are a member church ofMCC Churches. As a church made up of people from all walks of life, all economic classes, every gender, and a wide variety of ethnic and religious backgrounds. This rich heritage is our greatest blessing, because it brings the whole rainbow of Gods creation together under the same roof. It also presents our greatest challenge as we always strive to reflect this rich diversity in our ministry, programs and services. Spirit of Christ MCC has spent ten years focusing on the needs of our community through acts of kindness while standing for the justice that should be available to all people. Our church is open to all people and while celebrating the traditional church we recognize our God is not in a box. That realization is what frees us and all who worship with us. Find an MCC in your area: in Eureka Springs, AR visit MCC of the Living Spring at 17 Elk Street Sundays at 6PM; in Tulsa, OK visit MCC United at 1623 Maplewood Sundays at 11AM; in Kansas City, MO visit Spirit of Hope MCC at 3801 Wyandotte Sundays at 10:15AM and in Joplin, MO visit Spirit of Christ MCC at 2902 E 20th Street Saturdays at 10:00 AM. the STAR 27 Venus enters her own sign, Libra, helping us all to be more accommodating, artistic, and gracious. And more manipulative? Venus may not be to blame on her own. The Sun is in Scorpio squaring Neptune, inflating our desires and blurring boundaries. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Teamwork comes more easily now, so work on those skills! Erotic tension between you and a good friend needs expression and clarification. Acting on it could be a mistake, but maybe.not. Discussing it is necessary, and probably quite sufficient. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Explore new ways to play and create with others, and find satisfaction there for now. Work is likely to be frustrated by confusion with close associates. Rethinking your goals could help. Express feelings and hunches clearly, and check them out before acting on them. SAGITTARJUS (November 22 - December 20): This is the time to curry favor with your superiors. Avoid gossip and subterfuge. Simply refuse to listen or to participate. As juicy as the dish may be, it will only get you into trouble. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Forget the "tall, dark stranger." Flirt instead with the foreign cutie with dimples - you’ll be luckier in international affairs. But you’re less lucky now with finances. See where those sails need trimming, but wait another week to readjust plans. AQUARIUS (January 20 o February 18): Be very careful who you flirt with. You could seduce almost anyone you like, but you may find your erotic adventures complicating your professional life. At least be very clear about who you are and what you want to do. PISCES (February 19 - Niarch 19): Falling in love comes too easily to you, but ride that warm current now, either basking in the adoration of your partner, or enjoying an amour du jour. Foreign mystical philosophies have a special appeal; follow your instincts, and you may gain terrific insights. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Mend fences with family members or roommates. Be _very_ careful about safe sex! The most exotic and unusual bugs are looking for you. If there’s no spiritual fulfillment in your work, find a way to work it into your exercise. (Yoga? Haikido?) CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your seductive powers are now at their height. You are perhaps a little too sexy and playful, and that could get you into trouble. But just as you can talk your way into anything now, you can almost always talk your way out, too. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Domestic disputes are nearly inevitable now. A drink or a shopping escapade seems to be the easiest way to ameliorate the problem - but drinking only makes it worse, and shopping is just a diversion. Still, a diversion could help! VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Some advice from your partner or another close friend could help you to improve your looks or to feel better about yourself. Appearances count, but go deeper and discuss health issues that you normally wouldn’t. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Enjoy quiet, meditative music and art. A private retreat will give you room to explore your own aesthetics without being influenced by others. Go to a museum or show on your own, and never mind what others like. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your social charms are strong now, but what you want for others may not be what they care for. Explaining your goals may come off a bit too strong, so first ask others what they want. 28 the STAR METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at t0:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! www.ozarksstar.com DOWNTOWN PLAZA ofTULSA 17 West 7th Street Tulsa, OK 918-585-5998 www.downtownplazatulsa.com HABANA INN 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-528-2221 www.habanainn.com KELLY KIRBY, CPA 4815 S. HARVARD, SUITE 424 Tulsa, OK * 918-747-5466 Certified Public Accountant DREXEL ONTHE PARKAPTS. 3041NW41ST Oklahoma City, OK 405-946-0588 BRADYTHEATER 105 WBrady Tulsa, OK 918-582-7339 www.bradytheater.com CENTURY 21 GOLD CASTLE 3627 NW EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma City, OK 73112 405-840-2106 www.c2 lgoldcastle.com CHUCK BRECKENRIDGE Keller Williams Realty Tulsa, OK 918-706-1887 GAY BRADY HHGHTS-TUlsa New and Historic Homes for Sale and Rent For Info: www.gaybradyheightstulsa.com GUSHER’S RESTAURANT 2200 NW 39TH EXPRESSWAY Oklahoma City, OK 405-525-0730 Located inside Habana Inn ANGLES 2117 NW 39th St. Oklahoma City, OK www.anglesdub.com BAMBOO LOUNGE 7204 E. PINE Tulsa, OK 918-836-8700 www.bambooloungetulsa.com www.ozarksstar.com CLUB MAJESTIC 124 N. 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Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, November 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 11 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource November 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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McAffrey, Arkansas’ Kathy Webb, and Alabama’s Patricia Todd, state representatives all, are joined by Guy Padgett, former mayor of Casper, Wyoming, State Senator and progressive Democrat Jolie Justus of Missouri, and Dallas County Sheriff Lupe Valdez. The article and photos begin on Page 78 of the September 25th, 2007, issue, written by Paul Florez in NYC and Padraie Wheeler. In an introduction to the article with the heading "Doing It For Ourselves", the authors write: "After decades of pounding on the walls of government, fighting to be heard, gays and lesbians have finally secured positions inside those walls. There are currently more than 370 openly gay elected officials natiomvide, with at least 100 more expected to run in 2008. Meet six trailblazers who ran as openly gay candidates and won---in red states, no less." The piece on McAffrey reads: "Al McAffrey, 59, has lived a life of service. Before becoming a legislator, he had careers in both the Navy and the Oklahoma City Police Department. McAffrey said his sexuality wasn’t a central issue during his race for the District 88 seat in the Oklahoma State House, but that changed one day when he knocked on the door of a house displaying his opponent’s sign on the front lawn. "The guy said, ’I have only one question to ask you: Are you gay?’" recalls McAffrey. "And I thought, Oh, shit, how am I going to answer this? Well, I’m a pretty point-blank guy, so I said, ’Yeah, I’m gay. Does that mean you’re not going to vote for me?’ He looked at me and said, ’No, I am going to vote for you, because you’re honest." "The man tood down the opponent’s sign right there and then. Step it up to fight AIDS By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Lace up your walking shoes and head to Veterans Park Sat. Oct. 6 to join the fight against MDS. The fifteenth annual walk will step offat 9 a.m. from the park located at 21st street and Boulder avenue. The two mile route will take walkers along Riverside to 31st and then return to Veterans Park. Funds raised by the Tulsa AIDS walk go directly to supporting Tulsa’s National AIDS Fund Americorp team. The five person team provides prevention, testing and outreach services through out the Tulsa community. Tulsa is one of the few cities in the country that ...........Continued page 13 wvcw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 STATE SENATORANDREW RICE ANNOUNCES HIS RUN FOR U.S. SENATE Indigo Girls descend on Tulsa at the Historic Cains Ballroom. The Advocate - the oldest continuously published U.S. gay periodical still in existence - has chronicled the history and culture of the LGBT community for 40 years. Ever simply smell a wine before you taste it? What does it smell like to you? Check out the color too. fl~ c,Ao T~V~- Gay Travelers: Colorado Out of Town: Samta Fe. NM Dining In or OUT Maybe it’s my age - 50 is just around the corner (oy!). Maybe it’s because I’ve been in a relationship since I was 18 (mind you, that means serial monogamy F~T~ESS Introspection can lead you to better understand yourself and ultimately to achieve greater happiness. ON THE COVER: Indigo Girls 4 the STAR STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY ~.~v.ozarksstar.com STATE SENATOR ANDREWANNOUNCES HIS RUN FOR U.S. SENATE By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ QUOTE: "I’m humble as I go through this. I want the people of the state to get to know me, I want to know what their aspirations are, the things they want to see reformed. " Longtime LGBT ally Andrew Rice announced through press conferences & fundraisers that he is running for the U.S. Senate seat currently held by James Inhofe. Together with his wife Apple and their 2 sons, Parker & Noah, he let Oklahomans know where he stands and why he wanted the job. He currently holds the seat for State Senate District 46, elected to that position in 2006. That seat was previous held by Bernest Cain, who likewise was a staunch ally of the GLBT community as well as many other progressive causes but~ had to leave office due to term limits. ~,~rw.ozarksstar.corn At his press conference at the Oklahoma State Democratic Party Headquarters, he touched on many issues facing our country and how he wanted to make a difference, including global xvarming, national security, fiscal responsibility, and a major lack of trust Americans feel for their government. As he puts it: "It’s pretty remarkable the amount of disgruntlement, and really the lack of faith people have in government. I think they feel a lot of anxiety not only because of the complexities we deal with like terrorism and . the health care crisis, but even basic good government practices." He stressed that his life experiences, especially his work in an evenly divided Oklahoma State Senate had given him the know-how of how to work with Republicans and yet stick to his principles. He stated, "Robert S. Kerr, Henry Bellmon and David Boren had a trait in common that they were able to find common ground and get things done for our state when it needed to be done. I think that’s something I can do as a proud Democrat and know where my line in the sand is." Referring to skepticism some people have due to his youth, Andrew pointed out that Oklahoma has a long history of younger candidates who have been elected, including Don Nickles, who was younger than Andrew when he was elected to the U. S. Senate in 1980. "The experience that we talk about with politics, there’s a lot of that experience I don’t want. Being beholden to special interests, getting stuck in your ways, being a career politician, being inflexible and not able to see things from another viewpoint, that’s the experience that has taken us down the wrong road in his country. " The incumbent, James Inhofe, was first elected to the U.S. Senate seat in 1994 with a special election when David Boren left the office to take the presidency of Oklahoma University He was re-elected to a full term in 1996 and again in 2002. He has become well known for extreme rightwing positions, including opposition to gay rights, total support our military involvement in Iraq, opposition to any minimum wage increase or support for organized labor, and calling global warming "a hoax." Andrew closed by pointing out that he wants to give Oklahomans an option if they want a change. the STAR 5 Democrats Need Negative Resuks in traq. Dear Editor: The national Democratic Congressional leadership believes failure by our troops in Iraq the central front in the War on Terror is essential for them to win elections in 2008, and that any positive sign of progress in Iraq is simply a "problem" for them. Democrat Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, driven by polls and politics, declared "This war is lost," even before the President’s new strategy began. Reid also has bragged, "We’re going to pick up Senate seats as a result of this war." And Democrat House Majority Whip James Ctyburn said that a positive report in September from General Petraeus and Ambassador to Iraq Ryan Crocker would be "a real big problem for us (Democrats)." Meaning the Democrats’ desire for an arbitrary troop withdrawal and their party’s 2008 electoral fortunes would be in jeopardy if our troops succeed. Is it aW wonder that the new Democratic controlled Congress has far lower approval ratings than the President? Let’s not forget that there are thousands of gay and lesbian troops fighting the M Queda terrorists in Iraq; courageously risking their lives against a violent worldwide ideology that has no regard for the lives of gay people in the Middle East or any where else in the world. These gay and lesbian soldiers from our community are true American heroes and deserve our unwavering patriotic respect. America’s national security should not be kicked around like a political football by the Far Left in Gay America. Many gays believe winning the War on Terror is vital to our country’s national security. It is unconscionable that Democrat leaders, and many gay activists, are hoping for our troops to fail so their part,i can gain a political advantage. And it is unacceptable that the leading Democrat presidential contenders, Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama, both claim to support our troops yet voted against providing them with the resources to sustain their mission and keep them safe. Respectfully submitted, Matthew Veritas Tsien Former Air Force Executive Officer Low-maintenance bait for entrapment ? Dear Readers, Not being one who has ever solicited anonymous, or even well-known, sexual liaisons in public settings, I wasn’t aware of the Larry Craig foot-tapping dance which seems so imitative of certain insects that tap on leaves and stems to communicate either territorial limits or a need for mating. Thanks to Senator Craig America has received a birds-and-bees nature lore lesson hitherto known only to a relatively few wildlife specialists. But I do know there is a wafting of sexual pheromones in public par~ after dark at certain locations in Oklahoma City (OKC), Will Rogers Park being one of them. I recently attended a neighborhood political event at Will Rogers Park that, after I had helped pack up the event, found me walking back to my car after dark at 8:30pm. I had parked at the botanical greenhouse thinking the event I was attending was located in that area. ............................Continued page 15 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com wY~w.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Re~gnized by Keller Williams For outstanding ad~levernent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 OCTOBER 11, 1987 Gay and Lesbian March on Washington and~ ur~ting of ~he AIOS Quilt on the Na~al MS]I OCTOBER 11, 2007 National Comir~ Out Day 405.840.2106 MLS. Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTISING today. (918)835-7887 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com AFTER 25 YEARS THE ANGLES OKC TORCH IS PASSED ON OK]~AHOMA CITY, OK When A~gles opened in Augast of 1982 it was a great beginning that made its mark in history, ql~e club had an tmustml beginning when Scott Wdion applied for a gquor license for what was presented to be "Cotton- Eyed Joe’s,~ a country dmaee b~r. When they opened as a gay disco named Angles, problems quickly began.. The club and thei~ customers were subjected to a vigorous campaign of police harassment, with officers frequendy raiding the club, citing them for bogus violations, along with ~rresring customers ~md sometimes beating them as well Angles fought baclq keeping track of the incidents, including badge & tag numbers as well as the police officers havolved, ~ad threatened to sue the city. A deal was forged with the city where Angles was awarded one dollar in damages plus some of the legal ll~s, and the City agreed to cease harassing the dub and their customers. The story made national news, and also w~s the major story of the first issue of the Gayly Oldahom~ a in October of 1983. It £so proved to be a major turning point, with club ovmers of the ~ea having a good relationship with the police, and the overall climate changhag. Other gay bars followed as well as other buxinesses catering to the GLBT commuuiry, with many people remembering this courageous stand that was a major factor making it possible. Throughout the 80’S and 90’s Angles became a showcase & the In place to be, replacing the Free Spirit as OKC’S premier gay d~nce spot. Disco divas from that time remember world class DJ’S including the late Michael Tchekerades (fondly knovm as Checkers). Angles hosted major entertainers including Boy George, the Wcathergirls ("It’s Rainhag Men), Dead or Alive, Jermifer Holhday,Divine, Paul Lekakis, Gloria Gaynor, Viola Wigs & celebrated their 19th anniversarg with Bonnie Pointer.lt was a memorable occasion when comedienne Joan Rivers enjoyed a portrayal ofhersehc performed by the late Amii Dyshea. Their Turnabout Shows (where their employees got in deag) benefited AIDS charities aad becanae honored traditions for our community Much of our local talent was bolstered as well, including diva~ including Ghager hamar, Raahad Erikks, and the dynamic duo of Parr] & Tuna Melt (Tuna better known internarionaBy as cBef Ruby Ann Boxcar with patty her sister Donna Sue). Countless pageants were held there, with most of the past Miss Gay Oklahoma’s crowned there. The club also garnered respect from the straight community as well, gaining so much of their patronage that Angles was voted OKC’S Best Dance Club ha the Oklahoma Gazette several times, as well as the Best Gay Bar many times as well. ...............Cont~ued page 27 Love of Last Resort www,ozarksstancom the STAR 9 LINDSAY PAIGE TAKES THE CROWN By Victor Gorin Photo ~ Victor Gorin, Left Melody Michaels, Right Lindsay Paige OKLAHOMA C!’YY, OK __ The iudges had the work cut out for them they }udged the wildly talented contestants at the Copa August 22-23, but Lindsay Paige survived the comperifion of some of Oklahoma most talented divas to capture the title of Miss Gay Oklahoma for 2007. Having won the distinction of I st alternate last year, her reaction upon hearhag her name as the winner clearly was ruth of heaven. The first alternate was Melody Michaels, a performer well known in Oklahoma City for her shows with Kitty Bob ALines and Ginger Lamar at the Boom. Tncy wl]l go to Memphis to compete for the crown of Miss Gay Ainerica October 17-21. Willa Johnson Wins Oklahoma Count Commissioner District One. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK With the conclusion of die special crat Willa Johnson, ~von handily wirh 54% of the vote over arch Ms.Johnson has served on the Oklahoma City Councg for Ward 7 since 1993. In her position she acted cnnsistendy in support of issues concerning the GLBT comnmdity, voting in support of an ordinate prohibiting discrimination based on sexual orientation, opposed banning the GLBT banners during Gay Pride Month, and she opposed die abolition of the Oklahoma City Human Rights Commission. She has become well k~own for her outspoken opposition to discrimination. 10 the STAR Oklahomans for Equality opens "Out ofthe Closet: A T-Shirt Retrospective" at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center gallery TULSA, OK (PR)__ Toe Dennis IL Negl Equahty Center art gallery will host its monthly meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pro, qTaursday, October 4, 2007, for the opening of its October exhibit, "Out of the Closet". qqae show will be a retrospective of LGBT diemed T-Shins, a private collection of former gifx-shop owner Tom Neal, The displayed shirts, both regional aa~d international, wig offer a gfo~apse L~to the history of the gay rights movement as seen through T-Shirt design. The opening reception wg! be catered by donation from Brother’s Pizza Depot. q~e exhibit will remain up through die month of October, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis K Neig Equality Center is located ar 62I E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa, More info can be found of die web at okeq.org. Tlxls monthly event is hosted by Oklahoman’s for Equality (OkEq). OkEq seeks equal rights for Lesbian= Gay, Bisexual & Transg~nder (LGBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, agiances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neifi Equality 2007 Miss America Lauren Nelson Headlines AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City OKLAHOMA CI~ (PR) __ Oklahoma’s own Lauren Nelson, who is the reigning 2007 Miss America, wi~ serve as the Grand Marshag of the upcoming MDS xYSalk of Oklahoma City. The Walk will take place o~ StmdaB September 30 at the Myriad Bormaical Gardens. Registration and festivities begin at 12:30pmfoliowed by a 2:00pm step off. There is no fee to walk in this important community event, which builds awareness and f~nds each year for die treatment and prevention of HIV/AIDS i~ the greater Oklahoma City area. Southwes~ Ah-lines has generously donated two roundtrip aidine tickets to any Southwest Airlines desrSnation in the Continental U.S. to be raffled offat the Walk. Ra~e tickets are only $1 each and may be purchased either at the AIDS Walk on September 30, or by contacting Lfoda Larason at 405/570-4835. One need not be Form your Walk team now and bring your donations to the 2007 MDS Walk of Oklahoma City. Visit www.aidswalkokc, org for more information. Photo by Leda Dowlearn .s DesCend By Leda Dowlearn worth watching. The Girls’ -warm up band, 3FiveHuman out ofAtlanta, was a good rocking start. By the time they were finished the expectant energy of the crowd was at a ftenzy. Then the roar, suddenly the Gifts were there before us, guitars in motion, singing "Pendulum Swinger" (sure hope Hilary Clinton does adopt this as her theme song but she’d probably be too afraid to swing this far left). After that, it was song after song after song with hardly a break in between except to change guitars and grab a mandolin, banjo or harmonica. One thing I realized early on was that the Girls were not into stage presence. We heard a little banter about getting lost in Tulsa, enjoying the old YMCA, and their bassett hound on the bus but that was about it. Perhaps in a nod to location Amy Ray had on a western cowgirl shirt. But overall, the Girls were there to do their songs. TULSA, OK __ On September 13th the Indigo Girls, icons of the feminist folk./rock music scene, descended on Cain’s Ballroom in Tulsa to the full-house, floor-stomping adoration of a mostly lesbian crowd. The day the Girls came to my part of the universe I was in a closet (not my usual place) replacing a water heater thinking about the amazing fact that I had tickets to finally, that day, see these two demi-goddesses in the flesh after slavishly worshiping their musical personas for the past twenty years. In between hot and cold water pipes I was fantasizing about all the questions I’d love to ask them say should we run into each other in the bathroom or something Next step: I called Cain’s Ballroom and invoked the power of the media to get someone’s attention and, bless their hearts, an hour later I was talking with the Girls’ publicity" agent who said she’d see what she could do to set something up after sound check. That was enough for me. \VC’ater heater be damned, my partner and I hightailed it out of Northwest Arkansas headed for Tulsa town four hours early. Well, the bubble burst shortly after we hit the outskirts ofTulsa when their publicity agent had to tell me it was a no go on the interview. I was a little too late with my request and the Girls turned me down. That was okay, though, I still had my camera, two tickets and the evening was before us. This was my first visit to Cain’s Ballroom but I was up on their history after a review of their website. The feel of the place was cool, the line at the bar was friendly and the gathering crowd was well Okay, that was the Nirvana part and maybe I should stop there. It was more than enough. But in retrospect, that time of second thoughts that comes to you over coffee at Denny’s after your ears have stopped ringing, this die hard fan has some things to say that may or may not be more than I should be asking of the Girls, but here it goes anyway. Yeah, I got some great pictures and I heard some great songs. But they were all delivered to me in one big load of too much sound and too much rock without letting the songs that really needed to roll just roll. Can you Girls not trust that your audience is sophisticated enough to hear you on many levels? After all, yours is a mostly lesbian crowd. Emotional roller coasters are no problem for us. You can take us up and down so relax a little with that. Amy, yeah, you’re a rocker and you’re a star. No question in my mind that many of your songs are destined to be classics. You’re my Dylan, you’re my Springsteen. Rock on but know we love your slow songs, too, and I really, really wanted to hear "Three County Highway," "Nueva Senorita," or "Moment of Forgiveness." Emily, you’re brilliant with your lyrics and your melodies but you look like you don’t want to be in the circus anymore. You’re Baez, you’re Mitchell in your roots. But is it possible for Mitchell and Springsteen to share the same stage without each doing serious damage to the other’s genre and landing musically somewhere in the "upper echelons of mediocrity" as you have said yourself in "You and Me of the !0,000 Wars." Amy is ready and willing to jump into the chaos of rock and her songs have the energy and intensity it demands. She proved this brilliantly in her show stopper versions of "Rock And Roll Heaven’s ...............Continued page 23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 31 iCONS SELECTED FOR GLBT HISTORYMONTH 2007 Alexander the Great, BillieJean King, Leonardo da ~nci, Bessie Smith, Cary Grant among Icons PHILADELPHIA, PA __ Equality Forum, an international gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) civil rights organization, announced 31 Icons to be featured during GLBT History Month in October. ~he 31 Icons achieved success within their respective fields of endeavor, were national heroes or advanced GLBT civil rights. "The GLBT community has been uniquely disadvantaged by not being taught its history at home, in public schools or in religious institutions," said Malcolm Lazin, Executive Director of Equality Forum. "GLBT History Month helps teach our unacknowledged history, provides role models and celebrates contributions made by GLBT individuals to our country and internationally." The Icon videos are available for free for the Web sites of nonprofit organizations, educational institutions and corporate entities, through the inclusion ofHTML code provided at wwv.glbtHistoryMonth. com. The Icon video is automatically updated each day. A free graphically-designed downloadable biography, bibliography and other educational resources for each Icon are available at www. glbtHistoryMonth.com. The 31 Icons from 2006 can also be found on the Web site. Equality Forum solicited nominations from leaders of national and international GLBT organizations. Nominees were evaluated by GLBT History Month Co-Chairs Rev. Nancy Wilson, Moderator of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches, and Prof. Kenji Yoshino, Deputy Dean for Intellectual Life at Yale Law School. Equality Forum’s Board of Directors approved the final slate of 31 Icons. 12 the STAR Equality Forum produced 30-second biographical videos on each Icon, which will be broadcast daily on here! and Logo television networks throughout October, and will be streamed on major GLBT Web sites. Comcast will air a 30-second television PSA. Equality Forum launched GLBT History Month in 2006, and is patterned after Black and Vgomen’s History Months. tn its initial year, GLBT History Month reached over 500,000 individuals. GLBT History Month 2007 Icons: October 1: Leonard Bernstein (Composer) October 2: Annie Leibovitz (Photographer) October 3: Angela Davis (Civil Rights Activist) October 4: Alexander the Great (Military Commander) October 5: Billie Jean King (Athlete) October 6: Pedro Almodovar (Writer/Director) October 7: Bessie Smith (Singer) October 8: Klaus Wowereit (Politician) October 9: Susan Sontag (Author/ Commentator) October 10: Gore Vidal (Author) October 11: Lily Tomlin (Actor) October 12: Peter Gomes (Theologian) October 13: Mary Edwards Walker (Surgeon) October 14: Frederick II (Monarch) October 15: Virginia Uribe (Educator) October t 6: Frank Kameny (Gay Pioneer) October 17: Nancy Mahon (Philanthropy Advocate) October 18: David Hockney (Painter) October 19: Audre Lorde (Author) October 20: Cary Grant (Actor) October 21: Rende Richards (Transgender Pioneer) October 22: Sherry Harris (Politician) October 23: John Maynard Keynes (Economist) October 24: Gertrude Stein (Author) October 25: Pioneer) October 26: tist) October 27: October 28: October 29: October 30: October 31: Zhou Dan (Chinese Gay Carolyn Bertozzi (Scien- Cole Porter (Songwriter) John McNeill (Theologian) Florence Nightingale (Health Care Advocate) Billy Sipple (Hero) Leonardo da Vinci (Artist/Inventor/Scientist) ABOUT EQUALITY FORUM Equality Forum is a national and international nonprofit, 501 (c)(3) GLBT civil rights organization with an educational focus. Equality Forum develops high-impact educational content in the form of documentary films, history projects, innovative initiatives and the largest annual national and international GLBT civil rights forum. www.equalityforum.com www.ozarksstar.com vw,’w.ozarksstar.com Playwright!ActorJerry Rabus a Back OKC with "Love OfLast Resoi-t If you’re a gay guy trapped for three years done on an abandoned and deserted sex resort, what could be better than having the man of your dreams wash up ashore? It’s a love story "waiting to happen.., or... is it? That’s the whole premise of "Love of Last Resort." Josh, played by author Jerry Rabushka, has been living alone on an uncharted South Pacific isle for quite some time. No electricity, no running water, no man for company. How does he do it? Easy! He consults back issues of Martha Stewart Living, follows the instructions, and can make anything he needs, usually in three easy steps. If you’re lost and alone, this is a very very good thing! Along with that, he changes personality on a regular basis. "It hurts to admit your entire persona has to be thrown out," he says. "But it’s all very ’Martha.’ You just make it out of what you got." Matt (played by Scott Mueller) couldn’t be any more opposite. An escapee from an "all gay cruise," he winds up beached on Josh’s island, pining after a man back from home, rebuffing Josh every step of the way. ’Of course you love me," he’ll say. "I’m the only choice you have." You can do some really cool stuffwhen you’re alone on an island. You can be whoever you want to be. You can see your island as a prison or an opportunity. Josh uses the island to escape; Matt isn’t sure he wants to escape, and he isn’t sure he can love Josh until he finds out who the "real Josh" is. "Matt’s a perfect foil to Josh," says Scott Mueller. "He wants to love, he wants m be in love, but he’s afraid to give up anything to do it. And like a lot of people, he tends to punish the man in front ofhim for the sins of the one who came before." As time goes by, though, Matt becomes more intrigued by Martha’s ingenuity and Josh’s world of fake TV shows. Come "watch" their interview with Gloria, a porn star with a very descriptive last name, a gaymarriage soap opera, and of course a bit of fun with a pair of handcuffs. Love OfLast Resort premiered in West Hollywood, CA, and has since played in St. Louis and Springfield, MO, with a production at Tulsa’s Nightingale Theater in January 2006. For this production, Rabushka has re-written the play with a more comedic outlook and added several cool new songs. "I always like coming to OKC," he says. "We keep coming back because we have a lot of support here and enthusiastic responses, plus the folks at the IAO Gallery are great!" Rabushka, with his company Ragged Blade, of St. Louis, MO, has previously been to the IAO with Somebody Else’s Life, Woofl. The Road Show, and Gay Christian, Gay Muslim, Gay Jew, which starred nationally known gay solo artist Jade Esteban Estrada. Love OfLast Resort book & music by Jerry Rabushka starring Jerry Rabushka & Scott Nicholas Mueller October 12 & 13 at 8 PM IAO Gallery www.iaogallery.org 811 North Broadway, Oklahoma City Tickets: $!0; $5 students & seniors for show info/reservations please call 314- 280-1035, for directions or other local info please call IAO at 405-232-6060 for more information please visit www. raggedbtade.com AIDS WALK TULSA Continued has supported a team ever since the beginning of the National AIDS fund/Americorp program. According to the Janice Nicktas, the team’s coordinator, the fimdraising goal for this year’s event is $25,000. Nicklas says the event is open to anybody who wishes to participate and says that no level of support, financial or in spirit is too small. In fact, the organizer says that there are volunteer portunities for those wishing to be a part of the event, but unable to make the trek. To register or for more information visit www.aidswalktulsa.org. Credit cards and cash donations are accepted. the STAR 13 September 1967 (40 yearn ago l st month): The Mirth renamed it Advocate in 1969, and h became the first American gay news Advocate publishes its first issue, publication with a nationwide distribution, off the sex ads into a separate pubfication. In 1996, the magazine hired its first female editor in chief, Judy Wieder, What is the history of qhe Advocate? T he Advocate - the oldest continuously published U.S. gay periodical still in exfistence - has chronicled the history and culture of the LGBT commtmity for 40 yews. Udce many of the eadiest Ametic~n gay organizations, qqae Advocate_ was born in Los Angeles. It began as the newsletter of Person£ Rights in Defense’and Education (PRIDE), a gay liberation group formed after police raided the local Black Ca~ bar. In the summer of 1967, Richard Mit~h (alia Dick Michaels) - a writer for a chemical industry journal - his lover Bill Rau (aka Bill Rand), and Sam Winston hatched a plan to turn the newilerter into a gay newspaper. Dubbed the Los Angeles Advocate. it debuted in September with a print run of 500 copies, produced at night in a print shop in the basement ofABC Studios, where Rau worked. By 1968, internal dissension led to the dissolution of PRIDE, ~nd Mitch ~rr~rged to purchase the newspaper for $1. Initially, the publication focused on local news, covering police nfisconduct mad gay liberation demonstrations. But it also added pieces on Hoflywood celebrities a~ad columns such as "Body Buddy" (fitness) and "Cooking with Atmtie LOu." Short on leshi~a content, the paper often featured scantily dad men on its covers and included a popular personal-ad section called "Trader Dizk?’ Mirth preferred to feature de,n-cut activists like the Rev. Troy Perry of the Metropolitan Cor~mauniry Church, rather than fiippie radicals llke Morris Kight, a co-founder of the Los Angeles Gay Liberation Front. In a bid to make the paper more professional, Mirth hired Rob Cole, formerly of the Dallas Times Herald, as news editor. As gay men and lesbians around the country began to look tu the paper for information, 14 ~eSTAR In 1974, Mitch sold "Die Advocate ~ millionaire investment banker David Goodstein for $350,000. After taking over, Goodstein - a se[f-descrlbed "practicing capitalist" who hated street protests and had frequent rtm ins with movement activists - fired most of the staff and writers, considering them too le ft-~ving. According to one columnist, Goodstein said he wanted the paper to appeal to "the upwardly mobile homosexual who has a home in the hills, drives a luxury car, and orders alcohol by brand." Within a year, Goodstein moved _q~e Advocate_ to the San Francisco suburb of San Maleo and liired journalist John Preston as editor. He adopted a magazine format and "desle~zified" the publication by moving the sexually explicit personal ads to the back, and eventuafly into a pull-out section. by Robert McQueen, formerly of the Salt Lake Tribune. Scandalized by McQue~’s officials came to The Advocate haadqu~rters beefed up the paper’s cultttral coverage from and Pat Califia’s ’%dvocate Adviser" column. in 1984, Goodstein moved _The Advocate_ back to Southern California. Shortly before he died of cancer the following year, he sold it to Orange County businessman Niles Merton. After McQueens resignat’on, he magazine went through a series of thorttenured editors and struggled to stay afloat. In i990, under new ethtor Richard Rouilard, the magazine added "lesbian" to the masthead. Yet even as he oversaw a remm to advocacy iournalism, Rouilard favored splashy covers featuring attractive straight male stars and divas such as Madonn~ gay community was flush with disposable cash, The Advocate’s advertising revenues rose, rescuing it from the brink of foaancial insolvenc)~ ha 1992, with a new editor and publisher, the magazine underwent another redesign, this time spinning In 2000, The Advocate’s p~ent company, Liberation Publications Inc. (LPI) - which had previously acquired book publisher Alyson Publications - purchased rival gay magazine Out, as well as HIV Plus. LH and gay Web compmay PlanetOut announced plans to merge, prompting critics to warn of an impending LGBT media monopo!~ That merger was called off, but in 2005 Planet- Out purchased LH for $31 million. Even as PkinetOut faced a financial crisis in early 2007, The Advocate continued to gain new subscribers. To celebrate its 40th anniversary, it came out of the closet, doing away with the "privacy wrap" that had previously shrouded the magazine. "The Advocate’s decision might seem like a trivial matter... but it stands for something far greater: the increasing acceptance and visibility of gay people in public fife,~ wrote gay journalist James Kirchick, As a key public voice of the gay communi~ Toe Advocate has been a frequent tzrget of criticism over the years. Many decried its thi~ away ~om militant politics and its increasing emphasis on entertainment and lifestyle content, while others thought the magazine was too commercial and catered to affluent white gay men. Yet 40 yeats after its founding, The Advocate remains the "periodical of record" that mainstream journalists, politicians, and business leaders ram to for informarion about the LGBT community. For further reading: Faderman, Li[fi~a, ~nd Stunt Timmons. 2006. Gay L-A. (Basic Books). Straitmatter, Rodgar. 1995. Unspeakable: The Rise of the Gay and Lesbian Press in America (Faber & Failer). Thompson, Mark (editor). 1994. _Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate History of the Gay and Lesbian Movement_ (St. Martin’s Press). Letters cor~tirmed from pg 6 After finding the event I realized I should have parked by the amphitheater instead. I didn’t want to walk back and move my car after finally finding the event as I felt no qualms about walking in the dark after the event was finished. The picnic pavilions had security lights that came on as darkness set in and there were utility poles with lights that came on around the amphitheater, but as t walked back towards the greenhouse parking lot down by the arboretum I noticed that the street lights, even though there are many of them and they couldn’t ALL be malfunctioning, were turned off--all of them. achieve the ful! recognition of our citizenship, then like most straights who are observed in public sexual congress, we’ll be given a warning and told to move on without the victimization that comes from Puritan policymakers. I thank GOPer Senator Craig, a 62-year old man from Idaho, responsible for running several successful election campaigns, for showing the USA what responsibility he can be trusted with. If one is old enough for sexual activity, one should have the responsibility to do it in private. James Nimmo CHAEL SAGE TURNS TO TULSA’S BAMBOO LOUNGE° It occurred to me that these lights were turned off intentionally to encourage the lewd sort of behavior that results in brownie-point arrests for the police department, fines for the city’s coffers, and humiliation and other negative social effects for those arrested such as job or housing loss, and registering as a sex offender on publicly available websites. Is the darkness a passive policy of enticement purposely engineered by OKC city government? Is the darkness being used as a low-maintenance bait for entrapment? If the city was really interested in reducing lewd behavior in public parks wouldn’t the lights be on throughout the night? Xghy weren’t al! those sensors operational? If street lights can come on automatically in residential neighborhoods to promote safety shouldn’t they also be effective in public areas where unwelcome behavior is tmown to occur? Shouldn’t those lights be turned on not only to discourage alleged lewd behavior, but also to lessen the threat of vandalism? There were about three or four cars within a stone’s throw of mine and as I was loading my trunk another car pulled in and an individual got out and walked away from the parking lot. I could see another person sitting in a car outlined by the flashing burglar alarm light on the dashboard, as if the occupant were a summer lightening bug signaling for a mate. I’m no fan of toilet trollers or lover’s lane Lotharios of either orientation. As a repressed minority in the USA and a target of brimstone-eating Bible bangers we gay people need to do better. When we TMsa’s OkEq Library Catalog now online! TULSA, OK( OkEq E-news) ~The Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library catalog can now be accessed online! Visit www.librarything. com/profile/OkEq to browse our collection, search by keyword, read reviews on Amazon, and more! About the library: Thousands ofLGBT tides and exquisite glass art line the walls of the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Open during Equality Center hours (Monday through Saturday, 3pro to 9pro), the library has titles available for leisure reading, research, discussion groups, and as a resource for local students when writing on LGBT issues. Books are available for free check-out for the community. A mainstay of the Equality Center since its founding in t996, the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library was named in their honor in the Spring of 1999. Nancy is Past National President of Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), President of PFLAG Tulsa, has testified before the US Congress on GLBT issues and was the inaugural recipient of the OkEq Lifetime Achievement Award. Photo by: Kevin Abosch TULSA, OK __ Direct fi’om New York Rachael Sage will return to the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa for an exclusive concert on November 10th, 9 pm. Ms. Sage made her first appearance at the Bamboo in 2005. East Village songstress, poet and multi-media maven Rachael Sage has been making gutsy pop music in one form or another since she was three years old. Her latest offering of "lovely and literate folk-pop-rock" (The Village Voice), THE BLISTERING SUN, is devoted to the topics of vision, clarit}; and facing life head on. A self-taught pianist who honed her skills listening to her parents’ doo-wop, Broadway and Beatles album collections, Rachael debuted her first original material for a captive audience of kindergarten students one fateful afternoon before their ballet teacher arrived and broke up the party. "When I started," she says, " t was writing a lot of music that sounded like Elton John - if he’d been a nice Jewish girl from a long line of Russian cantors." By junior high school, Sage’s dancing abilities had landed her a spot at the prestigious School ofAmerican Ballet; but it was really the music she was hearing in and out of class that intrigued her the most. W~.ozarksstar.COm the STAR 15 CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER ICE CREAM PiE as we~ as bars. photo op. ~]~a~ goodness we get a |or of space on our digital ~mera disc! Colorado which was the MO~ °’Homophobic." State in the Union until very recently does not have a lot of gay accommodations but he~ is a list of fine most impotent ones arotmd the State. ElyrIas \g~stern Guest House at t655 E. 47th Avenue in Denver, v,xvw.irmtravels.com/ usatco/rdewgh.html Mountain Sage Lnn, 553 ~: Etl-&orn Ave., Estes Park, -,~w~,~v.mountainsageinn. coral Platte River Cabins, 16525 Pine Valley Rd., CoIfax Ave, Denver is a city ofwondedht restaurants all over the dr): Like Chicago, Denver has so many to choose from i~ all ~-pes ofmenus. Denver has lots of little communities within the city. The arts and museums are great as well as the shopping ~e other main city in the state is Colorado Springs which just has two bars,, Club Qat 3430 No, Academr Blvd. and the Underground at t !0 No. Ne;~ada,~ Ave, For a city tl{at so many religious nu s and conservatives it is a wonder that there are ant gay bars there at all. But Colorado Springs has a great Pride Fest every )mar a~ their downtown Ciw Park. 18 the STAR ww~.ozarksstar.com TRAV S day, October 14, 2007 Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and ties on North Denver and North Cheyenne ~venues. The tour wilt start at !2 under twelve. Ti&ets will be available until 4pro the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm! Advance tict~ets are ava[ilable at www.bradyheigrhts,org. ProCeeds will benefit community projects the Brady Heig~hts Neighborhood Association. patio bar, From crab ca~es, Me:dcan E~ Rolls, Quesadilla, Barbecue Pvibbies or Sout}xwestern Steak Salad you wilt find a fttl menu. ~lhey have been in business over 25 years. Check out their website at: the STAR t9 The Cowgirl restaurant is a papular andgay-fi’iendly spotfor barbecue, burgers, beer, and blues. (Photo by Andrew Cdlins) Fe, New Mexico Santa Fe sits at 7,000 feet above sea level, dinging to the lower slopes of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains and offering an enchanting blend of Rocky Mountain and high desert living. ~12ais scenic city is politically progressive, abundant with museums and galleries, renowned for its distinctive adobe architecture, overflowing with sophisticated inns and restaurants, and ideal for outdoors enthusiasts. You won’t find much in the way of gay nightlife, but if you’re planning a romantic vacation with your significant other, Santa Fe may just have everything else you’re seeking. Even better, if you’re starting to think about retirement options, northern New Mexico’s "City Different" may be worth scouting out as a potential future home. In November 2005, RainbowVision Properties opened a GLBT retirement community on the south side of town, billing itself the first such full-scale endeavor of its kind (the company has plans for additional communities in Palm Springs, the San Francisco suburbs, and Vancouver). ~he 13-acre compound geared toward the 50-and-over set is worth checking out even if you’re not thinking of buying here - it’s home to the Silver Starlight Lounge and Cabaret, which is open to the public and is Santa Fe’s only gay nightlife option. It’s actually quite popular with folks of all ages, especially for early evening cocktails. 20 the STAR One of the region’s greatest lures is the fantastic, sunny weather - Santa Fe and north-central New Mexico enjoy beautiful weather year-round. Summer tends to be the busiest time for a Santa Fe visit - this is opera season as well as a time when many prominent festivals and art markets take place. But a fall or winter visit yields fewer crowds, cool and crisp temperatures, and still plenty to see and do - plus rates tend to be lower at hotels, which are among the priciest in the Southwest. Many of the city’s attractions are right in the center of town. Here you can take a walk around the Plaza; check out the numerous shops and cafes; admire the city’s adobe-dad Pueblo Revival, Spanish Colonial, and Victorian buildings; or stop by the circa-1610 Palace of the Governors, a state history museum set inside the nation’s oldest public building. There are several museums nearby, dealing mostly with art (such as the Georgia O’Keeffe Museum, which has a terrific restaurant). If you’re a die-hard museum explorer, make the short drive (or bus ride) up the Old Santa Fe Trail to Museum Hill, a complex of outstanding cultural attractions, the highlight being the Museum of International Folk Art. The newer Museum of Spanish Colonial Art is another top draw. If you’d rather spend most of your time outside, saunter up Canyon Road, a narrow, winding lane of historic adobe bungalows containing some of the most prestigious art galleries in the Southwest. There’s spectacular hiking all around Santa Fe, but if you have time for just one ramble, head to Kasha-Katuwe Tent Rocks National Monument, which is about a 45-minute drive south of town, toward Albuquerque. This 2-mile, moderately steep hike passes through a narrow, dramatic box canyon and then rises up to a lofty promontory affording panoramic views of the mountains and mesas. The monument is named for the bizarre rock formations that rise high out of one end of the canyon and look a bit like sandstone tepees. If you’re visiting between December and April, bring your skis with you, or rent some in town. Ski Santa, which is about 15 miles northeast of downtown, offers 44 trails of rugged, beautifully groomed trails. If you have trouble believing New Mexico offers much in the way ofwinter sports, consider that the ski area receives an average of 240 inches of snox~all annually. This is a first-rate facility, albeit not quite as famous or as demanding as Taos Ski Valley, which is just a two-hour drive north. However you get your exercise, whether hiking, skiing, or strolling among art galleries, you’re sure to work up an appetite in these parts, especially given the city’s high altitude, which can tax your system if you’re not used to it. Fortunately, this is a city with no shortage of terrific restaurants. Serving some of the most authentic New Mexican fare in town, the Shed is an excellent choice. The setting inside a 1692 adobe is ideal for sampling such local favorites as green-chile stew with pork and potatoes, and red-chile enchiladas. Or drop by I1 Vicino, an inexpensive, gay-friendly pizza place serving delicious thin-crust pies topped with gourmet ingredients, microbrewed beers, and a cheerful courtyard. www.ozarksstar.com A favorite spot for brunch is the fabulous Care Pasqual’s, where you might sample buttermilk biscuits with sage-bacon graW, homemade sausage, and poached eggs. More sophisticated and substantial fare appears on the dinner menu - try the organic-chicken mole at dinner. You’ll find a couple of the city’s top restaurants along charming Canyon Road, including such high-end standouts as the Compound and Geronimo, as well as the popular tapas option, E1 Farol. Also specializing in smaller plates, downtown’s La Boca turns out such exemplary fare as Moroccan-grilled shrimp with sweet-pea-basil puree, and seared ahi tuna with Manchego-white-bean hash. If you’ve had your fill ofNew Mexican cuisine, head to the first-rate Kasasoba for exquisite Japanese food. And for casual, affordable, yet creative American chow, don’t miss these two gay favorites, the Cowgirl (great for barbecue, and with a big patio), or Harry’s Roadhouse a short drive south of the city - not terribly far from Silver Starlight Lounge. Harry’s is especially popular for its house-made ¯ desserts and potent margaritas. Santa Fe abounds with appealing accommodations, including a few gay-owned B&Bs and inns. One nice thing about B&Bs in northern New Mexico is that they typically comprise a small compound of casitas (adobe-style cottages) or a cluster of rooms with separate entrances, thereby affording plenty of privacy. Among the longestrunning and most enjoyable such properties is the lesbian-owned Triangle Inn, which comprises nine casitas and lies about 15 miles north of downtown. Units have lovely southwestern furnishings, VCRs, CD stereos, and kitchenettes, and many can sleep four. The Triangle draws mostly gay folks, whereas the other gay-owned B&Bs in Santa Fe cater to a mixed crowd. If you’re looking to stay in the heart of downtown, try E1 Farolito, a collection of airy casitas with fireplaces, striking Mexican and Southwestern furniture, and original art and photography. The Inn of the Turquoise Bear occupies the rambling Spanish-Pueblo Revival estate ofWitter Bynner, a gay poet and socialite of the 1920s and ’30s who threw lavish parties here that drew the likes ofWilla Cather, Errol Flynn, W.H. Auden, and Stephen Spender. It’s a warm and inviting inn surrounded by secret gardens and run by friendly hosts. Among mainstream, luxury accommodations, it’s hard to beat the over-the-top-luxurious Inn of the Five Graces, which is in the heart of the city center and consists of 22 opulently appointed casitas, all done with elaborate Latin American, Middle Eastern, and Asian antiques and decorative arts. Service here is arguably the best in town, and guests can also enjoy lunch at the cozy on-site cafe or dinner at the adjacent Pink Adobe, a famous old Santa Fe restaurant that the Five Graces management bought and refurbished in summer 2007. Another excellent upscale choice, the 57-room Inn of the Anasazi sits steps from the Plaza, its rooms outfitted with kiva fireplaces (common in Santa Fe, they’re shaped a bit like beehive ovens), handwoven fabrics, organic toiletries, and four-poster beds. An ambitious makeover in 2006 has given it a fresh look, and the hotel’s restaurant serves some of the most creative contemporary Southwestern fare in the state. Some additional downtown properties worth checking out include the upscale but well-priced Inn on the Alameda, with bright and airy rooms and a location handy for Canyon Road gallery-hopping; and the mid-priced Inn of the Governors, a rambling hotel two blocks from the Plaza. Many rooms here have wood-burning fireplaces. Whether you’re alone or with your honey, it’s always fun to end a day of hiking or skiing with a soak in one of the outdoor hot tubs at Ten Thousand Waves, a gay-popular Japanese-style spa in the foothills on the east side of town. It’s a memorable spot for star-gazing. For the ultimate away-from-it-all vacation, book an overnight stay in one ofTen Thousand Waves’ smartly appointed luxury casitas, and watch your stresses melt away. ~.ozarksstar.com Charting Our Future? Lesbian Notions, about social networking websitesfor queers. Maybe it’s my age - 50 is just around the corner (oy!). Maybe it’s because I’ve been in a relationship since I was 18 (mind you, that means serial monogamy with four different women). Maybe it’s because I spend a lot of time on the Web at work. Whatever the reason, I’ve not spent too much time on any social networking site - lesbian, gay, or straight. Well, a recent study shows I’m alone! According to a January 2007 Harris Interactive/ Witeck-Combs poll, gays, lesbians, and bisexuals use social networking sites more than straight people do. You can find us at MySpace 33 percent of the time we’re online, and at Facebook or Friendster 11 percent. But these aren’t sites just for us, and, as we all know, we like to go to places just for us, both in real time and in virtual worlds. At least four social networking sites specifically catering to the LGBT community launched this year - Glee, Olivia.com/connect, Socialbutter, and OurChart. Then there are these sites specifically for gay men (the names say it all) - Bigjock, Manjam, and Lovetastic. ~urselves. On OurChart, you can connect yourself via friendships and relationships ~o the wide world encompassing all these people and more." L Word executive producer Ilene Chaiken is OurChart’s CEO, and her partners in the ~enture are Jennifer Beals, who plays Bette, Kate Moennig, who plays Shane, and, not ~urprisingly, Leisha Hailey, who portrays the ~oncept s ong,nator, M~ce. ~Recendy, I had the chance to chat with Lisa ~Parrish, whose blog, "The Hookup," appears ~laily on the site. She explained how it all ~wor-ks. "! love it," said Parrish. "It’s really fun to be part of a community. I do my blog three times a day. The first thing i do after it goes live overnight is...check to see what people are saying.. Now for us dykes who watch The L Word, we know where OurChart.com comes from. In the show’s first season, the engaging, alt-radio DJ and sometimes over-the-top lover ofwhomever she’s with, Mice, started an online chart to track the "relationships" - from one-night stands to the U-Haul on the second dates - of herself and her circle of friends and acquaintances. Over the past four seasons, it has been an on-again/offagain plot line, exploding - or perhaps I should say crashing - in season four, because of the exploits of lesbian sexual predator Poppy. Anyway, some of the girls in front and in back of the camera at The L Word decided to bring the chart into our lives 24/7 by launching OurChart.com, a social networking site just for us. According to a description on the site, "us" includes "lesbians, dykes, queer girls, gay women, high femmes, butches, drag kings, bois, transwomen, and transmen - however we define 22 the STAR You sign up and create your own profile, and then your own chart by adding friends. The chart is, of course, digitally created with your photo at the center, which is then connected visually and virtually with photos of your friends. "I love it," said Parrish. "It’s really fun to be part of a community. I do my blog three times a day. The first thing I do after it goes live overnight is...check to see what people are saying...OurChart is a fun way of giving people a chance to meet each other, mingle, and talk about things they have in common." Parrish told me a heartwarming story about a woman in the States who wrote in to Our- Chart about her grandmother. It seems that Grandma lived in Germany, and the writer had lost touch. She asked if it was possible for anyone in the area to check up on her grandmother’s whereabouts. Someone did. It wasn’t a happy ending - Grandma had died several years before, but at least the woman had some closure. OurChart is also bringing some original Web-based programraing to a computer screen near you. It has recently launched a shiny called Girl Trash, which, according to Parrish, is a "lesbian pulp-fiction-style noir thriller." It is a series of short Web-isodes of an L.A. girl gang careening through the seedier side of the city. Not necessarily my cinematic - albeit on a very small screen - choice, but it is written and directed by veteran L Word and movie director Angela Robinson. She also brought us D.E.B.S. and Herbie: Fully Loaded. Like it or not, Girl Trash shows us what is so great about the Web - the ability to create, be seen and scrutinized, and create again. But getting back to OurChart’s chart, Parrish told me, "One of the key differences about OurChart is that it’s about friends, networking, colleagues...not about people who slept together." Damn! But don’t despair. Parrish explained they’re adding a feature called "Friends+" that can chart anything from a fling to being involved for 10 years to being lifelong partners. "It’s really important to point out that friends won’t be able to be added to "Friends+" without the individual’s permission," said Parrish. "You couldn’t say you slept with Leisha Halley without her permission." Does Mice ask permission? www.ozarksstar.com INDIGO GIRLS Continued Gate" and "Tether." Amy, when you’re playing solo with a tight back up band (3Five- Human came back out and did a great job rocking with the Girls) let it rip. But Amy, from one southern girl to another, hold off: on the tabasco when Emily is with you and pass that Girl a little honey. Okay, while I am at it, here’s another request: please use your position up there on stage to tell us something of your take on reality and world events. I know we can get on your website (wv~w.indigogirls.com) and read your notes and watch your podcasts and that is great. Few performers have as much interaction as that with their fans. But the live stage is a powerful medium in and of itself for communication and transforming the world. Now back to my original pondering. Do I demand too much of two brilliant musicians who seem to be conveying to their audience that they just want to sing their songs and play their music with no intellectual interaction with their audience or each other about any of it? I don’t know. I wanted to hear from them outside their lyrics, brilliant as they are. I wanted to hear the big picture of what is going on in the world as they see it. I mean, I can hardly afford to get off the farm once a year. I need to hear from someone who sees it all. What is their take on it all? \gho do they endorse for 2008? What do they want from us? What is the revolution of the next 10 years? Should transgendered women be allowed in at Michigan? Do their songs ever end up meaning more to them than they meant to say in the first place? Are they ever confused by their own lyrics? Is the Goddess channeling through them? Have we truly already been saved Emily? And finally, maybe every lesbian in Georgia knows the answer to this one but I am in the dark: were you two ever girlfriends? It doesn’t really matter on that last one. I know from their songs that they have a real love for each other and I know from the fact that I have every CD they ever recorded that I love them and that they will have my devotion forever. Sing on, play on, and know you are on your way to rock and roll Heaven and you take us there with you but please, Girls, as long as you’re live on stage and we are live in the audience, open up a little and talk to us about it all. We’re listening. Divas pack the for HOPE By Joey De TULSA, OK __ Nobody likes a diva, but for Tulsa based H.O.RE. testing clinic, there are several Divas that they can’t help but love. For the sixth year, several ofTulsa’s greatest performers, led by Queen Diva Rebecca Ungerman, came together to produce HOPE’s largest annual fundraiser "Divas Live." Held at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center, this year’s event shattered previous records. "In our budget, we have to raise around $80,000 that is not subsidized by grant funds. This year, ’Divas’ will conservatively be around $50,000 of that," says Kate Neary-Pounds, HOPE’s Executive Director (Exact totals for the evening were not available at the time of the interview). "These funds literally go to keep the doors open." Neary- Pounds explains that the event is critical because the organization does not receive funds from groups such as United \ray. "In 2006 the Department of Health had a massive funding cut and programs such as our quick tests and 24 hour STD hotline were in jeopardy. Fortunately, we received a grant from the George Kaiser Family Foundation to keep the hotline open, but the funds from the show go to help pay for everything else," Neary-Pounds explains. Ungerman, who has been involved with the show for several years is ovetwhelmed by the public’s response and embracement of the event. "We have had to turn people away at the door the last two years. It’s great. I remember the first year we did it and we were excited that we raised $1,200 and could buy desks," Ungerman explains. A large contributor to the evening’s success has been the healthy growth of the auctions. "We grossed $25,000 from our auctions. A large part of that is the addition ofJay Litchfield to the formula. We’re very lucky to have him on board." Ungerman says that they are looking at ways to expand the event, but not sure what form it will take. "The PAC has been wonderful to us all these years, but have to look at how we are going to change and grow. We don’t have a clue what those changes are going to look like yet, but this is a year round planning process." If you xvoald like more information about HOPE’s services or to make a contribution, visit their xvebsite at www.hopetesting. org or ca~ 749-TEST. HRC Coming Out Kits NOW-AVAILABLE for National Coming Out Day 2007. Get ready to "Talk About It" on October 11, NCOD! The theme for National Coming Out Day 2007 will be Talk About It, continuing the slogan and branding that the national program has been building since 2005. National Coming Out Day is a time to celebrate openness and honesty whether you came out 20 minutes ago, or 20 years ago this is a time for all Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Straight supportive people to Talk About It with friends, family and coworkers. Coming Out Day Kits include: Resource Guides to Coming Out Straight Guides to GLBT Americans Transgender Coming Out Guides Poster, Balloons and HRC Stickers And everything else you’ll need to celebrate living openly! To order your kit, please visit: www.hrc.org/comingoutkits This year will also mark an important hallmark as National Coming Out Day, falls on the 20th anniversary of the 1987 Gay and Lesbian March on Washington, and the unfurling of the MDS Quilt on the National Mall. The very first National Coming Out Day was celebrated a year to the day later as a way of continuing the spirit of openness, honesty and visibility that the March and the MDS Quilt presentation inspired. www,ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ~here will not be a lot of thinking involved in today’s health and fitness column. I have been advised by my colleague Jebediah to make this an easy and happy "thing" to read. He also wants to help you look forward to your hard exercising routines. Jebedial~ is a first grader at Grover Cleveland Elementary and he came ui~ with the theme for this week’s fitness incentive. Jebby, as he is called by his contemporaries, wants you to grab a pen and paper and write a positive or happy word each time you finish a workout or exercise routine. Keep it in a place you can see every day. He thinks that people will be excited about working out if they know there will be a compilation of fun and happy words they can look at after the hard work. I like the concept and I have been given permission to use it. The Rocky Road Baskin Robbins double scoop cone consulting fee was well worth the advice from Jebby. Here are some of my recent happy thoughts Peter Pan .... HAPPY SMILING GOOD WELL REFR£SHED FANTASTIC YES SUNSHINE AWESOME COOL 26 the STAR WOW EXCELLENT FINE THANKS NICE GLOWING BRILLIANT SUPER SMASHING PRETTY BRIGHT GORGEOUS BEAMING HANDSOME BEAUTIFUL FIT DELICIOUS REJUVENATED GREAT ALIVE JOY PEACEFUL SERENE I am already looking forward to tomorrow’s happy consonant and vowel combination. It is the little things in life that can help us all get by and can help you with your health and fitness regimens. Keep it simple Simon.....or rather Jebby! This bit of health and fitness advice brought to you by the guy who has been kid-tested and mother approved. That guy is Ron Blake and he can be unearthed at www. goblakefitness.com. VERY WELL. 2. LET AND MINUTE. 4. STRMN IN 2 CHILLED MARTINI GLASSES. 5. TOP WITH ATEASPOON OF WHIPPED CREAM AND CINNAMON STICK. 6. CUDDLE UP "WITH SO,LEONE SPECIAL AND EN|OY. HAPPY HALLOWE wwa,.ozarksstar.com ANGLES OKC Continued As times changed and business declined, the club began operating only on weekends, and later opened monthly for special events. After being on the market for several months, the dub was sold to Nick Post, owner of the bars of the Habana Inn ( Copa, Finishline Ledo & Gushers Restaurant). Preceding the sale was a farewell party August 25 followed by a tea dance the next day for partiers who had made Angles what it was, before the club passed into a new destiny. Interview xgrith The New Owner ofAngles, Nick Post. Victor: Well, finally now is it is done deal right? Post: It’s a done deal. We had inspections, licenses, which had all cleared by September 1. Victor: You now own Angles, the building, the business & the name? Post: Yes, and the website too, and the phone number is the same. Victor: What spurred your interest in wanting acquire Angles? Nick: Well two months ago I’d have probably said I didn’t have any interest in acquiring it. It just happened all of the sudden, when a customer had heard Scott (Wilson) was interested in selling Angles and I ought to check into it. I met with him, made a dea!, signed a contact, and the deal closed. Victor: Business had been slow at Angles for a long time before it closed. How do you feel you can avoid the problems they had, to build the business back up? Nick: In the beginning we’re probably only going to be open on Fridays and Saturdays. I want Angles to find its own niche, I’m not looking for Angles to take business from the Copa or the Finishline. I want it so people can walk back and forth, not have to stand in line. Angles will be different than the Copa, but we’re not yet sure what that will be. By the first of the year we hope we’l! know ~vhat niche it should have. Copa will continue to have shows, it’s set up to be a showbar, although Angles may handle large pageants or special events. wvwv.ozarksstar.com Victor: So when wil! Angles have their grand re-opening? Nick: We’re not certain yet, but it will be before Halloween. Victor: You’ve been in the bar business quite a while. When did you first acquire the Copa, along with the Finishline, Ledo and Gushers Restaurant? Nick: It was October of 2007 when I bought them from Lee Burrus. They were already successful, but I think their continued success is largely due to the tremendous staff we have. We have over 40 people working hard here, changing things, bringing in new ideas, keep it different all the time. I think that’s the biggest factor in our success. Victor: Out of sheer curiosity, what did you do before you wound up in the bar business? Nick: I was in real estate from the time I was 19 years old. I started working with Abide, and when Truman Miller sold Abide I went ,vith him into commercial development. I then did mergers and acquisitions with Charles Bazzzarian. When he went to prison I was out of a job, so Lee Burrus offered me one here. Although we thought it would be temporary, I worked for Lee for 6 years. I had never been in the bar business, or ever thought I would be. Victor: That’s quite a change. How did you adapt? That is about as much like an apple and an orange as you can get. Nick: I think it’s easier to go from a conventional job to the bar business than it would be the other xvay around. I started in the office, started managing on Mondays, later on weekends, and it ~vent from there. Victor: Do you anticipate much straight patronage? Nick: Straight people have always been welcome in my bars if they act right. Our goal is to let people know that they are welcome, but in our gays clubs they are on our turfi Victor: How have you handled the many rumors about the change? Nick: Well there have been many, but one rumor we can put to rest is that the purchase ofAngles has nothing to do with my other bars or the Habana Inn. I still have many years left on my lease at the Habana, and the Seikels (Habana’s owners) have no interest in selling the hotel. The only change will be that people can walk back and forth and enjoy both places. I’m truly excited about what we can offer with the Habana and the 39tb Street Strip, and I think Scott and Donny set the standards for the clubs on the Strip, and I’m proud to be there. I also recognize that they helped make possible what we have now, when I actually had a call from a captain of the police department for this area, asking if there had been any trouble from police officers, were they professional cordial, etc. I was glad to be able to tell them that they do act correctly, and they know we run good clubs here. Victor: Well we wish you success in carrying on what the Pmgles has always been, and will mean in the future. Creating Community for People living with HW/A DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. the STAR 27 Even sweetness and light can be excessive. With the Sun and Venus in a long, difficult aspect - and in each other’s signs - overdoing the good stuff comes way too easily and can leave us feeling sunburned and saccharine. ARIES (~,~arch 2(} -Apri~ 19): Does your partner want to take the lead or to follow? Baby does want to play, but may be a pushy bottom. (There’s another kind?) Be very clear about who’s really running the show, especially if it’s not stated. TAURUS (Apri~ 20 - ~aay 20): Be very careful of your diet, especially your sugar intake. If there’s any diabetes in your family, get yourself checked out. Resist the urge to decorate, or look at what’s behind it. Is it a distraction from more figurative "housecleaning"? GEM~Ni (~lay 21 - Jmle 29): Write, paint, compose your heart out. It’s all dreck, even if your friends tell you it’s fabulous. They’re just being nice. Later on, when your critical faculties return, something good could come out of all the fertilizer you’re excreting now. CANCER (June 2t - Ju~y 22): Sure, you want your home to be utterly gorgeous. Risking the rent or mortgage by spending a wad on decoration is a bit counterproductive. Get creative with what you have, or raise money selling off old clutter. LEO (Ju~y 23 - August 22): You could easily be too charming, tempting others to doubt your sincerity. Just be your natural, sweet self. That’s already a lot for many people to handle! Cultivate modesty, and remember: The flower charms the bee without effort. WRGO (August 23 - September 22): Being helpful with your insight and suggestions seems a charming idea to you, but others may find it meddlesome. Ask if you can offer help before you actually do. Better yet, put yourself in their shoes, and invite critical support. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22}: Your political talents are already working overtime for you. It would be much too easy to overplay your hand. Sit back, pay attention, and move lightly. Before you offer anything, let them want it! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your instincts are better than good for making connections with superiors at work or getting on the right side of any authority figure. In fact, you may be a bit overenthusiastic and pushy. Where’s that discreet, subtle Scorpion we love so well? 28 the STAR SAGITTARIUS/November 22 - December 20}: Your friends know how outspoken you are, and how you love to argue - excuse me - "exchange new ideas." Your current enthusiasm will charm some people and scare others off. You may want to be careful about whom you push into either category. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January t9): You are now exuding pure sexuality. Horny, jaded, or anywhere in between, you are radiating sex. At work, that can cause trouble. Do your best to sublimate that energy and/or enjoy it in the appropriate time and place. AQUARIUS (January 29 - February !8}: You want adventure, but not solo. You and your partner want different things, but are too eager to appease each other, and that satisfies nobody. Find a common ground where you can both be a little selfish and have a great time. P~SCES (February 19 - ~aarch 19): You don’t need to show off or work on your erotic expertise - but why pass up the fun? Finding eager partners is not a problem. Limiting yourself to an appropriate partner may be! METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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